Throwawaywanttoplay Archive

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3	How important are material items to women? Depends on the woman. For me? Not at all important. So I work with a dentist who drove a Toyota Camry. No rust or anything. I found it super sexy that someone in his pay grade would drive a normal car. It showed me he’s not materialistic and that he doesn’t think he’s better than anyone else because if his profession/income. Like he doesn’t need a fancy car to compensate because he’s good enough on his own.	/r/seduction	29/08/20 10:59 AM
0	I got the tip to be bold while flirting with girls, it works online, but how do I do it IRL without the fear of turning it into sexual assault? Damn that sounds perfect lol. I guess it depends what kind of girl you are looking for. I’m a good Christian girl who’s going to smile and laugh and blush. On the first date I want a kiss or 10. By the third date we can be making out heavy on the floor after watching a movie. I’m grinding my hips into you. You whisper in my ear, I want to fuck you so bad. Boom! We are having sex. I’m also the kind of girl who wants a relationship; then you get to fuck all the time. If you want an STD riddled dra…	/r/seduction	28/08/20 01:46 PM
0	Premature Grey Ommmg greying hair is such a turn on for me personally!!!	/r/seduction	28/08/20 01:38 PM
1	Girls don’t expect you to be perfect. Secure is hot. Even if you fake it.	/r/seduction	28/08/20 01:37 PM
1	Is it weird to approach a girl at a coffee shop? I met my husband working working retail. Total stranger. We’ve been married 15 years.	/r/seduction	28/08/20 01:35 PM
1	How to I tell her I wanna **** her ? I mean, go out on dates, make out heavy on day 3, and start grinding in to her. Then whisper in her ear, “I want to fuck you so bad.” Boom. Done.	/r/seduction	28/08/20 01:34 PM
1	Suggesting to go to her place Don’t suggest my place! Now I have to deep clean and worry about how alI decorate. Take me to your place so I can focus on making out and banging.	/r/seduction	28/08/20 01:32 PM
1	The best way to say "I Wanna Fuck You" \| Build Sexual Tension Through Eyes Wow. Hot. Some women like me may nervously flit their eyes away. We still like you and want you to bang us hard, lol. The eye contact, the mouth open breathing, the confidence. Hottt.	/r/seduction	28/08/20 01:29 PM
2	What does sex appeal mean to you? Confidence is sexy. Intelligence. Humor. Your body language. A wink, eyes, smiling, licking your lip, etc.	/r/seduction	28/08/20 01:26 PM
1	Empathy seems to be a fundamental you all forgetting here. Omg I’m a woman and never thought of this. 100% though!	/r/seduction	28/08/20 01:23 PM
2	What's your opinion, do you need a high perceived social status in order to get girls interested? Yes, you need to have a value. You could be broke, and a little ugly, but have short clean fingernails, and be passionate about something. Skiing, travel, reading, cooking, anything. The value could be you are kind, funny, smart, and into her. And it depends what kind of “beauty” you are looking for. I’m beautiful, have big, round, perky breasts, and used to be thin (now I’m curvy/chubby boo!) but I had occasional acne, and was more girl next door. I wore make up, but not heavy eye shadow, or fa…	/r/seduction	28/08/20 01:20 PM
1	Differences in gender? As a women, and just the way my personality is, i like the guy to make the first obvious moves. I’ll initiate conversation, smile, giggle, blush nervously and hope he asks me out. That’s just what feels right to me personally.	/r/seduction	28/08/20 01:13 PM
2	Correct me if I’m wrong, imma noob Yep! Giving your number puts the ball in her court is less threatening. You could skip phone conversations. A stranger did the same steps as you, and gave me his number, but asked to call if I wanted to go out for coffee sometime. I already had a short term boyfriend I was thinking about dumping and waiting for him to come home from a trip. I called stranger the next day, at like 10, I guess this was an uncool move on my part, but so don’t play games. He was hot and we had things in common, so I…	/r/seduction	28/08/20 01:10 PM
1	How + where do you meet women in the suburbs? Horse farms (hundreds of women, very very few other guys is any. At a horse show? Thousands of women, very few men, mall, grocery store, gym, at her place of work (dentist, doctor’s office, cashier, whatever.) I’m not the bar, online, or club type, so these would be the more common places I frequent.	/r/seduction	28/08/20 01:00 PM
1	Does asking for a girls number point blank work or does there need to be a little rapport first? A few minutes of rapport, chit chat, commonalities, then give her your number. Way less intimidating for her and then she can call you if she’s interested. That’s how it went with my then complete stranger now husband of 15 years.	/r/seduction	28/08/20 12:57 PM
1	How to ask for one night stand directly? I never would intentionally agree to a one night stand. Nor would I want it to happen organically. I’ve had sex on the 3rd date before, but we are still together. I can want sex NOW, and still want to get a relationship and more sex out of it.	/r/seduction	28/08/20 12:52 PM
3	Looks are not #1 I will be attracted to guys that aren’t my type or conventionally hot if they are confident or fake confident, kind, funny, smart, well groomed (ugly or not well trimmed clean nails, trimmed facial hair etc) and into me. A hot guy can get real ugly based on personality and a guy I wouldn’t normally consider hot at all is literally a 10 in my book and I want him so bad because of his personality. Unfortunately I’m thinking men are more wired for looks. You have a lazy eye, acne, crooked teeth, bu…	/r/seduction	28/08/20 12:50 PM
2	I almost lost my virginity Yes, you are much better off getting to know a girl over a few dates, making out, building up to other things, then having a non drunk, maybe a glass of wine Netflix and chill night. More fun and you won’t be accidentally raping someone.	/r/seduction	28/08/20 12:45 PM
2	I almost lost my virginity It comes down to you are acting confident because you feel good about yourself. Women love confidence, fake or real.	/r/seduction	28/08/20 12:43 PM
1	Feeling like it's too difficult The work it takes to woo a girl is the same effort/reward it takes to do forplay. Go right for my clit with your finger a few min and go right to sex? Meh sex for both. Make out, kiss on my neck, breathe into my ear as you gently nibble it, work your way down. Tease my by licking/gently nibbling my thighs, hover over my clit and breathe warm and heavy on it, then go to the other thigh. Start with a slow sensual lick on the clit and build from there? Yeah eat me out and finger me for however many…	/r/seduction	28/08/20 12:40 PM
1	How to gain a girl’s interest on a date? I’d want flirting. Whether a wink, nervous laughter, etc. I’d also have wanted a kiss on the first date, but would absolutely expect it on the 2nd. Otherwise I’d assume they aren’t interested.	/r/seduction	28/08/20 12:34 PM
1	How to handle and get over nervousness when trying to approach a girl? Nervousness I get not her specifically but people around us. They might be giggling with you. Like if you say would you line to listen to icecream and eat music with me?” I’d giggle and think it was cute. Even if you are super smooth, when you started to walk away I’d giggle and blush talking to my friend. Laughing can be a pleasantly nervous behavior.	/r/seduction	28/08/20 12:33 PM
1	How to handle and get over nervousness when trying to approach a girl? Nervousness I get not her specifically but people around us. Nervousness is cute/charming, but only if he’s connecting with you. Hiding your eyes and or saying anything? No girl. Making eye contact, nervously looking away, then looking back at her, stumbling and messing up words while you comment on the weather, and nervously smile? She’ll be flattered she flusters you, and think it’s adorable. You can give her your number. Then as your walking away, you walk into something? Your’re still good. She’ll call you, go out on a date, and be excited to get to k…	/r/seduction	28/08/20 12:30 PM
1	Never chase women That’s no fun at all. I don’t want to marry a guy for his money. I want to marry a guy I have chemistry with and flirts with me. Someone who makes me laugh. I love to be chased, but you shouldn’t have to chase her far before she turns around and chases you back. Then you meet and start the game again and when she’s comfortable with you she’ll start chasing 50% of the time.	/r/seduction	28/08/20 12:25 PM
1	To what questions/topic do women react positively? I agree with the other posters. Asking about my hobbies/interests, then asking follow up questions, asking me to elaborate if great! I’m nervous on a date and I don’t have to think too hard to come up with source material. I’m not likely to offend you talking about my hobbies. I like horses so I’d say a few things and then clam up because I’d feel like a dumb nerd because not too many people like horses. So pretend to be interested (you don’t have to pretend to really dig it, want to do it etc) …	/r/seduction	28/08/20 12:22 PM
1	Stop paying on your dates I dunno, I’m a traditional girl. It’s not that I want them to waste their money on me or that dating me is a privilege, but as a more traditional female, I like to feel “chased.” Desired, sought after. In the same vein I want you to tell me something flattering, and then I’ll blush and say, oh my gosh, thank you.” Then later in the date I’ll comment on how nice your hair looks etc. Dating is a dance of give and take. I like guys to ask me out. If they don’t? They must not be interested. I like a…	/r/seduction	28/08/20 12:13 PM
2	What's the Timeline Do you mind sharing the physical disability? For example, let’s say you have a gnarled twisted up leg and need a cane and where a weird large shoe. Online we meet, you send a headshot, and don’t mention it? On our first date, I’m surprised, confused, wondering if I acknowledge it, am I allowed to ask questions about it etc. instead of focusing on your charming smile, your handsome eyes, or your interests. So divulging after getting to know each other online before the first date, In a casual, bu…	/r/seduction	28/08/20 11:55 AM
1	I got the tip to be bold while flirting with girls, it works online, but how do I do it IRL without the fear of turning it into sexual assault? Start with baby steps flirting action. Depending on scenario, how much time you have. Let’s say you work together. Talk. Ask her questions. Tell her about yourself. Make inside jokes. A guy I work with will make a comment agreeing with something funny a patient or coworker said and then smile and do a wink. Letting me in on the secret that he thinks they are/the comment was amusing. Not making fun of them, but maybe a cute little old man says something funny/adorable. Receiving the wink is very …	/r/seduction	28/08/20 11:15 AM