Thucydideez- Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	Before deleting the number of a LVM who was being hot and cold and using TRP strategies on me, I called him out. It was fantastic. This is fascinating. I'd love to hear more about your brother's insights. The multi-layered mind games of these predators is baffling to me. It seems exhausting to be such a terrible person.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/21 04:02 AM
113	woman calmly dumps and kicks out cheating bf (as she should) How sad is it that I had a sliver of dread that he might reach over and hit her. Anxiety aside, I'm glad she recorded this victorious moment and kicked him the hell out!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/07/21 12:36 AM
66	How much debt are you in as a direct result of a LVM ex? Yes, FtM, removal of breast tissue. I remember at the time recognizing the tax implications of withdrawing from my 401k early, but I wasn't really thinking of the future. He just told me how important top surgery was to him, and I happened to have the amount "available." Side note, I wish I had never let him know how much money I made, because this surgery one just one of many crises that i ended up paying for because I felt bad for him. Looking back, I should have seen that he was a taker with …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/06/21 06:01 PM
132	How much debt are you in as a direct result of a LVM ex? I emptied my 401k at 23 to pay for his top surgery. I still can't believe I did that, but I felt so bad for him at the time. I turned down a grad school offer because he was rejected for the same program, and didn't want him to feel bad. I regret so many financial choices I made to spare his feelings.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/06/21 04:50 PM
26	Stuff of nightmares really According to her post history, they're not even married and he refuses to propose. What in the world?! I hope she gets out as soon as possible.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/06/21 06:26 PM
36	FDS made me stronger and now I'm juste DECLUTTERING my whole life!!! Big applause to you!! I love that you're constantly assessing people and things from the perspective of a Queen. Your post reminded me of a longstanding habit of mine, which is holding onto clothes that were given to me (not necessarily as gifts, but hand me downs). I used to own and wear a lot of clothes that didn't suit me or make me feel awesome, but I kept them around because they were free. In recent months I have donated SO MANY of these items that didn't "spark joy" and it's honestly been…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/05/21 05:54 PM
47	What do you do to show yourself extra love and care without spending money? I go outside and sit on the grass and do some type of meditation. Really I just close my eyes and breathe slowly and intentionally, and I imagine myself drawing up power from the earth while I take some cleansing breaths. It always makes me feel energized and clear headed. I like to do that on lunch breaks when weather allows, because I can easily spend all day inside otherwise. Other stuff might be cultivating a new, low-cost hobby like something creative with materials you already have; going …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/21 12:12 AM
66	Orgasm Inc. - Big pharma creates fake disease "Female Sexual Dysfunction" in order to sell 'pink viagra'. Creating a narrative of what healthy sexuality is 'supposed' to look like & convince the largest amount of women possible they have medical problems only solved by dangerous pills and surgery. Maybe if men weren't sucking the life out of us and creating instability in our lives, we would be more interested in sex! This reminds me of a podcast I just started listening to called Orgasmic Enlightenment (which was suggested by someone on FDS!). Every woman has the capacity for juicy, satisfying sexuality that may or may not involve a partner.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/21 10:10 PM
26	Why do men refused to love themselves or fix their issues, but demands women do both in the dating world? I found the post you're talking about and had to stop reading. The amount of bitterness and self-loathing was too much. I guess all that legitimately good advice is discouraging because most of them have so much to work on, so it's just easier to make fun of it. What a low value mentality. Love yourselves, dudes.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/01/21 06:58 PM
114	“Stop attaching yourself to that man”💞👑 I know right, she has such angelic energy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/21 08:55 PM
3	Want me to get up early and go out of my way to fix YOUR problem? I’ll take breakfast and a ride back 😘 That was masterful.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/10/20 02:57 PM
11	It's the captain speaking This is so true. The person I'm with seemed to have his life together until we got married and I realized he has a lot to figure out still. It hurts to feel blindsided but I'm going to have to move on. Life's too short to prop someone up while they finish becoming a whole person.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/09/20 01:48 AM
35	TRIGGER WARNING: Just Some Casual Rape and Sexual Assualt Apologising, And They Wonder Why We Think They Have No Empathy?!?! From Men, Going Their Own Way 2.0 (AKA Men FORCED To Go Their Own Way )-VOMIT Yeah exactly, gaslighting on a societal level. A global level, really.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/09/20 04:33 PM
158	TRIGGER WARNING: Just Some Casual Rape and Sexual Assualt Apologising, And They Wonder Why We Think They Have No Empathy?!?! From Men, Going Their Own Way 2.0 (AKA Men FORCED To Go Their Own Way )-VOMIT To answer his question, yes they literally do sometimes take years to process. A big reason why is because people like him doubt the validity of such claims and make women afraid to speak up. It causes women to question the reality of their experience. Sometimes they literally can't remember it happening due to dissociation. Rape culture is so prevalent that women may mistake an assault for a "normal" consensual act, only to realize how fucked up it was months or years later. These men are downr…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/09/20 03:20 PM
2	I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life. Queen shit indeed. Love it!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/08/20 12:30 AM
2	Just Pick Me Things Get a dog instead of dragging yourself on the internet.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/08/20 01:42 PM
37	Painfully accurate So true, and I extend this to mean/uncaring people in general. Some people just aren't the mental/emotional effort and they will never extend the same compassion to you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/08/20 11:27 PM
48	Stop telling men to beat it up It's definitely pornish and violent. It also reminds me of something I've noticed in recent years among porn consumers, especially people who watch hentai-- guys talking about hitting the cervix, or entering the cervix (that felt gross to write). Talk about zero regard for a woman's pleasure, that shit would hurt if it could actually happen.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 06:30 PM
18	The sex positivity movement is a dangerous lie Oh my god, I am so sorry those things happened to you and I am SO glad you are in a healthy relationship now. I used to feel prudish/slut shamey for believing that sex is a huge deal. Women should be empowered to understand their bodies and their sexuality, but the sex positivity movement has twisted it so that men are almost exclusively the ones benefiting from it. It has helped men feel even MORE entitled to our bodies.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/20 06:51 PM