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| – | Women vaughly labeling the average guy a "pushover" and "not assertive enough" is causes men to over compensate in dangerous waysWhile I definitely do see the uptick in road rage, I don’t think it’s just a man thing. Generally my boyfriend drives way safer than I do (aside from the occasional heavy foot), and is always commenting on how I need to leave more space before getting over, get off the person in front of me’s ass, etc. Before my sisters car broke down, she was a far more aggressive driver than I even am, and a lot of our female friends are the same while our boyfriends sit in the passenger seats with their eyes … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Young men (18-25) must bring something to the table, young women just bring themselves.That was what women did generations ago because it was women’s only choice, they weren’t given the option to work. Women HAD to rely on men. Now some men (and even some women, despite it being against their best interests) are trying to bring this back via things like “tradwives” or even the extremely politicized message of “everyone’s losing their family values, kids need a mom at home and a dad to pay the bills” Most women don’t want to find a man to rely on, because that puts their partner in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 04:30 PM |
| 7 | Young men (18-25) must bring something to the table, young women just bring themselves.I always laugh when I see this being said. When I started dating my boyfriend, i wasn’t in a great place but I had a nice car and was making decent money. He was living in a barn, with no income. He even asked me why I was with him one day, and I told him “Someone who makes me happy is worth a lot more to me than anything of monetary value. I’d rather be happy with nothing, than have everything else and be miserable.” We’ve come up a lot since then, but this shits just goofy to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 03:17 AM |
| 1 | What's the deal with women and height preferences?There’s nothing like this for guys Man, you can go online and see guys talking about how the second a woman turns 30 she’s “useless” because she’s no longer “breedable”, which is both disgusting & misinformed. I just saw a post about a woman getting shamed by every man she went on a date with because one of the first things they all asked her was her body count, and it was a body count that if a man brought up another man would one up. There’s tons of men who only want a “trad wife” who will sub… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 08:54 PM |
| 1 | What's the deal with women and height preferences?There’s nothing like this for guys Man, you can go online and see guys talking about how the second a woman turns 30 she’s “useless” because she’s no longer “breedable”, which is both disgusting & misinformed. I just saw a post about a woman getting shamed by every man she went on a date with because one of the first things they all asked her was her body count, and it was a body count that if a man brought up another man would one up. There’s tons of men who only want a “trad wife” who will sub… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 08:46 PM |
| 1 | You only think women’s standards are unrealistic because you view them as a monolith.Do you think the results portion is going to say the opposite of what the summary did? Lol Since that one wasn’t good enough for you, here’s an entire study from 2021 that had the same results. https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0250151 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 08:27 PM |
| -4 | You only think women’s standards are unrealistic because you view them as a monolith.While I don’t explicitly go for short guys (I don’t explicitly go for anyone, I’ve been with guys shorter than me while I’m 5’2. This alone disproves your idea that women are a hive-mind NPC’s who are only interested in “top-tier” tall, rich men. No, they weren’t rich either. Oh, but no matter how many women tell you things like this you’ll just rationalize by telling us we’re “virtue signaling” or whatever else. Little hint here- decent women who like men for more than their looks don’t like me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 01:01 AM |
| 1 | You only think women’s standards are unrealistic because you view them as a monolith.Source? According to the studies I’ve seen, while both genders do care about looks, men care more about them than women. https://academic.oup.com/qje/article-abstract/121/2/673/1884033?redirectedFrom=fulltext&login=false “Women put greater weight on the intelligence and race of their partner, while men respond more to physical attractiveness” Side note- is it just me that’s no longer able to hyperlink in this sub? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Highly unethical advice from a semi retired man whore, that is the true one pillIf you live in the US, almost every state has a good samaritans law, which means that when 911 is called because of an overdose the police can’t charge you for any drugs in the home (in some states it could be anything else, basically the goal of the bills were to stop people from not calling 911 in these situations out of fear of getting arrested) Call 911, after you’ve called 911 if you’re still anxious (which is understandable good samaritans law or not) have someone who’s not doing rescue br… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 01:14 AM |
| 0 | Highly unethical advice from a semi retired man whore, that is the true one pillIf y’all are gonna do this, please learn about harm reduction for the substances you’re using. If you’re using alone, take advantage of resources like neverusealone.org , and when using with others carry narcan on you (you can find some in your area, usually free at harmreduction.org )& know how to use it because you never know what else the people you’re with do. Learn about your states version of the Good Samaritan law so that nobody is afraid to get someone help in an overdose. Also learn abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 01:04 AM |
| 0 | Who told men that being nice will get them laid?It is attractive to a lot of women, but I don’t think that’s the point of this post. I think the point was that people shouldn’t be being nice so they can get their dicks wet, and should just be being nice because it’s the right thing to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 04:20 PM |
| 1 | How is misandry different from other forms of biogtry in a way that make it acceptable?Blogs aren’t credible sources my dude, biased or not. Yet, a biased blog is even less of a credible source. Like please just look up what a credible source is. The mythopoetic men’s movement had nothing to do w psychology, hm? https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mythopoetic_men%27s_movement , okay lol I love that you used my quote, and then proved my point. If you think showing emotions other than anger is feminine rather than human I feel bad for you, and everyone else you’ve told this to. bold con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 06:37 PM |
| 18 | This explains a lot: Majority of Women declined sex due to body insecurities, dating app findsThere’s been tonnns of posts about women upset that they saw their boyfriend scrolling through a bunch of thirst traps from women who look nothing like them, and when asked about it the guy says that he just wishes she looked more like them. I’m not saying this is an every man issue, or that it’s just a man issue, but it’s definitely an issue and a valid concern for people to have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 08:16 PM |
| 13 | This explains a lot: Majority of Women declined sex due to body insecurities, dating app findsChances are she’s actually enjoying it, but is insecure about something on her upper body (either tummy or tits usually) and doesn’t want it to be seen. If you think there’s a chance she may not be enjoying herself and just doing it because she feels like it’s a “duty” she has to fulfill, you should probably check in and make sure everything’s okay. Having sex not because you’re turned on, but because you feel like you have to not only hurts, but can make you feel gross, used, depressed, and a w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 08:10 PM |
| 8 | This explains a lot: Majority of Women declined sex due to body insecurities, dating app findsOne of the most common reasons for me not wanting to have sex with my partner is when I’m just not feeling good about myself. Either I haven’t been able to shower, or I’m just kinda depressed and feel both mentally and physically gross. I can’t think of a single time I’ve not wanted to sleep with him because of him, it’s always either I’m in pain right now, or don’t feel good about myself- both of which make me unable to get in the mood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Women say to look for signals to approach, yet there are no universal signals to approach a womanyou need a plight sooo bad to justify your hatred of men which fills the void of family and relationships in your life If I hate men, and have no relationships or family in my life why am I waiting for my boyfriend to get home so we can go over to my families house for dinner? Lol Y’all can’t hear anyone talk about any issues that relate to men without taking it as “I hate all men” which is not only not the case, but something I clarified on earlier. By those standards I could say you hate all w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Women say to look for signals to approach, yet there are no universal signals to approach a womanI stopped reading at the “why would all of those things exist” because none of them do Someone’s spent a lil too much time on men’s rights subreddits who are trying to say that women gaining equal rights = men losing rights There’s quite literally men that talk about how y’all are goofy as hell because the only people that would be hurt by anyone gaining equal rights are people that are taking advantage of those people. No one is assaulting men in public for coming near us, we’re smiling and giv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 04:41 PM |
| – | Men are not malicious for being centered around sexLmaooo my dude, if you’re concerned about throat cancer maybe get a fucking std test before sleeping with someone? This is the goofiest out for not pleasuring your partner I’ve ever seen. the “pleasure” of sex should be mutual That’s literally my entire point. Instead of making it possible for it to be pleasurable for her, you’re getting mad at her for not wanting to let you shove your dick in her dry and cause actual tears to her vagina. This is such a selfish ass point of view. “I’ll only touc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 10:51 PM |
| – | Men are not malicious for being centered around sexI feel so bad for anyone you sleep with if you think being asked to turn your partner on is “making you jump through hoops” Generally when a woman asks you to get her in the mood, she’s asking for some fucking foreplay my dude. I’m sure you wanna get your dick sucked, but going down on her is “making you jump through hoops” Jfc, this sub makes me more thankful for my partner every fucking day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Men are not malicious for being centered around sexMan, Fuck these manipulative pieces of shit. How dare they want to actually be turned on rather than just be used as a living fuck doll? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Men are not malicious for being centered around sexThere’s nothing wrong with wanting to have sex, most people want to have sex. It’s even okay to want just a sexual relationship with nothing else. What is wrong though is only wanting sex from someone and not being clear about that. Unfortunately a lot of men (and I’m sure women too) do this, and a lot of people aren’t able to see the difference between “a lot” and “all” or “wanting sex” and what’s happening here. Also, a lot isn’t any specific number, nor does it mean most. 1% of men would stil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Women say to look for signals to approach, yet there are no universal signals to approach a womanYou hit the nail on the head with the “it also depends on the context and in the guys approach” If I’m alone and some guy approaches me, gets way too close in my personal bubble, is hovering over me, being pushy, finding excuses to get around all my “no’s” then yeah, I’m just gonna be like “oh okay, sure here’s my number” and give him a fake number If I’m alone and a guy approaches me, stays at a reasonable distance (I’m really only talking like 2-3 feet here, so I don’t know why that’s hard for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Women say to look for signals to approach, yet there are no universal signals to approach a womanIf you refuse to believe men call us whores for not fucking them, you’d be shocked by the shit that gets posted to r/creepypms Also, how are we overestimating the probability when only 9% of women haven’t been sexually assaulted? Like does it have to be 100% for it to be something to take seriously? Also, as for your car accident analogy, there’s not a greater chance you’ll be struck by a car than sexually assaulted- but like another commenter said, we still aren’t just blindly wandering into th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Women say to look for signals to approach, yet there are no universal signals to approach a womanIt may just be that my town is full of disgusting people, but considering I can talk to people from all over and we have similar stories I’m not so sure about that. I ended up quitting my first job at 16 because I had so many people stopping on the side of the road to harass me, ask me to marry them, pull up way to close to me while I was standing on the side of the road doing my job, do everything in their power to make me uncomfortable, etc. I’ve had things put in my drink multiple times. Had … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 06:41 PM |
| 1 | How is misandry different from other forms of biogtry in a way that make it acceptable?too bad you’re wrong Did you really just use a blog as a source? Even better, a biased blog. My god, the research skills are strong with this one. It’s not letting me hyperlink, but an actual source: https://www.psychologyinaction.org/psychology-of-toxic-masculinity/#:~:text=The%20term%20“toxic%20masculinity”%20was,al.%2C%202012). I’ll admit I was wrong in one aspect, and that’s that it wasn’t coined by a psychologist but rather born out of a men’s self improvement movement that was full of psyc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 06:31 PM |
| 9 | Women don’t want men to have success in datingEh, I think it’s more that they don’t want to accept the advice given. The advice I’ve given was stop getting so deep into the black & red pill shit, because it’ll drive any decent woman off. Work on gaining a better understanding of social cues, Try to actually be friends with women rather than just fucking them, and go to therapy and work on yourself (which I think everybody should be doing). I’m sure some of y’all do one, or even some of these- but a lot of the posts make it pretty clear that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 03:10 AM |
| – | Women don’t want men to have success in datingThere’s so many flaws with this argument. This is an anonymous app. I could tell you I hate every man on the planet and wish they’d all die and it wouldn’t affect my personal life one bit. Statistically speaking people are more honest when hidden behind anonymity, and people on this sub have admitted that women on Reddit agree more that the shit you guys think is important is far from what’s most important. That should lead anyone to the educated guess of more honesty behind anonymity+ more agre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 03:02 AM |
| 8 | Women don’t want men to have success in datingThe thing is though that when women do tell them, the majority of the time we’re told we’re either wrong, lying, or trying to manipulate them. So many of these dudes would much rather listen to what another man who’s probably never been near a woman in his life tells him is the way to get women, than what a woman tells them is attractive to her and her group of friends. Hence why the general idea of what women find attractive (from this sub) matches up with the chosen for male viewing pleaser ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 02:53 AM |
| 12 | Women don’t want men to have success in datingWomen: tells you that women don’t really want what the manosphere tells you they want Everyone in this sub: LIES. Why would I ever listen to you, a person of the same gender I’m trying to attract, giving me advice about what is attractive to said gender? Manipulative pieces of shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 02:45 AM |
| 5 | Women say to look for signals to approach, yet there are no universal signals to approach a womanI don’t think I’ve ever seen someone so close to a point, while still missing it. We should be able to clearly say no when needed. Unfortunately far too often when we do, it leads to us being verbally or even physically assaulted. The most common response I get to telling someone I won’t sleep with them is being called a whore, and that’s on the calm side of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 02:05 AM |
| 4 | Women say to look for signals to approach, yet there are no universal signals to approach a womanJust the first example to pop into my mind. A guy is telling a girl she’s pretty and needs to smile more. Rather than tell him its fucking rude to tell someone what facial expression they should make, which would probably lead to more of him trying to converse with her (asking why is it rude? Or worse following her when she tries to walk away because now he’s mad/his ego is bruised), she just smiles and says thanks, I hope you have a nice day and walks away. ETA: this same example could be used … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 02:01 AM |
| 7 | Women say to look for signals to approach, yet there are no universal signals to approach a womanIf someone is smiling awkwardly when they’re feeling awkward, but also when they’re nervously excited- take in the context clues. This isn’t mixed signals, this is the same expression meaning multiple things. Mixed signals is telling you they want to be with you one minute and then telling you they can’t stand you the next. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 01:57 AM |
| -1 | Women say to look for signals to approach, yet there are no universal signals to approach a womanMaybe if you didn’t only approach women with the intention of having sex, and rather approached from a starting a friendship standpoint- they wouldn’t be so uncomfortable. I have no problem when men approach me and start a friendly conversation, but when I can tell a man is just trying to hit on me it makes me uncomfortable and I just want to get out of there. I swear the whole “friend zone” idea ruined things for everyone, because now y’all are just trying to go straight to a sexual or romantic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Women judge men based on how popular they are with other women which leads to a cycle where a few fuckboys get to pump and dump many womenI love that a man who’s never been through this before answered - because you’ve got so much experience As someone who has been in casual relationships with “fuck boys” because we both wanted the same thing, been manipulated and fucked over, been called a whore, and also been a victim- you’re so fucking wrong. Have you ever considered that maybe, some people are actually just shitty people that lie about their intentions and that isn’t always women? But hey, thanks for the laughs at this wild as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 01:03 AM |
| 0 | Women judge men based on how popular they are with other women which leads to a cycle where a few fuckboys get to pump and dump many womenI think you’re confusing whatever you’re saying here with women being cautious about men who have no female friends. It does seem to be a thing to almost vet guys by whether they have platonic female friends, and how they treat those friends. If he’s spending little to no time around women, and hitting on women every time he is spending time with them- he’s probably only around me, just like he’s only around them, for sex. If he’s had long standing friendships with women, spends time with them a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 12:58 AM |
| 1 | How is misandry different from other forms of biogtry in a way that make it acceptable?You clearly don’t look at how it’s used. You clearly don’t realize toxic masculinity is a term coined by a psychologist to describe ideals society has about what masculinity should be, and how these ideals contribute extensively to male suicide rates. That, and there’s a difference between what a word actually means and the way people use it. Every word known to man is incorrectly used by somebody, some more than others of course- but that doesn’t mean the actual meaning of any of them are chang… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 02:38 AM |
| – | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"My dude, she clearly says “the man that saves me is a friend of mine and he was watching from the balcony”. Her friend obviously was able to tell that creepy dude was making her uncomfortable and told creepy dude she was his niece. I do this same thing with random girls when I see dudes creeping them out often. Unfortunately creepy people have a tendency of not respecting people not wanting to talk to them, but adding the “im an authority figure for this person” will sometimes scare them away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 05:14 PM |
| 1 | How is misandry different from other forms of biogtry in a way that make it acceptable?I already went over the differences between toxic masculinity and masculinity itself being toxic, the two are not one and the same Also, buddy - I go to therapy weekly. Plus, if I were spewing bullshit about how nobody would ever like me because of my physical attributes while never even considering it had something to do with my personality I hope someone would suggest I go to therapy and work on myself. This isn’t sexist at all. When I come across a pink pill woman, I’ll say the same thing to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 05:01 PM |
| 1 | How is misandry different from other forms of biogtry in a way that make it acceptable?remember kids masculinity is toxic Toxic masculinity is not at all saying that masculinity as a whole is toxic, it’s saying that society telling men that they have to be emotionless rocks of people to be masculine is toxic and the reason why the male suicide rate is so high. I also never said that there’s no women that contribute to this issue, it’s a society issue- not just a men’s issue. The thing is that there are tons of women who are attracted to emotional men, hence why we keep telling you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"“I didn’t mean you could sit there” is a very clear “I don’t want you to sit here” He completely disrespected that, and she got reasonably uncomfortable. He wasn’t socially inept, he was a grown ass “25-30 year old man” who understood that he was making her uncomfortable. Not only did she tell him she didn’t want him there, it would’ve been impossible not to tell from the look on her face alone. There’s a reason he left as soon as she said she was live, and it wasn’t because he was being respect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"Women literally get murdered for saying no to men. She already said no once, that should’ve been enough. There was absolutely no reason for him to keep pushing it. This is the same type of energy that victim blamers have when someone gets raped and it’s “oh well, she said no but she didn’t scream loud enough. Oh well she didn’t fight him hard enough”. No. Mean. No. Asking again is disrespecting that boundary, and if the answer changes no it fucking didnt. The original answer was no, and you push… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 06:14 PM |
| 4 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"My dude, you have no fucking clue what you’re talking about. I live and grew up in the opioid capital of the country. I’m sure you can assume the kinda shit that goes on around here. That’s why I’m so fucking strict about my boundaries, and why I encourage others to be. People aren’t soft because you don’t know how to take no for an answer, soft is when you can’t take no for an answer so instead you sit there trying to get a girl who clearly isn’t fucking interested to talk to you and then go on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"Plus, if she can’t handle talking to people in person how does she have a guy friend in real life to come up and check on her at the end of the video? Like y’all are just goofy. Looking for any excuse to make things the fault of the person who’s having their boundaries violated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"Also, at the end of the second video it shows her male friend talking to her. She clearly doesn’t have any issue with either talking to people in person, or talking to men. It definitely looks like the issue is with having her boundaries ignored. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 05:54 PM |
| 5 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"She was in the middle of doing something and didn’t want to be interrupted. She told him that she didn’t want him to sit with her. He completely disregarded her saying she didn’t want him sitting with her and sat with her anyway. Any reasonable person would be wondering “if he doesn’t respect that, what else is he not going to respect?” You can clearly see that as soon as he sat down after she told him not to is when she got uncomfortable. If you think people need help because they get uncomfort… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"You always being uncomfortable while approaching strangers is one thing, but if you can’t approach strangers without always making them uncomfortable I’m genuinely concerned for what you’re doing while approaching | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 05:50 PM |
| 8 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"She literally said “I didn’t mean you could sit, I meant you could take the chair” Women are people, not “ultra shy anime characters”. When we say we don’t want you to do something, we mean we don’t want you to do it. Us saying no is not “part of the dance”, there is no fucking dance that involves no’s equaling yes’s, and if you think a no doesn’t really mean no you need to clarify. If you just assume you’re more than likely to at best be disrespecting the other persons boundaries, at worst be d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 05:47 PM |
| 10 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"I like how you only linked the second video though. Within 12 seconds of the first video she very clearly tells him that she meant he could take the chair, she didn’t mean he could sit there. Rather than taking the rejection and leaving he stayed and made her sit through a clearly uncomfortable conversation, when she was clearly uncomfortable from the second he went to sit down. He didn’t leave because he didn’t want to interrupt, he left because he knew that he completely ignored her boundaries… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 05:43 PM |
| 12 | Do women use the adjectives "creepy" "weirdo" "stalker" etc., as synonymous of "unattractive"?Most women do perceive them as creepy losers, unfortunately some romanticize them and that’s just so fucking insane to the majority of us that it gets sensationalized and turned into news articles, etc. When women were making TikTok’s about how hot Ted Bundy was the comments were full of other women telling the OP it was gross to romanticize a man who hated, SA’d & murdered women. To answer your question in the title- no. If I say someone’s being creepy I mean you’ve crossed the line of things t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 05:31 PM |
| 4 | How is misandry different from other forms of biogtry in a way that make it acceptable?Yeah, there’s a lot of toxicity here. I just have seen a ton of toxic masculinity specifically, personally. I think it just kind of goes along with the whole red pill ideology. I just wish these dudes would go to therapy & work on themselves rather than blame an entire gender for being shallow, and then telling other men that an entire gender is so shallow that “none of us ordinary men will ever have sex” but I guess the latter is easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 05:11 PM |
| 4 | How is misandry different from other forms of biogtry in a way that make it acceptable?This has nothing to do with what toxic masculinity is, but I see a ton of toxic masculinity in this sub. Yaknow, like y’all constantly sharing the idea that “no woman will ever talk to you unless you’re conveniently attractive or rich” or that women don’t like men who share their emotions. Sure, there’s some women like that but it’s not an every person thing- and I’ve seen so many posts talking about how this affects y’all’s mental health. Toxic masculinity isn’t an issue caused by one gender, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 03:04 PM |
| 1 | How is misandry different from other forms of biogtry in a way that make it acceptable?evil men can do far more evil than good men can do good Why is that? Good men could help just as many, if not more women than the evil men you mentioned harmed if they were to volunteer at a domestic violence/homeless shelter, or a nonprofit that helps victims of SA/DV. There’s so many ways to help a ton of women, not only by directly helping but by giving others hope- pretty much in the same but opposite way that the evil men you mentioned did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 03:00 PM |
| 2 | How is misandry different from other forms of biogtry in a way that make it acceptable?Seriously. The number of people that are able to mask their toxicity is nowhere near as low as this commenter thinks. If it was, there wouldn’t be so many people saying “they turned into a completely different person after we got married” This is honestly my biggest fear when it comes to marriage. Someone can be the best person on the planet, then all of a sudden turn into a toxic, abusive piece of shit. The worst part about this is that it happens all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 02:48 PM |
| 0 | How is misandry different from other forms of biogtry in a way that make it acceptable?Ordinary men are the ones who don’t scare me. In fact I have a lot of “ordinary” men in my life that I know wouldn’t hurt a fly, but if y’all saw them you’d say they’d never be able to get near a woman or all women would hate them. The ones in power, and the incels that are talking about how access to my body is a “basic human right” are the ones who scare me, and I think it’s pretty obvious why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 02:37 PM |
| 1 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a womanSince I’m already anticipating that I’m going to need to elaborate further on what is and isn’t creepy, I’m just going to do that now. Not creepy: going up to a woman and starting a conversation. Compliment something non sexual about her (is she wearing a band or movie tee? Leggings with a cool pattern? Did you hear her mention a show or game you like to someone she was talking to?). Asking her to spot you, or offering to spot her and not staring at her ass. Ask her for advice or help on somethi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 04:42 AM |
| 1 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a womanStep one is join clubs, hobby groups, etc. Step two is to go about approaching women in a non creepy way. If you feel offended by the guys that are getting talked down on for the way they approach women at the gym, I can guarantee step two is where you’re failing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 04:32 AM |
| 4 | Women Are Happier With Less Attractive Partners, Study SaysAnd you wonder why women don’t like y’all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 04:15 AM |
| 3 | The Percentage of Rape Victims Who Are Men, and the Percentage of Perpetrators Who Are Women, is Higher Than Most People ThinkThis 1000% I’ll never forget having guy friends bring up their CSA and all the other men in the room talk about how “lucky” they are to have “got laid by an older chick that early”, and I really think most (if not all) of them believe it (and that’s not on men, but society). Sexual assault/harassment is a huge issue that should be taken seriously, no matter what gender it’s happening to- and were definitely slacking on treating it properly on either end (although I also realize women have got a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areActually, this has already been responded to in r/askwomen and (surprise, surprise) the overwhelming majority are more concerned with personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areIf you know women can have a high emotional IQ then you should know personality characteristics & the way they’re treated can mean way more to a lot of women than physical appearance. Which is the huge flaw in the argument that only tall muscular men can get with women. Saying all women are the same and saying there’s so few women attracted to men that aren’t conventionally attractive that they don’t even show up as a statistic is essentially the same thing. There’s tons of studies that say wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areMost of these guys are nowhere near similar to me. You all have the same belief that women are low emotional iq and can only be interested in men based on physical appearance (as if there isn’t an entire sexuality based only on personality) That is being similar. Yeah, yeah women have super powers, age old fairy tale. Nobody said anything about women having superpower. All I said was that you guys are really bad at hiding your misogyny, awkward of not. There are some people (both men and women) … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 11:12 AM |
| 2 | 45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in personbecause most men don’t have anyone to communicate emotional needs or emotional anything really and traditionally had used a partner to do it. That’s why therapy exists. Women don’t inherently have people to communicate their needs to simply because they’re women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 02:42 AM |
| 1 | 45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in personI think when we think about this information, we also have to take into account the way the dating world is different for the younger generations. The norm is no longer approaching a random girl at the grocery store, but rather hitting her up online. Either one would be fine, but it’s really the way you go about it. I got with my boyfriend when he messaged me asking me out, but that was because he just respectfully asked if I wanted to go on a date with him & I was interested. On the other hand,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 02:37 AM |
| 1 | The real reason women hate when older guys get with younger girlsI feel gross seeing anyone with someone half their age because not only have I been the young girl with a creepy guy twice my age manipulating and taking advantage of me, but now that I’m an adult I realize that there’s no way in hell would I even hang out with someone a few years younger than me- let alone sleep with someone half my age. I see people 10 years younger than me and see babies, and everyone I’ve talked to about this who isn’t dating someone half their age agrees. It’s one thing to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areNo, that’s a similar group of people experiencing similar things. That’s still anecdotal. Broad studies include results from an extremely diverse group so that it can actually give a more realistic answer to what’s happening throughout the entire population. I took this out of my first comment because it felt mean to say, but it takes a special kind of woman to be able to hang around men who think they have no emotional iq and are only in any relationship (platonic or otherwise) for the other pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areand that would be considered anecdotal experience my friend, which is why it’s important to get information from more broad studies. We can’t expect our friend group of ten to accurately represent the extremely diverse population of almost eight billion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areAlso, we don’t think we’re unique for being attracted to a conventionally unattractive man. You do, because a good majority of the people here seem to think it’s impossible for a woman to be attracted to someone who’s not 6’11 with a 18 pack and a trillion dollars The only women I’ve met with preferences even remotely similar to that were women looking for sugar relationships, and the only one of those preferences that mattered was money, and both parties were well aware of the fact that that ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areHave you guys ever considered that we’re all just people, and peoples taste in other people is very complex and can’t be narrowed down to a gender specific “woman only like tall man with big dick” statement? By that logic I could say that men only care about a hole to fuck (and I mean, the posts here definitely support that argument) but I’ve done enough research and actual interacting with the opposite gender to know that that’s not true. Maybe get your statistics from less biased sources (or s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they are“When someone is unconventionally attractive, it means that they have multiple facial or other features that are outside the norm, yet they all somehow work together” That is quite literally the definition Where are y’all getting the definitions for the terms you’re using, or are you just making them up as you go? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 03:07 AM |
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