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True, happiness naturally makes you more attractive anyway :) thanks
/r/seduction28/01/18 09:37 PM
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Either she is friendzoning you and trying to be polite about it, or she has a skewed idea of how 'dating' and 'fucking' are mutually exclusive things...
/r/seduction28/01/18 04:53 PM
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Maybe it works for you. I personally don’t think it’s that nice though.. do women like comparing and constantly having ourselves pitted against one another? No. And if they’re pursuing you and your whole reason was to break it off then has it even worked..? I don’t think a guy would like it if I said something along the lines of “sorry I found someone better than you”, because it’s not that nice. Ok so this sounds negative and it’s not to offend you personally; I’m glad it works for you. But tha…
/r/seduction19/12/17 06:50 PM
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Thanks. I used to get stuck for ideas too and so made it with some ‘research’. It’s hard when you don’t know what to say..
/r/seduction19/12/17 12:03 PM
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So are so many people, I was... thanks :)
/r/seduction19/12/17 08:39 AM
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Thanks, I’m glad you find them useful. They’re all meant to end it quickly, just in a nice way
/r/seduction19/12/17 08:38 AM
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I guess it would be decent if it didn’t happen too long ago... I’d just say you’re sorry and they’re totally not to blame. But don’t text too much if they were too attached before, otherwise it could lead to the same thing. If it was a while ago, they might just be over you though. But apologizing is a nice thing to do
/r/seduction19/12/17 08:36 AM
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Lol thanks for thinking I am ;p
/r/seduction19/12/17 08:33 AM
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You’re welcome!! Glad it helped
/r/seduction19/12/17 08:32 AM
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Thank you, I’m glad this helped :)
/r/seduction19/12/17 08:31 AM
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The only thing with that one is that it would hurt the other person’s feelings by making them think they’re not good enough, or not as good as someone else... I’d prefer to keep other people out of the picture. But at least you do say something
/r/seduction19/12/17 08:31 AM
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And kindness will make you better yourself too. Thanks :)
/r/seduction19/12/17 08:29 AM
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Very true. Sometimes it is hard to know where it will end up from before though.. but I agree that as soon as there’s some idea, people should say. It’s easier said than done but should be more common.
/r/seduction19/12/17 08:29 AM
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Ah no, I just wrote this up the other day! Still, at least they were decent enough to give a message I guess...
/r/seduction18/12/17 09:11 PM
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Hey thanks, I’m glad you agree. It’s awkward but the best thing to do really I think.
/r/seduction18/12/17 07:16 PM
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If you use one, you’ll be better than a ghost! Glad this helps :)
/r/seduction18/12/17 04:30 PM
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You are not a loser. Some people are just late developers and that's totally OK. Do you know these attractive women from a real life setting (work, someplace else)? If so, chat about things you both know about, e.g. something funny at work, something you both saw/did. That's a start. Don't be overwhelmed by a shit tonne of things to learn. Just take it one step at a time and begin a conversation. I write thisdating blog which does pretty well. If you want, you can message me to let me know how i…
/r/seduction18/12/17 11:45 AM
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Thanks :)
/r/seduction18/12/17 11:40 AM
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How did it go??
/r/seduction26/11/17 02:07 PM
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Thanks :) glad you think so!
/r/seduction25/11/17 12:28 PM
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True and fair point. I mean the post is long to help people, but maybe it should be mentioned at the top. Thanks
/r/seduction24/11/17 04:20 PM
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Good idea. Thanks for sharing
/r/seduction24/11/17 02:05 PM
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You know what, whatever works for you. I just don’t like it when people ask that.... and have nothing else to say
/r/seduction24/11/17 08:48 AM
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Will do :)
/r/seduction24/11/17 08:47 AM
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Each to their own. I’m also a woman (yay to the sisterhood) and I’m just trying to help people for when they get stuck initially, so they can find that flow. Then I totally agree, go with the flow rather than turning it into an interview. :). It’s to make stuff interesting rather than ‘seduce’. I’m not a pick up artist and I dislike guys trying to be pushy about taking me home on the first date. I do like making stuff exciting and forming connections with people though.
/r/seduction24/11/17 08:47 AM
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Thanks :)
/r/seduction23/11/17 03:55 PM
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Lol.
/r/seduction23/11/17 03:55 PM
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Haha no I didn’t mean it like that!! Just when we are on one, this often happens
/r/seduction23/11/17 02:29 PM
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Thank you, oh wise one ;)
/r/seduction23/11/17 11:35 AM
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Yes you can use them for any date. Yeah by all means ask the necessary questions (you should know their name and age before though). These are just to mix it up, so dates aren’t all the same for you or them. And these help if you’re struggling for what else to talk about.
/r/seduction23/11/17 11:34 AM
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... maybe just don’t be weird or creepy AF and try not to make her feel uncomfortable..? Lol
/r/seduction23/11/17 10:24 AM
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Great, that's exactly what it was intended to do :). There's more in the link for inspo and to help you create your own :)
/r/seduction23/11/17 09:31 AM
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Yes that is true. This is just to spice it up... thanks!! Glad you find it useful :) check out the other ones linked too :)
/r/seduction23/11/17 09:25 AM
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Thanks :) glad you think so
/r/seduction23/11/17 08:11 AM
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Haha I know. I mention afterwards that you need to work up to some of them. They are able to start a conversation, but aren’t the first thing you talk about when you meet. But it’s good that you realize that.
/r/seduction23/11/17 08:11 AM
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Lol sorry!! You have it for future reference. Plus the link to 101 of them
/r/seduction23/11/17 08:10 AM
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I mean, they could be a totally kinky person but not yet want to talk about sex... but good question :)
/r/seduction23/11/17 08:09 AM
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Yes. Good point.
/r/seduction23/11/17 08:08 AM
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Nice. Also check out the link - it’s got 101
/r/seduction23/11/17 08:08 AM
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Haha Mia from Pulp Fiction.
/r/seduction23/11/17 08:07 AM
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Haha would you ask it on the actual date though? I mean, sure if you can. Also I’m Indian and I don’t smell like curry... lol
/r/seduction23/11/17 08:06 AM
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Yesssss. Thank you. Damn you are a genius!! You should just write my stuff for me... lol. Did you just do a full stop and bracket and space? I will edit in the morning as I’m about to sleep now (UK time). Thanks again :)
/r/seduction22/11/17 11:14 PM
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Thanks, glad you find them useful :). Yeah totally let it develop and flow - these are just starters for that.
/r/seduction22/11/17 10:59 PM
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Like I said above, it’s not about firing these at her in an interview situation. These are starters do stimulate conversation. As a girl, I love great conversation. I agree that guys firing questions at me (especially boring ones) without letting me speak and develop and get their take is annoying and draining. I don’t mind restaurants though... bars are also cool and I don’t mind splitting the bill, but that’s a whole other debate I guess.
/r/seduction22/11/17 10:58 PM
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Or you could make it more specific. Like, I have loads and loads of things I could do for fun and I could never tell you them all. “What is the most exciting/fun thing you’ve done this week?” is an improvement in my opinion. It would make her think and not just give a recited answer about going to the gym and traveling.
/r/seduction22/11/17 10:29 PM
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Fair enough. Try some of these out and see if it makes the date more exciting. When a guy asks me that, it’s alright. But I have a standard go-to answer that I give every time, because I’m used to people asking that as their first question... it’s playing it safe, yeah. But doesn’t make me think he’s especially cool/intelligent/interesting/exciting.
/r/seduction22/11/17 10:24 PM
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Being a virgin at 20 is not a big deal. Some people are slow starters, it's fine. I like Matthew Hussey - saw a few of his videos, his advice is sound. Being funny is a great asset. I used to be a bit like you and then I hit 23 and my dates flooded in. Be as independent and self-improving as you can - fitness, hobbies, career-wise. You're main aim in life is to be the best version of yourself you can - men are secondary. And once you adopt this mindset, men will naturally flock to you. And get o…
/r/seduction22/11/17 09:15 PM
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OK, sooooo this is awkward (ironic, I know). For some reason, I can't change the numbered list to show the right number for each question... There are 30 though I swear!! Haha. Anyone know how to fix it?
/r/seduction22/11/17 09:05 PM
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Make sure that you have six bulletproof pictures that tell a story about how you're a cool and interesting person and a bio that actually says something about you. That is worth more than what you'll get for paying. here are some good tips for writing a bio. It's all about knowing how to show yourself in the best possible light.
/r/seduction19/11/17 04:54 PM
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I would agree with the people below and take a break to focus on yourself. You have been successful with girls and will definitely get the chance to be in the future. Do something else that will benefit you and give you a thrill, e.g. planning a business idea, getting good grades, improving on a hobby - self improvement is way more rewarding than attracting people and not even being into them.
/r/seduction19/11/17 04:47 PM
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I know. But just keep practicing and it will be awkward at first... But gradually it will get smoother. Women and men all need to start somewhere ;). At least you want to be proactive and put yourself out there.
/r/seduction14/11/17 05:40 PM
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I would talk to her. If it really bugs you and you're in a relationship, then communication is important and she will appreciate it more than you being passive aggressive or becoming distant because of it. When you're both chilling and the time is right, just say "Can I ask you something?" and ask "Why do you say I'm such a lady when I'm being a perfectionist". Then listen to her, instead of jumping the gun and pointing fingers/blaming. Then say "Actually, it makes me feel insecure and I wish yo…
/r/seduction13/11/17 06:38 PM
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I agree with all of this. Talk like you'd talk to a friend, be confident, don't fake (and if there really truly is no chemistry, then it's not worth it). Listening is so important. I like when guys can say interesting stuff, but hate when all they do is talk about themselves and don't listen or let me get a word in. So remember to leave opportunities for her to join in.
/r/seduction13/11/17 06:34 PM
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No worries :)
/r/seduction06/11/17 11:07 AM
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Be patient.. that’s all you can be. Because even I freak out because I know it’s painful to start with. Don’t over explain it to her, just ensure she knows it’s something you’d like to try sometime and you know how to do it right but you won’t do it if it’s not ok with her. Then she’ll think about it and let you take it in small steps hopefully
/r/seduction06/11/17 06:45 AM
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Ok.. sorry not 100% sure - did I answer the question?
/r/seduction05/11/17 09:18 PM
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I would wait until you’ve had normal nice vanilla sex. And then when you’re comfortable with each other, talk about your fantasies. Say that you would like spanking and buff stuff, but only if she’s comfortable. She’ll either freak as soon as you mention butt. Or she’ll think about it and later say “ok we can try” in which case, finger away. So yeah, wait until you’ve done it normally, then talk, then get horny and try is what I think.
/r/seduction05/11/17 08:46 PM
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The reason why a lot of women aren’t comfortable with guys is that guys boast about fucking 100’s of us and talk about us like we’re things.. building rapport is great. But this title makes guys want to be dickheads... which isn’t a good thing. Nicer to have a connection, friendship and sex with a few people than think of hundreds as notches in a belt.
/r/seduction05/11/17 08:24 PM
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Asking can be ok. I think it can work if it’s done right. I know it’s controversial but sometimes I think it’s attractive if I like the guy and he asks in a confident way. I also think women should get used to making first moves more, so that men don’t have to suffer not knowing. But I also agree with you that not asking is also fine - when you sense it’s ok and she doesn’t flinch from smaller things like hand holding and when there’s chemistry. Leaning in is a cool thing once you know it’s ok -…
/r/seduction05/11/17 08:17 PM
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I can tell that from your questions, don’t worry. Good luck :)
/r/seduction05/11/17 08:12 PM
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True. But it’s always good to think about whether you can improve. But yeah, doing it takes away anxiety for sure
/r/seduction05/11/17 08:12 PM
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Mirroring. Follow her tongue in circular motions. Don’t go faster or slower. Try going at the same pace so it feels you’re both in sync.
/r/seduction05/11/17 08:09 PM
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Staring at lips works for girls kissing guys to yeah; I do it. But again, it’s important to make sure she reacts by being more turned on and not creeped out. Usually it’s a great move to try after you’ve talked a bit and the attraction is already there - not to do right at the start
/r/seduction05/11/17 03:10 PM
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It’s not too graphic at all and is a very good question, so thanks for asking. I come from a Muslim background and know about girls who are in a similar situation. I wouldn’t call myself an authority on all girls out there, but I think you did the right thing by talking about it before. And when she cried, then I take it you were comforting and supportive - because it’s confusing for her, rather than her attention seeking or anything like that. Really, the best thing to do (I think) is telling t…
/r/seduction05/11/17 02:56 PM
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Closing. I mean from what I know, it’s the most common. But I guess if it’s natural to you then you can’t force yourself to close them. Maybe joke about it in conversation before so she doesn’t freak out when she looks up and sees you starting...
/r/seduction05/11/17 02:50 PM
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Interesting, I never thought of that. What usually happens is that when there’s no chemistry but it ends in a kiss, it’s kind of awkward and we just say bye. I’m not sure if any explaining will make that less awkward or if it would add to it when I just want to get the hell home. Maybe it would if you’re not too aggressive and asking her why she doesn’t like you or going on in huge detail about how there’s definitely something there. I’m not sure about that one. Thanks though for asking
/r/seduction05/11/17 12:56 PM
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I mean if it heats up then yeah. Depends on what’s happening in the moment. That’s lower down on the scale than boobs and butt and higher up than the other ones I mentioned so I’d wait until you do the other ones first. Depends on your date and how heated it gets.. could be on a first date or you may need to kiss a few times first. I think it’s totally acceptable but you need to build towards it.
/r/seduction05/11/17 12:17 PM
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Yeah that too. Gotta love crunchy nut cornflakes
/r/seduction05/11/17 08:37 AM
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Ah sorry I got it wrong. Princess Retard then :). Anyway have a nice day
/r/seduction05/11/17 08:35 AM
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Thanks for this, it’s useful advice on how to be a chauvinist that women regret going on a date with/having sex with. So you’re setting a great example of the following: A. Telling women we’re stupid and don’t know what we want. Believe it or not, no actually means no and you should respect that. B. Making personal attacks - very mature... C. Not ever saying anything nice to a woman (okaaay then) D. Telling guys to ‘plow on’ regardless of whether she’s ok with you doing that Actually I agree wit…
/r/seduction05/11/17 08:27 AM
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That’s a brilliant tip to ensure that your date ends in the hospital and that you look like an American Psycho esq perpetrator of violence against women.
/r/seduction05/11/17 06:30 AM
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Have you ever tried? It’s better on our side than you going for it and we’re not wanting you to.
/r/seduction05/11/17 06:27 AM
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That’s a good thing and some people are just blessed ;). If ever in doubt, then talk about it with a girl you’ve been seeing for a while and are comfortable with. Ask what she likes and dislikes and stuff
/r/seduction05/11/17 06:26 AM
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Why thank you sir ;)
/r/seduction05/11/17 03:01 AM
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If not, then refer her to my article lmao
/r/seduction05/11/17 03:01 AM
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Yep if they prefer it then definitely don’t do it, I agree. Not everyone is the same. And talking about what you like/dislike is great
/r/seduction05/11/17 03:00 AM
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Dude you’re adorable, thanks :)
/r/seduction05/11/17 02:59 AM
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Very true the melting is great. But if you have no clue as to her intentions and need to confirm that, then check out the above tips to confirm her agency and choice before making these killer moves - and not looking awkward
/r/seduction05/11/17 02:59 AM
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See the above reply I have to someone who does :)
/r/seduction05/11/17 02:56 AM
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Ok so in the middle/end part of the date see if it’s ok to touch her hand. With an excuse of crossing the road or something small. If she flinches away, it’s probably a bad idea. If she doesn’t then at the end of a date if you can’t read the signals just ask. Seriously, it’s not awkward. It’s better than looking like a horny dumbass. Be like “I find you very attractive and want to know if it’s ok to kiss you.” I would be honored if you asked like that and it comes across as smooth, not needy. As…
/r/seduction05/11/17 02:56 AM
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Hey oral is awesome I hear you. But using a tongue right in a kiss can create a lot of sexuality. Kissing is the foreplay of foreplay really. Mirror what her tongue is doing and even talk about it after. Tell her you find it awkward and can she teach you (if you want to be taught) - instead of thinking you’re weird, she may appreciate the effort you want to put in and that you’re actually asking. But yeah, if you really hate it then nobody’s forcing you.
/r/seduction04/11/17 09:38 PM
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When you want to kiss someone there’s this electric tension that you can’t fake or force. It helps, so when it happens just go with that and don’t try to worry too much. I know that sounds vague, but the chemistry will help. Also a couple of drinks (just a couple) will also help. And mints. And other stuff in the article I linked.. have you got a date coming up?
/r/seduction04/11/17 09:36 PM
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Thanks I appreciate :)
/r/seduction04/11/17 09:33 PM
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Honestly, I agree with some the comments here. Say it clearly on your profile but in a tasteful way, like “looking for casual fun” or “not looking for anything serious” that is totally ok and not douchey. Include a good bio though and leave that as your last line. A good bio helps a tonne with matches - even for hookups, because it makes you stand out. Find out how to make one with this. Would leave out the spanking approach unless you’re feeling ultra-brave though.. haha. Leaving it for the dat…
/r/seduction04/11/17 08:29 PM
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You’re welcome I’m glad you found it useful :)
/r/seduction04/11/17 08:22 PM
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Yeah it’s stupidly expensive :( that’s why I can’t live there permanently but whatever.. haha ok cool :)
/r/seduction04/11/17 06:44 PM
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Glad you found it useful :)
/r/seduction04/11/17 04:15 PM
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Lol why do you feel cheap? I didn’t intend that... some guys just feel it’s mandatory to do it and so get put off, because they think all girls are interested in is a free dinner; which is not true. I’m from London and I think it’s more common to split here but also nice if a guy wants to get it.
/r/seduction04/11/17 04:15 PM
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As a girl, I always offer to pay and I don't mind splitting but if the guy insists he's got it, then that's fine too. Is she offering to pay by this point? Because it would be polite if she was... When you get the tab, pay but if she offers, then take her up on it. If not, I would judge her a bit for not wanting to split. If you're truly broke, then I wouldn't judge you if you asked "do you mind if we split?" Also "I guess I shouldn't because we didn't have any intimacy" - you're not paying for …
/r/seduction04/11/17 08:27 AM
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Ask them out by saying "Hey do you want to have lunch sometime?" and then go out with them. Give off some signals like touching their arm casually and smiling/laughing a lot (if you're feeling it) and then be like "I'm quite attracted to you" and boom, they're yours.
/r/seduction04/11/17 08:15 AM
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Yeah! Do it
/r/seduction18/10/17 11:01 AM
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Just say “dyu wanna grab a coffee sometime?” Or if you’re doing something together in class or something ask “dyu wanna grab a coffee after?” And you know what. If she says yes, that means she likes you. Maybe as a friend or something more. But both are good. And she values your guts in asking. And if she says no for reasons other than being genuinely busy at that time, then she’s not the girl you’d want to date anyway. Because she’s either judge mental or doesn’t like you enough. So nothing to …
/r/seduction17/10/17 07:54 PM
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A coffee is pretty innocent if you ask me. You wouldn’t even be saying the word ‘date’. If I was her and I liked you (even if I didn’t know whether or not there was chemistry) I’d say yes. Take the plunge! Lol
/r/seduction17/10/17 07:49 PM
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Haha this is soooo detailed!!! Dude. Just ask her if she wants to grab a coffee one day.
/r/seduction17/10/17 06:55 PM
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Maybe she's not that into you or has other options. Sorry. If you've already kissed her and it died after the third date, that was a conscious decision on her part - ball was in her court. But hey, don't worry or be anxious, just move on and get another date. When you get a date that does go well, this will all be forgotten. Being anxious or clingy will only drive her further away, so just leave this and move on. How many times has this third date thing happened to you?
/r/seduction13/10/17 11:43 AM
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Probably. Then I said I had to get up early the next day (a lie) and left. I thought he must've realized then that I was bored. But then he messaged after.... I think this goes two ways though. It's important for girls to listen and be interested in the other person too.
/r/seduction11/09/17 01:19 AM
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Man buns can work. I think the Khal Drogo look is paying off here lol
/r/seduction10/09/17 09:08 AM
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Really true. I went on a date with a dude last night and he was an artist and said he wanted to have a conversation. The conversation ended up being him talking about Trump, him talking about not wanting to be labelled as a white male, him saying stuff like "there is no existential pain without gravity" and not taking a break with the jargon. He was talking to himself I didn't get a word in edge-ways. I had no idea what he was saying after a bit and got super bored.
/r/seduction10/09/17 09:06 AM
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Just... don't make it a big deal. Age is just a number. If there's an attractive, smart girl, just be normal around her.
/r/seduction10/09/17 09:02 AM
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It's probably because we don't know ourselves what we actually want until later on. I don't want clingy, needy guys - but they're romanticized. I don't want aloof guys who don't give a shit - but they're also romanticized. I like guys that are in the middle - but every girl has a different boundary. So don't listen to us when we don't know, but then do listen when we have figured it out. How do you know when we've figured it out? You don't; we're complicated.
/r/seduction05/09/17 06:15 AM
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"Hey dyu wanna smoke up" isn't sleazy. Then if she's cool, she'll say yeah and you can ask "when are you free?" I think don't overthink it. And if she just wants attention and not to be friends then whatever.
/r/seduction05/09/17 06:09 AM
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When I was that age, I didn't talk to guys when I was in a group, because I didn't want my friends to be looking and I was scared of the guy thinking it was weird. I wished they would strike up a conversation though, so it seems both sides are kind of similar! If I was you, I would just ask where they're going tonight - worst that can happen is they freeze you out, so nothing to lose...
/r/seduction04/09/17 12:05 PM
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Not sure if it's better but sometimes guys just give me their numbers instead. You could just say "here's my number"
/r/seduction04/09/17 12:02 PM
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After traveling and working in different places, I find dates I go on are really cool, because guys in different countries think the stories are fascinating. But yeah also make sure to listen and not talk on solid chunks. I went on a date once with this guy who was an extreme nomad and he didn't shut up at all about how he walked barefoot and cleaned beaches in Thailand...
/r/seduction03/09/17 02:40 PM
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I felt really lonely when I moved to live in Vietnam and there were no guys that I wanted to date or anything at the time. It's this shitty feeling in the pit of your stomach. But I think the best thing is to stay single until you're comfortable with being alone. And accept that there are perhaps other issues which cause the loneliness; e.g. I knew I was frustrated, because I wasn't completely happy with my job. So then I talked to my best friend and in my head made a plan of what I would do - t…
/r/seduction02/09/17 01:12 AM
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Hey! I would say that it's similar to guys approaching girls - I just make normal conversation first with guys about something that's happening that we can both talk about e.g. the bus being late... that's just an opener. Eye contact and smiling is good - maybe try it out on someone you don't fancy at first just to see? Then if there's a convo maybe ask to have a coffee or something instead of straight out saying you think they're cute. I did that a couple of times and it worked out ok. I agree,…
/r/seduction02/09/17 01:05 AM
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No worries. Just take stuff at your own pace and see what feels natural to you..
/r/seduction01/09/17 11:15 PM
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Yeah but she should date you for you and not your back. If you go on a date, maybe just talk about it in a jokey way and gage her reaction. If she's grossed out, then why would you want to date someone that judgmental anyway? If it's not an issue then that's cool. Personally, I wouldn't care if a guy had bumps on his back if I liked him. Hopefully your matches will also be cool about it and this will raise your confidence levels.
/r/seduction01/09/17 12:29 AM
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Yeah that guide is really in-depth! When I flirt (I'm a girl), I make eye contact that's longer than usual but not too long to be creepy, smile and laugh more and my voice goes up a tiny bit. The first touching is just of the hand or arm and that's well-into a date; I wouldn't touch someone I'd just started flirting with, because that's weird boundary-wise.
/r/seduction01/09/17 12:24 AM
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Congrats!
/r/seduction31/08/17 11:13 PM
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That's kinda weird that she just slept on your shoulder - I'm assuming she doesn't know you that well? Lol yeah totally into you. Next time you see her, say hi and start a convo then ask what she's doing that evening and swap numbers.
/r/seduction31/08/17 11:12 PM
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Hey - nothing's perfect and tinder isn't an exception; I just wanted to share some stuff I found when reading up on it. Glad you found it useful. Yeah I mean there were links and stuff to the research bits in bold, but I took them out here, because I didn't want it to be too spammy.. thanks for the feedback :).
/r/seduction31/08/17 03:10 PM
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Hey :). Seriously not meaning to spam, I like seddit. Just thought it would be useful for people who do choose to use tinder. Great that you're confident enough to approach people in person, good for you :)
/r/seduction31/08/17 03:07 PM
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Thanks and good luck!
/r/seduction31/08/17 02:03 PM
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As a girl, I think the key is to make it look like normal convo. Like yesterday a guy randomly comes up to me in the street and asks "hey are you Indian?" And that puts me on guard, because I'm wary of him not knowing me and about to chat me up. Also in bars, don't straight away ask "can I buy you a drink?" because you don't know me. Like build some sort of rapport first. So If there's a long wait for the bus, comment on it. If you're next to someone in a restaurant and she's alone too, say how …
/r/seduction31/08/17 10:49 AM
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As Pitbull suggests, the hotel, motel, Holiday Inn is where the action is at.
/r/seduction31/08/17 10:34 AM
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Oh damn sorry. They were so good the internet swallowed them... Wait I'll fix this
/r/seduction31/08/17 07:14 AM
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If they're selfies of you taken by her then yeah. If she's in the picture then a massive nope. It would tell me that you're not over her or want us to know about her (why?) Just something that I don't like - literally no other girls in the picture... unless it's a friendly group shot.
/r/seduction25/08/17 09:07 AM
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Absolutely! And you know what - if she texts you back, it's a win for her, if not, it's her loss and you'll find another attractive girl that you'll be brave enough to talk to. So I mean don't get too invested - it's definitely a win for you as it is!
/r/seduction21/08/17 09:29 AM
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If you just have one pic, that's probably why. Get at least 4 pictures. One wearing a suit, one in a group where you're not drunk, one outdoors and another one - don't need to follow this exactly but it's a suggestion. Do some where it's full body and some where you're closer - but don't come too close, we will feel weird when swiping. Get friends to take pictures. Bio: Take out the 'cause that matters a lot' thing - sounds like you judge us. If you need advice or anything when you have more pic…
/r/seduction21/08/17 06:17 AM
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People who actually have the balls to approach girls in person are really rare now - so you stood out clearly. Well done!
/r/seduction21/08/17 06:11 AM
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