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Women help women appreciate and indulge in the lighthearted aspects of life while overcoming the challenges of being a woman. And it's easier for women to build friendships around that than it is to build a relationship with a man which are more centered around more private, sensitive, intimate topics like loyalty, cohabitation, finances, sex, domesticity, parenting, safety, etc. Relationships with men require more emotional work and require putting a lot of eggs in one basket. So they're riskie…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:39 AM
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False. Most women love sex but don't want to deal with the stigma of around meaningless sex. Dating, relationships, and money give sex meaning, making it more "justifiable"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:50 PM
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Let's not act like all wives are happy angels. Women initiate about 70% of divorces and the average marriage length in the US is only an 8.2 years. And marriages usually become stale/toxic long before the divorce. So considering the financial/mental/emotional toll of divorce, what's more important than women's sacrifices and marriage's benefits to men is making sure the marriage actually lasts. And the marriages that last the longest are ones where the wife is both traditional enough and marries…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:47 AM
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All other things being equal, the average single woman has more plants and pets and friends to meet some of their maternal and social needs than the average single man. So a man has to bring a lot to the table for a woman if she's going open her mental/emotional/physical space to a man and take on the potential burdens of unbalanced domestic work and/or pregnancy/childcare
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:56 PM
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Women have more to lose in relationships. Choosing the low-status partner could lead to domestic violence, women love in a way that makes them more emotionally vulnerable (imo), and women run the risk of getting pregnant which is a burden physically and emotionally whether or not they abort. Men can cast a wide net without worrying as much about potentially reeling in a shark
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:26 PM
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Haha go for it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:42 PM
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Idk about full-on ugly because a girl needs to at least be able to make my dick hard lmao but yeah. Enthusiasm is the difference between feeling like you're jumping on a trampoline and jumping on concrete
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:34 PM
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Not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:29 PM
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Only if she's uncoachable and close-minded, too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:20 PM
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She probably has very low self-esteem. Wouldn't be surprised if she goes on a revenge tour and starts sleeping around to feel better about herself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:06 PM
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The women who don't partake have a scarcity mindset and those who do, abundance. So to answer your question, the benefit of the scarcity mindset is stability, resilience, duty, purpose, etc which can make it easier to deal with uncertainties on other areas of life. Though it can backfire if trying to settle down too soon with a man who isn't mature enough to make the commitment and bear the responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:54 AM
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Some women are very sheltered and prefer to stay that way. As long as the guy they're with can keep them in that bubble, they're love happily ever after. But if enough shit happens in their life to reveal chinks in her knights shining armor and they break up, she'll require the next guy she dates to have enough resources to make a stronger bubble or to have stronger armor
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:34 AM
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That would require reprogramming high-value men men to desire promiscuous women long term. And to me that's impossible. Most men who work their asses off to reach prosperity do it so they can pass on their knowledge and resources on to their offspring. Having a family is a long-term investment, and a woman with a romantically/sexually promiscuous track record is a riskier investment than one who's mostly had long-term relationships. You have to get to know a woman to know the ceiling of her rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:26 AM
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I'd guess wheels Commercial Spaces: Most stores and warehouses have dollies, hand trucks, and push carts to move inventory. Every office has tons of cubicles and conference rooms with chairs with 5 wheels apiece. Hospital beds have wheels. Shopping carts at big box stores. Hotel rooms have desk chairs in them too. Schools are probably one of the few places with more doors Residential Spaces: I'm guessing the average person has like 8 drawers to themselves (dresser + nightstand)? At 4 wheels per …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:58 PM
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TRP is not about shaming women for promiscuity, though that's what a lot of convos devolve into. It's fundamentally about recognizing and protecting yourself from psychological and emotional deceptions women use to cover up their promiscuous pasts/nature. And it's about developing a rock solid value system that allows you withstand unnecessary, biased social pressures and move through relationships and life in general with confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:25 PM
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I guess it's a cultural shift from actors to social media influencers as the beauty standard-bearers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:11 AM
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Yes. Being traditionally masculine is less necessary to provide for a family or ensure the safety of your loved ones now more than ever. These days all you need is to land a good enough job and move to a safe enough neighborhood And since women have more agency and independence now to pursue these things themselves, they're more threatening than empowering to a man's sense of masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:43 PM
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Keep his stomach full and balls empty, and empower him to make his dreams a reality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:34 AM
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Nah, she just needs to be prepared to suck a lot of dick and turn fantasies into reality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:32 AM
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I think whats more important than the number itself is the lack of proof that one has the principles and discipline to maintain a long-term relationship. Body count is like a quantitative indicator of qualitative potential
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:58 AM
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Exception? You said "The only time body count matters is if that person has a huge body count which most people don't" By calling it an exception you're either saying people who prefer casual sex don't have huge body counts or not many people prefer casual sex. I don't think either is true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:56 PM
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I agree with the first part to a degree but there's a gray area between stable and unstable home (ie subtly toxic/loveless marriages, late divorces, etc), and people are also heavily influenced by their social groups and the media they consume. A bunch of factors influence people's relationship goals so to me their relationship history is one of the best indicator of who they are and have the potential to be
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:51 PM
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Sorry but I'm not sure what you're getting at. You're saying as long as one don't model themselves after traditional parents, they can sleep around as much as they want with no emotional repercussions?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:15 PM
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I hear ya. Body count shouldnt be looked at in a vacuum. Context is important but a lot of people aren't mature enough to discuss it without getting defensive or jumping to conclusions
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:05 PM
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Who said/implied anything about a having a strict cutoff point?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:00 PM
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Lol ya got me. I didn't read that far I guess because I didn't expect OP to directly contradict himself Title: Nobody cares about body count Last Paragraph: Body count actually matters sometimes Odd
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:59 PM
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In your opinion, is there any correlation between body count and intimacy/commitment issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:46 PM
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Gender/sexual fluidity and social/romantic ADHD driven by social media is making navigating young adulthood a nightmarish maze. People want a more concrete sense of objectivity, social construct, direction, and purpose in life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:32 PM
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Why do you prefer younger men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:42 PM
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It's not about being the ideal guy women are looking for. It's about getting more opportunities (due to moving up in the world and women's preference for dating up in age and status) and being able to capitalize on those opportunities (more experience mean greater success/retention rate)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:42 PM
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Got to, bro. Or any big city. Plenty of girls around who graduated from top 100 schools looking to relive their wild college days. Or make up for having not-so-wild college days
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:57 AM
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Sounds like the women here are just aren't your target demographic. Girls in a place like NYC love that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:46 AM
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Birth control and abortions allow women to be as sexually liberated as men, and dating apps give everyone an abundance of options (whether perceived or actual) so everyone has to do more to stand out and keep partners interested
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:42 AM
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I agree with your premise but not so much the choice of words. Romantic love can be non-sexual, hence the aromatic/asexual distinctions some people use to describe themselves. Instead of romantic love and filial love, I'd say Lovers/Crushes and Loved Ones
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:06 PM
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I'll rephrase: how much of a chance are you giving less attractive guys now? And what do you want them to prove to you? Idt giving someone a fair shot will make them simp as long as you're firm about moving on but then again, idk what dating's like on a woman's side of things so 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:23 PM
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Give them a chance to do what exactly? What would a guy you're not initially into have to do to win you over?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:11 PM
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As a result of the effort to make the world more egalitarian, men and women are competing more in both the workplace and in dating (aka the sexual marketplace). More competition and poor sportsmanship (let's be real, most people are sore losers when it comes to jobs and sex/love) results in more sexism
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:00 PM
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How much I care depends on the girl tbh. I prefer to have sex after getting to know a girl a bit so I can get my head and heart into the game. If my dick is the only part of me invested in the sex....communication will be shit and it won't be a great time for her. Its a mental hurdle I'm working on though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:44 AM
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I swear my dick can sense the fake intimacy of a hookup and barely shows up to play. I'm relatively new to the ONS/hookup world and the connection between my brain and dick just isn't there yet to bring my A game with girls I barely know. Wasn't an issue at all in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:35 AM
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Non-negotiable but still least important of the three. And a someone who isn't tall can still be a non-runway model
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 01:16 AM
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The Rockettes are models AND dancers. I think this says more about how how female performers tend to be very feminine than it does anything about the general population of tall women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:50 AM
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Supermodels are also required to have slim but curvy physiques and a stunning face. One could argue height is the least important factor in a model's beauty and feminity My point was less about the aesthetic and more about how appearance can drive behavior and personality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:48 AM
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6'4 buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:36 AM
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Generalization =/= not true. It's not black and white
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:36 AM
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Zero association? Do you have data to back that up? What do find attractive in a woman? Enlighten me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:35 AM
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OP's question was about why guys are mean to her and she thought it was because she's tall. She opened the door.to the convo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:24 AM
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Not just a thought, experience. Though none of the girls I've been with were models so maybe you're on to something there
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:21 AM
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The taller women I've been with (5'10+) were more headstrong and sexually assertive the shorter women. Not making an assertion, just anecdotal experience. One of the most feminine woman I've been with was 6'0 so I know it's not a hard and fast rule
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:20 AM
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What other subs similar to purplepilldebate would you recommend? I got banned from r/dating for suggesting that taller women are generally a less feminine than shorter girls smfh. Zero room for any sort of substantive discussion there
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:12 AM
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Sure, but I'd give someone the benefit of the doubt before assuming they're assuming intellectual superiority on the basis of race or sex. A personal attack is on thing but a racist/sexist one is social and career suicide, because most wouldn't hesitate to post the convo all over the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:05 AM
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Referring to your entire clan and bloodline regardless of sex. Those are fighting words. Disgusting human being to say that kinda thing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:59 PM
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Depends on how much time I have, the variety of venues/women in the area, and whether I have a wingman to build/rebuild momentum with. Assuming you're referring to a single night
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:56 PM
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Fair enough!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:53 PM
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He must be packing a baby arm if you're carrying all that weight in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:45 PM
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I guess Mr. breadwinner should split the work 50/50 or make enough money to hire staff to take care of the menial housework she can't bother to do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:42 PM
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In my opinion they're primarily objective for people with a large audience like celebrities, models, performers, and others with very public-facing jobs. The constant feedback on their looks and its impact on their earning/networking potential makes it so they have to be objective about their appearance. For the average person it's more subjective and localized but with the ever growing prevalence of social media and dating apps and such, people are forced to rate themselves and each other more …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:46 PM
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Yeup, and it's usually the ectomorphs who eat 1000 calories a day and do lunges with 10 lb dumbbells saying that shit. It's a hassle eating a clean 2500+ calories and lifting heavy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:46 AM
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Not so much basing their value on what other people think and more like on their ability to mindfully select and (not) keep partners. It requires self awareness and sense of purpose. Just like it seems like you were mindful about your decision to get with then let go of your ex I agree that a good relationship is self evident. But someone's past is a good indicator of whether the relationship can get even better and if it's worth investing more time and energy into it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:04 AM
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My guess is it's less about surviving in the wild and more about being closer to God's image and god's beauty which means more good fortune in life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:37 AM
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You're right, I should have fleshed out the thought a bit more. My point about the weed/heroin and sad customers was to validate why men absolutely have the right to criticize some sex work Regarding the suppliers.... idk, it's like the chicken and egg. Supply drives demand and vice versa. The problem is on both sides. Sex workers and weak men both contribute to the vicious cycle of increased supply and demand. But my argument against blaming the sex worker too much is that it's possible to use …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:03 AM
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Whether a woman should lower her standards depends on whether it's more important to her to date up or have a partner/family
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:43 PM
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Idk enough about the principles of the two ideologies to speak on it but there seems to be a lot of overlap between Red Pill and TradCon. TRADitional CONservative lifestyle is a bit more women friendly for those believe in traditional gender roles. Idt there's an online community specifically for TradCons so the women co-opted the more well known Red Pill name and formed the RPW subcommunity
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 10:41 PM
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I think it's subjective, and varies case by case. In simplest terms, sex is like a drug to the people who are willing to pay for it. To some people it's like weed but to others it's like heroin. I can't speak to guys who casually see prostitutes but the internet porn addicts and porn star fans are....sad. Seeing a woman make 10k a month or something on onlyfans doesn't bother me as much as her customers do. When I think of them, I think of junkies slumped on the side of the street. Though they'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 10:11 PM
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What do you mean we'll never know? Do you never talk about past relationships and what you learned and how you grew from them? In my book repressed and suppressed memories/emotions are a red flag. Not hurting my own feelings. I'm very tactfully direct so if a women puts up huge walls so she can whitewash her history, I move on to the next. No skin off my back.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:33 PM
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What's your basis for saying this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:25 PM
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I agree that its a mistake to look at women as that shallow in regards to looks and sex. But I think what most guys are really concerned about is putting in more effort to get a woman than someone else in the past has had to. No one wants to pay a higher price for the same or worse product, or take on more responsibility than for the same or less compensation, or take one man's trash as his treasure, or buy a poorly maintained car that has a lot of miles from being leased and rented dozens of ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:31 PM
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👍🏾
/r/seduction03/03/22 06:37 AM
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Attention. Months is a long time. If you're okay giving attention, go for it. If not, send some risky texts and if they don't play along, the conversation dies and that's the end of that. If they do, you're closer to getting pussy
/r/seduction03/03/22 05:29 AM
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You've got money, play a sport, and domestic skills. A lot of guys don't have that much to offer lol. Also this is just my assumption but I imagine women in your age group are much more active on dating apps than older women purely because they have more free time and are in the party phase of their life, so your experience doesn't really compare to the older heads out here. Women become more picky and insular with age
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:01 AM
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Needs more information so we have reference points for a meaningful conversation, like your age, height, income, bio, size/density of your city, etc Also, new users get a boost so the app can boast user retention. You'll see your match rate dip eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:51 AM
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Shes being intentionally suggestive. Tell her you're not trying to be a bad influence but if one things leads to another it'll be your innocent little secret with a playful emoji like 🤫
/r/seduction03/03/22 12:48 AM
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Not a good look that you found her IG, shows that you're chasing. But if you can play it off like your curiosity got the best of you and it was ridiculously easy to find, she might look past it. After that, ask her to meet up for lunch or something. She might be the type of person who separates her day life from nightlife so you can also ask her to meet up at a bar/party, but don't go far out of your way to see her. Either way, get off social media ASAP to meet up in person, then go from there
/r/seduction03/03/22 12:42 AM
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It's gotta be something about your body language or how your conversations flow. The former is impossible to diagnose via reddit but for the convos maybe post some texts you exchange with girls
/r/seduction03/03/22 12:36 AM
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That kind of love only exists between idealistic people with a lot of disposable income. Hard to be idealistic these days with the prevalence of such broken socioeconomic systems and the dark sides of internet. It's more of a dog-eat-dog world now in the dating/mating game
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:44 PM
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