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| 1 | What are realistic odds for cold approaches?For context I’m ugly as shit | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 10:42 PM |
| 0 | What are realistic odds for cold approaches?Wtf are you on about? I got my first cold approach lay at like 6, and I wasn’t even trying | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 10:42 PM |
| 39 | How do you go to bars solo without looking like a loser/weirdo?I’ve met so many people just by introducing myself. At bars especially, play pong or pool or whatever and meet the people playing. Then they’ll introduce you around and in no time you’ll know everyone who frequents your bar | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 06:28 PM |
| 121 | How do you go to bars solo without looking like a loser/weirdo?Definitely. I remember one night my friends all left and I was sitting at the bar, casually watching the game and checking my phone when this girl came up because I “looked bored.” Got her number, ended up not closing because I honestly wasn’t out looking for it at the time but I think I could’ve if I wanted to. Just don’t look like a creep | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 06:27 PM |
| 62 | girl outright telling you that you're not her type and she isn't attractedHonestly I’d rather a girl be straight up about it rather than beating around the bush | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 05:15 PM |
| 1 | The unsettled nerve factorCan I get an example? There’s almost always something to talk about | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 07:09 PM |
| 104 | Where to find a milf?Even some that aren’t single, if you’re morally depraved enough. Weird thing happens to guys as the get older, their bank account gets bigger and their boners get softer | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 05:52 PM |
| 3 | How do you feel around beautiful women?I used to, but then I just exposed myself to attractive women and I got more comfortable in those situations | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 05:16 PM |
| 2 | The unsettled nerve factorDepends on the context, but start with “my name’s meogdon, what’s yours?” Then talk about anything relating to where you are when you meet her. For example I’m in college and meet girls at the bar/parties, so I’ll start asking about classes. Make conversation, make them feel important. Then try for a number | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 05:15 PM |
| 6 | The unsettled nerve factorIf you open by asking for their number, it’s not them that’s the issue bossman | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 05:10 PM |
| 1 | How often do you nut? How does it effect your sex life?Personally I used to jerk off every day, but now it’s less often. Once a week is typically the average, sometimes more sometimes less. I don’t usually hook up either but when I do it’s never more than once in a given week | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 05:55 PM |
| 1 | I had a worst approach ever and my friend ruined it even moreI’d be pretty pissed, but I don’t know if I’d say anything to him. Probably just shift focus to another girl I don’t think they were interested to begin with but your friend fucked it up more If I went back my strategy would be disregard what he said entirely and if they mention it just be like “oh he was joking/drunk” I rarely take a wingman with me. None of my friends are really wingman types, so it never turns out well. I do enjoy wingmaning though, and I’ve been pretty successful at it | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Erotic vs explicitReminds me of Troy from Community. Something to the effect of “I would rather see women in pajamas than underwear, I just wanna know they’re comfortable!” | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Erotic vs explicitAs a guy I agree, although the ideal outfit on a woman is an oversized t shirt and panties | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 12:47 AM |
| 1 | How to have harder and healthier boners?Work out, drink water, watch less porn (may not be an issue for you but it was for me). Maybe make some diet changes too. If none of that works maybe talk to a doctor? | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 04:17 PM |
| 2 | How can I meet someone in real life?You know what I mean lol just don’t change the complete structure and look of your face, but a little make up is fine | /r/seduction | 15/05/21 09:53 PM |
| 1 | How can I meet someone in real life?Not no make up, but if it suddenly starts raining I would like you to look mostly the same | /r/seduction | 15/05/21 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else feel as though having a wingman or friends around actually throws you off your game?I’ve had the most success as a wingman in groups, often wingmanning all of them at once (I can multitask really well) | /r/seduction | 15/05/21 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else feel as though having a wingman or friends around actually throws you off your game?Absolutely. I might just have a shitty wingman, but I usually end up doing most of the work on my own while he just sits at the table being antisocial. Plus there’s a whole level of communication that you and your wing have to have and I’ve never really met anyone who I can build up that relationship with. That said I’ve been a great wing in the past, only failed once because one guy in our group blacked out and vomited at the bar and we stopped paying attention to the girl so we could get him t… | /r/seduction | 15/05/21 09:45 PM |
| 1 | I need some Tios and Tricks on how to escalate a normal conversation into a more "sexual"My move is just arm around the shoulder in conversation, then once the conversation gets going if she’s responding positively just say “hey do you wanna get out of here?” Doesn’t always work, last night it failed me but I was too drunk to read the situation anyway so it was mostly my fault that the line failed. I was so off my game I couldn’t tell that the girl I was talking to wasn’t interested at all but her friend was | /r/seduction | 13/05/21 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Gonna tell her I like herI figured it meant leaving somewhere they wouldn’t have interaction anymore, so like moving to a different town or smth | /r/seduction | 11/05/21 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Gonna tell her I like herDon’t do it, either she’s gonna think you’re a weirdo or she’s gonna say she likes you and then leave and you’ll regret not doing it sooner. Just leave it be my guy | /r/seduction | 11/05/21 08:24 AM |
| 2 | How would you respond to this shit testYou don’t like shit? | /r/seduction | 11/05/21 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Girls in PAAh that’s a shame, I’m about 2.5 hours from you. I’d say find a college bar or a bar in general and try your luck there | /r/seduction | 11/05/21 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Girls in PAWhere are you in PA? If you’re near me I got a couple spots but usually around colleges | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Friday nightI’m not gonna say exactly but central PA If you’re nearby pm me bro we can wing each other tn | /r/seduction | 08/05/21 09:08 AM |
| 2 | Friday nightOur wing night is Wednesday, tomorrow is half off cocktails smart players drink beer on Saturdays at my bar It’s a college bar, and heads up I’m blaning typos on being blacked out rn | /r/seduction | 08/05/21 08:10 AM |
| 5 | Friday nightGoing out solo tomorrow, fuck wings mine only drags me down | /r/seduction | 08/05/21 07:55 AM |
| 1 | When Daygame, too much people i can't talk toEven for practice I wouldn’t. Technically it’s not illegal at 21 and 17 but it’s also not worth the risk | /r/seduction | 07/05/21 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to turn a girl off by "not trying enough" in a conversation?I find the safest bet is to compliment her energy as best you can. If she’s chatty, smile and listen. If she’s a mouth like a steel trap talk more and try and get her to open up | /r/seduction | 07/05/21 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Are big players slightly sociopathic?Exactly, I’ll go out maybe once or twice a week because my friends do, and occasionally I might talk to a girl and if it goes somewhere then that’s great. But I just started a podcast about internet conspiracies and I’d really rather listen to that and play Xbox most of the time while assholes go out and ruin my chances the few times I do go out | /r/seduction | 05/05/21 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Are big players slightly sociopathic?I think it varies person to person. I think guys like that are afraid of rejection, or think they’re entitled to sex because they made an effort. On the flip side, there’s guys like you and me who are ok with rejection even if it means going home alone at the end of the night. This is a much healthier and more respectful mindset, I personally really don’t like the first type of guy. Yeah, they might end up getting laid more often, but does it really count if it’s coerced like that from someone w… | /r/seduction | 05/05/21 05:08 AM |
| 3 | What’s a good first date?Coffee or ice cream | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 07:30 PM |
| 2 | I was looking for advice from anyone that has encountered a late 40's self described "Alpha Femme"And when you think you’ve run enough, run further. | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Do you put food on a girl's plate?Reminds me of some advice my dad gave me. Never date a girl with a super nice car. They’ve often had everything handed to them, so unless you’re going to do the same it’s not worth it | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 03:21 PM |
| 0 | Ex girl owes me money should I tell her to come round an suck my dickNah don’t do that, it’s sexual harassment and blackmail. Instead sue her for the 400 | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Dirty confessions !💦There’s something to an older lady | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Approaching vs the scarcity principleI got a little carried away, might make a post when the dust settles on this long game. We’ll see | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 06:53 AM |
| 2 | Approaching vs the scarcity principleI think you can do both depending on the situation. Take for example this girl I’m long gaming at the local bar. Night 1: It was her birthday, she had the sash and everything. We made eye contact a bunch, and about halfway through my night I had my bartender get her a shot on my tab. She smiled at me when she ordered it, blah blah. Later on I go over to the table acting like I’m setting her friend up with my wing, all the while establishing physical with the girl and judging her response. Friend… | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 06:52 AM |
| 1 | How to last longer in bed?Also I’m very much a top, to the point where it hard for me to cum on the bottom so I’ll usually have the girl get on top first and go until she cums then switch up and go to town | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 06:36 AM |
| 7 | How to last longer in bed?Jerk off a couple hours before you go out, then once about 20 minutes before you go out. Round 3 gets hard faster and stays longer, although it doesn’t feel as good and it’s a smaller load. My advice is eat the girl out first until she finishes, then go in. With some women orgasm 2 is faster and even if you cum too quickly she gets something out of it too. If you’re not into providing oral, you can always finger her instead | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 06:34 AM |
| 2 | Sunday Daygame and Solo VS WingI definitely prefer soloing over having a wing, I feel like I can be more myself if I’m solo rather than juggle trying to get the girl and be one of the guys to impress my wingman. Plus if two guys walk up to a single girl it puts her in a weird spot, and any situation where it’s two girls you can always grab the nearest guy and send him in as a separator (a role I’ve played many a time for strangers in the field). I do want to ask, do you have any lines for cold approaches that work for a non c… | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 06:09 AM |
| 2 | What move should I make next?I say ask her to get coffee next time you see her | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 03:03 AM |
| 2 | They say, ‘learn from your references’ and that’s how you get better at game. How are you supposed to recognize what needs improvement, and how will you know if you’re getting better at implementing improvements (esp if you’re getting the girl anyway)?It’s hard to find what’s wrong if everything seems to be working. Asking friends who are girls to critique my methods has seemed to work for me, but everyone’s different | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 02:30 AM |
| 1 | I need help with some obstacles in my way.Just be yourself and show some attention to her. You don’t want to always make her the center of your universe but you can’t just kick her to the curb. Can I ask what context you’re looking for? The situation changes specifics but the general idea remains pretty much the same | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 12:38 AM |
| 1 | I need help with some obstacles in my way.I think there’s a difference between not seeking approval and being indifferent. Not seeking approval means you’re being your genuine self as opposed to putting on an act to impress women. Being indifferent says you don’t care about them and you’re not willing to put in the effort. You can put in effort without caring too much, but like you said it’s a fine line | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 12:32 AM |
| 2 | When is the right time to ask for her number?Ask right before she leaves | /r/seduction | 03/05/21 09:48 PM |
| 3 | I have read that there is nobody as obsessed with penises as straight men are. Do you believe this to be true? And why? Do you think men drawing them everywhere, talking, joking and bragging about them shows obsession over penises and maybe even attraction to penises?You’re doing god’s work | /r/seduction | 03/05/21 09:47 PM |
| 2 | What are some things I can do to make a date feel more comfortable?I feel like it’s one of those things where they don’t notice if you do it but they notice if you don’t do it. And subconsciously I think people notice it | /r/seduction | 03/05/21 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Turned down 3 times in a rowDon’t idolize them. They’re just people and if you put them on a pedestal it’ll project lower confidence which is a turn off. Find something like running or a hobby to prioritize over them, show that you have personality outside the relationship and aren’t afraid to put them second about 1/4 of the time, but also sacrifice that hobby to be with them | /r/seduction | 03/05/21 07:01 PM |
| 5 | What are some things I can do to make a date feel more comfortable?I always sit farther from the door than my date if possible. It’s probably a much less important detail than I think but I feel like if she’s closer to the door/I’m not between her and the door then she’ll be more comfortable leaving if she’s not comfortable or it’s not going well. I even do this at the bar, I’ll sit/stand closer to the middle of the table so the girl I’m talking to has an easier out if she wants | /r/seduction | 03/05/21 06:00 PM |
| 3 | (JUST APPROACHING NOT RELATIONS) Do you guys think approaching, younger girls, around 18yrs is bad, if you are 20-25? If you don't know, their age yet?Not always, I’m 21 and my desired age range is 18-45. As long as you don’t go below 18 there’s no problem | /r/seduction | 03/05/21 05:34 PM |
| 2 | They say, ‘learn from your references’ and that’s how you get better at game. How are you supposed to recognize what needs improvement, and how will you know if you’re getting better at implementing improvements (esp if you’re getting the girl anyway)?You could always find a girl at a bar and ask her if you can try out some moves on her. Probably won’t end up leaving together but you’ll get legit feedback. Or ask a girl you’re friends with | /r/seduction | 03/05/21 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Your ego makes you think rejection is more important than it really isI recently got into this lifestyle, and my first attempt ended in a rejection. Honestly I’m glad it did, it was a humbling experience but I also learned that it’s not the end of the world. The next time I went out I started long gaming this girl, and I think next time I see her I’ll be able to seal the deal. That first rejection though hurt in the moment but I reflected on it, learned from it, and got right back in the ring | /r/seduction | 03/05/21 05:08 PM |
| 10 | How do you handle rejection?I got rejected at the bar a couple weeks back. She had a boyfriend, I said “ok, we it was great talking to you have a nice night!” Then went back to my table to try and scout the room until my wingman decided we were calling it a night. Before I left I went over to her again and said “your boyfriends a lucky guy, have a good night” and dipped. Saw her again this weekend and things were almost like we were friends at that point, so just be nice and don’t seem too dejected in front of her so she k… | /r/seduction | 03/05/21 05:03 PM |
| -2 | Likes me when she is drunkI know several people between 18-23 that do streaks…must be a regional thing or you’re underestimating how much young adults care about a number | /r/seduction | 03/05/21 07:16 AM |
| -2 | Likes me when she is drunkI’d say tomorrow morning send a “streak” snap and see if she responds and if she does then try and strike up a conversation | /r/seduction | 03/05/21 06:26 AM |
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