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Pretty much this.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 01:54 PM
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Depends on context. This whole question lacks context. Generally, plain yelling and arguing shows lack of control. When people think of the word Arguing, they immediately think of fights between partners/people etc. Which is probably why you are asking this. Having an argument is not the problem. The style and purpose is. One can debate/argue in a mature and civil way and one can scream like an incel. If the argument is useless to hold, then why bother? Always ask yourself what gain you have fro…
/r/askTRP18/12/19 01:51 PM
2

If you have to work hard for LTR then there is fundamentally something wrong. Everybody has hard times now and then but rest should be naturally.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 02:26 PM
4

In my life experience so far, morals disappear into thin air when interests are at stake. Whether it be personal or business relates. Don't let it bother you much. If you run into immoral things, ask yourself if it is impacting you. If not, it is not worth to spend energy on.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 08:36 AM
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Usually people are gifted with management abilities and can become a manager within half a year. In you're case, i doubt you're naturally gifted with the right skills and thus you need field experience first. Like a few years.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 06:51 AM
12

She told you before what makes her wet and you are asking us why she isn't getting wet from aggression. Logic. None.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:27 PM
3

Sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 02:21 PM
3

You broke like all Iron Rules of Tomasi when it came down to the relationship scene. Wow
/r/askTRP20/11/19 11:37 AM
1

Sounds to me you need MALE friends more often around. Noway you just got magically into a situation with female around you.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 11:33 AM
1

If you go into monk mode based in your first point then imo people are doing it wrong. Monk mode is to work on yourself and only yourself. It doesn't have to lead to increase in SMV because the goal of each person is different.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 11:28 AM
2

These fanfictions are getting funnier every time.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 03:27 PM
1

My answer was based on OP's height and claim that height didn't matter for him. His lousy fix of 2-3cm is bullshit. Maybe actually read the entire reply and not just the first three words. His entire post is fueled by insecurity.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 04:17 PM
4

Shaming is what both men and women do to try to disqualify their competitors due to insecurity. "Look at him, he must be a fuckboy/asshole with his muscles" "Look at her, she must be a slut dressed like that" Different gender, different messages same goals: test frame or to disqualify you.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 08:29 AM
4

Sub is long due. Majority of questions is PUA, bodybuilding, seeking validation and teens who think their life is a wreck because they cannot keep up being Red Pilled.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 12:24 PM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 12:20 PM
3

Sidebar, books, read.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 08:35 PM
1

"Been fine/great/good, thanks" End. If she is interested, she would ask another question.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 12:45 PM
1

I like how majority on this sub can tell his own SMV. As if it some kind of magical number written inside of their eye balls.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 12:43 PM
2

Short answer: Sidebar. Long answer: Bullshit, read the stuff. This is answered so many times.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 12:41 PM
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You wanted to keep it fun and lighthearted yet went for dinner as a date. don't do dinner on first date or second. Could hardly tell from your post. Dinner is uptight awkward confrontation with little room for proper game. Sounds to me you didn't game her at all but went through the boyfriend checklist together, as you're confirming this somewhat in your post. Finally you went nuclear on her with the narcissist question. So did you end up paying for the dinner yourself?
/r/askTRP29/10/19 12:36 PM
2

Rollo claims/says that the one who needs the other the least in a relationship has the power. Ask yourself this question. And drop the "deep connection" or any related topic stuff before doing so.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 09:18 PM
2

Example one is cringe, didn't read the rest. When someone tells you twice or even three times some excuse, in this case IHAB: You should get the hint.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 01:56 PM
1

So what is your question?
/r/askTRP22/10/19 03:17 PM
7

Perhaps a very standard response, but for a newbie I would stick to a simple plan: 5x5 Stronglifts or Starting Strenght. I have no idea how you setup this program as well. Edit: you didnt give us any data to work with. What is your age, length, current weight, current maintenance calories, daily activity (office job/school/etc) And most important: what is your goal. Edit2: Personally I think you are in the wrong sub for this specific question.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 12:57 PM
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It is not bad, rather it is uncomfortable. Your entire body will be in digestion/processing mode which will make you restless. If you want to eat something before bed, make it light like fruit. It falls under same things as playing games, watching tv/tablet/phone until bed time but that is up to 30-45min before bedtime.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 05:12 AM
1

-11/10 troll fan fiction. Wouldn't read again.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 05:07 AM
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There is no "still". you know nothing. Go read the book I mentioned. And stop lying to us. You didnt read the book at all. All this "deep connection" shit is plain bullshit you got fed throughout years. You got a severe onitis for the girl. She cheated on you and you're clinging to hopes and thinking you can fix this and let her back in as LTR.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 01:19 PM
1

Well third time you didnt escalate while she was all over you.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 11:01 AM
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You went beta mode by trying to negotiate her showing the message. Nice shattering your frame into pieces. You broke up? Good. Having feelings for her? Sounds logical but you keep forgetting how Hypergamy works with females. Her sending "I love you" is typical attempt to keep you Beta mode. Text is meaningless. You should know this. You shouldn't have tossed her phone. Shows lack of control on your side. You're Red Pilled you say? Don't think so. Time for you to hit Rational Male book. It will o…
/r/askTRP21/10/19 10:51 AM
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Stop hitting her up. You don't need to reply to her. She is not your plate, not your girlfriend. Basically: Next.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 10:46 AM
3

How old are you anyway?
/r/askTRP17/10/19 02:56 PM
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Afaik during workout is near useless because the only thing that are absorbed by the body fast are sugars. Protein before or after workout is more logical and effective. During workout hydration is all you need imo. But if you're doing this for long time and your body is ok and you're happy with the results that is fine. Ps are you cutting or bulking?
/r/askTRP17/10/19 02:53 PM
2

So you want to approach random girls on Instagram? Then standard guidelines apply like on Tinder: Be good looking, don't be ugly and 2-4 messages should result in phone number else next.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 02:49 PM
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Well you're awoken now and understand how this all works. Don't be hard on yourself. Time to go get plates. Are you virgin btw? Well, doesn't matter. Work on plates for now and lift if you aren't.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 01:38 PM
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That was absolutely impossible to get from your OP. Now you tell us? Either way, it doesn't change this. Ifyou got plates then why the hell aren't you nexting this one?
/r/askTRP17/10/19 01:14 PM
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Did you get her instagram instead of phone number yes or no.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 01:11 PM
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Stop coming up with excuses. Takes two to Tango. You're committing into this fake breakup by seeing her every day . You're showing signs of oneitis and seeking validation. No signs of abundance here. Bet you don't want to next her.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 10:32 AM
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Attraction cannot be build over text. No idea what you're trying to achieve. If you got someone's insta instead of her number then you're just one of those guys.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 10:24 AM
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Not sure what your friends program is. So cannot judge. But as a suggestion: 5x5 Stronglift is a very good beginners program to become stronger and gain mass. So read: - Stronglift 5x5 (the program to follow and explanation) - Starting strenght (another program, explains technique and more) I hope you calculated your maintenance and required surplus of calories. Make sure you know how much fibers, protein and fat you need. General rule of thumb is 1,5 to 2,0g of protein for each kg of body weigh…
/r/askTRP17/10/19 07:30 AM
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You won't be seeing results until at least 6 months. And definitely not if your diet is not fixed. Fix your diet. Eating overdosis of protein is a myth because your body can process a certain amount based on your growth. Eat what you need. And for that, calculate what you need in terms of calories surplus and required protein and hit the goals every day. Especially on training days. Also what program are you doing? There are no shortcuts, there is only discipline.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 04:26 AM
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I was expecting the exact reply as anybody else who felt butthurt when told to hit the side bar. No need for internet points, mate. You're whole behaviour and posts reeks of desperation and insecurity. Is this how Red Pill is practised these days? Desperate kids trying to act Alpha? Hence you need to hit the side bar.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 04:56 PM
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OP needs to go back to the sidebar.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 12:52 PM
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There are no shortcuts, there is only disclipine.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 06:10 AM
1

Make sure to wear a chasity belt, just in case she tries to peg you
/r/askTRP09/10/19 12:56 PM
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Important: How old are you?
/r/askTRP09/10/19 12:50 PM
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Come back when have calmed down. When you do, sidebar. If you claim you read it, you would be lying because your OP would be different.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 01:36 PM
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Wow, many people here either have no friends or really never experienced a proper wingman. Point of a wingman is to help you isolate the girl you target who is with her friend(s). The wingman allows easier entrance to small groups which otherwise you would alone find harder. The wingman has your back. Hence it is called a wingman. Now to your question: Your wingman has to be social and understand game and what it means to be a wingman. If he is shitty, do it alone or find a better wingman.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 05:37 AM
2

This reminds me of my own question whether to introduce RP to family members. See my thread history, several people gave solid advice.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 05:26 AM
1

Let us reverse the question, why do people make terrible posts and not ask actual questions? From what I keep seeing - people being not fully honest with their question or story - Writing whole essays about basic sidebar things (i.e: my plate disrespected me) - writing fictional stories - people deleting their posts/questions - Obvious trolls - very young teens who think they swallowed the red pill - insecure people who don’t know how to just say “thanks” when being complemented. - Not asking a …
/r/askTRP03/10/19 05:19 AM
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You’re writing a fanfiction is what I am feeling as well. You’re either hiding facts, bending your story or just being silly. No “billy beta” is openly going to accept the scene you wrote.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 01:15 PM
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I think it was in the early chapters of The Rational Male, it read along lines: Women can fix things on the outside, but it all comes from the core: Unhappy/broken/insecure/reasons. In general, inplants show this insecure behaviour. Unless she had breast tissue removal due to breast cancer, then that is a whole different story.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 07:38 AM
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It is a plate, you decide what to do. If you got turned off then ditch her. Unless it is your only plate then you know what to do.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 07:31 AM
1

As you don’t seem to answer questions straight, I am going to conclude you’re just another orbiter or a troll at this point. Go read the sidebar in any case.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 09:28 PM
1

I guess something along lines of kino/escalate, gauge her response then if green light, immediately go for logistics (motel/hotel/your place).
/r/askTRP01/10/19 12:17 PM
1

I highly doubt it. What is your goal? Are you fucking her?
/r/askTRP01/10/19 12:04 PM
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You’re texting her, she is asking if you missed her and you’re trying to be the opposite of an Orbiter? Aren’t you being an orbiter right now? And why are you texting her? Apparently not for logistics.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 10:27 AM
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Sidebar. No honestly, this is covered in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 10:24 AM
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Asktrp, your source for wannabe-alpha fanfiction with no actual question.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 12:25 PM
1

Lifting 3x a week changed my energy levels in a positive way. Of course you need to back this up with proper diet and proper sleep. It is a triangle, and you cannot slack on each side. Neither you need to overdo it.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 06:44 AM
1

Are you here to pick a fight with people or actually asking for advice?
/r/askTRP27/09/19 11:52 AM
1

Almost everybody is telling you to cut on fat, yet you keep complaining. Are you waiting for someone to say “it is fine”? Next you will say body builders look small.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 09:02 PM
10

Are you looking for a fight or something?
/r/askTRP20/09/19 08:51 PM
1

If you google around about caretaking vs caring or caregiving it is explained.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 08:33 PM
0

See professional therapist if you’re that fucked up inside. Everybody needs to vent.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 10:42 AM
5

How old are you anyway?
/r/askTRP20/09/19 10:39 AM
2

Small extra details like her mom’s name make the difference, well formulated.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 08:32 AM
2

You are not being nice or want to be nice because you care, but because you’re caretaking. Your phrase “i feel good when helping” and enjoying “win win” points this out. External validation like it was mentioned by others. You are not being honest with yourself and others.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 08:28 AM
3

This question would’ve been more logical if she was LTR material. She is not. Lesson would be: Stop taking this so serious.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 11:18 AM
2

It means you’re overthinking.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 11:08 AM
14

Holy shit, a whole essay for a plate. She is a plate. She owes you nothing, neither do you. Are you mate guarding her? Why are people on this sub autistic about their plates?
/r/askTRP19/09/19 11:00 AM
3

I guess this is also a good example of hamstering right? Because it concludes in her head to: “He broke up with me” and “Not my fault”
/r/askTRP19/09/19 10:58 AM
2

She won’t, so stop dreaming.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 10:53 AM
1

Aren’t you having a oneitis for this girl? Your OP and replies smell of desperation. What is your goal? To take her virginity? To be the special one for her?
/r/askTRP19/09/19 09:24 AM
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True, the safe word is between partners who have a healthy sex life. Doesnt work for borderline crazy bitches or similar cases.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 09:22 AM
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That is why partners mutually agree on a Safe Word. When the word is spoken, it is stopped.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 10:22 AM
1

If you do some research: Growing/stimulating thicker beard doing XYZ is a myth. So if you cannot grow a beard you ideally want, try to work with what you have. If not, then clean shave and compensate with a hairstyle.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 10:18 AM
1

Aren’t movies bad venue locations for escalating?
/r/askTRP18/09/19 10:13 AM
1

And now you’ll get friendzoned (aka rejected) for 75000 times.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 10:09 AM
1

This story smells. You cannot get kicked out like this. OP is also replying very vague for someone who is having shit. Sounds to me you’re not being honest here.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 11:29 AM
1

It seems writing fanfiction on asktrp is popular these days.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:19 AM
1

I would’ve gone with saying ‘k’ as reply. Because who cares? Now you went butthurt and insecure. I don’t even believe you usually STFU because your post screams insecure all over.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:14 AM
1

Is that a troll question?
/r/askTRP05/09/19 04:38 PM
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Where is the question?
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:44 PM
4

You’re already marking yourself as a loser by expressing this. It comes over as insecure. Your reply should have been: I will give it a try. “No” is always the answer if you dont try. Just dont tryhard, she is either attracted/interested or not. If not, then get over your mini-onitis and carry on.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 11:32 AM
1

Starting Strenght / 5x5 Stronglift. Read it thoroughly. Do it thoroughly. There are no shortcuts, only discipline.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 08:55 AM
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Every single time a female gives a compliment people on asktrp overanalyze the shit out of it. Including OP. Just say: “Thanks”, you weirdos. Stop being so insecure. Like how many times people said: Watch her actions.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 08:53 AM
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Have you lived for 54 years? Exactly, you cannot help him.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 06:00 AM
1

I suspected before but now know for sure based on OP’s replies: -11/10 troll.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 05:58 AM
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By putting my needs as first and keeping them in check every often.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 05:35 PM
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Clearly that is not the case for this person. In his eyes she is LTR material, because he is whining about his “plate” fucking others.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 05:33 PM
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I think you dont see your plate as a plate but oneitis. Think about it, you wrote this huge post about a plate. And three years? Do plates really last that long? Edit: where the hell is the question as asktrp is about? Why do people keep posting these venting/emo posts?
/r/askTRP02/09/19 07:43 AM
2

Since when did asktrp became the place for FRs?
/r/askTRP30/08/19 11:25 AM
2

Bare feet.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 09:28 AM
1

Calling people ‘boys’ when you’re not even half the man is kind of awkard now isn’t it? You went on a trip with het expecting things/behaviour from her. This is what they call covert contracts in No More Mr. Nice Guy. Maybe read that book. Also sounds to me you need instant dose of the sidebar asap.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 11:26 AM
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If it is genuine compliment just say thank you or just thanks. I keep seeing this question coming often. Are people really this insecure and over-analyzing everything?
/r/askTRP14/08/19 09:40 AM
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Reading people’s comments and OP’s response I can conclude OP is troll. Next.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 11:33 AM
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The overanalyzing or troll comments always amaze and amuse me on such questions, including OP’s. Not everyone wants to risk a baby or STDs. And OP is acting clueless. Always bring a rubber.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 09:29 AM
1

OP doesn't give us much background/history. "Female friend"? How long, from where? Age difference? Why is this your friend? Does she have a boyfriend? So many questions and all we get is some conversation with lots of guessing. > Girl: "Entertain me, I'm bored" Your response to her was butthurt and her follow up response shows that she has no respect for you and is playing around with you. Your female friend is using you for entertainment purposes. I guess TRP calls this being an Orbiter right? …
/r/askTRP29/07/19 03:10 PM
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OP: what do you expect to achieve if you start smoking weed? Approval? Validation? Coolness factor? If any of these are crossing your mind then stop. Like everybody else already said, don’t do it. There is 0 benefit from smoking, let alone weed. Waste of your money and you’re not missing out on anything.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 06:49 AM
3

Couple of days on and off? Don’t you think the ship sailed away long ago?
/r/askTRP31/05/19 12:07 PM
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Contact a suicide hotline and/or cops. Keep that audio message and guard it with your life.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 07:17 PM
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You said it is cracked half. If you still have the original piece of your tooth, they can glue it back, sand it and polish it. It will look as if it is natural. But this is of course dependant on how skilled your dentist is.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 09:50 AM
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Visit a goddamn dentist. Common sense is really fucking rare it seems on TRP.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 09:30 AM
3

OP you better bring some lube
/r/askTRP07/04/19 09:29 AM
3

Reading sidebar material and people's advice on this situation, I learned that you simply next the girl if she doesn't wants to hang out. By continuing to talk to her you come over as needy and desperate or tryhard. Many people have echoed that she is simply not interested in you.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 07:16 AM
1

Last time I checked RPWomen I noticed that they are fully respecting TRP and are definitely not against RP men. Not sure what your beef is with them. Have you started trashtalking and shitposting on an alt account at that section?
/r/askTRP07/04/19 07:14 AM
1

I've once listened to an extensive article on happiness and being happy. Was a group of psychologists male and female. One particular male said something like: "Stop trying to be happy all the time or living a happy life, but instead cherish and enjoy the happy moments." He further elaborated that trying to live happy all the time is a huge burden and unrealistic goal. You can't be happy every second of your life. So whenever something good happens in your life, enjoy and fully embrace that mome…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 07:11 AM
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This must be some kind of troll question. Only hygiene caring prostitutes/escorts give BJ with a condom. You're either a paranoid person or the girl you're "fucking" is batshit crazy.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 06:52 AM
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Forget about their opinion or viewpoint, Why the hell are you even smoking? And weed? Seriously?
/r/askTRP06/04/19 06:47 AM
2

Pretty much what most people already said, stop the Covert Contracts. ​ Wake up news: You're a Nice Guy. You're not caring. You're caretaking, which is bad. ​ The book No More Mr. Nice Guy! has a nice side to side list comparing the difference. You're last paragraph only amplifies and confirms. Here, I'll cite for you: Caretaking Prevents Nice Guys From Getting Their Needs Met: "Nice Guys believe their caretaking is fundamentally loving and is one of the things that makes them good people. In re…
/r/askTRP06/04/19 06:40 AM
1

Cleaning the pipes once in a while is a good method to prevent this right?
/r/askTRP01/04/19 07:13 PM
0

Either you're a poor troll or just clueless. Let me wake you up from your dream: You cannot gain muscle mass out of the blue. Why the hell do you think it is called bulking? It is eating beyond your TDEE in order to prevent degeneration. Just stop giving poor advice.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 06:56 PM
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What kind of advice is this? The guy is asking to cut or bulk and his body percentage is messed. Heavy weights? What the hell. That is for building strength, not even gaining muscle nor burning body fat. ​ The number one reason why people fuck up lifting: Focussing too much on strength and weight and not enough on body fat. ​ @ OP -> Since you're reading bodybuilding site, I have no frikken idea why you're aksing this on asktrp. Seems you didn't put enough research into cutting/bulking. Are you …
/r/askTRP01/04/19 06:44 PM
1

Did you even ever in your life attended any martial art sport or contact sport? Your post smells of echoing other people's words.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 11:17 AM
3

Sounds like an April Fool's joke.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 07:31 AM
1

Chapter 2 and also 3. Though don't read it mid-way, you'll miss essential build up the author has written. According to the author, Nice Guys who fail or don't get the result they desire, simply do more of the same but try harder. Like other posts said here, you need to find something you love/enjoy/find interesting.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 10:55 PM
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Doesn't looks like it. You're playing dumb guessing games with cryptic answers when a simple question is asked.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 10:41 PM
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Your posting history confirms my suspicion, you're just spamming for attention in various subs.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 10:32 PM
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What kind of cryptic answer is this? If you have this much trouble to answer a simple question then you're just being lazy and attention whoring.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 10:27 PM
1

Suggesting to read No More Mr Nice Guy!. It has a chapter devoted to this question you're asking. (Read the full book).
/r/askTRP30/03/19 10:08 PM
3

Are you still a student? Finished education? You're not giving any information to work with.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 10:00 PM
0

I am early 30' and don't see cutting off ties with your "Beta" friends is required. Sounds to me you're just insecure and egoistic. So yea, I would say you're being an asshole. From what I keep reading around here is is people who claim they are Red Pill aware start adopting extreme behaviour and seeking online validation for their behaviour. But that is a matter of calibration what others say. I have friends, some married, and probably Blue Pilled if I let people judge them here. But they are p…
/r/askTRP24/03/19 10:09 AM
2

Honestly curious: How would you first try to get the girl going on a "date/meeting"? I assume texting for only logistics right? But as this is Tinder, doesn't it first need some basic comfort to avoid coming over as a creep?
/r/askTRP23/03/19 08:29 PM
1

OP, stop playing guessing games and just cut to the chase. You're not being honest with us. You're reacting by asking a question which 99,99% sure someone said something about your way of life.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 09:05 PM
1

My personal schedule is three days a week. Always on Monday, Wednesday and Friday. Weekend is off. Also always train on same time. About motivation. It is matter if goals and willpower. Don't have scientific material to cite but if you keep this up for more than 3 months, it becomes more of a habit/usual routine instead of struggle. Got to have a goal to make it worth it. Goals can be: Cut on body fat Bulk Strenght Endurance You name it and just do it.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 09:54 PM
1

Awareness is pretty much for me the correct word. Describes it much better than "I swallowed the red pill". Because as far as the human body goes, you shit or pee things out if it is not absorbed into the body. And that is how majority of these people also come over when I read their posts.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 03:54 PM
2

CanaryCherryJewel just triggered me to read your post history. You're kind of one of those people I mentioned in my OP.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 03:52 PM
1

When I read these threads, I am not really frustrated. Just amazed to yet another "How to fuck this girl" or "I am depressed". Makes me thing these people actually don't read or want to improve but are seeking validation online, or PUA tactics. Even when people do give advise, the OPs usually ignore it by some lousy excuse reply. Now I don't blame the people who reply and willing to help/guide. They assume the OP is aware of what he/she is doing or willing to do.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 03:44 PM
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I just noticed the sub is available again, but invite only. Cheers for notifying. ​
/r/askTRP17/03/19 03:35 PM
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I don't want to unleash a debate/discussion on what has become of TRP. My question was honestly aimed to wonder whether I am reading and/or understanding things wrong. And whether it is true that chasing women instead of improving quality of life (sexually as well) is considered anti Red Pill or not.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 03:31 PM
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Perhaps learn the read the mood next time. When someone tells you to Fuck Off right off the bat, they probably don't want to interact with you. You decided to stay and tried to play the Nice Guy card. Which is creepy as hell I would say. People can quickly call it harassment and get your ass escorted out.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 01:26 PM
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From a Western Europe country. Can confirm that unless you go to a club or some party, you're never going to be able to talk to "everyone" as you please. Doesn't matter what time of the day. Personal space and comfort zone is a major thing. It is how 99% of the people act and move. People go there with a fixed agenda and fixed party. Anyone strange to them is either asking for directions or some other small thing. Like OP said, trying anything else will instantly put up their defences or their p…
/r/askTRP17/03/19 01:05 PM
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The escalation part + pull / push is generally my concern. The venue is a karaoke place and attendees are not strangers (see OP). Won't she resist potential keno on my end to avoid drawing attention? Or am I just over thinking this? Also I'll look up that video you mentioned.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 04:40 PM
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This must be a fucking troll/joke thread because: "Activated red pill" and "I’m not just attracted to her body it’s her soul." don't compute.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 11:07 AM
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Curious, did you also contact someone and made him a Safe Person to discuss these things with?
/r/askTRP26/12/18 12:26 AM
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To be honest I haven't started the exercises yet. I still need to re-read the book to plan those. However, as mentioned in my opening post: I am having trouble to find the right ones to start with. As most of them seem to focus on relationship based situations. (Not all of course)
/r/askTRP26/12/18 12:25 AM
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Yes, about half a year ago (before actually reading this book) I identified myself definitely with my friends/family being a Nice Guy. I toned down that behaviour so much, that my own parents started to question me why I am no longer spending more time with them. I told them that some of my family (outside my own parents) have little to no added value for my own needs and career. I didn't cut social ties, I just stopped being that typical Nice Guy the book describes. For my coworkers I am not a …
/r/askTRP26/12/18 12:24 AM
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Keep up that attitude, you will make it in life.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 10:29 AM
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I noticed from your replies to comments that you're showing high levels of ignorance. Like right now.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 05:22 AM
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I cannot believe every time the question about lifting + losing fat shows up, the OPs are coming over as major miss-informed or the comments major miss-informing the OP. You say you eat under your 'tdee' but don't see results. I say bullshit. Your diet is either messed up, your exercise is either messed up or a combination of that is messed up. When people mention diet, they think it is just 'eating less'. How wrong they can be. Diet for cutting is more than just that: Eating 'just enough' to su…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:17 PM
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You're right. I misused the word 'flake'. And you're probably very correct about the unsure part. Her entire mind set was so different compared to those two days before. During the meet up she was very distant. Conversations barely had spark to it. Her body language was distant. Should have gamed 3/10 to jump start 6/10' again like you mentioned. The tip you're giving about leaving them alone for a while is something that hasn't occurred to me. Fuck. That is excellent advise. Noted for future us…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 02:12 PM
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As said in other comment, I misused the word 'flake', that is indeed a no-show. You shouldn't tell her the whole date in advance, just the first part and "we're going to have a lot of fun". Not an itinerary. Gave her too much control, but was probably ok. It set the frame where she could bring her friend though..... she probably told her friend and friend invited herself, or .... well, who the fuck knows. Better to say "We'll see how we feel" or something to extended plans. You def committed too…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 02:08 PM
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I didn’t misunderstood. Your advise not to use words is baseless. Do you know how many people assume things in life by just looking? Assumption is the mother of all fuck ups. Learning to balance verbal and non-verbal communication when expressing feeings is much more powerful.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 01:14 AM
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The more I read these type of “advice” posts the more I conclude that majority the people horribly mistake TRP. This entire post contradicts with, what I keep reading on the sidebe, quality of life. Yes you dont have to be an emotional tampon or overly chatty person. But Communication is extremely important. People who mention: relationship a business are in denial mode. When you settle eventually for life to carry on as TRP person you need to discuss feelings. How you discuss them obviously is …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 04:16 AM
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Good job adding words I never said. If TRP is about quality of life and self-respect then you don’t need fucking drugs.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 12:56 AM
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Single digit body fat? You mean below 10? Dude, that is body builder style to go that far low. If you want that, you need to hit it professional. 10-12% is doable if you setup a serious cutting plan. And 10-12 is seriously a healthy and fit base to bulk muscles. 15 is not fat, that is average.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 03:55 PM
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Drugs is simply no no. I don’t even see any benefit from it for adding to your TRP experience aside self-pleasure. Steroids never interested me when I started lifting. It is also too much hassle to research, maintain and not to mention the money.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 08:27 AM
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I agree hard on the Biological looks. I started balding/major thinning hard on hair when I was only 22. That fucking sucks because hair is something that can definitely improve looks by nature and even more as artificial look by styling it.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 08:08 AM
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Your housemate should never ever be your or someone else’s wingman.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 05:42 AM
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I am seeing more of these questions and it actually amuses me. In a positive way. I mean, what is a betrer thing than getting shit testes by people who thought you as beta. Sounds like good field practise to me
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:48 AM
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Good luck keeping this attitude when you work for a major companies with high velocity of deliver or work load. I work for a major bank in my country, the staff at my department exists 80% self employed or externally hired. They grind 8:00 to 17:00 every day just like the regular employees. Unlimited vacation days? Cool, but every hour you decide not to work equals missed income.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 11:19 AM
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As newbie to TRP, from all the material I've read so far, nothing dictates it as a lifestyle. So why would you seek out YouTube channels who dictate or tell you about this?
/r/askTRP30/04/18 11:12 AM
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This is a pretty poor excuse and goal to aim for self employment. The freedom trait is a huge misleading thing people fall into.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 07:43 AM
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Correct me if I am wrong, as you put out two diets, do I assume you are both bulking and cutting and altering this? If it is, then you seriously need to establish the basics first. Which is seriously cutting to desired % and only then bulking. If it is just diet shown when you cut or bulked then I am extremely curious why you are at 16% after 4.5 years. Something is going wrong here. I don't see any intensive fat-burning exercises in your schedule. The schedule is heavily focussed on individual …
/r/askTRP29/04/18 05:24 PM
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You're lifting for 4.5 years but on what diet and what training schedule? What is your body fat? Ever got that properly measured by skin fold? (and not the ones where you stand on a dumb scale which calculates it based on some small electric current). Too much generic things presented to accurately judge.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 05:05 PM
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Positive: Discovered TRP and askTRP last Monday. As follow up, discovered my life is currently at stall. Reading TRP and planning. Not fapping (on 7 days now) to clear mind to spend that energy doing useful things. Negative: Confused about various reading material, example: some answers to shit test examples people give contradicts in another post with exact same question. My personal state is unknown, cannot post a thing that is bothering me because of new account. Patiently waiting. Focus: Pre…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 04:27 PM
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Being in your field of vision on purpose. Like on a dance floor, if she is constantly repositioning for you to see/watch her.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 03:17 PM
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So where does watching series/movies on Netflix falls here? That is a typical behavioural addiction too. As soon any activity with high entertainment becomes a burden for you and impacts your quality of life, that is the moment you should start breaking down. When porn is a routine in your daily life, then either you're a porn star or you're very addicted to it. Same goes for video games. I guess unless you're a 'professional' gamer, movie star or porn star, none of this should be a life time go…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 02:58 PM
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No, I am not.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 11:45 AM
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Sort of like collecting energy, confidence and becoming more relaxed as a result?
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 09:03 AM
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I felt overwhelmed by the amount of information when I landed on TRP. Some narrowing is required, like the basics which reading the Glossary is a huge plus and "Frequently AskTRP'd Questions".
/r/askTRP29/04/18 09:00 AM
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I can confirm the memories/emotions being imprinted into a song can be recollected when listening back. Though from your story, I should note that caution is required. When you associate a piece of music with sensitive memories, you might get caught off-guard when the song plays randomly at some random place/time. This method won't work effectively for me as I get warped back in time and fully experience that moment when I hear a song which I had strongly associated with a certain event.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 07:15 AM
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Sadly, these little specific things will be always overshadowed by some generic blame they would put up. That is how usually it goes also when arguing, the little valuable things are drowned amongst nonsense bullshit covered in neon and fireworks. And pointing out the little details costs energy and more you talk, the more they can punish you for it. I think I read it in the sidebar somewhere about it.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 09:15 PM
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As a newcomer to TRP subreddit, the mixed advise being posted for this specific topic makes me confused. So what is the actual deal? I am actually now holding back on masturbation, but not because of nofap. Some topics from the sidebar inspired me enormously to simply withhold. As if some switch flipped. Currently undergoing some serious private shit IRL and I prefer my "energy" levels high instead of wanking and feeling drained and delaying the business I have to undertake.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 08:50 PM
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Isn't one of the aspects of TRP that when you leave women you leave them at least better than you've find them? How can that be labelled as female-hating misogynistic ideologies?
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 04:27 PM
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People often say you cannot be overdressed for a situation like a job interview. I would claim: Yes you can be overdressed. If you're applying for a job as truck driver, and you show up with a 3-piece suit, you're going to be judged. I've job hunted for 2 years until I realised I was doing everything wrong. Sounds to me you've been assuming things too much, especially from the moment you shook hands or entered the room. My logic says you didn't spend time to research the company you're applying.…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 12:57 PM
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The Procrastination paragraph hit me very hard below the belt because it is true. Yet somehow most of the people, including myself keep doing it. Example: had to study for a certification exam, took me two attempts to pass. The first time I didn't take it serious or lacked the will to learn: "Got plenty of time, I will manage it. Will study tomorrow." No surprise to say that I failed the exam. And failed it quite hard. Second attempt I fired afterburners from the start and kept them on until the…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 06:25 AM
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Don't forget social pressure. If you're born into religious family and start acting different, you become the nail that stands out. And doesn't need to be strict religious life style. Generally Muslim parents or people who have either family/friend relation will feel awkward and embarrassed having to explain to their environment that they are not like 'you' or worse, try to educate you.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 06:16 AM
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I understand that if you're listening, you can achieve interesting things by keeping eye contact. But what when you're speaking? I know and see that depending on the tension, the speaker might or might not hold eye contact. Even if it is a one on one conversation.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 08:00 PM
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