Tight_Banana_9692 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	Objectification is a myth. And what did you say objectification was?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 08:49 PM
2	Men aren't more critical of women ,we are just treating you equally and you don't like it No, what bothered me was the original argument	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 08:48 PM
–	Objectification is a myth. I am not confused about what friendship is, and I don't think I have indicated anything of the sort. I am confused why you are telling me that friendship are supposed to be mutally beneficial. What is objectification?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 07:13 PM
–	Objectification is a myth. I don't know who you think you're replying to but I don't see that your reply is relevant to my text.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 06:48 PM
1	Men aren't more critical of women ,we are just treating you equally and you don't like it Possibly is you backing off. The ridiculous part is connecting mainsplaining to male-to-male violence	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 06:47 PM
–	Objectification is a myth. That is not exactly what I'm talking about. I can enjoy a woman's company for completely different reasons than she enjoys my company, we can have entirely different experiences of the interaction. And that can misalign quite a bit. Going by what you said yourself, if objectification is merely valuing someone by what funtion they serve in your life, that is exactly how I feel about a lot of my female friends (i.e. I feel as if they are valuing me so). In the sense that, the value I bring is the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 06:06 PM
–	Objectification is a myth. I feel objectified by women all the time btw. I feel a lot that I'm just a vehicle foe them to experience emotion. Women, at least a lot of women, seem to have an internal emotional life that I don't have, and they make friends with their emotions in a way that I can't understand, and they want experience those emotions, and sometimes they do that by using others. I don't want to stereotype too hard, but that has been my experience. I think the problem with this discourse is that it fails to cap…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 05:39 PM
1	Men aren't more critical of women ,we are just treating you equally and you don't like it Do you understand that I'm just calling you out for saying something ridiculous	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 05:36 PM
2	If you think there’s inherent moral injustice in you not getting sex or relationships then you are entitled You might think the world is unjust that you were born unattractive for example. There are many ways to think it is unjust that you are not finding a relationship that is also not entitlement. Using the words "getting laid" also does a lot of work in your argument hrere because that already makes this imaginary entitled person into a bad perspn with bad motives, making it easier to criticize these people. Why not discuss whether or not it's entitlement to think the world is unjust because you ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 12:04 PM
2	If you think there’s inherent moral injustice in you not getting sex or relationships then you are entitled It is not entitlement to think the world is unjust.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 11:27 AM
0	Men aren't more critical of women ,we are just treating you equally and you don't like it I will just take you on your word that you really believe that mansplaining is the cause of violence between men	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 11:26 AM
1	Men aren't more critical of women ,we are just treating you equally and you don't like it As I was saying, it doesn't follow from that that one should not be blunt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 06:58 AM
15	Men aren't more critical of women ,we are just treating you equally and you don't like it Do you think male on male violence is related to men explaining things to other men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 11:34 PM
4	Men aren't more critical of women ,we are just treating you equally and you don't like it It doesn't necessarily matter if people like bluntness, not all communication has to be about bonding with someone. Sometimes you just need to say what you think	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 11:33 PM
–	The strength of the Red Pill is that it is largely a coherent worldview. I wasn't the person you responded. But the world is in fact full of contradictions, not even the physical world seems coherent, let alone the social world. A lot people have very coherent worldviews also, yet they disagree. The fact that something is coherent doesn't tell you anything as to the truth. Also, the only way a worldview can be coherent is by being narrow. Be careful when people present a coherent system, it is bery easy to get blinded by it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 09:58 PM
–	The strength of the Red Pill is that it is largely a coherent worldview. The world is not coherent	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 09:42 PM
–	The strength of the Red Pill is that it is largely a coherent worldview. Soundness vs correctness. The problem is that the world is not coherent in this way. I always found that people who spout this nonense are half right. Everything they say about women is what humans are like, but they think somehow men are better but at the same time expect women to be bettet than they are. I don't know why it is such a problem that looks are an important factor for women. No serious person would claim otherwise, and why would you expect anything else? The main problem is that th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 09:38 PM
2	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool You have to ask who specifically is asking you not to do what exactly in the gym	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/26 09:13 PM
1	The fact that women that they can't show any friendliness to a man because they take even the smallest bit of kindness romantic/sexual attraction, is proof why women vague "hints/signs" are silly. They don't generally make it clear. Just because you've experienced women who have made it clear doesn't mean any woman who doesn't isn't into you. Do you make it clear to every woman you are into that you are into them? People are shy, nervous, all kinds of things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 11:22 AM
–	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool I think talking to someone in a shared public space is normal, and many people have met their spouse in the context of a shared hobby. "Approaching" is not some special social encounter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 05:12 AM
5	The Same Romantic Approach Is Judged Differently Depending on Attraction What I mean is, the approach itself is rarely the problem. If someone likes you they will interpret almost any approach in a positive light. It sounds like I misunderstood what you wrote.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/26 07:42 PM
1	Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them They think male issues are downstream from the mechanisms that follows from their feminist critique of society. The exact issues you bring up are examples of issues where their answer is "patriarchy hurts men too", so in your case they wouldn't even agree with your assessment that they ignore those issues. That's a fundamental problem with your criticism. My impression, that I am not willing to defend to the death exactly, is also that they (many, some, one) live in an ideological bubble and hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/26 06:59 PM
2	The fact that women that they can't show any friendliness to a man because they take even the smallest bit of kindness romantic/sexual attraction, is proof why women vague "hints/signs" are silly. It's misunderstood. Men don't pursue women who are kind to them because they think it's a sign that the women like them, they pursue women who are kind to them because it make them like that woman. They're not reacting to a perceived signal so much as to an attraction to the person who are kind to them. Obviously, when you are attracted to someone you want them to be attracted you in return and many people delude themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/26 06:44 PM
6	The Same Romantic Approach Is Judged Differently Depending on Attraction It has less to do with how attractive you are but how the woman in question feels about the interaction and your approach Saying that sounds still like you expect there to be some secret way to approach women. It's just random. Some women/men like you some don't, it rarely matters the exact approach or interaction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/26 06:40 PM
1	The Same Romantic Approach Is Judged Differently Depending on Attraction This is true for you too, women just don't approach you. If you were an attractive man and women approached you the way men approach women you would see that this reaction is natural and obvious. I would also be careful to take words like this on face value. “Why can’t men just let women exist in peace?” That is an emotional reaction to something that just happened that they wished this happen, it doesn't necessarily reflect what they actually think the world should look like. Even for the man t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/26 06:38 PM
-2	SwipeStats data from 2026 demonstrates that Hinge is mathematically non-viable for the average male user I mean, it's not that hard to beat the bottom 90% of men. Get yourself groomed (go to a good experienced barber), get some nice clothes (go to Zara, buy two outfits you see on their mannequins), get a DLSR camera and get a friend to take pictures of you outside where are people. Boom, you are now the top 10% of men. If all men just did that you would see a normal distribution on how women rate men. You just misunderstand the pareto distribution. That's about production, and it turns out only 10%…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/26 06:13 PM
3	Why do you think men outnumber women on dating/hookup apps? Because a lot of women can go months and never have a spontaneous thought about sex allegedly	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/26 05:56 PM
2	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool Most women are not like this, you are overgeneralizing based on social media posts coming from what are, ostensibly, attention-seeking individuals, and perhaps some women (and men) who are following a social script in an attempt to make themselves appear morally superior. I have met few women who actually think about "mansplaining", most of this coming from women who, I reason, have lived mostly in female coded spaces and have not had to adapt their communication to a male coded style. Those are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/26 05:54 PM