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| 11 | What is your strongest Pro Blue Pill Argument?The vast majority of men get married at least once in their lifetimes (some estimates around 87%). And I'm sure plenty of the remaining men simply don't want to get married. Listening to red pillers doesn't seem to produce results. It just comes across as a circlejerk for miserable men who want to stay miserable and keep complaining about modern women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 12:27 AM |
| – | Women gaslight men into using sex toys, while shaming male porn usageI don't think this is the same thing. Porn includes real people. I don't think women are attracted to their toys. The better comparison would be if those same women shamed men for using fleshlights or something. For the record, I don't see modest porn use as an issue to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 07:53 PM |
| 1 | The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbandsOh, downvoted for saying something objectively true. This sub is such a joke. Most of you are not here to actually debate. You’re relentlessly self-pitying red pillers who think everyone else is simply evil and out to get you. You’d rather wallow in your misery and dismiss anything that goes against the overly simplistic narratives you circlejerk over. “Men good. Women bad.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:57 AM |
| 0 | The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbandsThe same statistic you guys keep relying on was from a tiny sample taken before same-sex marriage was even legal nationally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Women don't love you, they love what you can do for them.Your assumption is that most single men would settle for absolutely any woman or are doing everything in their power to get into a relationship, which I don’t buy at all. I think a lot of men have an idea in their head of which women are “in their league” that is very naive. I also think they let dating apps skew their perception, despite dating apps not being a representative sample of the world given how many times over men outnumber women on apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Women don't love you, they love what you can do for them.How many times do you see women getting with men out of their league? I see so many beautiful women who have so much going for themselves and stay with completely mediocre men who treat them poorly and even cheat on them. Never do I see that going the other way around. I can’t even think about a time I saw handsome or rich men dating mediocre women. Men value appearance in their partners way more than women value what men can do for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 06:17 PM |
| 5 | Women don't love you, they love what you can do for them.Wow, this is a massive generalization. Do you know how many women will stay with the most deadbeat men who treat them like shit? Who will basically function as mothers who clean up after and cook for their boyfriends who play video games all day and absorb their boyfriends’ emotional outbursts, all while holding jobs too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 04:12 AM |
| 2 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightYou can think what you want, but you’re literally wrong. The law in NY where this happened does not support what you’re claiming. You cannot have your front door wide open and be in a lewd position facing public view - yes this would include full nudity, partial nudity, jerking off under your shorts, etc. It does not matter whether you’re motionless sleeping or not. In a world where people can come up to your doorstep - and especially when they are INVITED as the DoorDash worker was - a person c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 11:26 PM |
| 3 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightOmg your argument is just “he was sleeping”. That’s not a good argument. Before he laid down to sleep, he still presumably made the choice to pull his pants down, leave his door open, and lay down in full view from the door. You’ve already been told it’s illegal to indecently expose yourself to a public view even from your own home. L That’s like saying “Well you can’t charge a drunk driver with sleeping in their car in a parking lot! They were asleep!” Yeah the problem is the events that led up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 10:31 PM |
| -1 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightI’m honestly speechless. Do you genuinely think the same rules apply to a toddler as they do to a grown man? Do you think our society should hold a man as accountable for walking outside naked as they would hold a toddler accountable for dashing outside his house naked away from his mom? There is no justification for recording video and especially posting a naked toddler to the Internet because a toddler doesn’t know what they’re doing. They don’t understand why public nudity isn’t okay, they ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 09:48 PM |
| 0 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightIt’s honestly telling that you think a grown man has as much culpability as a toddler. If a toddler were sleeping naked in front of a wide open door, I would 100% blame his mom for letting that happen. No, not the toddler, who doesn’t understand the implications of that at all. And yes, I would expect a passerby man not to post a video of the toddler the Internet. Because why would you try to punish a toddler who doesn’t know what he’s doing? The woman shouldn’t have posted a video of the dude t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 09:27 PM |
| 2 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightThis is just semantics. He was indecently exposed to a public view because his junk was out. That’s naked enough. “Half naked” to me would be shirtless. “Most people ordering food at home aren’t thinking, ‘let me lie half-naked in full view of my front door for however long it takes.’ That’s not logical behavior; that’s projection.” Maybe not most men, but some men do think that way! You’re acting like this would take hours! He would have known approximately when she was coming. Even if he chose… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 09:16 PM |
| 3 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightWhat are you not getting? He can just lay down naked, close his eyes, and wait for whenever the driver will arrive! I was a DoorDash driver years ago, so I know it didn’t take that long to deliver food! It doesn’t require much planning on the dude’s part! You claim that you’re using critical thinking to evaluate inconsistencies, but why do you not extend this same level of skepticism to the dude hanging out in front of an open door with his junk out knowing a woman would be coming to his doorste… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 08:56 PM |
| 9 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightI got in an argument over this with a dude who’s posting in this very thread because he was claiming the driver 100% had nefarious intentions to lie about being assaulted, yet the poster was willing to fabricate a completely implausible sequence of events for the guy to make him out to be an angel and victim. “He accidentally fell asleep naked facing the door with the door open while expecting a female food delivery driver and knowing approximately when she would arrive!” Random men will buy all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 08:16 PM |
| 1 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.A girl is guilty because in the heat of the moment she technically used the wrong term to describe her feeling of being violated. But a dude *definitely* did nothing wrong even though he's the one with his pants down exposing his junk visible from the porch, which is the exact spot he would've been expecting a woman to drop off food within probably half an hour of him ordering. Got it lol. You're quite charitable to this stranger. The reason he probably wouldn't just answer the door naked is the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 12:25 AM |
| 2 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.You seem to be 100% convinced this girl is guilty and yet you'll go to bat so hard for a guy you don't even know whom your only impression of is laying with his pants around his ankles exposing his junk to a wide open door. So much so that you'll invent a narrative for him that he apparently 1) forgot to close the door while expecting a food delivery 2) undressed 3) fell asleep in open view of the door and totally wasn't pretending to be asleep. Like be for real. Some dudes absolutely do get off… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 12:03 AM |
| 2 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.He ordered DoorDash so he would've known to expect a female driver showing up to his place at a certain time. He then left his front door wide open and was laying with his pants down exposing his penis in visible view from the door. We can play semantics about whether that's considered flashing or not, but I'm just saying if that were intentional then that probably would be a crime. Because it's illegal to even be in front of a window in your own home naked if it's facing someone else's house. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 11:22 PM |
| 2 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.DoorDash fired the woman - I'm assuming for posting video of a customer exposing his naked body to the Internet. Videos piling on the woman are getting millions of likes, and she's the one getting harassed by strangers. To be clear, I don't agree with her having posted the video to the Internet. But I think it's at least within the realm of possibility the customer was specifically looking to flash the driver, come on. I don't know what else you're arguing though. I already said I agree that soc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 11:12 PM |
| 1 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.Threats from men don't end at just words. If I were in a public space dressed like any of the most scantily clad women at the gym that you're describing, I'd be extremely worried about a guy trying to get physical with me. Not every man, no, but sometimes all it takes is one. I don't see how I would get any similar threat from a woman unless maybe I initiated a conversation with her and she felt threatened enough to interpret it as sexual harassment. I'm familiar with your example and I fail to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 10:59 PM |
| 5 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.I generally agree with your point that men deviating from certain expectations of attire are often (unfairly) assumed to be predatory. However, men - at least straight men - enforce this culture too. Probably even more so than women. Because men think too revealing of clothes on other men is unsightly and gay. (Although this really depends - a cutoff is considered masculine so it's fine, but a sports bra wouldn't be) If I as a man went to the gym in spandex short shorts and a crop top, I'd be wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 09:13 PM |
| 0 | Modern feminism is female supremacy, feminists don't actually want equalityThat’s the most absurd strawman I’ve ever heard. Progressives believe every human being’s life has equal value maybe. No one believes every human being is equal in every single skill or has the same potential for success. The groups progressives fight on behalf of are the ones which endured proven systemic discrimination. Women couldn’t open their own credit cards until the 70s. Black people didn’t have the same opportunities to build generational wealth. Gay people couldn’t even serve openly in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Modern feminism is female supremacy, feminists don't actually want equalitySlut shaming: You're comparing some women's petty jokes to centuries - at least - of broadly enforced purity and modesty on women. Even today, where are the feminist podcasters demanding men have more sex compared to the red pill podcasters demanding women not spread their legs? Heightism: I don't like the shaming of anyone based on looks. That said, anyone should be as discriminatory as they want to be in their own dating preferences. Glass Ceiling: And women don't want those dangerous jobs, oh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 05:39 PM |
| 10 | Men don’t have low standards; women are just hotter than themThe thing is, most men agree with this too lol. They’re just upset when it doesn’t benefit them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 03:49 PM |
| 0 | Some of the attitudes I'm seeing in straight male culture as a bisexual, seem toxic to me.Oh my God, why are you people so dramatic? Heterosexuality is not and will never go away. It will probably stay the vast majority of people’s sexualities. Even if it somehow vanished overnight - just to humor your argument - do you think even the gayest of gay people wouldn’t force themselves to reproduce to continue civilization? By this logic, you must dislike straight couples with the means to have children who choose not to, right? Or is it only the gay people you obsess about and insist on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 03:24 AM |
| 11 | I think women don’t lower our standards because we are expected to act like we didn’t. Thoughts?It’s uncomfortable how much of an axiom it’s taken to be that people do and should “settle”. How could you even sleep at night knowing you think of your partner as well below your standards? Would you admit that to your partner? Do you see it as lying to them when you tell them how beautiful you find them? It’s kind of unfathomable to me. I was in relationships where I wasn’t as into my partner as they were into me - back when I had minimal dating experience - and when I realized that, I knew th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 03:02 AM |
| 0 | Some of the attitudes I'm seeing in straight male culture as a bisexual, seem toxic to me.You keep mentioning “widespread”, but no one claimed this was widespread. Just that it’s an experience that exists that gay and bisexual women identify with. Yes 1 in 5 Gen Z women identify as bisexual. And that number would’ve been way lower for women in their 20s forty years ago back when there was a lot more stigma associated with being gay. It’s still lower in countries that are a lot more intolerant of gay people and that make efforts to suppress LGBT media. So I would argue that “comphet” … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 02:54 AM |
| 0 | Some of the attitudes I'm seeing in straight male culture as a bisexual, seem toxic to me.I’m not understanding how any of these numbers refute what I just said. Yes, bisexual women definitionally like men. Hell, maybe most bisexual women even have a strong preference for men. On top of that, it’s much easier to be with a man, especially if you want kids. Why would gay people take longer to figure out their sexualities if not for societal pressure? I think the issue is you’re ascribing some inherent nefarious connotation to the term “societal pressure”. Pressure can be felt just by v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Some of the attitudes I'm seeing in straight male culture as a bisexual, seem toxic to me.What? Did it ever occur to you for a moment that not everything is supposed to be for you? Who cares if something isn’t conducive to your idea of “civilization”? Lesbians aren’t going to stop being gay, and this is just a term they use to describe their experiences. Unless you believe that being gay is a mental disorder in itself, which maybe you do and I’m just totally wasting my time here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 01:53 AM |
| 2 | I don’t think it’s a man job to protect his girlAny married person should care about their partner’s safety. And if you care about someone’s safety, you should protect them if you have the means to do so. Now if you were to say “Men shouldn’t have to beef up at the gym or learn how to use a gun just because they’re traditionally expected to be the protector” then I would agree with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 01:42 AM |
| -1 | Some of the attitudes I'm seeing in straight male culture as a bisexual, seem toxic to me.This seems like a strawman. The term “compulsory heterosexuality” doesn’t assert that all women only pursue men or convince themselves that they’re attracted to men because of societal pressure. It just explains why some women - namely lesbian and bisexual women - often don’t notice their same-sex attraction until later in life, given all girls are brought up being inundated with the idea that finding your Prince Charming is the default, normal thing to do in life. Yes, of course the vast majori… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 01:23 AM |
| 10 | You should only be in a Romantic Relationship with someone if you are VERY Sexually Attracted to them - This applies especially to women.This is slightly different than OP’s argument though. OP said you should only be in a relationship with someone you are attracted to. In this study, the researchers were the ones who judged how attractive the participants were, not the people in the relationships. Also, I wonder how much this comes from women being perceived as more attractive than men by society in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 04:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Deadbeat dads shouldn't be allowed to pay child support up front in a lump sumSo now women are supposed to know for certain the type of man someone will be for the length of a pregnancy + 18 years every time they have sex? That’s impossible. People hide who they are and they also change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 03:31 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Deadbeat dads shouldn't be allowed to pay child support up front in a lump sumIt’s no more financial slavery than a woman’s obligation to continue financially supporting her child. The difference is the woman also has to raise and care for the child, not just write a check every month. And then once the child turns 18, the man can be out of the child’s life forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 03:20 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Deadbeat dads shouldn't be allowed to pay child support up front in a lump sumTo the people saying, "Men shouldn't be required to pay child support?" do you not understand what a terrible system this would create? Women could choose to go through with a pregnancy under the impression the man would share the responsibility of supporting the child, and then the man could just back out at any time leaving the woman to support the child alone. "Well then she can just give it up for adoption." This is usually the next response and it always comes across so callous. A woman car… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Most women are terrible at giving dating advice for men. The RedPill is needed.So where exactly has the red pill actually produced any results? If so many men are becoming redpilled, why are both men and women staying single longer? Why are young people having less sex? The only thing the red pill seems successful at is validating young men’s misery, but it doesn’t want actual solutions because the creators need those men to continue engaging with their content. I do think there’s a place for men to be giving other men dating advice, since men’s experiences are important, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are notI understand where you’re coming from, but also we have to recognize that humans have separated ourselves from nature quite a bit at this point. If it were still 200,000 years ago, men would just be running around taking what is theirs like any other animals. But we live in a society now with laws, social conventions, expectations, etc. And given we’re far and away the most intelligent animals, I don’t see why we shouldn’t believe we can do better than our natural impulses. Evolutionary biology … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 06:09 PM |
| 4 | Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are notSo then why don’t men stick up for one another more? Why don’t they ride with their pack in a meaningful way that’s not just attacking women? Even men distrust other men. They feel like they’re in competition with all other men. They take issue with male loneliness but contribute to the problem themselves. Everyone wants to be helped, but they don’t want to help others. Women will go up to women they don’t even know in the bathroom of a bar, “Omg you’re so pretty! That man doesn’t deserve you!” … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 04:53 PM |
| 6 | Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are notI feel like what you’re describing comes from women feeling the need to be protective of other women with regard to their value in the sexual marketplace. “All women are beautiful. All women are worthy.” And I think that’s because women often feel like their entire value is attached to their sexual value, whereas men can be a lot of other things in addition to a good sexual partner. However, I would blame the competitiveness of men in the sexual marketplace for women’s sexual preferences just as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 02:52 PM |
| 3 | lusting after a body =/= unconditional loveI don’t disagree with anything you said, but I think “unconditional” stretches even beyond what you would consider “wholesome”. There have been times I haven’t even like my loved ones, including a past partner. And that seems contradictory, how can you love someone if you don’t even like them? Part of is probably loyalty to people you view as being important figures in your life and staying in your life in some capacity forever. But part of it is even deeper. Sometimes you can’t even rationally … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 07:56 PM |
| – | lusting after a body =/= unconditional loveMen are much more likely to desire sex with any given woman than women are to desire sex with any given man. However, a woman is 6x more likely to be separated or divorced soon after a diagnosis of cancer or multiple sclerosis than if a man in the relationship is the patient. Men and women are both superficial in different ways. Most men seem to indicate that they are attracted to most women on some level, but if they aren’t attracted to a woman at first glance, they won’t pursue it further. And… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 07:45 PM |
| 4 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.I think a lot of men fail to recognize that, by and large, women are able to be more selective when dating because men are easy. If men weren’t eager to sleep with 90% of women, then women wouldn’t need to filter. If you had unlimited options, isn’t the rational choice to go for the best looking options? Men would do the same thing in that position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 05:30 PM |
| 23 | There nothing wrong in a 30 year old man dating a 20 year old girlI’m not here to moralize about 30-year-olds who date 20-year-olds, but as a near 30-year-old man I honestly cannot imagine dating a 20-year-old. Though I’ve only dated men, so maybe it’s different for men and women. Calling every 30-year-old man who dates a 20-year-old woman a predator is too far in my opinion. However, if a 30 year-old-man is exclusively going for women 10 years younger than him, I honestly would assume he’s a bit of a mentally stunted creep who’s trying to prove something to h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 04:40 AM |
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