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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 255 | "I will kill us both" | RED FLAG 🚨 | Throwaway_FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:38 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | "I will kill us both"Not more important than my well being for sure. We moved into a new rental space recently and I made a significant financial investment in all new everything. I’ve estimated that between moving expenses, possible storage expenses, new rental expenses, and assuming furnishing a new space come in around 15k. Luckily, I can manage this, but do feel like I have an interest in removing my belongings. My friend has offered to let me stay with her during my transition - but I don’t want to put her out.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:47 AM |
| 3 | "I will kill us both"I’ll make it through, even if the next few months are uncomfortable. Definitely a traumatizing first having someone threaten your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:14 AM |
| 11 | "I will kill us both"This is amazing. We need to normalize asking for and giving feedback from/to previous/future significant others about their experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:12 AM |
| 5 | "I will kill us both"Yes! My gut to brain connection has been out of whack. Time to start taking gut health supplements. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:09 AM |
| 16 | "I will kill us both"WHY do we do this? In all other areas of life I value and exercise strict logic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:07 AM |
| 5 | "I will kill us both"Did you believe him when he said it? Logically- and after the incident- I’ve struggled with if he would have really done it. But in the moment I felt like he absolutely would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:04 AM |
| 4 | "I will kill us both"I would like to ghost- but he never leaves the house! Strategizing about how to move out my belongings without escalating the situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:03 AM |
| 9 | "I will kill us both"Yes! I’m 32 and have held out hope that their maturity level would begin to meet me at a reasonable place. This has not been my experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:00 AM |
| 4 | "I will kill us both"Unfortunately more red flags than not. He can be a bit of a Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. The oscillation kept me in a state of confusion for too long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:57 AM |
| 5 | "I will kill us both"Yes! We need to start requiring a character reference listing for us to call on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:54 AM |
| 11 | "I will kill us both"I never thought it it this way, but it makes perfect sense. Thank you for introducing me to a new term and behavioral pattern. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:50 AM |
| 8 | "I will kill us both"Indeed! It’s terrifying how many ladies have such similar stories. Luckily we are not tied together by a child - but I can’t imagine the horror of this situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:47 AM |
| 3 | "I will kill us both"Will do! We are both currently working from home. I have kept to our home office all day -saying I had loads of work to catch up on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:43 AM |
| 7 | "I will kill us both"This is a super interesting view. He actually accused ME of this exact same scenario. Telling me that not only did I instigate and escalate - but that I had PLANNED to do this while stuck in a long car ride. I was completely confused by his comment in the moment as this isn’t at all congruent with my personality or our relationship dynamics. Would you consider this to be projection? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:41 AM |
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