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| 20 | How do I gain back my confidence | Rant/Venting | Till_Such | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/23 02:08 AM |
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| 1 | What do you think about the idea that women may put men into two groups- those who are “hookup/ONS” material and those who are “relationship/husband” material?I showed evidence Referencing a subreddit isn't evidence. And there are happy relationships where the woman does not need provisioning from her husband. Most women are not gold diggers, dude. I never said women in transactional relationships were gold-diggers. What is up with you putting words in my mouth? Sure, there's some relationships like that, but we aren't talking about the exceptions to the rule. Ah yes, you always assume the man is doing his best. He’s never consumed by porn or finds hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 02:16 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about the idea that women may put men into two groups- those who are “hookup/ONS” material and those who are “relationship/husband” material?Centering your life around what other men got is weak. It's not about *centering* anything, it's just a disgust and a turn. It's weird how women's ego makes it to you guys being unable to stand the idea that something you could do is a turn off for men. Get over yourselves, we don't have to like anything about you and can reject you for any reason we want, just like you guys do to us. Plenty of women wouldn't date guys who were previously gay. Are they centering their lives based on what gay men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 01:54 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about the idea that women may put men into two groups- those who are “hookup/ONS” material and those who are “relationship/husband” material?That you think your wife shouldn’t enjoy sex with you says everything about how little you value her body and her commitment, and how incredibly deeply you actually value the randos you wanted to fuck. Never said this, I addressed this misunderstanding above. Good reason not to ever fuck a man too fast— he doesn’t care about you and never will. The faster he fucks you, the less he’ll respect you, the faster you spread your legs, the less value he thinks you have. If you fuck fast, he’ll throw yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 01:38 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about the idea that women may put men into two groups- those who are “hookup/ONS” material and those who are “relationship/husband” material?Roughly half the dead bedrooms sub is women sad their husbands won’t have sex with them anymore. I think you are underestimating this because you just assume all men are always generous with sex. I'm not the most keen on using subreddit demographics as a reflection of what's happening in the real world. Easy way to seek out confirmation bias in an echo chamber Interesting you switched my terms, love, affection, desire, and attention to “resources”. Tells me a lot about how you view a relationshi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 01:37 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about the idea that women may put men into two groups- those who are “hookup/ONS” material and those who are “relationship/husband” material?When I said niche topic, I could’ve sworn I said that relating to dead bedrooms. The point of the whole discussion has been about whether men also make their wives work for their affection and resources compared to hookups. I’m not gonna participate in the whole thing about if men give bad sex or aren’t great sex partners because it’s not relevant to the point. Again, whether it’s enjoyable or not, they still don’t have to work for it. That’s a whole other discussion. The whole point of the disc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 10:00 AM |
| – | What do you think about the idea that women may put men into two groups- those who are “hookup/ONS” material and those who are “relationship/husband” material?We're talking about general, not exceptions to the rule. Sure, some dead bedrooms are caused by the husband, but that's the minority. Why do yall continue to bring up examples that are too niche to be relevant? Whether the sex is enjoyable or not, she doesn't have to work to get to it. Stop moving the goalpost. Re-read what I wrote. I'm saying only a small count of men have this "hotter woman that got away." Said nothing about only a small amount of having sex. But saying that the women men end … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 10:56 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about the idea that women may put men into two groups- those who are “hookup/ONS” material and those who are “relationship/husband” material?I said she isn't working for sex, not affection. You're thinking from a 1% fallacy. Most men aren't even in the position to think about the hot one that got away because they never had a chance in the first place. There's some guys that settle down for marriage, but they had options. Most men do not. Often the girls we hookup with get don't get the affection or even respect. We save the best of what we have to offer for a woman we care about. For some reason yall hold out. Imagine a guy you were… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Men who’ve given up on dating, what’s the point of convincing internet strangers you made the right decision?Yea, but we're talking about situations where no one mentioned the short subreddit, like this one.I don't get how saying "women don't like short guys" - short sub reddit says bad stuff - this point is misogynistic When women critique men, I'm not gonna think on the feminism sub reddit as a basis to dismiss the critique as hate. You're being a 101 example of what we're talking about when it comes to not being able to critique yall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Men who’ve given up on dating, what’s the point of convincing internet strangers you made the right decision?That's cool but when the point is brought forth, it's just dismissed as misogyny and Incel talk.instead of acknowledging the truth, women will try to make it seem like they're faultless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 03:56 PM |
| – | What do you think about the idea that women may put men into two groups- those who are “hookup/ONS” material and those who are “relationship/husband” material?She’s not working for sex, she’s working for provision which is something we don’t give to hook ups | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Men who’ve given up on dating, what’s the point of convincing internet strangers you made the right decision?Why are you arbitrarily setting at 2 inches, regularly most girls will ask for guys 4-5 inches taller than them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Men who’ve given up on dating, what’s the point of convincing internet strangers you made the right decision?Because there’s not point in arguing with or discussing with them. Any type of reasonable criticism is meant with squelling and name calling. If I can’t have a reasonable critique, then might as well be petty enough to return your energy. Fuck being he bigger man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 03:59 AM |
| 1 | How do I gain back my confidenceNo I dress I guess mostly business casual with some slight “alt” inspirations. Kinda like a lot of male South Korean fashion | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/23 06:00 PM |
| 1 | How do I gain back my confidenceCan you give me some example of “fun” things that would make me more interesting? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/23 05:56 PM |
| 1 | How do I gain back my confidenceJazz mostly, which no one really cares about. Idk though, it doesn’t really seem like they care all that much whether I play music. They just don’t fuck with me. I’ve gotten some numbers and some girls have approached me, but they always end up low interest too soon as I’m trying to set a date to hangout. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/23 03:56 PM |
| 1 | How do I gain back my confidenceI’m not naive and I don’t think I’m whining, but I don’t know exactly how to not be perceived as boring. I work out, box, make money, and essentially follow the steps to improve my life and generally I’m better at being in frame on the outside than I was before. Do I have drink and smoke or do things that would be “dangerous” to be not boring. It feels like being “boring” gets me career opportunities, but being boring loses me out on girls and the vice versa happens. I don’t even believe in gett… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/23 04:37 AM |
| 1 | How do I gain back my confidenceThing is, I know I can’t compete with athletes or hyper party type of guys. I don’t even drink or smoke. So I don’t even try to mess with the obvious thot girls or the ones that look like they’d be sucked up into it. I’m a musician if that helps, but I have a more serious demeanor than fun, most people would describe me as chill. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/23 04:20 AM |
| 5 | How do I gain back my confidenceIt’s hard for me to reconcile with, “I believe those things” but also “if it was true, I wouldn’t be struggling so much”. I wanna believe those things, but if believe them in spite of my non-success with women, wouldn’t that just make me delusional? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/23 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Marriage is an L for menGuys who aren't traditional aren't even in the conversation, because those guys are already assumed to not be qualified anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Where's the insentive for a woman to have low body count?Because they knew they wouldn’t mostly likely like hearing the answer, and because they don’t have the ability to be selective about their women, are more prone to accepting that shit. They were insecure, in the fact they didn’t think they could truly state what they wanted because they were scared to have you, due to a lack of options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Where's the insentive for a woman to have low body count?It depends on your goals, if you want to end up with the best partner, you probably wanna appeal to that partner. Doesn't make sense for a guy who worked on himself to get with a woman who settled for being mediocre. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 05:55 PM |
| – | Where's the insentive for a woman to have low body count?Cope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Where's the insentive for a woman to have low body count?It's like buying the cow when the milk was being given away for free, this is what you worked for, despite it just being easy. You just end up being a sucker who overpaid for something that was cheap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Where's the insentive for a woman to have low body count?If she can't even meet the average man's opinion, why would she enter in the eye of a good one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 05:36 PM |
| 0 | Where's the insentive for a woman to have low body count?It's because they want to sleep with you so they wont ask you questions that might hurt their chances of getting in your panties | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 05:35 PM |
| 1 | POS shit mom telling kid to "be a man" and "stop being a sissy".Well it doesn’t mean you’re repressing then could you just not have those emotions. Idk why we think emotions are so black and white and if they aren’t being showed directly that means they’re obviously it’s being repressed. Emotions are nuanced and can’t be always judged from and outward appearance | /r/MensRights | 11/07/23 12:24 AM |
| 1 | What's the difference between the guys who get the girls and the guys who don't?Women never can smell that from a decent guy, but can’t smell it when it comes from assholes | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high valueTreating her like shit most of the time makes her think you’re high value. | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?I felt like leaving a comment too. It’s just that simple | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?I know it isn’t the most “well thought out” point or grounds for an argument/discussion, but I just don’t see the point nor have the energy to engage in something like that. You have an idea based off your personal experiences that I’m mostly won’t influence or change. Instead of in engaging in what’s most probably gonna be a meaningless discussion, I’d rather just express my dissatisfaction with your opinion. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | life is cruelJust say what you need to say instead of putting in unnecessary details. Her not knowing too much about you makes you attractive. Flirt a lil bit then set up a date that’s really all you should be doing. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Why do women love thugs so much?I don’t know any guys that see unconfidence in a woman as a drawback though. I’d go on a limb and say women who are too confident are undesirable to a degree. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 04:16 PM |
| -1 | girl i’m talking to sent nudes too fast and i don’t know what to thinkThey can choose not to be a slut. A spade is a spade, we’re gonna call it like it is. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?This ain’t it | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 04:01 PM |
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