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I haven't even heard of a woman who does that. Are you saying the women on reddit don't exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:55 PM
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I think these are different groups of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:59 PM
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That's a perfectly valid opinion. So is the opinion that a fetus deserves rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:35 AM
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Friend. I said most women are from FDS. I didn't say the majority of people on this sub are from FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:37 AM
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Someone shared a stat a while ago that 40-ish percent of participants on here participated in FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:22 AM
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As i said in earlier comments, I'd also choose Emilia Clarke if she was interested in me but that doesn't mean Id say no to casual sex with average looking girls. But in hookup situation it isn't just one man approaching one woman. Bars and parties have large groups of men and women. This situation flipped would be you choosing your average-wife (who you don't know personally) over Emilia Clarke at a party. You wouldn't! You would have rejected future-wife. In a situation where it's just drunk s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:41 AM
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No. Most women on this sub are from FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:26 AM
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Now why wouldn't a guy be pissed that his wife is settling for him and knowing that she'd have defenitely rejected him in her hookup days? Let's assume this actually happens in your life. Why would you be pissed? Because you can't accept that you aren't marvel-action-star hot? If you looked like Chris Hemsworth and had your pick of the supermodels, would you have picked your average-looking wife over them? People are capable of loving people that aren't peak physical perfection because there is …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:25 AM
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Women being overlooked in the workplace is a problem that exists, but the culture has also changed so much over the last 10-15 years. I find that it all varies greatly depending on the age of management. I have found myself overlooked when management was older men, but it has not been an issue for me when management has been women and younger men. I'd say the deeper issue we have is workers in general being treated badly, undervalued and underpaid. Edit: Also as a side note, being a short woman,…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:50 AM
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And this is the problem with TRP. If it doesn't line up its a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:56 PM
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I'm sorry you guys had to go through that, it's so tough for everyone involved. For a lot of pro-lifers the crux of it is the fetus'/child's right to life, and unfortunately the left fails to represent this perspective, a perspective I think makes the pro-life stance a lot more understandable. While I'm very pro choice, I don't think the pro-life side's pov (fetus rights trump women's rights) is less valid than my pov (women's rights trump fetus rights).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:06 PM
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/s (do I really need this?) Yes haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:56 PM
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I think there's a difference between feeling good/confident about how you look specifically and confident in yourself as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:55 PM
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Mediocrity is normal. Most people are mediocre.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:20 PM
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Not a martyr and not on a high horse. If you think being not nice is gonna make you a billionaire, no it won't. The ruling class will benefit from you regardless of your personality or mine. But, I firmly believe that liking yourself is a big part of being happy. And I'm just tryin to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:01 PM
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Why? Skydaddy? No, for yourself. I'm nice to others because I like myself better that way. I don't care about anything else. I don't do it to get something from it. I literally just like myself more that way and that's all I need. People aren't always nice back. That's on them. If your article is trying to prove that narcissistic assholes comprise our ruling class, yeah, obviously. I have no interest in running a hedge fund. I'm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:51 PM
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That people take things like "be yourself" or "it's about personality" very, very literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:25 PM
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Or be nice for yourself, not because being nice will get you something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:23 PM
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To be fair, women in the US do have the same legal rights as men. The abortion topic is difficult, because you have to ask, should the fetus have a right to life? Does the fetus' right to life trump the mother's right to an abortion? I don't think it's as clear cut as taking away women's rights, for a lot of people its about the fetus' right. I don't agree with it personally, but its certainly not an issue with a clear right answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:35 AM
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My post isn't a personal opinion. Expectations for men and women can be the same or different, its whatever society makes them be. Women were discriminated against in the workplace an paid less than male counterparts for the same work. This falls under the umbrella of legal milestones. Also at no point did I say women in the 80s were not liberated so I'm not sure why you imply that I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:54 AM
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Too bad his hair is invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:26 AM
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Not something I've gone through, but abortions are really hard for so many people. Your hormones change. Your instincts kick in. If you are a woman that wants children one day, it can be so hard to end that life, that potential human being that you know you will love. There are women haunted by abortions and deeply regret them. Religious people especially. The choice to end a pregnancy is not an easy one for a lot of women, especially the older you get. It can be heartbreaking. Some people just …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:56 PM
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Women's roles were changing in the 80s, the 80s was the first time women earned about half of bachelor's degrees and were now able to support families. (I believe this happened in the mid-80s). That being said, it had only been about 20 years since "housewives," were the norm, and a lot of people in power, especially in the workplace, still held onto the traditional views they grew up with, so women were overlooked for promotions, dealt with workplace discrimination, pay gaps, etc. Socially, gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:42 PM
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Theres a huge gap with how women were treated in the workplace and what societal expectations were for women between the 80s and now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:17 PM
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Hey, I'm all for taking responsibility for one's life and happiness. Can't be there for others if you aren't there for yourself first. That being said, I think there's lots of good men out there, and in my experience, the people that say "where are all the good men" are usually problematic themselves, and the "good men" don't want em.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:39 PM
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I'd say just because women initiate divorce, doesn't mean the relationship is good, or the man is happy, or the relationship is healthy, or the man hasn't done anything wrong, etc. Perhaps men are just more willing to stay in unhappy marriages than women, irl I've definitely seen those unhappy couples where they hate each other but stay together. The custody thing is a myth, dads get custody when they ask for it, they just often don't ask for 50/50 or full. https://www.dadsdivorcelaw.com/blog/fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:25 PM
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I mean people are people, we are all flawed, and it's expected that people will make mistakes and bad choices, but we ourselves also do the same. It's easy to side with someone's one-sided representation of a failed relationship, but once the whole picture is made clear, the majority of the time both people made mistakes and share the responsibility of something not working out. I uses to think in term of, well they cheated on me/lied so it's 100% their fault, but have come to realize that yes, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:10 PM
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He followed all the rules laid out by society of what it means to be a good man, This gives me "I take no responsibility for anything that I did wrong" vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:50 PM
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Just gonna say religious people aren't more moral, and when society was more religious it wasn't more moral. Social pressure doesn't make people more moral either. Morality comes from within, and has to do with who someone is as a person, otherwise it's just performative and you have sex-before-marriage-donate-to-charity Karen screaming at retail workers and slapping her kids and scamming her neighbors into her MLM downline.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:47 PM
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That's what paper abortions are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:20 PM
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So you go on dates with many pretty women, most of them treat the waiters badly, and when they ask to see you again you write "'no?"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:11 PM
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Idk, I live on the west coast, and there's like two people trying to be an actress or model in Portland. No one's moving to Oregon/Washington to make it in the entertainment industry. That really is just SoCal, and Vancouver.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:59 PM
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Like they ask you on a date, and you write back "no"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:53 PM
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I think that's just SoCal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:50 PM
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I wanna know how do you reject them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:49 PM
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The halo effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:47 PM
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Theres also a huge connection between eating disorders and mental health issues like depression, ptsd, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:44 PM
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No. Not Henry Cavil. Henry Cavil as the Witcher, specifically. But I'll take regular Henry as well. I love beige.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:45 AM
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What makes you think that because this works for women, that it’s what men actually need as well? I don't think it does. Self confidence comes from within. Looking better doesn't actually make anyone more self confident as a person, but it is validating when people treat you better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:35 AM
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Ya'll can have him. Brad, Henry and I will see ourselves out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:22 AM
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If only he wasn't taken....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:34 AM
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You take Seth, I'll take Brad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:03 AM
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I think that depends entirely on what 3 looks like. If 1 is Brad Pitt from Troy, 2 is Henry Cavill in the Witcher, and 3 is Seth Rogan....well...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:51 AM
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This is what I mean. Lots of dudes also think she's gorgeous. I don't think attraction is unanimous for either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:14 AM
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I think it's up to each couple, isn't it? If you're fine with that, go for it. If not, don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:38 AM
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I feel like you kidnapped the phrase "relationships aren't fair," and are now forcing it to be where it really doesn't want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:35 AM
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Men unanimously find the same women attractive Anecdotal, but I've been around dudes arguing over celebs like Angelina Jolie being hot or ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:33 AM
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I feel like it depends on what it is. If people are getting seriously hurt, obviously on drugs, signs of human trafficking, obviously underage, then I'd say that's a major problem. If it's a fun story where the housewife can't afford to pay for the pizza and has to make a deal, then go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:28 AM
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Guy 4: He lurks in the shadows. He speaks to everyone and knows no one. He is feared and respected. He is the bouncer. But of the three you described, whoever is the best looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:24 AM
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Abortions a separate issue. I'm all for paper abortions for men, and I hope that happens. Both parents should be able to opt out of an unwanted pregnancy. But for very religious people and Texas abortion might not be an option...and usually both people know that going into the bedroom. And again, outside of sexual assault, men have control over contraceptives. Birth control pills are not 100%, and usually both people know that going into the bedroom. It takes two to make a baby. Men get granted …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:24 PM
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It takes two to have a child out of wedlock.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:05 PM
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What's the crime? And again, you're paying for her to be in jail with your tax dollars, and paying for the kid in foster care. You've made it cost twice as much now for taxpayers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:00 PM
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You can't just start forcibly taking children from people. Not only is this a massive human rights violation and incredibly cruel, if you take away the kid from every single mother and single father that needs government assistance you will overwhelm the system, those kids will end up in foster care, and we're back to paying for them with tax dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:55 PM
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child(ren) will likely grow up to hate her for her selfish actions which that cost them a stable, loving familial environment. No, they'll likely grow up to hate the dad that abandoned them because that's what she will raise them to believe, and will likely turn out just like her. Bad parents, more often than not, raise damaged kids, that more often than not become bad parents. It's rare to see people break cycles of generational trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:52 PM
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I'm not into the pills, but I gotta say, Kim's a billionaire. She's as close to your average 40+ single mom as I am to building a spaceship. And PD is a successful, charming celebrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:35 PM
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Oh it wouldn't be just for heterosexuals. We'd have a gay/bi option too :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:01 PM
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It would be fine for people that are looking for something serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:51 PM
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I'm the opposite. When I was younger I'd probably feel the same as you, but now I'm down for them to see my bare face and the laundry. If they're not into my natural face, then it's not meant to be lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:15 PM
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You really need to see how a guy interacts with others to see if YOU are attracted TO HIM? lol. I will never never understand this. It's not to see if you are attracted to him. It's to get a better sense of who he is as a person. It's like the whole, are they rude to the waiter? thing. They could be cute, sweet to you, but rude to the waiter, and that says a lot. Just seeing someone interact with others gives you another piece of the puzzle for who they are as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:10 PM
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That's creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:59 PM
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I do! And I mean an app that encourages it, not just a feature.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:41 PM
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Then keep using tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:40 PM
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Not if she retrieves the stone that destroys the wall and brings it to the tree wizard. I personally prefer ladies in their 30s. Always have.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:26 AM
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I'd love an app that encouraged video chatting over messaging. We get to see what everyone looks like, and see if our personalities click.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:25 AM
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Or...maybe noodles didn't undergo the cave goblin transformation most women undergo on the midnight of their 30th birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:20 AM
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Small.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:07 AM
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As a Russian, I can confirm that is is accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:05 AM
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That doesn't make him stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:00 AM
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Are there men on social media that love lip fillers, lots of contoured make-up and fake asses? Absolutely. Its not the norm though. Both ladies and gentlemen like natural beauty, and reward the naturally beautiful with romantic interest. For those that are not genetically blessed, well placed fillers, well-blended contour and "fat asses" tend to result in more romantic interest than flat, unattractive natural features. The artificial may not be everyone's cup of tea, but it does get more attenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:12 AM
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Arnold exercised a lot and is by no means stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:08 AM
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Women; Literally dont approach me anywhere. Also women; Men dont approach me anymore. This is two separate groups of women. I think that's the issue with seeing women (or men, or any group) as a monolith, it starts to contradict itself. But the reality is some women want to be approached, some women don't, some women don't know what they want, etc. I personally don't want to be approached, but my best friends loves it. There's not a one size fits all approach. If you wanna approach women do it, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:43 AM
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Thank you for being an excellent example of what I was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:58 PM
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Debating is fun, and I've learned a lot about some of the struggles that men face when dating. I think it's made me a lot more empathetic towards what men have to go through in terms of dating, and sexist expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:45 PM
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I had a debate on here the other day with a user that did not believe that women deserved rights, including the right to vote. My boring opinion was that women did indeed deserve rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:44 PM
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Most of these "advice" phrases like "be yourself" or "trust the process" or "it's not meant to be" are useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:41 PM
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I think we can all agree that perhaps it was not the Russians, but the Russian winter did the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:56 AM
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Somebody do something only happens in movies. Asking men to lift heavy things isn't anti feminist? Feminism isn't about not needing men. It's about equal rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:06 AM
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Winning isn't the same thing as joining the winning team at the end of the game. Russia did the absolute most in WWII.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:01 AM
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I think work on yourself also includes your inner self. Social skills, conflict resolution, trauma, anxieties, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:59 PM
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Abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:19 PM
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I think you and I both know full well that there are not....since the breasts usually belong to free-will having human beings. Now if the breasts just existed on their own in some dark vacuum there might be something specific they would want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:12 PM
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Something that large breasted ladies want. You large breasted conservative christian isn't going to want the same thing as your large breasted van-life free spirit anarchist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:44 PM
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by the same same loser Ah yes. He must be a loser if he's driving an Altima and isn't rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:53 PM
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It takes minimal effort to meet men as a woman. You literally have to just exist in a public place and men will make approaches. I've been approached by men in public.... maybe twice in my life. Once I was 16 and he was 30+. So no, they really don't unless you're pretty good looking, and even then theres a culture now around not approaching women. At bars it's different, but you're not likely to find a relationship with drunk, college sophomore Peter who staggers over.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:44 AM
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Oh ok. So you think women should be ok if they aren't your best, but you should leave them if you aren't her best? Is that what you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:35 PM
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So....you think it's a totally sound relationship strategy for a woman to leave you if she's not the best you've ever had? Alright. You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:27 PM
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I'm just trying to point out how silly this is by flipping it around, and I kinda feel like its based on a really misguided view of what love and relationships should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:21 PM
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Would you be fine with women leaving men if she's not the best he's ever had?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:58 PM
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i just know a balanced couple when i see or feel one. No you don't. You don't know anything about someone's personal life just by looking at them. And men don't become less aggressive just because someone not aggressive is near by or living with them. And the statistics are skewed because female abuse of men is underreported and not taken as seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:55 AM
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women in those balance out the mans rage. Men aren't naturally full of rage. Women can and do abuse men, who struggle to get taken seriously. I feel like you have this glittery and fantastical way of looking at couples, not a realistic one that takes into account human psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:35 AM
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herero relationships. not same sex Are women in same sex relationships not women? Also your link doesn't prove me wrong? It's a lesbian domestic violence fact sheet from the 90s?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:06 AM
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No. Lesbian couples have the highest domestic violence rates. Domestic violence by women towards men is grossly underreported. Women are people, and get pretty violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:02 AM
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now they don't like it They absolutely like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:01 AM
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It's up to each dude. Everyone is allowed preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:52 AM
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"woman bad" "Why?" "WOMAN BAD"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:54 PM
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Because we no longer need to be married. Women can work and make as much as men. Traditional gender roles are going away. There is less social pressure to stay in marriages, and more support for leaving if you are unhappy. In the past women didn't leave because they couldn't work/social pressure, men didn't leave because social pressure/losing money in divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:43 PM
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It's not either be TRP or be an emotionally damaged wreck. Somewhere in the middle exist self-confident, emotionally mature people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:37 AM
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Here's a short video explaining the dennis system. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bg5ZrkaGlFA&t=1s&ab_channel=FXNetworks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:55 PM
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To seduce then separate entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:05 PM
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I mean everyone I know works hard. You kinda have to if you want you and your kids to live comfortably. I'm not particularly ambitious, like I don't care to be like a company ceo or anything but I learned programming so I could work from home and make money. I can't say I've ever worked for anything other than money, but I also can't say I've skated by. I think a lot of people are like that. If you want money you gotta suck it up grind whether you want to or not. It sucks but thats how it is I g…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:57 PM
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What kind of jobs are ambitious jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:58 PM
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The Dennis system never fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:53 PM
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And if you find a woman that's NOT traditionally minded, she's going to be more likely to not want kids at all, because she chose her carreer and beliefs that she's going to have to give that up for kids. Anecdotal, but every woman I know with kids works.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:50 PM
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Paper abortions for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:24 PM
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Aragorn opening the double doors in Helm's deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:23 PM
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Ok so why is your statement women were subservient to men and not everyone was subservient to the elite? It's both, but these are two separate things. We were talking about gender roles not class. In your scenario he is not subservient to her. He may have a harder life, but that does not mean he is subservient. Subservience is defined as willingness to obey. The woman is the one expected to obey the wishes of the husband. History is....a long time. Different ethnic groups, nations, and time peri…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:15 PM
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If that's your definition of subservient then 99% of men and 100% of women were subservient to the 1% of men at the top. Correct. I can't answer what aliens would think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:27 PM
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Again, what would they do to a woman that didn't want to have a family and decided she wanted to go to university and become a scholar? To open a store? To tell her husband what to do and make the decisions? What happened to them? (They were killed/punished) I'm not saying women had it worse, both genders had it bad. I'm saying men held the power over women at every level of society, including in the family unit, regardless of what the woman wanted. In general, only men were allowed in positions…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:11 PM
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Lol So when women were like hey, I don't wanna be subservient what would happen? What did they do to women? Hmm?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:03 PM
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Women did work all throughout history. Clothes-making, factory work, farm work, domestic workers, weavers, secretaries, artisans, brewing beer, nuns, etc. They were not allowed in positions of power (clergy, law, government.) They were not allowed a formal education. Female poets and philosophers had to pretend to be men to enter libraries or have their work published. Women have dressed up as men to work as doctors, fight in wars, etc. Forcing women into subservience made economic sense. So did…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:23 AM
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Physically weaker does not equal less violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:17 AM
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https://www.npr.org/2015/04/19/400826487/transgender-man-leads-mens-health-cover-model-contest
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:14 AM
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As a member of womankind I second this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:25 AM
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You'd lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:13 AM
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Hey, you do you. If you wanna get married, go for it and be happy. But what's degrading and embarrassing to you isn't to others. And fyi, you can put whatever you want on your family tree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:54 AM
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I guess you could ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:43 AM
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FDS is very openly not feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:22 AM
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I don't think most FDS women would do any of these things, especially not outwardly. I think the real tell is they refuse to pay for dates, but so do traditional women so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:20 AM
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Nothing wrong with that, but I think plenty of people just value being healthy because it feels good to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:22 AM
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Yep. As I eat my nightly quinoa I also proclaim, "this is for men!" If it weren't for men I'd probably weigh 700 lbs. What good is using your legs if you can't use them to chase after men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:57 AM
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A problem I hope to one day have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:24 AM
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Being a forever gf or bf would be embarrassing There's the real reason lol. ​ It's only degrading if you make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:18 AM
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Taxes are 3.7% lower. Big deal That's a lot!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:16 AM
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Nope. In fact, I'm saying it right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:56 PM
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No it's 100% conscious. I literally say aloud "this is for the boys," when I look in the mirror before I step out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:50 PM
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Nope. When I break out the cat leggings the men just can't look away. It's for them. You're welcome, men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:48 PM
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When I put on purple mascara and cat leggings I think to myself, yes, this is what men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:34 PM
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Depends on the man I guess. Gerlats got the looks but also the very attractive personality that makes him the full package.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:22 PM
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No. I want Geralt specifically. He doesn't have to take off his shirt, but it wouldn't hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:10 PM
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Henry Cavill in the Witcher.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:28 PM
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So basically women don't care that much about a person's personality if they not attractive. Right. If you're not physically attracted to someone you are less likely to date them just for personality. That's pretty normal across both genders. Men also prioritize looks over personality. And again, being unattractive doesn't mean that person has a good personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:45 AM
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I think the FDS view of dating/men is kinda messed up. If I were a man I wouldn't date them and they wouldn't date me lol. I find the whole 6 6 6 thing super demeaning and messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:41 PM
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Again, good looking men that treat women well exist. The men that don't give "tingles" can also treat women badly. Being bad looking doesn't make someone a good person or a good boyfriend/girlfriend. I can chose between a hot guy with a mediocre personality, or a bad looking guy with a mediocre personality. Why would I choose the bad looking guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:05 PM
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than they would a successful guy who will treat them well. You forgot to add "that they are not attracted to." You also are missing the fact that there are plenty of broke, good-looking men that treat women well, and plenty of rich, smart men that think they're much nicer than they are, and actually treat their partners badly and have the communication skills of a boiled carrot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:57 PM
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I think everyone knows exactly what is meant by equality except for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:51 PM
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Bro, I'm just telling you what people mean. If you wanna play semantics with people, fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:51 PM
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Also the moral question of "buying" women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:17 PM
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Equal doesn't mean "same." When people say equal they mean one partner doesn't control another, one partner isn't the primary decision maker, one partner isn't seen as less-than or inferior. They don't mean that they would tie in an arm wrestling competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:20 PM
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Omg he would be a perfect Arthas.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:15 AM
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For me it's Geralt specifically. And I always get so happy when people say Cillian Murphy. Those eyes!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:22 AM
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Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez. I love her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:19 AM
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I'm perfectly familiar with the concepts you're discussing, and my English is as good as yours, I promise. That being said, the insurance industry has a lot of issues, and sexism is one of them. I don't think it's fair, but the industry isn't concerned with fairness. Charging young men more for a necessity for being men isn't fair. Also states like california have banned using gender to calculate insurance rates, yay!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:31 PM
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I fail to see what someone's genitals have to do with risk assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:13 PM
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It doesn't matter how you justify it. Sexism is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:36 PM
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Yeah but that's sexism and why feminism exists....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:12 PM
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I mean you admitted here that you have a bad personality so maybe that's a good place to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:58 AM
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And is also not real
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:21 AM
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Everyone wants six figures. You don't lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:01 PM
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Well those people suck and I hope they get called out for their homophobia. Gay isn't an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 08:55 PM
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Healthcare is the focus of everyone...and people making six figures usually ave insurance so they're fine. Healthcare is a major expense! So is rent!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 08:54 PM
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Well if I get a backyard one day maybe I'll farm some fish lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:58 PM
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https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2021/oct/12/us-households-financial-problems-medical-care-food People literally work full time and can't get healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:17 PM
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You want me to start a farm?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:13 PM
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No shame in being gay. Maybe if you stopped seeing gay as shameful you wouldn't feel this way. And I'm bisexual. Seems like you're the only one here that thought being called gay is shameful, kinda homophobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:12 PM
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So your telling me the women's ideal 6',6 figures, 6 pack isn't extra. 6'+ That's the FDS ideal and that sub is ridiculous. I think that's an incredibly dehumanizing way to talk about men. Secondly, money is an issue. I don't know where you're from, but it's a huge issue in the US. Poverty affects all races btw. People are struggling to afford rent and childcare, can't purchase homes due to student debt/low wages. Inflation is at an all time high. Having someone with enough money for a house/chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 08:28 AM
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These are just preferences. Being taller isn't "more." It's just a physical feature. Money is desirable for everyone, especially with the crazy costs of housing, childcare, and education. If men aren't looking for rich women, maybe they should. Having money is good. Again, I don't see why someone wanting a tall/rich partner means they are insecure. You're not proving that there is any connection between these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 08:11 AM
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Wanting someone "more than" is connected to low self worth. No it isn't. I'm 5'2". Just because I want to date a man taller than 5'2'' doesn't mean I have low self worth. A person wanting to date someone rich doesn't mean they have low self worth. Again, no connection. I feel like you're taking the phrase "more than," and using it to make some ridiculous leaps in logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 08:01 AM
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as either caretakers of Eden or higher animals, take responsibility for our limited powers of creation and destruction and make sure the animal is at least happy and goes as painlessly as possible Well that doesn't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:52 AM
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No men don't care if Megan fox has money or doesnt, being honest. Also your getting it confused. Men want women in general. If she's more attractive than him or less, it doesn't matter. I'm pretty sure this is just desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:38 AM
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Wanting a smart/tall man is not in any way connected to wanting to be emotionally abused and manipulated. This feels like something a nice guy would post that blames being too nice for failure to find a partner, and decides all women want to be emotionally abused because that's the only explanation for why women would reject such a wonderful, nice man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:34 AM
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Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 02:15 AM
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Or maybe bisexual? Sexuality is a spectrum, and sadly society hasn't been very accepting of bisexual/pansexual men. And I think both sexes are quite beautiful. But I agree, one shouldn't be seen as more beautiful than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 02:01 AM
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I think you may be discovering something about your own sexuality here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:40 AM
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I looked at thee study and it only had 10 men and 10 women look at a small set of clips, clips that we don't get to see. I'd be interested in learning more about the topic, but this study is too flawed. If clips were meant to appeal to heterosexual women but were all created by/directed by heterosexual men there's a problem right there. The other issue is they deliberately made sure women were not ovulating during the study. Another issue is they don't take societal conditioning into account, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:51 PM
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This happens with men too, though. Men can also fall in deeply in love with someone that isn't their ideal physical type. I really don't see how women's sexuality is more complex than a men's. Edit: not saying male and female sexuality is exactly the same, but that men and women are both visual, and one isn't significantly more complex than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:43 PM
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You claimed men make the first move "because women generally risk more from sexual relations." So you are presenting a brand new argument and abandoning your original claim And if you mean sex instead of gender, you should say sex. Sex and gender are not interchangeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:54 AM
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if we're talking just sex men and women are both mainly visual. Women aren't having one night stands with bad-looking smart nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:52 AM
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Men care about more than just visuals too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:12 AM
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Women aren't visual? That's news to me. Kinda contradicts the whole women only going for hot dudes thing PPD always brings up...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:54 AM
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well said
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:41 AM
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womens sexuality is more complex how so?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:51 AM
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12 year old girls getting hit on by grown men is common. It's common where I grew up, it's common where everyone grew up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:42 PM
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I don't think women had it worse, actually, and that's not the point I'm trying to make. Everyone suffered, men, women, children. My point is women didn't have equal rights, not that they had it worse. You didn't address my claims about education, and disproved my case about landowning laws with an article about native Americans, who were a separate society. Non native women did not own land. That's why I said US. Your article is about before the time of the US. In Europe, yes, queens owned land…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:35 PM
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Sex and gender are not the same thing. Gender is the roles society puts on each sex. Gender roles can change and are arbitrary, sex is biological. As a woman I think men making the first move is outdated and needs to end. Risks from sex have nothing to do with making first moves and in no way does anything to reduce any of the "risks" you're alluding to. Men have risks as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:17 PM
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Most people date within their same socioeconomic class so no, divorce won't destroy men. Regardless, if someone is being manipulative, manipulating them back won't solve the problem or make you either of you happier. It makes you just as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:53 AM
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It's not fair play, it's two people being manipulative which is only going to lead to unhappiness. If your partner is doing immoral things leave...don't also become a horrible person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:45 AM
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And yet here you are, a man, advocating for manipulating your partner....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:10 AM
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Why can't people just not get into relationships like that at all though? Like let's not normalize manipulating your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:36 AM
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Cause you love 'em. Of course if it gets to my 600-lb-life extremes and they don't wanna work on it then I'd probably end the romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:08 AM
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Poor them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:49 PM
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So why did they? For her pleasure? An act of charity?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:46 PM
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Society tolerated it because it benefitted both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:39 PM
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I'm not sure that's how it worked back in the day
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:30 PM
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Really? How many women were allowed as members of the clergy? Government jobs? Law jobs? How many female doctors did we have? How many women were graduating from universities? Voting? Being merchants? Poets? Writers? Professors? Shop owners? (None. It wasn't allowed) The history of the world is....long, and every nation is different. In most we have long periods where women had very few rights. In china women literally had their feet bound so they could barley walk. In Korea they weren't allowed…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:19 PM
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Spinsters are unmarried older women considered too old for marriage. The term spinster originated from old, single women that supported themselves through jobs like spinning wool.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:17 PM
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Yes they could. Some men could get an education, own property and hold positions of power. No women could. None.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:52 PM
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That all falls under the young unmarried (sometimes married I suppose) women category, not the spinster category. Also Emma Hamilton was 15 when she started being a mistress.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:48 PM
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Nor could she get an education or own property or hold positions of power. Even children "belonged" to the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:29 PM
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Loser spinsters weren't the mistresses. It was young, unmarried women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:28 PM
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Totally agree. Some women have no idea how hard it is to approach and how much repeated rejection hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:38 PM
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Totally agree. I think the first rule that needs to go is men paying for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:08 PM
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It's other women that usually say it/we hear it in the media, and men irl that happen to "lose interest" in the woman for "being too easy." Or don't want "high n count women" which I see repeated a lot on this sub. To have a low n count women can't sleep with all of their first dates. The n count thing is another way of saying they don't want slutty women, which ties back to not sleeping with men too soon. I think plenty of men do have this sentiment and like a bit of a chase. I also think it va…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:52 PM
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The term you may be looking for is asexual. Asexual people can and do have happy romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:12 AM
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Well I would also challenge that a little bit. Perhaps the woman changed her approach to dating as she got older and no longer sleeps with men early on. I think it's quite common to see that as we age. The other thing that comes to mind is that if she elects to have sex right away, it could be because she knows she isn't interested in a relationship with said man, which removes the fear of getting hurt if he's deceitful/just after sex. Sleeping with someone she really likes too soon and getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:17 AM
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I can only speak for myself as everyone dates differently, but I usually tell a man "I really like you/I've been enjoying getting to know you." Otherwise I suppose neither party knows for sure until you enter a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:09 AM
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I don't think it's that at all. Many women are conditioned that men won't consider them girlfriend material if they sleep with them too soon. The other facet is if a woman really likes a man she wants to make sure he's not just trying to have sex and leave and waiting for sex is the way to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:48 PM
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In my opinion, true feminism is not about being equal to men lol You can't just change the definition of feminism to whatever you want it to be. If you don't want equality, great. But that's not feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:56 AM
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This is really not similar to rape allegations in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:00 AM
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I see a lot on this sub about how men lack support systems, have higher suicide rates after divorce etc. Then I see a post like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:10 AM
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People have been called “transphobic” for just saying no Well that's wrong. ​ And if saying someone with a vagina is not a man is “misgendering” thats ok It is and it's transphobic. Not respecting someone's gender identity is transphobic. That's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:13 PM
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Not wanting to date trans people is not transphobic, but deliberately misgendering them 100% is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:46 PM
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