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Time-Astronomer-145/r/RedPillWives28/03/21 06:53 PM
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ADVICETime-Astronomer-145/r/RedPillWives14/01/21 04:50 PM
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No helper or anyone else in the relationship! You’ll set yourself up for a world of hurt. You could probably find a woman with equally low drive. Many women have low sex drives.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/21 10:59 AM
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You can still get married and have kids. There are plenty of men who would still want to marry you. I would get into therapy, surround yourself with friends and family, and focus on your hobbies and being healthy. Pray about it.
/r/RPChristians22/06/21 08:45 PM
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I’m in my late 20s.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/21 12:57 AM
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We go to a Southern Baptist church in the South, and I’ve met lots of conservative women friends! It also helps being married and having kids. I’m a stay at home mom and get a new moms phone number almost every week, just by going to the park.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/21 12:57 AM
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Well done! I love what you said - we can still be submissive and expect respect from our husbands. Wise beyond your years, love! I hope things continue to go well after the talk!
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/21 03:49 AM
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This was such a good response. You are right.. I oftentimes do feel protective of other women, and I didn’t really consider why he might be doing this. I was just so upset for her.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/21 01:16 AM
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And pray for him, there is power in a praying wife. Be direct with him about how inappropriate this is from an objective point of view, and also how upset it makes you feel. We had struggles early on in our marriage too. It doesn’t mean you’re doomed. 🤍
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/21 05:48 PM
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He is married to you. He made a vow to love you and to be sexually faithful with you until death do you part. Infidelity always starts with thoughts, he is on a dangerous path here. It is unacceptable for him to be sending you pictures of other women. He needs to unfollow them and stop immediately. This is disgusting behavior no matter what you looked like, definitely not the behavior of a good husband. I would talk to someone at church, his family, his close friends, someone who can talk to him…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/21 05:43 PM
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When my husband asks me or tells me to do something I don’t want to do, I first just hold my tongue and do it.. then later I’ll ask him (nicely) about it. I tell him I want to understand, and he explains it. Usually it’s because he was trying to protect me or look out for me or help me in some way. Men have a different perspective than women, he’s more practical and I often let emotions affect my judgement. Sometimes, if I still don’t agree, I just remember it’s coming from a place of love and t…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/21 06:47 PM
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Peach fuzz? My peach fuzz is blonde and tiny. You’d have to look hard to see it during sex. This is so strange! If you were covered in dark, thick hair all over, that’d be one thing, but even babies and kids have peach fuzz. No one is hairless like it seems he wants.
/r/RedPillWives06/06/21 01:10 PM
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It sounds like you’re doing everything right! I am SO sorry your ex-husband did that to you... what a HORRIBLE man to film and share intimate videos of his own wife.. that is so degrading and abusive. You’re so right you seek out therapy for this. Joining a church with a women’s Bible study/women’s ministry to meet other Christian women and make friends who will be good influences is a great idea too. You’re so young and have all your life ahead of you. “What the Enemy meant for evil, God will u…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/21 07:29 PM
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Through mutual friends, we were invited to a pool party.
/r/RedPillWives22/05/21 12:28 PM
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This is an excellent list!
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/21 02:19 AM
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I really don’t think this is that weird. Is he from a small town? Did he lose a lot of weight? Was he super focused on his job? Has he done a lot of traveling? There could be a lot of reasons for this, and men don’t need to be in a rush to find a partner because their fertility doesn’t decline like ours does. I wouldn’t get hung up on this, you’ll get a better understanding of it as the relationship progresses.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/21 02:23 AM
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I think you are already leaps and bounds ahead of other women on this because you show a desire to take care of the family and the home! That’s such a great quality and desire to have, and the more you foster it, the more you’ll grow and develop into it. As a SAHM, I have accepted that my “job” is the home and the kids. He works, I work, and I don’t expect him to do his job plus mine. However, I don’t know how this would work if you are working outside the home. But I do think it’s a step in the…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/21 03:05 PM
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Such a great idea! I’ve been wearing more skorts lately while I take my kids to the park too!
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/21 09:52 PM
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Your husband married you and loves you for more than just your body. Your body will change so much throughout the course of your life. He loves you for you. Any guy who strays from a wife after having a baby because she doesn’t “look good” yet is a jerk. It’s one thing to gain 100 pounds and be a slob and not care about your looks for the rest of your life. That’s obviously not you. Remember he chose you and you are worthy of being loved, beyond having a perfect body. ❤️ I’m sure you have an ama…
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/21 09:06 PM
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Having a baby will change your body temporarily, and you -just- had a baby. I was amazed by 6, 9, and 12 months postpartum how my body had gone back to normal, and I unfortunately gained a ton of weight unlike you. You obviously did a good job of staying in shape and I’m sure it will take you less time. I know 6-12 months might sound long right now, but in the grand scheme of things, it goes by SO fast. Babies grow up so quickly. I don’t even look like I had kids, and I’m 1.5 years postpartum. Y…
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/21 03:48 PM
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You definitely have the gift of self awareness and the desire to change! It takes a good amount of humility to look inward and reflect on the qualities you want to change about yourself. You also sound young. When I was a teenager, I was obnoxious, always had to have a say, had lots of strong opinions. As I got into my 20s, I realized I didn’t know everything and had been put into my place several times (through experiences at work, social situations, school, etc). Now that I’m married, with kid…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/21 08:02 PM
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I do often feel like I have to walk on eggshells around him. It’s the same way with his parents too, he absolutely learned it from them. My toxic in laws are a whole other issue.
/r/RedPillWives28/03/21 10:51 PM
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Thank you very much for this thoughtful response! I really appreciate it and it’s given me something new to think about. I can probably do a better job of helping him understand that I love him and I’m on his side.
/r/RedPillWives28/03/21 10:49 PM
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I just feel selfish because he gives us everything we could want and need, it’s specifically when it comes to his parents that I have no say. And he agrees they’re our biggest stressor. I will keep praying for God to change his heart on this. It’s really becoming stressful for me and my side of my family is noticing too.
/r/RedPillWives14/01/21 08:09 PM
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It’s definitely the biggest stressor in our marriage. His parents are highly sensitive and his mom has bipolar disorder, so if we didn’t come along, it would be taken as a huge insult. I suggested marriage counseling multiple times but he adamantly refuses.
/r/RedPillWives14/01/21 05:41 PM
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I should have mentioned that his dad is a doctor and works a busy schedule, and their invitations to visit them always come at the last minute (1-3 days before they invite us). It’s always last minute, hence the cancelling and lack of planning.
/r/RedPillWives14/01/21 05:21 PM
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👏👏 some people don’t understand that people can change... or maybe they’re jealous of it
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/20 02:47 AM
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