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I actually feel the opposite of you, I dont like being told Im smart, because like anyone and a lot of people are smart.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/21 03:39 AM
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You do realize people can be bisexual correct? Bisexual doesnt equal gay. He may have thought you might possibly be bisexual yourself, though it is a rude thing to assume just like you were assuming he is gay.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/20 05:59 AM
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So because a guy has a piercing and follows some queer accounts hes gay? Theres a lot of homophobic undertones in this post.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/20 04:05 AM
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I am the type of person to tell my bf that I love five times within five mintues. It's not that I dont do things to show I love and care about him, I just say that I love him a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 07:39 PM
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Im 21 and have had saggy breasts pretty much from the moment I got them and so have many other of my family members. I would say yes it is normal for larger cup sizes to sag.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 11:05 AM
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I suppose so, I think I would say the same for my own relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 11:34 AM
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I think it really depends on the relationship and the types of people within it. Some men really do take the lead while sometimes the woman does. Relationships need a balance of leadership/submissive and dominant roles. Slowly over time I realize that feminine doesnt have to equal submissive, one can be dominant and feminine. I know that isnt from a rp perspective but its an offshoot of it. Just yesterday someone made a post about "alpha females" and what would be considered one and I think that…
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 08:49 AM
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Seems like your boyfriend wants all the benefits of a rpw but doesnt want to put in the work. Your opinion should always be valued and wanted, even in rpw. Your boyfriend wants wife benefits without being a husband, why are you paying for half of everything and then on top of all that doing most of the cleaning and cooking? Until marriage everything should be split down the middle.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/20 03:54 AM
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When I am dealing with something stressful I tend to have a lower sex drive as well even though I am in a relationship. I personally enjoy the emotion behind intimacy more than the actual action of it so maybe I just have a low sex drive to begin with.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/20 04:02 AM
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I have an older coworker who shaves her eyebrows regularly after doing microblading quite a few years ago. Definitely do not recommend.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/20 03:52 AM
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I havent heard of doing that but I have seen a lot of ladies shaving off their eyebrows after microblading.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/20 03:39 AM
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Your not suppose to shave off your eyebrows if you get microblading done. Its suppose to be more like filling in ones eyebrows, not completely new ones.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/20 03:35 AM
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Of course boundaries can be placed and should be but thinking marriage is going to somehow change you or your relationship is just going to lead to unrealistic exceptions.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 10:53 AM
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If your boyfriend is putting fourth what would be considered husband duties then I see nothing wrong with also doing wife duties as well. Marriage isnt some magical thing that will change your behavior all of a sudden, I find it extremely dangerous to think that it is.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 03:48 AM
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I think all relationships need a masculine and a feminine balance to them. So for me, this sub is about helping others bring their feminine balance to their relationships. One does not need to be a woman to be feminine and one does not need to be a man to be masculine. Though I dont think everyone on this sub would agree with that. I think this sub is tolerant of LGBTQ+ but not all of it. Im in a poly relationship with a guy and a woman and have been told a few nasty things about it by the peopl…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/20 06:39 AM
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My question is that if women find it so easy to find sex and rack up a large n count, then why are men finding it so hard to find a woman to have sex with? That just doent make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:59 AM
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I have already spoken about this to him. Its not even something I had to think about until recently. No one could possibly know how they would react to every single situation in a relationship until they are faced with the situation.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/20 09:58 AM
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If my boyfriend were to make youtube his career instead of going to school then he wouldnt be my boyfriend anymore. I havent told him this because he has told me that he plans to keep going to school and this is just a side thing he wants to do. People who do youtube or a living are constantly working and I do not want a workaholic husband, I want weekends and dinner with him.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/20 06:43 AM
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He is a very logical guy who tends to not even think about taking risks so this is actually new territory for our relationship. Since he is so logical it has been very easy for me to be supportive of what he needs me to be supportive of so I dont really have experience with being supportive in a situation where logic has been sorta pushed to the side and passion put in its place. I dont know how much of what I am worried about should be said to him and how much of it should I just keep to myself…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/20 11:59 AM
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This sums up how I feel about it better than I could put it into words.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/20 10:01 AM
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I dont have a great relationship with my parents but am slowly building my relationship with my mother back up again. In my teens I saw how my mother was treated by all her exes and told myself that I would never allow anything like them to happen to me. I now am with my boyfriend who is the opposite of my own father. My boyfriend doesnt yell, say mean things, or even raise his hand period, he is quite logical. He is exactly the man that I was looking for. When Im angry I want to yell at the oth…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 03:46 AM
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This has been the first time the mistake had been made, I have already put a system in place to prevent it from happening again. I dont appreciate your assumptions that I havent done so.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/20 04:00 AM
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Even adults make mistakes every once in a while, I already know how to take care of my reproductive health.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/20 03:47 AM
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I literally made this post to get some advice on how to go about changing my thinking. Everyone is just spitting back the same things I said in my post. Came here for advice not for people to repeat what I already know right back at me.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/20 11:00 PM
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He isnt getting sex from our other partner because she's asexual.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/20 10:53 PM
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Your one of the only comments that didnt spit my words right back at me. Thank you for providing some actual advice. I would feel better about oral if my boyfriend did enjoy giving it but he doesn't which is something I can understand. I do think it would be a good idea to set up a little date. We have done little indoor picnics before so maybe itll be fun to surprise him with a little date night that should push us both along into a more frisky mood.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/20 09:24 PM
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I know that the 50/50 mentality is harmful for a relationship, I thought that was clear in my post but apparently not. Every single time I heard about blowjobs as I grew up it was about because some slut was giving a guy one. It was made very clear to me by the adults around me that sex was for some you loved and blowjobs are things sluts do in alleyways. So maybe you can understand why the idea of giving a blowjob may make me feel like a slut. You didnt give me any useful advice to use because …
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/20 09:18 PM
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Babies are doing so much more than sleeping, pooping and eating. They are constantly taking information in, thats why they sleep so much! Everything you do with a baby affects how they turn out later in life, how you speak to them, play with them, how fast you are to comfort them. These things affect how open they will be about things that bother them, how confident they will be at solving problems and even emotional stability. These are such huge things that affects a child's life, why would yo…
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/20 05:25 AM
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Maybe even take one day to make things that could easily be tossed into the oven or set in the crock pot all day. This way you can have some really nice meals without giving up quality.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/20 01:54 PM
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I dont really want to know how to make them like me. I just dont want to be ignored which makes it harder to do my job at times. But yes I do have a hard time with needlessly rude people. It still bugs me when I'm at home. I take things like this deeply personally.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/20 12:04 PM
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Guess I was just looking for advice that wasnt ignoring them.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/20 08:33 AM
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I dont have any friends due to me moving three years ago when I was 18. I dont go to school so besides work and my bf's family along with some phone calls back home I have no other social interaction. I work for 40 hours each week, its a little disheartening when suddenly people are being rude to you for no reason you can understand. "just ignoring it" isnt going to make me suddenly feel better.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/20 08:22 AM
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In the middle of growing my hair out, I have a weird mullet type thing going on rn.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 11:22 AM
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I live with my bf, its impractical to not have a meal plan or for just one of us to do laundry while the other does another chore like dishes. Seems like the line is almost too blurry for those who live with one another.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 09:23 AM
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He wants to finish school [hes 27 and Im 21] by 30 and work for a year or two with some traveling before having kids. So realistically I would be just about the age he is now when we have kids. We havent decided when we would marry but defiantly before kids since we both want me to stay home full time when that happens.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/20 09:47 AM
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My mom taught me the bare bones of cooking and as the oldest of six children I was stuck cooking hamburger helper and spaghetti for my family quite often. I kinda enjoyed it but because it was labeled as a chore of mine that sucked some of the joy out of it. I also wasnt making anything all that creative either so I didnt get any of the pride one gets when they finally mastered a dish. It wasnt til I moved out of home from the midwest to florida that I discovered that my mother's cooking skills …
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 09:15 AM
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I would think its unwise not to share your history if you are planning to be with him in the long haul.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 02:42 AM
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Im a big girl and defiantly overweight and so is my boyfriend. We have moments where we do point out each other's weight but its never in a mean way. We also dont compliment each other using weight based compliments either. So I would say I dont necessarily let him comment on my weight because its not really something he is inclined to do very often and with his logical mind it never comes off hurtful when he does. Have you told your partner about your history? I do think it would be good for yo…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 02:34 AM
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I turned 21 this past february before any lockdowns started in my area and ended up going to a musical and had my first glass of legal wine. Im not much of a party person so I wouldnt of enjoyed going to a bar. Dont feel like you have to make your 21st all about drinking just because you can. Im glad I went the more classy route because I wouldnt of had fun going to a bar like a lot of other people do. I do think dressing up and doing a charcuterie and wine is a great idea, maybe even a nice din…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/20 05:58 AM
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When I think coastal I think of blue and beige but I dont see why you couldnt get away with that very light purple instead of the blue. I dont see too many homes that use purple and when its very light its really beautiful. I say if your husband doesnt care about the purple color choice then go for it. Its a little different but done right it could look amazing.
/r/RedPillWives14/04/20 03:23 AM
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I would hold off on trying to get to know this guy until he no longer has his ex still living in his house. Thats just a personal rule and one I know a lot of ladies have and for good reason. Its probably best to put a hold on dating until this whole thing blows over.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/20 04:32 AM
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It's not bad to like basic things. Certain hobbies/foods/items are considered basic because sooo many people like them, not because its bad.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/20 05:05 PM
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I always get looked down on when I tell people I am perfectly happy working my office job and wouldn't mind working less hours in order to take care of the home. Apparently no woman can be fulfilled by supporting others. I dont enjoy to idea of having to go to school for years only to work a job I dont want or enjoy. I rather support a man who actually wants it and then in turn support our children if that's what they want. I dont want to be a "do it all" woman. I just want a more simple life an…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 12:42 PM
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I havent thought about those flowly pants, most of the time they look like long skirts when just standing still. A black pair of those with a cardigan and a scarf would be perfectly feminine and covered! When I started working here I had no idea what to wear, my bf is the one who got me the job by recommending me so I wore what he did. Which was dress pants and a polo. Since just recently making my work attire more feminine I have gotten a lot of comments from the other ladies, some good, some b…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/20 07:08 AM
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Its great that you have a physical hobby too. Thats something Im currently lacking. Its amazing how doing something you really enjoy that is just for yourself can do for your mental health.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/20 05:55 AM
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Picking up a hobby to let your anger out is a good way to start. From the ages of 14 to just recently [Im 21 now] I was bitter and angry after some abuse had happened to me. I wasnt the same person anymore. I was no longer the kind and caring person I once was. I picked up drawing, something I had always done but never used it to cope with the war of feelings inside me. It really helped. Just remember healing takes a good amount of time but you will heal. You could also look into anger managemen…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/20 05:03 AM
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How is he going to know its important to me unless I tell him "Hey, holidays are important to me and I would like you to celebrate with me." I can't expect him to read my mind.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/20 04:30 AM
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When I think of "putting my foot down" When it comes to cooking its pretty much what you do. I don't plan to completely forget about what he wants but I'm not gonna just make junk food every night. I just think telling him to make himself something if he doesn't like what I'm making will come off as me treating him like a little kid who won't eat his veggies. With holidays, Christmas for example, I would like if he would at least watch a Christmas movie with me, would you have been upset if your…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/20 04:28 AM
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Veggies are a pretty large part of eating healthy
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/20 04:22 AM
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The video says to use dry rice noodles and the noodles they put in looked fresh, Im new to Asian cooking so Im wondering if you just soak the noodles and saved the actual cooking part for when it heats up from the boiling water.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/20 09:05 AM
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Learned recently to let cleaning products do all the hard work. Now I'll take whatever cleaning project Im using, for example the bathtub, apply it and let it sit for a few minutes. Cleaning has been so easy or faster to finish.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/20 07:03 AM
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Magic erasers clean by scratching off the outer layer of whatever is being cleaned. So great for grime on tiles, not so great for painted walls or plastic tubs!
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/20 07:01 AM
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Do you know if dress pants should be hung dry as well? Bf has thick khaki colored dress pants and Im starting to wonder if I should wash them like there jeans.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/20 06:58 AM
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For valentines Im making him his favorite steak with some home made fries to go along with his favorite mead. Our first valentines together we had an indoor picnic with blankets on the floor and his favorite movie so instead of that this year I will just be setting up our coffee table with a picnic looking table cloth and some flowers in a vase because otherwise we will be shooing the cats away the whole time. He isnt much of a holiday person so hes happy to just stay inside and do dinner which …
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/20 04:29 AM
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I rather my partner know that my boundaries will be different compared to a woman who hasnt dealt with such trauma and that there is reason behind them. Im not looking for sympathy but for understanding. I believe in being completely open with your partner, good or bad.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/20 06:41 AM
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If your partner is so "burdened" by knowing about things that have happened to you then they dont deserve a relationship with you. I would never date a man who thought it was ok to call me wounded and damaged for what someone else had done to me.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/20 06:19 AM
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Most women my age are into partying and are going to college and are too busy to be bothered for even a cup of coffee. Ive been trying to use apps that are for finding friends irl but it hasnt been all that helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 04:39 AM
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Part of wearing dresses is that your always gonna look dressed up, it's something I'm still getting used to. I'm currently trying to convert my wardrobe to all dresses. I'm a plus size girl so I get mine from torrid. They have tons of different styles. Maybe consider wearing tights or leggings with shorter dresses to help open up your options a little bit?
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/20 11:59 AM
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This is perfect! Thanks for the idea.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/20 02:21 PM
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Looking feminine makes me feel more confident and feel better about myself. If I dress well then I feel better than I would wearing frumpy clothes. Its more for myself than it is for anyone else.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/20 10:07 AM
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I think some women can dress feminine and still be well covered, its just a fine line to balance and I dont know how to balance it. I think your right though, I may have to settle for some pretty pajamas.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/20 08:27 AM
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Well he tends to be more interested when I get all dolled up but if we are at home and I'm not wearing anything but my underwear he couldn't seem to care less. I wonder if it's the "secretiveness" behind wearing clothes is the difference.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/20 01:45 PM
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