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Throwawayboss11/r/askTRP12/03/20 04:46 PM
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There’s a chance it could end badly. Other colleges might be ok though. Edit: You’re 22?
/r/askTRP10/03/21 08:00 PM
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I’m a younger college student so not sure but news spreads quickly with things like this. Given the current political climate in liberal institutions (college being some of the most liberal of them all) I wouldn’t recommend it, like others said it’s a MeToo case waiting to happen if you mess up. But an old teacher of mine married her professor, so it could go in your favour but that was a long time ago. Why not just bang girls in their early 20’s from other colleges or departments.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 12:50 PM
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Plate her. The pain felt now is better than the pain you would feel later if you go through with this.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 01:59 AM
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What’d you drink
/r/askTRP23/02/21 11:19 PM
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True, are you comfortable with saying how they were emotionally torturing, I’ve seen this happen too, like it knows no bounds. Man seeing people do this can get annoying.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 03:41 AM
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Sounds a little uncalibrated , your boys are cool for covering for you. Work on social skills.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 08:38 PM
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I’m going through the sidebar now, and thanks I’ll do this.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 07:07 PM
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You called it. She doesn’t want to meet up and wants to talk more about other things over text.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 02:13 PM
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How’d you boost self esteem
/r/askTRP07/12/20 09:56 PM
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I was, I think she sensed it and asked if I ever had a sub, I said never but I’m dominant during sx.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 04:09 PM
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No u
/r/askTRP06/12/20 04:00 PM
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She’s a plate, keep going but keep it on the dl because her status as a whore will effect you.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 04:16 PM
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It’s insane how women can play the good girl despite they’re past being degenerate. True but most modern scholars religious or otherwise who study that era agree Jesus existed historically.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 12:01 AM
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Miscer spotted
/r/askTRP02/11/20 11:45 PM
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Should you pay for drinks on first dates ? I’ve done it once and usually they get the next round.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:18 AM
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Get hinge, bumble or another dating app, upload decent pics and convo prompts, buy the hinge 1 month premium. Go on dates, and escalate.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 03:14 PM
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Could you go into more detail and any examples of them being manipulative and Machiavellian, I’m curious as this is not the first I’ve heard them described in those exact two words.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 12:56 AM
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Yeah and start with an altercation with some pimp that could get you busted. Maybe he’ll give you some first hand tips on being Alpha. Get tinder OP or hit the club if you need it that badly.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 11:05 PM
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You look quite good and your overall frame has improved, I got back in the gym after lockdown a few weeks ago. I’d recommend working on diet too, increase for more weight gain. Working to failure is good but It’s good to pace yourself too, while it’s good to work out hard if you’re strategic about it, e.g save energy for next work out which targets different part of what you’re doing ( e.g deadlifting which is whole back to rows) yourself and follow a routine you could see a lot of growth, which…
/r/askTRP21/08/20 08:47 PM
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Like others have already said she seems to have put you in the friend zone/beta position. From my gut instinct and interactions/observations of some women she seems manipulative, she immediately tried to guilt trip you and make herself the victim to check your behaviour, I’ve seen this in action. I’m guessing similar things have happened in the past and for her to feel confident enough to attempt this you might have let some shyt slide in the past. I would recommend reading Machiavellian thinkin…
/r/askTRP20/08/20 11:02 PM
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Decent post, I would say there’s more nuance to it though. Continue game, maybe the macho man thing works on you.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 04:28 PM
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Exactly one of the reasons why I mentioned religion, I see you believe in God and Christ. Also heard a new one called star seeds.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 12:09 AM
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Trust your gut. She might want to feel validation from you finding her attractive. You have other girls you’re fucking, you should be good man.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 01:38 AM
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What’s a lamp, and tf are you posting on your profile.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 11:24 PM
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What if you can’t reliably bang any girls.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 06:24 PM
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Really why ? I’ve heard people say it’s a good spot for dates.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 07:50 AM
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Going through the same thing. I personally was critical of myself and others too, I had a vision of how things should be and if that wasn’t reached or other acted against that I would become angry. But I’ve realised that growth lies in this area, understanding how people are realistically and not letting it phase you. It’s tough to swallow, but then you have to avoid falling into the black pill it’s pointless/nothingness and get that people will continue falling short of the standard. Understand…
/r/askTRP03/08/20 12:16 AM
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Print the pdf if you can, use the uni library if you can it’s much cheaper.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 12:03 AM
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Same for me I’m usually in safe areas when similar has happened. Are you always alone in the same areas ? Any examples to so we can see what usually happens ?
/r/askTRP02/08/20 08:15 AM
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Look into your location and behaviour. If you’re in a location where fighting is normal try to leave this area and focus on more productive spaces. How are you behaving too ? Are you unintentionally mean mugging people ? I have an issue where I don’t smile much, can look a little serious and at times angry, which causes people to make poor conclusions about me despite me feeling neutral or normal inside. Any examples of these situations?
/r/askTRP01/08/20 05:09 PM
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What’s up, I knew a few people around your age that started uni the same time as I did. They were around 23/24 and we were 18. Usually no one notices or cares that much, we’d even forget unless they were noticeably older. Join a club ( one guy did and received a lot of attention from a younger girl) and focus on work !
/r/askTRP01/08/20 12:01 PM
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If this isn’t a troll, I’d say check to see if you get social cues, what others get naturally ASD people have to manually learn. Check out books like games people play and how to win friends and influence people.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 09:50 AM
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Like most people here said it’s not the looks. It’s probably your game, as stated you look slightly timid, shy or nervous. Work on improving your confidence through Muay Thai/BJJ, it’s also quite fun ! The hairstyle is a little out there, I’d recommend a shorter more popular one, I don’t think guys that get tattooed girls even rock that haircut.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 08:20 AM
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So true, a lot of guys judge woman’s capacity to do something according to their own moral standards and options. “She’s crying right ? that means it must be serious !” - meanwhile chad just told her he doesn’t want to commit while her orbiters make her feel better. “(false) Rape charges ? Man that guys a monster !” - She felt bad about the sex because he pushed and didn’t run enough comfort game, her rep is in jeopardy, or she’s trying to play a chess match with him. Even women will agree that …
/r/askTRP28/07/20 07:39 PM
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Have you tried getting them to workout with you or practice game ?
/r/askTRP28/07/20 07:32 AM
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Talent or high level skill comes off as good genes, could be something you spent a lot of time working on, but to people that haven’t seen the process it could come off that way, hence them liking you. I know what you mean about the “aura” I’ve seen some people who you can just sense their intelligence or popularity. It could also be the way you see them changing after you know all this.I remember seeing one guy after a festival, he wasn’t wearing anything that would make him stand out, was semi…
/r/askTRP27/07/20 09:02 PM
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I’ve read the side bar I’ll check over a few points though, it was a group conversation and she made an argument against religion. Not looking for a unicorn on tinder, just an example.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 07:04 PM
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This scene highlights some of the coldness well: https://youtu.be/oOavwvGUDTM This scene from gone girl too explains it: https://youtu.be/PaoQNDIf6pY A worthwhile movie since the husband and wife play against each other but both are quite smart. It’s funny I spoke to a lesbian who said she was one of the biggest “misogynists” she knew. Do you have any tips for running game at the pimp level or higher ?
/r/askTRP26/07/20 02:45 PM
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Where’s a good place to find them.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 12:58 PM
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That’s just how women are towards men they deem unattractive, you don’t even have to actively go for them. It could be how you appear e.g how you carry yourself, confidence, social skill etc. Best way to fix this is to do things that can improve your value, confidence and mindset. Which includes: -Going to the gym/exercising -Reading -Furthering your career etc
/r/askTRP25/07/20 11:43 PM
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Best ways to fix social skills? Experience?
/r/askTRP25/07/20 11:39 PM
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It took me a month to get through it, missing out days here and there. I also read The education of a bodybuilder (200ish) pages in one sitting which took a few hours. The writing isn’t long, if you dedicate 2 hours before bed and when you wake up, you can easily knock out 50 pages a day and can finish it within a month.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 01:28 PM
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I’ve had different people tell me I dress decently/ they like my clothes both girls and male friends. It depends on the style you’re going for, I was struggling with this for a while too, as I want to go into a professional career soon and liked the smart/casual appearance but I still enjoyed laid back cool styles. Places I usually shop at: -ASOS -Zara -Topman -Gap -TJ Maxx I wouldn’t recommend the malefashionadvice Reddits, a lot of their style seems liberal New York/cali fkboi vibes at best bu…
/r/askTRP25/07/20 12:32 AM
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I have exactly the same issue, I’m even the same age but I’ve kissed a few girls. I actually had low confidence/esteem. One thing that helped was to think in my mind that i am a regular person, no one cares, I’m just as regular as the people walking on the street towards me, of course some people you’ll be be fitter, taller, better looking than and vice versa etc, but this is what I have in my head. It increased my confidence a little and was less conscious. I also speak in a more monotone voice…
/r/askTRP23/07/20 12:59 PM
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I’m in college and introverted, while I can be assertive and even lead, I’m usually just to myself and focused on goals and projects. Those guys have probably had practice since they were young, I know an extroverted guy who I met when I was 13 to now and he’s still very talkative his skills have been refined and he’s better at talking to people. It’s unlikely to switch like that, and anyone who does is likely to have been extroverted but just had issues within themselves to solve. You can be a …
/r/askTRP23/07/20 12:36 PM
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Sarms?
/r/askTRP23/07/20 12:28 PM
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I’m in my early twenties, have you tried lifting, eating healthy and more often, reducing porn/masturbation, working and focusing on projects and getting hobbies. I used to feel low T, had a soft low voice, less confidence and was tired constantly. But once I sorted out my diet and lifted, my confidence came back, things bother me less, and I felt way less Lethargic more energetic which sounds like the testimonies people have given for starting trt, id work on getting this sorted out first befor…
/r/askTRP23/07/20 12:15 PM
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I’ve experienced this, I wonder if this is how women feel about men they find unattractive. It sucks, but fuck the fatties (not literally lol) and try tinder instead, had a few good matches despite getting less than 10 a week.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 12:08 PM
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I’m in the uk. Yeah I don’t go out much, but I’ve been to a few parties, and was actually part of the USA football team where I got some attention when I went out. Thanks for the advice I’ll check out the bar work.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 07:56 PM
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Yh that makes sense I’m 21, I lift (before covid), bjj/boxing societies need to do more though, read and planning on picking up the guitar. Edit: I’m a student too
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:57 PM
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Any tips for improving this ? Games people play was a useful book, but how would I go about learning this. In a similar spot i struggled to form a consistent group outside of people I knew from highschool.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:57 PM
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Yes, excellent datasheets.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 04:34 PM
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Investigate further, set up a date and see how it goes. I had the same thing happen with a girl I was talking to, I implied she liked me, she was sarcastic about it then later I had my hand on her ass and we were kissing. She called me b and I wasn’t into it, seems like bro or cuz. Eventually she didn’t seem into it and we went our separate ways. Try meeting up with her.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 09:58 PM
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Illimitable man blog is good.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 09:50 PM
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Depends, I play pickup basketball in a similar area but people are much more respectful, if there are aggressive players you have to dial it up to beat them. Understand the other people though how do they react when you use the equal force. You pushed him, this was an overt challenge so he reacted, what he should have done was what you did after the punch and toned it down. Use your judgement, find another court, another time or continue playing if you know you won’t be getting into an even wors…
/r/askTRP21/07/20 06:24 PM
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Here’s a sidebar pdf: https://theredarchive.com/askTRP%20Sidebar%20-%20A3%20-%20Times%20New%20Roman.pdf Goes through everything you need atm.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 01:14 PM
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Women usually give IOIs first.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 08:10 AM
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-Abundance mindset -Can protect girls against other threats -Usually socially dominant (ties into frame and confidence) -Appears higher value -Displays traits that show higher chance of offspring survival e.g risk taking. There’s an article on how women want bad boy sperm but not long term hence Alpha Fux Beta Bux.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 07:16 PM
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As other posters have said you have to both strategise and push through it. It’s the challenges and tough times that forge you into a tougher/ more capable individual and eventually a more attractive man. I usually look at what the issue is, I’m 21 and recently had a few financial issues. Try not to whine and get upset at the issue you’re facing, understand what you’re going through and while it may be hard but refrain from indulging in those feelings, if you really have to, ensure that you don’…
/r/askTRP20/07/20 12:02 PM
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You said you’ve always been a sensitive guy, I’ve had people describe me as cold/emotionally reserved but I can see what you mean. Do you go to the gym and what’s your diet like ? I’ve found that eating well esp large and multiple meals and working out impacts your hormones which effects your mood in turn. I’d also recommend meditation, helps with clearing your mind of stress or angry thoughts. You’re 31, why haven’t you been working on this beforehand? Good news is that it’s a straightforward i…
/r/askTRP20/07/20 11:45 AM
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Yeah I’m actually still in the bitter/anger phase looking to improve. This is a good post and made sense of a few things from the female perspective I don’t think I suffer from the low T and I work out, but the social skills and getting tooled is something I need to improve on.
/r/seduction20/07/20 11:29 AM
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900 fuk. How is that for you ? Like do you find yourself being more confident than most people.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 10:25 AM
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Some girls are like this, esp if they had brothers, or come from an area where ball busting is common or they have that personality, I once had a girl who would be resistant and wanted to have verbal sparring matches but would pull over when ever I called her and told her to do something or act submissive. Wouldn’t next yet. Keep talking.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 09:16 AM
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Like someone else said, there could be a lot of factors at play we don’t see. Could be genuine but sounds like she either wants an orbiter, or to keep you in contact for after she rides more dck.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 07:40 AM
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Get the strap(on) !
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:13 AM
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Thanks, I’m doing m this but it seems to be a pattern.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 10:04 AM
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Roosh Rollo Tomassi Andrew Tate RSD Nameless
/r/askTRP11/07/20 11:51 PM
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You look normal from your videos. I’m 21, my lifts aren’t that good but a little higher than the posts you’ve made and I’m not big. You likely don’t need trt or other things, focus on improving diet and increasing lifts, you could make more gains. I know what you mean with the girl thing I don’t usually get sad, I got angry, but it’s pointless to adopt this mindset and it wastes energy accept that this is how they behave to people they perceive as low value or they don’t like. That doesn’t mean …
/r/askTRP11/07/20 11:16 PM
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Apparently Will Smith gave the guy his blessing, which is interesting. As much is I like and respect Will Smith. If anyone else did this they’d be called a cuck.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 09:27 AM
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Got 17/20. Man I missed out on one because I wasn’t fully engaged fck. Not sure how accurate this test is, I still struggle with social game. I can somewhat read tone. But need more practice with it. This makes sense though, I saw a tweet which spoke on guys that went monk mode unknowingly and improved themselves financially, but had poor social skills and physiques which caused them issues despite their money. All of these should be paid attention to, maxed if possible.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 12:37 AM
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In the states ? and this is the plan.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 08:12 PM
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Yes, I game other girls, and am talking to some from tinder/apps. I don’t even think about her that much I just don’t like other guys w/ her feels like they’re getting one up on me, fuck that. Maybe I need to change my mindset.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 07:58 PM
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Men’s intelligence can both create and destroy, Cartels, Governments, Gangs created Rome.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 11:33 PM
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I see the point you’re making, and ive seen the effect “bad boys” have on girls, do you have any examples of these amoral situations.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 11:32 PM
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I’m on tinder, talk, I usually approach, but there’s still a lot of shit I need to get together. Game could be added to social skills practice.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 09:24 PM
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Am in a similar situation, people can be judgemental and either insecure about their own status or delusional and can do no wrong. I recommend reading the illimitable man blog he explains the necessity of knowing how to deal with people like this. Don’t let attitude influence your state, and don’t attempt to change their minds unless they want to, wasted time that could be spent elsewhere.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 08:08 PM
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https://www.google.co.uk/amp/s/illimitablemen.com/2015/02/08/machiavellian-thinking-vs-conventional-logic/amp/ I’d recommend this post, goes into what you’re talking about.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 05:21 PM
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Good advice in this thread. It seems like someone put down your reputation in the group, it may have been your ex girlfriend. Were there signs of disloyalty before this happened, there usually are indicators of a groups attitude towards you.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 05:10 PM
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Haven’t bought any yet but started looking into this topic. I’ve tried out: A man - Mugler ( People said it would be distinct and it is, great smell but after a while it disappears) 212 vip - Caroline Herrera (Nice woody sea smell after it settles, calming too, can see it being worn casually and not just on nights out) Man in black - Bvlgari (will definitely buy this one ) scent was long lasting and good, I’ve heard it referred to as a mature spicebomb I would say they’re similar but I prefer th…
/r/askTRP27/06/20 05:07 PM
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Any posts on this I’ve read about it before.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 12:24 PM
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Watch out for signals next time, before you do it.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 10:29 PM
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Practice, and work on improving yourself, in the gym, career wise (interships), hobbies too you'll have a lot to talk about and be able to relate with more people.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 10:27 PM
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To some extent, I know someone with no instagram, 17 likes on their facebook profile picture with an attractive girlfriend. It's an attraction trigger, if the girl values status or is in a place which values it then she'll go after that.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 10:09 PM
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Pussyhack already said it, strong chance she’s fucking other men. You don’t owe her anything and her you.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/20 08:51 PM
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Previously wrote down a longer paragraph, but deleted it accidentally. Fk. But yes, I'd say this is on the money, I do have issues with not having control over a situation, and could come to terms with that. I think that if I focus on changing myself, I could exhibit control over my habits and environment. With the individual, they tried to sabotage me and failed in the end, we were both competent and the project was a success. I'm starting to realise that most people have phases were they think…
/r/askTRP07/06/20 04:17 PM
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Thank you, the quote is pretty accurate, I’ve found myself getting more and more stressed due to holding anger and internalising it, the worst thing is when you bring it to other relationships too. It’ll take time tho.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 11:23 AM
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Lame troll comment, no one wants to read through a wall of emojis here, I do agree they could be effective for text game, not when sharing information and discussing things on here, different people have different styles, some of the methods used are to communicate the vibe of the interaction.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 01:35 PM
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Like most people have said it's for control, if there are principled Alpha men in charge of most households with a genuine benevolent patriarchy, they're harder to manipulate and coerce. However when majority of women are "empowered" and placed in leadership positions in the house and men are beta and subordinate to them, their household is more likely to inhabit an emotional state, as most women are like that, this makes them easier to manipulate and subdue since majority of decision making is …
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:31 PM
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Wow, how did everyone else react ?
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:14 PM
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Hang out with other masculine men and see if you can find role models/mentors in the form of teachers, bosses, coaches or older family members/friends, look at their mannerisms and approach to the world. I’ve found that by verbally sparring or “shooting the shit” with other guys that are your friends and understand it’s just sparring, causes your confidence increases, and you're more masculine in your demeanour. Picking up a sport( team one like football, soccer, rugby, hockey, boxing) is a grea…
/r/askTRP12/03/20 07:02 PM
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Yeah, this seems like the most straight forward answer. OP You said the guys invite you out smoke/lunch, are you part of the group ? and are you acquainted enough to just go with them without needing to be invited. Odds are the girls have spoken about you behind your back and for some reason are shunning/avoiding you, at least as a group. Individually there is no pressure to avoid you as other girls can't see their behaviour, it seems to not be something personal but a decision. Have you tried s…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 06:31 PM
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Pretty much the main takeaway. Video was posted under title of "betas with girls", seems like a good way to learn what not to do.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 10:37 PM
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