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| 3 | How do you get the attention of a bartender?Always pay cash at a bar, OR open a tab at the beginning of the night and keep it open. If you are paying cash, tip VERY well after the first drink while making eye contact with the person serving it. The bartenders know who the tippers are and will keep coming back if they see you as a steady revenue stream. Making your first tip a big one does not allow you to abstain from tipping the rest of the night, but you can be a little more consistent in your tipping. After the initially large tip, con… | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 01:45 PM |
| 5 | Reminder: Eye Contact is so ImportantI agree with this completely. For the longest time I had a hard time making eye contact. Opening up to people was also tricky, but I was so bad at making eye contact I was bordering on some sort of autistic-like behavior. Now that I'm getting better at forcing eye contact, not only am I getting compliments on my eyes, but also on my voice, because people are more willing to hear what I have to say. It's a sign of assertiveness and comfort, and it is also a good way to read other peoples' faces b… | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Intelligence and Seduction- competing interests?I have a similar issue. I speak sentences as fast as I can form them. Debate in High School in College helped with this. Everyone always tell you that for good public speaking you need to "slow down" which is true, but what is more accurate is to say, "When you feel like you're slowing down, you're still going too fast, so speak so slowly that it feels almost too slow (without people thinking you're slow or you think they are) and then you will have hit the sweet spot. | /r/seduction | 17/04/12 01:18 AM |
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