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| 15 | An uncomfortable truth for men who believe their race/ethnicity is stopping them from meeting women.Ethnicity does matter but not in the way those men are thinking as you stated. What I mean is as a black man, I won’t be able to pull some non black women purely because I’m black. I had one girl I dated literally almost get disowned for dating me, she hasn’t dated outside her race since. So yes while it’s true that if some parts of your game are lacking you won’t get women, it’s also true that varying factors may stop you from getting her despite having great game being handsome etc. mind you t… | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 07:21 PM |
| 4 | Is anyone uncomfortable having sex too fast?I don’t really understand, why are you inviting them to your bed if you don’t want to have sex? Just do it when your comfortable. There’s nothing wrong with it but some girls will want you to move faster | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 07:18 PM |
| 5 | Unpopular hot take: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but we're under pressure to make moves or else we'll be friendzoned.Mostly to shed light on the pressure men feel to make moves on dates since modern dating doesn't allow enough time for things to organically unfold. | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 04:42 PM |
| 7 | Unpopular hot take: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but we're under pressure to make moves or else we'll be friendzoned.I’m so confused, which are you advocating for? To have sex at the 3rd date? To have it after some months??? Regardless I’ve slept with some women after the 3rd date, but yeah things should happen sooner than later. There are also women out there who genuinely like to wait. But, despite all this, at the end of the day she will sleep with people at varying times | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Was she being sexual with me in text??Mmm normally I’d agree with you, but since we’ve been talking so long I don’t care so much about text game anymore. In the beginning I was with you though, concise texts, really only for rapport or going out that’s it. But we are past that point in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Was she being sexual with me in text??Yeah we are, I’m late 20’s. It’s a weird case bro, she just moves extremely slow. Her and her first bf didn’t get together for months, the last dude she was with they didn’t mess around for months too. I want a relationship with her so I’m moving at her pace but don’t worry, I’m talking to other women as well. The moment I feel like this isn’t going anywhere I’ll let it go, regardless of how great she is she isn’t the only girl out there | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Was she being sexual with me in text??….. bro are you 11? Holy shit lmao you gotta be trolling right? This is a great way to end up getting arrested. | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Was she being sexual with me in text??Gotcha yeah I think it’s not a big deal the more I think about. She just moves real slow, only had one bf, only had sex twice in her life, so I’m just making sure I respect her boundaries. Oh and in both instances they didn’t sleep together until months passed. Don’t worry I’m talking to other women too, this girl just has some really good qualities. Otherwise I would have left a long time ago | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Was she being sexual with me in text??Yeah I said it as a joke but realized she may think I literally mean I’d do anything for her. But we’ve known each other enough to where she should know I’m playing | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 03:44 PM |
| 0 | Was she being sexual with me in text??I purposely wrote that last bit just for you and all the people who’d tell me to date other women and I still got asked haha. Yeah I mentioned up there that I am talking to other women. We’ve made out every time I’ve seen her, I’m only taking it slow because she moves slow. Don’t worry if I get any indication it’s going nowhere I’m out | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Was she being sexual with me in text??Oh but I’m king over thinker lmao. In the moment I said next time I see you maybe I should bring over some patron and Hennessy, I’ll start drinking again just for you if I have to. Oh course she knew I was joking, She laughed I kept it pushing, it wasn’t until later that I was like wait 🤔 did that go over my head. | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 10:07 AM |
| 4 | I really want her but don’t know what to do nextYou should aim to ask her out, if she continues to flake or reschedule then you let it go. Also your text conversation wasn’t the best, always have the conversation be focused on her and her interests. Of course yes have some input about your life but don’t just keep it on you. Think about it, the moment she said her weekend was good and yours? I would have kept how my weekend was brief and tried to get her to open up about hers. The way you responded, what part was she supposed to respond to? T… | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 09:51 AM |
| 2 | How does one learn text game?I look at their bios and pick out something they said that most interested me or I’m most adept at talking about. I love music for example so if a girl says she loves a certain artist I’ll talk about that genre of music or that artist. If she has no bio comment about something interesting in her pictures | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Do you refer to it as ‘date’ or not?You’d be surprised, but if you knew that then why ask the question haha. Regardless definitely make sure she knows it’s a date prior to when you confirm. I’ve met plenty of weirdos who wanted friends, a free meal, etc. granted I’ve never actually taken them out cuz they know I intend to take them out on a date well before I take them out | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Do you refer to it as ‘date’ or not?Yes always call it a date, you should call it a date somewhere prior to that point like after I get a girls number off the app and I’ve built enough rapport, I’ll say I’d love to take you out sometime what’s your schedule like? I pick a day then when I confirm the day of I just say we still on tonight? That way you don’t have to last second spring on them that it’s a date. Be clear with your intentions every step of the way. I’ve never taken a girl out who didn’t know it’s a date because the ver… | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 09:28 AM |
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