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Ties5o/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 09:52 PM
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Red Pill ExampleTies5o/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 12:19 AM
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TRP does not need Roosh. He continually says very inflammatory stuff, and is not a good spokesman for TRP in my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 07:53 PM
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Do we know the Red Pill is going to be shut down? There are far more inflammatory subs than TRP. Lets not victimize ourselves preemptively.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 07:46 PM
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Equality between two things implies there is no overt superiority from one over the other. Things, such as 'masculinity' and 'femininity' can be very different but still equal.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 12:25 AM
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I dont understand your point. Equality does not mean sameness.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 09:24 PM
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I will say this. I respect anyone who goes out and puts themselves out there and publicly backs up what they say. The world has far too many people who just tear others down on the internet, but do little productive themselves. Roosh is an author, traveler, created a popular blog, and is followed by thousands of people- which I respect. It also takes balls to go on a TV show to defend ones beliefs that he knew were controversial. However, at the same time, I think this elucidates the issue that …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 10:04 PM
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This is a very solid post, but I would like to add that you can sprinkle some amounts of "fake it till you make it" in as well. In reality, confidence is born out of success and competence, but at times confidence on its own can breed success. Essentially, always focus on the "function", but don't be afraid to oversell the form at times as well. A real life example of this is: you don't need to fit every job requirement or be 100% proficient to apply for a new job. Or, you don't need to have pas…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 08:09 PM
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My point is that, unless you are in a position where woman come to you (some guys can be- in frats, certain working environments, famous guys, etc), you have to approach woman and make moves to some extent. I get you don't want to shower them with attention, but some level of initiation needs to happen, and you better be damn sure it aint gonna be the woman initiating 99% of the time.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 09:51 PM
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"If you've read the sidebar and enough posts, you might still be under the illusion that forms of courtship still exist. You might think now, "Courtship is me proving how much of a masculine alpha I am. If I put in enough work, she'll realize that I'm a real man and not just some shmoe." And you just failed. Courtship of any kind is an extended investment of time and effort for the sole purpose of getting something you could have from a prostitute for a single phone call and a few greenbacks." S…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 06:32 PM
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So... her job is "cleaning operating rooms" at a hospital, and she gets a pass from cleaning? Facepalm.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 10:38 PM
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This. I also suspect she was ovulating the first week (which is the time of the month women are the horniest), and a week later those ovulating induced feels are removed, along with her rationalization that the OP did not walk through a clearly open door, she moved on mentally. Live and learn, but game over for OP there.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 05:54 PM
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If you go alpha, by putting on some muscle and enhancing your masculine presence, it definitely sets you apart a bit. But it also makes you somewhat of an outsider- and sometimes you can sense a subtle level of resentment you feel from the general population that you are not conforming to the beta hive mindset. However, by going alpha in a full on BB locale, you are selling a product that is relatively scarce, so you should be able to carve out a niche, so to speak.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 06:53 PM
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That sounds like San Francisco to me. I would actually be interested in a more expansive discussion on this phenomenon. Playing the "alpha" card in the city makes you stand out in a lot of ways, but at the same time, women have a strong sense of entitlement from all the money that is tossed their way.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 07:48 AM
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So the author thinks that men like younger, hotter women, and want to have sex with multiple women- because we were socialized that way? Yeah, okay- let me take a hit of whatever you're having bro.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 07:14 PM
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This is a fair point, you don't want to be "that guy" in a social circle, bar, or whatever. Its never good to be the social equivalent of a chicken with his head cut off running around like an idiot. However... like anything, there is an extreme exception that doesn't negate the rule. I think the vast majority of men would be better off approaching more- myself included. I suspect everyone reading this can think of one, or many, or even hundreds, of times in which they wanted to approach a girl …
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 04:17 AM
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I love this sub, but one thing that always gets me here is, that people insinuate that Red Pill thinking is revolutionary or ahead of the curve. It just so happens that modern Western culture is historically blue pill, and has moved so far in that direction, that Red Pill thinking may feel new and revolutionary, but its as old as humanity itself. Anyone who grew up with a masculine father, had masculine role models, listened to their bodies instincts, and/or had some masculine alpha friends know…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 08:13 PM
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Excactly what wen through my mind when I read that. Nowadays they would hold a PTA meeting to discuss the recent incidents of "assault" and "child abuse".
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 05:24 AM
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I would HIGHLY recommend 'Sex at Dawn'. Its a fairly revolutionary look at evolutionary psychology
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 09:08 AM
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I think when it comes to fashion, you just gotta find your style and what works for you. I know some guys who are fairly average, but look fantastic in button down shirts, jackets, etc. They dress up well. For me, I am the complete opposite. I look fairly average in formal attire, but am close to a male 10 (okay... 8.5) when I wear a tight shirt, baseball cap, and shorts or well fitting pants. This is because my forehead/hairline take a good point off my appearance (covered by the hat), and tigh…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 04:57 AM
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I kind of agree with this. I think places where people stay fit and healthy, the wall is later and people generally peak later. In LA and SF, a lot of the late twenties and early thirties population is single and pretty good looking. I've met some pretty hot 30+ ladies out here because they really take care of themselves. However, girls who munch on the standard American diet, which is in most of the country, may hit that wall a good 5-10 years earlier.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 04:41 AM
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You can, but social circle definitely helps. Also, its just fun to be social.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 04:33 AM
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I subscribe to the belief that you get from people the energy you put out. If you are un-engaged or emitting a boring, lazy energy, that is what you get back from people. Also, this may be location dependent. If you're in a small town, go to San Francisco, Boston, or New York, and you may find people are little more exciting.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 04:33 AM
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Interesting. What you describe for Australia could pretty much be San Francisco or NorCal, with the beta abundance and general femininity of the culture. The positive about that is a red pill mindset really sets you apart from the crowd, the downside is women constantly get their ego's inflated by the beta hordes and can be more disrespectful towards men as a whole. If you ever find yourself in San Diego, OC, or most of LA (SoCal)- you will be in an environment with much more male sexual aggress…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 02:12 AM
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"From where I'm sitting, most guys are patently afraid of hitting on women. It's what separates us from the crowd, it's why women fall at our feet. We "get it"." Comments like this are not my reality. But then again, may be very location dependent. Living in California, I suspect a combination of more affluent, put-together people, as well as a higher male-female ratio makes men here more competitive than other environments. But then again, I pretty much know that to be my experience, as when I …
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 12:32 AM
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I realize this is a few days later and you may not read it, just realize that as a man, you have quite a bit of control over your SMV. Personally, I am sort of in the middle category, while I have nothing to complain about with my genetics, it wasn't until I took a lot of the above actions and more that I felt attractive to women. A guy with a sub-par face, but who is fit, healthy, confident, and successful can be very attractive to a lot of women. At the end of the day, do you want to look back…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 05:51 AM
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Yeah, intermittent fasting is another good one that I didnt list. My basic philosophy with carbs is to not overdo it, not that they are evil. I certainly think most people would do well to cut back on carbs in favor of fat / protein.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 05:47 AM
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Listen, I am the furthest thing from a feminist white knight, but this is where the Red Pill gets to me a little bit. According to this sub, if she puts out on the first night, she is a CC riding untrustworthy pump and dump whore. However, if she does not, she is a commitment whore who is playing the BB game trying to extract your time and energy for her selfish evolutionary needs. Maybe there is an in-between, and there are some girls who will never (or extremely rarely) go the distance on the …
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 10:39 PM
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We are all dealt with different hands, some are born naturally attractive to women, some have to put some effort in, some a ton in. It sounds like you are the type that needs to put a ton of effort in. First of all, if you are not maximizing your masculine presence and masculinity, then you must stop reading or analyzing anything until you do. Here are a short list of things you can do to maximize this presence (the not negotiable ones are the ones you MUST do- and while some guys can get away w…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 10:19 PM
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Honestly, you might want to try experimenting with some meditation. I am not the best resources on this (sort of a meditation newbie), but I bet if you posted this in a meditation forum they would explain to you the many ways that meditating can clean out your subconscious. My limited experience is that mediating puts a lot of things in perspective. Mainly, all the trivial shit in our lives that gets us riled up, anxious, etc, seems far less important after a session of mindful meditation. It he…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 07:54 AM
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I think this a very strong point. Real masculinity is the expression of testosterone, and testosterone projects itself outwards. Femininity is soft, caressing, and cradles the testosterone projected by a masculine man. Masculine is outward and projective, Femininity is inward and receptive. That is the ultimate ying & yang of true sexual dynamics. The problem a lot of men have is, they do not project themselves. They do not project their personality / views (think of an agreeable nice guy). They…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 06:36 PM
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I have a few buddies, that when we go out, our mantra is "lets strike out". It takes the pressure off of in an odd sense and just sets the tone that you are going out to have fun and hit on chicks with out outcome expectation. If you go out with the "Im gonna land some many babes" attitude, you set yourself up for failure. Funny think is the former mindset makes you far less likely to bomb because you really DGAF.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 11:32 PM
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I think this can be explained well by the 80/20 rule. If you are in the bottom 80 (especially bottom 50%), you are likely getting little to no quality sex without commitment (read: LTR). If you strive to be in the top 20%, as most TRP'ers do, than you can get more sex (certainly in variety, and often in frequency) than your LTR counterparts. I am not sure where the line is drawn, but somewhere in the 60-80 percentile you often see Mens outlooks on dating change from a LTR strategy (read: beta bu…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 08:32 AM
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I'm a guy hope I can chime in. But honestly, if you eat cleanly; as in, greatly reduce processed foods, sugar, basic carbs (white bread, pasta, etc), and primarily eat a diet of lean meats and vegetables, fruits and nuts, etc; you will add at least a decade to your youthful looking. Throw in an active lifestyle with some moderate exercise, you can look 30 at 40. I live in a large coastal city, where people walk a lot and tend to be very diet conscious. And I meet 40 year-olds who look 28 here. W…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/15 08:22 AM
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I don't fully understand this attitude. To me, sex and hanging out with women flow into eachother and are synonymous in a sense. Sure, having plates outside of a monogamous relationship is one thing, and I don't see anything wrong with that. But to say that there is no value to be gained from a woman other than the act of sex is just not something that I've experienced in my life, maybe save for one or two very drunken ONS.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 09:38 PM
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I laughed out loud at "she doesn't even have a cat". Fantastic.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 06:42 PM
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You can always say you found some self improvement blogs, and link to sites like Danger and Play, ROK, Bold and Determined, etc. If they "stumble" on some of the Red Pill stuff from there, just play it off and say you are mainly interested in the self improvement type literature and only barely scan the other stuff. There are really so many self improvement type posts in this sphere that cover a variety of topics that you should have a lot to work with. At that point, you have led a horse to wat…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 07:47 AM
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Hmm I just started The Power of Now by Ekhart Tolle. I assume this is a later work of his?
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 07:08 AM
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I would say that guys on average have a 10-15 year larger window than girls. Its typical to see 35 year old guys with late 20's women, and 40 something men with 30 something women. I even once met a guy who was 54 with a pretty cute 30 year old. I would agree that most older men are not slaying college poonany, however.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 06:01 AM
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This is a very good post, but I would point out one thing. Woman's period of peak reproductive power is generally shorter- 18-30. Men have a much larger window. So while men as whole will never have a period of as intense intrinsic reproductive value, the red pill man that takes care of himself will have a much larger window of moderate reproductive value.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 09:35 PM
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First, let me apologize for saying "get over yourself" and my initial aggressive tone. Second, my point was that the OP was "tone deaf" to a lot of life itself, and our back and forth confirm that many of his points are in fact tone deaf. I agree with the overall jist of many, or even most, of the points (yes, women are more emotional than are men. Its true that a man-woman friendship is going to be different than a man-man or woman-woman friendship, etc)- but the style and absolutism of most of…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 09:20 PM
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"Any man who puts his trust in a woman is a goddamned fool." This is ridiculous on so many levels. If he said "woman have a tendency to be untrustworthy, you may have a point to start a debate. But to say you can never put trust in a woman (period) is f'n stupid. 7 - woman are ruled by their emotions, not logic or reasoning. Yes, they are more ruled by emotions, but like anything in life, it is a scale and not a black and white statement. If woman were ruled by their emotions, they would miss wo…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 08:11 PM
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Get over yourself. If you don't think some of the original 30 points are tone deaf to life itself, you are just as clueless as the OP.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 07:30 PM
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While a lot of this is true, and those parts are oft repeated around these parts of the internet, this feels a little too generalized and uses too many inflexible characterizations. It's just a little tone deaf and feels like it is influenced from a slightly autistic, 'black or white' view of the world, when in reality there is much more nuance in life and male-female relations. No offense, but I don't think 17 year old's should be writing this posts like this, and this post is further evidence …
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 07:28 PM
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Interesting, I had read a journal a while back that stated that the body reacts differently to sugar in fruits than the factory added sugar. It was the main motivation for my original post- I tried to find it earlier but could not. It is possible that I misunderstood it and the explanation was that additional compounds in fruit are the reason why. With that said, I think the consensus, outside of a few hardcore bodybuilders, is that fruit is generally good for you in moderate amounts. (I realize…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 03:32 AM
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That sounds like the Good Looking Loser guide to online dating. Basically go full on sexual, which will quickly screen the right type of girls.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 06:04 PM
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Naturally occurring sugar- such as that found in fruit- is chemically more complex: http://www.fruitsandveggiesmorematters.org/sugar-in-fruit-vs-table-sugar http://msue.anr.msu.edu/news/fruit_versus_sugar_a_sweet_benefit
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 06:00 PM
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To me it sounds absolutely crazy to spend "hours a week" on a girl you never met. But then again, I think back to my 23 year old self and remember texting some girls endlessly that I only met with briefly in the past. I figure the advantage of direct is: a) A girl either is willing to go out with a guy from the App or is not. b) You MAY be able to SLIGHTLY increase attraction through text and messaging game, but the time spent and number of girls you need to try this on makes it very inefficient…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 11:17 PM
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There is a ton of research on the internet about this. I am a bit of a health freak and constantly Google health related things, and have read quite a bit from PhD's in various health related fields to be very confident with my above statement.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 10:57 PM
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I only use Tinder and Hinge, but all dates I have gotten from those Aps, I asked out the girl within 5 messages. One girl I met with I asked out on the first message, and another the second. I go super direct. Your 8 step plan may or may not work best for you, but I feel like the direct rout cuts the BS and gets the girls out who want to go out with you. With that said, I am not a heavy user- I'm talking about like 5 dates in 1+ years of using the app, and I forget about or ignore the App for lo…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 10:53 PM
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There is no question cutting back or out sugary foods is a key component to living healthfully. However, I think it should be explicitly stated that sugar from fruits is much different (better) than sugar added to many other processed or manufactured foods.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 10:18 PM
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Not entirely different from men, just that our conditions are more heavily based on a womans physical features.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 07:28 PM
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Its not clear from your writing, but it sounds like you have a lot of similar friends as she does (or possibly go to the same school / live in close proximity). If she is lying to ruin your reputation, you need to stand up for yourself and clear your name. Address it directly with the people she told. Say, "x-plate has said ABC about me, but that is a lie and I never did that". If you do not address this, and let it blow over, it will hang over your head as you interact with these people in the …
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 12:12 AM
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I think feminism is more of a symptom than the problem. What happens as society becomes more prosperous, comfort and pleasure increases, which in turns reduces masculinity. Men are less inclined to seek conquest and take risks, in the name of advancing security and prosperity (which are already present), which makes testosterone levels generally decrease. Men become less dominant and "patriarchal", which in turn leaves an opening for women to gain power, which like a fungus, advances into the sp…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 09:19 PM
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I agree with Hellhounds. Look around at most men in today's Western society. What percentage really exude any sort of strong masculinity?
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 08:30 PM
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Being friends with them = cool. Being an orbiter = not cool. In fact, if you have any sort of social life, chances are you are in a circle of friends that includes women. If you were able to, or at least tried to, fuck them all, then that would seriously fuck up the dynamic of the group (barring extraneous circumstances). Also, I consider some of my buddies girlfriends/wives friends of mine- and of course they are off limits. This is why guys who say you cannot be friends with girls are either f…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 08:12 PM
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Also Soy. Japan has a soy baesd diet, and soy is said to produce estrogen.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 01:47 AM
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She might think you are top 20% when you meet her on a Friday night, when she is 4 cosmopolitans deep, for that 20 minutes. Four days, 20 male approaches, 10 male texts/tinders, and 100+ male gazes, later... your memory may fade back into the pack. I like the OP's opinion. Calling re-establishes yourself from the pack.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 01:09 AM
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If you read about the singularity, a lot of shit can get thrown up in the air real soon. Maybe not as early as the 40's, but definitely within 100 years. I say at this point, F it and live as well as you can.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 11:33 PM
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I notice a general correlation between the general maturity of a woman and the strength of her father. So I'd say take it on and raise a damn good daughter!
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 09:06 PM
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I sometimes call girls by just the first letter of their name. It's unique in the sense that most of the time nobody else calls them that, and its sort of a creates paternalistic talking-down, yet not disrespectful, frame. It doesn't work with every girl and it has to fit your personality a bit.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 08:43 PM
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In more ghetto parts of big cities- perhaps. In the upper-middle class parts of big cities- not really at all.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 08:23 PM
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I realize the Side-bar is pretty filled up by now, but I feel this two part series is straight up side-bar material.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 07:25 PM
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I agree with your post completely. Regarding school teachers, the majority of grade school teachers are ovbiously women, and although this sub likes to blame the feminine imperative as if it were an active pernicious evil emasculating our boys, I would argue that even well-intentioned female nature would emasculate our boys. Woman have evolved to value security over risk taking, as their children are most likely to survive in safe and secure domains. Men are much more prone to aggressiveness and…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 04:47 PM
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I would argue that it is possible that both genders are sliding towards the middle, so the polarization of gender roles is now less pronounced than for the vast majority of human existence.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 04:40 PM
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Id be interested in meeting any other RP'ers in San Francisco.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 04:32 AM
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Agreed. Most of my "mutual inter-gender" friendships are from my friend circle, girls that are just around a lot. Those tend to lack any power dynamic. Rollo just wrote a good post on how inter-gender friendships are never quite as strong, and I agree with that.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 05:11 AM
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With all due respect, you sound like you have sociopaths tendencies and are just making one giant justification for why you are different. You don't experience empathy and you built up a false world to compensate. I feel sorry for you, as that is the most lonely existence known to man. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 08:39 PM
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Remember evolution takes a loooooong time to catch up to trends in society. Even if sex is no longer necessary from a rational standpoint, human being will still crave it for millennium to come (and probably for the rest of human existence).
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 08:34 PM
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First time reading either of these. Is there a GTD app out there, where you can just quickly access it on the fly?
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 11:28 PM
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Ive made some pretty good friends playing rec sports. Basically, people play games and most teams go drinking after or meet up on the weekend. If sports isn't your thing, I'm sure other classes (cooking, acting, etc) or activities (hiking, workout, professional, gaming, etc) are similar in nature. Sometimes you have to be a little broader in your scope of friends- you may make some older friends, or friends that you may be less likely to associate with in College. That is okay, you'd be surprise…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 08:32 AM
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Since you don't know me I will explain where my opinion comes from. I had a close personal relationship with a Narcissist, and tried to start a business with him. Things got extremely messy right off the bat, The second he had any leverage or power in a situation, he would leverage it in any way possible to drive me insane- and had no qualms about lying, gas-lighting, undermining, etc. I never have and don't think I will ever experience such a dark period again. For me, I was incredibly naive to…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 08:38 PM
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One aspect of narcissistic personality disorder (which this sub called "Dart Triad"), is that it is underlined by an intense inferiority complex, jealousy, and fear of abandonment. Most DT's were abused as children, or had love withdrawn, so they coped by creating a mental world where they were basically a beloved king by all- where people are objects to be manipulated. Dart Triad's never really experience empathy, they just use others for their own ends, and need a constant supply (read: Narcis…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 05:28 PM
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Ill admit I started my reply after reading half your post. You cover this in the last couple paragraphs. But good to re-iterate just for those who struggle to understand why being overly emotional is a turn off.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 11:09 PM
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There is also an evolutionary reason why women would be turned off to overly emotional men: Men need to provide and be effective, and if they are constantly swayed by their feelings that will subject their overall effectiveness as a man. Its evolutionary unattractive to emote too many feelings. Like anything else, this is to a degree. Positiive emotions are great, when not overdone. And its okay to show some negative emotions when harmed, but they should be brief, controlled, and quickly turn to…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 11:07 PM
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A question for guys in their 30's: Where do you usually meet women? Im in my late 20's, don't meet any through work. Meet some a bars, through friends / co-ed soccer, tinder, and an very occasional one out on the street. My assumptions (which may be wrong) are as you progress through your 30's, your less likely to plow through the bar scene, and as friends start to settle down keeping a robust social circle becomes harder to manage. Do you have to ramp up meeting girls in public- like stores, co…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 09:58 PM
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There is a subtle but important distinction between creating value because that is just who you are and what you do (living life like an inspired man of action), and creating value for the selfish end of having people like you. The former comes from a place of security and confidence, the latter comes from a place of insecurity and neediness. It is often difficult (sometimes impossible) to tell the difference, and most of the guys who create value because that is what they are at one point were …
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 05:38 PM
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This guy is going the Dark Triad rout (which is really just borderline personality disorder- meaning you see people literally as objects). Any emotionally healthy human being should never strive for this, and no amount of pussy can change that. Men should strive to be a true alpha, not a DT. I am fairly close to a dark triad like that- and while he has had sex with hundreds of girls, he is possible the most unhappy and dark person I know in some ways.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 02:44 AM
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Reading, for one. Or learning- go to sites like Ted.com or Academy of Ideas and play a couple videos there.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 02:08 AM
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I think Women's primary source of SMV is her looks, therefore a man looking at another attractive woman is a direct comparison of her greatest asset. Noticing other Woman's physical beauty creates an insecurity within her. This sub explains in great detail things that contribute to a mans SMV, so I don't need to list it here. The equivalent is that a man (particularly beta men), would feel threatened and insecure if their wife or GF was spending a significant amount of time and connecting on an …
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 11:32 PM
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I do as well. Being an ugly girl is harder to overcome than being an ugly / short / you name it guy. I actually felt really bad for her when reading this.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 09:02 PM
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Its basically hypergamy explained by science. Great read.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 03:43 AM
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I have had very similar experiences as you- only in SF not NY. I think it is more a result of high pheromones and testosterone than anything else. If you live your life like a man- eat clean, workout, masturbate rarely, work hard, respect others but yourself first and foremost, etc- then your body produces "I'm a boss" pheromones, and the world takes notice. Its funny how many nervous, intimidated, or looks of respect you get from others. Mixed in with the occasional "I wanna fuck you so bad" lo…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 12:02 AM
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This article was written from a very red-pill mindset. I would be interested in hearing how the OP thought it was blue pill...
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 07:14 PM
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Should we file this under the "No Shit" folder?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 03:02 AM
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Interesting thought, but there is a counter point to that. One, the high women to men post-war ratio made men more valuable (due to scarcity) and gave him more options, naturally increasing his power among women, and thus dominance. Think of the 50's and roaring 20's, which both seem to be periods of high patriarchy, aka, male dominance. Under this framework I do not know if women would therefore seek to advance feminism. I think it is easier when the average day to day women has the power- in t…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 12:19 AM
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I would highly suggest reading The Paleo Manifesto for a good overview on the foundation of a diet that humans have evolved to eat. It's much more than a diet book, its an overall great primer on how to live like our ancestors. Also, great job on taking ownership of your life and your kids life.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 06:40 PM
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Ill be straight up here, I think the problem is many AMERICANS don't take care of themselves. There are just as many fat and out of shape men. The nice thing is, that as a man, we can stand out by taking care of ourselves more than our fathers and grandfathers did. Also, posts like this (I know Roosh always loves to compile "Americans" into one big basket), fail to take into account geographic location. I live in San Francisco, and the women here typically are in good shape, its rare to find any…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 05:11 PM
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I would start with abundance mentality. I believe that the majority of guys who have trouble with girls operate from place a scarcity mentality. Many times this is re-enforced by their being unattractive- as unattractive guys (using that word in a much greater sense than just looks) don't pick up prospects or meet girls as often (in some cases never). It acts as a negative feedback loop, they don't meet many girls, then they become extremely beta around the ones they do meet, and subconsciously …
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 04:17 PM
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I sort of agree with this post, but I also think its okay to indulge in a few "non productive" hobbies- and watching sports is 100% nonproductive. I'm actually a 49ers fan as well and will invest three hours a week watching them. However, when its over, I find it sill to invest too much emotion into the outcome. Also, watching football is something a lot of friends and I have in common, so I suppose it does help my social life in certain ways.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 05:52 PM
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I am not going to add my list, since everything I do has been listed multiple times, with one exception. Lately I have started intermittent fasting- 18 to 36 hour fasts, once or twice a week. If your health is already good to very good, it can take it up one more notch. It is heavily ingrained in paleo philosophy and the health benefits are numerous. But it also has great self-discipline, dopa mine restriction, and spiritual benefits.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 05:39 AM
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I suspect a much higher percentage of men in the 40's and 50's were alpha. Most men who were alive then either went through WWII or the Great Depression (many both), and had to face and overcome hardships FAR FAR greater than your typical suburban beta today- "My teacher did not give me an extension!" "I am being discriminated because of my height / race/ class" "The girl I whack off to every night does not like me even though I cannot keep eye contact with her", etc etc. I just cannot imagine g…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 12:14 AM
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I don't have a ton of free time, maybe >10 hours a week. But here are some things I like to do: 1) Go for walks 2) Read 3) Watch TV (I usually don't follow a lot of shows, but right now I make sure to catch Suits and 24/7) 4) Surf the internet (I am trying to cut back on this amap). 5) Watch the 49'ers - its a weekly three hour vacation of greatness
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 09:46 PM
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I think you and the OP can both be correct. You gotta help yourself and cover your bases first, before helping others. A homeless man, a drunk, etc cannot help others. Once you have your bases covered, it is easy to live a life where you give value back to the world.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 06:16 PM
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The flip side of this study may be: To remain sharp and keep and active and healthy mind, constantly try new things and put yourself in new situations. Sure, it is great to master a certain number of skills- be it sports, a hobby, a profession, girls, etc- but this study implies that trying things you are not fluent in will cause your brain to work harder.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 01:22 AM
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Or the show Suits... its literally all power talk. I don't watch much TV but I love that show.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 11:39 PM
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No offense this is where the Red Pill starts to lose me. There are tons of people in both sexes that want open relationships, and some in each gender that want an unfair open relationship where one party can experiment but the other cannot. I've seen men in this forum advocate for the latter. You can find endless examples of either to "make a point" on how crappy/unfair/whatever the other gender is. I have this Liberal friend who always posts on FB when Conservatives say or do something stupid, …
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 05:17 PM
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He was able to attract women, so in that regard, he was doing well. However, over time, people (even girls who initially fell for him) would see his true nature, and start to hate him. Its not just a "No Contact" thing, its a visceral hate thing. Also, he was unable to keep the two or so girlfriends he "loved" around- they were leaving him not the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 07:50 AM
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Haha, you were a little off on the physical description, but spot on with everything else!
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 07:44 AM
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Basically, to this sub, "dark triad" is a description for anything that would fall under the umbrella of "Borderline Personality Disorder" (such a psychopathy, narcissistic personality disorder, etc). I had the misfortune of living with someone who fit almost all traits of Narcissistic Personality Disorder to a T. He did get laid a lot, but also was a brooding, miserable, and horrible person in a lot of ways. He was also, without any question, the single most dishonest person I have ever met in …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 01:42 AM
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I would love to read a post that not only gives a quick how to regarding meditation (how long to do it, what to listen to, posture, etc). But also touches on ways to examine harmful thought patterns and "rewire" them. That would be very valuable for me, and I think others as well.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 07:28 AM
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True, but who is he arguing against? He makes it seem like guys are running wild groping women on the streets. Of all the girls / women I know, I don't know if a single one that has been sexually assaulted like that.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 06:20 AM
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"I am so sorry to hear all you girls are getting groped every time you are out in public" and if you're really in a snarky mood, add "wow apparently girls actually ARE victims of society." .... assuming none of your friends have been randomly groped in public, which should be a fair assumption because 99%+ have not.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 06:19 AM
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I hear you on the BF things. I estimate, and this may differ depending on where you live or the types of places you go, that at least 50% of girls you meet will be completely unavailable for various reasons. It really is a numbers game. If you can go out and converse with women, you can get laid. You just need to push the interaction forward. Girls will generally let you know if they are interested or not- but when in doubt, err on the side of aggression. Its harder at first, and there will be g…
/r/seduction07/07/14 05:45 PM
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I enjoyed reading this. You should give yourself a pat on the back, not that many people can go out alone and have a positive time and fun interactions. I've had some success going out alone, but usually spend a good portion of my night by myself- so fortunately I live in a city with a number of friends in close proximity! It's hard. With that said, I think you need to work on pushing the interaction. It seems like you open well and meet a lot of people and girls, but then let it die off. Start …
/r/seduction07/07/14 08:02 AM
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What do people actually say when they are talking shit about you? I suspect if multiple people are saying the same or similar type of things about you, then there is probably some truth to it. It's possible you could just have the misfortune of having shitty and/or jealous people in your life, but that is unlikely. I do not know you other than your post-but certain borderline personality types- Narcissists, Psychopaths, etc- can have a hard time with empathy and understanding others points of vi…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 03:49 AM
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Yea, I would say just cause you make a girls pussy drip doesn't mean you are alpha. Agreed- I think there is a strong correlation there. But it is not a simply "if -> then" relationship.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 06:39 PM
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"Serial killer murders 10 people and gets love letters everyday in prison? Alpha." Absolutely not. A real alpha male respects the World around him and generally is a positive influence on the World. Yes, he puts himself first, but also has the self-control and restraint to adhere to moral values. A person who takes 10 lives to satisfy some internal sick desire, and then gets locked up by society for the rest of his life, is as big of a loser scum as humanly possible. That is not alpha.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 05:36 PM
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I read this as specific to a high end club. Most bars and clubs you would be well overdressed, which is not always a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 06:18 AM
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