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ThrowawaySweden/r/seduction01/09/12 12:56 AM
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ThrowawaySweden/r/seduction09/03/14 02:16 PM
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It is, the main page is swedish and translates to "bipolarity sickness".
/r/seduction18/03/15 08:52 PM
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The website you linked to is a Swedish website and the main page is totally in Swedish. Figured you had to know Swedish to be able to navigate to the pdf! :)
/r/seduction18/03/15 08:51 PM
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You are swedish right?
/r/seduction18/03/15 07:17 PM
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Completely smooth, he means a way that will be smooth 100/100 times.
/r/seduction16/03/15 07:31 PM
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Haha that almost sounds like me. Though I'm not a giant, I am 6'7 and have a pretty crooked face.
/r/seduction16/03/15 07:27 PM
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Look at Tyler's six steps and focus particularly on "don't judge yourself" and take something fun away from every interaction".
/r/seduction15/05/14 02:59 PM
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Yeah, of course! It's just that me and my friends have thought up tens of responses and I've tried them all several times. Just looking for more variation to the most standard line I ever hear. I didn't mean to be rude, if that's how I came across, I understand why you stopped the thread.
/r/seduction10/03/14 11:02 PM
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Noticed. It was a while since I posted here and back then I usually got decent responses. Gotta throw the question to some other forum to ball some ideas I guess. Thanks.
/r/seduction10/03/14 02:25 AM
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Sounds legit, thread's over I guess.
/r/seduction09/03/14 02:31 PM
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This is all about congruency. If you are a nice guy pretending to be an asshole your thoughts words and actions are not aligned and you seem fake. If you are an asshole pretending to be nice it's the same thing. If you don't change who you are at a core level girls will notice.
/r/seduction08/10/13 03:47 PM
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His friend ;P
/r/seduction02/11/12 05:36 PM
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Reasonable enough! I just projected me having a throwaway for this sub on everyone else i guess.
/r/seduction26/09/12 10:46 PM
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I must have missed the drama, what happened?
/r/seduction26/09/12 10:40 PM
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Wow! Really great and fast work!
/r/seduction26/09/12 10:39 PM
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Honest question; Why do you care?
/r/seduction26/09/12 10:29 PM
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Yeah, I thought it might be more visible if it were like on funny.
/r/seduction26/09/12 10:17 PM
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Couldn't you add a red large bold text that says "READ THE SIDEBAR BEFORE POSTING ANYTHING" when you are about to make a new submission?
/r/seduction26/09/12 08:21 PM
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Haha "just grab a baby" is the best tip I've heard this week.
/r/seduction15/09/12 03:36 PM
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I got a 34 year old when I was 19. It wasn't that much different actually, I approached, isolated her, then bounced with her and her friend and my friends to another place and then bounced back to her place. Pretty straight forward.
/r/seduction15/09/12 01:35 PM
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I didn't downvote you though.
/r/seduction15/09/12 01:41 AM
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Boy, that escalated quickly...
/r/seduction15/09/12 12:36 AM
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Haha, because I hate money and almost all monetary favours, so it's highly personal!
/r/seduction14/09/12 09:45 PM
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I actually think most things, no matter how retarded, are good ideas as long as they're fun!
/r/seduction14/09/12 09:19 PM
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Shit test man.. Shit test..
/r/seduction14/09/12 08:27 PM
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I think that joke went over my head! EDIT: I think you meant political neutrality, but Sweden is pretty good at not having any opinions as well! :D
/r/seduction14/09/12 07:49 PM
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I guess that's why I have a fairly neutral username, I would maybe think it was funny the first three times, but after a while it would drive me insane..
/r/seduction14/09/12 07:32 PM
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Which episode is it? I can't watch it here.
/r/seduction14/09/12 07:27 PM
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I wonder how tired he is of it since I got tired of it about a month ago... It's almost as being tall, sure it's pretty cool, but to hear "Wow you're so tall!" 10-15 times every night gets boring quickly.
/r/seduction14/09/12 07:15 PM
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Oh, and one that I myself don't particularly like: Ask her to buy you a drink
/r/seduction14/09/12 07:11 PM
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Hold your hand out to her and see if she grabs it. Ask her to bite your neck.
/r/seduction14/09/12 06:30 PM
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I say "wololo" and hope it works.
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:03 PM
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You've started to embrace the jokes about your username or have you just gone crazy?
/r/seduction07/09/12 08:58 PM
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Yeah, watch Julien's videos if you haven't, he has some sick advice.
/r/seduction07/09/12 03:02 AM
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Haha, I might have exaggerated, but not by much. He has gone out like 7 days a week 11 years straight and always rants on guys who are like "Why don't I see any progress? I've been going out once every week" and have often said stuff like (paraquote) 5 minutes in field are better than two hours watching material, you will never learn without going out several times a week.
/r/seduction07/09/12 02:57 AM
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I think he makes a strong point for outer game when he says in EVERY fucking video that he promotes going out AT LEAST 5 times a week.
/r/seduction07/09/12 02:41 AM
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What do you think this subreddit is about? Awesome looking guys just sticking their dicks out their door and getting some pussy stuck to it?
/r/seduction05/09/12 01:55 PM
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Dude... Read the sidebar material. At the moment you are just self-pitying and you use unsound arguments that don't serve any purpose. I approach women that don't seem interested quite often, and they become interested when I approach them. Not all of them, of course, but many. Do you think most guys walk through their life getting indicators of interest from every girl around them? It doesn't work like that, the action is in YOUR hands, no one else's.
/r/seduction05/09/12 01:51 PM
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You started approaching hundreds of girls? You started analyzing your movement patterns, your voice, your tonality, your eye contact, your confidence, your calibration in interactions and every other aspect of what being attractive means? If you did all that over a loooong time, and got all the real life help you could, then I might agree with you. And still just "might".
/r/seduction05/09/12 01:43 PM
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You have obviously not tried enough. Stop pitying yourself and work for it. It will take HARD work, but it will be worth it.
/r/seduction05/09/12 01:36 PM
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Why don't you just try to change...?
/r/seduction05/09/12 01:27 PM
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Really? Which? You should contact the mods about that!
/r/seduction05/09/12 01:24 PM
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The only acronyms I ever see are FR, HB, IOI, DHV, LTR, FWB and sometimes AA. If you can't even bother to learn 10 acronyms, maybe this stuff will be a bit too hard work for you anyway.
/r/seduction05/09/12 01:04 PM
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The dictionary is over there --->
/r/seduction05/09/12 12:38 PM
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Tyler talks about this video. I'm not an introvert so I don't know if it will help, but it seems like good tips since Tyler has been an introvert himself.
/r/seduction05/09/12 12:19 PM
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Foundations is supposed to be the first one, then Transformations then Blueprint. Foundations is what it sounds like, the foundation. Then Transformation is focused more on how to transform and goes way deeper, and Blueprint is just really advanced stuff.
/r/seduction04/09/12 11:48 PM
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I promise you, that joke is not getting old.
/r/seduction04/09/12 11:36 PM
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I like to fuck hot chicks and want to fuck even more hot chicks.
/r/seduction04/09/12 11:09 PM
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Yeah, since he has experience and posts quality content all the time it seems like a complete waste of his time.
/r/seduction04/09/12 11:08 PM
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I recommend RSD over any of those two. I start to feel like an RSD promoting bot, but, Julien's, Tyler's and the free tour's main channel youtube channels. Let go of your Ex. I would say that the difference between Bars/Clubs/coffee shops/any public venue and parties is that it doesn't feel as weird approaching at closed parties as everyone are supposed to know each other. Otherwise I wouldn't say that a bar or club is harder than a coffee shop. Also, for the transformation part I would reccomen…
/r/seduction04/09/12 10:52 PM
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Someone should make a bot that does this...
/r/seduction04/09/12 10:47 PM
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It's probably the most common shit test there is. There might be a million reasons for this. You might seem needy or not confident, you might dress like shit, you might be really approval seeking and obviously outcome dependant, you might be too direct or too indirect. I can't really tell with the information I have.
/r/seduction04/09/12 08:49 PM
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Outside of my house seems pretty good.
/r/seduction04/09/12 08:07 PM
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That really depends on where you're coming from. If you are a guy who has had great success with women his whole life and is a clear natural, I would imagine that you would have a great success rate. If you are an awkward kid who has never had a girlfriend and you're not very good at talking to women and you're not confident, I would imagine it taking a good number of approaches(15-20 is NOT a good number of approaches IMO) to get the hang of it.
/r/seduction04/09/12 08:04 PM
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Just tell him like it is. Say that you know he is very good with women and that you would like him to help you and explain to him what your main problems are. I am in the same position as your friend with some of my friends and I just think it's awesome to push them! A person who is pleased with himself always enjoys making others better people.
/r/seduction04/09/12 08:00 PM
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Real Social Dynamics is THE thing I watch and learn from. The main channels would be Julien's, Tyler's and the free tour's main channel.
/r/seduction04/09/12 07:55 PM
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regularly about 15-20 girls total Really?
/r/seduction04/09/12 07:50 PM
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Maybe he is 14?
/r/seduction03/09/12 02:30 PM
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Or just control your frame. You're just not drinking.
/r/seduction01/09/12 04:20 AM
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RSD speaks A LOT about this. Look up their videos, mainly Tyler and Julien.
/r/seduction31/08/12 11:15 PM
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Read the sidebar... I should get a bot that writes this.
/r/seduction31/08/12 11:14 PM
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20 3 Y Y Define this better, please.
/r/seduction31/08/12 02:15 PM
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Wat
/r/seduction31/08/12 02:11 PM
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I do it quite often. I have gotten some dates from day time approaching in Sweden.
/r/seduction31/08/12 02:10 PM
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Which city do you live in?
/r/seduction31/08/12 02:09 PM
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One start is to talk to women.. during the day. That seems to work.
/r/seduction30/08/12 09:59 PM
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What? That is probably the most stupid question ever...
/r/seduction30/08/12 09:57 PM
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Get another number!
/r/seduction30/08/12 04:48 PM
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You must be new to the seduction community. The "Leave her better off than you found her" has been a pillar in the community for maybe 10 years.
/r/seduction30/08/12 03:50 PM
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I'm 20 but still has had quite a bit of experience and my fair share of women. I don't think age matters THAT much.
/r/seduction30/08/12 03:34 PM
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What..? Why..?
/r/seduction30/08/12 02:57 PM
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I still get nervous when approaching groups, but I just don't care I guess.
/r/seduction30/08/12 02:48 PM
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Care to explain or link something?
/r/seduction30/08/12 02:46 PM
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Mogwai all the way!
/r/seduction30/08/12 02:45 PM
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I am also 6'7 and sometimes when a girl asks i get 100% serious, bend down and tell them to keep a huge secret, that I am actually two dwarves on top of eachother, that has landed me some k-closes. I'm too tall for you seems really cocky, so i like it, will try it out!
/r/seduction30/08/12 12:59 AM
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Just say it in a self amusing way then. Like if she has a big hand bag you can say "WOW!! That's a huuuuuuuuuge hand bag!".
/r/seduction30/08/12 12:24 AM
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That's actually not really an "interview type question" but more of a qualifying question that is a bit too try-hard.
/r/seduction29/08/12 11:38 PM
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Make jokes you find funny, I have a really offensive sense of humour and I just say whatever the fuck I want. Sure it bombs like crazy sometimes, and sure I adapt sometimes, but the important thing is that you think it's funny and they will too.
/r/seduction29/08/12 11:35 PM
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I think your problem is that you didn't give yourself time to feel good about yourself and build yourself up before you found something outside of yourself to give you state.
/r/seduction29/08/12 11:32 PM
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That's exactly what I meant. I was going to post the RSD video when they talk about this (Lovedrop from mystery method also talks about this I think) but I got pretty downvoted so I guess they found the other answer more satisfying! ^^
/r/seduction29/08/12 04:52 PM
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You can come off as weird and a low value guy if you smile the entire time during the interaction. Smile on the open then chill out!
/r/seduction29/08/12 03:48 AM
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Haha it's cool mate! Just trying to brain storm! :)
/r/seduction29/08/12 03:43 AM
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Ok, I'm lucky to live in Sweden where the drinking age is 18. Is there any parties or such at the school you could get invited to and then invite her? That would serve as some social proof as well.
/r/seduction29/08/12 03:15 AM
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Maybe calibrate a bit more how physical you can get away with being.
/r/seduction29/08/12 03:04 AM
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Well, that depends on how you feel. If you feel like going for someone else, then do it! If you want to try to close the other girl, try something else with her if coffee didn't go well, maybe some drinks? How was your kino during your interaction? Have you read all material on conversations(shit tests and such)?
/r/seduction29/08/12 03:04 AM
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Can you walk us through one of your standard approaches?
/r/seduction29/08/12 02:29 AM
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It's on you as a PUA to make it interesting!
/r/seduction29/08/12 02:26 AM
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Hmm.. I don't know what tips I can give you, I mean, I thought of two but they might be fucking stupid. 1.Get a nickname(boring solution). 2.Fucking sing the opener!(awesome solution).
/r/seduction28/08/12 11:52 PM
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Do you see a speaking coach? Do you always stutter when saying your name? If you were to sit down right now and say your name a thousand times, would you stutter each time?
/r/seduction28/08/12 11:24 PM
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Hmm.. I don't exactly know your situation but at the parties I go to there are always some group of people you can be "accepted" into if you come early and then you already have some social proof. And you should kind of drop that mind-set, it's just cool to be able to speak to anyone and socializing with everyone at a party. If you think for yourself, who looks cooler, the guy who sits by himself in a sofa with a beer or the guy who came alone but still has a great time and speaks with everyone?…
/r/seduction28/08/12 10:09 PM
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When I was 19 I hooked with a 34 year old. It's no problem.
/r/seduction28/08/12 03:04 AM
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And don't force her to say things like that, she will only be uncomfortable and feel like you are a Beta that can't convey your intentions yourself.
/r/seduction28/08/12 02:58 AM
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Read the side bar. Approach anxiety(AA).
/r/seduction28/08/12 02:41 AM
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Just talk to people at parties! As long as you are socializing and talking to people and have a good time no one will think you're weird for being there by yourself.
/r/seduction28/08/12 02:39 AM
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Haha, I am glad you clarified that policy, because I got seriously weirded out. I thought "of course they close their doors if there's some dude who walks into their rooms".
/r/seduction28/08/12 02:37 AM
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Just don't text her too much, everything seemed solid!
/r/seduction28/08/12 02:34 AM
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Why am I being a dick? I gave him/her the best advice I could with the information I got. I just gave a brief explanation on who I am since the person generalized all off seddit and we are not all one person.
/r/seduction28/08/12 02:32 AM
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3. Been fucking weird about it.
/r/seduction28/08/12 02:27 AM
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Many people don't advocate "Be yourself" but has instead started to say "Be your best self". That is, keep your "core values" or what you want to call it. For example, are you a nerd? Then embrace it, play your video games. Don't alter who you really are, but be the best version that person can be.
/r/seduction28/08/12 02:26 AM
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I think double standards are okay as long as it's me having them.
/r/seduction28/08/12 01:19 AM
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Read up on "pivots". I think it might be in the side bar.
/r/seduction28/08/12 01:09 AM
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No, I've always been a "cool kid" and popular and always had great success with women. I found this community less than a year ago and figured I could improve much more. But that's not important, what's important is that you don't see yourself as awkward but awesome.
/r/seduction28/08/12 01:08 AM
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Just don't give a shit. It will take you a long way.
/r/seduction28/08/12 01:04 AM
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Who says that we are all awkward?
/r/seduction28/08/12 01:03 AM
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I don't know if this is a troll (I guess it is) but the community has evolved far away from "being attraction, comfort, seduction, routines, game" and is exactly how you described god. Damn I feel stupid for even responding to this...
/r/seduction25/08/12 03:06 AM
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Approach Anxiety, it's in the sidebar.
/r/seduction25/08/12 01:57 AM
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How do you figure that? If he knows the language he is not that much help for someone who wonders how to pick up when you DON'T know the language, or am I thinking completely wrong now?
/r/seduction24/08/12 10:32 PM
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Just think of this. All the time, all those hours you are working yourself up for approaching, all the nervousness, all the sweat, all the pain will go away in about 20 seconds if you approach. If you don't approach, it will remain, you will feel like shit, you will hate yourself. If you approach, no matter how bad you fall, you will love yourself, you will be the man, and you will do it again. 20 seconds... Just force yourself through those 20 seconds.
/r/seduction24/08/12 10:19 PM
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Yeah, tofutofu is seriously THE MAN of Japan PU, but I think he was fairly skilled in Japanese before he went there to pick up.
/r/seduction24/08/12 10:15 PM
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You might have some physical "shit tests", but just be boss and this won't be a problem.
/r/seduction24/08/12 10:14 PM
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Just don't text too much and it should be fine (If you are lucky that will say, but that goes for all of pick up).
/r/seduction24/08/12 10:12 PM
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I would say you just give your time to respond in the beginning and your thought process will be evolved. I played a lot of counter strike before, and it's like "how do I get more Head Shot%?". Just aim for the head, you will die because it takes to long time the first 50 times, but then you will benefit greatly from it. I'm not entirely sober ATM though, so this advice might be shit, works for me though. EDIT: Oh! And analyse afterwards when you think you did wrong and find a better answer. Ana…
/r/seduction24/08/12 10:04 PM
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How old are you and how advanced is your game? I think that is of great value to me if I am going to analyse your post.
/r/seduction24/08/12 10:01 PM
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That's going to hurt you really bad, because ALL women shit test. That's almost as saying "As soon as I am with a woman and notice she has a vagina I lose all interest in her, I start to seriously doubt her physical faculties.".
/r/seduction24/08/12 08:04 PM
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This is not a very helpful answer but an answer none the less. I have always had a really loud voice and since I was a kid I have always talked non-stop so I guess my voice is just used to it. My problem though is that I sometimes get carried away and people protect their ears.. That's always embarrassing.
/r/seduction24/08/12 06:46 PM
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I'm twenty and have slept with around 20, it's not that much really.
/r/seduction24/08/12 06:41 PM
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Haha, that sounds awesome, but I must stress that it's important you deliver this opener congruently, otherwise someone might be scared as fuck! :)
/r/seduction24/08/12 06:35 PM
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Of course! Don't get me wrong, I'm not talking about peacocking or anything like that, just the importance of being congruent. That's why I feel the MFA tips might not be 100% accurate for a PUA. If you dress like a nice innocent guy and act like a sexually forward alpha male it will most probably be weird.
/r/seduction24/08/12 06:34 PM
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It also removes these stories from this subreddit and makes room for quality contebt suiting for this sub.
/r/seduction24/08/12 01:29 PM
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The best part is that you seem to know exactly what you do wrong, really strong!
/r/seduction24/08/12 01:19 AM
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And further, if you don't want to drink even one drink, then don't meet a girl for drinks. If you absolutely have to for some reason, then just take one drink, 2cl won't ruin your game.
/r/seduction24/08/12 01:13 AM
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I don't really know about that, I mean sure, it's really good for dressing "nice" and fitting in, but I don't think that's necessarily desirable for a PUA.
/r/seduction24/08/12 01:10 AM
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Ok, do you have good game? In that case I need to hear someone going for the apocalypse opener!
/r/seduction24/08/12 01:04 AM
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You say that as if it's a bad thing, but it's what this subreddit is about! OP: You shouldn't have been THAT direct, even if it must have taken massive balls! ;) But great work, and from what you write I think you're already one of us!
/r/seduction24/08/12 01:02 AM
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Tricky one, but PUAs often advocate against talking too much(Over the phone and facebook) so I would bet their tip would be to not speak to her too much.
/r/seduction23/08/12 10:24 PM
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Don't dress yourself in a way only to remove social pressure. I would also advice against dressing in a way just to stand out(see Mystery). The most important thing IMO is to dress in a way that is you and is congruent to your personality.
/r/seduction23/08/12 10:09 PM
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I think the best thing would be to act as if it's no big deal.
/r/seduction23/08/12 09:59 PM
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