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| 2 | [Advice] Is It True Confidence Gets Ugly/Average Guys Laid?You seem really insecure about your weight. Tons of girls are into skinny guys. Sure, many prefer muscular guys, but that doesn't really matter, because there's enough that don't really care or prefer skinny ones. What really matters in terms of physical attractiveness (as long as you aren't super overweight) is personal grooming and clothing. And of course your personality is the most important part. | /r/seduction | 21/05/18 11:58 PM |
| 2 | is it too late to hit up girl from classAre you in high school? | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 04:18 AM |
| 5 | Almost 60 approaches. Was bold/direct. Never got a date. Most ostracize/distrust/creep shame me. (college)Really? Girls always seem interested when I cold approach at my uni. My friend got plenty of dates cold approaching in college too and he's mildly autistic. Obviously you've gotta go about it in a different way than in a club or on the street. | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Hardcore Social AnxietyMy buddy had/has social anxiety and went to a psychiatrist. He got some anti-anxiety meds that worked pretty damn well. He approached every damn woman at our college. Real anxiety disorders can't always be treated by willpower alone. | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 07:54 PM |
| 3 | I'm attractive, but I can't get girls irl. What is the problem?Eye contact is super important. Look the girl you're interested in in the eyes. If you look away too soon they'll know you don't have enough confidence. Not to mention you probably have other unnatural body language turning them off too. | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 03:36 AM |
| 1 | still haven't even kissed a girl and i'm about to turn 23.Are you ugly, overweight, socially awkward, no social circle or what? You should know at least why you're failing. Do you have any interests or hobbies? What is your career like? Are you a student? Who are you? Have you tried talking to women you were interested in at all? How did you meet them? What happened? What are you looking for besides kissing/sex? A relationship? | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 07:52 PM |
| 1 | still haven't even kissed a girl and i'm about to turn 23.Your post is extremely nonspecific. You should read the sidebar (lots of great resources there), then report back with more specific questions and/or details about your life. | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Another eye contact question?Yes. He's into you. | /r/seduction | 27/04/18 01:00 AM |
| 2 | There’s a girl, you approach/get a number/start texting or set up a date. What are your tips for keeping your conversations engaging, building attraction, showing interest, or digging deeper when you want to know someone?https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4seyc9/never_run_out_of_things_to_say_to_womenkeep_the/ This thread helped me out quite a bit. | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 05:15 PM |
| 1 | To those who have been really bad at meeting and seducing girls, and now have good success in doing it: what was your main turning point(s)?To be honest I doubt I'll remember that. I rely on spell check a lot. | /r/seduction | 17/04/18 05:03 AM |
| 2 | To those who have been really bad at meeting and seducing girls, and now have good success in doing it: what was your main turning point(s)?spend too much time in front of my pc and having many common interests will be hard Lots of women are in the same boat. They don't have much experience socialising for whatever reason. There are always women out there that have difficulty finding a boyfriend. I don't think you need to have common interests per say. Friends are likely to bond over common interests while lovers bond over a more personal connection (and sex). Personal connections like spending too much time at home on the computer … | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 02:21 PM |
| 12 | How to date girls every day on a low budget?Don't take girls out to expensive dinners, especially on a first or second date. Take her to a cafe or a bar or something like that. | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Does becoming 20 have an effect on how older women see you?OP is in the UK where the drinking age is 18. | /r/seduction | 08/04/18 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Should I ask out a girl I barely know to prom?I don't think it's weird to ask someone out when you don't know them well. Usually first dates are for getting to know each other. Whether or not asking her to prom is appropriate, is a little more tricky. Traditionally people would go to prom with a date. My experience (grad 2014) is a bit different, people would usually just go with their friends unless they already had a long-standing relationship. Being on a first date in that environment might be a bit awkward. So I guess it depends on how … | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 07:43 PM |
| 7 | Advice for picking up girls when you have Asperger’s syndrome?Firstly depression and dating don't mix, keep trying to improve your life. Antidepressants often make things worse before they help and it might be a while before you find a drug that works for you. You need to be happy with yourself before you can ask someone else to choose you. You need more practice being social before dating. Dating is one of the hardest forms of socializing. You should be at least somewhat comfortable with platonic socializing before trying romance again. The next thing is,… | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 11:51 PM |
| 1 | How do you get a girlfriend?More details… how many women… what did you say…etc | /r/seduction | 27/03/18 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Telling women they are pretty or not?Most women I know put a huge amount of time into putting on makeup and shopping for clothes. | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 09:21 PM |
| 4 | Girl losing interest (online )Dude you're being really clingy here. You don't need to be texting her 24/7 or anything like that. Give her space. Reduce the amount you initiate conversations. Only initiate conversations if you have something interesting to say. Online relationships don't really work. Try to get her in person asap and or see other girls in person. | /r/seduction | 20/03/18 08:06 PM |
| 1 | High schoolWhen she doesn't want to be touched, don't touch her. Respect her boundaries. If she knows you'll stop when she tells you to, she'll feel more comfortable around you. | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 04:31 PM |
| 1 | High schoolDon't start with kissing. A hand on her shoulder. Then around her shoulder. Then hold her hand. Then a kiss on the cheek. Then a kiss on her lips. | /r/seduction | 13/03/18 11:23 PM |
| 0 | Help a nerd get laid seduction masters.Read the sidebar, then ask questions. | /r/seduction | 26/02/18 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Very confused.A lot of women go on Tinder just to get Instagram followers. | /r/seduction | 26/02/18 06:26 PM |
| 4 | Why Can't I Seduce GirlsDid you read the sidebar yet? | /r/seduction | 24/02/18 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Got a girls number at a party, what do/howhttps://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/15qems/billys_guide_to_text_game/ see the sidebar. | /r/seduction | 24/02/18 04:36 AM |
| 1 | I've been on a few first dates, but rarely progress to a second date?How many is a few? How are you meeting them? How much did you escalate? Can you give any more details about the dates? How old are you and your dates? What country/culture are you in? etc... | /r/seduction | 24/02/18 03:40 AM |
| 1 | As a 23 yo minority with sub-par looks, am I cut out to approach women given the oft-touted 'approach girls who show you interest'?Maybe it's your body language that's turning them off. One can see poor self-esteem from a mile away. | /r/seduction | 21/02/18 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Problems with erectionYou should ask your doctor about it. There are a number of medical problems that could be causing it. | /r/seduction | 18/02/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | What to do when looking very young ?Go to a doctor and get your T tested if you're worried about it. They can suggest proper treatment rather than self medication if that's really the problem. If that's not it then maybe you have some Asian ancestry that you aren't aware of. Looking young, less body hair, and odorless sweat are all East-Asian genetic traits. You can get a genetic test if your T is normal. 15 is pretty young. If you're looking to date younger, 17 is probably going to be less of a pain in the ass. | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 10:20 PM |
| 5 | Girl is playing hard to get, and it's boringI sincerely like her a lot You don't seem to like her very much and I can't blame you. Cut your losses and get out of there. | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 10:33 PM |
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