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| 1 | Q4A: What do you think would happen if men stopped giving so much attention to women?Family is not just having kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 09:18 PM |
| 1 | The AWALT Belief Hurts Men's ProgressionSomeone with less bodies who is attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Are men really struggling to get sex/relationships in real life?I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 10:50 AM |
| 2 | Are men really struggling to get sex/relationships in real life?Yes, I'm an old man, I remember when smartphones were invented and the internet use to sound like this: doooo screeeech duuu do do do doooooo creek. Those were the days when you could get a gallon of gas for 2 whole dollars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 10:41 AM |
| 2 | Are men really struggling to get sex/relationships in real life?That's great, I always feel glad when people find a cooperative partner. I figure I want to have my own, but I barely date. I'm suppose to have one in about 1.5 weeks. So I will see how it goes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 10:40 AM |
| 2 | Are men really struggling to get sex/relationships in real life?Yes I'm a baby compared to you I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Are men really struggling to get sex/relationships in real life?I'm old but I'm in a slightly young body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 10:24 AM |
| 11 | Are men really struggling to get sex/relationships in real life?I don't think men don't have standards, but their needs are easier to fulfill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 10:21 AM |
| 7 | Are men really struggling to get sex/relationships in real life?You seem sensible. 🤔 how old are you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 10:20 AM |
| 1 | The AWALT Belief Hurts Men's ProgressionHigh body count but attractive is someone you'd have sex with not necessarily have as your girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 08:28 AM |
| 1 | The AWALT Belief Hurts Men's ProgressionI think it's important to realize it's not really necessary to preface every argument and topic with "not everyone", the point is that the majority of people are very similar to the point they are effectively the same. Outliers exist, variances exist. But the exception is not always needed to be highlighted. We all know of an exception by proxy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Study shows that the "Happiest couples have sex once a week"Depends how long you were together usually. I had a girlfriend at 19 and we had sex multiple times a day every day for around 10 months. We both seemed to enjoy it, she often initiated it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 08:21 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on the claim: proximity makes women vulnerable to cheatingYou bring up a huge component of cheating access to the opposite sex being harder increases fidelity. Some people legitimately are only unfaithful because they gain access to someonenof interest. If you are all they have, they won't cheat, and if you are just much more appealing then what is around they won't cheat, it's when they have access and interest they can cheat. That's why I am a strong supporter of women and men not having opposite sex friends and to avoid situations where you or them … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 08:14 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on the claim: proximity makes women vulnerable to cheatingIn a lot of ways yes, when you talk proximity, you have to understand that it is more to do with access. Women cheat even when she sleeps in the same bed as you, women cheat if they live across the world. If she has access to someone of interest she will likely cheat. It's a matter of social policing that prevents most people from cheating, the idea of being caught and chastised. I met a woman who cheated on me and shutdown all her social media because she was afraid of the social backlash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Many women are usersIn general all love is transactional in a relationship. But you give good examples of the intent and measure of those things. People can give out the goodness of their heart, especially, when it is reciprocated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Q4A: What do you think would happen if men stopped giving so much attention to women?Yeah the unity is powerful. Just looking at myself, when I feel I love someone I am a much better person and able to go beyond my own self. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Q4A: What do you think would happen if men stopped giving so much attention to women?Yeah but romantic companionship is a whole other thing to friendships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Q4A: What do you think would happen if men stopped giving so much attention to women?Family is definitely a big deal for overall happiness for like 99% of people. Women do not value men for the wrong reasons. Same as a lot of men that hate women, it's for the wrong reasons. Because some assholes decided to be shifty or immature and broke their hearts. And in modern society women are able to live a normal life and use their sexuality sometimes to gain benefits if they are attractive enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 07:42 AM |
| 37 | Are men really struggling to get sex/relationships in real life?The issue is the exchange rate in dating. Women inherently have the advantage, they have a lower cost of access to dating and sex. Men are fairly simple, they want a woman they are attracted to, an average woman is generally attractive to the average guy. They also want a woman who is cooperatively romantic (shows love, respect and give sex). What a woman wants is this but their bar is higher and then they want more on top of it, a man has to be relatively successful, attractive and be decent to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Sometimes I wonder “just who the hell are these women holding out for??”Yes but at the same time, you can miss out on a genuinely good relationship because you have an undiagnosed root of unhappiness that you aren't willing to figure out (I don't mean medically, but sometimes that is the case). I feel like I agree, that you can choose and sometimes it best for both parties to disconnect but I often find the reasoning is really unempathetic and toxic for relationships. Some people have no business dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 07:26 AM |
| 2 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsI get what you mean now. A lot of people do see it as an issue. But I argue often it is a common theme that a woman can upgrade financially and educationally and it will trigger maliciousness in her towards that man, suddenly, he is not great enough. My mother is a great example, she started out poor, met my stepfather, he was also poor, she eventually grew financially and he was less so for a good while. During this time it was a common trope to throw it in his face when he this whole time put … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 07:15 AM |
| 2 | [Q4W] What is your ideal way to have sex with someone?Generally, I flirt and cuddle then grope her and stop, pretend like it was an accident and then we start breathing heavy and touching, no sex yet, biting....I need to stop I'm horny now. 🥲 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag when a woman is attracted to older men?I am 30 and dated a 20 yo female of lower economic status. I honestly was happy until she started acting funny and turned out she was cheating the whole time and when it came time for things to advance they didn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:57 AM |
| 2 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsWhen a guy days he doesn't care, it's a matter of it being an attractive trait or not. It's just not a factor, a man can be happy his girl is doing well in career and education but he'd be happy regardless if she's a good woman to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Far too many people believe that men not being able to acquire sex/relationships is a MORAL failing. This could not be further from the truth.Yeah I treat my women well. I just haven't met someone cooperatelive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:44 AM |
| 1 | It's insane how the other gender refuses to recognize their privilege.I'm not ugly and I'm still losing 🙃 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:43 AM |
| 7 | The only rule is that there are no rulesI think it's all involuntarily done. I have what a lot of women say they want, but I have yet to find a woman, I have been increasingly downscaling my life. I own very little things now and do travel nursing so I am not tied to any place. I do plan to buy a house when things go down or if I feel I want something enough (not really to live even). My dream deep inside: Have a wife and kids (two minimum, of our own genes). A plot of land with a house on it, in a less populated area but not too far … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsYeah but if she'd reciprocated it was a non-issue. I really had plans to do even more. She'd at some point had gotten her own beauty salon like she said and I'd be doing what I do and we'd been a couple. It just seems some people like to take advantage but don't really plan things the right way, she was very short sighted. Had she been reciprocating I'd probably know nothing was up, I became suspicious because she reminded me of my other exes who ended up having someone else in their lives. She … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:32 AM |
| 3 | At what age is it a turnoff for a man to have never had a girlfriend?These answers make me further believe that body count of men vs women are truly different. A man with low to no count will be seen as potentially impotent. While a woman is noble. And the vice being he's a Chad or fuckboy and she's a hoe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Reason why women can stay single easily is because sex is easy for themI think a lot of women find they can get whatever they want if they play the game right. She can have a few dudes pay the bills and then a few dudes filling her insides. That's a very general concept. I know a lot of women who rotate many men to fulfill various aspects of their life but I imagine once she's not so hot and these men find women they can enjoy, they will probably settle down with someone if at all possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:24 AM |
| 1 | would you rather fail forever at dating and be successful in everything else or would you rather always succeed at dating but fail in everything else?Everything except dating. My life is this to a more lesser extent. Do fairly well but have not met a woman who cooperates with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsAka uncooperative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsI have found this to be true. Though on paper I am a rounded person, in person, I know I lack in a lot of traits a woman would find attractive (I'm quiet, fairly shy and seem like I lack ambition or authority). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsWhen all the chicks around you are getting degrees too, of course you will end up with a woman with a degree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsIs this possibly due to being in proximity of that peer? Or in an environment where it is a given? Example: I work in Healthcare, I'm a travel nurse, I meet many female peers who have degrees and certifications but it's because it comes with the territory. If I am in school naturally I am more likely to be with someone who is nearby me than some village girl from a forest in the Amazon. Is it possible that is why this is th case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:17 AM |
| 3 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsThe idea is that most women will not date a man seriously who is their technical lesser. It's very unlikely a millionaire woman will want the guy at McDonald's who took her order. He might he a great guy and be ambitious and take a good opportunity when it's available but she will want someone of her quality or greater. If you are accustomed to a lifestyle or ideal you will go for things that fulfill it within your mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsI think an issue with education is that women assume it's meaningful to men, it's not in general, but some men do actually find it attractive (I don't mind an able minded woman, but I also realize you don't need degrees ti show me that, I know plenty of people. Myself included, who aren't so bright at times despite their degrees and certifications). I want my woman to not compete with me, but to cooperate and play her respective role in our relationship, whatever that may be as a whole and in mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:13 AM |
| 3 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsI just need a loyal, respectful homebody who may or may not want kids. That I am also attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsI actually dated a young woman who I financially provided for everything. She cheated on me and used my money to help a broke guy she was actually with. I don't even know if she was attracted to me anymore (the guy to me was kind of ugly but I can't speak for her). She got everything she wanted from me, clothes, bulls paid, I got her a dog, motorcycle, an apartment and so on, she even got to go to school (also without knowing it, I was paying for her nieces schooling also lol so they both got fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:10 AM |
| 4 | 'You should have total trust in your partner or else you shouldn't be dating' is bad advice and people who recommend this sort of toxic trustworthiness are doing more harm than good.I think people don't understand how important integrity and image is to maintaining trust. Why should I trust my woman to be over her exes house overnight? With her phone off? (This is an extreme example, but I actually seen it on reddit at least once). Trust should not be tested, because, when you do things that look suspect, even if you aren't doing anything, you will cause doubt in a normal person's mind. That's why it's better to not be alone with opposite sex friends (or your sexuality equi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 05:25 AM |
| 4 | Sometimes I wonder “just who the hell are these women holding out for??”The whole point of this forum is to give some type of context. She'd probably bring to light a lot of important information that can help other people. Generalized answers really don't help create a picture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Sometimes I wonder “just who the hell are these women holding out for??”Sometimes I think a woman may start to entertain new people at some capacity and they appear more appealing because they are new and may even check some of her preference boxes even if in reality the package is either unproven or overall an objective downgrade. It's wierd, I never had issues sticking to one woman, but most women I know jump to relationship after relationship, while I sit around for a time trying to recover my little broken heart lol. Women find dates way faster then literally mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 05:03 AM |
| 5 | Sometimes I wonder “just who the hell are these women holding out for??”It would help to clarify. Often I have women in my life be vague, but when I got to the issue eventually (literally over many days), they'd admit something that was pretty "dumb" to break up with someone. I had one tell me she lost interest in a guy for no reason, but she'd stayed with a cheater for years lol. And she said she really liked the guy she left for no reason. Turns out she was sleeping around with a bunch of dudes and clearly in my eyes she wasn't invested enough to allow a healthy c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers: Do You Include Your Mothers and Sisters in Your Generalizations About Women?Yes. Because they actually behave pretty much like the general women I meet in life (randomly or at work). It's not too surprising a duck acts like a duck. Even us dudes have behaviors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 08:56 PM |
| 2 | I feel bad for people that desperately want to be in a relationshipI have a friend like that. I use to be like that, sometimes I even really want sex but morally I do not find hookers and hookups viable. I told them about "redpill" concepts, they even admit to starting watching it. They still want a relationship and are suppose to go out on a date this Saturday with a women who is 35 and him (27). I reminded him about the redpill ideas and told him to bring his own condoms and to not let her pressure you to having children (because she's at that age). I didn't … | /r/MGTOW2 | 07/10/20 09:46 PM |
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