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| 45 | When he says you're out of his league... time for you to tell him bye.Off topic, but your username is a vibe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 12:03 AM |
| 30 | What was your moment of clarity?Talk about dodging a bullet.... A very very insecure bullet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 11:26 PM |
| 87 | What was your moment of clarity?Sometimes I read stuff on here and am just like WTF???!? This is one of these times... The hell even was the point of that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 11:23 PM |
| 73 | I love it when the trash takes itself outI thought the same exact thing. I'm impressed with OP's vetting efficiency though. Ain't nobody wasting this woman's time. 💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 03:18 AM |
| 173 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.Yeah I think this is a 12 year old whose parents got divorced 3 years ago and he's had anger issues ever since. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 12:38 PM |
| 193 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.Reddit memberships include a complementary copy of DJ Yung Scrote's greatest hits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 12:36 PM |
| 11 | Men will waste your time and then waste it again.Yeah I think so. The forced last sentence convinced me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 09:39 PM |
| 176 | Weekend plans ruined by friend’s scrote bfI think 'inconsiderate' is pretty generous, this was intentional clearly. What an ass. I wish your friend just went without him, sounds like you would all probably have a better time. I'm relieved he is her bf and not husband 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 04:07 PM |
| 234 | Weekend plans ruined by friend’s scrote bfWait why couldn't she still come then? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 03:51 PM |
| 18 | When he says he needs at least ten years to think if I’m “the one” for him. 😂🤡This is nasty af. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 02:48 PM |
| 52 | When he says he needs at least ten years to think if I’m “the one” for him. 😂🤡I tend to agree with this. It is more sinister than just being really stupid. Edit: words were in the wrong order 😵💫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 02:44 PM |
| 68 | One of the few times you know for sure a man is being 100% honest with you.Last time someone told me "I'm an asshole", I told them people are trying to help them understand how emotional intelligence works. Their resistance to this is detrimental to their own success. Even if they want to use it to be manipulative and as leverage/advantage? Maybe it is stupidity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 04:00 AM |
| 96 | Just broke up with a LVM/NVMFuck yes, queen. Congratulations on your ascension. 👑 Minimum wage loser with no ambition nor hygiene? I don't even know you but I 100% know you can do better than that. Just wash your body? The bar is in hell 🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 03:53 AM |
| 30 | How do you come to peace with the money you spent on an LVM?It sucks. I watched my savings disappear as I covered him for rent here, paid for all our nights out there. It stacked up but wasn't a crazy amount of cash because I didn't have too much to begin with. He still took me for everything I have. They're out here for $$. 🤡 Rob em, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 03:47 AM |
| 37 | Guy takes his girlfriend out to a fancy place to celebrate their anniversary. Films her while she's enjoying her meal to test and see if she'll pay at the end without any drama.(spoiler- she's a classy lady, and this could possibly be their last anniversary🤣)He is testing her boundaries. T minus 6 months to physical abuse or at least aggression. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 03:10 AM |
| 37 | Woman says she prefers big dicks and you can imagine how the response is.p r o j e c t i o n | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 03:07 AM |
| 55 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?Yeah no fat chicks but wahhh my height preferences. I don't even care about height personally. But when scrotes post the fake tinder dms from girls like, are you 6' or above and they 'burn' them with a weight requirement? They don't even take time to put a fake answer from the girl. It's just supposed to be a gotcha, what the fuck is the point?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 02:56 AM |
| 11 | Set your account to not allow followersThank you. Wow I turned it all off. Why isn't that the default? Oh yeah 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 05:05 PM |
| 49 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?Number 5 is me. Why is going half and half so you don't "owe anyone anything" seen as feminist and not suuuuper fucked up. Who ever put the idea of someone bought you a $20 meal so you owe him ??? into women's heads in the first place? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 04:57 PM |
| 272 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?OOF the ending of your story is the icing on the cake OP. Banned. Wow probably thinks he is the victim. My stupid pickme ass was of the cool girl variety and I just cringe thinking about all the stuff I pretended not to hear my male friends say or the stuff I laughed off. I have not yet fully unpacked the shame from my pickme ways as a recentish convert to FDS, so I will refrain from going into more depth. Here for the stories of other peeps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 12:46 PM |
| 49 | Thoughts on long-distance?Right and the mask slippage wouldn't even start until month 3 so this is gonna be a no from me, dawg. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 12:39 PM |
| 2 | Men want to believe porn is empowering to women so they can to consume it without guiltYeah those kids making sneakers in sweat shops are technically getting paid something so they're not exploited amirite? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 03:33 AM |
| 40 | Feeling disillusioned with modern day misogynyRight, what kind of logic is this guy about? pickmeishas are products of patriarchal indoctrination. And even at their worst they aren't assaulting, raping, killing women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 02:01 AM |
| 25 | Feeling disillusioned with modern day misogyny"He said the worst enemy of women right now is women." That's what I said was not true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 01:52 AM |
| 35 | Feeling disillusioned with modern day misogynyYeah no, men are by far the biggest enemy of women. They're the ones who convinced these other women of the facade of woke feminism in the first place. He is not right, and 🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 12:13 AM |
| 91 | When men withhold feelings/emotions: do they have them or do they just not care?This. He isn't 'witholding' emotion or unable to express his feelings. He very clearly and repeatedly expressed exactly how he felt about them. It just isn't what they wanted him to feel. If he wanted to, he would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 09:29 PM |
| 22 | The amount of guys who think the clit and orgasms are made up is... scary.Well damn, this is the first time I'VE heard that term, and omg this comment. 🤯 Lightbulb moment #45643 from FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 07:22 PM |
| 55 | Ladies of Reddit, what’s the sexiest thing an overweight gamer in his 30s can do to make you have sex with him*because it shows she's a feminist and believes in equality of the sexes. Pull yourself together man, don't let the mask slip for at least 1 date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 06:59 PM |
| 209 | Feeling disillusioned with modern day misogynyI think it's fine to be angry. I'm angry. Once you realize men push liberal feminist messages because they benefit from sex work and bdsm you can't not see it. If it truly empowered women, men would not support it. That is all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 06:53 PM |
| 346 | Ladies of Reddit, what’s the sexiest thing an overweight gamer in his 30s can do to make you have sex with himWhat is it with these dudes and their TERRIBLE oral hygiene? It must be some kind of chemical reaction between mt dew and tendie breading that just fucks up your enamel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 06:29 PM |
| 217 | He said he wanted a relationshipWhy can't we just enjoy each other's company? 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 06:21 PM |
| 857 | Ladies of Reddit, what’s the sexiest thing an overweight gamer in his 30s can do to make you have sex with himPersonally, I like it when they ask me out on a low effort coffee date and show up unkempt and with wrinkled clothes. It really turns me on when they over share or tell me they want to take it slow because they have been hurt in the past (but also can we have sex later?). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 04:57 PM |
| 44 | My first experience with a phone screen, FDS-style.Psst...... make a whole ass post about availability price for our sisters not working in business! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 12:51 PM |
| 17 | I let myself reopen my mind to walking dates.... Whoops-a-Daisy 🤦♀️I really love this comment and the P&P shout out. 💖 OP thank you for your post, we all need reminders why this is unacceptable (especially those of us who love walking). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 12:37 PM |
| 21 | Wishy washy scrote that earns 6 figures asked me over to his house for "pizza" and I left him on read. He did this for 3 days in a row and he eventually gave up. A reminder for the ladies here not to correlate high earning with high value.Entitled men suck. CHEAP entitled men are even worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 12:24 PM |
| 190 | My mother’s analogy on BDSMMy kink IS kink shaming so don't shame me. (something I read on here two weeks ago and have already unfortunately used in real life for BDSM apologists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 12:19 PM |
| 41 | Wishy washy scrote that earns 6 figures asked me over to his house for "pizza" and I left him on read. He did this for 3 days in a row and he eventually gave up. A reminder for the ladies here not to correlate high earning with high value.Damn, this right here is queen shit. 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 02:04 AM |
| 159 | Men want to believe porn is empowering to women so they can to consume it without guiltThey don't actually believe it's empowering, they don't give a fuck. They just have to convince enough women it's empowering and that it should be 'destigmatized'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 12:14 AM |
| 15 | They aren’t even hiding the fact that they want to be babied into adulthood. 🚩MOMMY ISSUES🚩You're right he is SO greasy, what in the world is going on here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 12:01 AM |
| 14 | Ah, the classic “Passive Reciprocation”Come on op, tell us! Or give us some yogurt! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 11:52 PM |
| 2 | I found out what I want to do in life and you can tooWe're so proud of you! Shine on 🌞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 11:50 PM |
| 139 | Wishy washy scrote that earns 6 figures asked me over to his house for "pizza" and I left him on read. He did this for 3 days in a row and he eventually gave up. A reminder for the ladies here not to correlate high earning with high value.It would also be believable he thought "from scratch" meant something like adding pickled banana peppers to a pepperoni digiorno. I've dated that guy (he did not make any money though). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 11:44 PM |
| 122 | Wishy washy scrote that earns 6 figures asked me over to his house for "pizza" and I left him on read. He did this for 3 days in a row and he eventually gave up. A reminder for the ladies here not to correlate high earning with high value.Personally, I laugh every time I see in the news some idiot gets robbed because he invited a complete stranger from tinder to his house in the hope his dick gets touched. Better yet, the recent story where the scrote kid got beat up and mugged twice in four days by the same sex work scammer.🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 11:22 PM |
| 12 | Women who are only your friends when they are in between boyfriends, are pickme and LV.I've also heard someone say this. You're not wrong with anything you wrote- 100% fax. But it makes me really sad for this person. Maybe I will show her your comment or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 11:09 PM |
| 15 | Women who are only your friends when they are in between boyfriends, are pickme and LV.Oh wow. MommybangmaidCHAUFFEUR | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 11:06 PM |
| 26 | Women who are only your friends when they are in between boyfriends, are pickme and LV.I'm currently grieving the loss of a friend who has been consumed by this mindset. I asked her to go out with me to this hip bar. She says: "I don't know if we're available that evening, let me check with Eric." I specifically said "you and I should go to XYZ", If I wanted your scrote bf to come I would have said so, or made it a double date and invited my husband? They lose themselves 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 11:05 PM |
| 22 | Women who are only your friends when they are in between boyfriends, are pickme and LV.Damn, their lives sound exhausting tbh. I need a nap just reading about all that energy spent doing ???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 10:56 PM |
| 94 | What are some examples of imbalanced relationships that stand/stood out to you in media? I’m currently rewatching Harry Potter for the first time since joining FDS, and I’m finding Hermione’s relationship with Ron… a lot less endearing than I used to 🥴This. I always felt like there was something off, mostly with the inferiority complex and jealousy that dominates Ron's character in the last few books. The movies are worse because there is zero chemistry between the actors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 10:50 PM |
| 26 | They aren’t even hiding the fact that they want to be babied into adulthood. 🚩MOMMY ISSUES🚩Yep! In a year or two this guy is gonna go through his highschool psychology class and get SO EMBARRASSED. Plus, thank you for your kind words. I am now in my 30s and said shit is (mostly) together. I am still a recovering pickme, I just never attracted the leechy kind. LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 10:40 PM |
| 368 | Wishy washy scrote that earns 6 figures asked me over to his house for "pizza" and I left him on read. He did this for 3 days in a row and he eventually gave up. A reminder for the ladies here not to correlate high earning with high value.I bet he buys his pizza ingredients in bulk from Costco and does this with every girl he wants to fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 10:37 PM |
| 7 | A guy who is sending you mixed signals is just using youDon't beat yourself up too much, a lot of us have been this person (me). We were literally indoctrinated through media! Bet he dies mad in his apartment and no one notices because he's totally alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 10:34 PM |
| 17 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.I am so sorry you experienced this. I did not expect Canada, and I sure as hell didn't expect a female detective. I should not be surprised really, because Western society does not trust women. + ACAB | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 10:26 PM |
| 903 | Wishy washy scrote that earns 6 figures asked me over to his house for "pizza" and I left him on read. He did this for 3 days in a row and he eventually gave up. A reminder for the ladies here not to correlate high earning with high value.But he had a pizza coupon, and wanted to fuck. Why do you have to be such a bitch? /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 10:17 PM |
| 90 | They aren’t even hiding the fact that they want to be babied into adulthood. 🚩MOMMY ISSUES🚩I used to feel kind of shitty that I spent my 20s being unreliable and flaky, but at least no adult men tried to adopt me as their mom. That is awful you have to deal with this, all for the crime of maintaining a responsible life. This TikTok kid seems smug- Does he think it's attractive to want to fuck your own mom? So cringe that I almost want to politely inform him it is embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 10:13 PM |
| 25 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.Thanks for reminding me what my life could have been like had I married one of the redneck dudes I went to highschool with. Yee haw? YEE NAH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 10:00 PM |
| 15 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.Hahahahahaha, oh fuck, my sides 🤣 Penis cheese... 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 09:56 PM |
| 15 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.I'm sorry did you say you were threatened with criminal mischief for trying to report a rape? Where do you live so I can NEVER GO THERE. (Do not actually answer this question, obvi) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 09:53 PM |
| 28 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.Thank you for sharing your experience. I had no idea this happened. Really exposes the fact they know exactly what they're doing when they hurt women. 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 09:51 PM |
| 90 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.Girl, same. I am white and I am definitely most wary of white men. We know they do not have consequences for their actions. They are shown so much leniency in the justice system comparatively. See: Convicted Rapist Brock Turner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 09:43 PM |
| 95 | Ah, the classic “Passive Reciprocation”LVMs who just let life happen to them through passive reciprocation & NVM seeking a personal assistant gf are two sides of the same narcissistic coin. They believe that women are natural planners whose abilities should be used to serve men and curate their life experiences. The old myth where the female purpose is to add beauty and joy to a man's life? Miss me with that shit... I'll keep my beauty and joy to myself, or share it with those who actively reciprocate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Does it ever just make you sad how much women will put up with?Perseverance is taught as a virtue to young women. Giving up is 'failure'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 07:52 PM |
| 57 | Scrote tried justifying sex work to me on Reddit.LOL progress in treating HIV is a reason sex work is ok? K, I say progress in space travel is a reason enslavement of all men is ok. They can leave the planet if they don't want to be enslaved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 07:49 PM |
| 33 | Women who are only your friends when they are in between boyfriends, are pickme and LV.I think there is a difference. I've given plenty of shitty relationship advice and ignored friends when in relationships with toxic scrotes in my early 20s. Two things happened though: I grew up a bit, and I found FDS. We former pickmeishas CAN truly see the light, where as LVM/NVM never will, because they personally benefit from it too much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 07:40 PM |
| 15 | If he needs space from the relationship, it's a no.I'm in the same boat. Up until about a month ago I was kind of flattered to be "the one who got away" for multiple dudes. Then I realized the common denominator was scrotacity and saw these men for the pathetic wastes of oxygen they are. I pray for their partners every so often. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:38 PM |
| 29 | I love you FDS!!Omg your username is great! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:09 PM |
| 69 | I’m really curious to know..If he wanted to, he would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:08 PM |
| 9 | SeXual SeLecTiOn is A hAte CriMe aGainSt mEnAnd not just my PERSONAL experience, but all the women I know and love who deal with the same shit from males. Hilarious they think we've concluded this from just a handful of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:05 PM |
| 12 | SeXual SeLecTiOn is A hAte CriMe aGainSt mEnIt's interesting, I've observed male children of the single mothers I know growing up to be higher value males than a male picked at random, or males coming from traditional nuclear households. Anecdotal, I know, and likely skewed by my social circle where single moms have the education and resources to nurture a young males social and psychological development. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 02:13 PM |
| 41 | Finally got the guts to break off my 6 month situationshipWow, I wish I had a strong sense of boundaries at 21 like you, OP. I am so glad you stopped investing energy into him. The that's cool with me text would piss me the fuck off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 01:53 PM |
| 27 | 40 year-old scrote living with his parents sued them for trashing a porn collection which "included depictions of incestuous sexual relationship, along with depictions of sex with minors and animals, sexual assault and slavery." And he won the lawsuit.Thanks for sharing this scrotacity with us OP. Damn, does anyone else have a hard time clicking the up arrow on posts about how disgusting and depraved men are? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 01:46 PM |
| 90 | A guy who is sending you mixed signals is just using youRight?!?! All of the time and energy I've spent trying to decide what I was taught by Cosmo were nuances in body language, all the advice given to 'read between the lines' of his texts? Nah sis, they aren't that subtle. If he wanted to, he would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 01:37 PM |
| 41 | 40 year-old scrote living with his parents sued them for trashing a porn collection which "included depictions of incestuous sexual relationship, along with depictions of sex with minors and animals, sexual assault and slavery." And he won the lawsuit.I just don't want to even try to have kids in the fear it might be a male child. No matter how much you teach them, a patriarchal society is going to teach the opposite. Men have such fragile egos and are going to always be receptive to a message that deems males superior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 01:14 PM |
| 37 | 40 year-old scrote living with his parents sued them for trashing a porn collection which "included depictions of incestuous sexual relationship, along with depictions of sex with minors and animals, sexual assault and slavery." And he won the lawsuit.Right, MILs of scrotes just outsource the parenting of their LVM sons to the women they'll marry and abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 01:11 PM |
| 5 | Does it ever just make you sad how much women will put up with?Your comment got me shook. I guess it really all comes down to woman's purpose and duty to be both (and only) Madonna and whore to these scrotes. So many women are PAYING for the 'privilege' of having married an adult man baby, when they could BE PAID for the labor of taking care of a way cuter (and probably less whiny) actual infant baby. How do we rescue the mommy-bangmaids we love and care about? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 09:29 PM |
| 18 | FDS Going Private For Monthly Cleanup - Sept 1st and 2ndThank you for finally motivating me to create a Reddit account to participate and join the party. I am new here and I feel like I found my people. Enjoying the podcast and am signing up for bonus content right now! Keep up the good work in spreading the FDS gospel :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Always keep your coins snatchedJust want to say thanks to this sub for giving me the words to articulate why I always intuited that it was a terrible idea to date/marry a man who makes less than you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 10:11 PM |
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