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| 6 | Great Date, No Text Back (M)Too anxious and your played your hand too quickly. Way too quickly. Let them text back first - always Just go silent now and see if she responds. Chalk it up to experience. | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 08:55 PM |
| 6 | Question: do guys here legitimately believe women have to be "earned?"Do you even know who Justin Bieber is? 🤔 | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 12:00 PM |
| 8 | Some girls will just take your energy and timeIf you ask her to meet up and she comes up with excuses, especially 2 times. Someone can free their for another person if they really want to If most of the conversation is on the phone then bro, you are in a bad situation. If she flirts, but dont admit that she actually likes you. These three especially are bad signs. If she wants to hang out she can make time. No one is that busy where they can't make time they choose not to. If they're talking only on the phone on through social media they co… | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 11:55 AM |
| 1 | What to say when a woman mentions her weight or wanting to lose weightYou need to do what makes you happy. Stop seeking validation from others | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 08:05 AM |
| 3 | Does ignoring girls work?Well, I think we both won, 99. Give me your number and I’ll take you out for a drink next week and we’ll discuss all of this. (Wrong platform, sorry 🤣🤣🤣) | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 09:13 PM |
| 3 | Does ignoring girls work?Perfect response, 99Perfect99 😉 | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Does ignoring girls work?Perfectly put. My thoughts exactly | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 08:51 PM |
| 7 | Does ignoring girls work?It’s a mindfuck. And I set the same rules. Personal experience here, I have wasted weeks texting then finally asking myself what I am trying to achieve by doing this. I told a woman I met last Tuesday at her house after we hooked up to contact me when she got back from a trip she was on. I then texted her the same next morning- she agreed. She’s been silent since Sunday. And I have seen her online. I have my answer from her silence, but I will not contact her again. But of course be “unperturbed… | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 08:35 PM |
| 4 | Does ignoring girls work?What does the direct question of “Let me know when you’re free to get together?” Make you feel? If the ball is in your court and a kind of radio silence is implied until you get back. What’s going on in your mind? I’m not talking about a text being left on read, or a call going unresponded to | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Does ignoring girls work?This is the way. I’d call back as well - but only with the aim of asking - quickly - how things are going. And to set up the next date. Be unresponsive to the idea of being text or phone buddies. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 08:15 PM |
| 10 | Does ignoring girls work?And that - believe me - works as a filter to weed out the uninterested. A simple “Let me know when you’re free next week to meet up?” “I’m too busy with work to talk, but contact me in a few days and we can sort a meet up” Then maintaining radio silence will ensure only those interested will get back. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 08:11 PM |
| 2 | HUGE TIP: If you lack the confidence to cold approach, just smile and wave. 7/10 times they will start a convoYeah. Smiling and waving would probably result in some … unasked questions | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 01:26 PM |
| 2 | I‘m kinda lost on what to do.Mate, you’ve mentioned blocking twice in this. Let’s chill a little If she has time next Saturday- set a date and then totally disengage until then. If the situation with the other guy is too much, next her. | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 12:22 AM |
| 0 | Most of you are too mentally ill to helpWhy do you care so much? This is just a subreddit about what is effectively psychology, and in large about self-improvement. I’m sorry someone is forcing you to read the content here | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | She seems interested in real life, but not through texts.I think you should talk to others. Stop trying to understand her text game, it’s a waste of time. Stop initiating with her. | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 10:29 PM |
| 3 | I’m confident in myself and feel like a total package man — but my marketing sucks.Just relax and listen. For example if you’re sitting next to a woman you’re attracted to, get closer to hear her. Maintain eye contact. Gentle touches of her leg, her arm while you’re agreeing / sympathising with whatever she’s saying will create tension. Try to break out of the friendzone and set yourself apart from others. You’re trying to escalate tension and get her to be into you and trust you. Basically flirt and if you are calm and chill - use your listening skills to go back to a point i… | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 09:30 PM |
| 29 | I’m confident in myself and feel like a total package man — but my marketing sucks.You need to be bold. Be audacious. Let go of whatever is holding you back. Just say whatever comes into your mind. Don’t try and befriend them or else the friendzone will welcome you with open arms, state your intentions from the get-go. | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Where did i screw up? should i continue?You just got played by a player. Why? That’s her problem. Move on. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 02:22 PM |
| 5 | Should ask for name after I asked her out and she has a bf?Leave it. She has a bf. Don’t be that guy | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 09:32 PM |
| 2 | How you respond to this kinda textShe’s looking for you to basically tell her how you would dominate her. May your sexting game be strong my dude. “Let’s meetup at my place and I’ll show you how I’d keep you under control” etc etc | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 09:14 PM |
| -1 | Any tips for going out with the intention of day gaming?People just go to these places to buy their stuff and leave. If badly organised, they are trying to remember what they need. The setting is nowhere near optimal. Go to bars. | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 12:26 PM |
| 3 | Why is she telling me that and how to go about this shit test?“Stop telling me about these people because it’s extremely disrespectful and you’re not meeting my standards. You need to learn how to respect me or you can go” If it keeps happening, next her | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Does pursuing/double texting always kill the game?I like this. It’s witty and doesn’t show any neediness. The flip side of “WHY YOU NOT RESPONDED?????!!!!!” “WHERE ARR YOU!!??” Yep, never go near that level | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 04:09 PM |
| 80 | What works well for nighttime dates Other than bars?That’s second date stuff | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 03:44 PM |
| 73 | What works well for nighttime dates Other than bars?Dinner dates can be expensive. Careful of setting high expectations of how things will roll in future. Somewhere fun - bowling, mini-golf, a walk. There is the option to go for a coffee or to a juice bar afterwards. Or bail if the vibe isn’t right. | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 02:45 PM |
| 1 | how to get over oneitis?That first video is gold | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 10:41 AM |
| 29 | things were going great and I told her my love for herNeed to give her time and space here. She’s laid her cards on the table and told you how she feels. Maybe the awkwardness will pass, maybe not. Give it time. | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 10:16 AM |
| 4 | Things were going great, then she withdrew. What do I do next.Your text should have basically offered sympathy for the car situation, but more importantly another time and date to meet. Always be escalating! Don’t beat yourself up about the how’s or why’s - move onto the next. She gone. She gone. | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 08:53 AM |
| 4 | how to get over oneitis?Don’t allow them to orbit you. Cut all contact for your own sanity. It’s called limerence and will fuck you up - been there done that. Literally start talking to other people now. Surround yourself with several other options simultaneously and you’ll start to forget and heal. | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 08:37 AM |
| 11 | Feels like time is running outThis sub is absolutely fascinating. You have literally decades ahead of you to improve in all manner of ways. Don’t pressure yourself because that will show to the outside world. Relax. Abundance mindset, as I read on here so much, and it’s true. | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 08:22 AM |
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