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I've never had a male friend who didn't try to turn me into a girlfriend later. Not one. It broke my heart when I broke up with my boyfriend and all of my male friends started asking me out. I was so sad to learn I didn't have the friends I thought I did. For this reason, I never ever make male friends. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 07:54 AM
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It's an absolute pet peeve of mine when people call themselves chefs. Even an exceptionally good home cook is not a chef, it's a very very different skill set. Someone calling themselves a chef when they are not is just a flag to me that they are going to consider themselves experts in shit they know nothing about and do stupid ass stuff while thinking they're an expert.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 05:51 PM
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I don't have a link but there was a study of family court cases in a specific city that found when men petitioned for custody, 92% got at least partial custody. If a man doesn't see his children, it's because he doesn't want to or he his a horrible human being. In either case, if a man has children and he doesn't see them, he's not worth your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 05:22 PM
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Samesies. If you ask someone to a place that requires money to be and you don't pay, you're literally asking them to give you their money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 11:22 PM
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since it’s been nonstop continuous communication for 4 months, i still don’t owe him anything right? You don't owe anyone any part of you, ever. You are your own person. Your time, your emotional labor are yours and yours alone. You do not owe him ANYTHING. maybe in a few days or next week, i’ll text him “hey, thanks for everything. this relationship isn’t for me. wish you the best & more.” Don't bother. He said he was sick of you. You didn't even need to respond "i wish you the best." I'd inter…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 07:24 PM
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Also, it helps to give examples of what a boundary is. I had someone tell me that I needed better boundaries. It's such a vague term. Without a clear example of what one means when they say boundary setting, it could sound like victim blaming and sound insulting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 07:40 PM
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He's using you and making you feel insecure when you feel bad from being used. Dump him. You'll find yourself all of a sudden a lot more emotionally stable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 02:54 PM
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She should always use the name she chose for the child with the child. Then as soon as she can, go to the courts to get it changed. If it has to wait until the child is old enough to say they want that name, so be it. But never, ever call the child by the name the father gave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 05:33 PM
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There's a difference between "I do nice things for my partner because I care about them" and HARD WORK. Anyone who feels that a relationship is hard work is not in a good place. Thinking about what your partner likes and doing that shit is easy when you care. You'll note in my original comment I said people called relationships "hard work." I'm not talking about doing some nice things. I'm talking about feeling stressed by how much work you're doing for the relationship. If it feels like HARD WO…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 08:37 PM
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Sorry, I didn't mean love was enough in your selection criteria. But it was all you needed after you select for someone to keep the relationship working. If it feels like hard work to be with somebody, it's a bad fit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 02:59 PM
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They can feel love and you can feel love all you want but love that isn't backed up by actions is meaningless. All the lvms will plead that they love you and hide behind their love (forgive me for everything cos I love you!). Then they don't love you. Sorry. I really meant that if they love you, they won't ask you to work on yourself for them. You shouldn't have to ask them to change themselves for you either. If you have to, you got the wrong dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 02:53 PM
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When I got married, everyone was all like "relationships are hard work" and I was like "no, no they're not." You just fucking love each other and that's enough. If someone is making you do hard work to make the relationship work, they're trying to mold you to fit them instead of appreciating you for who you are. Now, my husband is not perfect and he does make my life harder for being in it sometimes (sometimes better, too, though). However, I am never ever working hard at our relationship. I am …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 06:23 AM
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It's so sad. Sweet and trusting should be okay things to be. :( Men ruin everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 05:11 PM
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Every guy I have ever dumped has tried to win me back. Every single one. Even ones who did shit to try to get dumped. They just don't like actually being dumped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:24 AM
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My God, and the men say that WE gossip?? Literally every general complaint men have about women is just projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 01:54 AM
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If you block someone, that means they got under your skin and the best way to get back at them is by not blocking them since that would be showing them that you care. Sounds like a very toxically masculine view of interpersonal relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 02:13 AM
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I agree with a lot of this but this Otherwise be a prostitute and just choose hot clients and get paid to do what you love. is a fundamental misunderstanding of what men use prostitutes for. Men don't hire people for casual, fun sex where the person they are paying's orgasms are cared about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 06:23 PM
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Relevant: https://www.reuters.com/article/us-partners-health/men-more-likely-than-women-to-leave-partner-with-cancer-idUSTRE5AB0C520091112
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 05:16 PM
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Hello, fellow Five-Oh'er. I, too, have spent a lot of my life looking younger than my age. This attracted a lot of pedo-y guys. A lot of much older than me dudes who wanted me to wear overalls or pig-tails. Thankfully, I now have some grey hairs and a husband but I am here to tell you your instincts are spot-on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 10:32 PM
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My husband struggles with viewpoints that differ from his Red flag!! This is the nicest way I've ever heard someone say someone is a controlling and abusive jerk. She is not allowed to have her own opinions in front of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 06:08 PM
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But marriage dynamics are very different than courtship/dating dynamics. Preach. Marriage is very different. The only advice you should accept from married women is red flags they didn't think of when they were dating but upon further reflection were real fucking signs. haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 01:01 AM
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Let's be real: he feels entitled to her money because he felt entilted to something else from her. Emotional labor, sex, what-have-you. This is an extension of whatever way he felt he could use her for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 10:09 PM
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Bad sex for men means a dissatisfying experience. Bad sex for women means pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:47 PM
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Whenever I hear a man call a woman a nag all I hear is "I don't do things I have agreed to do and I cannot be trusted to keep my word."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:37 PM
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My ex did the same thing. He claimed he had to walk faster than me so his back didn't hurt. I took a year of ballet and it increased my gait. I started being able to walk faster than him without working for it. We were walking in a city after my pace had massively increased. He fucking RAN to get ahead of me. We were walking in a city and he jogged, fucking ran to get ahead of me. He was being manipulative and controlling in other aspects of our lives. I realized when he did that that all of the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:57 AM
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