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I want to grow up. I'm grateful for having the opportunity to grow now. (maybe a fake growth mindset) Deep down I feel ambivalent. Full of energy at my workplace or at sports activities on the one side. I feel annoyed at home. I have been the beta bucks for too long. That doesn't work for me and right now I'm lacking to execute successful strategies. That's when I get resentful or just sad.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/25 07:15 PM
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I DEERed to myself that I still tolerate the intolerable and that I'm still easily manipulatable by words. I have work to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/25 04:22 PM
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Sometimes a High-five with a chair in the face is all that's needed to cut the bullshit. To answer your question. There is nothing wrong, that I want a sex life. And yes I hamstered progress on certain aspects of the relationship as progress on the topic that got me here. Did I make real progress on the dead bedroom situation? Well, no. Flirting and dirty talking increased, but no real progress. The dynamic is still that my wife thinks she is the prize to be earned. I let her manipulate me with …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/25 03:47 PM
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I've been obsessed with sex (or the lack of it) for the last few months. I took back my ego and looked at the situation. Is the lack of sex with my wife a problem or a symptom. It's the latter. I've learned so much about myself in the last few months. The burden I have placed on my wife with my covert contracts is unattractive. And I can see that the more I take care of myself, the better it gets on all relationship levels. Much less bitching and much more appreciation. But the most important th…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/25 09:39 AM
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OYS #9 Stats: 41, married 10 yrs, two kids, 188cm, 91kg, bench 120kg x6rm , leg press 220kg x20rm, deadlift 150 kg x5rm, squat 140kg x5rm Read: Sidebar+ Sidebar Books, praxeology vol 1-3, SGM, Can't hurt me no more, Practical female psychology,WOTSM, The Game, NMMNG (3x), WISNIFG (2x),48 rules of power Current: MMSLP Fitness 3x running and 12h playing soccer Playing soccer excessively had helped me to transform my anger and I just wanted to do something other than move iron this week, but rather…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/25 07:09 PM
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Have been obsessed with achieving financial freedom for a few years Have you been successful and are you now set? I am in OK shape Bench 95lbs Is that even a push-up?Don't lie to yourself. Building muscles is a good idea. Relationship Did you get the ILYBINILWY-speech or has your girlfriend already moved out? Social What do you do instead?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/25 06:28 PM
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Thank goodness I'm not the only one who finds this confusing. Yes, the whole thing is a mindfuck for me at the moment. It was before, but now I'm working on ending it. They are just words. “I want you to be strong”. I have the right to be my own judge. I don't need a woman to confirm that for me. I know that I am strong. I see that every day in my life when I see what I do/affect. I've learned a lot about myself in the last few weeks and my life path is to get out of this feedback loop with wome…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/25 01:22 PM
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Maybe that got lost in translation. In the poem it was impersonal "a man". Later in our dialog she said it was me she phantasied of. This could be made up.It could be true. I have no evidence for anything.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/25 10:02 AM
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OYS #8 Stats: 41, married 10 yrs, two kids, 188cm, 91kg, bench 120kg x6rm , leg press 220kg x20rm, deadlift 150 kg x5rm, squat 140kg x5rm Read: Sidebar+ Sidebar Books, praxeology vol 1-3, SGM, Can't hurt me no more, Practical female psychology,WOTSM, The Game, NMMNG (3x), WISNIFG (2x) Current: 48 rules of power Fitness 4xlifting 2xrunnning -no soccer due to business trip career /social I was on a business trip for 3 days. My company is part of a joint project with universities, where the aim is …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/25 08:50 PM
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OYS #7 Stats: 41, married 10 yrs, two kids, 188cm, 91kg, bench 120kg x6rm , leg press 220kg x20rm, deadlift 150 kg x5rm, squat 140kg x5rm Read: Sidebar+ Sidebar Books, praxeology vol 1-3, SGM, Can't hurt me no more, Practical female psychology,WOTSM, The Game, NMMNG (3x), WISNIFG (2x) Current: 48 rules of power Fitness 1xrunning(slow), 3x lifting (upper body +calves) - no soccer due to injury Mental I followed the hidden contract “If I make my family happy, I am happy”. Ultimately, my problems h…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/25 06:18 PM
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What's so hard about putting your dick inside her? Some caveman you are, giving up when the least amount of GENTLE resistance is given. Her fingernails leave ugly scars - I've tried it before I read Your article about The Epic Test at least once a week,because I see so many similarities to my life. For those struggling with validation… Not a single time did I get encouragement from her. Not a single bit of praise. Not a mention of anything that would resemble a wife who is proud of or to be with…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/25 06:54 PM
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I had already tried this in the past before I arrived here. "Nobody is to blame, I take responsibility and lead us." I'm currently doing something similar. I took my wife for a run together today. We ran a route through the forest that we've never run before. I led us off the path in a few places and then across the forest until we were back on the track. It was an adventure and great fun. And that's the message I subconsciously wanted to convey. Spending time with me is fun again. The sexual te…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/25 06:07 PM
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Where are you at with validating preferred feminine behavior from your woman? I praise the things I like and give my attention to my wife. My weak point is rather that I still don't withdraw enough of my attention from negative behavior.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/25 05:49 PM
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Have you prepped for divorce? I think I'm prepped. My digital life is on an encrypted USB-Stick and I have only one folder in my shelf containing all my documents. Finances are separated now. The rest can be purchased new, if shits hits the fan. The rules here in Germany are that you have to live one year separated before you can file for divorce. Next step for me would be getting an appartment. I'm not sure why you're interacting with your wife at all outside logistics. It sounds like a broken …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/25 08:54 PM
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OYS #6 Stats: 41, married 10 yrs, two kids, 188cm, 91kg, bench 120kg x5rm , leg press 220kg x20rm, deadlift 150 kg x5rm, squat 140kg x5rm Read: Sidebar+ Sidebar Books, praxeology vol 1-3, SGM, Can't hurt me no more, Practical female psychology,WOTSM, The Game, NMMNG (3x), WISNIFG Current: Frame (2nd iteration) Fitness 2xLifting, 2xrunning, 2xsoccer - injured quads during soccer game - skipped leg day (lifting) I've been on maintenance calories since mid-April to give my body some replenishment. …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/25 06:55 PM
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Here I actually have a question of understanding. Glover writes in his book that you should take care of your own needs. If I have now decided that I don't want to fuck my hand, but a woman? I have read in many writings that you should increase your SMV to become more fuckable.If it's with my wife, that's great, but she doesn't have custody of me libido. Isn't the point of dating/gaming with other women that you become independent of the judgment of one woman?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/25 06:15 PM
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Well actually not. Since you're the second guy to mention it, I think I probably could have responded differently here. I didn't think of initiating during that moment.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/25 06:03 PM
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I have noticed that she does not yet trust me 100% to steer the ship. I have observed the moments when she loses her feminine essence and that is where I started. I no longer force her to decide things I now enforce compliance with the house rules for the children. I appreciate her for things I like (this time without a covert contract) If she is looking for physical closeness, she will get it I don't seek approval from her I don't judge her emotions I think there's more on the list, but that wa…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/25 08:56 PM
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I appreciate Your comments. This morning my wife welcomed me in a sea of tears. She doesn't want me to sleep with other women and revoked her offer. I think she intuitively sensed that I was accepting her offer. I don't want to hurt her or punish her unnecessarily. So I just STFU and gave her some comfort. We then went on a wonderful family outing and she was in a joy that I hadn't seen in a long time and thanked me for how well I had led the day and how she could just give herself over. My plan…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/25 08:27 PM
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OYS #5 Stats: 41, married 10 yrs, two kids, 188cm, 91kg, bench 120kg x5rm , leg press 220kg x20rm, deadlift 150 kg x5rm, squat 140kg x5rm Read: Sidebar+ Sidebar Books, praxeology vol 1-3, SGM, Can't hurt me no more, Practical female psychology,WOTSM, The Game, NMMNG (3x) Current: WISNIFG (1/3 done) Fitness 3x running, 3x lifting, 1x soccer practice, 1 rest day - (one day was running+soccer) Mental I had received a lot of helpful tips over the past week that I could use to continue working on mys…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/25 09:03 PM
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Something they're not saying, either out of embarrassment, denial or ignorance. Some examples: You hit her. You hit a kid. You lost your savings. One or both of you has an addiction or significant mental illness. Your theory is correct. A few years ago, after our second child was born, we were in a period where our arguments were also violent. She had often scratched and hit me and I had defended myself and fought back. I didn't want to carry on and moved out of the house and wanted divorce. Aft…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/25 07:29 PM
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The video is helpful.Thank You.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/25 08:36 AM
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Thanks for the tip. Yes, my hamster is going crazy right now. When I look back at the rollercoaster ride of the last 24 hours.... chill and STFU are good advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/25 07:22 AM
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I've found it difficult to enforce my boundaries because of my nice guy behavior. As a result, I had lost my integrity and therefore also my self-respect. I set boundaries, but if I let everyone cross them, they're useless and I get pushed around. Next steps: confront my wife Me: Hello Mrs. Tiger, I allowed you to have platonic contact with the bus driver a few weeks ago. However, I now see that you write to each other several times a day which is more than usual platonic frequency. Let me read …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/25 06:43 AM
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I've found it difficult to enforce my boundaries because of my nice guy behavior. As a result, I had lost my integrity and therefore also my self-respect. I set boundaries, but if I let everyone cross them, they're useless and I get pushed around. Next steps: confront my wife (today's afternoon) Me: Hello Mrs. Tiger, I allowed you to have platonic contact with the bus driver a few weeks ago. However, I now see that you write to each other several times a day which is more than usual platonic fre…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/25 06:41 AM
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Pathetic is a good description for my current emotional state. I was able to sleep on your comment one night. My hamster rationalized away boundary violations so that I could avoid the situation of enforcing a boundary. I also sold it to myself as a victory.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/25 04:01 AM
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But are you though? Your obsessive hamstering says no, in which you might want to own that at some point assuming you actually mean to enforce it. I spent a night thinking about all the comments. I actually had nothing against a platonic friendship in the first place, but the fact that she now writes to this guy every day tells me that my boundaries may have been crossed. I had lied to myself when I said in my OYS that I didn't see any signs that something was wrong. Thank You for calling me out…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/25 03:36 AM
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This seems so passive, are you sure this isn’t a boundary you want to be place before here? I can only set boundaries that I can enforce. If I tell her not to meet up with him, how can I check when I work 9 hours and she is at home? I had set the boundary that I was only okay with a platonic relationship. I haven't done it yet, but it would be easy for me to monitor her chat. At the moment, I trust her. If something suspicious turns up, I can always dig deeper. In my current perception, that was…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 09:59 PM
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I don't understand what is going on. What is this "trust" stuff about? Something specific that you did or didn't do? All the nice guy stuff- covert contracts., hiding flaws, validation seeking, setting boundaries etc. When I look at how I reacted to her actions last week. She provokes me with another man and I almost freak out. She tempts me with sex and I'm as tame as a puppy dog. From my OYS#1 To make my emotional state dependent on my wife's action is unhealthy. I've read the sidebar once and…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 09:16 PM
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I can see your point that jealousy is unattractive. So why couldn't I laugh it off? I had been holding on to the illusion of home and family for a very long time and wanted to make it somehow. That was my vision for my life. That's my vulnerable point and my wife knows that. I've often been manipulated here, but I've never set a boundary before out of fear of losing my illusion. Until I found this place. You can see how I tried to argue rationally with my 3 fuckups in order to justify the reason…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 07:42 PM
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OYS #4 Stats: 41, married 10 yrs, two kids, 188cm, 91kg, bench 120kg x5rm , leg press 220kg x20rm, deadlift 150 kg x5rm, squat 140kg x5rm Read: Sidebar+ Sidebar Books, praxeology vol 1-3, SGM, Can't hurt me no more, Practical female psychology,WOTSM, The Game, NMMNG (3x) Current: praxeology Dread (2nd iteration), Iron John Fitness 2x running, 4x lifting, 1x soccer game, 1 rest day - (one day was running+lifting) Social Saturday was another soccer game.We played at home and I stayed for a while a…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 06:30 PM
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If someone takes away your muscles, what's left of you? Reading tip: NMMNG - it is number 1 in the sidebar Maybe it makes sense to write your OYS in the past tense. That way you can recognize what you have already done and not what you are imagining.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/25 06:38 PM
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The TLDR of your mental/NMMNG section seems to be that you’ve realised if you do x to get y from a women it isn’t going to happen but if you do a to get b from a guy it’s ok? Maybe I wasn't clear in my speech. When I did each of the 3 things listed, I had no second thoughts. I did my best in each situation. Other people have chosen to give me a “well done”. The situation at home was different. I always wanted validation there. My son had validated my behavior and my daughter had not and I became…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/25 05:48 PM
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OYS #3 Stats: 41, married 10 yrs, two kids, 188cm, 91kg, bench 120kg x5rm , leg press 220kg x20rm, deadlift 150 kg x5rm, squat 140kg x5rm Read: Sidebar+ Sidebar Books, praxeology vol 1-3, SGM, Can't hurt me no more, Practical female psychology,WOTSM, The Game Current: NMMNG (3rd iteration) , Iron John Fitness In the last week I had two soccer games (practice, league game), one run (6km) and three lifting workouts. One rest day. Mental /NMMNG I had done some good preparation for my job because an…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/25 05:52 PM
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OYS #2 Stats: 41, married 10 yrs, two kids, 188cm, 91kg, bench 120kg x5rm , leg press 220kg x20rm, deadlift 150 kg x5rm, squat 140kg x5rm Read: Sidebar+ Sidebar Books, praxeology vol 1-3, SGM, Can't hurt me no more, Practical female psychology,WOTSM, The Game Current: NMMNG (3rd iteration) , Iron John Fitness I realized during soccer training that my endurance had to be improved. Therefore, I had adjusted my weekly schedule. I added two additional running units (13km run, 6km run). I lost anothe…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/25 06:10 PM
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You have a valid point. I have made a contribution to the situation. My dream back then was to start a family. I visualized it as a picture. Happy wife, happy children, beautiful home, sunshine - everything is great...I realize now, that one person is missing from the picture - me And the reason you get so upset is that you are upset-able. If your wife’s tirades had no basis in fact and/or didn’t resonate to some degree, you wouldn’t be bothered. I did the things that NiceGuys do. I took care of…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/25 09:32 PM
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Thanks for your feedback. Hmm. Doesn't compute, does it. I have done kinky things with short term girlfriends in the past. I never had much desire for a committed relationship until my late 20s. Then I decided to start a family.Wife is first LTR. At first I had satisfactory normal sex with my wife, until I suddenly discovered that she was also kinky. This was unexpected for me at that time,because I thought she was on of the "good girls".I always thought I had to be nice as a husband. My need fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/25 01:08 PM
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I'm German. But yeah, I think too much instead of just feel and do stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/25 09:38 PM
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OYS #1 Stats: 41, married 10 yrs, two kids, 188cm, 92kg, bench 120kg x5rm , leg press 220kg x20rm, deadlift 150 kg x5rm, squat 140kg x5rm I had a spinal injury at a young age that prevents me from lifting heavier things. I work around it with leg presses during leg training. Read: Sidebar+ Sidebar Books, praxeology vol 1-3, SGM, Can't hurt me no more, Practical female psychology,WOTSM, The Game Current: NMMNG (3rd iteration) Story The relationship with my wife began 12 years ago. At that time, I…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/25 07:13 PM
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