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Im only here because I got injured and cant work... and boy, I dont like it here lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 05:49 PM
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Exactly. OP reads like something a heavily antisocial or autistic person would write and have zero understanding of how social interaction works
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:16 PM
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Thats okay. There's a lot of women out there, and im sure that people learn new perspectives in life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:14 AM
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Well if you look at the culture of South Korea, feminism isn't exactly acceptable there. Men still work 60 plus hour weeks, you may sit at your desk because your boss stays late. If you dont, you're probably not going to be around the company long. It's just the culture there. The same way that the water cooler talk, company events, and parties are here. Women are expected to do their part there. Whether they like it or not doesn't really matter. Most people in South Korea are miserable until th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:11 AM
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The DOJ has revised guidelines post 2011, I believe around 2016 to 2018 as women weren't being charged, arrested, or convicted at a similar rate. They looked at their data, and are now changing course. But pulling data from 15 years ago isnt exactly a standard practice of the here and now, unless you're showing a trending pattern with more than one year
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:55 AM
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As a buddy of mine put it, his parents are married for tax purposes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:41 PM
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If I took an aggregate of your posts over the last one hundred and eighty days, it would be obvious to everyone else. How your english went from a grade school level to a college level at random times, not understanding idioms, not using the correct syntax, and using only the verbage ai would use
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:22 PM
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I agree, the scale isn't exactly balanced anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:40 PM
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What are you talking about? Also, are you going to reply to everything I said, or do you do what the jehovah witness do and cherrypick specific things to frame your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:39 PM
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First, who sits there and watches an almost hour long thing on YouTube rather than going outside and you know... talking to people or actually doing it? How hard it is for men to do? Women are into casual sex, just not with him. Probably because he sits there and makes almost hour long videos about his online dating life. No one wants to hear that. It's called fishing out of the ocean, not the pond. I know you like to frame things a specific way to suit your narrative, but a lot of what you say …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:02 PM
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Or you know, it says nothing. Because as statistics go, garbage in garbage out. Why are you using AI for half of your post and replies and then what looks like running out of tokens? It obvious you're not the one writing half the things you post, you post in broken english. When you use AI, the writing becomes above what a middle schooler would write.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:53 AM
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Exactly. There's so little in person socialization, and not many younger people make a conscious effort to follow through with things, including dating. Before dating apps, or even when they were doing well, people didnt want to put their personal information online. Now it feels like people race to put all of their information online, and leave very little to the imagination
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:48 AM
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Because you actually have to socialize with people. Its more than just looking like someone else. I know this is hard for gen z to understand, since they have a phone glued to their hand. But looking great is only a small part of things. I look above average, even when I was overweight I still got a lot of action. It comes down to how you well you flirt with women. If you're not flirting with them in a bar or cant socialize in general you're going to have a hard time in general
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:51 PM
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That's like 80% of reddit. The other 20% come for niche interests, hobbies, and leave. It's very obvious that some of the people are afraid to actually socialize with others, or just dont want to practice at it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:41 AM
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Same with me. I ALWAYS clean up in bars. Online is terrible, and I would never believe that you just need to get good online. Online dating draws a specific personality, and it takes a specific skillset that avoids socializing in person. In a bar, you can't swipe on people and judge them based on a screen. I would think that if you asked a lot, if not a majority of the people who advocate to stick to online dating they would probably do badly in a bar. I can make a great looking profile for dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:37 AM
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You mean, go to a gym, a barber or stylist, on a diet, and a store with clothes? It's almost like those are BASIC things people do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:11 PM
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So why dont you look like them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:05 AM
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So what makes a guy hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:08 AM
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Exactly. Fortune favors the bold
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:02 AM
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I've personally known MANY conventionally attractive men who struggle with women, men who are are tall also included. I completely agree. People dont like to admit it, but sometimes people are more than just looks. It's hard for a lot of the people on here to grasp because they're in a rut with women, they're out of shape, in a job they dont like, whatever. That's never stopped any dude I've known from hitting on women, even when they were homeless... AND getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:21 PM
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Absolutely. I've done many, many, different jobs. My bosses basically told me to think on my feet. I had coworkers and other people around me who did the bare minimum, but were surprised when relationships fall into their lap, they didn't hey a great raise, no chance of moving up, all sorts of issues
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:56 PM
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Allison? Karen? You're so slanted against women its comical. The sources I try to cite for professional work are things that have reputable backing without a huge bias on them. If you started citing nature, jama, NIH, or any other ground level source this conversation would be different. Ive dealt with statistics for years and can tell you that you don't type at a college level, so you certainly don't have the subscriptions to the journals to that you posted. Just an FYI, most subscriptions aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:52 AM
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You sound exactly like the caricature of the manosphere. Taking any data, regardless of the larger study and taking an excerpt of it to twist their narrative. A lot of those studies from what I could read dont even show what you think they do. They didn't really break down who's fault it was, like you keep insinuating. All a lot of them showed were correlation between certain issues, rather than causation. You haven't actually shown any sort of causation, only correlation. Your proof is about as…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:32 AM
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No, the actual studies. Not some site that leads to sites that leads to snippets of paywalled studies of journals. Its very obvious at this point that you're using studies that at around 20 years old. While some may be relevant, a lot aren't at this point. Leaving studies beind paywalls and taking a few single sentences out for a quote just makes you look bad. I read what wasn't paywalled from that and it looks like a lot of it was reported through the DOJ and hospitals. When you decide to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:57 AM
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Is that anecdotal, or based on something more than your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:34 AM
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That's exactly what I've seen. I've dated single moms and they're great, loved being around their kids, but all parents are super protective about the kids for good reason
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:00 AM
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As much as people like to bitch about single moms, I personally dont mind them. They're very good at what they do. I've dated a couple, and it didn't work out. We're still friends, but I understand her priorities. Her kid and her life and at the top, and I was with her at the top. Single moms are people too. They're not some evil spawn, or leftover husk. They have real feelings, and while jokes are funny, that post is a bit hateful. Has that study been repeated? I mean, it shows a trend, sure. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:58 PM
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Well said. Its crazy that a lot of people call this a double standard or say its an option, or say its a potential match because they like you. Dating and sex aren't charity to be given to people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:03 AM
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You just showed its not an option though. If they don't want to do it, its not an option. Thanks for proving yourself wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:10 AM
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Okay, what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 12:57 AM
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You mean proper english? As in, how it's supposed to be written?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 12:50 AM
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Anyone can fuck a hippo is what you're saying. No everyone WANTS to fuck a hippo. It's not an option if I dont want to degrade myself and lower my standards to be with another person that I dont find attractive. I think this nuance is lost on you because you're using a hammer instead of a scalpel
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 12:43 AM
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And you're exactly why I make that point. Because people aren't a monolith, and when you treat people like stocks or numbers you have a bad time regardless of the outcome
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:08 AM
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OK chatGPT. It's past your bedtime since all you can do is spit out AI generated nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:04 AM
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I asked YOU where you read it. You said MOST, implying that more than 51% of people do. As in a majority. If online dating was really trending and hot, why is the match group's and bumbles stock doing so poorly? Most hedge funds have left that area as they see its a waste of time and money. This is a joke, in a battle of wits you're completely unarmed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:59 AM
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You'd have to go to all the PUA forums if you want a detailed explanation like that. You're so focused that you're right and demanding a complete and total explanation for anyone who questions you, while showing proof of nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:53 AM
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Thats true, if you cant talk to a person at a bar or in real life I guess. Where did you come up with that most people work remote, and all those other things you just said. Relationships started everywhere, just like they always have
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:50 AM
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Is this a serious post, or maybe you're upset or got turned down or something? Either way, this is literally 10/10 writing that I could only see on reddit. Telling people that you're at the top, and everyone else will get nothing, its like memes come to life. So how are you even going to prove what you're saying is true? Everyone should take what you say at face value? Not talking to anyone in person is the wrong approach
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:44 AM
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I mean there's plenty of guys who can talk a big game. But is there any follow through? Thats usually when the woman leaves. So lets take a normal man, and put them in a minimum wage job. One of those men has no ambition, no drive, and all they want to do is play video games, drink, vape, and hang out with their friends. The second person is in the same job, but he has ambition. He wants to move up to bigger things in life, and still doesn't follow through, that doesn't put him in the first cata…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:57 AM
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Sounds like you meant all wheel drive TSi
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:34 AM
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Are they though? Every south eastern women I've known who's married in the USA has sent half their money home and is a millionaire because of their work ethic. Not because they got off the plane
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:42 AM
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Sex is economics, it always has been. A woman has a product to market, i.e. her body. A man has his product, which is his ability to provide. The concept hasn't deviated, delineated, or become a derivative or this. It's that more and more people are burying their heads into their phones and the internet instead of going to a bar or going out and fixing the issues themselves. The women in other developing countries are pretty blunt. I know a few Phillipino and south east asian women who are marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:38 AM
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So you cant define what you mean by abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:12 PM
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What does fake women mean, also define abuse is in the scope of what you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:28 PM
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Yours is the first time I've seen it, I go on 4chan, reddit, onion... maybe its you man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:30 PM
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Pretty much. I dont hate women, but a lot of the modern dating things that women expect me to do don't align with how I feel. Talking to said women about these things usually ends badly, because I'm a man and it's part of being a man to court a women in their mind
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:28 PM
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It absolutely is. Her normal writing style is broken english that someone in jr high school. You can tell when she isnt using AI because the quality drops significantly, the english reads as though it's someone from a third world country who doesn't understand idioms, and have a basic grasp of the subtext of how the language is spoken. It's so formal, and there's a lot of words a normal english speaker wouldn't use in their everyday vocabulary at that education level. There's more than one tell …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:20 PM
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The same has happened to me. You can read all the responses on here and go to gym, restaurant, or bar and poll that many women and get a wildly different answer. I wouldn't take the responses here seriously, a ton of them are women who are jilted from someone in their life, or have axe to grind with men and use reddit to swing that axe. The moderators should be doing their job and stopping a lot of the hurtful rhetoric, but it seems like the river only flows one way here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:03 PM
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Its actually from what you're "not" writing, hence why I asked you to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:37 PM
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I did read it, you didn't explain it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:24 PM
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You didnt give examples, or even explain it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:18 PM
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Define toxic masculinity, sigma, a cool masculine way, aura farming, and qualify and quantify what you mean by these things. Just so everyone know exactly what you're defining when you talk about these things
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:54 PM
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Sure. First qualify and quantify the terms "aura farming", "toxic masculinity", and "toxic". Just so everyone including yourself is clear on what the defining things are and aren't in your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:08 AM
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What would work with valuing men as men? Going back to the 1960s to 1980s style of what men did. Having auto clubs, woodshop, welding clubs, baseball, and sponsoring mens events. Encouraging men to get out there and do something even if its only for an hour a week. Maybe paying for a monthly gym membership if they bring a friend. Things that bring guys together, and allow dudes to be dudes. I really loved when I could screw around and talk shit all day with other guys. When women who were a bit …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:10 AM
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You're not wrong, it's just a really uncomfortable analysis about society as a whole. When people start looking at it through that lens you start to realize that a lot of people are only there for the good times
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:58 PM
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I mean as soon as you get out of college, dating goes from a 3 to an 8 on how hard it is. Especially if you dont live in the south, or dont live in a huge metropolitan area, or anything like that. There's real issues with dating, and I've personally seen the landscape change over time. Women and men are less and less engaged over time. There's less in person things unless you're at a mall, and then everyone is on their phone so you're not even in person. People are already opting out of dating u…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:49 PM
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What? That means nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:36 PM
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Ive never understood that. No feminist has ever been able to coherently explain why I'm guilty of things that happened before I was born. A train stops with each getting on and off at each stop. Im sure someone might be guilty if they were a kid, and as a kid they smacked around women or something. But as a kid you also dont know better. Feminism has this crazy half cocked and half baked idea that so many men and women have fallen for that women have dont nothing struggle in the past, and men ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:34 PM
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Its no shocker that this happened. Society has more or less said with women there's tons of options from therapy to friends, to even specialized options in the workforce that cater to women. With men, its kind of that you need to just make things work regardless of how you feel about the situation. Women are pretty fair weather about men they aren't in a serious relationship with. When you look at a lot of women, a lot of their faults are shown as positives. Compare it to men, where a decent amo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:08 PM
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Exactly. A lot of women online have unmatched, walked away, or tried to guilt me into doing what they want. Is it really going on a date if I'm not going to enjoy my half of it? I know she will, because all she has to do is show and eat with the attitude some of the women I've talked to
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:29 AM
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Are those acronyms for computer parts?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:35 PM
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That's not what I said, that what you think is correct. Maybe you're overweight and upset guys aren't jumping for you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:17 PM
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I feel like you didnt read the article. Because it doesnt say that. Also, that's not expounding
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:15 PM
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When the state took the place of men in relationships and marriage, and feminisms attack on the nuclear family telling women that staying at home is wrong of course less women are going to get married over time. Feminism started the message in the 60s, and its no surprise that women are the main target for advertising in a lot of respects. Combining those two things when you have women at home with the PROMISE of a better life and of course people will jump on board. Im not saying the 50s or the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:45 AM
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No, the dream girl isnt the norm. How could it be. The norm is an overweight woman. That's not anyone's dream girl. I go to the gym so I can have a great body, dating, flirting, and sex aren't charity. I wouldn't entertain someone who's overweight and not living an active lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:31 AM
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Its gotten heavier every year, and it's gone up faster every year. A size 10 today is a size 16 or bigger from 15 years ago. Womens clothes have gone up without the actual tags changing. Thats a BIG reason why women today are more obese than men. With mens clothes, you have a waist size, and a t-shirt size, or dress shirt sizes. Thats it. They dont really change. They have different stores for fat guys
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:25 AM
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Hookup dont have popular opinion in america and women are far less likely to want sex on the first date? Can you expound on this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:17 AM
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Who stopped you from making your own company? I guess youd be harassing yourself at that point lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:13 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:02 PM
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Will you never make an offensive joke in your life again?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:03 AM
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There's nothing wrong with sexist jokes. You make jokes that are probably offensive to someone somewhere. Get over it. You're making a mountain out of a molehill, moving the goalposts, and shifting the argument to frame it how you want
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:57 AM
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I've called them out for wacky behavior. Although the behavior shows up in other ways like standards being out of line with a healthy relationship, unhealthy body image, how they treat others, all sorts of things like misdirected anger, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:52 AM
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Healthcare isn't blue collar work
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:49 AM
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Thats a thing of the past. Women get their own shitter, people get fired on jobsites over jokes and other shit. Personally, I'd prefer if women didn't join blue collar jobs. I've met only one woman who could keep up, and the others made the job harder. The one woman could actually take a joke, the rest like you said cant take a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:39 AM
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Of course. It's given a easier pass by a lot of people because women had it harder "in the past". So now its mens turn. What sense does that make? I didnt chain your grandma in the house and stop her from voting or doing things. I've always screened these women out early, and the least of these problems is that they're unloading past trauma onto everyone else around them like someon hunting ducks with a shotgun.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:24 AM
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I would never take my advice on what women want or dating advice from online or the media. Reddit says cold approaches dont work? They work about 80% of the time for me. Including today. I haven't had a haircut in 6 weeks, shaved in two weeks, and a few other things. But it works well for me almost every time. Dont approach in a gym? I do and it works Im not some Greek god. I love pizza and burgers. I just know how to navigate social situations, and go online for very niche things that no one ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:41 AM
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Judging by how well this is written, I think they may have been saying that to get out of there. In my entire life, I've only had compliments iced out like that by people who are trying to get the conversation over with. Most if not all of my conversations that open with a compliment go for 20 minutes or so. If all you got was a thank you and a smile, thats a poor reaction to me. It seems like you've never been catcalled, and are essentially making up solutions to problems that dont even exist t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:31 AM
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Im sorry you dont understand what I'm saying. It's like a teenager that doesn't understand what I'm talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:14 PM
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I couldn't agree more. I've known so many people both men and women, from straight to gay and thats the EXACT thing that's said about a healthy sex life and a great relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:11 AM
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Saying something obscure that is no relevance to a question Like what do you want to wear today? And your answer is I want sushi for dinner! Thats a non answer. So either one of two things is going on, either you're not intelligent enough to understand the difference as to why its a non answer and you're not comprehending it. Or your just dont understand it because no one has ever sat there and explained that you have to actually answer the question that was asked. Most people's parents did that…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:42 PM
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Well if your sex education is the movie teeth, then yea lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:35 PM
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The fact you cant answer the question says everything
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:24 PM
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Who's fault is it that you dont want sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:32 PM
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Every woman ive ever known and talked to has been just as horny as men. Maybe this is a problem of the type of personality that is attracted to reddit instead of socializing lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:05 PM
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Not all men like the same thing, so im not sure what you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:48 PM
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Its not one dimensional or one directional the way women claim. It comes in many ways shapes, and sizes. Here's the kicker too. Not ALL misandry or misogyny is bad. Do you want women working manual labor jobs like roofing? Do you want a male nurse? Do you want to feel wanted on a date when the check comes, and your date is cute and she knows that you can support her by picking up a small tab? Sometimes eliminating everything people see as evil from their point of view is more of less really just…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:24 AM
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Feminism is getting more and more extreme, there's no surprise. With gen z and younger flat out refusing to socialize and finding every excuse to not do things with other people, these opinions are going to show up more and more often like brushfires starting. Its a sign that the social fabric is breaking down and people aren't being properly socialized to have a conversation with others
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:57 PM
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Maybe try toys or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:47 PM
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Drinks where I go are STILL five bucks a shot, 3 bucks a can, five bucks a pitcher and bottle and specials daily You're in public. Thats it. If you don't want to be looked at wear the Muslim gown, or stay indoors. Sucks to hear, but thats the price of going outdoors. Anyone can talk to anyone in public, thats kind of why it's called in public. If you aren't willing to talk to the organizers, then it's your fault at that point. It very much is your fault. If you're not going out, how are you goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:39 PM
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While completely true, most women aren't going to relate to that on an emotional level simply because their life isnt like that. Its a 180 from their life experience, and essentially defies what they know as logic. It would be like saying the sky is blue to a person who is blind their whole life
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:33 PM
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Thats the best part women haven't figured out yet. How do you talk to a random person anywhere when they're already scowling at you, have earbuds in, "have to be somewhere, busy, late", or any number of excuses. It's a life skill, and it's not something you pick up overnight. Its soul crushing for almost every guy because of the numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:30 PM
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Of course they would. The same reason I've only encountered one girl who works construction in eight years, and she just grabs materials. It's a little blunt, but they're just not made for it and that's perfectly fine
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:26 PM
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Okay, qualify and quantify that statement please
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:24 PM
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Women would cry every day if the other shoe dropped. No constant validation when they're having issues in their life? No support network? What would happen is dating would be a manual transmission with all the teeth missing. It would grind to a halt within a month, and the dudes would keep having fun
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:22 PM
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Im a dude and I've made friends in every country in seconds off the place no matter the hour or time of day. Switzerland, France, Australia, New Zealand, Italy, and many other places. Maybe this is a you problem, because I've always been able to meet people everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:10 PM
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Who's fault is it that younger men and women aren't joining hobbies or clubs? People shouldn't show up in public if they dont want to be hit on lol They should be banning women who aren't single from speed dating events. Its a small community, and it's easy to do. Start reporting the women to the organizers, you paid money. The same way they ban people from a bar Cold approaches have always been a crapshoot Who's fault is it that gen z isn't going to the bar and drinking, or being more social?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:07 PM
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According to Lillith, yes. You sit there, have a conversation, dont say anything sexual, dont compliment her, dont do anything, and expect her to know you're into her lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:31 AM
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I mean, there's youtube videos and discussions on this exact topic. You could just read it for the exact answer. Its not a simple answer
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:43 AM
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Im in the top 10% but when it's not in person it's a different game. Men are super straightforward. Women want experiences and to feel good about their choices. What you're left with is a man's way of looking at dating with online dating, then you have many, many, many, women getting suckered into "bad men". By bad men I mean guys who aren't what they appear as. The truth lies somewhere in the middle, and everyone makes a fantasy of what they hope someone will be before they meet them Does it re…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:57 AM
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You have to be the change you want to see. I've always had that thought process you just need to fix the problem. Guess what happens when I go anywhere, I talk to people. I stopped caring if people get upset about it or not, and know a lot of great people. C level people, owners of companies, all sorts people who just love what they do when they do it. Its not about the phone, but its about making it happen. Sure, I get shot down and rejected a ton. People tell me no all the time. But the people…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:10 AM
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Of course this is true. A ton of dudes would call out of work for the slightest chance of getting laid, even if they were married and no one would find out. Those are the same guys defending women's honor, acting like women are a bird with a broken wing, and setting women back 50 years. But in their mind its helpful because women always need a backstop
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:28 PM
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Completely agree. I may be an adult, but I rarely see kids doing the amount of physical work I did as a kid. This isnt a pissing contest, just a statement. I rarely see people out all day walking around regardless of the weather, making things happen. When I ask people younger than me, the answer is everything is expensive and they have no money. Because no one else was ever in that position before, right? You need to learn how to have fun doing anything, and about 80% of the time women come to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:58 AM
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Its 100% true. Women have always brow beaten men for having a backbone, standing up for themselves, and doing those things. Social media just opened a lot more men's eyes to it than before. While I think social media isn't reality, there is a degree of realistic truth to it. The same way the boondocks is a caricature of the Chicago suburbs. When men aren't bending over backwards for women, and a lot of the guys before onlyfans would basically orbit women, buy random 21 year olds drinks and thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:09 AM
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Correct, the truth lies somewhere in the middle like most things. Will people be objective about it? Probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:28 PM
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This same conversation has been going on since feminism started. There's no incentive for women to roll things backwards, as a lot the downsides impact men more than women. Look at places like South Korea to see the future and look at the younger generation everywhere. People want plastic surgery younger and younger, jaw surgery, and other cosmetic procedures. Social places have been replaced with phones, and people have refused to move past simple issues and instead focus on crazy things like i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:24 PM
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I dont do them until I'm actually dating the women. Lots of women get really upset about this exact issue too. Saying everything like chivalry is dead, and men are trash because im not a doormat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:55 PM
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What. No, its not. If I keep telling you I want Wendy's, did I coerce you into getting it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:52 PM
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Every single one of me exs loved to experiment, because we had a good relationship and we loved to try new things. Im not sure where people get these crazy boundaries from that you're not allowed to do this from
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:49 PM
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Again, this post is based on your feelings. What is considered rude by the way? Is that everyone's definition, or just yours? There's zero consequences because you self isolate, because everything you dont like is rude or being an asshole including jokes. I dont really want to spend a few minutes tearing apart your post piece by piece on how you're wrong for you to just dissappear or argue in bad faith like you always do, because you can't or wont come up with an explanation as to any deeper rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:30 PM
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This is based on your feelings, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:25 AM
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Please address my whole point, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:27 PM
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The fact they type and understand things at or below a 12th grade level? Id believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 05:37 AM
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So which part am I not reading, just so we're both clear on this. Are we both reading, AND understanding the part where you didn't address the whole statement of what I said? Instead you decided to cherrypick specific pieces, and try to frame things as though you're actually addressing what I'm saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:07 AM
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Which part of what I said was false, and when did I say I was mad? Please dont frame things in different ways and try to twist my words. Also address the whole statement I made, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:53 AM
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Just an FYI, the mods have previously banned me for "personally attacking" her. By personally attacking her, I said she would ignore anything and everything that wouldn't fit her narrative, twist things, and argue in bad faith. It's obvious that this is someone who the moderators refuse to deal with, or someone they let break the rules. Either way I wouldn't engage with them if the mods will ban you over it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:43 AM
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Just an FYI, the mods have previously banned me for "personally attacking" her. By personally attacking her, I said she would ignore anything and everything that wouldn't fit her narrative, twist things, and argue in bad faith. It's obvious that this is someone who the moderators refuse to deal with, or someone they let break the rules. Either way I wouldn't engage with them if the mods will ban you over it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:43 AM
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You should delete this, it gives way too much context to a funny line lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:11 PM
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This strategy has worked for me every time, contrary to what reddit would have you believe. Sure there's social skills and flirting involved, but if you're decent looking flattery gets you miles farther than money ever will. Its how I network with people all the time. I make the person I'm talking to seem interesting about the most boring things in their life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:24 AM
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Its no surprise that anything you say is a pretty reasonable statement. While the OP wouldn't even debate me when I asked her those exact same things different ways, made bad faith arguments, and basically took everything to the extreme. Ive said it before and I'll say it again, there's a lot of markers for autism within the posts they make. They dont understand emotions, facial expressions, they're fixated on relationships and want sex but want a partner more than that. They have trouble pickin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 01:20 AM
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Only on reddit are people against it. Its because of the people on reddit, who are bad at socializing. Would you want some person who looks homeless, stares at the ground, can't hold a conversation, and basically says suck my dick or bend me over within the first ten words? Ive had amazing success with cold approaches everywhere, the gym, anywhere at all. I encourage people to think about the person giving them advice. If it sounds way off think about why their opinion is so off base from the no…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:49 AM
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No, a lot of the women on here are "married", "in relationships", "single because of their standards". There's a huge trend on that one. The women consistently online are a metaphor for church bells. I have a theory about the type that is attracted to reddit. Highly autistic people who have issues socializing, socially awkward, and unable to try new things. If you go through a LOT of the posts about the complaints about men here, they revolve around the same topics. The interesting part is they …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 08:57 PM
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Of course. The bar is just generally lower for women. The struggles are same, issues the same. But the bar is lower. Im not saying women have it easier. But with men, if you lose a job in your 20s your dating life is gone. If you dont move out, you dont have a relationship, if you dont have a decent job, you're looked down on, all sorts of things. That's not changing, and never will. The same for women. With women the basics of diet, exercise, clothes, and makeup. Everything else comes after tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:44 PM
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Obviously not a very good one lol. I've seen way better one's on 4chan and other sites that dont have to argue like an 8th grader. They argue and talk as though they're at a college level and make you question your own sanity haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:26 PM
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Which part of your advice would result in clear, concise, comprehensive, easy to understand, that applies to any woman? At this point you're making a strawman about how I dont understand what I'm talking about. I know exactly what I'm saying. Every time we have a discussion on here you either resort to arguing in bad faith, doing the things you complain about men doing, move goalposts, or dont understand what people are saying. It's like you're trying to upset people but to do that you'd have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:26 AM
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But the point I'm trying to make is that if they learned something from the relationship, terrific! If not, probably not great but there's hope that the next relationship will have a better outcome. Relationship being any type. Dating, friends, whatever. There's nothing wrong with making mistakes. Men have the same issues with relationships as women, just a different side of the coin. Hoping the woman is like their ex but nicer, judging single women because she has kids, etc. I think its importa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:27 PM
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Yep, and you've given GENERAL advice. The same kind of general advice I've heard from other women. But no specific questions as to get clear and concise answers from women here Just say women aren't a monolith, you dont have the answers and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:49 PM
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Who said anything about it being okay. Women are signing up for the job, and they're the ones who are okay with it because they're the ones who are aware of the risks. If they weren't okay with it, they wouldn't do it. The same way an electrician or any blue collar worker is aware of the risks. You're trying to frame the workplace risks as though they're everyone else's fault but the workers. Everyone is free to choose what job they work. No one is being held with a gun to their head, maybe a sm…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:36 PM
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Shouldn't the OP be able to give it, as they're a woman? I mean they're positing that they know the answer that you're looking for within their own statement. But what I've failed to see here is any actual follow through or delivery that would help you with women because they dont know the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 05:50 PM
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100% dont let anyone tell you otherwise. Ive had relationships where im not the guy she settles with, any relationship I AM you can tell. Its just small things that add up. You know when a woman isnt into you, and you need to find a woman who's into you for you. Not some woman who's into her kids father, or her last boyfriend, or her ex husband, and loves the IDEA of a relationship with you. But loves you for what you do with her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 03:34 PM
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How do you gst assaulted on onlyfans again? Just block them, or close the screen lmao. Just like Chappelle said on sluts, she's not a whore but she's wearing the uniform. Dont be surprised with the activity that comes with the job or uniform
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 06:42 AM
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If english isnt your first language, or you didnt graduate past high school, then sure. But idioms are a large part of language, and if you haven't figured them out thats on you. You've had years growing up to absorb these things, so maybe you should be the horse that takes a drink from the water
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:46 AM
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Like I said. A teakettle doesn't need help making noise, as in the people who have the most fringe opinions will make the most noise
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:41 AM
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You're the only one trying to police everyone's tone, frame every else's argument and make it go your way. I wouldn't tell other people how to think, or whether what they think in their head is wrong. That's crazy talk. However when facts meet opinion, theres an obvious difference of what lines up and I sit on the sidelines a ton of the time because a tea kettle doesnt need help to make noise
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:45 AM
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Your words were women wont fuck a guy within thirty days of dating him. You're moving the goalpost, yet again. What you're asking is a completely different question framed as the same question because your original statement was ruined. I could pull up a study that would imply correlation, but what you're asking for is causation. I feel like again, if I pulled the studies and parsed the data together, which anyone can do, you still wouldnt like the answer. It would most likely show the same as t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:48 PM
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Thats a very hostile reply for something that most people in life have no difficulty finding and figuring out
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:29 PM
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Thats exactly what a LOT of younger people, people with unrealistic or unreasonable standards, and other issues have. They cant or better yet wont differentiate between the two at all. Its not hard to get a decent looking woman or man. You just need to be realistic about the flaws that come with every person. I feel like social media (especially that) has filtered out the bad parts of people's lives to the point of where they freak out if they see someone having a hard time instead of everything…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:20 PM
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7293001/ The studies dont mean what you think they mean
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:07 PM
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You mean the fringe sources that aren't based on anything except a one off study? Its the equivalent of saying living near power plant causes cancer. It's called junk science, bad statistics, and garbage in garbage out. You need to be able to understand what you're reading and filter it. This is something that's taught in mose 6th through 8th grade classes. What's a reputable source, whats a bad source, how to understand the data you're reading, etc. If you don't understand it, that's a complete…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:40 PM
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Based on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:21 PM
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Ive had women always want sex. Only women who weren't interested go on dates and not want to fuck... attraction is person specific, and it's only being picky in the sense of being a normal behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:07 PM
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I think it's more nuanced than just a blanket statement like that. There's touchy situations, as things can happen that even they wont talk about. It's the same when someone cheats in marriage. Sure they cheated, but the underlying question is what drove them to cheat after all that time? You should be asking that same sort of question in this situation, but you're not going to get a straight answer. No one is going to willingly tell you their relationship problems or other things that eroded a …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:18 AM
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You sure picked some amazing women there. I wonder if they're pillars of society, or if they're easy to dislike because they're shitty people. Im an open misogynist, and I have zero problems with women. I think division of labor is she washes the dishes, cooks and cleans and I take out the trash and mow the lawn. What about it? There's zero wrong with my mindset of women and men having their own strengths and weaknesses. Society tips the scale to women as more than fair to begin with. As shown b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:12 PM
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A porn positive person with a healthy view on on relationships? Im shocked that you're not being told you're wrong by everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:57 AM
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Like ive said MANY times before. You're probably autistic, and there's nothing wrong with that. You just have every single marker for someone with it, and aren't understanding what people are saying. Words can have emotional value, im not sure how to explain that to you, as it just seems to go over your head every time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:04 PM
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Its almost like you cherrypick what I say and argue in bad faith because you don't understand these concepts
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:55 PM
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Emotional depth and abstract concepts would go together in putting those two concepts within the frame of mind that when you're making claims like that almost all of concepts of pick up artists and redpill were tested and true, as well as back by countless studies. The studies being how women behaved within dating, and pick up artists tirelessly documenting everything they did for years on forums and figuring out what worked and didnt. Its not some crazy bizzaro world fantasy, they're tried and …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 07:30 AM
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Its almost like you have trouble with abstract concepts and emotional depth...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 06:44 AM
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I'm extremely shallow when im dating, and I wouldn't trust anyone who says they're not. No one chooses to date an overweight person because they like that body type, or they like less muscles. Or they like less money, or they like less of anything. There's a large difference between being frugal, and being poor. Frugal means you choose to save money while poor means you just chose the worst option. Ive talked to plenty of people who's cope is that they're happy not a lot. Give those same people …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:31 AM
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I would NEVER trade age for other issues, but thats just me. Any woman can get in shape, become attractive or eat healthier. But certain personality traits and mental issues are an obvious deal breaker. I've never had issues talking to women, or dating them. But I don't want to be put in the position of effectively being someone's emotional crutch
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:32 PM
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Being unattractive has a small part to do with physical standards. Most men realize this way faster than women, and in my personal experience thats the basis for men's bonding and friendships vs women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 07:48 PM
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Of course they do. Older women are fighting younger women for those same men, so who is the man going to pick? The man never goes with the older woman, because kids are always harder, expectations are a lot higher, more bad habits, trauma, and other issues. Guys date down in age every time, its a standard
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:21 PM
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Ive only heard this from fat or unattractive women that I've known. Every attractive woman has dated up in age, while the unattractive ones havent been able to because of trauma, unhealthy standards, boundaries, unrealistic expectations, or many other reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:18 PM
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But reddit said she was so old and unattractive lmao. There's a 70 year old that goes to the gym that I'd fuck, she has a better figure than 80% of the women I've seen, and looks amazing for any age. Reddit is absolutely delusional about anything with age gaps, and has almost zero idea on how the real world works. On reddit, it's how the world should be, not how the world actually is. I usually take whatever the bulk of what people say on here, reverse or invert it, however you want to put it. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:13 PM
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I would respect women who would be upfront about their double standards lmao. Not this two sides of same coin insanity I've always seen. Ive known a few women who were straightforward and loved talking to them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:51 PM
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Its not a bad deal. The cost of childcare is enormous, most women can drop down to part time work and still get boned from costs. If finances are an issue, you can always take a lower paying job, but you could be costing yourself more by having someone working rather than staying home. Its usually a financial decision
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:54 AM
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It's harder because people are fatter. Gen z is objectively fatter, not as smart, glued to their phones, and not as consistent with their efforts. If you saw the effort I made when I was a kid, riding my bike 5 miles or more a day on a one speed to hang out with people, to see a girl I liked, walking three or more miles one way, bumming rides, making things happen. All while having a pack of smokes, 20 bucks, a lighter, and thats it. I had to figure out how to eat, pay for a date, and a bunch of…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:22 AM
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You're talking as if you were alive then. The fact you disagree with tells me you actually weren't alive, cant pull any relevant data, and wont go to a bar or anything other than how you feel
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:12 AM
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Because with the rise of onlyfans, sexual liberation, and social media as well as viagra and cialis... women are MUCH more open to one night stands. They used to not do it almost ever except for slutty chicks. Now, you have 20 year olds banging older dudes because they know how to fuck well, and the older dudes can finally stay hard. Its 100% much easier to bang any woman now vs 10 years ago. It probably costs maybe a beer or two now, vs a few dates and dinner, and dating first
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 01:37 AM
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Those still have been and will always be normal concepts to me. Women always want to see you improve. They dont want a guy who's life dream is to work at a gas station. How can you have a family doing that? Self improvement is many different aspects, and you're focused on the gym Dinner never worked except on fat chicks or women who had low self esteem. With social media and dating apps, that near zero because of people across the globe hitting like Status was ALWAYS a thing. Many guys didnt rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 01:33 AM
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Its like you're stalking every comment of mine, that's crazy. You couldn't prove your point before and now you bring up irrelevant topics again to sideline the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:32 PM
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What are you even talking about. You're taking tiny little instances, and instead making them into the whole of your worldview. I guess that's okay. You really didn't really debate any point of mine, you just kind of brought up what if scenarios. I have no idea how that's even relevant to any conversation at hand. It's like you and many others are trying to find a missing like between a hippo and human. When told no, you say they both have four legs and a head so everything between is relevant!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:27 PM
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Exactly, and ever since a lot of women took the reigns and went wild with those opinions things went downhill. For better or worse, ask anyone's grandparents if life was better back then with dating and everything else. I ask them. They ALWAYS say, it was much better and you need to think before you date anyone or do anything. A lot of older women are extremely smart and understand that feminism is just another tool, and not necessarily a great one. There was no reason for a lot of women to be s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 08:34 PM
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Because you're putting the responsibility wholly on the men, when everyone thats completely untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:27 AM
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I dont complain about it in a vacuum. I think the double standards are ridiculous. I love manual labor, but I had to learn how to do it. Many women have only valued me for what I provided them, even within a relationship. Sure, it was time and other activities. But the real respect and admiration came from women understanding that you're working hard, busting your ass and moving up. Without the ability to move to a level where I'M comfortable, I'm not sure any relationship would be a great fit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:25 AM
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Tell that to the women Its called the sunk cost fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:19 AM
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Because getting between two people fighting is a great way for both of them to fight you. Women are very emotional, and when you give them evidence of their man being a bad person one of three things kicks in. I can fix him with sunk cost. You're sabotaging the relationship to get her. Or it's not true and it's just some crazy misunderstanding. In any event, she's 90% likely to back to the guy ask him exactly what happened aggravate the situation. Either the guy comes after you, or the girl does…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:19 AM
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That implies that there was no fault on her end. She wasn't needling him, stirring the pot, not letting him get any peace and quiet, or just purposely being obnoxious because she felt wronged in some way. Rather than talk it out, it became a battle
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:13 AM
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That implies the victim is entirely without fault though. Just like a car crash, there's almost always fault with both parties
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:07 AM
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To a large degree. My buddies who have had that happen picked the fun girl. Everyone including him knew she was a problem, but he said screw it because she's a dime. Well, she hit him with a pan, slapped him, and other stuff. We warned him, and he was butthurt about it and her cheating on him and him cheating on her afterwards. But after that we were laughing about it, because we TOLD him her mom was crazy and it ran in the family. He had every chance to get out of there and he stuck around
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:05 AM
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Most women I know who are young would say the same thing though? They'd say menopause, wrinkles, everything. That doesn't make any sense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:01 AM
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Most women I knew at that age just wanted to fuck, and I mean FUCK. They weren't interested in a serious relationship until their late 20s after they got tired of drinking and partying
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:00 AM
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So that begs the better question, how many women realistically will put in the work to be more attractive? Every single guy does it. Fat, short, whatever. Everyone gets rejected. But how many women are going to looked over because they aren't putting in the same amount of work to stay in shape? You're repeating the same thing thats been said for years on every online dating forum ever. Its extremely unpopular because it pushes the accountability onto the woman for their own actions
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 03:58 AM
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Okay, name your standards then. Everyone has standards, but if they're not realistic expectations then you're setting yourself up for failure
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 03:39 AM
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Completely agree, and as a guy I wouldn't understand it any other way
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 06:08 PM
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Thank god someone is realistic about this. No wacky ass gym, clothes, food, no beer, church, get baddie lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 11:57 PM
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Any kind of women? Define autistic. Are you talking like the traits most people have where its little things, or BIG things? Like loud noises cause them to cover their ears and scream. High functioning autistic people probably dont have issues dating or doing most things. It's the low functioning people that you see most. Autism in my opinion can sometimes take the empathy out of life, and make things a bit transactional. Not in a bad way, but lets hang out, eat some food, have fun, relax, and e…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 11:55 PM
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Nothing comes up, and that means nothing as copyright isn't international. But feel free to not answer any of the questions and keep dodging everything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 11:41 PM
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You dont have any IP. Your website is half built by AI, and all it really is is a glorified VPN, and EXIF scrubber. Those have been around for years. All administrators can see passwords if the database is set up correctly. I guess yours isnt? You still have managed to avoid answering every single point I asked though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 11:20 PM
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Still spam. You're still self promoting and evading everything I've asked
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 10:24 PM
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You didnt answer ANY of the questions... so that says a lot Spam obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 10:19 PM
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So you're one, trying to sell your company here lol. There's zero difference between you and any woman on OnlyFans at that point. It's comical actually. Two, its absolutely self promotion. Anyone with ten seconds of using Google can see that you're looking for "creators", or "influencers" to help them build their empire. You're using using basic sales tactics, and using them badly. The data with OnlyFans directly goes against everything you said. Most women make less than $50 a month on there, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 10:16 PM
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So how are you putting your life on the line then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:23 AM
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I know a woman who's in an arranged marriage, she's quite happy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:10 AM
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I mean, some of the women I've dated... you'd be surprised at how they tried to wrangle me into helping with chores
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:09 AM
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What. Thats a lot of words to say a lot of nothing. If you want to teach a college class, go into academia. Dont do mental gymnastics to twist things to fit a narrative while trying to reframe them however you want
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:50 AM
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The majority of women are dental assistants, not dentists
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:45 AM
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Teaching has already been replaced by tablets and technology instead of paper? Childcare has been augmented by tablets and technology, and carework has been taken over by AI in a LARGE part. Retail, hospitality, nursing, and dental assistants, are also augmented by AI. Meaning less hours needed for the people who do the work. That's if you actually look at the pilots and data out there. Or if you go with your feelings, youd say AI won't remove any low skill jobs at all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:01 PM
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Its not exactly a shock to anyone smart that those things are driven by money. When cushy office, shool, and white collar jobs are threatened by AI, you're going to see the largest demographic upset with it. The demographic being women. Its also not a shock that many women in those fields have never actually held any sort of service related job for an extended amount of time, and have a very isolated view the world. Kind of like the people on reddit, who only work niche jobs and have never worke…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:12 PM
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I clearly defined normal, its not my fault you have a difficult time understanding abstract concepts. Ive clearly explained everything, but I cant make you understand what I said. I cant really make what I said any simpler, it would take a significant amount of time, math, effort, risk analysis, CBA, and other things. If you are understanding the general concepts you're not going to understand if I break it down further
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:44 AM
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Nightlife has fallen apart significantly since covid, the cutting of third shift in three of the biggest retailers, and those things you named off continue to exist only on the very fringes. They all have such small margins, and it's only getting slimmer. Who defines normal? Well, thats easy. Society does. There's a big overton window of what's normal, and what isn't. That's why for years, people were called strange, weird, odd, and all sorts of other things. They still are, but people have lost…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:23 AM
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You mean the dominant culture to be normal? What majority of alternative spaces?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 05:51 AM
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You monoculture as a single harmonious unit? No one is ever pressured to conform. It's your life, and by your standards everyone should have niche tastes. Melted glass means nothing, because its not an analogy. So when do people meet if they're all doing their own thing in their own community
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 05:11 AM
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What. So a good analogy is a spiderwebbed or fractured piece of glass is better than a solid piece of glass? Just so I'm understanding what you're trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:44 AM
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Shes autistic. She fixates on relationships, can't deal with relationships well, cant understand emotions well, doesn't socialize well, and every other huge marker for autism. If you look at it from that lens, her posts and the six or seven other women who are fixated on how they dont understand how men like sex and relationships without sex are just a friendship. It makes perfect sense at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:26 AM
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This is a crazy fringe belief and shpuld be taken as a joke. No serious person would ever believe this rant in person
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:08 PM
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I've known plenty of women that privately admit they'll dress like that for men, but say they do it for themselves. Its a social thing, because no one wants to be left out and have a harder time dating because they dress so conservatively that no one looks at them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:36 PM
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Absolutely. The more comfortable women are with you the more they're going to do. If you aren't comfortable with yourself or them, or even the relationship... how can you be comfortable with having sex and trying new things?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:02 PM
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One hundred percent completely agree. I've seen this time and time again, and women have said it to other women too. That because they like him they let things slide. The same way that because the pussy is good, you let a lot of shit slide that you normally would never. This has always been the case for me, women love to put up a hurdle or raise the bar if they're not into you. If they're into you, you could ask them for gas money, say a shitty joke, or tell them something filthy and they're pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 09:51 PM
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It's obviously a long distance relationship. The same way a guy you went to school with was dating a girl in another state or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 09:45 PM
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You haven't said anything. You only said what it isnt, not what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 08:16 PM
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I've known a few guys who were full on feminists. Like held open the doors, defended women in jokes and everything. They didn't get anywhere with women. Ive ALWAYS been the way I am, and women have loved it. Ive seen that women are more than happy to do the dishes if you cut the grass and take out the trash. You can slap their ass in public and everything, make filthy jokes because everyone has a dirty mind. The people who cant do that... well you can see them now. They may be making money but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:02 PM
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What if being called a misogynist doesn't bother me because what if I am one sometimes? There's worse things in life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:35 PM
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I agree, and there's nothing I can do to change it. So all I can do at that point is be like a fish. Either get very good at swimming, land on the shore and drown in the air, or swim upstream and make no progress. I choose to sharpen every one of my skills because I know that's what I was taught since I was a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:51 PM
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For every post on here about how dating is hard NOW or something is bad now... look backwards. What about during the great depression, 2008, world war one and two, the dust bowl? I personally think it's really easy. Dating like everything is just something you need to get out there and do. It requires work, and those who won't put in the work probably wont succeed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:33 PM
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What planet do you live on? I would love to hang out with a lot of the people here for a couple weeks, and see them hitting on women. It's nothing against you personally. I've never had an issue with it, and I can be vicious when women and men are being ridiculous about things. I love selling myself as an asset to people, and by that I mean having decent social skills to talk about anything or being able to relate to most things. I've never had trouble with getting women to notice me, mostly bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:14 PM
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Its like that everywhere, and for that reason I dont take dating advice or most fringe opinions seriously. Like saying dont talk to women except for at x place, or there's dating leagues, or you need to be amazing to land a woman or man. You just need to be you, confident, socially adjusted and aware, and assertive above all else
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 11:07 PM
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Absolutely, and they complain but refuse to change the things about themselves that would make themselves extremely attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 06:00 PM
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Define a leauge. Also, the way you're talking is a dead giveaway that you're no older than 25. You're saying that because men are thirsty, but women have no agency? So women have no choice in who they date, its only men who decide within dating by your statements? I feel like your points aren't very well thought out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:02 PM
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Texas has gotten more and more obese over the years. Whether its due to demographic changes, political changes, socialization changes, or any number of factors is beyond a lot of people. But you're wrong. Barbers are booked, but I bet if you went to a great clips of sport clips those same people who used to run businesses work there and can do an amazing job. They sold their businesses during or after covid and wanted to be done with the headaches
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 11:16 PM
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Oh look, the same two sources again. This time, instead of how dating is harder its about paying the bill. The same ill say as last time. The study couldn't be repeated, and your points are laughable. You argue in bad faith, and misinterpret the data either intentionally or on accident because you dont understand it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 04:49 PM
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Pornhub fell apart after they deleted over 60% of their videos, and its only fallen further behind as they've banned themselves from states
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:29 AM
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So am I. I think things being expensive isnt necessarily a bad thing, it just means I need to be more creative about how I spend my money most times. Do I really need this, or to go to a new movie? I think when you have a budget, it makes you more thrifty and forces you to gain new skills to get to your goal
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:01 AM
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But everything is so expensive is the counter argument lol. Yea, but thats always been the case especially for millennials who were pushed into entry jobs until their 30s. You just need to make it work, and work hard to make things happen. I've had a fucking blast on $50 and a shitty time at an expensive place. Its all about making your money go farther
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:22 PM
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No, I know exactly what I want with a woman lol. I dont really give a shit what someone on reddit says about it either. Especially someone who cant hold a long term relationship lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:42 PM
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Women should be happy to pay for their part of the first date. Its where they put their best foot forward. Its 2026, and women can have jobs and bank accounts. If they can't manage their finances to that extent, how can they manage their finances for a relationship? Makeup is a fixed cost over a long period lasting months. By your logic womens role would be staying at home cooking, cleaning, and pushing out kids if the man's role is providing things. Feminism says independence, which means payin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 03:54 PM
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Shocker, women love muscles and the idea of a guy who can provide a safe future lol. Its almost like no matter what any woman says those two basic things basically override almost everything else she likes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:24 AM
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Nobody will qualify or quantify this because is would demolish thoer entire stance lol. You're asking them to paint themselves in a corner by defining it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:40 PM
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Who says a good portion of women dislike men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:37 PM
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Thats not a source
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:03 PM
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Your statistics aren't backed by facts. They're backed by feelings. That means garbage in garbage out. Where exactly does a woman die every 10 minutes, cite a reputable source. Also cite a reputable source for femcide
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 03:57 PM
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I'll take your opinion seriously when you dont seriously believe that misogyny kills women. The developed world is some of the safest it's been, and you're a solution looking for a problem. You're just saying things need to change to fit your worldview and fit in your box. But thats not how life works. I've walked with bears multiple times, let me tell you any woman who would choose the bear has never been around an actual bear in the wild. If they had, they would understand that even park range…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 05:41 AM
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That's exactly right, but getting people here to agree with you is going to be a fight. The bulk of people on reddit either work from home, work jobs that pay above average, work in a niche industry, or believe that money will give them access to women. I mean, money will get you access to the 18 to 25 crowd but not much else. But having skills that transfer outside of your job like social skills will get you much farther on dates
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:28 PM
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You're completely right. But here of all places, you're not going to find a lot people agree with you. Ive seen that most guys I've known that "needed" to ask permission didn't stick the landing with most relationships and just couldnt handle social interactions for a variety of reasons. I wouldn't say autistic, but they chose like many of the people on here to go into very bad self destructive habits and lashing out when the expectations weren't met in their head. It reminded me a lot of a kid …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:41 PM
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Who said its a favor. It's called life. You need to learn to deal with it in a healthy way. Most do, others... as shown above withdraw and lash out. I encourage you to find professional help
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:55 PM
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Sounds like a reddit take. You sound like you need to talk to a professional. Im sure someone in your area can help Since you're letting one experience define your entire life
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:40 PM
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Ill remember to tell this to the women I flirt with. You know, the ones who enjoy it? Flirting isnt harassment, thats delusional as best and a worst harmful to say. I would wonder where you got these ideas from, or an idea of a healthy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:26 PM
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I dont think im smarter than anyone lol. Ive been outsmarted by my dog multiple times because they wanted a treat. I think my future girlfriend or wife will have honeymoon phase, and im pretty realistic about how I want that to go. Good communication, good sex, etc. I want good foundation with values. But I also know everyone has a past, and if I cant accept that I'm not going to do very well. We've all been there when relationships fail. There's no shame with it. You don't know what happened. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:04 AM
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I agree. I think a very large part of it is just getting out into the public. Even a part time job that's customer service or volunteering with people your own age. As soon as people start removing themselves socially, they start to just sit in their head and withdraw. A ton of the topics on here are centered around things I would expect to hear on a high school or college campus, without a lot of real world experience. Like you said, analytical. I feel like once most people get a job, go out an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:33 AM
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You're literally an outlier at its finest. Most women miss being approached, flirted with, and having more social interaction. The type of people that cant handle social interaction or flirting aren't going out in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:33 AM
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Most women I've known would admit this is stance with other women, but when men asked deny it because it makes them look bad. Because well, it absolutely makes anyone look bad taking the easy way out
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:30 AM
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Whatever you say, if you have such a losing attitude no one is going to pull your ass out of that hole ever. Maybe you'll figure it out some day
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:40 AM
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First it was over fourty percent, now its thirty to fourty percent? You're making numbers up at this point to suit your narrative. Its nice to know how you completely ignored just approaching women anywhere, as though it's somehow off limits in your mind for some reason. Very telling. You dont understand the causation to correlation, as it large part of what you said because it just reduces what you say to the chicken and the egg. You wont actually break out of your cycle and hit on women, so yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:31 AM
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You approach women wherever. In public or anywhere, like a bar. Do those places not exist anymore? That same data shows that as more people refuse to socialize, have fun and drink marriages are failing. So is it causation or correlation? Ive also never seen a reputable source that said anywhere close to that number. At most, 10%. Dating applications havent changed anything except make people lazy. Instead of going to a bar and getting a yes or no in person they can face the screen and let the ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:17 AM
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It wouldn't change anything, guys would STILL have to go out and hit on women. That means they would have to get over their fear of it. You'd have to convince a whole generation that seeing tits online is bad, and going to bar is more fun where you can get laid after a couple beers. It would also mean convincing a lot of people to get over their fear of drinking
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 04:02 AM
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I mean, dating is kind of a market. It always has been. Dads, friends, that one guy who always picks up women would always give out tips. Guys used to always keep track of getting girlfriends and getting laid. Every guy I knew who didn't kind of ended up on the sidelines, either with odd hobbies like smoking a lot of weed, playing dungeons and dragons, refusing to go out, not socializing, not drinking, not going to the gym, and a lot of self destructive habits. A lot of those unhealthy hobbies a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 04:00 AM
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What makes a woman high status?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:11 PM
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100% true. People always confuse being an asshole with assertive, or looking for value in things. For example, on a work night would you go out bowling? Maybe for an hour. Would you go out bowling if there's a bunch of single women there? Absolutely, and you'd have a much better time too. I think it's crazy how online people can't discern whether it's the confidence, being in shape, or anything like having a backbone, that gets people laid or as people from the outside call it being an asshole. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 08:46 PM
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No one will ever debate this, especially the OP because it goes completely against their narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:15 AM
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Indonesia and South Africa? Is this a joke? Im sure you know people from there, like I do. But your one study is basically backwards of how things operate there. I like how you have to frame it with footbinding and use something from 100 years ago and china of all places. Im sure if I tried even a little bit I could pull some obscure unrepeatable study and link it to some out of left field topic even though it goes into causation vs correlation. You have the same issue as everyone else. You can'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:12 AM
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Ive dated a couple single moms, and while it's fun its also rarely serious. Everything you said is exactly spot on. Its basically sitting in the backseat of a car she's driving, which is fine for a little while
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:48 AM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:28 PM
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Everyone loves to talk everywhere, they're just nervous I talk all the time at the gym and shit. Like you said, alcohol makes it so much easier
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:42 PM
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And the dating market says those women have an unrealistic if not unhealthy view of relationships, and will stay single longer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:39 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 02:27 PM
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I completely agree. So many dudes are online way too much and would benefit from being at a bar or a nightclub a couple times a month. Chicks there will literally blow you behind a dumpster. There's not even buying a drink or anything. People just NEED to get out more. I think many people would have a much better outlook on dating if they realized how simple getting laid was. Also that the most sex positive women doing onlyfans are usually the only to do the wild shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 02:27 PM
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No, its women's unrealistic expectations gassed up by everyone around them, both men and women. Stop blaming men for women having unrealistic expectations. When little timmy gets straight F's in school, does the principal say to him that he'll be a doctor? Or does he say shape up. The same goes for dating. Women wont accept the coffee dates, then they wont get the date. Its that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:00 AM
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Stalking me online? Im flattered, but no thank you. I'm interested in women, not men. I've had stalkers before and the sex was fun but it didn't end well
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 08:13 PM
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Im absolutely NOT in my 40s lmao. But you can believe whatever you want. The world hasn't changed when I'm hitting on anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:10 PM
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That would be me. Its called being assertive. Saying hey, you're cute. Nice ass. Touching her, not dancing around wanting to fuck her, going after what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:58 PM
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You should totally sit on reddit and complain. That will get you laid. The bar wont let you take a girl home if you're below 6ft by your crazy logic, or even buy a beer. You sound like a deflated balloon
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:39 PM
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I would encourage you to talk to a professional at that point if you think reddit and the internet have become real life. They're not, and the experiences and expectations are different
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:51 PM
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And they happen with hard work, training, and commitment. They dont happen by going on reddit and complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:48 PM
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Both dating and making money take time and hard work. Shocking, I know. People want instant results, and with both there's no one to blame but themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:04 PM
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Thanks for making it easier by staying in. Youre making it easier for every other guy. Thats one study, and you should believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:01 PM
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You should stay inside and stay on reddit then. Ill keep going out and bag more women. Thanks for helping my cause
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:46 PM
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You know everyone has the same dating issues, they're just seen through a different lens or perspective so you think one is more important. If you went out to a bar you could easily meet women in a night and get laid instead of complaining. All it takes for any woman to find you attractive as a baseline is a haircut but not really, shaving, and clothes. So just showing up and wearing deodorant and holding a conversation. Ask ANY woman how they met their boyfriend or husband and one had to talk t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:15 AM
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Cheating on the dead? What does being over 25 have to do with anything? Even 35 is still pretty young
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:35 AM
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Whats a love project? How is aborted by a unanimous female decision? Why past 25? Why not 18, or 21, 23 or any other number? How does giving a first kiss past 25 make you dishonorable and a cheater? How are you cheating on the dead?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:33 AM
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I was thinking the same thing. If a lot of people just went out instead of sitting there and writing all of these things, they wouldn't have 90% of these issues in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:30 AM
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Old trash LMAO late 20? Dude, im rolling. Cheating on the dead? Where do you come up with this stuff? Also, nothing you're saying makes any sense at all because it sounds crazy and I need to explain it in more detail
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:19 AM
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That's so untrue its comical. The only place it's true is on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:52 AM
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Men ask women out, women dont ask men out. Women are passive in dating usually. Available to the public? She's a person, not a stock that's getting an IPO. Could this be why you're having problems with dating? I know many women and I'll look at their tits and ass, but their personality is absolutely terrible for a variety of reasons. They're fun for like 10 minutes, and thats it. The attention they get is very low even though they're hot because they're not a great person. AI girlfriends aren't …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:51 AM
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I completely understand, and I've talked to people who have the same issue. I gave them my number and I'll tell you the same thing I did to them. When they feel comfortable coming out of their shell and talking to you it'll happen. You just need to focus on making socialize a routine like the gym. An hour or two a week on the weekend, and doing things YOU enjoy. If thats pinball, or Frisbee golf, awesome. But you need to keep adding a social aspect into what you do. Its work, and it takes a bit …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:46 AM
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Personally, i would have to know you to see what your issues are with women. But focusing on cardio and weights isn't getting out there to the bar and meeting everyone as much as possible. I go to the gym but also treat it as a social area
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 01:44 AM
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Many men do do domestic labor though, because its a normal thing unless someone's a stay at home parent. And both women and men dont need to marry to have convenient access for casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 12:31 AM
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The same things can be said about men. You haven't said anything specific. Good try though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 11:00 PM
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By that logic a man gives up his independence and freedom when getting married and risks pregnancy by kaving a kid as well as being a pump and dump. There's zero sense to that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 09:05 PM
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I got messages on bumble with crappy photos. But my opinion is that women who want a healthy relationship are willing to put in the work for dating and be active in their life about it. When you see women who expect someone else to do the hard work, you cant be shocked when things dont work out in their favor. You need to treat dating like a job in a few ways. Maintain social connections, keep a routine and schedule, and do your part. If you "only" have time for online dating I'm sure it will ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:33 AM
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This has happened before and its a documented thing. Where economic conditions make it incredibly easy and the job market makes it attractive to not stay single as well as the would outlook
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 12:29 AM
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Ive never head of courting a woman either, at least not realistically. Its more of you hang out, have sex, screw around, and then figure out if you want to date
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:22 PM
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Every relationship I've had has started from casual sex. Its not the 1950s where men court women anymore. I dealt with those women really quickly actually. I explained that why would I be a suitor or court them like they had that idea in their head, when other guys were doing it too. Not one could give me a good answer. I told them as soon as we start fucking around we can talk talk about that. They held the belief that sex comes after courting and being a suitor. I can tell you without a doubt …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:20 PM
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I mean the general consensus is that you're right. The pendulum has been swinging back to the 1950s era of it being duty to have kids whether people like it or not. Importing labor only goes so far, you still need military and other workers. Most countries are pushing back on visa labor now that they're neeing the long term effects of it on the workforce, as in a bathtub with the drain pulled. There's many other factors to not having kids, but specifically it's usually tied to money and marriage…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:01 AM
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Thats a real world view. The view on here is so narrow minded you'd never convince anyone of something like that. A good analogy would be coffee rust, or any of the other chronic rust conditions you see in plants
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 02:21 AM
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Ask a lot of lesbians, I know a couple and they agree with a lot of what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 08:48 PM
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You mean how you're doing it in bad faith right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 06:31 PM
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You selectively pick what you reply to. When you stop arguing in bad faith, and maybe accept you're the problem, as well as your issue of being an asshole to everyone there can be a conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 06:16 PM
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I never said pew was fringe, I said the study wasn't repeatable. Please stop twisting things and framing them wrongly. There's thousands of academic papers that say your fringe studies are wrong. You contradict yourself all over. The general consensus is that you're wrong, the beliefs you hold are not mainstream, and if society was a circle you would be on the outside of said circle. Just because you want something to be right doesn't make it so
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:50 PM
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Most size queens I've known were overweight. It had nothing to do with anything else but weight, and stereotypes of thinking black dudes all had giant hogs lmao. Maybe there was one or two white chick, but once they found out big ones hurt, they stopped wanting them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:43 PM
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I like how you dont address the rest of what I said, about how you twist and frame your fringe opinions as facts. Then find equally as fringe sources, and when called out run away from and refuse to engage. You only engage in bad faith
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:31 PM
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Ive never met a woman with low libido. Maybe you're just unattractive, afraid of sex, afraid of relationships or afraid of commitment. But I've yet to meet a woman with a low libido. Please stop trying to twist and frame crazy ideas as facts, and act like no sex is a normal thing people do. Its not, and anyone who doesn't have sex should feel awkward or weird about their fringe beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:29 PM
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Finally people with normal opinion. Not some crazy opinion about relationships lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:46 PM
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But then how could you punish guys for liking younger women, and push the age range the woman is to the front? By trying to shame him into dating into her dating range lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:15 AM
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Its like social media fried men AND women's brains. With constant posts like this, refusing to accept dates because of of simply having a kid, or seeing people as less than, its no wonder you're having a harder time dating. Are you sure it's not the fact you treat people as commodities with a numerical value and they know it? Because I've NEVER had an issue with dating. No job, no money, no car, forgot to shower or brush my teeth? Those weren't barriers for me. Maybe it's that you're treating pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:43 AM
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EVERY relationship is about compromise on some level. That's the basis of a healthy relationship, and should be obvious. Everyone has flaws. You shouldn't be devastated, you should be ecstatic that someone wants to spend their time with you High earners pair up sometimes, but truly wealthy people kind of date whoever. This isnt the 1800s, and there isn't a class system. Most people are pretty straightforward about knowing they're flawed, and it being a compromise in some sort of way. Whether it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:02 AM
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I explained why it wasn't a good study. You choose to selectively ignore things
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:45 PM
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You cant even find a reputable source for a study that can be repeated. That tells me a lot about you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 04:07 PM
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Most women either aim to have kids at 20 to 25 or in their 30s. Either before their career takes off so they can be attractive home to support the child, or after so the kid doesn't bankrupt them. This reads like fanfic though, and it read like you take the tropes of women too far
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:53 AM
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If I had to make a guess, lack of understanding emotions, only able to understand direct communication, fierce emotional reactions, repetitive behavior, the intense interest with men and sex but blaming men at the same time, obvious sex drive but not understanding the emotions connected to it. If I had to take a wild guess, I would say autism or something under that umbrella as there's a lot of signs that show it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 04:31 AM
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You gave two sources. Three sources from one website. The second website, only polled 4860 people out of 5887, and was completely self reported. The study was done over a ten day period. Im sure there's no bias in there at all. Your sources have been relatively bad, your opinions are just as fringe as the sources. As soon as you or the other women in here can pull a reliable source, which can and has been replicated ill take it seriously. Every source a number of people have thrown at me has bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 04:26 AM
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Finally, another person with common sense. Im baffled by how many people gloss over and dont learn this simple thing. Then since they didnt learn it or refuse to, the expect the world to change to cater to them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 04:14 AM
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I agree. I never really understood how men or I as a man was basically registered, but women weren't. There's many non frontline positions and every woman my age always said its a man's duty. That leaves such a dirty taste in anyone's mouth. I wouldn't go around and saying the equivalent about women, something to the extent of women need to have kids ASAP, like a car factory no matter what. Utah has always been odd about polygamy, but it has kept illegal immigrant labor out of the state for year…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 12:29 AM
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Do you think his friends know he has a girlfriend, or even his girlfriend knows he's in a relationship? Or is it like one of those things where they're in college together and assigned to work together with someone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 12:21 AM
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You dont sound like any woman who has a HEALTHY relationship though. Thats the important takeaway from your point lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 10:42 PM
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And how are women oppressed under the patriarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:17 PM
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What is the patriarchy and how is it a lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:09 PM
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You sound like you're 20 and in college. Keep thinking that as you want to own a car and other things. That those skills just aren't necessary. I'll be curious as to how far you get with maintaining a house and everything else. Because its not necessary lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:55 PM
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I guess if you're not qualified to do basic things? Have fun getting robbed on basic skills people should know. Everyone is know knows those skills, it sounds like a you, and more than that a refusal to learn new skills
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:32 PM
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Which is it? Oppressive or autonomous, because people with autonomy aren't oppressed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:43 PM
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That sounds like a YOU problem, maybe you need to change your attitude. Here's the checklist. Do you have a job? Can you pay your bills? Great. You can now pay for things too. If you cant, then no guy would want a bite of an apple thats already rotten. The reason it works for me is because im not afraid to leave women with an attitude like yours behind
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:39 PM
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What? First, there's no such thing as trade school anymore. It hasn't been a thing since the 80s. Just like every other job, you learn by doing. But go on, tell me more about how much you know these vocational schools. They were specifically for blacks, GIs, and other groups, to help get them back in the workforce. I would only know these things if I worked in the trades for a while though, right? Your point makes zero sense. It's basically, if someone refuses to learn anything, thats okay. Most…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:35 PM
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I dont know how to say this, but some women come off as unattractive? Maybe it's because of weight, attitude, or their opinions like men should pay. Leading to some women just being proverbially left out in the cold
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:24 PM
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Well, thats kind of the chicken and the egg, right? When women and men date, they get new skills. Without those skills, there's no way they'll easily navigate a relationship or dating
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 08:06 AM
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Look at other places where this has gone on for years to see what happens. Look at South Korea for example, they have the exact issues, and what happens is they do whatever they want
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:59 AM
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If you really want? You mean if someone really wants to marry you. I think you have it backwards. You aren't proposing to a man, and unless you're asking out a guy you're only sleeping with him. You could always have casual sex. Everyone before now understood that if you dont get married, you're kind of screwed short and long term
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:56 AM
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Im not upset about it. Im upset that women deny that they're doing or that they have pick of the litter, and any guy regardless of who is gets scraps because so many guys are so desperate for any woman. Looks dont really matter anymore, its closer to what a lot of guys said would happen. The dating market would slowly come to a complete halt, between women opting out if they dont get what they want and guys feeling like they're not being picked for being a great guy. You can already see the dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:48 AM
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What you're describing is the government effectively filling in for men in the household. For years, even after women could have jobs and bank accounts a lot of women still chose to work less hours or a job that was less strenuous. There was only recently a push for women to be in STEM, higher education, the bar being lowered in the military, all sorts of different factors coming together at the time. I'm not calling it a conspiracy, I think its an interesting point as to how certain groups were…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:36 AM
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Ive only paid for two. Women have always been more than to hop on wherever and whenever. Dates mean nothing in the grand scheme of things. And women who insist that you pay probably aren't going to reciprocate very well in my experience. The women who pony up and put skin in the game, cash or whatever are the ones that are actually invested in a good outcome. Maybe im extremely good looking. Ive never had trouble hitting on ANY woman. Most guys always kept their girlfriends and wives away from m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:31 AM
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Hollow earth conspiracy? Also, if you really think about how the winners in the world and wars write the history books, including the bible, while there used to be a bunch of different versions of, that will lead you down a BIG rabbit hole haha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 12:23 AM
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Like I said before. You're probably not really unattractive. It's on a very wide scale. Personally, I'm just curious as to why you keep beating yourself up and calling yourself unattractive. I think most people can be attractive. There's a woman I know who weighs probably 180ish, and she's pretty attractive. It has to do with what she wears. Theres another thats around 140 and she's also attractive. Its 100% beyond just the weight. Or appearance Ive dated bigger women, single moms, everything. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 12:21 AM
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Sure, but social media has told everyone that getting rich is easy and manual labor is hard. Look at older generations. There's a reasons they stuck together, its because they wanted to be together, and their values aligned. What people think is high caliber and what actually is are two very different things. Someone who pulls 60k and a consistent M through F factory schedule is high caliber. A whilte collar job may seem good until you realize that a lot of that work can be offshored or outsourc…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:00 PM
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Sounds fun as fuck lol. I love conspiracy theories. Its like catnip for people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:46 PM
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I encourage you to post a picture. As I think being conventionally attractive goes on a scale, its also a wide window. I think personally, changing styles, glasses, hairstyles, a little exercise even if its walking, and a little diet can make a massive difference. Thats not to say that someone is attractive to everyone, but would almost guarantee that with a little outside guidance anyone could be far better looking. I think that sometimes people are extremely hard on themselves, and if they had…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:11 PM
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Damn, that's spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:01 PM
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Dont take this the wrong way, drugs are a pretty social activity. Personally, I dont have an issue with drugs as long as you handle them and they dont rule your life. I think they're a great way to date people, expand your social circle, and do things though. Just like drinking, you need to watch out for signs of when it starts to get a chokehold over you. Some really successful guys I know who have no issues with women or anything casually do all sorts of drugs, but they also know when to call …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:00 PM
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100% agree. Even when I weighed more, I still hit on women and did well. The trick is to just get out there. You can't let one person's no be everyone's answer. Just like many women told me, just because they dont find me attractive doesn't mean someone else won't like me. If you have the confidence and any style at all, you'll do decent. Even with autism, down syndrome, or anything really. The trick is to bounce back when people say no
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:13 PM
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That's what happens in my experience. Women will be consistently single until they're not for the right guy. Now that women have the ability never need men for anything, the social contract is falling apart along with marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:42 PM
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You know what they say, controversy sells. Personally, I think the meme is hilarious. I've actually had more than one chance to walk with wild bears, and you would be insane to choose bears over people any day of the week. If someone want to make that choice, go for it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:31 PM
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Thats why you ask them to define, set limits, standards, and other qualifiers on what misogyny is. Is someone wont do that, they dont understand what they're talking about or they're doing things in bad faith. Either way its still coming out of their ass. Many times even on here people have refused to qualify or quantify the patriarchy, misogyny, or other omnipotent boogeymen. When asked, they either avoid it, admit they don't know how to make it more specific, or actually name things. Im all fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:59 AM
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Statistically, no. It usually dominated by men who are outgoing, socially secure, can make jokes and talk shit, drink a little, have fun, and say yes to different situations
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 10:49 PM
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I mean maybe a couple movies, but the majority probably not. There's too many movies within a specific genre to spend time redoing the same thing. If I was a film or art major, im sure I might feel differently
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 10:48 PM
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Yea, I've rarely seen decent guys stick around unless they're doormats. I tell younger guys to not be doormats for women, and guess what? The women tend to go ballistic in some way when the relationship doesn't work out in their favor. It take a few times for most guys to understand they have the power to break it off with women, and they can just go out and date someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 10:44 PM
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There was a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:44 PM
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I would have to question what you look like, what dating intentionally means, as well as why all these things happened to you. You do have responsibility in your life, as those are guys trying to date YOU. So the question then becomes what did, or didn't change between all those different guys that caused all of those relationships to fail?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 06:38 AM
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You're simplifying what I said, as well as framing and a bit of twisting. But yes, play those bongos
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:17 AM
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Its all staged. If you really believe that women dont want their boyfriends or husbands, I encourage you to actually get out of the house. It's not some mysterious thing when women like you. I've never had to impress a woman, ever. I've made all sorts of degrading jokes, and we both laughed. Stop looking at youtube for real life scenarios and get out there. Ive yet to have a woman who's into me be unhappy I'm around. I could play her tits like the bongo in a parked car and she'd call me immature…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:11 AM
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Plus, as soon as you're over the age of 26 the odds of casually dating go WAY down. Be it because you're not in school, you're working your ass off, you're trying to get your first professional job, your life is at a turning point. But people normally settle down around that age
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:51 AM
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Who? So why would I ever listen to some random YouTuber about how to get women, why you can go try yourself? Thats like buying a book on how a guy got rich and he did was write a book. But you should totally buy into the scripted acting, professional lighting outdoors, and other elements like microphones on people. Probably because youtubers obviously aren't the modern day equivalent of the circus freak show, they're a good source of role models. Also, can you qualify and quantify the statement …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:46 AM
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So it was lobbied by feminists, as well as prohibition. Its a very interconnected and complex relationship that goes way back, that being said it all true. Its not just one thing, and there absolutely was a change in culture when women were introduced. The same goes for immigration, and everything else. I'm of course simplifying it as I dont want to write a giant essay on it. The basis is that with both parents working, there's twice as many workers. That doesn't necessarily mean twice as many j…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:29 AM
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Just out of curiosity, who lobbied income tax?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 11:06 PM
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Can you qualify those statements you made in your own words. Unless you can't
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:20 AM
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The workplace in general, and from every old guy I knew and talked to told me work was much more fun before women got jobs there. Its lots of thought police, no drinking at lunch, no making dirty jokes all day, and it's very stifling. Everyone I knew said it was terrible, HR is a waste of money, and women basically shut down the workplace because it's incredibly difficult for a lot of women to take accountability or criticism. So even as a boss, you had to use compliments and couldn't be direct.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:13 AM
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Sure. Can you qualify the patriarchy and capitalism, and how they're forcing these issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:06 AM
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Ask her to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:11 AM
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Ding ding, we have a winner
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:50 PM
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I completely agree. I avoid those women on the basis that I know that's what coming, a metaphorical ball and chain. The bar is higher for women on toxic and destructive behavior because they have tits and ass, and can play games. Its always been the case
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:45 PM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:38 PM
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If I remember right, there was a study where women couldnt find their clit. Combine that with your number and you probably have an answer as to why they weren't and still aren't having great sex. Its not men's fault women aren't great with learning about their own bodies. Women for years have said they wanted women to teach it. But if a woman doesn't know, they how could she teach someone or a class on something she has zero knowledge of?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:21 PM
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I mean if you cant understand what they're saying thats a completely different conversation. It sounds like you need to have that one
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:15 PM
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Not only that, but there's no coherent thoughts in it. Its supposed to be a debate, but its all very one sided. You cant really have a debate when someone frames an opinion as a fact. Theres no structure, depth, or any real fleshing out of any points. It feels closer to being written by someone in gradeschool, with how much things are disjointed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:13 PM
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I have amazing english, and what they wrote is extremely hard to follow. It's kind of like someone was rambling and a little drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:58 PM
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Then politely, I guess you have a very hard road ahead you in life with some extremely difficult lessons. Because I'm unsure how to tell you you're wrong. All you do is ignore anything you dont like
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:55 PM
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All the women I've slept with have been into filthy stuff like that completely. Therefore checkmate lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:50 PM
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The world is pretty transactional. You bring value to any relationship, and a different type of value is extracted. Be a job, friendship, whatever. Even church, hobby groups, or anywhere. I guess an undeveloped mind wouldn't grasp that would need to bring value to a relationship. But this is reddit, and people also have a soap box for some reason. Its like that everywhere, I assume you might now get out much if you haven't realized its how the world works. Almost everyone has an agenda, whether …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:42 PM
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Using job opportunities for sex? Are you talking about Hollywood? Nothing you said is specific to men. And nothing you also said about metoo is specific to women either. If you really think men didnt do the same things, well Second, thats how the world works. Either social deals, contracts of some sort, sex, or some sort of other transaction. Thats if you want to really technical about it and boil it down to saying you're trading things. Most deals are made behind closed doors for a reason. A to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:17 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:00 AM
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It is, but you have to actually understand what I said. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:55 AM
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Is anyone necessarily shocked that the good looking guys are essentially shooting fish in a barrel? No, because it's common sense. But being attractive as a guy takes a ton of effort. Gym, diet, social circle, money, self support, everything. Just be aware, men's standards havent changed because men hold the keys to marriage. Think about that, how women may hold the keys to a relationship, but most men can pick up and go to any bar and have fun. Most if not almost every woman is risk averse, so …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:49 AM
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So it was supposed to the original idea for bumble? Then everyone can see exactly what happened with bumble. Women just aren't as assertive and direct, things were removed and other things were streamlined
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:35 AM
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Their opinions are laughable at best, and when I say this I mean it in the nicest but most honest way possible. They have a very idealistic view of the world, which reddit somehow takes as a standard. If the world ran like that, it probably would grind to a halt within a couple years because economys couldn't deal with the shift. The same way people are having huge issues dealing with AI and data centers. Its neither good or bad, it just is
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 04:33 PM
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That's the same thing everyone always does. Turning point, and every other major debate person. Its basically using a tank against a knife. It's really bad how their arguments can't stand up to people their own age or intellectual capacity
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 03:22 AM
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Personally, I think a couple years is good for everyone in the military. It builds skills thats a lot of people lack, and you wont have everyone crying about small things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 03:19 AM
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So would you want your ass beat over talking to a woman? So because she was charmed by a guy, he should feel bad and she's a slut? So because you MIGHT get rejected, dont put yourself out there? I was going to ask if you were one of those crazy people that is afraid of going out and actually hitting on women, drinking, having fun, and being social, but you answered everything in that last part
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 02:05 AM
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You're conflating two different problems. The dating market is a symptom of a bigger issue, while there may be an issue there it's probably because younger people are just not as adventurous. They prefer screens, tablets, a Pepsi, pizza, a Nintendo DS. Vs older people who have gotten blackout drunk and know its fun to wake up in the bushes and play where'd I put that? Or meet people all night, or just do whatever. Younger people are so warped by social media that they're crowdsoucing their opini…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 12:21 AM
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No, you need help because of how you act towards a HEALTHY relationship, and how it bleeds into every other aspect of your life as seen here. I mean you may not see it. I'm sure if you asked other people around you to stop walking on eggshells about it and give you their actual opinion about it they would say the same thing. That you need a professional to talk to, and you're clearly exhibiting many signs of self destructive behavior. You can keep saying "every man" is the problem but who keeps …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:24 PM
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So you're just confirming that you need help, so?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:11 PM
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What? Its like you had an idea, then you added a few more ideas, some alcohol and few other things and now it sounds like something I'd hear out of a guy on the corner for five bucks when I ask for a cool story
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:52 PM
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What? Its like you selectively read things. I think you might on the spectrum, have a serious problem from your childhood, or need actual therapy or help for a serious issue. There's a reason so many people here in this specific subreddit refuse to go to a bar, hit on anyone, or even do anything. Its like you can't fathom having sex with another person is a fun thing to do. The only women I've met that are like and think all men are evil were women who were sexually assaulted, raped, or were les…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:46 PM
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Of course. Because no one wants to admit that everyone wants to fuck like rabbits
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:39 PM
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Would you say the same thing about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:38 PM
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What? A reasonable take? On here? No way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:22 PM
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No one cares. Women enjoy the attention and the dudes that do care aren't really the guys you should be worried about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 01:33 AM
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I mean the dudes she's sleeping with. Take pictures of them, and compare it to her. There will be an obvious difference, im sure age has to do with it too. Charm had little to do with it. The guys didn't see her as a long term relationship. There's a reason for that Everyone wants to be given a chance. Dating is cutthroat. You need to be socially adept, you need to be in shape somewhat, you need to have your shit together a little. Life isnt fair. I'm not sure how to explain this to anyone but y…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:59 PM
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The women who are too concerned about their dating and safety will always find a problem, no matter what. The men, as seen on here many times will do anything to avoid socializing. Refusing to go to a bar, game store, anything. So they refuse to accept that women are people with the same issues too There's already a great space for both, its called life. Ask the people around you that you meet and socialize with if they want to grab lunch, a beer, or something. ANY relationship friends, family, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:38 AM
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Okay andrew tate or whatever streamer you want to be. How many bars PERSONALLY have you been to in the last three months, and how many women have you hit on there?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:48 PM
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Okay, the they can pay me my going rate to do their research for sources. Its about 220 an hour with an eight hour minimum. Would you like a zelle or cashapp? My job is pretty transactional. And the onus is not on me to proofread a garbage source or go take the time out of my day to do someone else's work. Like you said, they're an adult and can do it themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:46 PM
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Its a nice way for me to say im not really wasting my time when im not getting paid for it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:58 PM
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Maybe if all you do is sit on social media all day and listen to it, but if you're not on the spectrum heavily its incredibly easy. You just go to a bar
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:43 PM
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I use that for my job, you guys here have yet to show me an independent source for it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:41 PM
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Ive seen plenty of women date guys 10 years older. Its common in real life. On reddit, not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:44 AM
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Okay. I'll for sure listen to reddit instead of going to the bar and have fun. Because putting yourself out there never works, thats why you shpuld hole up inside
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:27 AM
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Thats a great opinion you have there, I've yet to see a reputable source for this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 04:39 PM
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You can get sex JUST as easy, I promise. Go to a bar, grab a few drinks and hit on a few women. You'll go home with someone in a crowded bar every time. Bars are where people go to fuck. That's why I keep telling people to get off of here and to go to the bar. Stop being so puritanical in a lot of ways and cutting out social activities that will 100% get you laid every time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 04:34 PM
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Okay... i guess you couldn't read the data? I dont think explaining it would help at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:35 AM
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Go through the sources. It's garbage in garbage out. Using a single data point where its slanted to begin with doesn't exactly help point to an objective truth. The same way for my own job, 90% of these sources or claims would get laughed out of the room because they're so wildly one sided. Its in the "deep south" by their own standards with their source Next question?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 05:14 AM
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Okay, and if you boil it down im conquering every woman after I sleep with them. Im sure a part of them know that. Im also sure a part of his wife is comfortable knowing she's taken care of. Dont be weird and go into it too much. They're happy and his ego definitely got him the win. Im sure she likes his ego, otherwise they wouldn't be married and have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 02:04 AM
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The incredibly well known fact. You're framing something as a fact, when ive been all over the world and many people have said they would prefer to go to the united states for Healthcare and to have a child. The commonwealth fund references itself in their own datasets tons of times, polluting any sort of independence or clarity that could have been there once. I would guess if I had to, it would be in the thousands on that website. What you're saying is a fact is closer to an opinion from a web…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:59 AM
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Do you think people will realize that men and women have the same problems from different perspectives? I dont
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:30 AM
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Wow, the same source that references itself a ton? Isn't that exactly what you're not supposed to do with independent data to pollute the data and create garbage in garbage out with statistics?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:14 AM
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You sure sold me. I now now that Michigan is in the deep south according to your source, and that source references itself a ton of times for it's own data. Truly an unbiased opinion if I've seen one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:13 AM
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Ive yet to see a guy hungry to get laid care less, and in doing so raise the bar for every other guy. Be it dinner and a movie, buying her expensive stuff. Basically being a doormat or a simp for pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:46 AM
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How is it worse for you if you're American, isn't America a first world country with great hospitals?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:43 AM
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WHAT. So there should be out of control taxes, gridlock, insane prices on things, backward policies, and a lot of issues that cause red tape and bureaucracy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:41 AM
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That's a lot of words for saying you had trouble dating, and other people did too. Instead of getting rejected, you all have a group home now and have sex together and all have a situationship essentially
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:38 AM
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I completely agree, which is interesting and a bit insane to me at the same time. A lot of people of reddit like to deny it, but Instagram and social media are the new bars. Its where 18 to 21 year olds cruise to pick up. It sucks, and I've seen dudes go all out. Like a fancy dinner, bottle service, rent a fancy car, rent a guy to take photos of them and act like he'sfamous. The bar is being raised because of social media, and while it's something I would call it more of a monster than a normal …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:14 AM
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If you're wealthy, you wouldn't be in a group home. I feel like something isnt connecting. When teachers get paid 90k, it doesn't make you wealthy living in California. It just makes you wealthy if you MOVE out of California after you save all that money to a LCOL or VLOCL place after 10 to 15 years. Otherwise, you're still poor
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:06 AM
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Okay, you didnt understand the data from pew. Find a better source than one that references itself for the second one. The third is only hinge. I didnt know hinge was the only one left
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:02 AM
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I agree. Marriage is a ring on the finger, with a prenup my premarital assets are protected. Until I have a kid with someone, I wouldn't exactly feel confident that we're together as a family. It may sound shallow in a lot of ways, but I'm going to be working my ass off for that wife and kid, and she's going to be working her ass off to raise the kid with me. So we can be a family unit. If there's no kid, we can just leave
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:54 PM
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Wait what? Where did she say that? The crazies are coming out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:50 PM
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Thats... blatantly untrue. Most people are unattractive they've done studies as to the most type of attractive nose and have it down to a science. Then gen z and younger came along and literally blew things out of the water. Most group houses have an application process. You're not going to see a 300 pound guy in one unless they're making him lose weight. That was never the case. In this hyper socialized era, realistically speaking, the chances of seeing someone overweight or outside the mold is…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:44 PM
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California, and the tech area of that state as well as new york are so far removed from everywhere else on earth it's not even remotely advisable to say anything and apply it anywhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:37 PM
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Even when women DO work physical jobs, they usually dont stay. On average, how many woman workers do you think you'd see at a Lowe's or Depot throughout the week? Because a ton of jobs you don't have access to machines. The average woman doesn't want to take a dump in a hot or freezing cold portapotty, or stand out in the sun all day. This is even when holding a lollipop pays at a minimum 22 to 25 an hour. Robotics is replacing construction jobs like lollipops and heavy equipment operators. Ive …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 07:24 PM
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Ive worked in those fields, and I actually enjoy the lack of women and oversight to a degree though. It's preferable to working in an office where you have to be a a bit more reserved. In trades and other fields, you can absolutely make terrible jokes. Older women who have been in the field join right in. Younger women, not so much. Its younger guys who want the culture to change, which is fine and theres nothing wrong with that opinion. But for the culture itself to change, you also have to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 07:10 PM
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First, its many different factors not "women" as a boogeyman. Next, understand that any quota or decision made by a company had to have a discussion where they agreed to it before implementing said program. I think you may be blowing it a little out of proportion about people being canceled everywhere, this isn't the era of metoo. Most women I talk to are pretty level headed and while they understand that people make mistakes they also understand you cant be shitty and wreck someone's life over …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:50 AM
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It's not women, its a combination of other factors. Inflation, immigration, economics, and other things. Women are pointed at because they're an easy target because when you say women should stay at home, it halves the labor pool and doubles the effective minimum wage. While that's a good LONG term thought process and argument, along with the things that go with it. The short term should be focused on bringing jobs back within the borders of the country, as well as focusing efforts to not allow …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:37 AM
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No, I've tried dating older women in the 30s range. Its like getting a car with deferred maintenance of over 150k miles. There's so much to deal with, the expectations are so much higher for the same reward. Coffee date, no thanks. Walk around to get to know each other, nope. The average date with women in their 30s is two to three times higher, and it's a lot of unloading of baggage. The women who when they were younger were playing the field and chose to party, not work out, and have fun. I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:33 AM
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Women are just as responsible for how people view men, and vice versa. Rather than build men up and say marriage is great, I have a great boyfriend, or things like that, on social media controversy sells. Look at these comments. How many are positive and saying things need to change for the better and be less divisive? If someone cant help build someone (the opposite sex) else up, and instead chooses to tear them down. Is that the type of person you would really believe to have a healthy lifesty…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:22 AM
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Ive never done that with any of my exs... maybe im not as red pill as I thought. Or maybe I understand that you cant blast peoples feelings with a shotgun all the time and expect them to stick around. This isnt anything revolutionary, this is and always will be a fringe thing until people learn it drives people away
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 06:54 AM
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The logic applies equally to both men and women, and the person above me is right. A of the people here are upset that they get dumped of let go because they found a great guy, but the catch is that they're kind of expecting things to end or purposely dating people super attractive while being a doormat. A relationship isnt going to work unless both people want it to work
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:29 AM
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Actually getting off reddit and getting out there for starters? You'll never know if you need to work on something if you stay online in an echo chamber of all places
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 11:23 PM
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Ive ONLY dated people I've liked, and they were into me. A ton of this stuff seems like half baked psychology to avoid just getting out there and saying that you may need to work on yourself after striking out with women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 11:21 PM
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That's the attitude of someone who was raised by a tablet, and goes back to first point. Being so passive that they'll never commit to anything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 11:18 PM
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Thats a real possibility. You're looking a generation of kids being raised on tablets, computers, and smartphones. To them, online bullying is real. To a lot of them, paying for a shoutout on twitch is a form of social interaction even though its parasocial. So the question then becomes, how do you break that cycle
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:20 PM
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Yes, thats what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:07 PM
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The people who believe that, both men and women are also the people who are the ones who stay in relationships that aren't moving towards marriage. Like a boat without a motor and only an anchor. They're coming up with every reason as to why it's normal, or how its weird or embarrassing. Younger people just lack the serious drive to get married, the world is in such a great place in every way. If there was a war, economic collapse, or any serious disaster you'd see women go back to wanting marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:01 PM
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I guess you didn't think about it that hard...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:55 PM
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Everyone i talk to in person has zero trouble understanding me. Only on reddit, and specifically here are there issues with these things... Think about that one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:49 PM
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Ok. Im not really going to argue semantics with you because you just are going to ignore the reality of things
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:42 PM
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It never has been. Ive only known two people who have had a marriage out of it, and one of those marriages doesn't look that great from the outside. Online dating is more of a convenience method rather than making dating a priority. Ive yet to see any real meaningful results from any dating site, and that includes places like match where you pay a ton per month. I dont use it, but I've seen the people who do. It's the same type of person thats attracted to only hanging out on an online forum
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:15 PM
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People have had multiple families for years, legally, add Mormons, common law marriages, and other things where one party says they're married and the other doesn't. It's very easy to see how there can be a difference on paper and reality
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:09 PM
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Reddit attracts a specific personality. You may be right about the set of people and how they interact with others online, but not in person
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:28 AM
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Im decent looking and dont mind if we fuck like bunnies. I've yet to had women not eyefuck me in public, and these are hot 18 year olds. I'm fairly realistic about dating and everything going into a relationship. It may work out, im hopeful it may, but im not afraid to fuck and leave
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:03 PM
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Sounds like you're projecting, but tell me more about how I feel
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:55 AM
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I can tell, you only know how to strawman and cant really make any good arguments. Good knowledge with the sir though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:02 AM
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I did, it's in the thread. Maybe not right here, but its answered already. Next?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:01 AM
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Ill let the women know you're standing up for them on reddit or something? I dont think they care. Most are married or something. Sounds like you just want to be right
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:58 AM
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Asked and answered. Next?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:54 AM
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Who said I didnt sleep with them.. you're the one who sounds angry about people having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:46 AM
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I mean every single college girl I've known has slept with over 60 guys, as well as dated and slept with guys over 30 because of the money and stuff he can give her. But every time on reddit people deny its true. College girls are like shooting fish in a barrel. They'll sleep with anyone and everyone for a couple drinks in my experience, as well as all my friends...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:41 AM
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Thats a huge problem in my opinion. When people cheat, people rarely say what happened that drove the wedge between the couple? Instead almost universal that people rush to comfort the woman and blame as well as ostracize the man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:37 AM
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Its only a huge problem because historically women think more as a group. As such, when you add social media to the mix, even reddit, you get these batty opinions like don't talk to women anywhere but x or y, and never do this. Those type of women have issues socializing in general, they drag their friends down, they're against having a healthy relationship, their against marriage, they don't like the idea of a nuclear family. It's very obvious if you were to sample a ton of posts here and other…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:39 AM
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Dont worry about what women do. You cant control another person. When you find a person who likes you, they'll make sure you know. Put it this way, I think I've paid for two or three women's dates. Thats it. Don't believe everything on reddit. Most women who were into me were super excited to just hang out and do ANYTHING. We could hang out in the freezing cold and they'll have fun. This is why I say get out there. Don't worry about screwing up a ton with women. It's going to happen and I hope y…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:19 AM
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I mean, thats life. Look at it this way, whats stopping any man from going to a bar this weekend? Sure he may get rejected, but then he'll also have a good idea on where he stands. So many younger people need to move out from behind screens and go be people. There's no risk to a woman saying no or hitting on a woman. Ive only had one ex that did that, and everyone thought she was crazy. Its a free world, and people really need to get out there and stop saying there's risk when you're not trying.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:03 AM
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Keyword being serious. I be down to clown with most professional women But im pretty laid back and you shouldn't take me as the baseline
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:30 AM
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I like porn stars lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:28 AM
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You need to learn technique if you dont have size. I have almost 7 inches and ive never had complaints. You just need to learn positions, angles, and moves that work for you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:27 AM
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Thats exactly how I operate today lol. I opt for a coffee date, she wants drinks. If we get drinks, I'll split the bill either way though. Im not really spending money on women until we've been dating a couple months. But that's honestly how I've always done things, and I've never had an issue finding women or sorting the ones who are looking for a free ride But you can believe the women who believe they're entitled to dinner, drinks, or something else make it loudly known and have tried to sham…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:22 AM
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Then change being the ugly friend? Lose weight, get a haircut, meal prep. There's so many easy options as how to stop being the ugly duckling, no one is making anyone do unhealthy things
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:11 AM
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Only experience will tell you to drop women who play games and to go after women who want you. I've never had an issue dating attractive women, or any woman as long as they're into me. When that merry go round stops I get off and accept that it's time to find a different woman. Its the nature of the beast. You know when they're into you because you could make a dumb ass joke thats stupid offensive and she'll still laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:06 AM
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They did make that noise haha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:23 AM
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I mean.. I've creampied almost every one of my girlfriends on the first date so...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 12:13 AM
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As a fellow gym rat, get her. Also get you a girl that squats a dump truck, not a cardio bunny lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 12:09 AM
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You should never listen to women with dating advice. Most successful women dont even listen to women. Women date like animal farm, everyone is equal but some are more equal than others. Men are pretty straightforward with advice
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 11:50 PM
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Younger generations have this strange obsession with purity. No caffeine, natural foods with no hormones, church no matter what, no sleeping around, no alcohol, no smoking or drugs, etc. But at the same time, want to have the experiences of a teenager... which just isnt going to happen unless you indulge in those behaviors and the part of your life of being a teenager and live a little. Personally I blame social media, smart phones, and the inability to put down technology for five minutes to en…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 11:42 PM
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Well if you really think women lose their life to marriage, then you're destined to drag every relationship down. It shows that you drag everything down in how you talk about everything, really hateful, you dont have any joy for relationships or being with someone and it shows. Maybe they weren't "taught" but that's what they want. A healthy relationship, not one where they attack any and everything around them and say they'll lose everything if they're married. Maybe you should talk to a profes…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:32 PM
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The normal world? You know, the people you hug that aren't pillows? The bar, gym, everywhere that has an attractive baseline people? It doesn't matter where in the world, the attitudes are pretty much the same everywhere unless you're online
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:36 PM
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This may be the reason you dont want to get married... hint hint. You're projecting your own bad experiences onto every other woman and dragging them down, rather than lifting them up which is so very wrong. You should probably go talk to a professional about things. This is exactly why the attitude on reddit is the opposite of the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:06 PM
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They want sex, just not with you. Realistically if you boil attraction down to resources and what you do for each other, there's a large possibility that youll see they want to have sex but they also lowered the bar. Be it because the guy or girl was overweight, a bit socially inept, cant make friends, all sorts of shit. But really they want sex just as much as anyone else, just not with you. That why I encourage everyone to find someone who likes you for you. Not for what you give them. Women w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:44 PM
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I wasn't talking about single moms, nor do I care about their issues. In fact every single I've known and dated has has had their parents, the extended family, sometimes the father. So it was "really" difficult for her to get dicked down lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:43 PM
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I only have so much time in the day, clothes and skincare goes on the bottom. Gym and a few others go on the top. Not because they're gay, but because of priorities. I need to keep my strength up, and I dont have have all the time in the world to worry about if my shirt matches
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:08 AM
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Wait, what? I'm single and happier than almost any woman lmao. So when did I get my free degree for being a man, or use my man card to learn all the necessary life skills, everything really? Where is this patriarchy, and why hasn't it handed me everything like a lamborghini for a winter car, or maybe a yacht too. If I wanted to quote numbers, percents, and studies about women, id quote the study about women who couldn't orgasm, identify the parts of their of vaginas and find their clit. It sound…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:45 AM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:36 AM
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Ding ding. There's no real reason for a lot of women to "want" a relationship. It's not the 1950s, she can do everything on her own. I, and many people I know have all been asked what we would add to a woman's life if we dated. The answer was our values, money etc. That wasn't good enough many times over. So in my mind, there's nothing I can add to a woman's life until I meet someone who likes me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:34 AM
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Its by design. When government stepped in and basically became the man in marriage and relationships, there's just no real drive to pair up instantly anymore. Because even if you screw up, there's so many safety nets that why do women realistically need men even with high inflation and everything? Everyone around me has noticed third spaces dropping, relationships getting harder, and less people getting married. If you take away the government safety nets and make women rely on men the same way …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:29 AM
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I wouldn't say trolls, but they have an angle. Its okay to have preferences, but be aware that for every preference you have you're excluding so many of the opposite sex. Just like in a work environment, if you aren't improving you're probably falling behind an a sense. You should stay competitive in a sense, be it eating healthy, exercise, socializing, hobbies. There's always going to be someone better than you in any one area. But the idea is to be like the Swiss army knife and be well rounded…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:35 AM
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The technology is already here. They're already cutting thousands of jobs due to ai and automation. The snowball isnt stopped anytime soon, its only picking up speed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 06:00 AM
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You know that a ton of low effort white collar jobs, i.e. the girl jobs you see are being outsourced to the Phillipines, South Africa, and other places until data center can do it for pennies. Beyond that, an unpopular opinion but low skill labor in every field is disappearing, and many women and men just dont have what it takes to move on and up. From competing with a robotic forklift, to AI transcription in the medical field, and even lower pay and removal of some nursing duties because AI too…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:58 AM
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No one likes a person who doesnt fit in. Women just have it easier because while they can be autistic its usually called shy, socially insecure, finding their footing, or some other term by a lot of men. Men love tits and ass. The bar is a LOT lower for women, and even an autistic woman will still be the chooser in 2026 simply because so many men will go above and beyond for a simple conversation, drink or interaction. All the woman has to really do is eat properly, some basic self care, diet an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:40 AM
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Having that many options tends to just make women go with men who are better looking, more money, better career, everything. There's no reason for her to drive an Nissan when she can drive a bmw. The personality is usually really bad, but you dont get rich by being nice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:21 AM
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Ill let you know whet I post PII
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:14 PM
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Theyre busy working, working overtime, manual labor jobs, being single, and doing everything themselves because they dont have timezone be angry. If I had the time to criticize social media, make it, and edit it, I probably wouldnt be single because id be rich
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 07:15 AM
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Its spray and play, numbers game, learning how to close, being a player, being able to game women on a certain level, a quagmire. Theres many ways to put it, but the important takeaway is that you just need to stop being a pussy and get out there and get shot down A BUNCH. I mean tons of times. You dont learn much by winning, you learn from losing and by the mistakes you make
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 12:21 AM
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I know, and it took me years to realize that I need to just do it myself. As much as my family and friends may say great job, no one is going to put in the hard for me in the gym, in life, or any other aspect but me or you. It's a rough conversation for a lot of people because it takes a ton of accountability to understand that your actions do impact the here and now, as well as your life down the line
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:32 AM
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That's my opinion on it too. I think its an incredibly smart take on women being sharks in the dating pool and constantly expecting men to pick up the tab for things. Holding out until engagement or marriage does even the playing field in a lot of ways
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:02 AM
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I mean, I dont think thats a terrible idea all things considered. Women have jobs and everything, there's no reason I personally should be funding her and I going out when I can have the conversation to split or pay fully switching off. If she doesn't agree, then she's probably a little too much maintenance for me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:59 AM
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Usually from talking to dudes who swing both ways, they hide it from women or their partners. Its twice the competition, and unless their partner is very secure which most people are not, it ends up slowly eating away at one's confidence and reassurance until they're second guessing their partner for no reason. Im not saying its fair or right. Its the same hesitation I have with dating a woman who is openly bi with her friends and has girls nights at her friends houses. It would really make me q…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:55 AM
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It got banned BECAUSE it didnt agree with the agenda reddit pushes. The one where you need to be a doormat, agree with women all the time, be a gentleman, a white knight, all of that. Sure I may sound a bit toxic to people on reddit and may make the the sort of jokes you hear on married with children, but a ton of people love those things
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:51 AM
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Ive met several who have electrical engineering degrees, masters and bachelor's. There's just only so many jobs and traveling back to the Philippines, and country in SEA or even Russia after working here for 25 years and having two jobs makes you live like a king through retirement. There's There's nothing inherently wrong with doing it, but a lot of women today have to be convinced to save for tomorrow and retirement. I can see the appeal of dating and marrying into a culture that is way more c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:24 AM
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Women would never give you good advice. That would be giving the hunter a better gun. Women change for every man, where most men stay the same. Not every woman will like you, just do the boomhauer approach or a numbers approach. All dating is is sales. Selling yourself, appearance, social skills, and personality to a woman. Be wary of women who play power games or think playing games is acceptable like being a bitch for fun or making you chase. Ive dated 10 or so women, and never had that happen…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 07:02 AM
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LMAO. Who takes women's, simps, and obiters opinions seriously? Theres a reason a lot of those people try to drag others around them to their level. They aren't happy with their situation, and misery loves company so they can complain together
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 06:57 AM
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It sounds like youre extremely progressive, yet are just are too poor to afford a mail order bride. Which I'll add has been a thing since always. You just need the cash to keep up with the lifestyle. You have a big word salad to say that you dont like rich guys going and marrying women from other countries who choose to marry that guy. Those same women may have masters or PhD, or multiple degrees. Ive met a few and while they did come over on a visa the only money they were really hungry for was…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 06:53 AM
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Absolutely. Before online dating women basically could date within 15 miles or so. Now they have dudes willing to drive 30 minutes one way to do things with them on a whim. The guys who raised the bar by doing extreme things and by being suitors and orbitors of women really screw with their egos. Its not healthy for the woman or the man, but it does leave the woman's opinion or the bare minimum pretty inflated of what a guy should do. Theres so many guys "taking a step back" aka doing what I did…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:34 AM
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Ive yet to see a women who's over 45 single, happy, smiling and bouncing around who's also childless. You can frame it however you want, but end result is the same. You also sound like you're 19 years old. Give it a few years of actually dealing with life, then come back and say the same thing about men and good choices
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:53 AM
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That's a word salad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:28 AM
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Im 5ft 9, I just played sports a lot when I wa younger. I only lifted weights into my late 20s, never before. What really got me women was social skills and being witty
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:15 PM
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Im not trying to brag, id never tell my actual body count. In my experience women want a man, but they want different qualities like you said. I guess the best way to think of it is like a pie. You add some looks, and you take away money, or add height and take away something else. Women are just people and will let a lot slide because they know you. Ive yet to see some magical formula that would attract women, unless you count a yacht and being a billionaire. But the odds of being a good lookin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 07:54 AM
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Im well aware. In my experience, flirting is mildly about looks, decently about social skills, and a lot about timing and reading the room. Looks do play a part, people just overthink how much women are willing to let slide for a guy who has other qualities. Social skills, a decent connection, things in common, ambition, the ability to work through issues, etc. Its not just a set formula, and never has been. When I was overweight, I got laid a lot, when I was skinny, I got laid a lot. I have a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:02 AM
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I dont know who told you that, maybe on reddit? But if you go to a bar, you'll see most women are more than happy to eat off the plate in front of them. It just kind of happens that in real life there's only so many options, especially at a bar. When online dating comes around, you'll see women and men stay single longer because they dont have a connection or anything in common. It happens a lot of the time. But there are no double standards for most women, if you're being told to wait because o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:41 AM
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Its sarcasm lol. You can absolutely get it, but you'll never have time for women at the rate of maintaining that lifestyle lmao. Thats the catch no one talks about
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:11 AM
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Any man can get that. They just have to commit a lot of time to the gym, go out a lot, have women centered hobbies, know how to play the game, good social skills, basically be a pickup artist plus look great. Dating changed in the last 10 years, and its a big competition. If you want to come out ahead or even stay with the pack, that's the "bare minimum" now according attractive women. I personally don't like it, and find it draining
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 05:31 AM
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Most guys I know who are older and not married have more than one casual girlfriend lol. The women kind of roll over with it. The women get taken out and dicked down, and the dude gets laid. Everyone wins
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 05:01 AM
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Are you joking? Why have bars, pool halls and other places been struggling if so many people are screwing and having so much sex? Connect the dots, it wasn't just covid that wiped them out. It was mostly the younger generation that wants this super clean trad lifestyle with no partying and early to bed, but also to find a partner without socializing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:59 AM
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Men lack the role models in the neighborhood to show them that it's good to bang the hell out of women. Women have always had the same role models to say getting laid is good
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:56 AM
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Yep, people lie a lot. I would say double it and it's closer to accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:54 AM
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There's no short term vs long term lol. There's just partners. It's just, would I fuck them and how often? You're overthinking it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:51 AM
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Seriously? I work out a ton, carb cut, dress fine, live in a big city, etc. At a certain point the women who match with me in real life could be confused with a butterball turkey, they have issues walking at a brisk pace, or they're getting back into the gym. A lot attractive women are in "relationships" but never married after years of being strung along. They're upset about their boyfriends and still stay with them even though its basically a situationship and a dead end. Its just my personal …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:48 AM
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Of course. Women love to approach men, who fit a certain body type, social status, wealth level, or are already messing around with. It shouldn't come as a surprise to men that if you look at a lot of men who have girlfriends, they're in shape, have social skills, dressed well to an extent, and generally go out. Until you can meet the bare minimum of those categories, you're probably not meeting any women and definitely not getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:39 AM
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Thats not exclusive to a gender, that's both men and women. A ton of people under 30 flat out lie about "not having social media" or it not tarpitting them. You can see the results of people who are in their phones all day. It's people who wear headphones nonstop, wont talk to anyone, have bad social skills, and cant manage a social life outside of work hours or barely manage it during it. If you think its bad now, just wait. A ton of people I talk to cant put their phone down for a few minutes …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:44 AM
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Of course there's people pulling the strings. There always is. My point is I have to move forward in whatever situation im in, be it dating or whatever. I need to keep adapting and just performing at 100%. Otherwise I'll fall beh8nd everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:15 AM
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Of course they don't, its inconvenient. Being a wingman or building a bridge both ways? Rarely happens. They're called allies of convenience for a reason, and ripped into when people are at their lowest. Men's dating issues at complex, and no one wants to go out and foster that relationship when they can basically require the other party to go to said environment like a rally or protest instead. Everyone I've asked about it has said just be yourself, confidence, or some wild answer. Nothing help…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:05 AM
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DING DING. Right on the money. I used to be left wing, and that exact thing happened. Metoo happened, and no one would even be a wingman for me, or even acknowledge that I had dating issues because I have a dick. Their words were all men are evil and bad, and eventually they acted like it never happened. Those are the exact things that drove me to be right wing. Not some internet forum, or crazy political agenda. It was literally the people around me who kicked me when I was down and refused to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:01 AM
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You know all women all go after the same type of guy, where as guys are more realistic about women. Women get really pissed off when you even mention that, where as guys just have preferences. Its a knee-jerk reaction on a certain level, because women dont want to rock the boat with the women around them. With men, they already know what boat they're in growing up, unless they lose weight, go to the gym or work on their social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:51 AM
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Tiktok and filming, but not staged
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:44 AM
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You mean... how I go out every weekend and meet a ton of people? Reddit warriors are afraid to talk to women. Have fun with that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:48 AM
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I guess you're determined to never meet a woman. I can hear the Sahara between their legs at the rate you're going
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:42 AM
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You just come up with excuses as to why you cant do something. That's why you're never going to succeed with women. Here's the deal. Either go talk to a woman, or keep whining that you you're too scared to be social and have fun. You sound like you're ten years old
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:16 AM
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You wouldn't talk to anyone at a third place because you dont talk to anyone right now. You'd still come up with the excuse of it's a cold approach. Who's stopping you from talking to women now? Any place is a third place if you see a cute woman. Maybe you need better social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 08:09 AM
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Alcohol is the answer every time. Its an unpopular opinion, but it works because people get in their own head like you said
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 08:05 AM
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I agree, on the other side of the coin you have an increasing number of women becoming upset that men aren't going after them for marriage. But they aren't the catch they thought they were, and no one really wants to talk about how marriage is dropping but relationships aren't. I think it has a lot to do with people gaining weight, younger generations leaning into this insane "traditional" lifestyle where they dont even party or go to the bar, and go to church, all while never actually hanging o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:59 AM
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No cold approaches, and thats a good thing. But women wont approach! Honestly this sounds like it was written by a woman or a man who is on women's side to make a safer society. You only really named one problem, and thats men not looking for women. So either the women need to lose the weight and get more attractive and be less materialistic, or men aren't going to want you. Men still go out to bars and everywhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:50 AM
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Its reddit. As a whole, its almost the inverse of real world interactions. Everyone under 30 is glued to their phones, and having a harder and harder time socializing while those older are seeing the effects play out online and in real time. I.E. this right here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:26 AM
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I completely agree, and its shocking when you do the math. A ton of people, men and women will absolutely deny that they're cutting out a huge portion of the dating pool by doing these things, then end up single
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 06:28 AM
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While a joke, theres always a bit of truth to every joke lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 04:26 AM
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Ive seen that exact thing happen so many times. Its way more common than you'd think especially when you realize the personalities involved that you see higher up the ladder. They're sharks, and it usually spills out into their personal life for better or worse
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:52 AM
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Lmao. Women can sense a misogynist or incel the same way they sense people who get laid. They dont have a sixth sense. Terrible men get whatever they want, but its a two way street. Women give it up much easier then before. Most people fuck on the first dates, always have and always will. If it doesn't happen to you, it's probably not happening
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:44 AM
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No one would ever take getting laid over money lol. They'd just place a lien and be done with it. You're in some fantasy land where the woman is broke and needs her roof fixed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:09 AM
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Everyone I know who is a well over six figure earner has zero problem in their marriage, and had no problems. That being said, there's a serious trade off where you make that kind of money and people don't understand that. Anyone who says money isn't an issue is full of shit. Money is always an issue, lifestyle creep, security, vacation, cost vs benefit, diy vs hiring it out. People who don't make that level of money won't understand it and will call bullshit. That's fine. My point is that when …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:24 AM
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Women in their 20s think any guy who isnt loaded or able to do whatever the woman wants is an asshole. Ive noticed a ton of women and men in their 20s are unable to set healthy boundaries. That included me by the way. Theres nothing wrong with that sort of attitude, but people do need to be aware of what is going on around them relationship wise
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:57 PM
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Women like it when men arent toxic so much as assertive. Theres a very fine line when you assert your sexuality as a person or assert other qualities. Crossing that line may get you in the door, but it won't keep you in the proverbial house. I dont have trouble with any women. Im AVERAGE looking, go to the gym 5 or 6 days a week. And can talk to women. Important part is to assert yourself and to show you arent a unic. Check her out, flirt, its okay to make racy jokes wherever you are. When someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:54 PM
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Almost every single mid 30s year old woman ive tried to date has had baby rabies. That being said, I still would date them. They're just offputting because they keep bringing up marriage, babies and punting forward the realtionships at warp speed. Its like most 30 year old women cant handle the fact that they're single without a prospect. My advice is to look inwards, and stop look outwards. I dislike it when people treat a meet and greet like an interview, and a lot of 30 year old women who are…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 12:55 PM
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Okay. Would you seriously date a fat bald guy, 6 inches shorter than you whos absolutely ugly, has a 2 inch dick and makes 15k less than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:57 AM
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It has to do more with people being to plugged in and too afraid of talking to each other. Ive never really had that problem, rejection fucking hurts a lot. But the more you get rejected the better youll deal with it. So i advise you to do the boomhauer approach one wekeend. You'll obviously get a few numbers out of it. Stop blaming external factors, and start looking at what you're not doing to fix your own situation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:02 PM
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It means you're too young to understand the comdey reference. Theres an obvious reason you get approached so much, and im sure if anyone saw you they would be able to point it out in a second. The reason you cant figure it out is the same reason a fish doesn't understand how to use a bicycle. Downvote me all you want, but the truth normally stings
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:21 AM
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Like chapelle said, wear the uniform and you'll have people thinking you have the job
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:44 AM
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People told me it was my personality for years, turned out it was because it was because I was only 5 ft 9. Women hate to admit theyre superfical, because if they have to admit to something like that it means the charade is up. They can't hide behind a nice guy or dick size doesnt matter
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:51 PM
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I have plenty of bad things to say. However, this one in particular has a lot more to it. Too bad no one will actually hear the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:01 AM
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Its a first world country, this is not the norm. If it has become the norm for you, you need to really take a step back and ask yourself what you did to end up in that situation. People don't just "become unhinged" its a lot of different issues and they asked for help many times. You probably thought it was a joke and told them they were funny leading to negative reinforcement. It speaks more about you than them at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:37 PM
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Learn how to read statistics. Then circle back to this conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:31 PM
1

Maybe more women should have been against the idea when it became a possibility of happening. I have nothing against gay rights. What I have a problem with is when someone does something in bad faith. Then expects other people to clean up the blowback and secondary effects and refuses to see a bigger picture. I dont think it's a womans problem exclusively, I think it's more of a keeping up with the joneses problem. When you measure your ego in the neighborhood, you see that your neighbors suppor…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:05 PM
1

So you're on steroids, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:56 PM
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Rather than explain why you're wrong in about 5 paragraphs, citing sources that you can easily look up and find with quick google search. I'll just say that you're right
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:30 AM
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How many of those quotas are attached to scholarships. Women get bonus points for them. They have an easier time getting into schools, and an easier time getting into trades now. Even in the trades you can be fired for making a bad joke when theres a woman on the job site. A lot of internships will turn away men at this point in favor of women, because they want more women in leadership. They pay for the womens education, everything. So where is the affirmative action?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:58 PM
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Ding, and the pendulum swings left. What happens when it swings back right? All the banks said a new hitler would be elected because of the turmoil, and a lot of other people have said trump was just the beginning of whats to come. I think because the middle class and men are a bit disenfranchised at this point you will see them step back, and you'll see politicians get more and more radical
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:41 PM
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Im normally reading about stocks, investments, and other things that affect the future years down the line. Its not attractive, but once you have a good foundation you can spend time on things that are truly extracurricular. You shouldnt waste time on social media anyways it rots your brain
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:28 PM
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Ive tried explaining to guys I know that they need to have a social network of friends. The response I get is that I have no idea what I'm talking about and I'm crazy. Those same guys cant figure out why they only have their girlfriends as friends though. So a lot of people just don't want to accept what happens. The other side of the coin is that women need to stop with the bullshit of im scared of a guy coming to talk to me. They aren't, its a first world country, they want an excuse to not be…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:42 PM
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Ive approached many average girls. They say they're very busy or some other excuse. Now when I'm in the gym, a lot of women have no problem talking to me. Funny how that works
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:45 AM
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Its not that i dont approach women, it's that i focus on improving myself first. If a woman makes an effort to put herself near me while I'm doing those activities then I'll meet her halfway. After a nasty experience wth an ex I did some searching and realised I needed to drop my own baggage before I would be ready to engage someone on an honest level
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:36 AM
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I didnt jump to the red pill until my mid 20s. Had an ex that accused me of stalking her 7 or 8 states, raping her, and a whole bunch of other stuff like death threats. Lost a lot my friends and had trouble dating because she would sabotage any relationship I had by finding my girlfriends on Facebook. I broke up with her because she was screwing around with a couple different girls and guys. While i found this place a few months ago, a lot of her behavior makes a lot of sense now. It puts a lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:14 PM
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