Throwawayajoborthree Archive

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1	Birth rates are going to keep plummeting Yes, only Charlotte explicitly does the resources-for-sex trade, but it was a threat for the whole Bennett family sisters to have to go that route. Elizabeth was too stubborn to do it, which is admirable in a way - but her gamble could have ended up differently as well. If nothing else, Charlotte shows us the potential alternative if a woman isn't as pretty, doesn't make as nice of a gentleman fall in love with you, and runs out her time in that world. I think that a lot (not all, there are many…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 11:14 PM
1	Birth rates are going to keep plummeting Holy shit, it's clear I need to dumb it down for you. So angry, you can't can't stick to logical arguments and have to resort to personal attacks, eh? No wonder men think women are emotional, all that projection. My husband hasn't left me, I don't think he will, and am not worried about him. Notwithstanding the prior statement, I have known many examples in my personal life where a man has left their wife for the younger model. If you're so good at quoting, feel free to quote the one where my fa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 10:49 PM
1	Birth rates are going to keep plummeting I am not trying to imply that every marriage out there in the past was literally a guy shouting "make me a sandwich and service me", it was extreme to explain the broader point. Many marriages in the past were miserable, and in fact, little more than a sex for resource trade. In upper class political circles, young women were bartered off for political alliances. They noble ladies may not have had to do much housework, but bringing heirs for the man was part of the bargain, and very few of them …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 09:12 PM
1	Birth rates are going to keep plummeting Yeah, my husband and love of my life and all of these male colleagues - one of whom explicitly would have left his wife for me - "don't want me". Lol. Re the throwaway, aren't we grasping at straws here. Some of these threads have some absolutely toxic individuals on them and I personally just don't need the drama of them knowing anything about who I am as a person, other than what I choose to reveal. If you can't dive through my profile to see if I've ever written anything on being married or n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 08:54 PM
1	Birth rates are going to keep plummeting Look, I'm really, really pro solving a lot of systemic issues. The system sucks in many ways. That is a whole separate discussion and perhaps we may even agree on many of the solutions to it. I don't make the laws and public policy and it sounds like neither do you. On an individual level, I'd advise men (and many, many women) to be realistic about whom they would be attractive to, which requires a LOT of introspection. And to maximize strengths and work on weaknesses. Relative to economic succe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 08:43 PM
1	Birth rates are going to keep plummeting It's not a competition. And woman aren't gold diggers only interested in money. We all like to know where our next meal is coming from, but women who make their own money are still interested in romance and companionship with men, and sometimes children. A lot of women would be happy to find an equal male partner who makes similar to what they make, and helps out 50-50 around the house, someone to eat dinner with, talk about their day with, see a movie and take a trip. The issue is that many men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 08:32 PM
1	Birth rates are going to keep plummeting Lol. Married and happy, thanks for the concern. I'm fairly confident my husband would never do that to me and is the exception (don't we all like to think that). And if he did, we've got an easy way to have an amicable divorce since I make my own living. Since I do work, in a male-dominated field, I have a lot of male friends. I love men, honestly, but holy fuck is that a great way to see the thing I've described in action. I've seen a lot of guys cheat on the mother of their child, and many of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 08:26 PM
1	Birth rates are going to keep plummeting Most of the time I see people struggling to attract the partner to begin with, it's because they are chasing someone out of their league. (This is not limited to men). Of course, if you are a low-earning guy with a "dead end" job, the well-earning lawyer or runway model will probably not be too interested in you. There can be exceptions if you have a history, say, childhood best friends. But most of the time, men can get a partner if they can stick to looking for someone at their level, unless t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 06:10 PM
1	Birth rates are going to keep plummeting That's funny. Happy couples don't divorce. And not everyone falls out of love in a couple of years. If you do, good sign you might have married the wrong person. It can happen to anyone by surprise if one or both parties suck at communicating, and this can be either Unhappy Spouse being bad at talking, or Surprised Spouse being bad at listening. That's the only way it can happen by surprise. Advocating for a system where men don't have to worry about how they treat women because the woman can't …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 05:52 PM
1	Birth rates are going to keep plummeting TikTok has a ton of delusional, trashy, and entitled women influenced by CardiB that do not represent the average expectation. I know many women who are breadwinners who are happy with their lesser-earning boyfriends/husbands as long as they treat them well, aren't a financial liability and find other ways to contribute.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 05:49 PM
1	Birth rates are going to keep plummeting Lots of broke college girls are willing to find someone they can grow with. I actually don't know a single college girl who would choose to be with an older man for the money, unless they grew up very poor and financial stability is all that matters to them. Even then. I know many people (myself included) who grew up poor and we would all rather have a guy around our age to grow with, rather than an old wrinkled guy who has money. The challenge can be making sure they don't end up a bum. Dating …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 05:45 PM
1	Birth rates are going to keep plummeting Daft of a username as that statement is. Plenty of men are attracted to women who can do more than mop a floor and cook dinner. My, what you would probably call, "masculine", highly educated, high paying job-holding self was quite the envy of a few of my traditionally-feminine, wannabe housewife friends for how many men were trying to date me. It's almost like different people can like different things, GASP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 05:35 PM
1	Birth rates are going to keep plummeting Women throughout history never struggled with that. You'd think that looks is how you get a man to have a family and then you have what you sought out to get, Yes, and there has never since the dawn of time been an instance of a man cheating on his pregnant wife, or mother to his kids, with the younger, fitter woman - once she's stuck and dependent on him. That NEVER happens. Lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 05:31 PM
1	Birth rates are going to keep plummeting Yeah, often with very poor results for the kids...	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 05:28 PM
1	Birth rates are going to keep plummeting Most women who work don't need a guy to make twice as much as them. It's a nice-to-have if you can get it for sure, but most women who work are fine with a guy who makes the same amount as them, or even slightly less if he's contributing in other ways. They just don't want a guy who comes home after making less money than her, expecting hot dinner on the table and his dick sucked on demand and to have to pick up his socks afterwards. It's not rocket science.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 05:27 PM
1	Birth rates are going to keep plummeting What the hell does "balance out female sexual power" even mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 05:22 PM
1	Birth rates are going to keep plummeting Except that if you're already poor, the difference between having one more child can mean the difference between the existing child having a halfway tolerable, if not awesome, life, and having a life of absolute deprivation. Splitting resources matters at every level, whether you're talking about downgrading from trips to Europe to trips to Florida, or talking about splitting a barely adequate meal between two people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 05:15 PM
1	Birth rates are going to keep plummeting You seem to have very little clue about the effects of pregnancy on a woman's body. Most women do not "bounce back" to their perfectly pre-pregnant bodies. The effects include everything from long-term weight gain, which is caused not simply by metabolic shifts, but from things like "mom doesn't have time to go to the gym with the demands/tiredness of a baby", aka, the lifestyle. You can say that a bit of weight gain isn't a huge deal and most people will put on some weight eventually, but pregn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 05:13 PM
1	Birth rates are going to keep plummeting What horror, that women stay with men because they are happy instead of them being forced to, even if they are unhappy and poorly treated. The men who treat their wives well, whose wives love them and are happy with them, are not stressed about them leaving them anytime.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 04:44 PM
1	Birth rates are going to keep plummeting Six figure earner here - there are plenty of women who make six figures. Of the ones I know, most would be fine splitting 50-50, or even slightly out-earning their husband, as long as their husband isn't a financial liability (i.e., debt they have to pay off) and treats them well. To your point about poverty, growing up in poverty is miserable (ask me how I know, and why making a high salary is important to me). The idea of having 5 kids + a spouse in a 1 bedroom apartment is absolutely appallin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 04:41 PM
1	Birth rates are going to keep plummeting How do you not understand the answer when the commentator spelled it out? Men need to be able to provide more than just a roof over a woman's head if a woman can provide the roof over her own head. For centuries, that was really all men had to offer in many cases. Only men could work certain jobs and/or inherit property. So if a woman wanted to not be homeless, she had to either live with her parents forever (not always possible) or be married. Married woman has house to live in and food to eat.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 04:30 PM
1	Birth rates are going to keep plummeting As relish5k said, for the longest time, women had to be married (or marriage-equivalent) to survive. Most of the time, women did not particularly want to marry and often did not enjoy marriage - TONS of history and literature to support this. But, due to a need to pool resources at the poor end, or not being allowed to inherit property at the rich end...marriage and dealing with a man who makes a mess, makes you have sex whenever he wants, and being constantly barefoot, pregnant, and in the kitc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 04:20 PM
1	Birth rates are going to keep plummeting Everyone I know cares about the quality of the schools, who are you hanging out with that it doesn't cross their mind? More importantly, LCOL places often have lower-paying jobs. Hence the reason that making 100k in NYC doesn't feel like a materially better lifestyle than making 60k in, oh idk, Nebraska. Income scales, not always so perfectly that you can't game it. But if you move to a LCOL place, expect your salary to go down as well, unless you can bring a fully remote big-tech job with you (…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 03:56 PM