| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 147 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table. | CMV | Ticking_Cl0ck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 11:27 PM |
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| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Why would you assume I want to be a mother just because I am a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 08:47 PM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.You had me at lightsaber. ✌🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 11:03 PM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.And you sound hurt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:40 PM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Am I the only who is still trying to figure out why he brought up his preference for not dating single mothers on this post? 😂 like im just fucking confused still | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:39 PM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Ewww | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:36 PM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.So these aren’t things that I take as insults personally, I am the way I am. That said it’s a pretty weak argument to bring up someone’s mental health to discredit them lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:30 PM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.I wish more people understood that point instead of focusing on how it must just mean women are goldiggers lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:14 PM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.This post wasn’t written from personal experience (I don’t date - by choice). But thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:06 PM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.The literal reason I posted this was from seeing so many of these posts from men complaining about it being impossible for them to find women to date. But looking at the comments you’d swear they want nothing to do with women lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:03 PM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Award for the best flair 🏆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:59 PM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Protect us from what ? Other men ? And to your second point, men demand things be 50/50 nowadays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:52 PM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.So I don’t “chase” men. I run away from them. That said, to answer your question, I didn’t write this post based off personal experience. I wrote it based off seeing the women around me (girl friends, family, colleagues) get treated like crap continuously and then all the reddit posts about dudes complaining women’s standards are too high. Personally I chose not to date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:47 PM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Preach🙌🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:44 PM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.I wish that were true so bad. Do I need to gain weight so yall will leave me the fuck alone? I can’t get over 105 lbs no matter how much I try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:43 PM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.No, my goal is NOT to attract men, regardless of this quality concept you mention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI stopped replying to you because there was a sea of more interesting comments I wanted to reply to and I can’t reply to everything (I have a life). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:13 PM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.And you’re wrong on the majority of what you just said. The first being that I want to date a man? I’m not sure what gave you that impression. Lmao IF ONLY it was true that I could make men run away but fuck, it’s like I can’t shake you guys off no matter how hard I try. I can’t even keep a fucking psychologist because they become inappropriate or a male colleague because they start hitting on me. I’ve literally told guys point blank that “I have BPD and ASPD, so you should probably run away” an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:06 PM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Tbh it can be crippling. I can’t help how i feel though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 08:44 PM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Ewwww | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 11:49 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.I know😳 i feel like i ruffled quite a few feathers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 11:46 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.I am😭 it’s fucking hard though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 11:38 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.I dont know? I dont personally give a shit who pays for the date lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 03:29 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Yes. And for the record, most of us are in some way shape or form. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 03:29 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Well not from where I’m sitting unfortunately. I can’t even go to the fucking doctors without him making inappropriate comments. And you have no appreciation for how hard it is to reject a man knowing he’s gonna take it badly and be a dick abt it. No matter how politely or gently you did it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 03:27 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Fair enough. As a woman, obviously I’m going to be focused on my side of the shit deal. But I can respect that you guys don’t have it your way either and as long as things are kept respectful it’s fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 03:21 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Somehow I just still can’t get rid of you guys. You just keep coming and coming. Whether I politely decline an advance or downright act batshit crazy, it’s like you guys can’t be deterred or take no for an answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 03:20 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.I think if the majority of females were undesirable as u say, you guys wouldn’t be so obsessed with us or butthurt when we reject u. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 03:15 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Yeah you’re right, I was thinking the same for women. AI partners who provide help with housework, companionship, support, loyalty, and who don’t treat us like second class citizens or servants or incubators. That wouldn’t pressure us for sex or gaslight us, etc. I think perhaps this wouldn’t be a bad scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 03:11 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.That’s a fair point! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 03:07 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Bless you heart for having the patience 🥲 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 03:01 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.It’s funny that the men on here who disagree have so far assumed I must either be low-income, a single mom, fat or unattractive. I guess cause you guys can’t fathom that a woman wouldn’t want you, so you have to make me into an undesirable one. It’s cringe as fuck tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:59 AM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.I agree, but reality is that that doesn’t exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:57 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Yes however at those times we are “physically and emotionally weak” as u say, it isn’t men helping. We had to learn to fend for ourselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:47 AM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Exhibit A | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:34 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Yes, men will go to war and get killed. Women will take over all other industries and continue making the the world go round just like they did in WW2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:29 AM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Close but no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:22 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.You really can’t accept that as far as getting off goes, a dildo might be better than a real man? Is that why you decided to insult me… to discredit me? I’m really sorry you felt victimized by this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:21 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.I like debating though! I spend my time enjoying it right now. Don’t you? Why are you here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:17 AM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Yes, as a matter of fact I have. It gives me very low tolerance for bullshit. This is one reason I like to debate the topic. I must say I’ve not been proven otherwise so far though. The red pill men’s side of the debate is weak as fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:15 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.I don’t really understand from how you phrased that but for the record, I have nothing against autistic men. They have many amazing qualities, are more loyal and lie less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:10 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Wow, I think you just blew my mind and now I’m even more disgusted by these people’s responses. I’m also deeply insulted for the actual low-income single moms who are victims of these unjustified accusations (that it’s their fault). I voluntereed in a women’s shelter for years and so many of these women CHOSE to be single mothers, go through all the hardship that comes with that and barely scrape by on a low income because that is preferable over staying with a man. Can you imagine how badly thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:07 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Hey I dunno, apparently I attract those like a magnet. Luckily I make an excellent omelette. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:53 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.This is a debate subreddit… so… I am here to debate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:51 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.So since posting this, several ppl here have assumed I’m a single low income mother? I’m not at all judging low income single moms, but I’m just not sure why people are making assumptions that if we call out men for their bs, it must mean we are low income single mothers? What’s the correlation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:49 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Bold of you to assume I’m scraping by lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:40 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.I see your point. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:38 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.I don’t need someone to support a family. I make my own money. What I need is someone who can bring something to the table and who I can call a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:36 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.I’m sorry that this happened to you. She sounds like a dick and it sounds like you stepped up for your boys and I respect you for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:33 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.It’s what most men are after anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:30 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.I do! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:28 AM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.I do. I named him Johnny and he’s a perfect, consistently firm, 6 inches. He’s clean and stays in a drawer until I need him again. Gives me the best orgasms I’ve ever had. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:26 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.And god knows his side of the family has STANDARDS he wants you to meet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:20 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.To be honest, I make my own money and I’d take a blue collar man who respects me, decently communicates and shares the housework over a rich, 10/10 asshole any day of the week. The point i was making is that all the men complaining that women only want rich guys and 9-10 guys need to realize that it’s because if we have the choice between a man who won’t fulfill any of our needs but has money and looks, vs a man who won’t fulfill any of our needs but who will also mooch off us and be physically … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:19 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Exactly. Work just as long, expected to pay 50/50 but do 75% of the housework, carry their children, birth their children and breastfeed them, get no or bare minimum emotional support and get cheated on/lied to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:11 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.No, of women bringing even less while demanding more? I’m trying to keep it civil as per the subreddit rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:05 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Ok, thank you for clarifying because that sounded insane. The topic of single mothers wanting to date you (or you wanting to date them) is extremely off topic, but if there are any single mothers reading the comments, here’s this guy’s opinion of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:04 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.I didn’t say in vitro. A fertile woman can get inseminated and it’s not that expensive (at least where I’m from). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:01 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Well of course, you had to come from a woman at some point didn’t you? Ensuring the human race continues is kind of a society thing. If women stop having babies, who will be there to keep society going when your whole generation is old and sickly and can’t work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:59 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.I agree, the main reason to find a partner right now IS money. There are more single women coming together to buy houses and live as roomates as an alternative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:53 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Protection from what exactly? Other men? Also, I’ve yet to meet a man who is loyal to a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:51 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.This response kind of made me sympathize. I would have to agree with you on this. l don’t think men are inherently bad. I just think for a while they based their partnership contribution on solely being a provider, but now that women can provide for themselves they’re kind of lost so they need to evolve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:49 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.What? You refuse to date single mothers bcz they want to have one night stands only? Bro it seems like it’s the single mothers that don’t want to date you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:44 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Can you give examples of what they bring to the table? Where I’m from we work the same amount hours, but they barely know how to fry an egg or do laundry and they also expect us to take care of the kids, while they entertain other women online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:42 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Can you give an example? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:35 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.That’s the plan! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:28 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Me too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:27 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Sure. To your first question, I’m in a country with paid maternity leave (90% of my salary) for one year and subsidized daycare for everyone afterward. To your second question, I can tell you with 100% certainty that I would have had a better life outcome without my father (who abused me). I can also tell you that many lesbian couples have well adjusted children without a male parent in the picture. I can’t, however, tell you with 100% certainty that a child’s life is always better with a father… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:25 AM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.I dunno I’m not in America | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:19 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Ok but we already do 👀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:10 AM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.True. Either they stop complaining that women have standards that are too high, or they start bringing something to the partnership🤷🏻♀️ that’s it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:08 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Correct. But they can be created at a sperm bank or with a willing one night stand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:03 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Can you explain the difference ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 11:55 PM |
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