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| 2 | Has a target ever realised what you're doing?Using exact wording is easily recognizable and lame. If you were trying to pick me up, however, and used things like kino escalation and indicators of value that I am aware of, it's still charming and I wouldn't call you out. Things like touching and showing off have been used for socialization long before "pickup" became a thing. | /r/seduction | 09/07/11 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Ladies: Stop being clingy after sex because apparently the whole "want what they can't have" thing works on guys -- whether you want it to or not.Why? Are you ugly? Bad in bed? Boring? Ha, none of the above. If I sleep with a guy and then act uninterested, he might think he was though. He might think my losing interest was a result of him being, for example, bad in bed. What will make me want to come back for more is the total package... Are you saying that acting uninterested wouldn't help much then? It wouldn't really matter? | /r/seduction | 09/07/11 07:51 AM |
| 1 | A quick note on eye contact.As a female, I must say that intense eye contact is a pretty good indicator of interest (much like staring) and lets a girl know you like to look at them. However, it's a very fine line between showing interest and being creepy/lecherous. I think this could work for a PUA who's very good-looking and the opposite of try-hard in all other areas. | /r/seduction | 09/07/11 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Ladies: Stop being clingy after sex because apparently the whole "want what they can't have" thing works on guys -- whether you want it to or not.This is really interesting. Logic tells me that acting uninterested after sex would just make the guy assume it was a one time thing and move on. Gentlemen, if we did act interested, would this make you want to come back for more? | /r/seduction | 09/07/11 07:41 AM |
| 1 | I'm making all the plans... is something wrong?How enthusiastic is she about meeting up? It could be that she's being nice. Or, perhaps she's old-fashioned, trying to seem "busy," or avoiding being clingy. Sometimes I want to steer so clear of being clingy or annoying that I act overly distant. | /r/seduction | 21/06/11 07:19 AM |
| 2 | How do I approach a girl whose in a large, cohesive, mostly male group?Agree with fowleryo, you need to get the guys' "okay" if you don't want to dive-bomb. Most will be protective of her and probably also secretly desire her, if she is in fact a 9. Possibly one of them are an ex. You could also wait for her to go to the bathroom and catch her alone on her way back, but you have to make it look like a coincidence. | /r/seduction | 21/06/11 07:16 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Trying out Mystery Method from Revelations for the First Time; F-close & #Close another girl (same night)As a woman, I would say that the pre-selection thing definitely happens, especially with pairs. If I am out in a two-some it's usually because both of us want to meet people and not intimidate guys with a huge, unapproachable crowd. Also, push-pulling works well with me. If you do it to a girl who's alone, she may not be up for it and the negs might cause her to leave. But with a friend there there's something to prove, and it's almost a victory to win this guy over if he's not totally into you … | /r/seduction | 21/06/11 07:07 AM |
| 1 | How to know if she is into me or just being nice?If she didn't like you, she probably wouldn't have accepted dinner. At least, if she was decent. If she's after the free dinner, you probably don't want her anyway. If she flirts during dinner, compliments you, or says anything non-platonic, she's into you. You should broach a few slightly sexual/flirty topics to test the waters. Try bantering with her, keep it funny and light. If she returns sexual banter, you're in. | /r/seduction | 18/06/11 08:49 AM |
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