TideNinja Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	How would you want to change the seduction community for the better? I'd like to see a push towards the direction of improving Self-Esteem rather than solely Self-Confidence. As a guy who can easily "fake it", I still feel as though I'm lacking something on the inside. Sure, I could get laid a hundred times over using the methods I've learned from Seddit, but I'd much prefer to learn how to ALSO have self-respect with women and other people, and build fulfilling relationships instead of just thinking "if I mess up my routine with this girl, my dick's gonna be dry…	/r/seduction	25/03/11 04:55 PM
2	Kino from a girl's perspective Don't get me wrong it wasn't some lame, gimpy touch, it was definitely firm. I meant gentle as in I wasn't thrusting them out of the way.	/r/seduction	13/03/11 05:40 PM
9	Kino from a girl's perspective I have to agree completely. Some people are very.. particular when it comes to touch. In fact, one day I was in my campus cafe trying to get out through a crowded door. Two girls were blocking my way. I gently placed my hand on one of the girls' shoulder and said "excuse me" as I lightly influenced her out of my way. IMMEDIATELY she turned towards me and said "HEY! Don't touch me!" She seemed extremely agitated by my light contact. I also got the impression (seeing as she was dressed 'fashionabl…	/r/seduction	13/03/11 08:27 AM
2	Nice Guys Do Get Girls Teasing is so much fun. Don't throw it out just because you want to be "nice"! You can be nice and neg, too.	/r/seduction	08/03/11 01:47 AM
3	DAE remember the moment they stopped being an AFC? I think a lot of the trouble that many Redditors face is having a social outlet that isn't electronic in nature. This great advice does nothing for the AF(R)C fresh out of the gaming scene who spends his evenings and weekends doing LAN parties. Not that there's anything WRONG with these things (I do them myself.. but I think most of the females I know actually have no idea that I'm a lazy PC gamer..), it's just that there's no opportunity to practice these techniques to the point of competence w…	/r/seduction	21/12/10 10:43 AM
3	How do I get out of the success/fail mindset? You know, all this failing means is that when you DO get it, you're REALLY gonna get it. Especially considering you claim to constantly have to revert back to square 1: Fundamentals of your game are hugely important. If you are regularly revisiting that aspect of yourself, it only means you're going to be better off in the long run. Think of learning a martial art: Imagine two guys both beginning Tae Kwon Do. They're both abouuut the same ability, but one's a bit faster at picking up the moves. …	/r/seduction	01/12/10 01:24 AM
2	How do people flirt so easily? 1 rule for practice: Care nothing for the outcome. Best policy I would say is apathy... it works or it doesn't. Just watch how they react to what you say, and how its said.	/r/seduction	23/11/10 09:09 PM
1	Those who can't do, TEACH. I could write a book on the art of picking up women, but I can't seem to get one of my own! What's wrong, Seddit!? That's the question, isn't it~! I take a variety of classes. i.e. I'm not stuck in Algebra trying to pick up the same 'type' of nerdy girl. I am rather aloof. I float here, and there... talk to this girl and that. I don't really have too many limitations. If you seem even a little interesting, I'll probably try to talk to you. I avoid places like the library, because 0ften people are trying to STUDY for intensely hard tests... and interrupting that to hit on them isn't cool. I know for some peop…	/r/seduction	26/10/10 07:42 PM
1	Those who can't do, TEACH. I could write a book on the art of picking up women, but I can't seem to get one of my own! What's wrong, Seddit!? I agree. I don't like a lot of what he says, and I vehemently disagree with a large portion of it. What has clicked with me, however, has been the way he describes confidence. It's EASY for someone to say "be confident, that's what girls like'. It's another thing COMPLETELY to know what that actually LOOKS like. Additionally, the teasing thing and having fun aspects of interaction with people has been an eye-opener, and I dig that. Can you give me some examples of alternative... "methods"... you…	/r/seduction	26/10/10 01:24 AM
1	Those who can't do, TEACH. I could write a book on the art of picking up women, but I can't seem to get one of my own! What's wrong, Seddit!? Actually, I can. I don't think this is the problem. Most of the women I'm interested in seem to be in relationships already.. that's my bigger problem! haha MOST women are just that... "most women". I'm not interested in "MOST WOMEN". I'm interested in "THOSE" women. The women that make you examine yourself, that challenge you, push you to work for yourself harder than you ever have before in your life... that make you want to be the best person you could ever be, because you know that's what th…	/r/seduction	26/10/10 01:21 AM
1	Those who can't do, TEACH. I could write a book on the art of picking up women, but I can't seem to get one of my own! What's wrong, Seddit!? I actively approach women. Not out on the street, I have always been of the opinion that in order to make a relationship of any sort, romantic or otherwise, WORK, you have to CREATE the SITUATION. So instead of pulling a "line" or asking some framed questions, (though I do sometimes do these things) I prefer to work in established social environments. Watering hole, School, Church meetings, etc. I don't "operate" in bars, clubs, grocery stores, etc. It's not really something I've been good at, a…	/r/seduction	26/10/10 01:17 AM
1	Those who can't do, TEACH. I could write a book on the art of picking up women, but I can't seem to get one of my own! What's wrong, Seddit!? I like a girl who is interesting, extroverted, and outgoing like me. Someone who has stories to tell, ideas and unique personal thoughts, and a great sense of humor (or at least one that rivals mine..). Maybe I just haven't met this girl yet? Sometimes I feel as though I could have just about any girl, except the one in my head. I have excellent experience opening in some situations, zero in others. But that's not my struggle, the hardest part is finding someone interesting to pursue that friend…	/r/seduction	26/10/10 01:13 AM
1	Those who can't do, TEACH. I could write a book on the art of picking up women, but I can't seem to get one of my own! What's wrong, Seddit!? I agree. I needed a catchy title though, what can I say?	/r/seduction	25/10/10 06:11 PM
2	Problem lasting in the sack... advice needed! pull out often. If you feel yourself coming close to the edge, just hit the eject button. Start playing with her boobage, make out a little... w/e. Turn her back on. Also pinching the base of the HEAD of your dong with your thumb and index finger causes you to lose stiffness a little, resetting yourself. Set up a couple times this way and you'll have a rockin' orgasm and probably set her off, too.	/r/seduction	11/10/10 02:45 AM
2	[FR] One out of three ain't bad, right? You gotta break this whole post down, or at least direct those unfamiliar with your technique to a place where we can learn more. I follow the C&F routine myself, the dominant/relaxed posture, and am getting better @ aloofness/disinterest, but the conversation is where the killer is for me. I figure a strong, interesting conversation is great for meeting people, as well as pushing for some tension on a date. I'm a late bloomer. My social skills are not very refined at this point in life. So how …	/r/seduction	14/09/10 01:01 AM