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That day; that sorrow. Until then these non sex-havers can larp their revolution and seethe all they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:00 PM
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Lmao. The stepping stone to civil unrest is a lack of food, security, and military conflicts, not chuds that can't get their dicks wet. A small subset of men are bitter and think like you, while most men have literally zero issue with this. A majority of the men who struggle with dating are not going to join your 'rebellion' against sex-havers. If you think that's going to happen you are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:47 AM
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You're talking as if the revenge of the nerds is an actual issue. Most men don't think the way you do; they are outliers who will have to adapt. And even if they didn't; in what ways do you propose we as a society should restrict people from having sex with who and when? Do you propose we criminalize casual sex? Do we enforce goverment-mandated wives? Make rape legal might-is-right style? Because short of those options I don't see any way you can force society to adhere to your worldview. Especi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 06:54 AM
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In what way has the standards caused societal harm? Maybe according to a small subset of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 06:42 AM
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By misogynist I mean misogynist; someone who blames women for dating being "unfair". *edit I don't engage with "egalitarians" who think climate change is a hoax lmao. Absolute fucking moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 07:12 AM
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If the alternative is turning into a misogynist because you can't get laid? Then yes, accept the lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:25 PM
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Bad phrasing; the correct term would be they made fun of it in passing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:16 PM
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The most real statement to be made in this subreddit. I have friends who didn't get laid or even a relationship until well into their 20's, while some of us had been on that train since highschool. None of them ever paid as much as a thought to redpill/incel/looksmaxxing bullshit; just lived their life as best as they could, until one day they found someone they clicked with. One got together with a childhood crush who was equally as shy and nerdy as him. Another went on vacation to greece and f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 10:26 AM
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This is such a simplified and frankly not true take. The whole thing about seriously abusive assholes is that nobody (except a few broken individuals both men and women) would ever want to date them if they knew about it. The thing about abusive people is that they never appear actually abusive at first. My first girlfriend and I got together when I was 15 and she was 16. She was troubled, sure (very stereotypical theater girl) but always sweet to me at first. The abuse came like 1,5 years into …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:36 AM
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Unironically, yes. The venn diagram of people in leadership positions and people who would commit rape is practically a circle. Both (typically) seek power over others and have higher prevalence of anti-social behaviors. Same applies to people in CEO positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:30 AM
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Why are you writing in all caps lil' buddy? Did I strike a nerve?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 01:17 PM
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I was clearly joking. I'd say the blackpill fella who bases his entire personality on how he is too ugly to get laid is the one who is mad though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 10:30 AM
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The point is that you're pathetic. Tell me where you go on vacation outside of the west so us "gigachads" can cuck you there aswell lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:08 AM
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You have a literal noose as a profile picture buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:56 AM
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Most women as a rule don't cause drama either. Saying women cause drama is equally stupid as saying men only want sex and nothing else. Both are generalizations based on shitty stereotypes; on anecdotal evidence. They are not rooted in reality except to the most terminally online, who have zero experience outside of all the engagement bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:34 AM
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You're the one basing your entire personality around not getting laid (except when you lie about getting it) lol. Starting 'drama' online is equally pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:31 AM
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You'd date a woman who tried asking out all your friends first? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:29 AM
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Sure, but if I just wanted someone to bang, and I had the luxury to be ultra picky, I would be. If I'm actually looking for someone to share my life with, I'll be picky regardless, but less so with looks and moreso with literally everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:42 PM
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If that was the case you'd see 70% of men not only being single, but also never having dated, ever, which is clearly not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:02 PM
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While marriage has been seen as the social norm for way longer than 50 years, I agree with most of your points. People can seethe all they want; nobody is entitled to a relationship, or to stay in one that makes them miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:59 PM
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Nobody is saying that. We're talking about dudes who take out their frustrations and sexual misfortune out on women over this percieved unfairness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:41 PM
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Literally asked them to dig and then bitches when they do lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:20 PM
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Absolutely. It's the complete opposite of my current partner, but I am very content with whatever love-language she has. As long as I understand it I don't care if we are talking in my native tongue so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:50 PM
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Because compared to most animals, we are more similar than different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:06 PM
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You're not listening. If I put 2 graphs depicting the increase in birthrates of Germany, together with an increase in the German stork population, I have done nothing except put two unrelated stats next to eachother. I have not proven that storks are responsible for delivering babies in Germany. But by correlating the two and presenting them as if they are related I am being disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:01 PM
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Already gave my point of view, so I did adress it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:31 PM
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My original point still stands though; the original comment is clearly just repeating scary words and phrases without having any clue about what they actually mean. I wasn't criticizing his version of reality as a whole; just that he has no clue what he's talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:48 AM
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The statement 'facts don't lie' is very disingenious depending on how you present them. This is a very basic concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:45 AM
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I absolutely believe being hateful against men (especiallt cis white ones) is more overlooked in the general zeitgeist, sure. That men are categorically and exclusively depicted as evil and women as good I disagree with. Both men and women are depicted negatively in slightly different ways. The problem red-pillers face is assuming that everyone agrees with that shit. Reminds of people who say that every person with slightly conversative views is a nazi.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:37 AM
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The point is not clear and undeniable lol. That's like saying "the reason we can breathe air is because the air is the color blue. Don't you agree that it is good and undeniably true that we can breathe the blue air?". There is literally nothing about feminist marxism that specifically calls out men as evil and women as good. All it does is add onto marxist theory by examining it more through how women specifically are affected by capitalism, and that it is the primary source of oppression by wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:24 AM
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The stats don't lie about african americans and crime either, but we know just citing the crime stats in a vaccuum, and nothing else is hardly conductive to discussions
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:16 AM
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This post is honestly embarrasing, mostly because you talk about marxist feminism and other things yet it is painfully obvious that at most, you have googled these concepts having already made up your mind. I highly doubt you've even done that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:54 AM
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Husky means of the bigger side. If you think women should give 5'6 a chance then you gotta give husky women a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:57 AM
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That would actually entail taking in said advice and improving from it, instead of just blaming the rest of the world and calling it a day. Far too much work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:12 PM
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Yeah it would be quite terrifying if it wasn't for the fact that it really is the same, small amount of circlejerkers spouting that nonsense lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:28 PM
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Are you actually mentally challenged?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 07:00 AM
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No amount of planning or foresight can with absolute certainty save every marriage, children or not. Actually, I'd argue having children is such a major change to your life that anything can happen. And your mentality is just straight up wrong. Divorce should be seen as a legitimate option, because I can bet children are happier with divorced parents compared to parents who are staying married out of pressure from society/'necessity'. Absolutely agreed that a lot of people are too quick to call …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:58 PM
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You do you. Neither me or my girlfriend feel the need to get married, it costs money, takes time to plan, is a big event fucking hassle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:49 PM
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She literally only said she makes friends with women easier than men, not that she considers men as lesser lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:42 AM
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No, but they did have enough support that when they forcefully took power nobody really cared, or casually endorsed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:57 AM
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I got the opposite problem. I am 25, but regularly get mistaken as 30+. Having a thicker beard than most dudes my age, some very noticeable eyebags due to a lifetime of insomnia, aswell as crow's voice from smoking doesn't exactly help lol. I don't mind though, I love the surprised look on people's faces when I tell them my actual age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:14 AM
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Women have an uncanny ability for empathy. I consider myself empathetic, but very competent in the ways of showing it or acting appropriately according to people's emotional needs. All of the women I know are absolute wizards at this, and that makes them very good for talking to when you need "real" talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:31 PM
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Inferiority complex and a need to feel powerful. If you can convince yourself that you are a wolf, that confidence alone could make others believe you aswell. Have that monument torn down though, and you'll be seen as pathetic. Think overweight, fedora-wearin' katana masters.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:29 AM
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Yeah I guess I thought too hard into the "random teleportation" aspect of it all. Honestly I'm not really sure I would pick a bear over a human to randomly encounter in the woods, but I know for sure that for scenario 1. I would pick the human 100% of the time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:26 PM
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I see two answers, conditions crucial; If you mean that I would face a random bear or a random guy, and they are out to kill me, then I'd probably pick the guy since I could (most likely) fight him off, based on averages. There is not a single person on this earth who will even get close to an even fight with a bear (not counting tools like a gun/spears etc.), except maaaaybe a black bear/sloth bear or similar smaller variant. Eurasian brown bear/grizzly and you're fucked. If you mean that I wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:16 PM
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The irony is palpable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:30 AM
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The way I've been told this works (I won't say whether or not I agree with it) but here goes; Punching up vs punching down. Thanks for coming to my Ted Talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:55 PM
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Also it's just easier in general to put people in boxes and ascribe them vague behaviors that apply to all of said group. This way you can unlock the code, or figure out a way to "game the system", without dealing with the fact that every man and woman out there are fundamentally different as individuals. And while some very general behaviors like choice of work, or preferences in a partner will usually be seen in a median of their respective gender, all of the finer social workings and intricac…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:28 PM
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Ya'll really incapable of thinking about reality without doing it through the lens of a hollywood teen movie lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:04 AM
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Unironically yes, if you're going to be whining about how life and dating is unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:41 AM
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Death by a thousand cuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:49 AM
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That alot of people will overlook red flags in a relationship because they are in love/have rose-tinted glasses on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:15 AM
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Rules for thee, but not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 02:34 AM
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Lmao, we are not on the Mongol steppes fighting over prey here. Being "territorial" about your relationship shows that: • you don't trust your partner • you are insecure in your own masculinity • have a kindergarten-level understanding of how a healthy relationship should work. By all means, have standards. But don't think going around acting like an alpha dog is going to to anything but make you look silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:52 PM
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Feels a bit too simplified here. You can be a degenerate, and be well-versed in politics. Being engaged in politics by itself is not an ick. It's when that is your entire personality, or you bring politics into every other aspect of your life; people like that are fucking *insufferable* lmao (and it is not exclusive to any one part of the political spectrum either).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:25 PM
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Those men will then argue that it is not the same thing, since women have it easier to get casual sex/many hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:06 PM
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Why do you *seem* so upset I in no way said I am upset Yeah, me neither. I said you seem upset. Beyond that, what's with the yapping about studying and bi sex orgies?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:02 PM
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Why do you seem so upset that people enjoy sex? I understand if you don't share that casual view of it, I don't either; but what's with the passive-aggressive language?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:53 PM
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Who said multiple? I've had sex with friends, who are now in happy relationships with other friends of mine, and we are all still cool with eachother. My current partner used to date an old friend of mine in highschool. This is normal and not something to get your panties in a twist about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:42 PM
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Reading into that wording a bit too harshly bud. Sex can be special, and it can also be a casual fun thing. Hobby is probably not the best way to describe it, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:40 PM
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Your mistake is assuming your way of thinking is the baseline. The only thing you are conveying by being worried about body count is insecurity. That is not a masculine trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:36 PM
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As another comment mentioned, there's friends and there's "friends"; people in your peripheral, acquaintances, friends' colleagues etc. those are the people you are supposed to be hitting up, not confess your 10-years-in-the-making feelings for your childhood bestie. I'd never hit on my best friend even though we both find eachother attractive (and not only because we both have partners), because that is not how our relationship works. Literally all except 1 of my past partners since the end of …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 12:24 PM
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Exactly. It's a 'death by a thousand cuts'-type situation. Guy shows up to date in sweatpants? Kind of sloppy, but not a deal-breaker for most women. Focusing only on the sweatpants makes it seem like a really shallow and petty reason to call it off. But then you focus away from the sweatpants and look at the rest of the dude; he didn't iron the shirt, showed up 8mins late, laughs in a noticeably insincere way at whatever you say. And while he talks really passionately about the history of Mesop…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 12:02 PM
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Always with an answer ready, always seething.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:03 PM
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People often fail to understand that what we, an outsider, percieves as a bad man, may not be seen through the same lens as someone who has fallen in love with them. Hindsight is 20/20, and I've been in shitty relationships far longer than necessary because of rose-tinted glasses. Most "bad people" usually have a cover; a nice exterior to fool their surroundings long enough for people to let their guard down, before slowly revealing their true colours. Alot of women (and men for that matter) go …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:07 AM
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It depends on the hobby; Me and my gf share very little hobbies in general, but we both take an interest in each other's interests. She is working on a book and loves writing/reading, but she plays a little bit of video games aswell (no FPS/'hardcore' games). I'm the opposite; been a gamer all my life, but have done limited reading or writing (still more than the average person perhaps, but small compared to her). You don't need to share interests, but it's advisable to atleast try and get into …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:19 PM
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Much the same way women probably won't have alot of luck finding a man at the local spinning classes, you'll have to temper your expectations based on what you are looking for. There are far more women out there who are into 'more womanly' hobbies and interests compared to 'nerdy metalhead/goth' women. Same way there are far more men out there who are into video games or bodybuilding compared to men who like spinning, or crocheting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:32 AM
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Got a friend with a fiance who, if you'd ask most dudes on here, is way out of his league. She liked him because through their mutual friends she ended up at the table during their DnD sessions where he is the DM. Super funny dude and a good DM, works as a line cook, and kinda looks like he has downs syndrome. He is not fit, receeding hairline at 28, into very nerdy stuff, but she loves him still. They've been together for 3 years now, have a dog together, all that jazz. So just because you pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:26 AM
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Or men to use the promise of a relationship to get easy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:15 AM
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Yeah no, I don't want to date my friend, even if I think she is an attractive person. People need to realize that the issue with being friends with the opposite sex is not the friendship itself, it's all those morons who can't handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:40 PM
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My best friend is a woman; we have known eachother for 9 years, way longer than either of us have known our current partners. I am always baffled how people can think that is controversial. Are you not allowed to be friends with people if they're aligned with your sexual orientation? Are bisexual people (such as my friend) just not supposed to have any friends? I consider someone being threatened by a friend a red flag. (And before you ask, no, me and said friend have no sexual or romantic histo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:09 AM
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Keep telling yourself that. I'm sure you'll be right someday, champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:50 PM
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Delusional. Not only women, but most men (people with normal functioning brains in general) can pick up on cues like when someone is being desperate or clingy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:30 AM
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There are no 'truly kind' or 'truly evil' men, or women for that matter. We all are varying degrees of good or bad, depending on age, experience, personality, and our mood for the day/year or whatever. Nice people do bad things sometimes, bad people do nice things sometimes. The only defining factor is how interesting/attractive you are. You can be the most handsome person on the planet. But if you humour sucks, you are broke and a mess, then no woman is going to want you despite looking like so…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:39 AM
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You are arguing with someone who believes in 'science based penis enlargement' lol. Doing kegels to start packin'.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:45 AM
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Found a little guy here who thinks slapping the word 'stats' onto his comments make them look more credible lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:40 AM
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Nope. Raised in a good home, with both parents loving me and eachother. Nobody needed to be slapped, kicked, punched or thrown, and it has been entirely outlawed here in Sweden since 1958, for very obvious reasons. I currently work as a highschool teacher who occationally hops in for middle/elementary teachers as a substitute, so I have alot of experience with disciplinary psychology and dealing with children in general, of all walks of life. Now, I get it. There is absolutely a culture nowadays…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:38 PM
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Oh fuck off with the abuse lmao. You absolutely do not need to hit your kids. Grab them by the arm, sure. Even lift them out of a classroom if necessary, but don't fucking hit them. Only idiots would even think that is on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:21 PM
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Deflecting by clamining it a joke when you can't stand up for the shit you spew is classic middleschool rhetoric. Try harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:50 PM
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Do you even know what the word normal means? normal, /ˈnɔːml/ conforming to a standard; usual, typical, or expected. i.e the literally opposite of a special Snowflake. I'm telling you that your worleview is fucked and that you are the special Snowflake for thinking middleschool-level logic is some profound insight you have found. Normal people (that is, most people) don't think like you do, think that is acceptable views to have, or feel any kind of agreement with it. I think you just might be i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:59 PM
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What are you even on about? Normal goes for all ages, whether you're a couple of 80 year old sweethearts, or just settled down with your future wife at the age of 28. Literally nobody except your goofy-ass, and edgy kids/incels think that is a normal, or ok thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:05 PM
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Like I said, I don't walk up to women because I hope their personality is good; I don't walk up to women in the hopes of getting anything. All of my relationships and hookups started because I made friends/mingled with someone, and we both felt chemistry. Sometimes we'd go on like this for months, and other times we hit it off right away. Not a single time did I engage in a conversation with them thinking "I'm gonna try my hardest to have sex with them because I find them attractive"; it just ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:08 PM
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Speak for yourself. Sex is great, but it is far from the "primary thing" to look for in a relationship. I personally don't even really look for things in a relationship, or look for them in general, they just sort of happen. If you only want sex, then hire a prostitute if it's legal, or go for one night stands; but don't delude yourself into thinking that toxic shit about lying to the people you are supposed to love as some hard to swallow-truth, or something that is shared among even most men. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:53 PM
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Stop doing fuckin' 180°'s, there is both, and they are both bad. Incel men will tell you the world is run by a cabal of hot women, who only want to eradicate men and use artificial wombs to carry on the species. SCUM-enthisiast women will tell you the world is run by the Epstein cartel of slimy white men trying to revert abortion laws, and that shooting them in their CEO offices is the only solution. Both are tinfoil-hat levels of stupidity, stop falling for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:24 AM
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I would agree with you, but it's one thing to glance/look at someone and go "huh, they're pretty" for yourself and then go on with your life, and it's an entirely different thing to be staring for a prolonged period of time at someone/their legs/whatever. It'd be creepy regardless of who did it to who.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:19 AM
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You got to make your enemy appear weak and rat-like, while also all-encompassing and the one 'behind the strings'. -Women are both whores for sleeping around, but prudes for not sleeping with me (despite not showing any attractive traits besides existing and being friendly) -Women are both desperate for landing a man before they hit 'the wall' yet they can choose any man they want by spreading their legs before they turn 30. -Women are simultaneously not supposed to make friends with dudes witho…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:36 AM
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Fwiw, I agree with your points, and honestly regret making my earlier comment. I just have this tendency to instantly jump to shit-tier interpretations of what people say. I'd think breastfeeding would be nasty af to do personally, so I consider women getting the short end of the stick when it comes to that. Or at the very least having breasts/needing to produce milk at all. I just (wrongly) did an overly sarcastic and bad-faith remark when you said they will be 'truly equal' since I consider th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:53 PM
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Do you really think men will start needing to breastfeed children? Lunacy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:54 PM
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You are delusional if you think women give a flying fuck about low-effort dudes. The only people in this 'debate' who are consistently being butthurt, never shut up about the other side, and seethe when shit doesn't go their way, is MGTOW/red pilled, self-proclaimed sigmas who simultaneously hate women for having it better, while also craving their affection and attention. Quite pathetic really.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:12 PM
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Unhinged, literally nobody cares or looks down upon stepdads, so long as they treat the kid and their mom well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:36 PM
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Imagine comparing being a man in a developed country to being an actual fucking slave. You need help lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:15 AM
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Precisely. I always split it up into 2 major categories; traits that are non-negotiable, and traits that are negotiable. The NG's are stuff that would be dealbreakers if not fulfilled; she'd have to have an income of some sort, be physically attractive to me, not be an asshole yada yada. Then you have the N's, that is stuff you can lower your standards for. This does not mean you'll take an infinite amount of negotiatiables, as too many can make it more effort than it's worth, but they are not r…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:58 AM
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If incels call you a chadlite repeatedly and therefore reject any opinion you have it is a badge of honor.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 07:18 PM
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Nope, I'd rather be single than in a miserable relationship. The grass is always greener, and someone who has never been in a relationship, or only good ones, will never know how it feels to be in a shit one. So yeah, if I was single now I sure would not go back to my first ex for example, no matter how lonely I get. Not a good match, not a good time. I'd rather play video games
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:55 AM
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Aaaand there you have it folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:51 AM
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What's stopping them? What makes you think most men would even want a harem? I am perfectly content with the one woman I am currently seeing, and I sure ain't interested in adding another person into the mix
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:49 AM
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You're both just talking over eachother while agreeing in spirit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:17 AM
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Done it multiple times, never let them know I'm not in phase. I still prioritize my partners well-being over my own tiredness, but it also depends on how tired I am. I have fallen asleep mid-oral before lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:06 AM
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Yeah, and being a little on the louder/more extroverted side is considered desireable in men, but unattractive in women. These are called gender norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:01 PM
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going against your nature Lmao, people are really out here with attitudes like this while also wondering why they don't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:58 PM
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You haven't found the right woman yet then. You can't really blanket all women or even the same woman with your general concept of what their interests are. The woman I'm seeing has an interest in makeup, and country music, 2 things I'm not big on. But she's also into playing music, she plays many instruments, she's into weird movies, she plays some video games, reads books, all of which I am interested in myself. Most women, if you give them the chance to hang out with only a desire to get to k…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:54 AM
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Yeah, one of my closest friends told me some years ago that she had a major crush on me when we first got to know eachother because I was, for the longest time, one of the only male friends she's had who never hit on her/harassed her at some point or another over these past 8 years. She's been happily in a relationship with a great guy and good friend of mine for 4 years now, and she finally has a friend group that is sane & healthy for her me thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:41 AM
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Past people I dated, one never achieved PiV, the other had to cancel midway. Other than those 2 I have been asked to be careful during intercourse and made it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:30 PM
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Yeah no I rest on a slightly-above 7 and have been told that's uncomfortable by atleast 2 different people. My current partner likes my size so I don't really care now but it is not as much of a trump card as it's made out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:32 AM
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I make a shit living as a highschool substitute teacher but still do alright on the social front. Money and a good career helps but is far from your only venue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:27 AM
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You act as if people can't become complacent in a relationship and develop bad habits. This goes for alot of things, not just cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:06 AM
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Nah they got a point. It sure seems like you just shouldn't date based on your view on relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:59 PM
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I mean, sure. He makes women mad in the same way flat earthers make everyone mad. They're more annoying than they're spitters of truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:20 PM
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Sorry bro, but Tate is a quack. Doesn't take being a woman or disliking his popularity to see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:00 PM
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I dated a single mother for a short while, back when I was 22 and she was 21. Her daughter was lovely, and so was she. But I felt that I wasn't mentally ready to commit to "being there" for a little one just yet. I don't think I'd be ready now either, but I decided to remove myself from the equation early on so as to not cause too much hurt. I wouldn't want me for a step dad either:/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 04:32 PM
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If you feel the need to control what people your partner is friends with, then you are not ready for a relationship. And I say this as someone who has been cheated on twice by exes, and both times it was an acquaintance of mine who was involved
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 08:46 AM
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I think sex can be many things. Personally, casual sex/threesomes/whatever is nice and all, but it doesn't even come close to having sex with someone you are also actually in love with. And even with 'strangers' and people you know, how I feel for them has an effect on my attraction to them at a high degree. Doesn't matter if someone is smoking hot; if they are an asshole they become ugly regardless, and alot of people I'd consider 'ugly' if they were a stranger have become attractive thanks to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:53 PM
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I (m23) met my girlfriend (f20) last summer via Tinder. We had met before seeing eachother on tinder. Like 5 years ago, a mutual friend of ours asked me to buy her and her friend some cigarettes which I did (not good, I know lmao) and they both added me on Instagram. Didn't think much of it, and 2 serious relationships came and went for me, I would sometimes see her on my IG homepage or whatever it's called, and I'd always feel a little guilty because I always found her to be super goodlooking, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:12 PM
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The female orgasm is a myth
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:19 PM
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Or, just maybe...guys do have standards? Like, obviously there are more women in this world who have higher standards than the men, but there are still so many factors that affect this to just put out a blanket statement of "women have standards/men have no standards". I've rejected some women, not many by far, but still. Just because women rejecting men is more common than the reverse it doesn't make it non-existant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:18 PM
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I love her but she has issues, as do I. Nothing that could severely impact our relationship unless we both call it a day and stop trying to improve things. I went into this relationship with no intention of 'saving' her; I simply love her and will do what I can to make her life better thanks to me, not be the end-all be all solution to her issues, just as I don't expect her to solve mine. So yeah, I love her, through and through.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:46 PM
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