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Question for RedPillThrowuhwaiy/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:43 PM
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Throwuhwaiy/r/RedPillWives21/12/18 07:10 PM
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Throwuhwaiy/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 08:34 PM
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Meh. Aren't all "homesteaders" either return-to-Eden Christians trying to breed their own harems, or else survivalists waiting for the End of Days so they can use their many many guns to show that bitch from middle school why she should have shacked up with them? So, good luck with the farm. There's no point in trying to debate someone who clearly thinks women don't deserve shit once they have a baby. You've said enough to make it clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 12:36 AM
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Ah, so you're some kind of quiverful asshole. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 08:56 PM
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We are?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 06:30 PM
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The sidebar in RedPillScience isn't an evidence-based source?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 06:29 PM
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Oh not asking to be immune from opportunity costs. But you need to consider unintended consequences. As long as you're not off ranting that women should be at home with the kids or decrying how the dual income household is destroying the family or moaning about falling birthrates in western society, you're at least consistent. If any of those bother you, then you need to reconsider. If having kids means a woman sacrifices all financial security for the rest of her life, she isn't going to make t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 07:58 PM
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What dude has 2 kids in tow post-divorce? His ex probably has primary custody and he gets to play the fun parent 2x a week unless it's inconvenient. The difference is incomparable, but you clearly aren't open to even thinking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:56 PM
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Lions and gazelles? Wtf do you do with the women you date?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:51 PM
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I know someone who took a year off in my field ans had to go abroad for a job after. Try doing that with a spouse ans kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:50 PM
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And that is why women like me will never ever stop working, even if it's in the best interest of our family. Because dumbasses like you think we shouldn't get compensation for that sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 06:33 PM
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This is so great! Just remember this is an ongoing process. It never really ends.
/r/RedPillWives02/07/19 02:30 PM
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Good luck, man.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/19 12:52 AM
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1 - I'm not in France. I'm in a NYC suburb. I'm literally suburban working mom standard issue. 2 - I was in DC this weekend at the playground and it was awash in dads. Talking to moms. (Rose park. Couldn't drag ny kid out of the sandbox.) 3 - stories like that make the news because they're rare and generally excoriated. Those women didn't get the last word. They got publically mocked. 4 - that's not feminism that's territorialism. Feminism is encouraging men to do their part with the kids and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 08:56 PM
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The dog was a cultural reference to a cartoon, not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 08:54 PM
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I completely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 08:53 PM
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Can support yourself and six months reserve is definitely UMC.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 11:18 AM
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Lol don't waste your time trying to push your blue pill shit here. The idea that women might be looking for something besides hot rich men with giant dongs is absurd. You're playing the beta game just admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 02:11 AM
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Only response to that is to come back with more dads. Moms don't own the park.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 12:37 AM
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Lol. That's not research. I knew you were pulling it off a sidebar somewhere. Thanks for proving it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 12:29 AM
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Lol. Your camgirl said she likes your dick pics and you believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 12:23 AM
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Damn. Today I found out that I'm miserable. Hey Scoots, can you also tell me why? I can't stand nor knowing all the details of my life that you seem to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 12:22 AM
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Well, my husband does all the ped appointments and PTA meetings and he's never felt looked down on. The teachers are happy to call him first when there's an issue. He takes the kids to the playground where there are tons of other dads with their kids. We go on hikes and people ask me why I'm not carrying any kids. He also happens to have a great career, which he tenuously balances with the skill of a working mother. Stop watching TV and get some fresh air.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 12:19 AM
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Usually you cant tell that someone is a dog on the internet, but sometimes you start to really suspect you're communicating with a teenager... Please provide more research. I'm intrigued.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 03:44 PM
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No, because it's usually too late. My friend just divorced her husband after ten years and I was able to finally say "God I hated that man from the start. "
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 04:28 PM
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Wait wat?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 01:33 AM
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Yes dear. I TOLD you I was going to cherry pick just like you. And make stupid bullshit arguments by projection just like you. So glad you got the point. Stop posting bullshit and you'll stop getting bullshit responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 01:09 AM
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Women in the 1940s had jobs. Still couldn't get the card.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 01:07 AM
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Power is inequitably distributed. Women have some. Men have more. Rich men and women have more than poor men and women, but in any echelon, men have typically held more. In his article they were all excited because 30 women voted! Wow! In the whole local landowning class there were 30 women, so equality has arrived? Also, PS: England has always been way ahead of the rest of Europe in terms of being liberal like that. Magna carta, etc. Today in western society I think we've evened things out on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 01:06 AM
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You're making evolutionary arguments. I'm giving you the groups that most inform our understanding of where we evolved from. I don't have a neat Reddit sidebar of sources to pull from like you do, but if you need something more recent in history, I can provide that too. Should we go to pastoral groups, or does it have to be agricultural to resonate with you? If I go with China and India, with their vast populations, will that persuade you at all? Probably not. Because you don't actually care abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 08:12 PM
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How does that address unequal rights everywhere? If married women in 1940s USA couldn't get a credit card without a husbands signature--thats now nonexistant because wealthy landowning women in 1840s England voted?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 08:04 PM
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Why does it do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 08:00 PM
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C'mon. Cherry picking some sources that support your argument doesn't make it the full truth. Women voted in some areas of England in the 1800s, therefore all women have always been equal!! The logic is flamingly obvious. Can I now cherry pick the Yanomamo, where a man can use his daughter and wife as a fuckdoll for hire for his buddies? Play your next card. I have the Fayu tribes as my next card, btw. There are of course plenty of in-the-middle examples, but we will both ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 07:47 PM
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Wtf does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 06:20 PM
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This is such a strange perspective. Like men across the personality spectrum, from stand up comic to comic book nerd don't all get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 03:35 PM
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I've never said that and don't know anyone who has but I agree that there's usually some warning sign that people are ignoring, often due to infatuation or desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 12:54 PM
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It's not always possible to foresee the asshole your husband is going to be when life gets a little stressful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 07:29 PM
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No. Unless the guy is a waste of space.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 02:20 AM
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You're assuming the woman isn't earning anything. These days that's kinda wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 02:14 AM
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Wat. I always think it's weird when guys go in for a hug from a woman. Just shake, okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 05:46 PM
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How much of that time involved your kids sitting in front of the tv? Being a shitty parent is easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 01:06 AM
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This comment is wildly underrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 02:52 PM
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I expect my husband to provide 50% of the domestic chores and childcare without being reminded. Does that count?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 02:50 PM
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Now tell me how many men you've met who have done that. Is it because men are better caretakers? If so, let them do it! Or is it that men simply arent caretakers?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 02:46 PM
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I dunno. I've seen plenty of women gobble up identity feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 08:19 PM
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I guess. I really just wanted some acknowledgement. He seemed okay picking up slack and was understanding and supportive, but never once said "I see how hard this is for you, physically and emotionally, and I appreciate the sacrifice you are making so we can have a family." (Really for him; I never felt any need for kids.) Even after I basically fed him the lines, it came out rote, "yes dear" style. I clearly still haven't forgiven this, based on how emotional I am right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 04:54 PM
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I have three boys, all below preschool age, so I can't claim expertise on sons yet. That said: I've always been a tomboy so I've also always been suspicious of the nature argument for gender roles. I was very surprised at how little interest my oldest had in the baby doll we got him when his little brother was born. I thought that if he saw his father taking care of a baby he'd want to as well. He did not. He showed zero interest in his little brother for the first 9 months. Meanwhile, the littl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 02:07 AM
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Do these beta behaviors bother you intrinsically, or from a red pill perspective?
/r/RedPillWives10/04/19 01:46 AM
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O-o-oh FAT. Now I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 05:31 PM
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Fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 04:43 PM
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God no
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 09:58 AM
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Lol. "Answers don't confirm my biases;must be lies."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 12:51 PM
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There are definitely generalizations that are mostly true, but there's a bell curve for a reason -- not everyone clusters around the mean.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/19 07:46 PM
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To quote Jordan Peterson: the common denominator in all your failed relationships is you.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/19 07:45 PM
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Jersey Shore or banker?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:30 PM
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I sat down and made a list of why I shouldn't like him, and realized I still liked him. Then I knew I was in trouble. (Married four years.) I made the list because I have a fear of committment. But there was a longer list of why he was a great guy, not least that he was patient about waiting for me to get over my hangups but also firm about pressing that I needed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 05:21 PM
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Presumably it leads to longer relationships with needier women, and very short ones with healthy ones.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/19 11:23 PM
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Ah, now you're remembering your studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 11:20 PM
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Lol you're cute. Nobody wants to marry an alpha. Beta all the way!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 07:06 PM
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Side effect of a condom: doesn't feeeeel nice. Takes longer to cum. Side effects of the pill: reduced sex drive. Depression. Increased risk of cancer and blood clots. Should I keep going? Or does this all pale in comparison to a condom?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 01:14 AM
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There isn't a huge downside to taking the pil like there is to wearing a condom? I can see you've never thought much about the pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 01:10 AM
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BC pills, patches, and vaginal rings are all the same thing: hormones. The non-hormonal options are spermicide + cervical cap (good luck getting one), sponge (good luck finding one), and female condom (where are these sold?)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 01:05 AM
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Wait so my neighbor who spends all weekend working on his classic car and ignoring his wife is trying to impress her?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 01:06 AM
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I wish I was femme enough to do multiple orgasms...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 03:38 AM
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I love my fake man. And I think I'll be able to love him for a really long time and even when we are both old and wrinkly (but still pretty sharp).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 05:33 PM
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Dont be ridic. You're obviously not a real man or you'd conform to RP rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 04:18 PM
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Ikr, imagine being insulted at being declared incompetent and treated like an animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 08:08 PM
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I don't nag. It's my policy. So I was trying alternate methods. Those didn't work either, and he found it demeaning to be treated like the family dog. So I hired help. He found that insulting too, because it was basically declaring him domestically incompetent, but I haven't wanted to divorce him in over 4 months, so I think it's working.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 03:39 PM
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I tried that. BF said it was a demeaning thought to even have. And he's right. I like him because he's an adult, so we have gone back to talking, and also we hired cleaning help.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 12:47 AM
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I once saw this meme comparing the female bedroom to the Male car in terms of how spotless it is, and the Male bedroom to the female car in terms of how messy it is. I think there's truth to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 12:19 AM
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Let's be fair! My bf was perfectly happy living in a trashcan before we moved in together.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 12:17 AM
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What? It sounds like he's describing acquaintances. Or friends of proximity. Not Real Friends like not the person you call to help you when things are rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 09:37 PM
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Ah but you're missing out. Those lovely late nights o fall asleep on my husband's chest after a long discussion of project management theory...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 09:32 PM
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I think you're defining sex as PIV sex. Whereas most people consider it a range of activities that end in orgasm. Cunnilingus is sex, my friend. ​ That said, I know of women who have never achieved orgasm after years of trying, relaxing, and giving up. I suspect this is related to pelvic floor disorders, tbh, but have no evidence either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 07:22 PM
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Everyone has to rediscover social truths for themselves so I'm not sure you can say people should know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 08:02 PM
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How do you get that? The patriarchy distributes sex by arranging marriage for women. Liberated sex apparently means 80% of men dont get any, so we should have a veritable explosion of art and science.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 06:58 PM
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But our society resembles pre-ag in many ways. The fact that both partners participate in providing for the family independently, which gives women more social capital, is very common in foraging societies. They also have lower birthrates -- as do we.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 06:54 PM
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Not true. If you aren't picky there are women who will turn a trick in a parking lot for $15.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 06:50 PM
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I mean, there are plenty of women who invested in men and got burned too. Investing isn't the problem -- the person you invest in might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 09:01 PM
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ikr? I see a guy staring at me, so I look at him. I look away. I wonder if he's still staring at me. I look back. He is. I look away. Is he *still* staring at me? I peek back. Now he's convinced I'm crushing on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 07:09 PM
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Yes. I mean, there are certainly shallow people out there, and there are shallow marriages (rich man marries beautiful trophy wife). But if you are a substantive person seeking a substantive person, you are simply widening the pool of people whose interest you will catch by being good-looking and well-off. I had to learn this the hard way myself. I went to a religious girls' school where they always told us that looks were not important. I started my mate search with a face full of awful acne. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 11:56 PM
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Totally. To be honest, I never really had it to begin with. I fell into dating and marriage because that's what we did at that point in life... For years I beat myself up over chaining myself to another person and their dreams and desires. I still wonder what my life would be like otherwise. I think single people are so much more free and I don't understand why they refuse to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 09:56 PM
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Appearances are how women catch a man's attention. Status is how a man catches a woman's attention. Whether the relationship goes further, though, is based on character and "who you are." I've dated 41 men. Most had good jobs and reasonable looks and status, some far better than my current husband. But he's the one I thought was a good long-term partner because he's a truly wonderful person who I appreciate daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 09:54 PM
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It's almost like you're trying to prove the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 10:24 PM
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It's honest-to-god true. Whenever I see how other guys treat their wives like maids, I get the hots for a husband who respects my time and efforts and happiness. In fact, I usually go from reading RedPill crap to kissing him for being so much more evolved.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 10:20 PM
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In my experience, the number one mistake men make is thinking they married the domestic labor. And the number one mistake women make is thinking they married their first child. If men weren't so ready to take advantage of the good impulses of their wives, and if women handled issues with their husbands the way they do in more formal relationships, everyone would be happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 10:17 PM
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There's no such thing as a red-pill marriage? This is short-term strategy only?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 10:41 PM
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I dunno. I went to engineering school with a lot of nerdy guys, including several I know for certain never stepped foot in the gym. And some of them had decent builds. My husband doesn't do any exercise more strenuous than cutting fruit, but he's got a nice broad back and natural pecs. I know there are many men who have to work hard for that, and I appreciate what I've got, but there is definitely a genetic distribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:41 PM
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Mansplaining ^^^ Not being good enough for a relationship does not make one a soyboy. In fact, if you read this thread, he seems to be the red pill alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 03:37 PM
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Point is, she wasn't necessarily using him to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 07:52 PM
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Hypergamy is now "having standards"? So men are hypergamic too?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 07:36 PM
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He said she already had a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 07:25 PM
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The problem I'm seeing here is about who's defining terms. In redpill, among men, a man having sex without ties is seen as the godly goal from the *male* perspective. But even for redpill women, those men lack value, as TRP says women are seeking commitment. A man who isn’t commitment material is therefore lower value from the *female* perspective. For bluepill women, men can also be friends, so characteristics besides fuckability are included in the value of a man. A man who is good only for fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 06:01 PM
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