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This is why I had to delete social media. I see people post radical, extreme angry things then when I confront them about it and try to get them to see the other side they immediately back down and act like the posts don't exist. But then the next day the post the exact same stuff. I take it all too literally and I guess most of the time people are just meme posting, not necessarily trying to align with an ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:48 PM
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I find it a bit disingenuous when people say they can't afford a kid but what they actually mean is they can't afford modern luxurious western lifestyles for their kids. And also can't afford to send their kids to someone else for thousands of hours a year to take care of. At that point I wonder if people genuinely want a kid or if they just think of the child as an accessory. I have been told by doctor's wives they could never afford to stay home.not aiming this at You as you said healthcare is…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:57 AM
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Some of the smaller tribes do just get checks but we are from one of the larger ones and it does not work like that. We have hospitals we can go to if we get sick for free and there are extra social welfare programs if you are eligible but no we don't just get paid for being Native American at least in our tribe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:25 PM
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Can you actually not afford to have a child? I am "poor" and have three kids. They have no idea we are poor. We have no government assistance and even homeschool. They are outperforming their peers academically and seem happy. We have lowered our standards of living drastically. In the U.S. we are considered poor but in most places we would be considered quite well off. We drive old cars, live in an old house, dont eat out much, and buy used clothes. We have decided family and nature are most im…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:14 PM
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Sometimes people also might have preference for you get partners for sexual reasons and I think it can be risky for the younger partner because there is a chance the older partner is only interested for sexual reasons. As the you get partner ages, if it's purely sexual intentions the relationship will breakdown
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:12 AM
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I think low libido is different from losing attraction for someone. I think the "wooing" your wife as OP put it will not work if attraction is lost BUT if tiredness and daily stress is the problem it will help.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:26 AM
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Love is a risk. It's part of what makes it special. You risk a lot going wrong because you care for one person. It would not be as special without those risks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:04 AM
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This is the fucking stupidest thing I have ever read. Feed the kids and not make a mess? This sums up so much that is wrong with society. Kids aren't machines. They are literally vulnerable human beings that are in a critical stage of life that requires love, affection, and teaching them most everything they are going to need to know logistically, socially, culturally and emotionally. You can't just give them entertainment and disappear. They need enrichment, academics, play, socialization, phys…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:54 AM
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Stability. You need to be a stable person vyoy need values or a moral compass. Something beyond what you feel or want in the moment. It seems like you don't know which direction you want to go. If you have morals or a philosophy it will be much easier to figure that out
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/22 10:34 PM
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I totally agree with you, just tryin to tell OP how it actually is. Most women think at the very least the first time that ha e sex it is with their future husband. It turns out not to be and then their virginity is already gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:16 PM
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I think OP's only chance of this is to enter extremely religious circles
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:16 AM
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Why not downsize the house and take stuff out of the schedule?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:09 PM
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Why not downsize the house and take stuff out of the schedule?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:08 PM
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I am so skeptical. I have both genders and while they are different the caretaking is the exact same for babies and young kids. I feel like as a mom you get like hormonally programmed to not be grossed out by your kid. How could you possibly call any part of your very own baby or toddler that you made gross
/r/AntiFeminists18/08/22 01:22 AM
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Lol! AND binge drinking. It seems like the correct advice is don't go to bars full of shallow people only trying to have sex. And lose weight. OP could be living her best life. Less likely to die of a host of issue brought on by drinking and being overweight. Less likely to be assaulted or raped. And you're away from so many shallow people in one spot. Probably less awful music too. Really a win win.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/22 04:47 PM
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A lot of them are replying that a guy should offer to buy drinks for a friendly conversation. Lmao. Like I 100% agree buying a woman a drink doesn't entitle you to sex BUT everyone knows why people dress up and go to bars. Don't go to bars if you don't want to be in those situations.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/22 04:30 PM
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What gives us the power to be arbiters of if someone not even born yet is going to have a shitty life? Often it is people born in the worst circumstances that go on to extraordinary things.
/r/AntiFeminists08/08/22 01:31 PM
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I'm a woman and personally, I do not think at all it is a shittier deal. It has been an absolute honor to carry my children and feed them. My husband has also been incredibly supportive and I have not had to stress in either of my pregnancies, births or postpartum periods. I would absolutely not trade my husband.
/r/AntiFeminists02/08/22 10:30 AM
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I think the Dobbins case really showed how femenism went full circle. With women discussing sex strikes and such. Marriage was seen by a lot of radicals as part of the patriarchy but it was a solution to not letting men off the hook when they had sex. It had to mean something. The sex positive brand of femenism really stripped away these institution that had been there for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:19 PM
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I think there's this disconnect between most people and the real world currently where we often fail to see that our actions and the way we treat people have consequences. A variety of things caused the disconnect but I think once you realize spending your time nagging or bitter or being lazy will only result in reaping animosity in your home it becomes much easier to think about what we say and do each day as something that will payoff even if you feel like not being kind and an being lazy.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/22 04:30 PM
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As someone that dated and married my first LTR boyfriend, it seems like a LTR ending is word than a short one? Dated boyfriend for six years, been married for four. Like oh wow, you guys really grew together and go to know each other and that person still didn't like you? The longer the relationship was, the worst it is it seems. Like it seems like something big must happen for a 5 year relationship to end. Maybe I just got lucky. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:38 AM
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Maybe because some of us like our kids who are white? I think it would be a sadder world if there were no white children in it. European and western culture is unique, diverse and has created a lot of great art, philosophy, and music. There are specific value systems that dot exist anywhere else on Earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:17 PM
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This. Tip: if someone does not want you to have kids, they hate you
/r/AntiFeminists12/07/22 03:27 AM
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No human was made to be learning about calculus and in a classroom 8 hours a day. Some humans are exceptionally intelligent and do fine. But most are not. Women however are more agreeable and more willing to conform with society's expectations so they do fine. Additionally they almost always have a female role model in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:42 PM
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Speaking of first ladies, I like Abigail Adams. She had a lot of taste and John Adams often consulted her about anything and trusted her insights. My mom is very important to me too. She stayed committed to my dad despites ups and downs in their marriage. And maybe Queen Victoria for contributing so much to the public good.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/22 01:00 AM
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I am just in my 20s, so I don't have a lot of advice but it does seem like it's a lot of boredom? What were some things you guys wanted to do that kids interrupted? For me and my husband, I am looking forward to long backpacking trips when are kids get a little bigger. Also playing long board games and cooking for fun and not just necessity. It seems like now is very good time to invest in your intellect and spirit. If you're religious I think getting deep into theology and religion would be goo…
/r/RedPillWives08/07/22 08:56 PM
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I had to nudge him for dates and romance but not marriage, kids or commitment. He was on board with those principally from the beginning
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/22 03:22 AM
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I'm from Oklahoma and confused to. Do you just mean you want to be more social and outgoing?
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/22 09:40 PM
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If you're still young, get out of the entire internet before you catch autism. Make good choices (be kind, avoid drugs and crime, don't sleep around or watch porn), have hobbies, learn things, stay active and eat well and you'll be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:31 AM
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I would say the fact that we are here proves that they were at least less anxious and depressed than a lot of modern westerners who are so anxious or depressed that they want to overthrow the whole system and don't want kids. I have also read a handful of books written by women in the 1800s and they seemed pretty content. Obviously it is a small sample size of women from a specific century that could write but still. Also when I talk to older people they say less suicides happened and people wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:43 AM
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I suppose the idea that there is a social hierarchy of men and women. Our attitudes often reflect our place in the social hierarchy and doing certain things can effect your standing on the social hierarchy and your ability to find a mate. I don't think life is purely this but I do think it does explain a lot of what is going on in this modern world where everyone seems to be depressed and anxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:23 AM
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I would narrow it down even further to "modern marketable" prior to the industrial revolution sewing, cooking, farming, gardening, childrearing, etc.were all very marketable skills. I agree that back up plans are good. But I would say nothing in life is ever sure even backup plans.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:19 AM
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I agree that OP probably meant more modern marketable skills, BUT I think we should all be careful to not fall into a default capitalist mindset of skills only meaning something that can make you money in the current job market. Yes I know of many women that have turned their cooking into selling baked goods and workout instructor after staying home. Not as sure as a business degree but still doable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:15 AM
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I would argue it's the higher iq that is correlated with more education as well as less financial burden and not the education itself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:55 AM
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Do you really think the only skills worth having are ones a corporation or government office is looking for? That is such a dystopian mindset to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:54 AM
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I think for OP to call the skills women get when performing a domestic role in life "meaningless" is vapid and one day OP's descendants or her will pay the the cost for assuming such skills are meaningless. Maybe they won't make you a ton of money. Yes some women do just stay home and watch TV and get fat or whatever. But pretty much all the stay at home moms in my area are gardening, cooking from scratch, homeschooling. What could be more valuable than knowing skills of self sustainability, tea…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:50 AM
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I would say I believe in the evolutionary psychological ideas of the red pill. Not necessarily that men should be out gaming women or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:43 AM
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I think the biggest thing for me personally though is I don't see my marriage as a transaction. I get red pill theory is like that a lot of times for dating and such but to me marriage is a vow I made to God. I am committed to bringing the most good into the world through my marriage and my husband is too. If he changes his mind and divorced me for some younger woman in a decade or so? Well, I have a tough few years but that's just kind of life. Hardships happen. Bottom line: I fell in love with…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:12 AM
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It is interesting you mention now dating men with jobs that require degrees, but being a model does not require a degree? I think this depends on if the instagram not representing how you dress is a fashion issue or a modesty issue. Does the instagram show more skin than you normally would or just different kinds of clothes? If it's more skin, I think that any potentional partners definitely have a right to know how you portray yourself online. Maybe you don't portray yourself on the street like…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/22 02:29 PM
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I agree but the one exception would be a partner that got got sick or paralyzed or something. I don't consider it a need but a willingness to have sex is a necessary part of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:18 PM
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This. I think particularly if you plan on having kids labor is rough. That is absolutely the worst I have ever looks. Husband says I didn't poop but I know it is common and I wouldn't be surprised if I did and he tells me I didn't to make me feel better. I think you really need to address this with your husband OP. I don't think we should let our hygiene and health go...but being dolled up 24/7 is just so unrealistic
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/22 12:58 AM
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My skin has only ever completely cleared up when I am pregnant. It is amazing. I spend so much time on skincare when I am not pregnant and still have mild acne. Yet when I am pregnant, I could rub dirt and sweat and vegetable oil in my face and never wash and still have perfect skin. I have tried numerous pills and methods. The best method is oil cleansing and diet which makes my acne pretty mild but still sucks. The only thing I didn't try as a teenager was accutane.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 02:45 PM
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This is ridiculous. There have always been shallow and vain people. The vat majority of people give some leeway with looks and care about personality just as much. Are they loving and kind? Are they gentle? Do they follow God? Do they have a good relationship with their family? These things have mattered to probably most people as much as looks. I am not saying someone that is 10 is going to date someone a 1. But saying men have only valued women for their looks in the past is ridiculous. And sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 02:41 PM
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I also think even if it is mental illness...it's more important to find the cause of that. To me I think when you have someone that's an outcast, temperamental, violent, doesn't have a good family or childhood and has no hobbies or passions to pursue and is essentially a nihlist..that is the perfect storm. Once someone checks all those boxes it's very easy to see how they could go down that path. And we are living in a society where people are more prone to social isolation (people have less fam…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:23 PM
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SImilar to drug addiction, I think that promiscuity really requires dedication and constant guard against it. I think you need to understand why you acted that way, the negative consequences you experienced, how much worse it could be if you were still like that, and fundamentally why it is wrong to be promiscuous too. I think reflecting on these things will help a lot. I personally read the bible and pray every day to help me with my vices. It's been very important to me and God convicts people…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/22 02:31 AM
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Have you ever taken the Big 5 personality test? You sound really high in neuroticism. I am too and it is not necessarily bad, but it's good to be aware of. It makes you a lot more likely to experience lots of negative emotions when things feel mundane. And it can lead to lots of erratic behavior and mental illness if you're not aware of it. Perhaps because you are such a high achiever in education and career, youre lacking fulfillment and peace in your soul.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/22 05:49 PM
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Same. Love being a SAHM.
/r/RedPillWives20/05/22 02:36 PM
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we homestead so since the first half of my day is spent with kids and gardening and feeding animals, I wear jeans and a shirt. Some days I stay in that all day, other days I like to change into a cute dress or something before dinner. Then once it is bedtime, I just hang the dress back up since it is usually not dirty. I don't wear make up due to religious and philosophical reasons so this takes a lot of time off of getting ready in the morning. BUT I do put a pretty big emphasis on health and h…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/22 04:11 AM
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So I always order from Green Mountain Diapers. They have a website. They make a diaper called the workhorse and I love it as it is cotton and unbleached but it does not require any kind of folding to put on baby. I use that and then waterproof covers. I have not had much success with All in Ones. They always seem to leak for me. I have a few pocket diapers as well but I like to use those to have in the diaper bag as they are quicker to put on when travelling. Prefolds are also very reliable and …
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/22 03:58 AM
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Congratulations! I have two kids I have breastfed and cloth diapered. The first thing I have found is don't make yourself a slave to your schedule. Your schedule works for you not the other way around. The whole point of a schedule is to help you have peace of mind not stress you out. So stay felxible, because there are a lot of factors that will shift your schedule. Particularly because babies grow so fast. Don't be hard on yourself if you have to pick up a pack of disposables or dinner because…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 07:44 PM
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I think this is a BAD situation. I am not usually a default therapy person, but you need it. Spend time looking for a good therapist too. Your husband needs some sort of 12 step program or something too. He sounds like he has some very deep issues. This is not the red pill. I am in a traditional relationship and my husband is the calmest man I know. I feel 100% safe around him. Like safer than being with anyone else. I trust my kids lives and we'll being with him more than anyone I know. This is…
/r/RedPillWives11/05/22 01:59 AM
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This was a great read, thank you. The part at the end about the parent-child relationship being most important was reassuring in these post-covid times as I'm a SAHM and most of my friends don't have kids or work in the week, so it's mostly just me and the kids. Have you read The Boy Crisis? The author addresses similar things. Also talks about the importance of male role models an letting dads be dads and wrestle with their sons and such. I'm their generation of only girls on my mom's side so m…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/22 02:45 AM
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Yes some of the women I know are straight up antinatalists. It sucks to not have a group. But I have met a couple good friends at storytimes and weekday park outings. Don't be afraid to ask for someone's number. A lot of SAHMs are in the exact same situation.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/22 07:03 PM
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I had an aunt outright say "I hate stay at home moms" wtf?! Like would you say that about any other group of people? I get some stay at home moms hire nannies and go to the spa all day or whatever but 99% are watching the kids, cleaning and cooking all day.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/22 07:01 PM
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Yes, my mom was a career woman and while I appreciate her making sure we always had nice things, I remember always just wanting to be at home more. From the time I was very little I spent 10-12 hours a day at day care/school/after school programs. My mom developed an opiate addiction and alcoholism. it runs in the family but I think trying to be super woman also contributed to it. I definitely think it's important as a stay at home mom to have your own educate goals or hobbies. I like to take cl…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/22 06:58 PM
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This. Masculinity and femeninity are actually both good for society. Neither are toxic
/r/MensRights17/04/22 02:13 AM
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On the medical side, my gag reflex fluctuate s in sensitivity while pregnant and after birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:40 AM
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No. You're saying a SAHM should be able to clean a house in 1-2 hours since a maid does it and I am saying a SAHM or SAHD doesn't have the same job as a maid
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 12:58 AM
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Working parents also outsource the cleaning and cooking for 8-10 hours a day. When your cooking three meals a day and doing activities with your children, and possibly doing things like cloth diapering and such to offset costs, there's a lot more cleaning and cooking than someone who is having the day care do those things
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:52 PM
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A maid doesn't have little people home to clean after, play, cook for and teach.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:50 PM
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There are several factors that went in me deciding to stay home. Starting from day one, breastfeeding is much easier when you stay home. I can't imagine having to pump and worry about bottles. Good nutrition for my kids is really important to me and I think that starts with breastfeeding. Also from the nutrition stand point I can make three meals a day with whole foods and fresh by staying home. We can also grow and harvest much of our own food as well. This is a form of economic security too. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:03 PM
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There were a few days in both of my pregnancy first trimester a where I literally slept like all day and night with bathroom a d snack breaks. My first son got to watch movies for the first time during my second pregnancy due to this. The almost coma levels of exhaustion eventually go away...but sleep is NEVER the same. Just a warning someone gave me I wish I would've taken more seriously. Throughout your pregnancy you will struggle to get Comfortable, then baby comes and you will always feel li…
/r/RedPillWives08/04/22 03:19 AM
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I am a woman so not sure if this is directed at me, but my mom was really hard worker and worked in social work all my life. She took her career very seriously, often working 50-60 hour weeks. Weekend obligations and once a month or so she would go on trips that were several days long. From the time I was 6 weeks old, I was in child care or school for 12 hours a day and I often had to babysit my sister. My mom eventually got super burn out and developed and opiate addiction. She lost her job, we…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 03:25 PM
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What about a conservative that took religion and theology seriously? Like a Kierkegaard, Augustine of Aquinas type rather than Joel Osteen?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:59 AM
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Same. I had my own little family now. :) Land, a house, and I spend my days playing outside with my kids. It's a lot of work sometimes but I feel so much more connected to nature and God. I am in my late 20s and I am definitely starting to feel older for the first time in my life. But I am not scared or reaching for wrinkle cream. I look forward to the next couple decades.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/22 09:15 PM
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And leftist women are the most likely to be on the anti depressants
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:32 PM
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No one told me that. I got told by counselors, friends, and family it's low self-esteem, I just needed to accept myself. Only when I escaped that mindset through reading philosophy and theology was I able to get out of it. I guess the authors of the books I read indirectly told me. I would like to reiterate gender roles were not born in a vacuum, a domestic role for women came from it benefiting the children. You believe miserable people can only become happy after they have done something to ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:30 PM
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When did I say people should be yelled at to do good? My own misery led me to seek goodness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 06:30 PM
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I also think if you are doing something for the hit of dopamine, you could not call it good. It depends on the person. I have been severely depressed and then I came to believe in God and goodness and my perspective entirely changed. I realized nothing I did now could ever fulfill me so it useless to strive for that. Only striver for a greater good. Some people would probably sulk but there's been many other miserable people who have felt called to get over it and go do good. I am not unique in …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:37 PM
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Not doing good for the hit of dopamine but for that deathbed moment when nothing else matters. Hobbies are good because they contribute to community and learning. People who are miserable tend not think about much but themselves anyways. Maybe the cure for their misery is to start thinking about how they can do good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:59 PM
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But if being good is what makes you happy, then you won't be miserable. I am not saying one has to martyr yourself but if your life goal is to do good then you won't be miserable if you're not fulfilling some idea of success you have in your head. You do not live with the burden of guilt as you have a moral compass to help you make choices. I imagine on my deathbed I will be thinking of the people I loved and if I let them know I loved them with my actions. Not if I missed out on a party or a mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:41 PM
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Previously it only made sense for women to be in domestic roles. It's only like that if you don't see the domestic role as a valuable and a necessary contribution to society. I think people should do what is good for society not what makes them happy. I think if you aim for happy you end up miserable but if you try to be good first, then a deeper level of happiness comes from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:33 PM
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You think women having domestic roles in society is sexist?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:17 PM
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This was pretty much only on the 50s. Prior to that women still had domestic roles that they HAD to fill. Gender roles didn't come from a vacuum. It came from it being a practical way for a society to function. The ones that have the babies and are weaker, stay home and do the work that requires less strength and watch the children. It makes a lot of sense. Once industrialism and capitalism created peak consumerism in the 50s, women began to feel more pressure to have a life the advertisements s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:14 PM
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I am quite neurotic like many women. I think you probably are too. It's really hard for me to just be content when things aren't exactly right like cleaning, but it doesn't mean I can nag people for failing to do things perfectly. If it is something I care about being done perfectly, I should just do it myself otherwise I just stick with being happy someone did something for me. My moods can be quite all over the place and some days a dirty counter or something will really bother me but I find i…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/22 07:51 PM
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Almost positive strange men that want to have sex with your BM aren't around your daughter? 🤔🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:03 AM
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Also there is only a 20 year difference in WWI and WWII. so split between three generations, your family would have only had to had on average ~7 years lateer births than mine and considering childbearing age usually lasts 15-20 years for women and almost a lifetime for men it's not that crazy. Both were a long time ago relatively
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:49 PM
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I think it is yours lol. I am 26. Great grandfather would have been born in early 20s. Not sure exact year. Grandma born in 49. Mom was born in 67 and I was born in 95. My grandma had my mom kind of young at 18, but it all seems pretty normal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:35 PM
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I agree. My great grandparents met at a restaurant the day he was celebrating coming back from WWII and she was a waitress there. He asked her on a date. These days that is considered borderline harassment. As long as the man is willing to take a hint and walk away when she says no I don't think it's that wrong. But then again I have only ever really been approached in social venues or by coworkers and not just at the grocery store. I suppose if you're an attractive woman, it might get annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:56 AM
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I think all of the above plus lack of community an support. Past 2-3 kids, it's hard to find a babysitter or anyone to relate with. There is a lot of stigma attached to having kids young or having a lot of kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:48 PM
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I am a woman and I think this weird lol. I know how to use a plunger specifically because I would be mortified asking anyone else to plunge a clogged toilet for me lol. Especially my husband and he has seen me give birth twice. I wouldn't ask anyone to do this for me. All it takes is a quick internet search.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:41 PM
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Well for one, we want to homestead and farm so it's just a way of life and to connect with the earth. Hopefully one of them will want the farm when we get old. I love the idea that my kids will not likely be alone in the world and be able to have a full family. They're kids can have lots of cousins. My kids currently have none and probably won't have any and I had very few. Also I believe we have good values, good discipline, and a good contentedness with life. We want to pass those things on. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 08:53 PM
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The downside of lying is it is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:19 PM
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I agree it is weird just not a red flag to me.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/22 07:41 PM
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I disagree. I don't think humans are wired for constant contact through texting. My husband was deployed for a little while and we would go times without communicating. It's what people had to do for thousands of years in distance relationships before texting.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/22 05:47 PM
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One thing I find is that when my husband is watching the kids, he is usually holding the baby or playing a game with the older one. He doesn't put them down or set up activities for them so he can do chores like I will. It does mean my house gets a bit messier but I am so happy my kids have such a doting father!
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/22 08:45 PM
3

This seems like such a sketchy thing to do a study on. The definitions of liberal and conservative are fairly subjective and it seems like trying to conflate specific ideologies to sexual misconduct is dangerous territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:54 PM
1

I mean I can kind of see if it's at night and dark and you're alone, but if this was in the daytime, in an urban area?! Do the majority of women really walk around in that much fear constantly?
/r/AntiFeminists24/02/22 12:06 AM
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I understood what "skills" meant but the context it was used in made it seem as though you were not aware of the distinction. I understood your fundamental argument to be that RP men do not believe that women should gain any monetary skills. And I think there is a fundamental difference in saying RP men do not believe women should gain any monetary skills and RP men do not believe women should gain any skills. Does that make sense? We do not have to if you learn to survive without depending on a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:09 AM
1

I get what you meant but I think using the word "skills" as a substitute or shortened from of "modern marketable skills" (that are exclusively obtained from bureaucratic, expensive institutions) only furthers to create a society that exclusively serves money instead of people and only values people based on monetary value. Language is important. Also I am not offended and not meaning to offend either. It's just something I see often in modern femenism and I don't think it's in women's or men's b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:24 AM
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I think that is called nihlism and materialism. IMO only religion/spirituality can fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:44 PM
3

Either way, though, she still ends up with no money or skills. That's not caricature As a woman married to an RP man, I find this statement quite unfortunate. No skills?! Do you have a source for any man saying women shouldn't have their own hobbies or learn things? That isn't some 4chan shit post? In the 4 years I have been married to my husband, I have read lots of great classic literature, learned to play two instruments, bake sourdough bread, can food, grow a successful garden that is gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:17 PM
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