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Sex last for like 30 seconds Bro what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:08 PM
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What's wrong in wanting to have sex?
/r/ExRedPill27/05/24 06:43 AM
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I don't have the ability to think sentamentally about these things I can only think logically Sure you do man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:25 AM
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Yeah I get what you mean. I guess I thought there's a difference between how people approach media and celebs vs what they do in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:06 AM
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Sure. But go to any of the serious feminist/liberal/what have you dating sites, like Dr Nerdlove or Captain Awkward and start talking about looks and see what the response is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:57 AM
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Go to their graves and ask them what they think
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:41 AM
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I was told to listen to women, take them at their word, take what they seriously. And I do that, and women constantly say either looks aren't important, or simply neglect to mention the role looks play
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:39 AM
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Do you think I was always pessimistic? That I just woke up one day and decided to be for some reason? Or could it be a natural response to the lack of desire I have received in my life? I honestly didn't really care or even realise how far behind I was from everyone else until I was about 25. Not that I didn't try before then, I did, but it wasn't a psychological weight on my mind. All my optimism and happy go lucky attitude didn't help then. You don't know me, you don't know what I'm like when …
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 01:12 AM
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Of course it has nothing to do with the fact that you can count the number of women you’ve approached in your life on one hand and rely too much on dating apps, or that you view women as objects to conquer rather than as human partners, or that your pessimism and attitude of self-victimization make you absolutely insufferable. Take the red pill or the black pill or whatever color pill! Why is there this constant assumption that men who have real trouble finding sexual or romantic partners don't …
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 12:15 AM
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I just pointed how this isn't true. So many people use casual sex as a crutch for their self esteem.
/r/ExRedPill30/04/24 06:01 AM
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That's fair. I get you can go from a maybe to a yes, but I don't think any amount of personality is gonna make her attracted to me if she can't stand the thought of being physically intimate with me. Maybe it does happen, you're may be right, it may not look that way from the outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:33 PM
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I'm sorry, I've never seen it. On the other hand, I've seen a woman lose attraction for a guy for being childish/lightly bullying, and then that attraction resurface a few months later. I'm not saying it's a common occurrence, but it's 0 vs 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 12:03 PM
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I won't skip that bit. Yes, good looking guys can absolutely fumble a chance if they're idiots, creepy or whatever. Absolutely someone's personality can make them go from a yes to a no. But no amount of personality will make someone go from a no to a yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:24 AM
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If you don't get to ever have it, that's not unfair. It's not a injustice or a tragedy, not even minor ones. Why? Why should men's complaints about unable to find casual sex partners be taken less seriously than say women's difficulties in finding relationships or couple that have trouble conceiving?
/r/ExRedPill17/04/24 02:31 AM
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It doesn't matter what I think. I can think whatever I want about myself, but if no-one disagrees, then its delusional. I can think I'm the hottest piece of ass on earth, but if no-one agrees, then it doesn't mean anything. Feeling sexually desirable and attractive comes from other people wanting to have sex with you. There are large numbers of people who say they have sex for the validation, because it fills a hole in their hearts, to salve their bad self-esteem. Not feeling good about themselv…
/r/ExRedPill16/04/24 11:52 AM
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The vast majority of people I know, men, women, non-binary, have casual sex semi-regularly when single. Everything between one night stands to ongoing FWBs. Of those people I know who are single and are not doing that, most don't because they don't try. The numbers of chronically unfuckable men are tiny.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/24 06:19 AM
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Great stuff! The problem is, most pillers and incels have trouble reversing or applying their logic about themselves, equivalently and uniformily towards the opposite sex. I have no issue applying this logic to women, it's only in places like these that people refuse to acknowledge I have a face and voice that is not conducive to building desire or attraction
/r/ExRedPill16/04/24 06:13 AM
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I didn't say men can only feel emotions though sex. I said those emotional cravings, wanting to feel attractive, desired, etc, would be filled through sex
/r/ExRedPill11/04/24 08:21 AM
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They won't. It's not the main reason why I'm against the redpill, but it's part of it. What will satisfy those emotional cravings is getting laid
/r/ExRedPill11/04/24 07:58 AM
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It's not about feeling like a man. It's about feeling attractive, sexually appealing, desirable.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/24 04:58 AM
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Nah, sorry but I disagree. Maybe not fucking left, right and centre, but the vast majority of people I know, men, women, non-binary, have casual sex, whether ONS or FWBs or anything else, semi-regularly when single. And I don't know many gay men, so the men I know are having those experiences with women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:11 PM
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Make the conversation man to woman, etc I don't know what this mean, and no-one has ever given me a good definition of flirting. And considering how many women complain about getting hit on, I try to be careful about it. But yes, I have tried to build connections and ask some of them out, the ones who I liked who are not gay or already in relationships. Only one has ever said yes
/r/ExRedPill09/04/24 12:58 PM
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I've always had a lot of women friends. I've had women housemates too, i.e. women, and non-binary people, who like me and like living with me. I've had more of those than most of my wildly more successful male friends. So what are they doing that I'm not?
/r/ExRedPill09/04/24 06:54 AM
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You’ll never lose if you invest in the PERSON not the OUTCOME. Be genuinely interested in her as a person without the goal of sex or a relationship and you’ll end up with all the sex and relationships you want. So strange. I've done this and the most it ever got me was friends.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/24 06:32 AM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:13 AM
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Yes. Too many of the feminist-y or non- or anti-Redpill dating advice place on the internet completely ignore or shut down the idea that there is a basic threshold that has to be met. They would argue that personality can overcome anything
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:49 AM
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That's rude, those women don't deserve him either
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:53 AM
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How do I know if she's interested or not until I ask? And if you say flirting I would like a strict definition of what flirting is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:15 AM
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That's true, but then women, rightfully complain about the orgasm gap. So they're consistently, though not always, tending to choose men who are not generous satisfying partners. If these "hypersexual men" were that good, we wouldn't hear that much about sex being so disappointing for women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:43 AM
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The first guy ended up a dickhead, and the second one called those women ugly too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:22 AM
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Alright, coming from a guy who one could say is slightly sympathetic to blackpill (not incel tho] ideas, this just isn't really that true. I know many promiscuous women and gay men. The stuff people say about looks is mostly true, I don't discount that, but trust me, dick size doesn't matter at all. The women I know with the largest number of partners do not give a fuck. The women I know with the fewest partners also don't care. I haven't seen the Drake pictures and don't really care about the g…
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 01:53 PM
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And yet so so many women take part in hookup culture too. The vast majority of people's whose sex lives I know even a bit about have had casual sex at least once, and most of them more than once, men and women. And I don't know very many gay men (though I do know one and he has joked about his promiscuity a few times), so those men are having their casual sex with women Yes, I agree if it's not working for them, and it's leading them into really negative territory, not hanging out with friends, …
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 10:38 PM
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Okay, and you're the first I've seen say that
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 10:20 PM
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In my opinion, hookup culture is toxic. Would you say this to a young woman? It's only unsuccessful men who get this. Were a young woman on a vaguely liberal-y sub like here to talk about how she wants to explore her sexuality, maybe sleep with a few different guys to see what she likes, people would be supportive, maybe at most reminding her to take care of herself and her ssafety
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 10:10 PM
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In that case sure
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 03:18 AM
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What's unethical about hooking up with someone?
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 11:19 AM
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Nah, going for a pint and people watching with a book in hand is great. Going home afterwards with someone would be an added bonus
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:35 PM
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Why? It's a heap of fun
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:22 PM
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Sorry for the late response, but why is it a sign of respect if a man doesn't find a woman sexually attractive? Would it be disrespectful if he did find her sexually attractive, but refused to act on that attraction due to them being housemates?
/r/ExRedPill13/11/23 02:16 AM
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Hmm, I'm not sure I see the difference. Some people will also say flirting puts them on the spot a bit, because a man is showing his non-platonic interest in her, and so even with "mild/light" flirting, she still has to manage his feelings and be able to brush him off. So in both cases, it's still an issue and an annoyance Semi related, but then also what should one do if one is not looking for a relationship at that moment?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:00 AM
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What would you say is the difference between flirting and hitting on?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:42 AM
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Have you never gone to a party to just hang out with friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:45 AM
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I'm not redpill at all, but reddit is the only place I see women say they don't sleep around. Of the people in my life whose sex-lives I know even a modicum about, the vast majority, men and women, have had casual sex at least once. Most of them more than once, and I don't know many gay men, so it's women on the other side of those encounters I just don't buy this idea that women aren't sleeping around
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:18 PM
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People like positive people who love themselves and share their good mood I don't know, there's a heap of people who sleep around/are very promiscuous and they say they do it because they hate themselves/have a low self-esteem/it's the only way they can feel appreciated or loved. I agree excessive self-pitying and whining is a turn off, but I don't think actively disliking one's self is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:42 PM
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66%? You've pulled those numbers from god knows where
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:45 PM
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I'm not red pill at all, but most feminist dating advice aimed at men is all about "treat women like their other people, or like you would any of your friends", which I have to agree doesn't lead anywhere beyond friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:52 AM
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Eh, no need to apologise, this place is a mess. One point still stands. Coming on here to whine about not getting laid is pointless. It's just an endless echo chamber of cynicism, jealousy, envy, confirmation bias, and entitlement. Agreed, this place ins insane. But I really only came to look for stuff online after asking many people in my life, and since they couldn't say anything, where else do I go?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:39 AM
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I am envious of those people, yes. How do I view women? I dunno, the same way I view people who have ears, they're just people who have ears. I don't hate women, or I certainly don't want to, and I don't hate women for sleeping around if they want to. I just wish I was one of the men they chose to sleep with
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:45 AM
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I do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:28 AM
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when you don't know anything about the essence of these men is a waste of your time. That's not strictly true, the vast majority of the men I know in my age group have had casual sex at least once in their lives, and often more than that (most of the women too). I know their essence, for some of them at least, as much as anyone can know about someone who isn't themselves You complain that women are sleeping with these men and act like there's something wrong with them for doing so Yes, there are…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 09:18 AM
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and rethink your priorities while you're at it because getting laid a bunch is highly overrated, vacuous, and dangerous Legitimately, why? I don't hate women, I refuse to lie and manipulate people into sleeping with me, I'm not in some dick-measuring conquest with the people around (a contest I know I'd never win anyway). But sex is fun, and I like feeling desired and attractive. So, really, what is wrong with wanting to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:16 PM
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I agree there is no obligation, but it's kind of annoying to hear: "you have to improve/change to become someone who can attract women" "how?" "I'm not telling you and no-one needs to"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:17 PM
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They absolutely can. I've had numerous women as friends and housemates over time. But I guess expanding the topic, this is usually said as a point of advice: if you're struggling to get laid, make women friends coz it will help you to see women as people, see their struggles, etc. This I don't agree with. I've most likely had more women friends than most of the men I know, and yet it hasn't helped one bit.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/23 03:05 PM
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But you don't understand, I'm so [insert positive adjective here] that she won't be able to stop herself from having sex with me on our first date, and I'll defs wife her up for sure, I promise
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:13 AM
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Which book? It sounds interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 01:06 AM
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(if it isn’t something worse) Lmao what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:55 AM
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What is the difference between flirting and just having a friendly conversation? Because every definition I've seen of the former just sounds like the latter
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:28 AM
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Yeah "same dude" is a stupid exaggeration, but obviously sex isn't "spread evenly". I go out with my mates, we're hanging out together, why are they more likely to go home with someone than I? Why do they vibe with more people than I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:26 AM
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What makes someone the right person? These are people I meet out and about, at house parties, friends of friends, at the local pub, at gigs, etc. I.e. people in my demographic, who I have some social connection or shared interest with Right way? What is the right way? And to preempt (if) you saying flirting, do you have a definition of flirting that is distinct from having a normal friendly conversation?
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 02:50 PM
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I've been talking to people forever and I dare say I have a number of men, women and non-binary people willing to say I am at the least "generally alright". And I'm sitting at 1 at 30 years old
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 02:39 PM
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My ex and I started dating during lockdown, we spoke almost every night after I asked her out for about two weeks before we first met up. We had phone sex on our third conversation and had sex the morning after we first met up. On aggregate she is/was probably more horny than I am. I never had a problem with her thirstiness, as an older-than-average virgin I very much enjoyed it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:50 PM
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Sterling Cooper Draper Pryce
/r/ExRedPill26/10/22 07:45 PM
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I preferred SCDP anyway
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 09:33 PM
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Is it redpill-y? I hear it from women very often. That is the point of the quote
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 06:22 AM
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We were friendly acquaintances for a few years, we met through a shared activist group. While we weren't close, we were on good terms and had mutual friends/friends of friends. I then found out through a mutual friend that she was single and decided to go for it.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/22 03:38 AM
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I have a partner now, we have a healthy, loving and stable relationship. That is not an issue now. Only took me 27 years. Yeah sure I can't say I was the most charming or suave person you ever met, but I had hobbies and interests and friends, some of whom are/were women. Whenever I asked for help from my friends, it was always about I am missing, what I could do (or have done now) better. And yet, no-one had any good advice. Is it a coincidence that of all my friends it was the ugly brown guy wh…
/r/ExRedPill27/01/22 10:48 PM
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People with bad, mean or rude personalities never get laid. Not once has a sexist ever had sex. Doesn't happen
/r/ExRedPill27/01/22 02:06 AM
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No problem. I'm just some schmuck, and honestly this place is kinda nuts. I do hope there could be some real, actually productive conversation here, as opposed to circle-jerking over the same 5 topics over and over
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 11:03 AM
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I'm drunk, but fuck it. I'll say what I think, from the perspective of a non-white guy. And a guy I'm sure most people here would write off as some loser SJW. To a large extent, I agree. But I also agree it's not women's place to hand out gold stars to "good" men, nor is it our place to tell women how to deal with their oppression. But, to a serious extent, men do look at what "works", and if being a shithead is what works, many men will take that on. I dunno, I guess I kinda approach the same w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:35 AM
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Touching someone is such a fraught question. I've heard that before, but then so many women say the moment someone touches them it creeps them out and can destroy the conversation/moment. Hell, some people say don't ever touch someone until given express consent. So is touching actually good, and if yes how to gauge when to do it? How is leaning in flirtatious? And simply saying "curate intimacy" i to me the same as saying "be flirty", i.e. doesn't actually explain anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:29 AM
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Okay but how does one be flirtatious and arousing? I ask because every time people describe flirting to me (be friendly and nice, smile, laugh at jokes, compliment where appropriate) is to me just having a basic conversation with people. It's what I do with my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 03:33 AM
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What's the difference between having a great time and having a great flirtatious time?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 11:43 PM
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So what is the difference then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 11:37 PM
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Then why have casual sex with the "objectively hotter" guys who you have less chemistry with, who you find less sexy and thoughtful, who turn you on less?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 08:43 AM
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