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People rate very badly. I've seen average married men in his 40s ratings 9s women in their late 20s that are a little above average. You can't understimate men's thirst. And again, if you go outside you will see that most couples (young or old) are usually pretty close in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:28 PM
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You are right buy right now the "meta" is social game and it's derivatives (through acquaintances and Instagram). Cold approach, be at day, night or through dating apps will never give you the same quality on average of what you can get through the meta. This obviously applies mostly to attractive men post college that don't have a high quality big social circle that brings new prospects of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:23 PM
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Don't believe such cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:29 AM
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Read better
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:47 AM
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I never said I dated that type of women, but yes, vetting before dating sound good OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:19 AM
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Wrong. You don't need to be Stacy to be a cheap person who wants to exploit desperate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:14 AM
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You doubt because you are average/ugly. Pity you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:56 PM
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They don't want stranger hot men approaches either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:44 PM
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Could be, but either you or me can't give an exact percentage of how much it's happening. But IMO it's a niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:08 AM
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That behavior is usually just dumpster diving while horny and not wanting any emotional advancement with that fattie. You don't even grasp what horniness does to men, specially if they don't have many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:44 AM
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That behavior is playing with fire and acting knowingly within the realms of plausible deniability. That is a form of manipulation cheaters usually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:20 PM
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You are the perfect partner for a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:19 PM
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Emotional cheating is for example showing romantic and sexual interest/flirting outside LTR, face to face or via text/phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:25 PM
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I find your comment be very close to reality, but let me ask you something. Imagine a man has a woman that has several traits within his ideal requisites (for example: big tits, low n count, good personality) but there is one or a few of them that are not quite there for him (totally flat ass and just a little above average face). If he decides to be with her is this settling or not for you? Because I fing that the case I described represent the inmense majority of LTRs. Some traits are good oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:03 PM
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Look, I've had sex or FWB with many many women or varied ages and backgrounds, so I don't come from a place of desperation. But nothing can beat being with a woman that you crave physically, have great chemistry and you can trust. Being a great team, sharing life views and goals. Walking together our life paths. Call me trad or whatever but that will never get old. However the excitement of getting to know a new woman, having sex with her for the first time, doing cool shit together is cool too.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:33 PM
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Well I guess you are not representative of what the typical hot narci woman too dependant on IG likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:22 AM
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Most women will pick the bear. Majority women are totally afraid of strangers even if he is goodlooking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:50 PM
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Problem is that majority of women are totally risk averse and in cold approach or dating apps you are just the random (hot) stranger. If she is hot and has a good social life she will have many well known options on her vicinity (even if those options are worse than you). That's why she wants to check beforehand your IG, she wants to discover if you are real and which lifestyle you have. If you say "I no longer have IG", she is going to think it's a huge red flag and will probably lose all her c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:42 PM
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Look, I'm a very good looking man, I'm above 6', good physique, lean, good job with good social prestige. On dating apps and in real life I've been asked many many times if I do modelling. But I don't have IG, so a majority of very hot women are very wary and would ask for if or prefer to move the convo there instead of phone number. It's a huge limitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:29 PM
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Dating app without Instagram for further verification will hurt your chances with the hottest women on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:05 PM
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You have to understand that the sample of men and women that wander this sub are not representative of the real world population. I find that there is truth to some extent in all pills. Life is not fair and a lot of average and below average people cope with other things in life yo avoid focussing too much on mediocre sex or dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:04 PM
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Debating these social topics is cool. The problem is that a lot of people here take these debates too seriously because they lack real life experience. The moment you had an average sex and social life most of these radical ideas would dissappear. I have to give that there is some extent of truth to all pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:02 PM
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So why majority of the population that are more or less adapted to society doesn't even know the pills or the need to understand them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:37 PM
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My doctor told me that you can even have kids on TRT in some cases, it's not am effective contraceptive. But for having kids the best is to take while ON HCG when you want to have kids. Obviously if your fertility was bad before TRT of course you are going to have problems. And no, I didn't have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:31 PM
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Late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:10 PM
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You are correct, but women can act like that even with attractive men, it doesn't mean you are average.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:31 PM
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Correct. But let me tell you, before I was on the lower end of average 400s and after some supplement testing and already having everything I could do lifestyle wise fixed, decided to go to TRT (doctor prescribed). I was doing fine before: motivation, libido and sex performance wise, but having now 1000-1100s it's a definitive improvement in all those. It won't make you go from loser to hero, unless you are very very low.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:16 PM
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Look, I've been with many many women. I'm attractive. I would only consider for LTR a woman who is similar to me looks wise and the most important of it: that she has good values and I can trust her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:13 PM
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Testosterone levels are decreasing in healthy men too. So the argument of just get healthy is not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:09 PM
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Look, I'm on TRT and attractive. I'm very horny compared to the average male. Would I fuck below average women? No. Would I fuck an average or just above average woman with a exceptional attribute (tits, ass, body shape) yes. Do I get sexual intrusive thoughts about the attractive young women I see everyday? Yes. And this is with frequent sex, imagine if I couldn't get it. That doesn't mean I'm not a gentleman without good manners or restraint.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:11 PM
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The higher the sex drive the less your standard until a certain point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:32 PM
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Libido and sex drive doesn't work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:18 PM
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Age: 16-21 (yep, legal where I live). Personality: good sense of humor and knowing to fool around. Sex: daily. Interests: liking nature and doing new things and experiences is cool. Bars and clubs are not. Values: family oriented but open minded, not strictly trad. Treatment: respect, communication and empathy. Body: big ass, big tits, good hip to waist ratio, gym and doing sports is a good plus. Appearance: good face structure. Lifestyle: check interests. Children: yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:28 PM
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Country? :) I'm not from the US. It's a fact we are thinner In EU.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:22 PM
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Same for men, but not every man can get their ideal type of woman so they have to settle. That's literally like designing your partner, you will never get 100% of what you want in every department. That's unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:22 PM
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I don't see many obese and saggy young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:19 PM
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Yeah, the ugly short whale with terrible fat distribution genetics and bad hair is very popular among men these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:18 PM
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You should step outside more. I see countless of mediocre and average couples of all ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:16 PM
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Yes I agree, but my reasons are for me a big portion of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:36 PM
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Those are mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 11:58 AM
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Who cares. I do plenty of things to destroy male competition and get women's or my gf's validation. It's ok wanting to do things to be better than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 11:58 AM
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You need to grind yes or yes. The meme of get shredded get pussy ended a decade ago. You need to be in top shape, but it's not insta win. Face is more important, and having a social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 11:57 AM
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Yes, but we can't assume all couples looking happy are unhappy. So in the end there is going to be a bit of everything. We can't assume average people that are matched are going to be suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:16 AM
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That sounds good on paper, but in my everyday life I see plenty of long married couples with kids that look "apparently" happy. These post makes it look like most average couples are terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:07 AM
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I'm very attractive as a man and most women won't openly show even the least indication of interest in normal environments to strangers. So yes, pretty reactive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:24 AM
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I would never "date" anything resembling a slut. Vetting is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:02 PM
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I've had a lot of night stands from clubs in a college town and while there are much more frequent, in normal towns or cities they are much more infrequent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:59 PM
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I would say that a big portion usually is: woman meets man through uni, social circle or whatever and the man doesn't truly commit and they have an unintended (from her part) fwb or situationship for several months. If you count that as casual sex, yes, it's pretty frequent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:00 PM
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I've seen a lot during my college days in bars/clubs and in the more recent past dating apps. That you are screening for a certain type of woman doesn't mean that all women are like that. You should know this better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:15 PM
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Is a smaller population of women getting into fwb and situationships, with ONS being the least frequent ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:54 PM
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But majority of them don't engage in casual sex. It's how it is. Of course if you go to the club or dating apps you are encountering a certain niche of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:53 PM
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I'm the best sex of all women I met and I totally the opposite of "too boring for words." You are trying to feel better your probably lack of looks or sex "skills" with the silly arguments or good looking men are dumb or uneducated. And yes, you should aim to be the best she ever had, if not I have some bad news for you...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:50 PM
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Usually is the type of woman that have good looks + certain personality type + experienced a certain environment. Those kind of women are totally proud of that lifestyle, I've seen it first hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:27 AM
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Even attractive men can only choose the pool of women they have at their disposal. If you are at environment as a man with many many attractive women in your vicinity you will do much better quality wise as the same man surrounded by plain Jane women. Men are heavily dependent on their social circle. It's very interesting that even attractive men that can hold a good leverage against women can't do shit in those circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:23 AM
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That type of hot woman is very outgoing and usually you will see her outside (bar, clubs...) or publicizing herself on her social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:19 AM
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I've asked you because from my experience and close circle, usually the hot type of women very active on IG uploading pics and taking seriously her social persona is the type of girl you wouldn't like to has as your gf. They don't have to be necessarily crazy or insufferable, but they usually show some narcissistic traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:16 AM
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Not negating your point, but is that personal experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:05 AM
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Masculine and average/ugly, then not good enough. I find that is a fantasy,it will never happen. Men are anesthesiated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:47 PM
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Masculinity and beauty are attractive. Masculinity in a ogre way is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:42 PM
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No Chad will commit to you if you are our of his league.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:35 PM
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Ohh, scary. That majority of men are pussies. If they were strong and masculine they wouldn't have those problems in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:33 PM
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Keep coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:28 PM
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What do you mean exactly by tradcon LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:20 PM
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Yes, you are right. But a millionaire that is goodlooking probably won't have those problems to such a degree to be complaining constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:40 AM
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"Most men crying in the internet."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:32 AM
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If I told you I'm a top 5% man regarding looks, and experience with women, would you believe me or find it unrealistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:48 PM
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The higher libido gender always "loses"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:21 PM
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No sane and self respecting woman wants to share. It can happen but it's not really sustainable in the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:21 PM
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I see everyday plenty average men on long and apparently decent relationships. Most men crying on the internet and not even average men, be in looks or social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:18 PM
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Averages exist for a reason. They give you an idea where most part of a certain population exists. I don't care if you meet a woman that have a libido in the top 1%, that wouldn't be your typical woman. Again, you are showing lack of knowledge about how data works.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:15 PM
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Key is knowing when you should lock a young and beautiful woman down.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:08 PM
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This is the response I would expect of someone uneducated on statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:01 PM
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Reported by being a troll account.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:26 AM
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Check all the sources. Women's sex drive are lower on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:23 AM
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Far lower sex drive on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:18 AM
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They are very very similar but not the same. So what would you say, preselection is an element of herd mentality or herd mentality a consequence of preselection?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 10:31 AM
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I will agree with you. After college it's pretty stale unless you have good quality connections with your social circle or your job.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 03:44 PM
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I totally agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:56 PM
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Simple. Shared environments where you frequently see this woman and you interact in a social manner with her. Flirt and test where you are then go for number/IG and from there date time. This is the accepted way, not cold approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:39 PM
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I was one of those men. They are pretty entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:47 PM
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Could be. Before I already had pretty good confidence with women and success. Now it's like an overall improvement of who I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:46 PM
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My test levels were pretty much dead end average and now after TRT they are 24/7 in the top. Really noticeable difference on mood, sex drive and motivation. Before I was doing just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:18 PM
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Lol. They are average and some of them cute at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:46 PM
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For me a 7 is someone good looking, not model tier. I would argue that 8-9 is model tier looking, like one in a thousand not a person you see every day. And a 10 rating is silly, perfection doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:38 PM
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You are talking about an specific crowd, majority of women are not in those environments. Most women (people in general) live pretty average lives. However if you are talking about the ig whores with thousands of followers, yes you are right. If you look women through that scope you are only going to reinforce your point, because women who hate that lifestyle won't be there, so you can't assume all women are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:08 PM
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I live in a big city of EU (several millions) and yes, the cool and rich scene has scenarios like that. But I can guarantee you that there are plenty of women from cities like this or smaller ones that are conventionally hot (and not posting on ig or clubbing each week) and don't engage in those behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:23 PM
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What is for you a hot girl, could you describe it on detail?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:00 PM
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Chad is not supposed to be just acting like Chad. Chad is being good looking, tall, having hair, being fit, having a solid career, good cock, good sex game and obviously confidence (duh). The average guy (not calling you average) acting like Chad it's a castle buildt from cards. Women need a "Chad" that cares about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:37 AM
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Face attractiveness of human beings have been studied among cultures and there is consensus, so then we can conclude a good portion of attractiveness is objective. What I mean is that usually people is delusional regarding where they stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:27 AM
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As I replied to your other comment, it's mostly a matter of proximity, being above their looks threshold and representing a decent company for the moment. That's why it's nearly impossible to land legit truly hot women from dating apps unless they can verify your socials.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:28 AM
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What percentile are you talking about when talking about 7-7.5 looks wise? Because I feel most normies overrate themselves and almost everyone thinks he or she is a 7 while they are dead end average. I've seen plenty of thirsty men (specially 30+) claim that a certain woman is a 9 while she is just kind of above average (6). I don't trust at all normies rating 1-10.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:23 AM
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I didn't deny your claims but instead I said that we shouldn't jump so fast to think is caused by those reasons. But yes I agree with you. Religiosity is a huge factor, tradition and less individualism. Western has become a free for all society. Of course your near environment can play as a barrier against these influences, but still. For example 20-30 years ago it was much easier to find a virgin woman aged 18-21, nowadays it's considerably harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:20 AM
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Correlation doesn't mean causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:02 AM
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Objectively I'm better looking than majority of men, but that doesn't mean random women will throw themselves at me. What I want to convey here is that many goodlooking women are with decent looking men from their environment. Hypergamy is mostly bullshit (of course we don't know the internal dynamics of those relationships and how well these women treat their BFs). Sometimes you see a very very good looking couple but for the very goodlooking woman there is a decent looking man with decent styl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:12 AM
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Sounds like an amazing self defeatist fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:08 AM
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I've never dated a woman with a better looking bf than me. Don't try to claim your experience is universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:07 AM
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I pretty much agree with everything. On the experience I have and what I have seen, while hot is a good halo an no one will deny that, as long as you are decent looking, if you fit a certain niche of have other good qualities, most women don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:07 AM
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I'm pretty good looking and while looks it's a nice halo effect it's not at all an automatic win. I say this because many men think if you are goodlooking you can get any woman. But you have to understand too that younger women preferring much older men is truly a niche, majority of women are not like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:43 AM
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That flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:28 AM
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If you take this sub seriously you are going to end literally crazy. Be careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:26 AM
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To be honest, good looks, real good looks are pretty rare for men and women. So finding a quality partner and very good looking is a very rare occurrence unless you move around pretty specific environments. In the other hand I feel men overrate women, they call any cute girl good looking and a cute one model like, I've seen this time and time again. On top of that, women are very risk averse, they will limit themselves to what their environment has to offer (social circle and Instagram most of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:25 AM
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Why you feel sorry about someone that you never met. Feels weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:32 PM
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What a cope. Whatever makes you sleep better I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:54 PM
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Go out to the real world. I'm in Europe and I see relationships of mediocre to goodlooking people everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:11 AM
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Imagine being and attractive man with options and opting for a woman that belong to the streets. What a gaslight. No thanks, there are plenty of good women with values.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:59 PM
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Women can reject you for many things not related to your competence or attractiveness. This is the biggest secret all these fools won't tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:47 PM
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I'm probably what you would call attractive "player" and I don't give a tryhard vibe before or after sex. I just flow but I will be honest, plenty of women don't "suck my cock" in the spot like most Chad fantasies will make you believe, you need to find a willing woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:16 AM
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Not really, most women are low(er) libido. It's just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:14 AM
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Imagine bringing a woman to an "expensive" restaurant before fucking her. With due respect, total loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:12 AM
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Imagine being hot and having a deep and interesting personality. Of course that is not to the reach of most women. Coping is a fundamental skill of all human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:11 AM
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Hot man won't settle for just above average woman trying to play this game.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:10 AM
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Face. Height. Cock. Body. Hair. You need all these.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:27 AM
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What I would say is that usually women are not conscious of the abysmal difference of strength between the average man and woman. If you wrestle with your gf or female friends obviously you are going to be playful and not to try to hurt them, that's when they could think you are not so different after all. I've wrestled with some of my past FWB that were strong because they went to the gym and lifted good weights for women standards and it was considerably harder for me to subdue them, but the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:30 AM
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Right place right moment is one of the most powerful factors of your dating success and quality. As long as you look presentable and outgoing you will thrive. And this is why social circle is one of the most important factor to getting quality women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:58 AM
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Today's where I live (western EU) the only early 20s marrying for the most part are very low class and trashy people, usually having very high divorce rates too and very early pregnancies. There is no need or rush anymore to start a family ASAP. People want to get a good income, experience life and then find a partner that they really like. Times have changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:56 AM
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Lol at Chad minimum value a 4, you are out of your godammed mind. If he is truly Chad his threshold for SEX will be a slight above average women (6), but obviously the threshold for LTR will be higher, probably 7. Anyways, it's silly to rate these things with numbers. If your Chad is relegated to fuck 4s I'm sorry to break it to you but he is not Chad. There is ample supply or just above average women (6s) anywhere you go for Chad to need to dumpster dive like you would need to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:48 AM
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Most couples I see in real life are looksmatched, so I guess by PPD standard they are doing something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:45 AM
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On my experience majority of early 20s women don't even want to think about kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:43 AM
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But 60 years ago we were? Then I guess we are going backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:42 AM
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Pretty much. The problem is that men will fuck an ample spectrum of women but would LTR a few of them. Women usually only have sex with men in the context of potential relationship coming from that. Men have sex/FWB women and then LTR potential women. Of course these are the ones able to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:28 PM
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Not only the could dress to get men's attention, they dress sexy to feel superior to other women. Intrasexual competition is crazy high.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:18 PM
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Then how can you explain most couples in the real world are lookamatched?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:36 PM
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Women will accept your advances... as long as they find you attractive enough and you are not a complete stranger. So even if you look good you are not going to have much success cold approaching compared to doing it with woman that are at least acquaintances.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:13 PM
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I'm considered fairly attractive and I can guarantee you that if the setting is not adequate (being strangers for example) that woman won't be approachable even if she thinks I'm handsome. I've witnessed at work women that for X reasons I discovered they had a crush on me and I would never have guessed by the signals they sent (none). This proves your point. If you want to maximize success, on top of looking the best you can, is trying to approach in a non aggressive way in a shared environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:10 PM
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It seems you don't have much life experience on bars and clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:05 PM
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Women on average are lower libido than men, more risk averse and their libido is much more reactive. All that contributes to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:59 PM
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Yes but women's libido is reactive. Men's is reactive. This applies to good LTRs too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:06 PM
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Fair point. But most women are dead inside and won't give an opportunity to a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:41 PM
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Totally true, I've met so many women from different backgrounds and the good and sweet girls (aged 18-22) had like 2-4 bc already from fwb or LTRs. It's almost impossible to find virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:22 PM
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Incorrect. Good sex is a powerful enhancer of emotions tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:08 AM
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You don't understand something. You think women think like men. Even if a woman thinks a man is attractive he is just a stranger. Women don't trust or want to have sex with total strangers usually, unlike men. I'm very attractive and I got at times intense looks from women at the gym, even if these cases cold approach won't work because you are just an attractive stranger, nothing else. Men with these set of beliefs prove their lack of real world experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:05 AM
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Why would I go for an older woman if I'm able to attract and secure for ltr a woman 10y younger than me that is on her prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:36 AM
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The world is not fair. Try to improve your stats as much as possible and deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:08 PM
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Gender war only exists on autistic internet forums like this one, I'm sorry. Everyone is doing more or less fine except the bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:44 PM
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You disagree because you are optionless. As long as you are aware of this it's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:03 PM
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Enforcing your will or being in top of someone is not the best course of action. Key is picking a woman or man that has the same values as you. If you need to put a leash around someone's neck it will be more trouble than it's worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:44 PM
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What a cuck. I mean, considering your situation it's a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:14 AM
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Most women spend their 20s studying getting their master's degree and yes, most of them they go out and party. But they want a LTR too. I wonder if posters like you get your opinions from real life or parroting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:04 AM
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I'm the best, that's enough for me. I don't care about other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:01 AM
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I hope for all the ladies here that they don't mind their hot bf goes to the gym with compression shorts and tight t shirt. Nevermind, probably your bf is not hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:22 PM
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18-25
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:11 AM
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Old enough to make that kind of comment. The point is that while cold approach is possible is not really effective with young generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:28 AM
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Old man your point is not valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:05 AM
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Social circles: uni class, work (outside), group of friends/acquaintances, hobby group...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:14 AM
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OP, let's make it more quantifiable for the sake of the discussion. I don't believe in rating people with numbers (because of how subjective 1-10 is for each person). Imagine my first gf was an all around (looks, personality, chemistry, values...) partner of "8.5", but then my second partner is a "7.25". And let's agree as long as a woman is at least a "6" I would find her dateable with potential to a LTR. So this second partner it's objectively worse, further away from my "ideal" woman for a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:20 PM
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You must be dead end average because those numbers are terrible. And dating apps without paying are useless btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:30 AM
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This is very simple. Average men won't get shit on dating apps. Attractive men won't get a woman good enough to commit from dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:29 AM
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You overestimate how easy attractive men have it. You still need to approach and not cold. You need a social circle or shared environment. I'm so tired of reading that meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:27 AM
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So all hot women are narcissists dependant on ig. Cool story not based on reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 02:48 PM
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Not all hot women are narcissists dependant of social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:50 PM
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Cool personality (blue pill), good looks (black pill), having your shit and life together (red pill). Who would have thought that the three pills together represent reality 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:48 PM
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How do you know the sex life of the average man in a LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:48 PM
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Nice fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:48 PM
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Some men think paying is the key to getting sex and some women exploit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:37 AM
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Many women still choose to follow traditional values (family) within the modern world we live.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:35 AM
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Hookup culture doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:27 AM
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If she earns money the bill is split. If she is a student I will pay. If the place we go is very expensive and it's my suggestion I will pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:26 AM
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If pay for a date if I desire so. Because first date is always a drink I always pay for it. If she is a student I obviously will almost always pay on the dates. For more expensive things like dinner I can pay too if she is worth of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:24 AM
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Cope. Cold approach is totally situational. What you probably are describing is warm approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:18 AM
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Even if you get positive response it could lead nowhere, just polite rejection. This will be the case most of the time for the reasons outlined by women in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:17 AM
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Of course he didn't say it. But I suppose that's the case in reality. He doesn't need to mention it for it to be potentially the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:33 PM
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The case here is that he was with her when he was a loser. So he chose her because his past desperation. Not a good idea to pick someone based on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:17 PM
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That's usually not the case. If he was lookamatched to his woman he wouldn't feel those urges.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:16 PM
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It was yours. What I mean that if you lack exposure or a good social circle where you can meet new women it doesn't matter if you are goodlooking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:09 PM
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For the record I don't have IG. But I interact with young people who have it. Social media is an extension of your social life. In Europe it's very weird if you don't have insta. That's a reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:44 AM
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Exposure is everything. What's the point of having a Lambo in your garage if you don't even bring it outside. After college social interaction is reduced a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:35 AM
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I could say I've had what you call Harems. I never engaged into full relationship activities with those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:33 AM
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Most women don't use dating apps. Specially in smaller cities or towns.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:31 AM
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Lol no. With a post like this I already know you have very limited social and sexual experience. The main way is social circle and in extension to that ig. Dating apps are a niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:38 PM
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Weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 11:37 AM
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If I go outside the inmense majority of couples are looksmatched. Very good looking men and women would be a much more interesting debate because finding a compatible and good looking partner is much harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:57 PM
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You are coping so hard. I'm an attractive man and if your post was true for the general population of women I could have fucked and robbed many GFs from their mediocre BFs. If a woman is invested she doesn't care you are fucking prime Brad Pitt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:40 PM
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He has money and a cool lifestyle. I can see plenty of women (on the niche he is) would like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:32 PM
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Plenty of solid and good relationships out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:25 PM
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Tate is very ugly, let's be honest. He is tall and fit ok, good charisma too, I'll give him that. When he was broke he was a fighter (he could have some halo for that) an before his fighting days he had the nerd appearance. Still people can claim everything and it doesn't need to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:14 PM
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Of course. When shit happens is when people shows their true colors. This is essential. But it doesn't mean the person changed, it means that you never saw how that person truly was.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:26 PM
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If Andrew Tate worked in Macdonald's he would be incel. The point is that money, mindset and social skills matters (duh). The problem is that average/uglier guy can't compete with a handsome man with all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:11 PM
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Of course they invest. Depends on the woman. Same for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:34 AM
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People don't change that much. The ability to discern the true character of a person is what fails. The older you get the more stablished you are on your ways and who you are. This not about teen love.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:33 AM
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Scoring persons with numbers is ridiculous. People tend to overstate. "My ex was a legit 9/10". Sure buddy, like you have ever seen a world class model caliber woman in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:58 AM
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For me is not finding a woman good enough to meet my criteria. I've been on a very long relationship before, so it's not like I'm averse to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:56 AM
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I can consider myself Chad. I've had sex with plenty of women that didn't fit the my criteria for full blown relationship. Some of them after a time of not meeting or texting came back to me to see how I was doing. Other didn't. Take in mind this experience is from dating apps. Majority of women don't participate on dating apps and the real world is not full of chads that will rob your Becky from your average Joe, that's straight up fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:52 PM
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Most average women are in relationships with average men. Go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:10 PM
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Tell me you are a social outcast without telling me you are a social outcast. Look, IG is an extension of your social life. Friends, acquaintances, colleagues... sliding into DMs is one of the most classic ways, is very well known.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:26 PM
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You still need IG. That's the most successful dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:26 PM
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A lot of them the same yes. But there are PLENTY of women not engaging in that kind of obscene behavior. I met many many types of women from different backgrounds and you need to know where to search.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:22 PM
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Remember that getting a number is not a real success. Lots of numbers go nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:34 PM
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If you look good and don't care having a small percentage of success, yes go for it. I've approached a lot during night, day, and met many women with dating apps and the least successful by far is day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:06 AM
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The only time is a little more acceptable is at bars /clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:04 AM
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Majority of women are decent. The problem is the pool of women you are looking at. OF whores, dating apps women or even party girls are not representative of the general young women population. But yes, I agree. Cold approach always was more or less sleazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:02 AM
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Cold approach is inherently a crazy numbers game. Same as dating apps. But we can agree that those apps are another form of cold approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:52 AM
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Yes. Because now they will redirect you to their IG so they can check who you are. Before you exchanged numbers and then you could build it from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:48 AM
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Show pics and we compare if you are so brave. You reddit losers are so easy to catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:13 PM
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They should try at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:50 PM
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Of course. But go your own way for the valid reasons, not because you cope with it because you never got any success with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:15 PM
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Because I'm sure for example DiCaprio "chases" women he likes on his environment. The only difference is that the average guy has a mediocre social circle, he is not that goodlooking, he is not rich. That's why the mediocre guy chasing looks tryhard while DiCaprio doesn't (I know he is an outlier, but you get my point). Halo effect and not trying to hit on total strangers goes a long way. MGTOW is a cope for average men. Yes, much better than simping, but at the end of the day is a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:13 PM
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Sounds good on paper but in the end is a cope. Reading your post I got vibes of MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:10 PM
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I don't know if you are very dumb or you are just trolling. I said that it can be done, but it is a low success endeavor. Some people here sell it as it's the key to get any woman you want. And I "brag" about that because this statement doesn't come from a basement dweller or some frustrated incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:46 AM
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I've talked to more women that you ever did. So you are not in the position to call me out on that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 11:58 AM
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Agree on everything except the real life part. You are free to do so, but even as a good looking and charming man expect lots of awkwardness and rejections. If you don't mind that, great you will find women that way. Women (young ones) usually don't like interaction with strangers, specially at daylight.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:26 PM
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Majority of women get their dating prospects though Instagram. And there the same that you describe applies. The only difference is that IG is linked to their social lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:24 PM
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Because finding a true 8-10 is rare as fuck. One between hundreds. So if he can't find or secure than kind of woman better than nothing is having a lower quality harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:02 PM
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If you are at least decent looking apps will give you a lot of quantity. Quality wise is lacking. On my experience, best looking women with good values don't even consider dating apps seriously. Instagram and real life is where young people meet mostly. But yes, offline is very slow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:52 PM
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I call bullshit. I would believe that story in a big city, but in small towns? Dating apps are dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:48 PM
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Majority of women don't use or take dating apps seriously at all. If you focus on online only you are limiting yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:46 PM
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Quality looks wise or personality wise?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:44 PM
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Your lack of logical thinking is baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:05 PM
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If you could find better you already be with better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:37 PM
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This is incorrect. Because attractive people are even in a worse situation than average. Because not you only need to find a partner with good values but attractive too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:36 PM
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Idk. 8-9 is like professional model tier and you don't see those women everyday only in high class selective environments.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:01 PM
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You normies always overrate women. I can put my hand on the fire that those 9-10 are at best 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:43 PM
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Very interesting, do you have the sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:17 PM
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I think it depends on the niche. I see many gym girls that don't go out much and socialize in a closed circle and other party girls that go out A LOT and are addicted to Instagram and dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:06 PM
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I would say truth is always in-between extremes. Most average men are not having consistent casual sex. A good portion of average men are in LTRs and when the relationship finishes they can encounter dry spells.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:03 PM
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I feel that saying gen Z mostly stays at home is partly a meme. I'm a very late millennial and I have contact with plenty of zoomers and their socializing habits are very similar to mine when I was their age. They only difference is how important is Instagram now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:01 PM
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Why you talk like your opinion represents all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:10 AM
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Tell me you aren't goodlooking without telling me you aren't goodlooking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:15 PM
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Define success. Even for goodlooking men it's not the most optimum way to meet women. Most women don't want to be bothered by strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:13 PM
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Hitting on random women in bars is still a cointoss even if you are good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:25 PM
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I agree with you. They don't have higher standards. You can go to any venue and see constantly "looksmatched" couples. Of course we don't know the internal dynamic of those relationships but at the end of the day they are together. So yes, I would assume that men who cry about hypergamy look usually below average or average at best. Or maybe they lack proper social interaction where they can organically meet new women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:50 PM
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She looks ugly not average. On her pics you can see she is under average trying to fraud. If you swipe right on her you are desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:55 AM
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Joining clubs? Are you a boomer. The acceptable way to meet young women (18-22) is social settings in uni or trough mutuals on IG.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:48 AM
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It's not I hate them, it's that I want a woman that has good impulse control or criteria in which men she interacts sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:47 AM
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Look, if you approach on a setting she doesn't want to be bothered or she is not accustomed to it, you will fail. Even if she is very attracted to you. I'm a very attractive man and I get confirmation of this every day. But "cold approach" is one of the biggest copes you can imagine with huge rejection rates. Imagine for the average man. On the other hand, warm approaches or trough social media (Instagram) are much more efficient. When someone writes post like this I wonder if we live in the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:43 AM
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Because we attractive men (and good lovers) have a saying in that. Low quality or mediocre men have no say or much less power in that decision. Most of my casual encounters (90%) would turn into relationship if I desired so. Only a minority wants just sex for the sake of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:05 AM
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Experience. Being observant. Learn. Once you do it it's second nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:38 AM
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I'm Chad. My stats and reactions indicate that. But what I mean is that all men that are not Chad (with all my respect) think being that is free mode. It's easier but you have to put the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:05 AM
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You shouldn't take what women say 100% serious. Virtue signaling is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:42 PM
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You are fantasying about the mythical figure of Chad that doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:40 PM
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Even as Chad women don't want to be cold approached 90% of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:28 PM
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Wrong. She could find you attractive but find the moment inappropriate or you are just a stranger, or she is already meeting some man. People here think that if you are attractive women will hand themselves into you on a silver plate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:17 PM
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I consider myself a very attractive man and there is a decent percentage of women that won't feel comfortable having sex with you on first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:29 AM
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Agree, and I would say that those kind of women (the hot ones that go those party environments) know how to make themselves more appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 10:05 AM
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If you have options you have more leverage and you will tolerate on average less bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:54 AM
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Even for chads we don't get the quality we can get on real life trough other venues like social circle or acquaintances.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:53 AM
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