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Wow, I'm glad that rang true for you as well, and I'm really glad you posted cause I think it helped me solidify those things about myself that I only sort of realized subconsciously and hopefully it helps both of us. I know exactly what you mean when you say It almost makes me feel like more of a failure sometimes than when I didn't try at all, because it's almost like I put my best foot forward, and it still wasn't enough. What annoys me is that guys who are more needy, less attractive, and ha…
/r/seduction08/05/14 09:49 PM
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Man I agree. It's frustrating but you're right. We just gotta keep pushing. In all honesty, this may differe for you, but I feel like a lot of the responses in this thread in one way or another encapsulate small aspects of myself that all snowball into the bigger problem. Like I know I struggle in being truly genuine at times, I know I have difficulty being vulnerable and coming across like a real person, (or as No More Mr Nice Guy describes it, "The Teflon man") I have trouble truly engaging wi…
/r/seduction08/05/14 09:12 PM
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I don't do daygame as much as I want to but when I do, I'd say the solid majority of the time I open very direct such as "Hey I know this is really random but I thought you were really cute" and it does a great job polarizing. At night I try to escalate my dancing very quickly to more sensual touching and kissing. In both areas, it's definitely possible that I start strong and just kind of wane down a bit. I don't know how to really maintain the momentum. Particularly in a conversation cause I f…
/r/seduction08/05/14 12:57 PM
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No, I'm actually on the complete opposite end. :)
/r/seduction08/05/14 12:53 PM
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I agree. I just need an actual social circle to start with. Right now I'm mainly just one dude with a bunch of friends from many different areas so it's more a scatter plot than a circle. I've tried bringing them all together but it's easier said than done. I wish I could find a friend group with a more unified interest (aside from staying inside and playing video games)
/r/seduction08/05/14 12:53 PM
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This definitely resonates with me. I grew up and I don't think I ever really had genuine interest in other people. Unless it was a girl I liked where it became interest purely for selfish reason and that fell into the whole "Nice guy friendzone" stuff. Most conversations would usually just be me waiting for my turn to talk about me, and now that I'm aware of that, it makes me realize when other people do that and how selfish it seems. I try to always follow up on conversations with people, indul…
/r/seduction08/05/14 01:13 AM
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Lately, it's not as much. Classes kept me really busy during the semester and I don't usually do daygame unless I'm killing time on campus. I usually go downtown once or twice a week. I try to approach every girl I see who I know I'm attracted to. I hesitate once in a while but I always try to pull through as often as I can. As a result, I only get a few numbers a month. Like I said before, if the interaction is good, nothing will stop me. If it's average, I might shoot for it anyways. Many time…
/r/seduction07/05/14 07:51 PM
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I try to take good care of myself. I usually wear jeans, and a button up shirt with long sleeves rolled up. I may not be MFA over here, but I don't dress like a slob. My hair is starting to get thin but I still attempt to style it as best as I can. I'm far from overweight, but I definitely need to put on some muscle. I weigh like 135. I've lifted weights for many years, but I guess I never really push myself for gains. I recently signed up for a gym and I'm gonna start a strong regiment because …
/r/seduction07/05/14 07:31 PM
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I could definitely see being a boring person being part of the problem. It's something I'm working on. I know I have substance on a personal level. It's just not something I'm good at portraying I guess. I've kind of been conditioning myself to focus on other people and talking about them rather than talking about myself.
/r/seduction07/05/14 06:59 PM
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So be the man that a woman can't say no to. Be the man that woman fight over. Be the man that gets to pick which girl he hangs out with that weekend, concerned only about all the time you have to spend telling your harem that you're unavailable. From your personal experience, how do you become this man? I know this sounds like a dense question on this subreddit, but to me stuff like this still seems hard to imagine happening when you're on the other side of the spectrum.
/r/seduction14/04/14 09:02 PM
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22 is definitely not that old and the reality is, you're putting a lot more pressure on it than is ever necessary. You don't have to lie to get laid, in fact, the topic doesn't even have to come up. I lost my virginity at 21 to an ex-girlfriend and she didn't even know it was my first time. I only told her after we finished and she was shocked because she couldn't even tell. Don't worry about virginity because it's a pointless label that's going to hold you back from achieving what you want. It …
/r/seduction08/04/14 03:09 AM
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I think all the inner game stuff on Seddit is incredible. Once you stabilize who you are, gain confidence and stability, half of the problem is already solved. I wish I could explain in greater detail ever single piece of the puzzle, but all I can say is consume all the sidebar material, find some of the most loved videos/books/content/etc. on here and just consume them. Don't use them as a Bible, because becoming too rigid is counterproductive but gather the information in the back of your head…
/r/seduction31/05/12 05:30 PM
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I have to agree 100% on the sounds. So lovely haha
/r/seduction31/05/12 05:14 PM
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I think the experience surrounding the act is what made it great, maybe more so than the actual physical act itself if that makes any sense. Essentially, I think I enjoy it more for making sure the woman thoroughly enjoy herself, rather than me getting off. And I can't speak for any other girls, but this one definitely, definitely seems to enjoy it. It doesn't really feel like a need to me. I still feel more or less the same, Definitely more of a "that was cool" thing than any sort of necessity.…
/r/seduction31/05/12 08:54 AM
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Fair enough. I understand where you're coming from. The only thing I would say is I do think these stories, even without the technical aspects can help motivate people and give them inspiration. I know it always used to help me to read non-technical FR's of other people's success just to see "Wow if they can do it, I can too one day" and here I am. I tried to include all the technical aspects in my initial pick up FR to help there. But the truth is, I can't really even tell you the technical asp…
/r/seduction30/05/12 08:54 PM
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Ahh my bad. Friends would be asking me if things were awkward between us the next day or something. I was just clarifying we were on exceptionally good terms. We're still being very flirty, very fun, it's some really awesome chemistry.
/r/seduction30/05/12 07:44 PM
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In addition to what the other commenter said, my lesson was near the end. Essentially, going out, doing more and having fun is a huge part of the equation.
/r/seduction30/05/12 07:15 PM
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Don't stress it definitely. If you're honest about yourself and your situation, what it takes to improve, have the right mindset, then put yourself out there, have fun, and make attempts, it will happen for you.
/r/seduction30/05/12 07:01 PM
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Oh no, I totally am grateful to Seddit for every last bit of this happening. Months of getting myself into the right mindset, understanding how to act in clubs, hell, even just GOING to a club. All of this totally came into play in some form. Technically speaking though, I just didn't feel like there was much that came into play, particularly in this story. Things with this girl just kind of flow really nicely. The initial field report definitely had some more technical aspects.
/r/seduction30/05/12 06:56 PM
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High fives to both of us!
/r/seduction30/05/12 06:53 PM
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I honestly don't know. I think the nerves of it being my first time might have kept my endurance up. It honestly took a lot for me to come, and the second time it didn't even happen. I suppose porn might have been some reference material that built up the process in my head. Beyond that, just moving my hips at the right tempo at the right time. Fast, slow. Feel the mood of the situation, and go with it. Know/Find hot spots the girl likes for touching, kissing, and incorporate those too in the pr…
/r/seduction30/05/12 06:52 PM
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I did? I didn't mean to. We hung out again last night, we're seeing each other again today. It's a lot of fun and she's a really cool girl.
/r/seduction30/05/12 06:42 PM
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Cause everyone is asking I've updated the post to link to my field report from last week: Field Report Here
/r/seduction30/05/12 09:44 AM
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I wrote a field report for that actual pickup last week. Field Report Here
/r/seduction30/05/12 09:43 AM
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I broke down the actual pick up in this field report from last week Field Report Here
/r/seduction30/05/12 09:43 AM
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I wrote a field report for that last week. Here it is
/r/seduction30/05/12 09:41 AM
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It's been going well. She's very mellow, very understanding, very nice. We hung out again tonight, hanging out again tomorrow. It's been quite fun :)
/r/seduction30/05/12 09:11 AM
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If I can do it, I assure you that you guys can too. :) I'm not even close to being a PUA by any stretch of the imagination.
/r/seduction30/05/12 09:10 AM
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Bwhahah thank you :) Yes as the commenter said, we had made out quite a bit in the club prior to, it was a pretty natural escalation on the date. As far as the initial make out goes, it was just an in the moment thing. We were dancing real close, I gently lifted her head and it was solid from there.
/r/seduction30/05/12 09:09 AM
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Maybe around 10-15 times since discovering Seddit.
/r/seduction30/05/12 09:07 AM
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