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| 3 | Do you think it is creepy to join hobby groups or meetups with the intent to date?You may do that. I joined community theater because I enjoy acting. Dating one of the actresses was a fine side benefit, but the main draw was I like doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 09:39 PM |
| 3 | The current generation of daters are frustrated and entitled because we are in an uncomfortable transition period where what was standard, successful monogamy, is now the exceptionDon't forget microplastics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 09:27 PM |
| 1 | What's stopping society from going back to an era where people prioritized meeting in person and took a more diligent effort to get to really get to know someone through long term relationship oriented values?You are vastly, VASTLY overestimating the number of women on Discord and who play video games. As for Instagram, only the "models" get tons of unsolicited DMs from people they don't know. Yeah, if she's out posting thirst traps and promoting herself, she'll probably meet guys on Instagram. But a normal girl posting normal things isn't getting any more DM's from strangers than you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 09:19 PM |
| 1 | What's stopping society from going back to an era where people prioritized meeting in person and took a more diligent effort to get to really get to know someone through long term relationship oriented values?For now, maybe. I honestly don't think that the apps will ever be more popular than they are right now. It's been too monetized, too commercialized, and most guys don't see enough success to justify the time and money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 09:14 PM |
| 1 | What's stopping society from going back to an era where people prioritized meeting in person and took a more diligent effort to get to really get to know someone through long term relationship oriented values?Nope. Only 20% of couples under 30 in LTR met online. Dating apps are for hookups and always have been. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 09:09 PM |
| 7 | Do you think it is creepy to join hobby groups or meetups with the intent to date?It is ridiculously obvious when someone really isn't interested in the group activity and is just there to try to get laid. If you love dancing or want to learn to dance, for example, joining a swing dance class isn't creepy because you want to learn that thing. You're engaging in the lesson, you're trying to get better. The women there will see that and will be less likely to label you as "the creep who joined a dance class to touch women." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Admitting something I have noticed as a woman myself: Many women take it really personally and get annoyed if an attractive man ends up dating someone below his "league" looks wise. Is it the same for men?Chris Evans > Chris Hemsworth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Escorts are Men’s Best Option (Unless You Want Kids)I'm sorry, but no love is unconditional. If my wife suddenly became a horrible person, or if she started treating me poorly, I wouldn't love her anymore. If my son turned out to be a serial rapist, I wouldn't love him anymore. If my dad turned out to be a Neo-Nazi, I wouldn't love him anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Admitting something I have noticed as a woman myself: Many women take it really personally and get annoyed if an attractive man ends up dating someone below his "league" looks wise. Is it the same for men?Yeah. These guys don't respect boundaries. They'd try to steal Chris Hemsworth's girl if he though she was hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Prostitution should be legalizedAgain... just jerk it. Boom! No more lust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Prostitution should be legalizedIf it's just about getting your rocks off, then just jerk it. Cheaper than a hooker, and just as many emotions involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 06:16 PM |
| 4 | The Redpill is to dating what sovereign citizens are to lawI don't know about you, but most pretty 19 year olds are DEFINITELY interested in 40 year old, overweight, assistant managers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Prostitution should be legalizedThe draw of sex for most men is the idea of being "chosen" or "worthy." That this woman chose you over all of her other options because she thought that you were the best. Paying for it negates that entire rush. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Single mothers symbolize something deeply painful to a lot of menThis whole "nice guys finish last" bs is so obnoxious. Gosh, it's almost like as our circumstances change, and our needs change, that what we desire in a partner changes. When I was 20 I really liked party girls. Strippers, rave girls, the like. I loved the aesthetic, the freedom, the challenge, the drama. That's not who I married a decade later. Because as I got older, I realized that those traits and attitudes don't make for a good long term partner. I married pretty much the exact opposite. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 05:58 PM |
| 1 | The Redpill is to dating what sovereign citizens are to lawLol. What are you on about? This is completely off topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 05:52 PM |
| -3 | The Redpill is to dating what sovereign citizens are to lawWhat argument could I possibly make? Even if you were telling the truth, which you're not, these things are decided on a rubric. The judge isn't out here making judgement calls. It's a calculation based on current potential income. It's not perfect, but it is a "one size fits most." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 05:49 PM |
| 5 | The Redpill is to dating what sovereign citizens are to lawNotice how they ignore the times when the woman out earns the man and ends up "losing" money in the divorce. Meanwhile, these same "men" that complain about a woman "taking everything in divorce" are the same ones to say "I don't care how much a woman earns. I'd marry a Target cashier if she was a pretty, submissive, 19yo virgin!" Sorry, bro, you don't get to marry a 19yo with no education or career, pump her full of babies, make her stay home, then expect her and the kids to be homeless when sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 05:44 PM |
| -2 | The Redpill is to dating what sovereign citizens are to lawWell, that makes sense. It's about current earning ability, not a decade ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 05:40 PM |
| 3 | The Redpill is to dating what sovereign citizens are to lawMeanwhile, actual statistics show that if you marry someone in your own socio-economic level with their own career, you won't have this problem! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Does "Choose better" assume there's an abundance of good options?Lol. You don't just get to redefine terms to suit your narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 05:37 PM |
| 4 | The Redpill is to dating what sovereign citizens are to lawWell, that's what happens when you "don't care about a woman's career. I'll marry a barista and let her be a stay at home mom." All the power to you, but you can't marry a waitress, pump her full of babies, never let her build a career, then expect her to just be homeless when the marriage ends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Does "Choose better" assume there's an abundance of good options?What are you even talking about? 75% of children grow up in dual parent households. Of that remaining 25%, only about half are not receiving their full child support. So... 13% of women who are parents reproduced with deadbeats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Does "Choose better" assume there's an abundance of good options?I'm sorry, are you implying that women love guys who sit on the couch all day playing WoW? That's a new one. Nothing makes a woman hotter than an E-Sports LoL gamer. Pro athletes and rock stars have nothing on... some guy playing Fortnite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Does "Choose better" assume there's an abundance of good options?Most of the ones who are, are doing it for female validation subconsciously. But most are not doing it all. This has never stopped anyone from getting laid Women have consistently stated across numerous studies and polls that video gaming is one of the least attractive hobbies a man can have. I know feminists dude who do embraced the movement just to pull women. You should look at some of the feminists who call men out for this behavior And yet most of the people here are doing the exact opposit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Does "Choose better" assume there's an abundance of good options?Then why aren't they going to the gym? Why aren't they putting down the controller? Why aren't they embracing liberal ideologies? All of these things would increase their odds of getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Does "Choose better" assume there's an abundance of good options?Source? Also, going to the gym is not a personality trait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Does "Choose better" assume there's an abundance of good options?The science doesn't back that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Does "Choose better" assume there's an abundance of good options?Please. Your personality is pretty much set for life by 1st Grade. Source Your personality is largely determined by your genetics and early childhood. You don't go from someone who cares about other people to a total asshole just because you saw someone get laid while being an asshole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 02:40 PM |
| 0 | What going to happen to the dating scene in 10 to 20 years?It's not muh feels. It's muh observations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 12:35 AM |
| 0 | What going to happen to the dating scene in 10 to 20 years?That's exactly what I'm implying. I look around at most young men today, and I'm honestly disappointed. They don't dress like adults; they live in gym shorts and hoodies, even though most don't step foot in a gym. They're flabby, ungroomed, and their facial hair looks like someone glued pubes to their face. Fifteen to twenty years ago, we spent time, money and effort trying to look and smell good. That's not to mention their "hobbies." I use the term loosely, because is sitting in front of a tv … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 10:52 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Does "Choose better" assume there's an abundance of good options?Please. I've been on this Earth long enough to know that people don't need an excuse to act like selfish, entitled assholes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 08:37 PM |
| 1 | What going to happen to the dating scene in 10 to 20 years?I'm sorry, are you honestly trying to tell me that 80% of couples under 30 have been dating for a decade? Seriously? The mental gymnastics you folks will do to avoid touching grass is honestly astounding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 04:48 AM |
| 2 | What going to happen to the dating scene in 10 to 20 years?Not only is my study more complete than yours, it's also more recent. Furthermore, mine focuses on couples that actually stayed together longer. So, again, OLD is good for flings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 04:29 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: Does "Choose better" assume there's an abundance of good options?Funny. I'm none of these things and I never had any trouble dating pretty girls. I'm short (5'6"), to boot. And, no, I'm not ridiculously good looking. I'm above average in the face, but not excessively so. My best qualities are dependability, charisma, and honesty. There are plenty of women out there looking for a funny, genuine, responsible guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.And I'm saying that if you can get her to cum at all, you're already better than most of the men she's had sex with. Again, for most women, sex is 90% mental. It's about connection and emotions. If she really likes you, she won't care how you make her orgasm. The fact that she really likes you and that you can make her cum will be more than enough. You're trying so hard to make it about dick size, but at the end of the day... most women just want to have good, satisfying sex with someone they ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 04:10 AM |
| – | What going to happen to the dating scene in 10 to 20 years?Source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.Okay? And I'm saying that you don't need any of those things to be good or even great in bed. Also, the vaginal fornix can be injured in penetrative sex. So that's a double edged sword. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 03:47 AM |
| – | What going to happen to the dating scene in 10 to 20 years?Bullshit Pew Research "One-in-ten adults who are partnered – that is, they are married, living with a partner or in a committed romantic relationship – say they met this person on a dating site or app. The share rises to 20% of partnered adults under 30 who say online dating brought them together; about a quarter of LGB partnered adults say the same." 20% of couples under 30 met online. The other 80% did not. Online dating is great for attractive guys to find ONS or casual flings. It's the only … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 03:39 AM |
| – | What going to happen to the dating scene in 10 to 20 years?Worked for me. Works for tons of men. Will this advice turn you into a Casanova, able to bed tons of beautiful women with ease? No. But it will help you find love and partnership. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.Did you not read my first post? Pubmed Source While 18.4% of women reported that intercourse alone was sufficient for orgasm, 36.6% reported clitoral stimulation was necessary for orgasm during intercourse, and an additional 36% indicated that, while clitoral stimulation was not needed, their orgasms feel better if their clitoris is stimulated during intercourse. Seems to me that women prefer clitoral stimulation. Journal of Sexual Medicine Second Pubmed Source Fewer than 20% of women preferred … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 03:32 AM |
| – | What going to happen to the dating scene in 10 to 20 years?"People keep giving me the same advice over and over, but they're all wrong!" Uh-huh. That's the rational takeaway here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.Lol. Or maybe it's that vaginas are different, just like penises. I've given women vaginal orgasms, and other women I've had to have a little "help." Idc either way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.Most women get off from emotional connection during sex. It's 90% mental. That's why foreplay is important. It's why so many women aren't "in the mood" very often when their partners don't help around the house. Women are less likely to be aroused when stressed. The fact of the matter is that the G spot is only 2-3 inches deep. So as long as you're longer than that, and you're thicker than a finger, you're fine physically. Furthermore, only 18.4% of women, when surveyed, reported being able to o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 02:00 AM |
| -5 | What going to happen to the dating scene in 10 to 20 years?I swear, most guys on here have never talked to a woman in their life. Most women aren't on dating apps. Most women aren't finding their partners in bars or clubs. They're not finding their partners from being cold approached or "meet cutes." Most people find their SO's through their social network. Your friend has a girlfriend, she has friends, and you end up clicking with one of them at a party or something. Or through work. Or through school. Or through special interest groups, like cooking c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 01:43 AM |
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