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| 2 | Do I act like it’s a date?I would Never make a move on the first date, but try and get her intentions on the first date | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 01:24 PM |
| 0 | Should one wait it out and see if she initiates after a date?Well it worked for me, so instead of saying “no” be more lenient. Plus, you just described what every woman and man has been complaining about 😂 | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 10:40 PM |
| -2 | Should one wait it out and see if she initiates after a date?Text good morning and good night every night. If she doesn’t initiate then communicate with her about it “I don’t feel we’re going anywhere if I have to initiate convos” you can say that after talking and building up to it | /r/seduction | 20/06/21 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Asked girl who is older than me by 10yrs outNo problem | /r/seduction | 29/11/20 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Asked girl who is older than me by 10yrs outYou gotta make plans and make it clear you’re going on a date | /r/seduction | 29/11/20 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Ideal city for young menChicago and NY is rampant with crime and murder. Miami is the place to go, the city is well connected, rarely much traffic and women are very pretty | /r/seduction | 08/11/20 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Need help flirting while hanging out with a girlComments that would make you sound weak, not confident or dumb. Never mention anything boring, economy, politics or religion. Women hate that shit | /r/seduction | 14/09/20 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Need help flirting while hanging out with a girl“If I fall will you catch me?” Flirting gotta be a moment thing, it’s gotta be pushy, a little aggressive (in style) and it’s gotta make her laugh. Don’t make stupid comments and don’t tell her she’s beautiful cause that’s what she wants to hear and the second you say that in most cases you’re fucked and sound like a simp. 😔 | /r/seduction | 14/09/20 03:04 PM |
| 1 | How should I (28) ask her (23) out?Ask for her social media account, and ask her out casually, like “do you like eating? Lets go have dinner at a place I like to eat” or “Can’t seem to remember the last time I went for some good burgers, wanna join me?” | /r/seduction | 13/09/20 11:50 PM |
| 5 | Is dating completely fucking doomed for men?First off, tinder is not for dating, its more for just looking at hot girls or guys, meeting is a whole ‘nother level. Second, you want to date someone, go out more and talk with people, read them and then decide if you should ask them out or not | /r/seduction | 05/08/20 03:39 AM |
| 0 | How to make a date with a friend feel like a date rather than just two friends hanging out?You need to make jokes you normally don’t tell your friends. | /r/seduction | 01/08/20 10:40 PM |
| 1 | What do you say when asked "what are you thinking?"?How about moving it to my room, then make out again, then go for pants, if she says no or not today than stop doing it | /r/seduction | 29/07/20 09:10 PM |
| -2 | What do you say when asked "what are you thinking?"?That would be called simping, or being a simp. You gotta be more direct in a kinky way | /r/seduction | 29/07/20 09:09 PM |
| 1 | What do you say when asked "what are you thinking?"?Whats the context? | /r/seduction | 29/07/20 07:50 PM |
| 1 | how to ask a girl out from your social circle without being akward and creepy?Ask her to hang out alone | /r/seduction | 28/07/20 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Girls flake when trying to set up date 2Tell her “I’m not looking for anything either, I just really like seeing you” | /r/seduction | 06/07/20 08:31 PM |
| 1 | I'm straight but I attract more gays than females. What is going on?Women will almost NEVER give you that attention, they will look at you and thats all they will do. Men are more direct, but its good gay people find you attractive, that means women find you to. If you wanna know if a girl likes you, look at her while she’s looking at you and give her a smile, if she smiles back, you’ve hooked her up. | /r/seduction | 19/05/20 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Girl i approached ignored me comepletly but later stands besides me out of nowhere, why?Only approach when she’s alone. And do it in appropriate places | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Girl i approached ignored me comepletly but later stands besides me out of nowhere, why?I would not recommend starting with hello and your name, even though thats what normal people do, I would make a comment and get the conversation started and then say, btw im Joe. | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 04:08 PM |
| -4 | Girl messaged me out of nowhere, and then left me on read when I repliedNo, wait a few days. Then answer, depends on what she wrote tbh | /r/seduction | 09/04/20 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Need tips for a first dateAlso make sure you want something from it like dating. But don’t pressure her or she will fuck off | /r/seduction | 15/03/20 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Need tips for a first dateIts pretty easy. Things to look for: If shes looking at you If she wants to get out of there If she makes conversation or she’s just there for the free coffee If she’s close to you or has her distance If talks more or is quiet Now these are somethings that might send a message of attractiveness, but might also mean she’s very friendly. Make sure she knows you’re interested in her, no point in hiding it | /r/seduction | 15/03/20 05:32 AM |
| 1 | What should I do?You waited to long. | /r/seduction | 15/03/20 05:10 AM |
| 1 | How do you approach at Nightclubs?Go to bars, less louder music and people can hear the british accent. Good luck mate | /r/seduction | 14/03/20 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Good first date ideas?Take her to the beach during the day, if not then a park and have lunch there | /r/seduction | 14/03/20 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching in a Club.Pick the one you like and separate her and ask for a dance | /r/seduction | 14/03/20 12:12 AM |
| 1 | What did my female friend mean by this?You can, usually if she has something nice for you its a sign from god to make a move | /r/seduction | 02/02/20 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Need helpDont confuse kindness with liking you. And chose your words carefully when talking with her | /r/seduction | 01/02/20 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Sitting side by side vs across the table on first date?If its possible to sit next to each other than no question about it 😅 | /r/seduction | 24/01/20 10:16 PM |
| 5 | Keep attempting or just leave itOne night stand | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 02:04 AM |
| 1 | I'm getting no matches/likes, what is wrong with me?Look at her reactions to the communication, is she looking at your eyes, is she trying to avoid you, is she trying to be part of the communication or just talking while doing exercise. If you think she likes you then just ask if she has social media, you need to risk things to get to where you want to go | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 04:01 PM |
| 1 | I'm getting no matches/likes, what is wrong with me?No its not, I’ve added lots of people to social media and there can be something or to be friends. Just don’t come out of the blue with it or you will give away you’re interested in her, start with other conversations and then ask her | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 03:52 PM |
| 1 | I'm getting no matches/likes, what is wrong with me?Ask for social media first. Get confortable there and then ask her out. Ask her what she’s doing in the weekend and then the question | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Girl in classEasily thing to say would be to study together, first time you ask her for her social network, then you check if she has a picture with a guy or a bf, if no then you make your move, always talk about something fun before asking her out that way she feels more comfortable | /r/seduction | 16/01/20 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Is she interested or not?All this literally happened a few weeks before and its all my mistakes and things I should have done lol | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Is she interested or not?Something to add that recently happened to me, there might be a question like "what do you want from me, I don't know if I'm ready for a relationship" or shit like that, you just reply with Idk if I want one either but I enjoy spending time with you. Works 90% of the time. Women also like to sometimes reply with what looks like negativity, such as whatever, whenever or other ways that looks like she lost interest, she is testing to see if you're wasting her time. | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Is she interested or not?Listen, there is nothing wrong with showing interest, the best thing to do would be to show interest. DO NOT IGNORE her. Keep talking to her, but don't talk to her for so long or she will lose interest, ask her out and keep talking during the date, on the first date if she moves in for the kiss then kiss her if not then it's fine. The second date you gotta chill the fuck out if you're nervous, hold her hand, hug her, be a gentleman, take her to a nice place after a movie or dinner and comment on… | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 10:14 PM |
| 3 | Is it so hard to attract women who are taller than you?Look for eye contact before making your move, if you want to test the waters then approach them and seem oblivious, then look at her and smile, if she does the same then go to step 2 | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Is it so hard to attract women who are taller than you?I in no way think women are objects but, if you want to attract women think of it as you selling something, you don’t want to start with “hey wanna go out” you start with looks, then you move in and ask her about the fucking sun or the day, then you move to her and then give her your name and ask for hers, then you go on, you also want to ask her about herself and have her talking, if she asks about you then you have done 70% of the work and she is closer to you and feels confortable, then you a… | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 09:41 PM |
| 3 | Is she interested or not?Something of experience, if she “will let you know” its hard for it to become true. Sometimes its hard to know if women not starting or continuing a conversation is interest or not but you take it as good if she asks about you. Never seen any female start a conversation | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 09:37 PM |
| 0 | Been on multiple dates with a girl but still can't kiss herAnd beat the most helped person in the world to become president and still manage to lose to some orange reality tv star? That would be awesome | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 09:31 PM |
| 0 | Been on multiple dates with a girl but still can't kiss herI have the same problem and fucking takes me some time. Just find a nice place and compliment her lips and go for it. Thats how I learned to stop holding myself back | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Approaching at bar or dancefloor? Which is better?Start with a look, if she gives you a look, you move on if you feel like shes trying to avoid you then bug off. The quietest places to talk are usually at the bar and close to the exit I believe. Not 100% sure. No need to buy anyone a drink, once she’s given you a good look, try to compliment her, then tell her your name. It is important to see her reaction, again if she’s trying to avoid you pull out immediately unless you think shes playing hard to get. (I haven’t unlocked that achievement yet… | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Fear of getting sperm jackedIs this really a concern? If there are women who would do that then it would be 1 in a billion | /r/seduction | 21/12/19 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Two questions about first date.She doesn’t live by herself mate. | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Two questions about first date.Alright sounds good, cheers | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Two questions about first date.Cool cool, what about the first question? | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 04:27 AM |
| 4 | She has a bf. I turn her on like crazy. Tips on next step?if she’s wanting to cheat with you then imagine what she would do if you were her bf. | /r/seduction | 25/10/19 02:23 PM |
| 1 | This is the way to build a rockstar social and dating life that’s filled with a multitude of opportunities (3-step process).Why did I think you were talking about GTA and instead of hobbies I read lobbies, I was like, “What the fuck is this dude talking about” 😂 | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 11:17 PM |
| 1 | How to deal w girl who cancelled 2nd date?😐 | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 10:24 PM |
| 3 | How to deal w girl who cancelled 2nd date?You’re right. Kind of creepy lol. Was at the gym and was looking at some ass while typing | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 10:18 PM |
| 1 | How to deal w girl who cancelled 2nd date?Surprise her on the filmday? I dont know if shes an actress or not | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 10:13 PM |
| 0 | Going to a party tonight and don’t know how to make a move to get to making out from talkingShe’ll look at you, when she does that, go talk to her. Keep the conversation about her, when you feel the conversation is about to die, ask her to dance, the more you move the stupid you look when dancing | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 10:04 PM |
| 2 | How to recover from harsh rejection?Get used to it, if you get depressed with rejection imagine getting dumped | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 03:25 PM |
| 2 | How to pass this shit test? "With that face, I'd like to see you try"I would say, give me your number and find out. Or go out with me and find out | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 03:50 AM |
| 1 | How to pass this shit test? "With that face, I'd like to see you try"Isnt she saying that she wont have her heart broken with your face? | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 03:35 AM |
| 1 | How to pass this shit test? "With that face, I'd like to see you try"If im reading this right, she said you’re cute. | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Help taking this MILF home!I think she gave you two shots and you blew them both sadly. If she doesn’t reply or answer than she’s ignoring you, move on mate | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 06:09 AM |
| 1 | IG's from Dating appsYeah, just ignore them or report them 😂 | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 06:00 AM |
| 0 | Timing on asking out a girlMaybe tell her the present was hard to find and that she needs to return the favor or she owes you one and tell her you want to hang out | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 06:43 AM |
| 1 | In a secret open relationship, how do I approach strangers?Well, there are two approaches, he approaches you or you approach him but a lady will never invite, beg or ask someone out, she shows interest by looking at the persons eyes, staying close to him or even laughing at his stupid jokes. (Some people might disagree with me and its ok, people are different) | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 05:02 AM |
| 1 | In a secret open relationship, how do I approach strangers?Nono, don’t look like that, look like you want him but don’t show him, example; look at him for 2 seconds literally and then look away, if he doesn’t come talk to you, then do it again | /r/seduction | 20/09/19 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Off to an awkward start. Help me salvage?Move on | /r/seduction | 20/09/19 08:55 PM |
| 1 | In a secret open relationship, how do I approach strangers?Hard look at guys, that usually sends a pretty strong message you’re interested. | /r/seduction | 20/09/19 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Freshman in college who needs advice about a confusing situationDid you not read what he said? Keep it calm with snaps and dm and wait it out. | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 03:11 PM |
| 1 | What's your go to line when approaching girls at a college party?“Are Juul friendly?” 😏 | /r/seduction | 15/09/19 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Sister’s friend?What could go wrong? Your sister making fun of you because you got rejected? | /r/seduction | 15/09/19 05:15 AM |
| 1 | I asked a girl I liked out and she said yes, but later she said no.I smell a quitter | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 10:34 PM |
| -12 | I asked a girl I liked out and she said yes, but later she said no.I think you should keep going after her, try to get to know her on a personal level and in few weeks you ask her again | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 03:24 AM |
| 3 | Damn waited too longListen to your favorite song before and when its in the best time go for it, usually you someone grow a pair, worked with me 😂 | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 03:22 AM |
| 2 | If you don’t kiss a girl on the first date, is it always a lost cause?Sometimes not kissing on the first date can signal that you are a gentleman and doesn’t want to rush things. But, if you know the person for a few weeks and you’ve talked with her, then maybe its a good idea to kiss her. | /r/seduction | 12/09/19 05:58 PM |
| 1 | How can I shoot my shot with a new girl at my school?She’s new to the school, go to her, tell her your name and ask for hers. If you’re 100% sure shes new then ask her how she’s doing, where she’s from and if everything goes well then tell her that you can show her around | /r/seduction | 10/09/19 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Volunteer to Yang presidential effort?If you go there don’t talk about economics , they clearly don’t know how economics work but other than that. You should find same minded people | /r/seduction | 08/09/19 04:51 PM |
| 4 | I lost my virginityHow do you know its a dude? | /r/seduction | 07/09/19 11:51 PM |
| 8 | What is a good place to take a Tinder date to if you don't drink?You should get the keys to the city | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 07:48 PM |
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