| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to lose | CMV | Time-Light | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 09:07 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat parties That’s a sweet story. Wish I could get a woman a deli sandwich. I used to get women gifts and flowers and all that, and it made me feel great. But I would never do it now, and not for the reasons you think By doing any of that, I would be personally enforcing the patriarchy onto someone I could potentially care about. So you see, she’s much better off at a distance, ignored but safe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm a guy who had a "harem" at one point but I gave all that up a few years ago to pursue feminist values. I would love to ask a woman out for a deli sandwich but now I'm so caught up in checking my male gaze, making sure to never sexualize women or objectify women or micro oppress them, it's not really possible at this point I can tell with the deli sandwich thing that you're thinking of a specific person and a specific situation. I hope that happens for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDear men: Interacting with a woman in any way other than distant and platonic is a form of micro aggression or even possibly sexual violence. If you care about women's issues, what's the best thing you can do? Nothing. Don’t let women know you’re interested. Don’t smile, don’t stay too long, don’t stand too close. These women have endured enough. If they were interested, or open to your signals, they would let you know - clearly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 04:03 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseFrom an evolutionary perspective, the male provides. All women are worth 6+ figures because that's how much it costs to raise one child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 10:02 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseWym | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 09:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseThere’s no “math” it’s just recognizing your self worth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 04:37 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseWtf I don’t have anything in common with those bozos. I’ve never been on that sub but I can tell from the name it’s probably a misogynistic shitshow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 04:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseYes I agree with all of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 04:19 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to lose“Truth hurts” - Lizzo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 01:35 AM |
| 9 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseThat’s a small minority, most single women don’t care anymore and are perfectly happy. They’re starting to discover what men always feared: they don’t need them in their lives! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 01:32 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseThank you!! I’ve said this over and over in this thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 01:30 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseDoesn’t matter, you could land one anyway. Believe in yourself, see that you are worth enough. See “humor and good company” can be provided by good friends, minus all the risks and baggage I’m a guy and I personally have sworn off dating until I make 6 figures because I don’t want to waste any more women’s time. Why would I spend even a second with them as the caterpillar, when I’ll be the butterfly in around 5 years anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 01:29 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseI agree and I just want women to reevaluate their standards for men, and to always err on the side of caution in today’s dating scene. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 01:15 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to losePossible =/= probable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 01:13 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseI think that’s what happened to me but now I’m in too deep to get out because this is the only kind of feminism I know. I’m willing to accept this is a possibility. C’est la vie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 01:12 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseYou have no studies to back that up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 01:08 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseGaslit by the patriarchy But in all seriousness good for you if that’s the case. I’m just saying women are in a great position now where it’s socially acceptable to be financially independent, so they need to start rethinking why they want to date in the first place, and what their standards of men are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 01:06 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseI love this overdramatic “We’ll go extinct!!!” response people inevitably give every time. No, we fucking won’t. There are so many religious groups who will never, ever stop encouraging 12 children per family. Like seriously lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 01:01 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseWell, that’s good. I’m glad your dad was a good man. But it’s a crapshoot. You probably grew up around lots of other kids whose fathers were horrible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 10:34 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseLiterally feeding the men with nutrients produced from their own bodies. Lmfao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 10:33 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseHow do you know I’m “among the rich?” Nothing I’ve said has anything to do with social status | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 10:31 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to losePut a dildo on the jar. Pop, there it goes. You’re welcome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 10:30 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseRead romance novels and get your fix from that. I think the vast majority of men today are incapable of providing even a baseline level of romance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 10:28 PM |
| -4 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseWomen provide value. Their beauty, their sensitivity, their curiosity, their higher standards of hygiene and living. Men scream at the TV and drink beer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 10:25 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseWay to make it personal, buddy. But I’ve gone through all of it. Dated women, a few women, sometimes at the same time. Fulfilled some “red pill male” fantasies. It was all pointless. It was fun in the moment, but not much else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 10:21 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseBoom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 10:12 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseWell, you rolled the dice and it worked out for you. Many, many other women cannot say the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 10:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseBecause society / the patriarchy tell them to! But this whole thing is about, if more women really sat down and weighed the pros and cons, they probably wouldn’t date another man in their life. Because it’s just not really fair to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 10:08 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseI don’t understand what you’re getting at | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 10:06 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseThere’s so much risk for straight women in the dating market, of course it should be transactional for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 10:05 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseOn your last point: Men are in nowhere near as much physical/emotional danger when they date as women are. Any source will tell you this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 09:56 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseI’m a male feminist, not a femcel. Sorry to ruin it for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 09:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseI disagree. The feminism movement gave women the strength to start seeing our society’s dating dynamics for what they really are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 09:50 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseRun it under hot water, the heat expands the metal. Dry it off. Rubber band around the lid for grip, pop there it goes. You’re welcome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 09:47 PM |
| -12 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseSociety tells women to want men. But if women resisted this conditioning, they would avoid years of potential abuse and trauma that so many women endure in the dating scene. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 09:46 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseExactly. It’s filled with confusion, mixed signals, and unnecessary drama because most men don’t understand the fundamentals of socializing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 09:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseThere is the risk of physical and emotional danger that is inherent in dating men. Why “just have fun” in such a circumstance, when you can have fun with your friends instead and know you’ll be safe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 09:38 PM |
| -8 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseMaybe she wants to, because this is what human society reinforces. She watched Disney movies as a kid, where the men were depicted as honorable, from royal families, brave, and respectful. Very few of these men exist in real life. And the ones who do exist are perpetually in relationships, constantly surrounded by women who see their value and are scheming to date them. So this hypothetical young woman is unlikely to ever meet her prince charming anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 09:36 PM |
| 2 | How do you know when you’ve hit the wall?Why don’t more women view the wall as just the next phase in their life? Before the wall, you’re at your peak in terms of attracting a partner, you’re at your biological peak if you want to have a child without complications. It’s the phase where you’re meant to find a mate and have children, if that’s what you want to do After the “wall”, it’s the phase where you’re meant to be a guardian, a teacher. Your looks fade because you don’t need them anymore, you’ve found a partner and had your childr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/07/23 09:51 PM |
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