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| 91 | How do you deal with your buddies just pulling more than you ? | Fundamentals | Tight-Maybe-7408 | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 05:14 PM |
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| 1 | How do you deal with your buddies just pulling more than you ?How do ya pull on your own? Is it more bars then than the packed clubs? See I’ve gone clubbing a decent amount this year, and have had success making out with randos but have not been able to take any home yet | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 07:40 PM |
| 20 | How do you deal with your buddies just pulling more than you ?Yes this basically happened the other day— I was trying to talk to this girl who was prob not into me anyways , and then my super buff and handsome buddy took her/ went home with her . I mean yes I didn’t have anybrjng going on with her but out of all the girls in the club , did he really have to go with that one? | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 06:23 PM |
| 1 | What actually makes a guy instantly attractive?Ya but I’m talking more like … captain America before vs after the steroids , if each versions of captain America went to the same club they’d have different results (though to some of the points in the thread here , women judge men a bit differently than men look at women so maybe part of that is in your head , but at the end of the day all ya can do is like do your best to look as good as you can and then work on the rizz ) | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 10:01 PM |
| 1 | What actually makes a guy instantly attractive?Interesting that no one (at least in the first few that I’ve seen) has said being buff. As a skinny dude this is like my biggest insecurity and something I’m working on but seems like a big differentiator when you go out and about. For example I’d never wear a tank top to the club since I dont have the upper body for it, but if I did have it and did wear it, id prob do very well | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Is my mediocre dating app experience because of my race?I feel like in general the apps are quite a difficult spot , like girls who are above “ugly” and even some very average looking girls immediately get like 600 likes as soon as they download, making it kind of hard to read too much into the apps And ya man FWIW, I’ve also found that most ppl I get matches with on the apps just never respond , I’ve never really been able to figure it out eg they never like unmatch and then what’s the point in swiping right in the first place (some ppl say it’s fas… | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first dateOh really that’s interesting I find that it can vary a lot more but really interesting to hear your experience | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first datelol as a dude who makes a lot of money — I’d second never doing a dinner first date but for very different reasons than you. I think dinner dates are just too much time to be spending with someone who you might not really like. I also don’t do coffee dates and instead do drinks since I am often more comfortable a little drunk. The problem with this though from the pov of getting a relationship is she might like you when you/ her are drunk, but not sober, and that’s quite the problem It’s interes… | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 05:00 PM |
| 2 | 29 year virgin ED on first tryYa dude it’s ok ! That sounds like a great plan with the cialis. And yes I get what you mean about the cuddling , but it’s not actually about you being hard during the cuddling. It’s about building more psychological comfort to outlast the cuddling. But ya man what you’re going though is incredibly normal and I am very confident will work out if you give it a little time :) | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 09:29 AM |
| 1 | 29 year virgin ED on first tryYup this is classic performance anxiety. Been there. Theres a few options here … What I did and prob would recommend against is you can go to the doctor and get the ED pills. The problem with that is then you get reliant on a real drug that you don’t need, and also it makes you a little numb down there The other option is being patient with yourself. You need to have trust with your girl. All these insecurities you are feeling about her thinking you’re dumb etc, you need to tell her. Any thought… | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 12:33 PM |
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