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5

As a man thats 6' foot tall, I can attest that height alone doesnt account for as much as most people think. I think if youre generally physically attractive, then height absolutely accentuates it, but for those of us that are ugly, height alone doesnt do much for us. Some people think height alone will just make droves of women come after you and its not true.
/r/seduction26/07/26 07:21 PM
8

This is the worst kind of post. "If you just talk to women and treat them like humans, they'll be all over you!", is just such a nonsensical idea. That's insinuating that every guy that is unsuccessful in dating just treats women like garbage and less than human.
/r/seduction13/07/26 02:09 AM
1

Talk to girls? Wow, who would have thought that?
/r/seduction19/06/26 06:14 PM
10

This is honestly just really terrible advice and a terrible example. There are legitimate circumstances when you probably should pull back a little bit. It doesnt make you any less of a badass.
/r/seduction31/05/26 11:01 AM
1

Then perhaps im misunderstanding your point. What are you saying repeatedly that is an incel idea?
/r/seduction02/05/26 06:22 PM
0

Thats not the experiment. It's to see which guy the girls pick based purely on looks. I mean, if looks dont matter, then both guys should be picked pretty evenly, right? And stop with the incel shit. The idea of looks mattering to people isn't some newfound incel idea, thats how humans have been wired since the beginning of time.
/r/seduction02/05/26 06:05 PM
1

I would challenge you to find a pic of 2 guys that I just described and show them to 10 random women and ask them which one they wanna hook up with. I bet my life 10/10 are going with the physically attractive guy.
/r/seduction02/05/26 05:47 PM
3

Im consistently shocked at how many people refuse to accept how important looks are. Mind blowing.
/r/seduction02/05/26 05:39 PM
1

What a stupid response. Its true. You take 2 guys: guy A is fat, let's say a 5/10 looks wise, but has a really cool personality, and guy B is in great shape, a 9/10 looks wise but is boring and has no personality at all, the VAST majority of girls are going to go with guy B, especially if its a hook up or something casual. Thats just reality. Don't be so naive to how the world and human attraction works.
/r/seduction02/05/26 05:38 PM
1

Eh. Your experience is about a pleasant, friendly encounter. You can't use these same parameters for flirting and romantic approach. Its two different things.
/r/seduction28/10/25 01:42 PM
3

Its literally a numbers game. You'll inevitably find someone that will go out with you. I always use the example, if you go to a bar 7 nights a week and ask out 20 women a night, statistically, at some point, you WILL find someone that takes you up on it. So if you got the guts, go for it.
/r/seduction24/10/25 05:25 AM
2

Statistically, the odds are stacked against you as far as cold approaches like that. Almost every time you approach a girl out in the wild, unless youre a 10/10 guy, you're going to get rejected, and there's almost nothing in the world you could have done differently.
/r/seduction15/10/25 10:03 PM
2

She might be of age but the fact that she is still in high school is absolutely creepy.
/r/seduction06/10/25 02:36 AM
40

Hard disagree. Probably THE most important first thing you find out is whether you're looking for the same thing or not. No point in wasting each other's time.
/r/seduction05/10/25 07:40 AM
1

I work nights and 12 hr shifts, which really isn't conducive at all to meeting people. And I live in a really small rural town in the South. People that gave never lived in small towns like this dont understand how much in prohibits your social life and ability to meet new people. I see people spout the clichés "join a club, go to a bar, sign up for a sport or class, etc." There are tons of places where those things DO NOT EXIST. Where i live, there are no clubs to join. There are no bars to go.…
/r/seduction22/09/25 04:01 AM
53

While this obviously isn't a true story, I got the sense that you're mid 30s and NOT in school, just a weirdo creeping around a college campus.
/r/seduction08/09/25 07:48 AM
5

To answer your question, yes, we are. Ill be 40 in a few months and after a lifetime of terrible relationships and a string of bad dates along with constant ghosting, I dont really see any reason to try anymore, tbh. And I know A LOT of guys that have had the same types of experiences and they feel the same way.
/r/seduction09/08/25 12:39 AM
1

It really is a played out trope that even that people that preach it don't believe. If looks didnt matter, you'd see a lot more couples where the woman is very attractive and the man isn't. And im not talking about just normal, average dudes. Im saying you'd see more couples where the woman is an 8 and the guy is a 4. Unless money is involved, you don't see that now.
/r/seduction14/09/22 01:59 AM
-1

Because they don't. It's fasle. I have grown up with women, 90% of my friends have always been women, a lot of women make themselves out to be these super sexual beings but its simply not true.
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:42 AM
1

Yikes. Literally going through this myself. Met a girl, clicked so insanely well, we got super serious and just amazing and full of passion, then she tells me a couple of weeks that she's overwhelmed by stuff in her life right now and that she needs to take a break. Its kind of weird because we still talk multiple times a day, and a lot of it feels the same as before, but she just mentions every once in a while that she's not ready for a relationship. Why couldn't she have told me that before I …
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:41 AM
1

I dont think age matters at all if you're attractive enough.
/r/seduction10/08/22 01:22 AM
1

Why do all of you "women hate big dicks!" morons spout the same exact talking points? Come up with an original thought every once in a while.
/r/seduction08/03/22 06:41 PM
1

Not true lol. Ive been playing guitar for 20 years and its never given me any luck with a lady.
/r/seduction07/03/22 03:41 PM
2

Im 6'1" and my height has literally never helped me, so...
/r/seduction06/01/22 08:43 PM
4

Guarantee this guy was attractive as hell. If an ugly or average looking guy had done this, he would have been called a creep and ignored.
/r/seduction31/12/21 05:45 PM
3

But some of them DO do it so they can revel in rejecting a bunch of guys.
/r/seduction25/12/21 05:02 PM
3

You said you felt like you were ugly. Thats different than actually being ugly. Hot college volley ball players aren't going to hit on ugly guys. I dont know what type of alternative reality you guys are trying to paint but its just not true.
/r/seduction19/11/21 06:05 AM
4

Of course I do. For pretty much my entire life, most of my friends have been girls. I was raised in a house with only girls. I have spent countless hours talking to my friends about dating, attraction, sex, etc. I have a pretty good idea of how to talk to women. I certainly believe that attractive girls can and do definitely sometimes date guys that aren't 9s or 10s. But you make it sound like these super attractive girls are walking around dating guys that are 4s and 5s just because they want v…
/r/seduction18/11/21 05:36 PM
3

How do you know i dont talk to girls? Lol. Just because I disagree when you say that ugly guys are pulling in all the hot ladies? Okay.
/r/seduction18/11/21 05:05 PM
8

In theory, im sure that could be possible but not common AT ALL. You make it sound like its a very regular thing.
/r/seduction18/11/21 04:13 AM
52

"Hot girls are looking for guys that are average looking"? Yeah, okay. Do you actually buy your own bullshit? Look at that objectively for a minute.
/r/seduction18/11/21 01:32 AM
3

I agree with you. In my experience, I have many female friends, when younger, only date assholes. But then once they become an adult and see the realities of the world and life, they usually end up marrying someone thats very normal and decent and boring. I have one really close female friend, for years, she was really quite wild. Had constant hookups, had random guys living with her on and off, etc. Then when she got in her early 20s, she ended up marrying a super laid back, country guy that is…
/r/seduction17/11/21 08:25 AM
1

It's all of Reddit. I'm consistently shocked every day by not only what is acceptable on here, but promoted and celebrated.
/r/seduction06/11/21 11:51 PM
62

This just confirms what the bulk of my female friends have always told me, that good guys are boring and they like "bad boys" because they're exciting and its a challenge for them to "fix" them. Its mind boggling to me that being a genuinely nice guy has been co-opted and been given a negative connotation. I know what people are referring to when they say "nice guys", I just wish someone had come up with another term for it. All this does is convince good guys that they need to be assholes to ge…
/r/seduction05/11/21 08:53 AM
1

I dont think many will disagree with, but you totally gloss over the fact that looks are what get your foot in the door. There has to be that physical attraction before you get to the point to where they learn to love you as a person.
/r/seduction14/06/21 09:55 PM
-2

Lol. That is some real mental gymnastics. No girl is going to say "oh God, look at his posture! He is so hot!"
/r/seduction13/06/21 12:46 AM
8

I dunno, its confusing to me. Nearly every woman now claims to love dad bods and bigger guys but none of them practice what they preach.
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:30 AM
3

But you usually have to be somewhat attractive to get your foot in the door. Thats just how humans work.
/r/seduction08/04/21 01:30 AM
8

Most often, men are just intimidated and if they're like me, they automatically assume that an attractive girl is already taken.
/r/seduction05/03/21 12:40 AM
2

I mean, congrats, thats more balls than I have, but im not sure about your logic about getting better at it. You could do it to 100 girls and still not get a hit. Its not necessarily about skill.
/r/seduction02/03/21 03:48 AM
1

I dont think most guys want to have sex to try to prove something to someone.
/r/seduction24/02/21 11:55 PM
3

50-100 matches a month is not average, bro. Thats way above average. Ive never had 50 matches in my entire life online.
/r/seduction13/02/21 06:39 AM
1

This is all such bullshit. The messaging is so mixed with this topic that its impossible to figure out what women actually want. They say they want a guy that is kind, then they say you're too much of a "nice guy" (in a bad way). So you drop your guard and toughen up and loosen up and bit and now you're an asshole. There's no way to win this issue. I consider myself genuinely a nice guy, in that I speak nicely to people, show respect, etc., im not some m'lady white knight guy. A lot of my women …
/r/seduction10/02/21 11:54 PM
1

I would say women's obsession with makeup and image is on them, not men. Most guys I know think most girls wear too much anyway. No one will ever convince me that men care more about looks than women. And I have no idea what Clubhouse is?
/r/seduction04/02/21 11:53 PM
1

Oh, ive been in therapy for the better part of, oh, 25 years now, and still am. I obviously don't find it all that helpful, even though I continue with it. There are absolutely things about my life and myself that I know I could make changes to that would make my life better. For instance, a couple of years ago, I spent a year working out and lifting weights pretty hardcore. 6 nights a week for a year straight. And while it made me feel good, it physically wasn't doing much for me as far as chan…
/r/seduction04/02/21 04:53 AM
1

Then I guess I'm doomed for failure because its not something I can get over. Its something that haunts me constantly, it never stops.
/r/seduction04/02/21 02:39 AM
1

Hahaha, I assure you, im not copying women's mannerisms. Im not trying to insinuate im the "gay best friend" type of guy. I just have always gotten along with women a bit better for whatever reason. Thats actually kind of insulting.
/r/seduction04/02/21 01:49 AM
1

I dont want you under the impression that im some fedora wearing neckbeard that lives in his mom's basement. I live a pretty normal life. Im not the most outgoing guy in the world, but I work a full time job, some good friends, a great family. Im actually fairly confident about most aspects about myself (my intelligence, my wit, my interests). Literally the only thing, imo, thats held me back in my life is looks. Ive been in a couple of relationships with girls way out of my league, however that…
/r/seduction03/02/21 09:56 PM
1

You honestly had me up until you said women don't care for looks as much as men. Thats just patently fuckin false.
/r/seduction03/02/21 07:51 PM
1

So let's say 10 people in a row reject you, you think all 10 rejected you for a different reason? Seems there would have to be some common thread there...
/r/seduction03/02/21 05:52 PM
1

That's my perspective anyway. Otherwise, there wouldn't be so many lonely, Forever Alone type of guys. There are lots of guys that have those qualities you mentioned but can't even get a girl to talk to them because they're not that physically attractive, speaking for myself as well.
/r/seduction03/02/21 03:50 AM
1

Nothing makes anyone dateable except for good looks. I just think there are so many mixed messages going around to men about being "nice guys".
/r/seduction02/02/21 08:52 PM
1

I guess I have no concept of being on a winning path. Ive spent my entire life trying to be a decent, caring individual but it obviously hasn't done me any favors.
/r/seduction02/02/21 01:25 PM
1

How is my niceness disingenuous? I'm legitimately a nice, caring guy. I see a lot of people say this thing about how actual nice guys don't tell you they're nice but I dont think thats true. If I had some kind of hidden agenda behind it, don't you think I would have altered my approach so that I would have more luck?
/r/seduction02/02/21 01:22 PM
1

It already has.
/r/seduction02/02/21 04:29 AM
1

Most girls. Their level of attractiveness doesn't seem to have much to do with it.
/r/seduction01/02/21 10:23 PM
24

This is such bullshit. Guys are nice and get told they're too nice. So they quit being as nice, and then get told they're assholes. The level of "nice" that a girl will accept is purely dependent on how physically attractive the guy is.
/r/seduction01/02/21 09:42 PM
4

My guess as well. Im assuming the guy wasn't attractive and she used the age thing as an excuse as to not hurt his feelings.
/r/seduction29/01/21 03:58 PM
0

Yeah, maybe if you're the perfect man.
/r/seduction28/01/21 07:36 AM
0

When women have impossibly high standards for men that some can't meet, it leads to a life of loneliness and depression and worse.
/r/seduction28/01/21 06:54 AM
0

How many times do I have to say that i was referring to her specific list of qualities that she mentioned?
/r/seduction28/01/21 06:17 AM
-1

Thats a vast simplification. Think of how stupid you just sounded. I was referring to her immense list of qualities.
/r/seduction28/01/21 03:59 AM
-3

I was referring to women's impossible expectations of men. Im not listening to a bunch of bullshit about how "toxic masclinity" is the cause of men killing themselves. You're not a man, so you have no idea.
/r/seduction28/01/21 01:00 AM
-3

You understand this is why the suicide rate among men is so high, right?
/r/seduction28/01/21 12:34 AM
-1

Jesus Christ, your expectations for a man are insane.
/r/seduction28/01/21 12:20 AM
0

Bullshit. Everyone knows looks are the most important thing to women, its foolish to try to convince us otherwise.
/r/seduction18/01/21 09:28 PM
12

"I've been crushing on you" is your opening line? Bullshit.
/r/seduction13/09/20 11:49 PM
14

I feel like this is terrible advice. I mean, im a horribly unattractive fella, but I have lots and lots of girls that make strong eye contact and smile or smile back at me, just like you're describing but I know for a fact there's nothing more to it other than a simple smile and them being nice. I think you're setting some guys up for failure with this.
/r/seduction12/09/20 11:31 PM
10

I honestly don't know what kind of photo would be able to tell you anything about someone, unless they were in a work uniform or something. I wouldnt know what situation to put myself in to either take a pic or have a pic taken of me that would tell much.
/r/seduction07/07/20 06:36 PM
3

No, it was for me. I was doing it to not only get myself into better shape and for my health, but as a way to challenge myself and push myself. At least it worked for a little while. It's just that it would have been nice for all of my hard work to have been noticed by someone...
/r/seduction05/07/20 05:19 PM
1

Then why are you here?
/r/seduction05/07/20 12:16 PM
6

I pushed myself so hard that I actually burned myself out with it. I was lifting and working out 5-6 days a week. I did that religiously for about a year solid. I could feel the results, and I could personally see results (though I dont think anyone else could), but it seemed to just be going for naught. No one ever made a single comment on it or anything, so I told myself it was pointless.
/r/seduction05/07/20 12:16 PM
-7

Anytime I've done anything to try to improve myself, everything from working out to going to therapy, it seems to have the opposite effect. Dont peddle bullshit.
/r/seduction05/07/20 03:34 AM
1

I firmly do not believe that. I think sometimes with certain people looks aren't as important but for the most part, the more attractive you are, more people will naturally be drawn to you
/r/seduction29/06/20 06:38 PM
1

Oh trust me, I've paid attention to it. I have pretty low views of myself but strangely enough, I truly dont think I convey that to people in my interactions. Most of my friends are very surprised when I let them know how I feel about myself because I dont convey it.
/r/seduction29/06/20 03:03 AM
3

Strangely enough, I have tons of female friends that love my personality, but no one that ever sees me as more than that. I'm a strange exception to the rule, I suppose. I have tons of hobbies, I play live music, have cook outs, etc. I do a lot of stuff a lot of people find fun and interesting, just not me I guess.
/r/seduction29/06/20 01:19 AM
1

I honestly do all of those on my own, without having to fake it, and they've never done me any favors. I'm a big believer in things like eye contact, firm handshake, speaking clearly, etc. Basically things you would do on a job interview, because like dating, you're selling yourself. But unfortunately, those things dont fix ugly I guess.
/r/seduction29/06/20 12:45 AM
1

Lol, what part of what I said doesnt reflect reality?
/r/seduction20/05/20 07:07 AM
-1

Oh, I agree. I have no problem talking to people. I'm very open to it. I just don't think it's the cure all to anything. Theres this idea that if a guy could just suck it up and go talk to a girl, all will work out.
/r/seduction19/05/20 11:06 PM
11

While I agree with the analogy, I know TONS of people in relationships that happened in other accidental or organic ways, not because the guy come up with the courage to go talk to her because she was sitting off somewhere. That seems to be a scenario made up in fantasy more than reality.
/r/seduction19/05/20 10:01 PM
1

I totally agree in principle about dating apps. I mean, the idea is great, the execution not so much. But if you think about it, it's a losing game. The very reason you would get on one is because you can't find someone. So you end up with a menagerie of rejects, people with confidence and self esteem issues, people with lots of problems, etc. And I say that as someone that's on a few of them. However, the rest of your post really rubbed me the wrong way. This entire list of talking points is pl…
/r/seduction19/05/20 04:44 AM
2

I should have specified that my lack of self esteem is 95% about my looks and physical being. I'm very, very confident about most other things about myself, maybe even cocky or overconfident in some. My personality, my intelligence, my wit, my skills. The only thing that's ever held me back is my looks.
/r/seduction28/03/20 12:24 PM
1

Won't happen. Last year, I spent almost an entire year working out religiously, mostly lifting weights. I was going at it 6 days a week, every week, for almost a year. I felt better than I had in a long time physically, and while I didnt lose a lot of weight or change drastically, I was pretty happy with I had toned up and my arms were looking pretty badass. And not a single time did any girl, even my closest friends, ever make any kind of comment. I wanted so bad for someone to say SOMETHING, a…
/r/seduction28/03/20 03:02 AM
2

I generally agree with your sentiment, as I think that's something all people like in general, someone that will look them in the eye, speak face to face, etc. But as far as that being the key to making women like you, I guess I'm the exception to the rule. I'm a HUGE proponent of said behaviors, I'm a big fan of eye contact, strong handshakes, etc. yet I have an absolute void of self esteem, and women don't like me because I'm fat and ugly. That is literally it. I have tons of female friends th…
/r/seduction28/03/20 02:27 AM
2

Do people just assume that all of us live in a basement and never venture out into the sunlight and be amongst the living? I already speak to everyone. All the time. Have been for years. Everywhere I go. And nothing has ever came from it. Ever. No cool job offers or connections that got me into some VIP club or whatever.
/r/seduction18/02/20 03:42 AM
1

I never understand this idea of "explore your interests and passions", as I've been doing this my whole life and its never done me any favors. I have tons of hobbies and things I'm really, really passionate about and interested in and it has never one time opened up any kind of opportunity when it came to finding someone to be with.
/r/seduction05/02/20 08:54 PM
1

It's been a waste of time for me, as its caused me nothing but heartbreak. Every girl I've been with that I've met online was broken and then after I helped fix them, they ditched me.
/r/seduction03/01/20 04:18 AM
1

Would you say that your number 3 includes women that want a guy they have to "fix"? I've had many girls tell me that. Also, most of your list is very generic, basic things that dont amount to shit. Wear clean clothes? Be nice? Yeah, okay.
/r/seduction09/12/19 08:35 PM
1

I dont understand this concept of using trial and error to get better, as every single interaction is totally unique. What you say to one girl that doesnt work might work on the next.
/r/seduction03/12/19 11:38 PM
1

This is true for some, but mine is truly because I'm ugly. I have great social skills and am out and about all the time. I have a very cool social circle, etc. I just happen to be horribly unattractive and that negates it all.
/r/seduction23/11/19 05:30 AM
1

I have lots of friends. I'm not some shut in that lives in someone's basement. I have a decently active social circle, am generally well liked, etc. Its like people just dont see me as anything more than a friend or some nice, lovable guy to hang out with. That's why I have to assume I'm just legitimately ugly. I think I have a pretty decent personality, I'm a smart guy, I try to keep things interesting, I write and play music, etc. I'm fully convinced 98% of my issues are my looks.
/r/seduction25/08/19 06:29 AM
1

I think for the most part, you are right. Most average people are probably a bit more attractive than they think, and more people are attracted to them than they realize. But unfortunately, this isn't true for us all. I would bet my fucking life that NO ONE finds me attractive. My success rate at even receiving response on online dating apps over, say, the last 5 years, is literally in the single digits. And that's just getting a response at all. This sounds dumb but I even had to remove all of …
/r/seduction24/08/19 07:48 AM
1

Mortalitt is cruel and cold, man. And I would certainly never take anyone else's life. Not sure why you said that.
/r/MGTOW05/08/19 07:20 PM
2

I've never thought of myself as a burden. Quite the opposite in that even though I have lots of family and friends, theres no one that relies on me for anything, so my death would have zero consequences as far as that goes. I just kind of exist. As far as me alleviating the pain of someone else, I can promise you, I've spent a lifetime doing that. I've not been a selfish person in this life.
/r/MGTOW05/08/19 09:05 AM
3

I'm pretty sure I've known it's my destiny since I was a kid. It's like it's just always been there, hanging on me.
/r/MGTOW05/08/19 04:33 AM
6

I feel some of us are destined just to become another statistic...
/r/MGTOW05/08/19 02:48 AM
1

This has been a pretty common thing in my life. Its very real. The vast majority of my friends have always been women, and throughout the years, there's been quite a few of them that seem to cross that line, as we got closer, and seem to poke and prod in that direction, getting more flirty, becoming a little more open with dirty jokes and comments, a bit more flirty and touchy. And I'll be damned, as soon as I start reciprocating, its immediately this backfire and they take on this "sorry, I'm n…
/r/seduction15/07/19 05:39 PM
2

So what happens if you actually meet someone this way and then they find out you bullshitted them the entire time?
/r/seduction02/07/19 03:19 AM
2

Every time I log onto POF, I instantly get a string of messages from Alison98204, then Bailey10492, then Alysha96302, then Lindsay09283, then....
/r/seduction21/06/19 12:48 AM
1

So making lots of money and not being fat are what gives a human being worth? Makes sense.
/r/seduction18/04/19 12:52 AM
9

Worked retail for several years, you'll get to the point where you'll talk to anyone about anything at all. It gave me the ability to literally talk to anyone and never feel a bit nervous about it.
/r/seduction28/03/19 04:34 AM
1

Most women in general have become super picky and it's only getting worse, to the point that even attractive, better than average guys aren't getting lucky. Nothing about men have changed. It's women.
/r/seduction12/03/19 01:11 AM
3

Because when you get woke, droves of people clamor to you, sucking you off at every tweet. You get more media coverage, more talk show appearances, more interviews. Then once they get a taste of it, it gets worse and worse.
/r/MGTOW23/02/19 03:35 AM
1

Oh. I just meant that I'm pretty physically unattractive. It's not really my style per se, just me myself, my face and body.
/r/seduction19/02/19 07:06 AM
1

Not sure exactly what you mean by a new look. I have a pretty fluid style about myself. I often times change my hair and facial hair. Nothing crazy, though. As far as clothes, same. I have a pretty varied style. It just changes depending on where I'm going and what I'm doing. And I actually spent about 8 months last year lifting weights pretty religiously. It was okay, but it really didn't do much for me honestly. I did it to improve myself both physically and mentally, but I fell out of it afte…
/r/seduction18/02/19 11:08 PM
1

Then I'm obviously doing something wrong. I go above and beyond to be myself. I'm extremely passionate and emphatic about everything about myself (except for my looks), and all of my hobbies and interests. I think I'm a pretty decent, interesting guy, and I never hide or fake anything about myself. I've always felt that if you try to act like something else, then if someone liked you, it would be based on false pretenses, because they liked whatever it was you were conveying. An example would be…
/r/seduction18/02/19 10:06 PM
34

It's always either you're not doing enough or you're trying too hard. Which is it?
/r/seduction18/02/19 08:02 PM
1

On your number 2, I wholeheartedly agree, that for most cases, it's the intangible things that really grabs a woman. Humor, quick wit, being cocky, smartass but in a playful way, etc. However, in my experience, you REALLY need to be physically attractive to start it off, to draw them in in the first place. I don't care if you're the funniest man in the world, if you look like Toxic Avenger, they're not going to get past that first hurdle.
/r/seduction08/02/19 04:41 PM
17

Guys, this is actually a satire account. I'm FB friends with "her" and the guy who runs it. No worries. Sad part is, there are actual people that believe the same.
/r/MGTOW24/01/19 02:38 AM
3

Hell yes. Great to see a guy standing up for himself. I mean, I don't actively condone hitting women but what did she expect?
/r/MGTOW21/01/19 11:28 PM
1

I'm so glad you were able to solve most people's problems so easily. Mentally ill? Go see a therapist, you'll be cured instantly! Not a good dresser? Buy a shirt that fits, girls will flock to you!!! Fat? Go drink a Diet Coke and you'll have to knock the women off of you! I will agree that people obviously need to try to work on the issues that hold them back but you make it sound so easy, when you're really just making it worse for everyone.
/r/seduction10/01/19 06:12 PM
4

While I totally get the point and agree with a lot of what you said, you very easily run the risk of any of these having the opposite effect. For example, "pulling the trigger", some women don't like for guys to come on strong and make a big move. Unfortunately, there is no universals set of rules and standards like this that works.
/r/seduction15/12/18 01:17 AM
3

I'm the exact same. Even if I meet someone that is genuinely into, which is rare in and of itself, I instantly start trying to convince myself of reasons as to why she COULDN'T possibly like me, even to the point of basically manufacturing shit. I've not met a girl that was into me that I didn't feel like was too good for me and i honestly don't think I ever will.
/r/seduction14/12/18 06:57 PM
4

To be fair, the entire thing was a roller coaster. She was one of these that has one of the most complicated and drama filled lives I've ever seen, some her own doing, some not. But I couldn't help but fall so deeply in love with her. The bulk of it was long distance, as she moved a few times, etc. However, she had moved a bit closer the last couple of years, and we had both agreed that we wanted to build a life together. We got super serious about it. I was making plans to transfer jobs and mov…
/r/seduction05/12/18 06:12 AM
8

I got ghosted in a 7 year relationship. Top that shit.
/r/seduction05/12/18 02:56 AM
1

Does it even count if they're the ones that do the work?
/r/seduction03/12/18 06:45 AM
1

Is it normal? I mean, yes, sadly, for some of us, but not for others. The only girls that ever "flirt" with me are my female friends that are already taken. They see it as harmless, innocent fun. But outside of my friend circle, no, I literally might as well be invisible.
/r/seduction25/11/18 07:18 AM
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Utterly ridiculous lol. I would say a good 80% of my friends in my lifetime, especially as an adult, have been female, and still are, and while I genuinely enjoy their company and doing stuff with them, it's never helped in any way romantically, in any way. All it's ever done is bring me a lot of heartache and hurt feelings. Don't listen to this guy.
/r/seduction29/10/18 07:52 PM
1

I mostly agree with what you're saying, but context is key. I have several female friends that exhibit these same behaviors (except the tongue down the throat), but the second you let it be known that you're perceiving it as such, they let it be known quick that they only like you as a friend and aren't interested.
/r/seduction09/10/18 05:23 AM
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Not sure I agree with the logic. I have no wife or kids and still have tons of issues and problems.
/r/MGTOW25/09/18 10:40 PM
6

I got permabanned on that sub for telling a pedophile that he was mentally ill and needed help. No joke.
/r/MGTOW16/09/18 09:17 AM
1

Hope you don't feel too much regret over situations like the one you were sitting next to. I don't care if you're a fuckin Casanova who can talk to any girl in the world, no one deserves to be shut down in front of an audience. I have a feeling by the 50th day, you're going to feel like an entirely different person, and in a good way.
/r/seduction05/06/18 02:12 AM
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I love how some think a universal set of rules applies to all. Not even close. Take every guy in this world that is "ugly", give them a haircut and acne cream and see how many women flock to them. It doesn't quite work like that. I know a shit ton of guys who have ZERO redeeming qualities, aren't attractive, have terrible personalities, etc., that get girls all the time, and it's nothing to do with them. I assume they have mastered the art of preying on girls with low self esteem or some shit. I…
/r/seduction01/06/18 02:07 AM
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Horse ------> cart
/r/seduction16/04/18 08:46 PM
4

Same. If a girl shows any interest in me at all, which is rare, I always assume there's an ulterior motive. My mind is telling me there's absolutely no way they can legitimately be into me.
/r/seduction20/03/18 09:24 PM
1

You would think. But it varies by the person. You also have to remember that even though she was giving you the eye, girls operate differently than guys. If you were in her shoes, you probably wouldn't have given a shit what she would have said, right? Most girls don't work that way. In hindsight, it might have been better to have left that line out and just said "hey, I've seen you around here a lot. Do you go to school here?" Or something along those lines. Or maybe she was the other way and e…
/r/seduction07/10/17 08:25 AM
10

Just based off what you said, I'm guessing "I like your lipstick" may have not been the best opener. Just an honest guess.
/r/seduction07/10/17 07:19 AM
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1st one, I'm gonna say she's probably just flirtatious. I've worked with girls who were dating or married and would act like a lady of the night down on the corner, but meant nothing by it. They mostly just get off on the reaction of the flirtees. If she keeps it up, call her bluff. That'll tell you one way or another. And 2nd, you can really only do one or the othetother, bro. When you go out, you either go out to just relax on your own, or you go out to meet people. If you're gonna sit in the …
/r/seduction07/08/17 08:40 AM
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To me, it's hard to find a middle ground, in that it's either too much or not enough. You don't want to send one word responses or something like "yeah, cool", but you don't want to write a novel if they ask you how your day has been. There's a very fine line to not cross.
/r/seduction05/08/17 05:52 AM
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Never lie about your age. They will find out sooner or later, unless you're just wanting a random hook up or something. But if it's someone you actually want to go on a date or might turn into more, be honest.
/r/seduction28/07/17 02:04 AM
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I've always been the kind of guy to make it a point to look everyone in the eyes, and it's shocking how many people have complimented me from it. I've had lots of people just kinda casually say something like "I've noticed you look me in the eyes when you talk to me, not many do that. I appreciate it!" It's an easy thing that goes a long way, surprisingly.
/r/seduction28/07/17 02:02 AM
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Excellent job, bro. As a guy, I can tell you that is a huge accomplishment! I try it for a few days at a time, and always fail, but then try again. Have you noticed any of the super powers?
/r/seduction28/07/17 02:00 AM
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