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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| -1 | 50 something yo Divorced Cougars picking up 30 year oldsGotcha. Sorry if I caused confusion. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/25 02:49 AM |
| -8 | 50 something yo Divorced Cougars picking up 30 year oldsNope. I withheld sex from my ex as a form of power. Men can use it too. Never lose agency or leverage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/25 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Remaining in the marital homeFind an arbiter or mediator. I’m not sure what to call them but a coach or someone that manages your best interests. The rest of the jungle is set up to defeat you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/25 07:00 AM |
| 5 | Remaining in the marital homeYou will hear a lot of advice from a lot of people. I’d suggest finding a divorce coach. Someone that can manage the process for you because what’s coming for you will eat you alive. I’ve lived it and have wanted a divorce coach to handle it all for me. Everyone except the lawyers would have come out ahead. No lawyer, therapist, or judge wants you to know this exists. We give you these tools to fight back against a system unfairly rigged against you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/25 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Two Years Later.Yes please. I’ve never seen such a jaded, cynical, and corrupt system as the family “justice” system. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/04/25 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Two Years Later.This right here. And if you want a free one, try the therapist chaptGPT and you’ll save more money and you can yell into the abyss as much as you want without it costing a fortune. The lawyers, judges, and therapists are there to take your money and leave you feeling worse than you already are. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/04/25 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Get divorced to be the fun dad you always wanted to beI have to also weigh in here. After 20 years of being married to a deadbeat wife that couldn't manage her high school education and left me to do all the breadwinning (which I did to the tune of $300k/yr), she decided she wanted "out". But she didn't make it easy. Trumped up DV charges and tried to take my kids forever etc. I found the love of my life 3 days later on Tinder. ER Doc that lives in Monterey CA (#winning). She takes real good care of me. Makes my ex look terrible in every regard. My… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/24 06:18 PM |
| 1 | How do you manage the anger of a 50/50 financial split?Marriage is failed institution. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/24 12:32 AM |
| 1 | How do you manage the anger of a 50/50 financial split?Yes sir! Well done. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/24 12:17 AM |
| 1 | How do you manage the anger of a 50/50 financial split?Use the anger as motivation to do what this guy said. He’s right. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/24 12:17 AM |
| 1 | How do you manage the anger of a 50/50 financial split?Yep! That’s right. Just consider this payment on a painful lesson. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/24 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Panic attack on way back from veterinarianThis is the composite the other side wants to foist upon you. Everything you've said, I've felt many times over. My best advice and what I did was to distract myself with healthy activities and people in my life. It's difficult to find people that will understand what you are going through because it's so personal and unique but they are out there. Find them. My algorithm for divorce life is like this: 1) Take care of me (healthy diet, exercise, sleep, and emotional support) 2) Be there for my k… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/24 07:14 PM |
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