| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Why are women so opposed to meeting men online as opposed to in person? | Question For Women | Throwawayabcdef345 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 01:51 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadI mean the literal ring. Yeah people are supposed to wait til marriage and then the guy gets a ring. It seems unfair to expect one without the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadU don’t need religion to convince people that Seeking pleasure at the expense of your own health and the health and happiness of those around you is not really a hard sell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadI explained that promiscuity is bad for everyone in society and is actually a clinical symptom of psychopathy and borderline personality disorder. Promiscuity is correlated with mental illness and emotional issues and it’s fair people would rather that not take place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadOk but then why do women need a ring? Your satisfaction about the relationship shouldnt come within not from some ring or some dumb label then too right? If women want to half ass it then why wouldn’t men half ass it too? It seems unfair to expect full on commitment when ur not honoring the long standing social contract to get that level of commitment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadI think it’s fair for men to not want to date women who try to emasculate them? Why do their feelings not matter? Should your feelings not matter to them? And I agree i don’t believe in god but I do think promiscuity is bad for society overall. It’s unfair to other women for women to behave promiscuously because it devalues sex. Promiscuous people aren’t exactly good for society at large. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadContinue to my next comment I think it answers that. Feelings of emasculation is a big part of it that men have a hard time putting words to. It feels emasculating to commit to a women with an extensive past because all these other men got that for free and it makes men feel like their value is less than that of all the other men because of how hard they had to work to get sex from you versus how hard the previous guys did. It messes with a guys self esteem and eats away at him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadLet me try this again. Relationship and marriage minded women who aren’t AF/BBing are the most likely to have a low body count. Redpilled men expect women to wait for the right guy before they have sex because it doesn’t seem fair to whoever the “right” guy is to have to deal with whatever potential baggage and possible STDs and feelings of emasculation that come along with that and if women care about her future husband/boyfriend then they should care about him not having to go through that and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadThis applies to both genders I want to say too. I think everyone should be judged for their sexual history because it definitely says something about their potential future ability to hold a long term monogamous relationship. In the same way that someone who has never done cocaine is less likely to do cocaine than a former cocaine addict. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadBut it’s not about sexual pleasure, whores and sluts are more sexually pleasurable and are more willing to do a variety of different sex acts. Redpoll men say they prefer virgins because It makes them better for a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 05:57 PM |
| 0 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadIf men all collectively started judging women for their sexual history and refused to marry them because of it young women would be better at picking men I firmly believe and I think that’s what’s gonna happen but if that process could sleep up that would be best for all parties involved | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadWe should be more sex negative is what we should do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadIf adults aren’t having sex then they’re also probably not having kids and not getting married and they’re probably not too happy either I mean does a negative birth rate not scare u does the thought that the majority of young adults may never marry not scare you? I mean it’s not just about the actual sex itself it’s about the broader context of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadYes if women could just say “ya know rising male sexlessness is a serious issue and although it doesn’t effect me at least not right now, it does effect men and it likely will effect women too somewhere down the line so I think we as a society should try and do something about it.” Me personally I don’t want sex I don’t want women to have sex with men they don’t want to but we can’t just keep denying that there is an issue. Idk what the solution to the issue is either but it seems toxic for both… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadOk but there are much more sexless men than women it’s almost as if women are all fucking the same men and ignoring all the rest. Sexless men can’t exactly just pump and dump women tho now can they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadMaybe considering the majority of men are sexless now I think it’s women standards and not men’s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadDo what all the men here say and don’t sleep with him right away and make him get to know I first of course u can’t be sleeping around with other guys in the meantime and can’t have an extensive sexual past. I actually started using tinder to find a relationship and had that intention for a while because I could find a girl I liked irl and then I slowly realized that wasn’t gonna happen and I’m not sure if it’s the app or the women in there lol tbh but probs both. Idk like there are a lot of guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadMen want sex more and women want a relationship more. That’s why there is this apprant gap because the desire for sex is immediate and dopaminergic where as the desire for a relationship isn’t impulsive like that so u don’t see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadI’d rather have something than nothing. And no cuz I’m honest about what I want and women still go for it. So why ur saying is you think men should go mygtow then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadOk well then I’d like never have sex and definitly die alone so u take what u can get ya know. It’s easy for women to just be alone when they are still getting pounded on the regular by an ex who is out of their league or some other guys on tinder. Women can’t be alone worse than men they just pretend to while having better sex and getting attention from men out of their league but who won’t commit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadCrazy people are the only ones who’d want to do this which is sorta the point I’m making | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadAnd now read the rest of my comment. Why aren’t women on dating apps as much as men? Oh maybe it’s cuz they aren’t struggling as much as men ever think of that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadGo on tinder as a guy and then a girl and you’ll see what I mean. Look at all the data on male sexlessness it’s not even. women get waaaaay more options than men come on now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadUnderstand tho that this isn’t uncommon. The amount of long term friends with benefits type pairings or pseudo relationships is only increasing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadI was just doing what u did what do u mean? And yes my lack of other options I actually wanted kept me there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadI wonder why no one wants to do it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadI mean have u ever had a stable long term relationship or have u just been pumped and dumped 20x because u strike me as a woman who doesn’t have much real world experience with actual dating too... and i stuck around with my last gf for like 3 years and most for the time we were just FWB and this is not unusual I know lots of people who are engaging in this setup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadThat’s what every ppd woman would say yet I’ve seen like no ppd women actually behave that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread“If you’ve ever had a relationship” the passive agreessiveness starts... I’m aware it’s based off more than looks and sex but plz don’t tell me looks don’t matter to women they clearly do almost as much as men in fact. Women say that yet all for the same few select guys so clearly they’re preferences aren’t as individual as u claims women all mostly find the same personality traits and looks attractive in men yet seem to think their standards aren’t based off mostly shallow criteria. I would be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadThey don’t want to mod because the mostly blue pill mod base gives them so much crap they just give up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadFinding someone attractive enough to date for fun is different that finding them attractive enough to marry and it’s more than meeting a minimum looks threshold and having compatible personalities. A dude can be a little out of ur league and not want u cuz of it? U know how women all don’t want to settle well men overwhelmingly feel the same way and would rather just fuck at that rate. They actually have to really like u to want to marry u and that means I have to be irreplaceable to them. If th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadWell like every guy here is an incel apprantly and apparently ms drgee is red pilled so to the women here those terms seem to mean very different things than to the men here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadMen don’t get to have sex with who they want in this climate so they seriously settle kinda a lot too in many cases for what they can get that doesn’t mean they feel comfortable marrying someone who they don’t actually like that much but if it’s dating someone they don’t like that much versus no one at all most men would still rather participate but maybe not give full comittment. Men will fuck women they have no intention on dating or marrying. Just cuz men will have def with women doesn’t mean… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:32 PM |
| 4 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadAnyone ever notice that every single mod here is blue pilled, some will say they are red pilled but they are really not. How can we have an open an honest discussion about this sort of thing when all the group rules and who is an isn’t allowed in the group are all controlled by people on one side of the debate spectrum? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadOk cool now actually read my whole message this time and if my men u mean extremely blue pilled men then sure. There is no real representation of the redpoll within the mods | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadOne instance of a male mod banning another male doesn’t mean anything when the general trend is clearly the opposite. Ur being stubborn for no reason. What do I expect considering that’s been the absolute trend for women in this group | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadBy change their behavior they mean date men in their own league whether they find them attractive or not. Or just don’t date or at least don’t expect a relationship out of men out of their league. See what I’m saying? Like U don’t have to or not date anyone u just hate to be mindful that the guys u find attractive may not necessarily find u attractive back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:22 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadOr rather should I say I’ve never seen a male mod ban any guy yet I’ve seen a female mod do it a bunch of time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadThe last like 6 messages if u could read and not be insanely difficult for no reason... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:19 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadI’ve never seen a male mod on here but I’ve seen a female mod on here probably 1000s of times | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:17 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadI’ve never seen like any woman here especially regular users have just about any sympathy for men who bring up issues related to sex or dating so idk what to tell u and I really think most men here would agree with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadAll the admins and mods are women what r u talking about maaaaaybe there is a reason all the male mods got banned because the women mods can’t handle a different point of view? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadWhen men come here and talk about their dating issues only to be basically told that they r a loser and need to try harder what else do u think that does to men besides wind them up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadIs it possible that in a gender and sex discussion group completely run by women they might have some sort of unconscious bias against men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadAnd if it is true what does that say? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadSmurf this man is talking about u over here rn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread<sup>This</sup> x100 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:04 PM |
| 0 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadOk but why are more men than women banned? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadSee that’s the problem is that if women admit that there is a problem for men then they also have to admit they r doing something wrong which would kinda require them to change their behavior which they don’t want to do because they don’t actually really care about me. I mean am I crazy or what? What else am I supposed to think at this point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadIs that why u didn’t deny it and then tried to justify it by saying “men have sent me death threats” and “you’ve seen people of both genders get banned” cuz neither of those things are actually denying my claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadYet it’s almost exclusively men getting permanent banned? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadI’ve seen it happen soooo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadAnd what about for the majority of men who didn’t make death threats and got banned? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadOk well I’ve seen it myself with my own eyes so idk what to tell u | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:21 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadMaybe both of why we say can be true? Heartless and rude not a surprise.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:18 AM |
| 0 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadOk but u realize the gender of who ur last reply went to tho right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:16 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadNo it’s not I’ve literally seen people get banned for having opinions they don’t like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadNo u gave me a ridiculous sexist bullshit reason that makes men out to all look bad... and ur reason isn’t even true most men here are not banned for death threats. This is laughable.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadYes every guy banned here was for death threats.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:13 AM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadHere let’s ask the admins for the stats on who they ban before u tell me I’m wrong and smurf even admitted to it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:12 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadUmmm they specifically don’t allow black pill content soooo try again and I’ve specifically seen people get banned for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:11 AM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadOoor maybe dating shouldn’t be so biased against men or at a ducking minimum women should have a ounce of ducking sympathy for men venting about this....... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:10 AM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadNo bro at least 80% of the people who get banned here are males | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadOk and if society wasn’t biased against them when it came to dating and women weren’t completely rude and uncaring when they vent about it maybe they wouldn’t “behave like bad people.” Ever consider that their “bad behavior is a response to the way society and women are treating them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadOk but tinder is like 100x easier for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadIt’s men who are being used and abused by the dating system today so maybe it’s fair that they are a little bit more triggered about this than women? 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:03 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadI still think I the undeniably telling that this group almost exclusively bans men. Like men are all magically just bad people and women all magically good people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadMaybe if women had an ounce of sympathy for men they wouldn’t radicalize and say these things? Women totally drive men here to act this way with their rude and uncaring behavior and attitudes and then second men are not ok with it they ban them and act like the man is at fault. Lol why do I keep seeing that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 10:58 AM |
| 5 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadMen bad... women good...🤡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 10:56 AM |
| 5 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadWhy do I see men come and go and cycle from this group constantly yet I think I’ve never seen a female user go? It’s as if this group only bans men? Can admins show data about the gender of people banned from This group over the past year? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 10:32 AM |
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