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Throwawayhelp551/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:03 PM
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Do you think if she backs away on her own and never even tells me about it and never pursues it I can trust her again? Or will she always have a crush on him even if things go sour or they are cold to one another from here on out?
/r/askTRP22/04/17 12:37 PM
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I'm not. That's what couples do...
/r/askTRP21/04/17 06:49 PM
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Ok, ok, ok. I'm seeing your point. I get it. I mean I'm thinking out loud here, but let's say I do stay and nothing happens, let's say he ghosts her and never texts her ever again. And things go good for a few months and we go back to being bf-gf again with all the bs social media nonsense thrown in there, if that guy ever pops up again, like how fucked would I be? Honestly, answer me that and then you'll have my opinion on the situation.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 06:23 PM
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Thanks fuckface, way to just be a fucking douche bag at the worst moment I've had in a long ducking time. It was a legitimate question sometimes guys always assume girls want to have sex when that's not the case. Is that so hard to see?
/r/askTRP21/04/17 04:33 PM
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So I take it I should at the very least delete my posts about gf and how great we are and how awesome she is being that it's not true. Right??
/r/askTRP21/04/17 04:32 PM
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If he finds out she's taken and doing this, how ducking cocky will he be and will he move in for the kill?
/r/askTRP21/04/17 01:59 PM
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Just answer my question bro.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 01:14 PM
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How so?
/r/askTRP21/04/17 11:41 AM
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You know they do say women sometimes get confused by guy's intentions, do you think that might be the case here? Like she doesn't know what he's after? Wouldn't a real date be drinks or movie and dinner? Not coffee? They're not related. Not related at all. She seems a bit more enthusiastic than her judging by the texts, but he's still pretty responsive. It seems like she texted him first, which means I think he either gave her his number or she asked for it? Anyway, nice fucking douche line abou…
/r/askTRP21/04/17 11:40 AM
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So that means she likely never even told him that she has a bf in real life??
/r/askTRP21/04/17 11:37 AM
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I don't think any girl would feel the need to "let him down easy" when it's some random dude. I could be wrong, but generally I would think a girl would say "I'm seeing someone" or "I have a boyfriend so I don't think that would be appropriate" if having a boyfriend was the reason she didn't want to hang out with the guy. She's not telling him about you because she doesn't want to scare the guy off, so instead she says she's "busy with friends" when she's hanging out with you. Think about it: if…
/r/askTRP21/04/17 11:36 AM
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Those are all good points. The stress alone has me anxious as fuck anyway. Last question, if this guy catches wind that she has a boyfriend, will he assume she was dtf? And what will he make of my facebook posts about us and how much I used to love her?
/r/askTRP21/04/17 11:34 AM
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How much of an ioi is it for her to not tell him about me? And to lie saying that she was busy with friends instead of being with me? Is that a rejection for him, trying to let him off easy or is that just trying to hedge her bets?
/r/askTRP21/04/17 11:32 AM
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Well it could just be a friend date and she might tell him when they're having coffee?
/r/askTRP21/04/17 11:31 AM
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Do you think she knows what she's doing or could it be an honest mistake?
/r/askTRP21/04/17 11:30 AM
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Will people just point and laugh at me? Like this other guy is a fucking model or some shit. How the fuck can I still be alpha in such a scenario?
/r/askTRP21/04/17 12:28 AM
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Should I ever take her ' I love you's' and your my bae bullshit seriously ever again? Or is it just a wash?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 11:25 PM
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I do have fucking dignity, I'm sorry I'm not more red pill, I'm a normal human being who just realized the girl I gave a fuck about is probably interested in someone else. I've been up all night and day because of this shit, do you honestly think I wish this wasn't just some fucked up dream? Jesus. Does that satisfy your questions bro? Will you now take my position seriously? Anyway. So as far as this other guy goes if he NCs her, what will she do and what will he likely do? Will he mock her in …
/r/askTRP20/04/17 10:36 PM
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Because reputation is important.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 08:57 PM
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What do you make of her telling her that she was busy with her friends when he asked her out last minute and that he knew she was probably busy? Was she letting him down easy by not saying she was with me or what the fuck is she getting at? And what do you make of her texting him first thing in the morning and really late at night? Have you seen those posts? Is she thinking of him when she's horny? Why isn't she thinking of me?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 08:56 PM
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I fully agree. I take it most people wouldn't view her innocently like she's just trying to make a friend then huh?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 07:31 PM
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If he bails, and never acknowledges her in public, do you think he's likely the type of guy to talk smack about me? Will he even care enough? A quick google image search leads to his instagram which verifies that he's a model, does this even matter to him? And to my gf, how does that fact change things? I say emotional because nothing has happened, it's all just emotional. What if he never follows through and never texts her again? See what I mean. He asked if she was free to chill, then she sug…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 04:26 PM
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Because why wouldn't it matter? A guy's reputation is a guy's reputation, and it's not something to be taken lightly. So what would he think or say?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 03:18 PM
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Even if nothing fucking happened before? Will everyone look at me like a dork behind closed doors if I stay with her and talk about how good of a girl she is on facebook? You know I've seen some guys do that and it works for them in the end.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:57 PM
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If he finds out on his own, how obvious will this be to him?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:56 PM
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What happens if he finds out and never fucks her, that doesn't let him off the hook as he can still talk shit about me and her when we're not around. Is that a likely scenario?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:56 PM
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Even if he never fucks her? Like what if I ran into him with her in public, would he just laugh or ignore her?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:55 PM
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What does it mean if she NEVER even mentioned me in person to him?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:31 PM
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What happens if he gives up on the girl, will he just laugh about it even if she was still with me?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:31 PM
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Yeah man. Not worth it at all. I've been up all night, stressing over this shit, just sitting here drinking my coffee I realized it's not worth it. But anyway, could you answer my question? Do you think I'm on the money or am I being ridiculous about this shit? Do you think if I let it continue and fawned over her on social media and he caught wind of it he would laugh his ass off and make fun of me and ruin my rep?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:04 PM
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Yeah I'm for real. So I'll ask again (a) should I delete that shit? And (b) what would the other guy make of it if he saw it?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:02 PM
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Do you think she laughs at my facebook and instagram posts about how much I loved her? If the guy finds out about me and her and sees them, how is he going to take it? Will he be laughing his ass off or what? Also should I delete all of them?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 01:49 PM
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That's what I'm going to do man. It's the only logical course of action. I mean how pathetic would it be if she fucked around on me, and I stayed. Better yet, what happens if Chad whateverthefuckhisnameis just gives up when he finds out she has a boyfriend and cuts contact. So what, I stick around and she lies to people about how much she loves me and I act like a sap and buy it all up? People talk, guaranteed if that guy found out he'd be calling her a whore and laughing about me being a loser …
/r/askTRP20/04/17 01:48 PM
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No, not working on a project together. He texted her earlier about when their paper is due and she decides to respond at that late at night. It seems sketchy if you know what I mean. Is her not mentioning me really that bad? On a scale of 1-10, is it really a 10?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 01:45 PM
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Thanks none the less. Could you comment on my last paragraph though? Thanks.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 01:29 PM
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Dude just answer my question. If she stays and acts like a good girlfriend then what does that mean? Even if nothing happened with 'Chad'? Would I still be some beta loser or would I retain my state of being?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 01:29 PM
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she has the perfect cover for what this actually is She can say it's a study meet since they're in class together. Only thing is that you know that's not true and it doesn't take reading her texts to know that. If she was actually meeting him for any other reason, she would've mentioned it to you. I suppose that's the same with her texts too right. Texting him at 2 am about school is really just a cover for her wanting to talk to him at those hours and maybe get the conversation sexual?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 01:28 PM
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Alright I'll play your game, what would be some real signs that he's giving her tingles or whatever you called it? What would she be doing or acting like? And if she's being affectionate with me, isn't that what matters?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 01:26 PM
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It's not ego, I'm looking for a way to counter that argument.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 01:02 PM
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What if she doesn't break it up within two months? And she stays and floats about me on social media (which is what's shes been doing)? Is she trying to throw me off her scent or fucking what?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 01:00 PM
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So how the fuck does she view me in comparison to him then? What am I, just the beta provider she laughs to herself about? She was texting him, it wasn't through facebook messenger. Also, you know how girls can be with this shit, they might feel like they're just making a new friend whereas the guy thinks he's getting something out of it. Although she has gone out of her way to say she was with friends instead of saying she was with me before in conversation which was sketchy to say the least. A…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:59 PM
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If they never mention it, then how into them are they? And if they don't mention it for months on end, can it ever be innocent?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:42 PM
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So I'm just the little option b here then? He's the Chad in this scenario? How would she treat me if it never works out between them? To be clear, it's not a beach date, it was just coffee near a place we live. And what I've noticed before is that she'll drone on and on about me on instagram or facebook, meanwhile she's doing this shit behind my back. Why even do that at all? Is she feeling guilty or is it not working out like she wants to with the other guy so she's trying to hedge her bets?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:32 PM
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Dude I'm not defending her, I just want an honest opinion on her doing these things. I'm not hamstring or whatever that means, I'm trying to come up with valid counterpoints when I bring it up and break up with her. So I'll ask again, what do I say to her if she drops something like that on me?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:29 PM
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That doesn't answer my question.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:21 PM
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Plate status is ridiculous. And it results in guys still be attached to girls who obviously aren't into them. Despite what posters say about being alpha, in the end they're just in the same half assed relationship they always were, but with the addition of some other guy blowing out their girl's lower back. Very few can pull it off. If anything I'd just NC and leave.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:17 PM
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If it doesn't work out, or he stops texting her, what will her next likely plans be?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:16 PM
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Devils advocate, what if she's just being nice and wants to be friends with him? What are the chances that's it, and she'll likely tell him over coffee and resume a platonic relationship?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:13 PM
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