Time_Big8377 Archive

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2	Is it normal for things to cool down after a really good first date? We were texting a lot, then had a great time in person, but now the energy feels kind of off. i think it’s a matter of finding a girl that wants to text. for the reference, i’ve never had an “official” second date (i mean, just look at my comment history), though i do have a friendzone that we hang out often and to me it sometimes feels like dating. we text almost every day. 30min+ sometimes. we’ve been hanging out as friends for 4 months. ngl things have started to naturally get a little not platonic but still, that’s not the point. i just wanted to say that in my experience i can find …	/r/seduction	07/05/25 06:29 AM
1	Some girls are just really shy don’t take it the wrong way i’m not talking about feelings, i’m talking about the meaning of looking uncomfortable. as genuine as she definitely was, we still live under cultural norms, where showed comfort is necessary to continue interaction the thing about the guy was only in regards to approaching, and a way to say only if a guy is too hot he would be ok with not approaching anyone.	/r/seduction	05/05/25 07:56 PM
1	Some girls are just really shy don’t take it the wrong way i don’t think most guys think girls think it’s their fault. it takes 2. they will just think you were not the one for him. unless you’ve got some insecurities going on, nobody is going to think it’s their fault or think that it reflects their self worth in any way, especially not for someone you just met haha still, culture is important. where i live we respect boundaries and respect rejection with class.	/r/seduction	04/05/25 10:46 PM
3	Some girls are just really shy don’t take it the wrong way i’m sorry but to me this text is just mind blowing. totally your lesson. you did reject him. another guy could always say he’s too shy and that’s why he never approaches women, yet probably no woman will ever approach him. such is dating culture in north america if you’re not a 6’5 australian guy. it is understood that the way you acted is a rejection, so from now on, if you’re interested in him you will have to make it clear again. if guys were to keep trying, that would be not respecting bound…	/r/seduction	04/05/25 10:30 PM
2	Which one has more of an effect on someone's dating life: looks or status? well i’d say having money is easier than looking good for me. so it depends on how good u already look. because both are really hard for me actually i’ve been focusing on improving my social skills. i’d say regardless of your looks and money, if you don’t have social skills you don’t have anything	/r/seduction	30/04/25 11:13 AM
1	Is approaching just for normal dudes ? they might get approached and settle for an easier time. but i think this is the wrong sub for this question. you’re not getting approached and hence you have to approach	/r/seduction	30/04/25 06:27 AM
1	Got oneitis, help this is my current state. got friendzoned after first date, never got a second date. we still hang out almost every week. i’ve dated other people, but because i’ve never had a second date yet i can’t over oneitis. i will say however that i have a lot of fun being her friend. so i’m okay with that. but i still keep trying and keep getting rejected and trying to improve. just give yourself some time and keep trying to find someone new.	/r/seduction	30/04/25 04:51 AM
1	Been cold day approaching for three weeks... and just landed two dates in one day! yes, they will flake. some people apply to jobs full time, 1000 apps, lots of interviews, and they only get a job on the app #1001 for anyone reading this yes. for guys like us here, with socialization problems. let’s face it: we are not like most people. we’re here because we struggle. most people i’ve met irl don’t have any issue getting laid or socializing. and they don’t need instructions it just happens naturally to them. but don’t let the inevitable fear of rejection stop you. when i start…	/r/seduction	30/04/25 04:37 AM