| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 17 | Wife is starting to push back | Victim Puke | TicTac-Throw | /r/askMRP | 23/06/21 09:25 AM |
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| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 21, 2021I am an introvert, if that's what you mean. But I also have a passion for doing things, plus some kind of ambition of going places. Yes, I "castrate" myself way too much. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/09/21 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 21, 2021I'm overthinking everything, most likely including butt-thumbing. Yes, that's a good tip about nudging boundaries. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/09/21 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 21, 2021Yeah, that's a solid way of looking at it. Thanks! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/09/21 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 21, 202139 years, 186cm, 81kg, 17% BF (navy), married 10 years, two daughters SL5x5 Bench 72.5kg, Deadlift 110kg Squat 60kg, Press 47.5kg, Row 60kg Read all of it several times. Right now I'm re-reading Unchained man Lifting lifting every other day... Have been having some issues with my hip and hired a trainer to help me with form. Thinking out loud here... One of my main problems is a lack of initiative. At every aspect of my life. I'm a follower, not a leader. Sure, I own my shit at home. Oftentimes … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/09/21 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 07, 2021Thanks. Yes, one step at a time. (should I point out that thumb-up-butt isn't the only "dominant act" I'm attempting, or would that just be DEERing? I guess it would, so I won't. Er...) | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/09/21 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 07, 2021Hmm, yes maybe to some degree I'm trying to indirectly turn her on by acting dominant. Will have to meditate on this... Thanks for the thought-inducing reply. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/09/21 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 07, 2021Yeah, testo is a factor too I guess. Yes, variety is another part of DEVI I need to internalize. Full focus on getting the hang of "D" right now. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/09/21 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 07, 2021You're right. I already had a couple of those lightbulbs. I'll keep working and see if I can get an upward spiral of bulbs going eventually. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/09/21 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 07, 2021OYS 2 39 years, 186cm, 81kg, 17% BF (navy), married 10 years, two daughters SL5x5 Bench 72.5kg, Deadlift 110kg Squat 60kg, Press 47.5kg, Row 60kg Read all of it several times (not enough times). Right now I'm re-reading MMSLP Started my MRP career with a big ban. Point taken, write from my own perspective. Lifting goes on and on. I'm slowly adding weight to press and bench. I have deloaded on rows and squats to work on form. I did the same with deadlifts a while back and I'm soon back where I wa… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/09/21 09:32 AM |
| 0 | Body language postFacepulls. Check out Athlean-X on youtube. | /r/askMRP | 06/08/21 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Should I be open to life with a woman who broke my heart? Can they really improve?Less likely if you spin other plates as well. Then you'll know you have options, making you less prone to oneitis. | /r/askMRP | 28/07/21 04:29 PM |
| 7 | Should I be open to life with a woman who broke my heart? Can they really improve?Don't go back to being exclusive. If she values you, she'll be content with sharing you with others rather than lose you. That is IF she actually values you. In other words, make her one of your plates or ditch her completely. | /r/askMRP | 28/07/21 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 27, 2021OYS 1 39 years, 186cm, 81kg, 17% BF (navy), married 10 years with two daughters SL5x5 Bench 72.5kg, Deadlift 122.5kg Squat 80kg, Press 45kg, Row 65kg Read all of it several times. Right now I'm re-reading NMMNG So, I have been lurking about for a while and reading a lot, half-assing stuff. Not very productive. Time to actually get busy. I'm a lifelong beta. Risk averse, validation seeking, socially awkward, submissive, passive-aggressive, fear of rejection... The whole package. Probably on the s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/07/21 11:49 AM |
| 2 | (married with children) Trying to regain my individuality by being more active away from home, but without the feeling of abandoning my wife with all the work around the kidsWhat is the difference between this and a covert contract? | /r/askMRP | 09/07/21 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Wife is starting to push backWhat was her appointment? Pointless shit. Were you sharing a vehicle? Yes. Why would she make you stop everything for it? The way I see it, she was testing my boundaries. | /r/askMRP | 26/06/21 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Wife is starting to push backYou are still in your wife's frame. Period. Paragraph. Agreed. How much action have you take from the reading and internalizing of the sidebar? It seems to me that you are constantly worrying about everyone except yourself. You have work to do. Keep the hammer down on your lifts and start to put into practice IRL from what you are learning through the sidebar readings and posts. Stop worrying about your wife and focus on you. I'm stumbling in the right direction. Yes, need to remember to focus o… | /r/askMRP | 25/06/21 07:16 AM |
| 3 | Wife is starting to push backIt was not a comfort test. She knew I had stuff scheduled and tried to make me sacrifice time for her sake just to probe my boundaries. I'd say it was a shit test, or at the very least some kind of fetch quest | /r/askMRP | 25/06/21 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Wife is starting to push backWatch this. Especially the "The Scoreboard", "IOUs don't exist", "Philosophies and Gronk" and "Removing The Scoreboard" part. Thanks, Rian has lots of great stuff. Hard to pick out what's relevant for the moment sometimes. I have been very guilty of scoreboarding in the past. Trying to get rid of it and move to a "she doesn't owe me anything" mindset. I am very interested in what Mods have to say about your post, if they do. Why is that? | /r/askMRP | 25/06/21 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Wife is starting to push backThere's a big issue that seems to be the root cause of a lot of your frame issues. Boundaries. Before you get your wife in sex-shape, you need to get yourself in boundary shape. Look around you and ask yourself, "Why does she think she can push the boundaries the way she does?" That's the root of your problem. Yes, I have very weak boundaries, I am aware of it and try to work on it. Wifey knows all too well she can make me do basically anything from getting a glass of water to buying a new house… | /r/askMRP | 25/06/21 06:29 AM |
| 2 | Wife is starting to push backOrgasm real. She’s hoping you’ll hold frame. Not talking to you because she’s nervous it was a fluke. Bring humor and joy into it as able. This is what I'm hoping is going on. I know I'm not supposed to use women's actions to gauge my progress but it's hard not to when they are so integrated in one of the things I want the most. Don’t refuse sex with her bc the circumstances aren’t ideal in your mind. As paradoxical as it sounds, she needs to know you can deliver regardless of the emotional turm… | /r/askMRP | 25/06/21 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Wife is starting to push backI'm guessing I'm not supposed to have a litteral erection. Yes, I initiate when I'm horny. Since I have quit porn, I get hornier every day without sex, so logically I should keep "bashing" until I get it. | /r/askMRP | 25/06/21 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Wife is starting to push backAre you ONLY touching her and affectionate when you're horny and want to fuck? Or are you teasing her and kissing her and gaming her when you don't want sex? I touch/grope/kiss her pretty much all the time. Maybe too often, I dunno. It's not like she is very receptive. But if I want to grab her ass, I grab her ass. I know there is more to gaming than grabbing ass though... Working on understanding that part. | /r/askMRP | 25/06/21 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Wife is starting to push backRight, I am the protagonist here. (edit: or I SHOULD be...) | /r/askMRP | 24/06/21 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Wife is starting to push backstart posting on OYS I will re-read your post and ask whose frame do you think you’re in? Not my own, that's for sure. erection test is better than bashing your head into the wall 10 days in a row. What's an erection test? Difficult to google... | /r/askMRP | 24/06/21 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Wife is starting to push backWhen you get rejected, you don't "leave". That's butthurt, even if you don't act butthurt. Instead, you're simply carrying on with whatever activity you were doing. Something like this: "I was going to take the kids to the park tonight, but that could wait for a minute..." Ah, thanks this is great. Yes, I need to get busy. It's also worth noting that there was a comfort test in there. DO you touch her or hug her or spend time with her after she fucks you? If not, you need to throw some comfort i… | /r/askMRP | 24/06/21 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Wife is starting to push backTesting testing, seems the post was removed? | /r/askMRP | 23/06/21 09:29 AM |
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