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| 20 | How do I gain back my confidence | Rant/Venting | Till_Such | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/23 02:08 AM |
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| 1 | What do you think about the idea that women may put men into two groups- those who are “hookup/ONS” material and those who are “relationship/husband” material?I said she isn't working for sex, not affection. You're thinking from a 1% fallacy. Most men aren't even in the position to think about the hot one that got away because they never had a chance in the first place. There's some guys that settle down for marriage, but they had options. Most men do not. Often the girls we hookup with get don't get the affection or even respect. We save the best of what we have to offer for a woman we care about. For some reason yall hold out. Imagine a guy you were… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 08:45 PM |
| 1 | How do I gain back my confidenceNo I dress I guess mostly business casual with some slight “alt” inspirations. Kinda like a lot of male South Korean fashion | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/23 06:00 PM |
| 1 | How do I gain back my confidenceCan you give me some example of “fun” things that would make me more interesting? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/23 05:56 PM |
| 1 | How do I gain back my confidenceJazz mostly, which no one really cares about. Idk though, it doesn’t really seem like they care all that much whether I play music. They just don’t fuck with me. I’ve gotten some numbers and some girls have approached me, but they always end up low interest too soon as I’m trying to set a date to hangout. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/23 03:56 PM |
| 1 | How do I gain back my confidenceI’m not naive and I don’t think I’m whining, but I don’t know exactly how to not be perceived as boring. I work out, box, make money, and essentially follow the steps to improve my life and generally I’m better at being in frame on the outside than I was before. Do I have drink and smoke or do things that would be “dangerous” to be not boring. It feels like being “boring” gets me career opportunities, but being boring loses me out on girls and the vice versa happens. I don’t even believe in gett… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/23 04:37 AM |
| 1 | How do I gain back my confidenceThing is, I know I can’t compete with athletes or hyper party type of guys. I don’t even drink or smoke. So I don’t even try to mess with the obvious thot girls or the ones that look like they’d be sucked up into it. I’m a musician if that helps, but I have a more serious demeanor than fun, most people would describe me as chill. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/23 04:20 AM |
| 5 | How do I gain back my confidenceIt’s hard for me to reconcile with, “I believe those things” but also “if it was true, I wouldn’t be struggling so much”. I wanna believe those things, but if believe them in spite of my non-success with women, wouldn’t that just make me delusional? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/23 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Where's the insentive for a woman to have low body count?Because they knew they wouldn’t mostly likely like hearing the answer, and because they don’t have the ability to be selective about their women, are more prone to accepting that shit. They were insecure, in the fact they didn’t think they could truly state what they wanted because they were scared to have you, due to a lack of options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Where's the insentive for a woman to have low body count?It depends on your goals, if you want to end up with the best partner, you probably wanna appeal to that partner. Doesn't make sense for a guy who worked on himself to get with a woman who settled for being mediocre. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Where's the insentive for a woman to have low body count?It's like buying the cow when the milk was being given away for free, this is what you worked for, despite it just being easy. You just end up being a sucker who overpaid for something that was cheap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Where's the insentive for a woman to have low body count?If she can't even meet the average man's opinion, why would she enter in the eye of a good one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 05:36 PM |
| 0 | Where's the insentive for a woman to have low body count?It's because they want to sleep with you so they wont ask you questions that might hurt their chances of getting in your panties | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 05:35 PM |
| 1 | What's the difference between the guys who get the girls and the guys who don't?Women never can smell that from a decent guy, but can’t smell it when it comes from assholes | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high valueTreating her like shit most of the time makes her think you’re high value. | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?I felt like leaving a comment too. It’s just that simple | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?I know it isn’t the most “well thought out” point or grounds for an argument/discussion, but I just don’t see the point nor have the energy to engage in something like that. You have an idea based off your personal experiences that I’m mostly won’t influence or change. Instead of in engaging in what’s most probably gonna be a meaningless discussion, I’d rather just express my dissatisfaction with your opinion. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | life is cruelJust say what you need to say instead of putting in unnecessary details. Her not knowing too much about you makes you attractive. Flirt a lil bit then set up a date that’s really all you should be doing. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Why do women love thugs so much?I don’t know any guys that see unconfidence in a woman as a drawback though. I’d go on a limb and say women who are too confident are undesirable to a degree. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 04:16 PM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]They can choose not to be a slut. A spade is a spade, we’re gonna call it like it is. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?This ain’t it | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 04:01 PM |
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