TinyBlonde15 Archive

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1	My (43M) sister (47F) wants to stop contributing her share to elderly father’s care (80M) Women are raised to nurture others. It is considered our role. We are more likely to work at daycare and nursing and teaching bc of our socialization to care and nurture. This includes elder care overall as well. But this is just a children paying for parents issue which needs to be every child's choice, not obligatory.	/r/MensRights	22/02/25 01:46 AM
3	Is this sexual abuse I've been in the hole of wanting to die. I know what that's like. Gain a little spite. You're probably a people pleaser. Gain a bit of spite. Live out of spite. Save up every dollar while you have a free roof. Find any way. And then live and create a life you enjoy being in out of absolute spite. Don't turn mean. You've seen that. Approach with an attitude that you won't let cruel touch you again one day and find a way. Friends are hard to find in person since we stopped having third spaces that…	/r/MensRights	21/02/25 05:48 PM
5	Is this sexual abuse I'm very sorry. I know there are child resources but I also know that system is absolutely broken and may do more harm than good. Make some good friends and work towards moving out as soon as you're able legally and financially. Find people looking for a roommate. Get along well with them and create your own safe home. So sorry man.	/r/MensRights	21/02/25 05:36 PM
2	Is this sexual abuse Details. He is thinking you are using the word abused incorrectly. That it means she's mean when she fights or something. If it's not safe to tell him don't tell him. But if you know he loves you please tell him. My brother is a new father and he would want to know if anything happened to his baby.	/r/MensRights	21/02/25 05:29 PM
8	Is this sexual abuse Please talk to your dad. I don't know how old you are but write everything down and let him read what you shared. The details of the punching etc in the comments too. Tell him you have something serious to tell him and you've been hiding it because you were uncomfortable and didn't know how to say it so you wrote it down. He's your dad (im assuming hes a good guy and loves you). He needs to know so yall can work out some help. I'd see if he would help get you a counselor who specializes in child…	/r/MensRights	21/02/25 05:05 PM
1	Women Are Disgusted by Male Sexuality (And There's Little You Can Do About It) I'm not saying my sexuality expression is like a male. I am saying I love male sexuality. It's sensual and beautiful to see. Mine is very female. But I love sex with men and to experience theirs. And yes if I could choose gay or straight I would also choose to be gay. Men are statistically my most common danger and if I could have chosen I wouldn't have chosen to be attracted to them. But I am. So I have to weed out the dangerous ones like other straight women. Sometimes I've gotten it wrong in …	/r/MensRights	19/02/25 03:37 PM
10	Women Are Disgusted by Male Sexuality (And There's Little You Can Do About It) I love male sexuality don't know what you're talking about. I don't like men who get turned on by violence, but all my favorite lovers have been men. Love when they do those cute little moans and gasps during a bj. So sexy.	/r/MensRights	19/02/25 05:54 AM
1	How do men protect themselves from women FA ? It's insulting to both of us to think i support rape in any form. I only support consensual sex. I was helping with the birth control issue bc he mentioned men don't have bc. I figured he didn't know since he said there wasn't. My bad. But don't insult us both of course if a man is raped by a woman and she gets pregnant I think he deserves to sign away his rights completely and not ever be involved in the child's life in any way, financially or otherwise. Thats common sense even if it isn't the …	/r/MensRights	18/02/25 03:58 PM
-45	How do men protect themselves from women FA ? .... Men do have birth control. It's called condoms and vasectomy and not putting sperm inside the only place a pregnancy can happen. Just play without Cumming inside there. Can still have fun orgasms without ever even doing penis in vagina...	/r/MensRights	18/02/25 06:06 AM
4	What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ? But divorce is beneficial to individuals who are not happy in their relationships. This sounds bad to force people to be stuck with each other when unhappy? Why??? What a miserable life to be legally forced. I'm too much of a small government, freedom person to believe in forcing marriages to stay together. That screams of big government.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/25 02:28 PM
2	What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ? But won't that make men really mad if women just won't have sex with them? Men were not excited about the 4b movement even tho it stops women from hoeing around as you said. Most men were not in favor of it at all and I had death threats and rape threats for promoting it for women's health during abortion bans...	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/25 02:27 PM
5	What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ? Abortion is avoiding pregnancy. A health condition that is 100 percent of the time damaging to the body. Every pregnancy causes damage to the pregnant person's body. And it can range from minor to death. If another human was using my body and it could lead to death, I would definitely withhold the right to evict them at any time for self defense. And I would defend a man his right to as well if someone was physically attached to his body he could remove them as well. This is bodily autonomy. No …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/25 02:25 PM
–	Why do fat women who don't exercise try to date fit men? You don't know what someone has going on Health wise till you get to know them. Like you'd be attracted to them whether you knew or not. Then you find out. I was still attracted to my person. It didn't affect my attraction. I didn't know you were talking about people seeking out certain traits like cancer. I wasn't even on that page with you haha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/25 02:26 AM
2	Why do fat women who don't exercise try to date fit men? And I'm 34.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/25 01:39 AM
5	Why do fat women who don't exercise try to date fit men? My brother is turning 39 this year. He got married in 2016 if I'm remembering correctly. Def not off by more than one year. So he got married at around 30. He met my sister in law I wanna say a couple years. One year dating one year engaged I think. Not really sure but that sounds right. So yea it may be different for the younger ones now who don't socialize but rely on online meetings thru apps. Since yall are around same age it may not have applied to him as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/25 01:39 AM
3	Why do fat women who don't exercise try to date fit men? I'm pretty specifically attracted to bigger men. I'm super skinny. Anyone hard would not make snuggling pleasurable so I go for flab for my own comfort. It's just better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/25 12:39 AM
2	Why do fat women who don't exercise try to date fit men? Because they have cancer? No but it is part of them. Like my man has diabetes. So he's not "healthy" but it's part of him and I'm attracted to him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/25 12:36 AM
2	Why do fat women who don't exercise try to date fit men? Those are terrible women and I'm sorry people treat people badly. I'm worried about legal stuff more than social treatment bc to me it just means "those aren't my people need to expand who i talk to" but legal rights are concerning. Currently the SAVE act judt passed the house that would require voters to have the same name as their birth certificate... it would unduly effect married women who have changed their name and was never a necessity before. I'm concerned about things like that. Includi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/25 12:35 AM
5	Why do fat women who don't exercise try to date fit men? Being attracted to a cancer patient would be abnormal??? You weirdo so many cancer patients have sexual partners. You're just making stuff up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/25 11:46 PM
3	Why do fat women who don't exercise try to date fit men? My mom. It was my mom long ago. It was my grandma. It was a warning that things aren't permanent. I grew up with those rights but I listened to them say it. Now I see it sliding backwards. You'd have to be blind not to. This isn't distant past. My family is still alive who dealt with this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/25 11:44 PM
16	Why do fat women who don't exercise try to date fit men? I personally prefer Dicks to be smaller side bc then i can deep throat easier. Also short guys are great. My brother is 5'6 and my dad is 5'7" ... both happily married to attractive women. It's all about how social they are and they are great with socializing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/25 11:41 PM
12	Why do fat women who don't exercise try to date fit men? It's not forced because you can always just not get married	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/25 11:39 PM
6	Why do fat women who don't exercise try to date fit men? There are!! I'm one of them and have one now!	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/25 11:36 PM
4	Valentines Day is for Women not Men. It's a celebration of love. My partner and I just love on each other. He got me a book about the history of Chinese empires and I'm making him something homemade. It's just about celebrating any love in your life. That can be love for your kids or your parents or your friends or yourself. When I was single I'd get dresses up and take myself out for steak and wine sit at a bar somewhere fancy and read and have a fancy appetizer too like mussels. It was glorious	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/25 06:39 PM
2	Guys here think creeps dont exist because they dont want to admit women can have non-shallow reasons to not like a guy. What about the men who don't act creepy around other men and only do it when alone with a woman? Because that also happens..	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/25 06:12 PM
6	To cut or not to cut Well it makes him less sensitive so I don't see any sexual benefit. And I just think it's icky to force a baby to remove part of their body just for aesthetics when they have zero choice. It's disturbing to me. Have your husband watch a video of it being done. There's a reason that they take them out of the room with parents to do it. It's sad to hear them in pain. Why put them thru that? I just don't get it.	/r/MensRights	12/02/25 06:37 PM
4	Why are unmarried childless women way more stigmatised than unmarried childless men? In my personal experience yes they are. I had a stranger man tell me i needed to have children. I didn't even know him. His wife asked if I had kids. I said I'm not having any. He went on a rant at me about how I need to have "white babies" for my country. No freaking joke. Wish I could say I ripped him a new one but I didn't. I was kinda just in shock and I was at work	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 05:47 AM
4	Why are unmarried childless women way more stigmatised than unmarried childless men? Prob bc its easy for a woman to get pregnant. Any guy will do it practically. But a man has a harder time finding a sexual partner bc women aren't as easy and bc convincing a woman to go thru pregnancy if she isn't interested is also hard. So it makes more sense for a man to be childless	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 05:45 AM
1	Why does autism seem to be the only hyper-masculine trait which isn't attractive? You as well!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 01:05 AM
2	Why does autism seem to be the only hyper-masculine trait which isn't attractive? For sure. I just try not to take anything too seriously that other people do. I assume whatever they decide isn't bc of me, but them. I'm not so important to be able to control anyone else so I just try to work on controlling me into being the type of person I want to grow into. Eventually I'll get most my ducks in a happy row I like. Probably more of a zig zag but they will be around. Haha	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 12:28 AM
4	Why does autism seem to be the only hyper-masculine trait which isn't attractive? Gotcha. I've worked on my cognitive. All I really had to do was think about if I were that person with whatever info I know about them and with some educated guesses how would I feel about my behavior. So I modify my behavior to make them more comfortable best I can. It's hit or miss tho for sure. But I'd rather always be learning than just give up and say I can't ya know?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/25 06:49 PM
7	Why does autism seem to be the only hyper-masculine trait which isn't attractive? Those aren't mutually exclusive tho? I am ND and can tell you I have empathy and can systemize and pattern recognize very very well. Empathy is a learned skill and most NDs understand it pretty well. Someone says they don't like something and we get it bc we also have things we don't like so we can empathize with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/25 06:33 PM
0	Female Aggression is more dangerous than Male Aggression See i just don't believe in marriage. I believe in commitment but I don't like the idea of a government or church being involved in my relationship. I get why it was important when financially you needed to. But now it seems like it makes no sense to me. I don't like the idea of needing a judge or validate or to break up my relationship between me and one other person. Thats not really up to them so I just don't want to do that. 34 now, no marriage, no kids, free and in a committed 5 year relati…	/r/MensRights	11/02/25 06:32 PM
1	Female Aggression is more dangerous than Male Aggression Okay. I've dated plenty of men that weren't conventionally attractive. We worked until we didn't. I have the history. Both attractive and unattractive guys can be problematic. It has nothing to do with their genetic looks whether they will be good or bad for any particular person. I'm very concerned tho about guys saying they lie to women to get sex just as much as I'm concerned about women lying to get someone. Like... not everyone is gonna be for you that you want. It's okay for people to leav…	/r/MensRights	11/02/25 06:17 PM
-2	Female Aggression is more dangerous than Male Aggression And yet there are still overwhelmingly more cases of male family annihilators as they are labeled by criminal system. Overwhelmingly it's more men than women. Why is that?	/r/MensRights	11/02/25 06:00 PM
20	Why does autism seem to be the only hyper-masculine trait which isn't attractive? It's not a masculine trait... it's a neurological difference from typical... it happens in any sex. How is it masculine?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/25 05:28 PM
2	Calling someone a creep if they don’t deserve it is bad all around People can be mean. People have called me a slut, attention seeker, disgusting etc. Men and women. I either believe them or I don't. I either consider it and decide if it's true or it's not. Words can suck, avoid people who accuse you of things you're not. Look inward to make sure you aren't deserving of the title and if you believe you are and want to change behavior then do. If you don't believe you are l, then don't. As my dad always says "consider the source before you consider the informati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/25 04:34 PM
1	Should a Woman Grabbing a Naked Man's Penis Without Consent be Considered Rape? Apparently haha	/r/MensRights	11/02/25 12:01 AM
1	Should a Woman Grabbing a Naked Man's Penis Without Consent be Considered Rape? Yea lots of ppl don't like me on here.	/r/MensRights	10/02/25 08:04 PM
1	Should a Woman Grabbing a Naked Man's Penis Without Consent be Considered Rape? I don't even know what shadow ban means hahaha. But I'd define that as sexual assault for what I thought are obvious reasons	/r/MensRights	10/02/25 07:58 PM
2	Should a Woman Grabbing a Naked Man's Penis Without Consent be Considered Rape? It's sexual assault for sure	/r/MensRights	10/02/25 07:39 PM
0	I feel like sex-ed could do with a few reforms to help boys & men. My bad. Just trying to have a comvo and learn more. 👍	/r/MensRights	08/02/25 08:15 PM
-3	I feel like sex-ed could do with a few reforms to help boys & men. I was trying to be absolutely logical and unemotional and ask questions bc I didn't understand. I am sorry that you got upset by this enough to name call me and try to insult me. I'm doing what I wish others would do to try to understand me, unemotional listening and logical questioning of why and how things affect me. Maybe another man could come in and explain why other people's dating choices have something to do with me and by extension them bc it seems to me if you don't like how someone op…	/r/MensRights	08/02/25 04:33 PM
-16	I feel like sex-ed could do with a few reforms to help boys & men. They are doing that to you meaning aren't dating you but are dating others? How is that your business what a woman you don't know is doing with her dating life? I dont worry about what men i do not know or even know are doing sexually. None of that has anything to do with me unless I'm involved in it. How is that doing something to you?	/r/MensRights	08/02/25 04:23 PM
-8	I feel like sex-ed could do with a few reforms to help boys & men. Everyone fails at normal healrhy relationships at first. Thats called dating. What exactly are women doing to you to make relationships fail that men aren't? Everyone is just figuring out what they want in life and what is actually attainable for their circumstances. Life is just a journey of choices. Other people can't fail you by not being the right partner to date. Thats not some sort of obligation and if you meet people that aren't the right fit for you don't date them. If you don't like dat…	/r/MensRights	08/02/25 04:14 PM
-12	I feel like sex-ed could do with a few reforms to help boys & men. Fail yall at what?	/r/MensRights	08/02/25 03:15 PM
10	Just had an epiphany about men being “creeps” My man says no, I am immediatsly backing off. No we don't get ti be entitled to sex. I'm so sorry you've had women try to override your no, that's assault and not okay.	/r/MensRights	08/02/25 11:21 AM
1	Less misandry = less war That seems absolutely spot on. Also adding in older men and peers will say "it's just what men do" and also reinforce. Reminds me of older women telling me how I'm supposed to dress and act to get men and none of it is what I actually want so I also have had to live for myself and not their approval. I totally get that part.	/r/MensRights	07/02/25 02:17 PM
7	Anyone else disturbed by the brazen indifference toward soaring male suicide rates in female dominated mental healthcare fields? I am so sorry about that. I hope you don't mind a woman letting you know that. Your therapist never should have implied that. #metoo but it was my mom. 😔 I know how that feels and understand. I want to condemn this, she had some crazy internalized men can't have this happen to them stuff. This makes me more sure that women and men should all be in all jobs as much as possible. So that anyone needing something like therapy they can find one who can relate to them best. Or connect.	/r/MensRights	07/02/25 08:19 AM
–	Sex is a need. We find the nearest person we want to fuck and who also wants to fuck us and the privacy to do so. At least I do. It may take a while to find all those parameters matching up. But once they do, we do. And some people don't even worry about the privacy and really really should haha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 08:12 AM
–	Sex is a need. Like I def need orgasms but I don't need sex. Celibacy isn't that problematic. And I know officially I don't need either to live. But yea emotional need I think is not isolating or lack of stimulation of any sort. We need social connection. But it doesn't have to be in the form of sex necessarily. Thats one under an umbrella of things. But lack of any strong community bonds is very harmful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 07:59 AM
1	Less misandry = less war Yes it's a worldwide societal problem	/r/MensRights	07/02/25 06:14 AM
2	Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true. Scientifically being celibate will not kill you. Being in a white washed room with zero activities 24 hours with zero human interaction can. It's just a fact. Celibacy cannot kill you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 04:10 PM
1	Less misandry = less war But the problem is drafting hasn't happened in 50 something years. They also make it the only path out of poverty sometimes with incentives which is sad AF. Sell your body to the government or else we will make sure you're stuck in poverty forever and also if you're a veteran you're prob screwed too. Effing horrible.	/r/MensRights	06/02/25 03:08 PM
3	Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true. Solitary confinement causes psychosis and suicide and is considered torture. No I'm saying scientifically no sex will not kill you but solitary confinement will and isolation which is self solitary can also lead to suicide. Sex is an action between two or more people. That activity isn't necessary to survive individually. It's only necessary to survive on a macro species level for procreation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 03:06 PM
2	Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true. Isolation will kill you. No brain stimulation. Not having sex isn't the same as not having brain stimulation. Also solitary confinement is something forced on someone. Isolating is self chosen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 02:49 PM
0	Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true. Purely scientifically no... Lack of sex doesn't not bc as I pointed out there have always been celibate communities, many who lived longer bc of their isolation from other dangers like childbirth in nuns and violence of the day in monks. But the isolation you're feeling is a piece of that. The celibacy isn't. The isolation is. Not having sex will not kill you. But not having intimacy of any kind? Emotional connection with others in a social group? Yea that's a major issue. It's not the sex, you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 02:44 PM
1	Less misandry = less war How do we de masculate that? There gotta be a way to make killing for "honor" not so popular right?	/r/MensRights	06/02/25 02:40 PM
3	Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true. No that would eventually kill you. Which is because of its isolation. For sure to suicide. I did not have that in my initial basic needs chart. Yes without stimulation of any sort in solitary yes prob. But if you are isolating so feeling some of that if not 100% bc of having SOME stimulation but not enough for you...you have to ask why? Why aren't you putting effort into social? Is it fear? What are you afraid of etc. How to manage it. Thats the run down that therapy can do you or even try some …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 06:43 AM
21	Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true. My refute is simply that many men have been celibate their whole lives and lived. Throughout history. Monks come to mind. Women too, nuns etc. Many lived to old age. Found contentment in their lives without sex. Made art. Many monks were scientists and brewed their own beer to make money for the monastery. I understand how it feels like a need bc not only is it a biological urge and desire it's an intellectual one and psych one as well bc its the cultural script that is most the norm. So it is d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 06:25 AM
5	The worst thing we can do as men is complain. I think it's depends on who you complain to. My man complain to me all the time about stuff. I just give him a hug and listen and agree it all sucks. I'm just there for him ya know? I guess you gotta be around people who wanna be there for ya?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 01:44 AM
3	Less misandry = less war Thats freaking sad. I'd fight to keep my nephews out of war tooth and nail and they aren't even my own children. I cannot imagine being okay with it. I'm trying to figure out why boys even want to go to war? Bc I'd try to keep them out but often these men say they want to go to help the country or some bs. So how do we keep men from being propogabdized to believe serving in wars is a good thing? Bc its literally not and the people who get us into war never have to be on the front lines themselve…	/r/MensRights	05/02/25 11:17 PM
6	women often go to the all or nothing fallacy when Debating because compromise feels like losing to them Omg totally agree. Like why would you settle when you could just be single and enjoy your own time. Not have to check in with anyone on where you're going or what you're spending your own money on. I have amazing extracurricular things I can spend my time on. I can make friends doing pretty much any activity. There's absolutely no reason to be unhappy with someone when you can be happy without someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 10:38 PM
-10	Hate being a man They seem to yes be very much about equality of men being allowed to share their vulnerabilities like women get to more regularly, equality and all that with the true definition of feminist. The guys over there really care tho. A lot. You should check it out.	/r/MensRights	05/02/25 03:05 AM
-8	Hate being a man I don't want to overstep but have you checked out the guycry sub reddit? It's literally a bunch of men there for you emotionally and seems to help a lot of guys out! I am so sorry you're feeling this way. Wish I had a magic wand to make it better but unfortunately I'm not a fairy godmother... though that would be amazing	/r/MensRights	05/02/25 02:29 AM
3	For women that treat dating transactionally, do you think you are partially responsible for the commodification of sex and dating? Frankly it's really only been since the 70s or so that women really had money to not think this way. I'd say we have made a lot of progress bc most women don't date most men just for money anymore but also bc they want someone compatible they love. So I think it's actually gotten better it just wasn't spoken about much in the past bc the only option was to marry and hope he was good with his money/employment to support you and the family you usually had together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 01:41 AM
1	Most problems in the current dating climate would be solved if everyone was at a healthy weight But just cause someone is attractive doesn't mean they will be attracted to anyone in particular so how does that help?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/25 07:03 PM
9	Why is New Age Lingo So Popular With Women? I mean men have a long history of finding anything that predominantly women do or enjoy as crap not worth learning about: here's a few off the top of my head Pilates Makeup Nursing Daycare work Fruit forward drinks Female musical artists Nail care Skincare Menstrual cycles These are literally just random ones. But yea it seems men don't like to learn much about it with open curiosity if women like it predominantly. It's kinda yalls thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/25 02:32 PM
6	Why is New Age Lingo So Popular With Women? Oh yea. I've been studying social sciences and neurology and such for 13 years on and off. Fascinating stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/25 02:23 PM
6	Why is New Age Lingo So Popular With Women? It's a skill. You can only do it if you practice it. There are many great books to help!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/25 02:18 PM
-7	More men feel the same? Elementary age was when grown men started sexually harassing me. I was 9 the first time. So yea we learn really early even when we don't wanna learn that men are sexualizing us they tell us really young. I didn't realize until recently but was talking to some other women MOST of us actually start getting harassed under age 13 by grown men. So now I realize it's pretty common for us to learn danger danger young. And my dad taught me never be alone with a man by the time I was 10 or so.. so yea. I…	/r/MensRights	01/02/25 01:37 PM
0	Too many guys connect attraction to displaying human decency. Yes and I suggest books to women about this too but many men are on here and your name is man so I was asking if they do and trying to help from the info I know. I was tell women but it's a lot of men on here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 05:04 PM
6	Too many guys connect attraction to displaying human decency. Nope. I'm not looking. Therefore no one will be interesting to me. I have this ability to simply not be interested in dating a man regardless of what he looks like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 07:41 AM
1	Too many guys connect attraction to displaying human decency. So I can't have a different belief and still post on something about someone else's experience with gender?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 06:28 AM
14	Too many guys connect attraction to displaying human decency. I never mentioned gender in my post bc I think it's wrong for anyone. Why did you think I only meant men? If that's where you went with it then maybe you've mostly observed men doing so? I've observed both and I shut them down whenever I see it. Being cruel about how someone looks to you is never okay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 05:41 AM
1	Too many guys connect attraction to displaying human decency. Firefighter told me wasp spray if I cannot get pepper spray. Works great. Thanks for the tips!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 04:25 AM
–	Dating according to utmost preferences leads to decline in long-term monogamy I just thought only older people use Facebook hahaha	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 04:24 AM
–	Dating according to utmost preferences leads to decline in long-term monogamy Oh those are older single women. Like 50s. They were raised to find a man for their old age or their life isn't fulfilled. Most women under 40 nah	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 03:25 AM
7	Too many guys connect attraction to displaying human decency. Yea I've started the blank no emotional thing too. I feel like a robot but it's all I can do. Can't be nice. Can't be mean. Can't ignore bc they get louder. It's just... exhausting trying to find the safest way to not be interested sexually. They think we all should want them back if they want us or something. Like... I will never want to date another guy again. If my partner dies or we break up I'm just done. I cannot keep dealing with it trying to find the ones that aren't harmful. They think …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 03:24 AM
7	Too many guys connect attraction to displaying human decency. But how? Most women have friends if they want them. Most men I know don't. They seem really happy I'm a friend bc they told me "no guy I know would do this for me". They seem to need friend stuff the most. Much more than my female friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 03:18 AM
2	Too many guys connect attraction to displaying human decency. Suppression isn't what I mean. But raging at a person for not being interested in you? It's terrifying. Rage goes to physical violence so quickly for some people. Do most men read any self help books for anger? I got a few a couple of years ago and they actually teach you how to safely express anger without giving into red rage. My bf got one bc he went off during an argument. I told him I would NOT live with anyone who did that and I would hold him to the same standard I hold myself or he can l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 03:17 AM
11	Too many guys connect attraction to displaying human decency. My guy friends would disagree that men don't benefit from friends things. I helped one get home from the hospital. I've held one while he cried about his grandfather dying. Friend stuff is absolutely beneficial to men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 03:02 AM
5	Too many guys connect attraction to displaying human decency. If anything raging would make it worse...	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 03:01 AM
14	Too many guys connect attraction to displaying human decency. This! And then I've had to learn not to be nice to random men because they will think that. And then men complain no woman is nice to them... I want to be. But when I am I've gotten screamed at and called a whore when after I was nice I refused to give my phone number... Men teach us not to be nice or else they will want sex and not care if we want it too	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 03:00 AM
25	Too many guys connect attraction to displaying human decency. Treat better means better than neutral. Most of those studies show that neutral would be invisible. The cruelty of shoving mean hateful comments on people doesn't count in those studies bc it's more about not going out of their way to be nice, otherwise just ignoring or being stranger polite to those people we don't find attractive. Actively trying to harm their feelings by shaming them for how they look? Thats not neutral it's mean.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 02:58 AM
–	Dating according to utmost preferences leads to decline in long-term monogamy You aren't competing with other men anymore. You are competing with a woman happy being single. She isn't gonna do anything to mess up her peace unless it's very worth it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 02:55 AM
–	Dating according to utmost preferences leads to decline in long-term monogamy Tell that to animals... mostly in animals the man courts and the woman chooses... wait, we are still classified as animals right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 02:54 AM
-6	Are men actually putting in effort when it comes to dating, or do they just think it should be easy? The only reason procreation wasn't difficult is bc men literally just bought a wife from their father and mother... if they had the money the dad handed over the daughter for that. The issue now is men were used to being told know by a father. They are acting completely differently being rejected by the woman herself. When a father rejected them as a suitor they listened to the no. They don't Like listening to a no from a woman instead of another man	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 07:37 PM
–	Women, why do you believe might makes right, but only when it comes to dating? Women are also expected to respect a no from a man. If they don't instead I call that rape and/or coercive sex. Each side has to respect the others control over what happens to your own body.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 05:42 PM
–	Women, why do you believe might makes right, but only when it comes to dating? The man still has to consent bro. If men are not wanting to be with a woman they can also say no. There's no advantage. Each individual can say yes or no. Men not wanting to say no doesn't mean they don't also have the right to say no. There's no advantage if both people have the same right to say no or yes to sex. It's equal. What's not equal is men more readily being easy bc of their own choice to say yes to any woman bc of desperation. It is not an inequality. And you didn't answer me about g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 05:42 PM
–	Women, why do you believe might makes right, but only when it comes to dating? Because it harms someone. Women being sexy doesn't harm anyone. Men are consenting to being chosen by these women. And if a man says no a woman also must not. Does your logic apply to gay men? If they are bigger and stronger can they just rape men whenever they want? Like how are you not getting this fundamental idea that your body belongs to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 05:10 PM
–	Women, why do you believe might makes right, but only when it comes to dating? Women are also expected to work for the good and happiness of others. It's literally what moms do for their children and the next generation. And right to your own body is not something that can be taken away and is always immoral bc you cannot own other people. Legally sure, but morally? Never	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 04:37 PM
1	Women Aren't Going to Openly Discuss and Comment About the 20+ Short Term Relationships She Had, But It's Significantly More Common Than BPs Want to Admit You can have a perception of someone and not be mean to them just bc you don't like them. You can live and let live as long as they aren't actively harming you. Also stds happen when people have sex like colds happen when they work closely around ppl. It's part of some human interactions and we know how to prevent them. Thats on all of us to use condoms. I don't think babies being born harms society. I think a wanted pregnancy and healthy birth are blessings no matter if the mother of that child…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 02:46 AM
0	Women Aren't Going to Openly Discuss and Comment About the 20+ Short Term Relationships She Had, But It's Significantly More Common Than BPs Want to Admit Okay per your last paragraph. Don't shame people. No one shamed you. Leave people alone about how they have sex or not. It's not your business.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 01:04 AM
1	Women Aren't Going to Openly Discuss and Comment About the 20+ Short Term Relationships She Had, But It's Significantly More Common Than BPs Want to Admit I'm trying to figure out how sex can be harmful? Consensual sex and orgasm is good on the body. It's good on stress levels, blood flow, etc. You say too many sweets are bad on you. I've had sex multiple times a day and it never harm my life. Those were great times. It's harmful on people to try to control their own sex life by coercion or shame. Provided people are doing it privately It's really no one else's business. And im sorry you felt like you betrayed your own standards. I'm glad you lear…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/25 09:52 PM
–	Women don't make real dating goals they make fantasies. Why does it matter? Who is it harming? Let people want what they want. Even if they don't get it it doesn't harm anyone else	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/25 01:57 PM
1	Women Aren't Going to Openly Discuss and Comment About the 20+ Short Term Relationships She Had, But It's Significantly More Common Than BPs Want to Admit I'm so confused by that last paragraph haha. Most men do push for sex. Early. Often. In my 34 years of life and over 16 years of dating experience it is very usual for men to push for sex. Which isn't bad bc I like sex but I don't get when they get mad about someone having sex early when they want sex early. Especially someone they don't know or didn't know in their past. You said you want to shame them bc it's not hard for them to get sex. I still don't understand why you want to shame someone …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/25 01:40 PM
–	Women don't make real dating goals they make fantasies. Why does it bother you if women even do that? Like... if men were with someone who was also with other people I wouldn't care bc it's their choice and their body and their sex life. I'd tell them they deserve someone to not cheat on them but other than that why does it concern you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/25 01:37 PM
–	Women don't make real dating goals they make fantasies. Yep. Got tricked. Happens to us all. No one is fallible from trickery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/25 02:16 AM
–	Women don't make real dating goals they make fantasies. So you mean men lie? Yea we know that. Thats literally what we learn super early. Men will lie to try to get sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 11:37 PM
8	Women Aren't Going to Openly Discuss and Comment About the 20+ Short Term Relationships She Had, But It's Significantly More Common Than BPs Want to Admit The restraint is daily tho. I get hit on by men all the time. We are always rejecting guys bc it's not right for us. But why we get shame when it is right for us? The guy we are with doesn't mind when we are with them but every other guy seems to have a problem with it and they aren't even involved?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 10:23 PM
–	Women don't make real dating goals they make fantasies. What? How does that work?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 10:21 PM
9	Women Aren't Going to Openly Discuss and Comment About the 20+ Short Term Relationships She Had, But It's Significantly More Common Than BPs Want to Admit Why shame women at all for doing what men want to be able to do? Shouldn't it be a huge five moment? Cause if she gets hit on every time she goes out and goes out every weekend that 52 weekends. If she only sleeps with 5 guys a year she is actually very very picky which is a good trait bc it means only 5 guys in a year meet her standards for just sex. Then maybe none of those meet a standard for dating or marriage. Takes her a few years to find someone compatible and the number of 30plus partner…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 10:15 PM
–	This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality. I just find people attractive on how they treat me. If they respect me and treat me well I'm more likely to want to get it on. If they don't then it doesn't matter how they look they are ugly inside. If you're beautiful inside it attracts me a lot. Hence why people seem to make fun of me bc my boyfriends have never been attractive to my girl friends but they have been happy for me bc I like the people I'm with so so much and always gushing about how they treat me. Sex is something I do for me bc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 04:32 PM
3	The meaning of the phrases “Just choose better” is much simpler and less terrible Don't know if you don't try. I'd rather try and then decide nah it isn't for me than to not try at all. Then I have too many regrets	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 04:16 PM
–	This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality. Hahahaa. Like we can afford one? Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 04:15 PM
5	The meaning of the phrases “Just choose better” is much simpler and less terrible Then men get mad we "settled" and say we are liars if we genuinely like the guy. They say we shouldn't take time to learn about lots of different guys before picking one we like best but you seem to be saying we should shop around until we find one that's right for us. So why get mad at women who do just that? Then they get mad we have a body count from when we are looking around and vetting people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 04:01 PM
–	This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality. I was responding to your convict. I thought it was a link about asshome behavior hahahah.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 02:24 PM
–	This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality. I've never dated a man for looks. I've had random sex for looks just bc there wasnt time to talk abour all dating needs. But if I'm gonna date and have them in my space I need to know more about them and like more about them than their body. That won't even get them in the door for dating. Whole different categorization for dating. Usually the way they treat others in public is step one. Two is usually how they interact with me. Do they carry on the convo with more questions to learn more or mor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 02:20 PM
–	This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality. Convicts? Depends on the crime. I've had a run in with the law a few times. Never for anything violent. So I'm not dangerous to society or others. My current partner has an old felony from when he was 19. Non violent. He doesn't deserve love at 42 bc he was too poor to get it expunged? Why yall so mean to other men who have had bad situations with the police and justice system when we know they are more likely to go after men anyway for prison labor?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 02:16 PM
2	Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men. See I've never had better than myself. Same standard for behavior. If I want smart, I'm gonna be smart. If I was compassionate I'm gonna be that back. The minute I'm doing something for them but they have zero desire for emotional reciprocity or at least learn how to? Nah. If I'm gonna pour my entire heart into someone I expect the same. Body looks and all that? I don't care. But actions and behaviors? If I'd do it for them in the reverse situation then I expect it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 02:13 PM
1	Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men. Well yea i thought we were talking about sex. Marriage is a financial contract with the government. It is a lot more serious. I would encourage no one to get married unless they are ready to put another person needs ahead of theirs and ready to no longer have sole control or their assets and finances. Thats a big deal. Thats why I'm not married yet. I just haven't been able to say yes. It's too much government involvement in a relationship. I don't love getting outside government and financial p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 02:11 PM
3	Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men. Then she ends up alone. It happens. Why do men care if our choices make us alone?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 03:38 AM
3	Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men. Men are just easy. So if a woman holds out a standard she is more likely to get it. Men don't usually have as high standards bc women aren't as easy and they try to mold their actions to get women instead of own their actions and wait for the right man while dating casually to find him. If men said no she couldn't date casually. It's all in mens control of themselves. Women can only have their pick bc men are easier to get.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 03:10 AM
1	Many men have decided to remain single; the BIGGEST reason I try to understand and learn wherever i can and also teach what I know too in the hopes of finding overlap. I didn't realize what sub this was on at first bc I was reading it and got interested or I would have limited the amount of commentary. I follow a lot of all gender spaces where this type of information is common to discuss. I do apologize for that. Also I want to be a good advocate for my nephews and my partner for their rights in this world and make the world better for them. Knowing an…	/r/MensRights	26/01/25 06:55 PM
0	Many men have decided to remain single; the BIGGEST reason I responded bc someone said power over and im trying to figure out what type of power. Bc mostly it's been physical force or stripping of rights by legal force like jail and fines. Old and too experienced haha. Have a great relationship with my father and brother. Long term partner we still love each other. He acknowledges men have used force to enforce rules. It's a fact. But no not all men would do that obviously.	/r/MensRights	26/01/25 06:40 PM
-3	Many men have decided to remain single; the BIGGEST reason You're a man so I could say rhe same thing. What I said was objective and logical. We cannot force other humans with violent threats or it's slavery and not freedom for individuals.	/r/MensRights	26/01/25 06:34 PM
-11	Many men have decided to remain single; the BIGGEST reason Protecting young boys from predators too. I feel like yall could shape a generation for the better.	/r/MensRights	26/01/25 04:32 PM
-15	Many men have decided to remain single; the BIGGEST reason Yea i think yall should def fight against things you agree need to change. Draft i hear a lot. Also even things like not having dividers at urinals. Like my partner was like why can't every place be required i don't want to be that exposed in public or being able to see other people's junk. I def wouldn't accept a bathroom like that personally. I'd be calling the place and getting everyone to and fixing it. I'd love to see yall go together and work on problems like this. Demanding more research …	/r/MensRights	26/01/25 04:32 PM
-29	Many men have decided to remain single; the BIGGEST reason What power? Use of force? Unjustifiable to physically harm or threatening another human to force them to do something you want them to do. Thats slavery to have someone else control you. We don't do that in society bc then it wouldn't be genuine anyway. It would be a scared human pretending to like you out of fear. Thats so messed up on so many levels	/r/MensRights	26/01/25 04:05 PM
1	Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious Truth My friend at work is 5'3" and has a gf. Met her thru his old job. They both game so that's their connection point. Sorry you're having a hard time. There have been plenty of shorter men I have found attractive over the years. I'm in my 30s now and not looking but keep loving on yourself best you can. Life is about experiences and learning and bettering yourself into who you want to be. You got this!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 07:12 PM
0	Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious Truth Using our past experience to make decisions now. It doesn't bother us if you don't want to date us for whatever reasons you have. Don't pretend to like what you don't. I'm not mean to short guys. My best friend at work is a short guy. We are all free to leave alone people we don't want to engage with romantically for any reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 05:57 PM
1	UNPOPULAR OPINION: MEN REACH THEIR PEAK BETWEEN LATE TEENS TO EARLY 20S, JUST LIKE WOMEN Every man is different. Some peak younger than others in looks. Some plateau. Some have multiple peaks in different eras of life. Never seen a rule that works all the time for when people are most attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 01:49 PM
0	Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious Truth She's in her 50s and he's in his 30s. She feels the age gap is too much and he does too. He accepted the compliment. He has a gf who is cute. And I think he's a great guy and would recommend him if he was single. I've had him over to my house to okay video games. We are friends. Like I dont understand how you can say I'm anything but sincere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 05:18 AM
1	Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious Truth I can only give mine. I just assume others give theirs. What is the point in lying about what you don't like?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 05:14 AM
0	Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious Truth There's a guy at my job who i would recommend someone date. He's super short. He has a gf. He's like 5'4". He's hard working. Nice to others. Passionate about his interests. Multiple women at work think he's great. One has told me if she was younger and he was single she'd make a move on him. Another short guy 5"5 ish just got out of a relationship but he was with her for years. Plenty of short guys get girls. The ones who complain about being short don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 04:06 AM
1	Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious Truth But mine literally do? So your using "never match your actilns" it is simply inaccurate. I don't date for height or hair color or any physical attribute. My partner of 5 years is handsome to me bc of all the things that make him look like him. He attracts me. But objectively he isn't a paradigm of whatever perfect manhood is supposed to be. He's real. He's deep and shares life with me. He respects me. We stand up for one another. We have great sex and listen and communicate about it to ensure it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 04:03 AM
0	Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious Truth I'm talking about words about it. Not just being aggressive lol. I mean someone complaining specifically about it. But yes I'm sure that study is true about just aggression watching. I said I was annoyed by the discussing it often.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 02:55 AM
-2	Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious Truth It's the why you don't like the small ones. The why we don't like the height thing. You're missing the difference in why. Yours is you prefer them big visually. Mine is I prefer someone who doesn't complain about their height and short guys complain more about it. It's a behavior versus a feature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 01:22 AM
1	Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious Truth Money can't have anything to do with love. Love is how you feel about a person. Broke or not isn't relevant. Being broke means it may be hard to meet people. I don't ever have money to go anywhere to explore if I would like people. So in that way may not meet enough people. But if the broke person could then they'd be able to see if they clicked more. But yea it's limiting to be broke. It sucks for everyone who is broke. Including myself. My rent is more than half my monthly pay. My car is anoth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 01:21 AM
1	Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious Truth It's not a failure of character. Character isn't being annoying or not. Character is standing on personal principles and having integrity. Being annoying is simply a behavioral issue. Not some psychological issue. Just change your behavior to change your habits to change yourself. It's a skill. Practice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 01:12 AM
0	Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious Truth I am truly not though. I don't know if other people do I'm sure some might bc people are people. But why would I lie to you? I don't know you and don't want your approval. Why can't you just handle the truth?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 01:11 AM
-8	Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious Truth Moral??? Nobody said moral failing. I said encounters with such have determined there's a higher chance they will complain about themselves in some way at some point in our first interaction and I don't feel like doing that so since it's a numbers game on apps I will go ahead and increase my chances of meeting someone who at least won't do that tonight" Morally you can be an amazing person and still annoy people with complaining. Consider the reverse. Imagine every smaller chested girl complaine…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 11:59 PM
-6	Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious Truth Oh yea women filter in advance bc of past bad experiences. They may miss some good ones but everyone does sometimes. I never even put a height filter on. And im quite short. But even tho I'm 5' i went for a man who was 5'6". It was horrible. All he talked about was how glad he is i was shorter than him and how other bitches won't even look at him. I was done immediately. It was the worst trying to talk about anything that he didnt somehow relate to his height... My brother is 5"7' so close to hi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 11:30 PM
-1	Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious Truth Most short guys aren't a turn off because of their height but bc of their attitude about their height. They never seem happy with themselves. Then when I have found the golden ones who do they are so sexy because they don't give a shit what other people think their height means. So usually when women filter for height it's not the height, it's the attitude that comes with the height. Hope that perspective helps. It's rarely the actual height. If they don't like their height and make everyone aro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 11:18 PM
1	Q4Men: what does a society that prioritizes men do? I said in an ideal world someone could be trusted quickly to have best interests of others but in reality that isn't possible until you know someone. I didn't even gender it. Wow. I think every human would agree that until you know you can trust someone you need to be cautious of letting anyone lead you wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 01:48 AM
1	Loneliness as a male Yes I have some men i know are diverse. I don't see them all the same. Men on here say "men lie to get sex" as if yall all do it. I didn't say it. I'm repeating what I hear from men. "All men think that" mentality. Brothers suspicious of all my boyfriends etc.	/r/MensRights	20/01/25 02:09 AM
3	Funny AITA, people can't decide if a woman in lingerie is sexual harassment or not If he didn't want it then yes it was harassment. Unwanted means non consented.	/r/MensRights	19/01/25 03:44 PM
1	The mindset of because women are being treated in whatever way in the past should not be use as treated men badly Women always worked. They simply weren't afforded compensation for it. It was slave labor. In return for their work they got a roof over their head and food. Never compensation. So they had to play nice with the closest man near them bc he was only allowed to hold the money.	/r/MensRights	19/01/25 03:22 PM
1	The mindset of because women are being treated in whatever way in the past should not be use as treated men badly Everyone deserves to feel safe in society. Thats the reason humans made society was for safety and community to help one another. And men have every right to wear a dress and anyone who harms them for it should be punished. Feminists want men to wear whatever they want. I didn't realize most of yall wanted to wear dresses but do you!	/r/MensRights	19/01/25 02:23 PM
1	The mindset of because women are being treated in whatever way in the past should not be use as treated men badly Patriarchy is a system where men are artificially put in power over women and men as the leaders. I figured it was common sense I was speaking of the powers that be and that they were male.	/r/MensRights	19/01/25 02:21 PM
-7	Loneliness as a male I just wonder is it yall aren't valued for being yourselves or yall don't be yourselves for fear of not being valued and instead try to live up to what you think masculinity is supposed to be but not what you authentically want to be like? Cause I see men saying they lie to get women ... which is the opposite of being yourself right?	/r/MensRights	18/01/25 05:08 PM
1	Male rape…no one cares Wait but why aren't men demanding a boycott? Why is it entitlement for women to demand it not be a joke? Men also should demand so. It's not okay for either so make a noisy stink about it!! Squeaky wheel gets the grease kinda thing. Bc I'm ready to boycott someone bc of a rapist. Let's do this who do i get to send an angry phone call and email to, Men? What can I do to help?	/r/MensRights	18/01/25 12:34 PM
0	The mindset of because women are being treated in whatever way in the past should not be use as treated men badly It's a historical research paper about public bathrooms. An article. Very sorry for the word choice mess up. I just love learning new history info. No time to learn everything in school. Plus it's picked for us. I've been learning more in depth native American history too. And slavery history. Loving this time to learn anything you want to. Thanks for sharing a discussion with me.	/r/MensRights	17/01/25 03:44 PM
-1	The mindset of because women are being treated in whatever way in the past should not be use as treated men badly Try checking this study out. It's fascinating. https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://digitalcommons.law.umaryland.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi%3Farticle%3D1332%26context%3Dfac_pubs&ved=2ahUKEwjo1Kju-fyKAxUnVTABHVjyGQ8QFnoECCoQAQ&usg=AOvVaw1a7bKZHUjGFkFTDPVbLHp6	/r/MensRights	17/01/25 02:22 PM
2	The mindset of because women are being treated in whatever way in the past should not be use as treated men badly Id fight for your rights too, and I appreciate the sentiment.	/r/MensRights	17/01/25 02:16 PM
2	The mindset of because women are being treated in whatever way in the past should not be use as treated men badly This is a general message to the thread. Appreciate letting me discourse.	/r/MensRights	17/01/25 06:03 AM
0	The mindset of because women are being treated in whatever way in the past should not be use as treated men badly No, I'm good. Thanks for the offer though. I need a mental internet rest. Been feeling that way a lot with the state of the world, human to human, I'm burnt out on how effed up cost of living is these days. I need to take a moment to be grateful for what I do have before jumping back into the fight. You know? Wish you well. Thanks for the insight and allowing me to listen. I did and will think on all you've said.	/r/MensRights	17/01/25 06:03 AM
-2	The mindset of because women are being treated in whatever way in the past should not be use as treated men badly We literally have had to fight and sneak in historically to be in combat and there are lots of biographies of women who did. We never wanted to be exempt from military service. Feminists oppose the draft for everyone. Surpassing doesn't mean men are being discriminated against. Men are not above women but they also are not above physical intimidation to try to stand above women. I majored in gender studies in university. I have read about male oppression from slavery to union strikes to mental i…	/r/MensRights	17/01/25 01:33 AM
-1	The mindset of because women are being treated in whatever way in the past should not be use as treated men badly How are yall second class to women? I truly don't see what you're saying. Same opportunities. Same ability to organize and work on change. I don't understand but I'd like to about what is second class for men particularly. I see a lot of issues with rich versus poor in bail ans legal justice system issues but I do not see where women are first class citizens and men are second in our laws.	/r/MensRights	17/01/25 01:07 AM
0	The mindset of because women are being treated in whatever way in the past should not be use as treated men badly Men never had to get their wives permission legally for anything, man. Or their mother's. It was never a thing.	/r/MensRights	17/01/25 12:37 AM
-5	The mindset of because women are being treated in whatever way in the past should not be use as treated men badly Yes. Not all men. The men in power. The men who use their power to dominate other people including both men and women. This is the entire fight.	/r/MensRights	16/01/25 11:10 PM
-1	The mindset of because women are being treated in whatever way in the past should not be use as treated men badly What? Thats blatantly untrue. Please please look up laws against women even having bathrooms in public bc they didn't want women outside the home in the early 1900s. Please there's so much info you just don't know or haven't studied.	/r/MensRights	16/01/25 11:09 PM
1	Did any of you deal with feminists irl? And if so, how? Thank you. Because I have empathy for mens issues. When I hear them about bodily rights I'm like FUCK YA. I just wish i knew more men who also went FUCK YA for women fighting the systems for their bodies too. Cause I see men marching FOR themselves and not against others and I get teary eyed thinking about it bc it would be such a big deal!!	/r/MensRights	16/01/25 10:18 PM
-7	The mindset of because women are being treated in whatever way in the past should not be use as treated men badly How can we have had the same rights when we didn't get the rights to own our own property until so recently? Rights to go to college? Right to learn to read? Right to work any job we'd like? You cannot possibly say something that's such a lie. Legally women were blocked from these things. It's common knowledge and an easy Google search	/r/MensRights	16/01/25 08:14 PM
-1	Why I don’t see a good future for both men and women. It doesn't matter how many men were taking advantage of it. It's the power differential. Knowing your husband COULD would make you act differently towards him and cater to him out of fear. Makes you lie about your feelings. Not share what's really going on. Do you see how even if you hope your husband wouldn't or father wouldn't, you couldn't push for what you wanted too hard bc the threat was there.	/r/MensRights	16/01/25 06:54 PM
-15	The mindset of because women are being treated in whatever way in the past should not be use as treated men badly Those are all problems propagated by the rich, not women. Why yall fighting women for mens rights when we cannot give them. Only other men can give yall free from draft. Only fighting a for profit prison system can you defeat that. Women aren't holding men back. Other men are. Pick your villain correctly.	/r/MensRights	16/01/25 06:52 PM
-17	The mindset of because women are being treated in whatever way in the past should not be use as treated men badly What way are women treating men badly or removing rights to gain their own? Genuinely curious bc we are just trying to get the same ones men have had, not take away any from men. Like true human pursuit of what they wanna pursue. Not rights like "having a gf or a bf" bc that's not anyone right... all I see men complaining about is free market process of women not dating them due to different standards. But I don't see any part of this removal of social and civil rights and I'd be happy to learn …	/r/MensRights	16/01/25 06:16 PM
-1	Why I don’t see a good future for both men and women. Not judt lobotomies. Institutionalization or legal jailing... it's not just that one invention. It's the reasons a man in your family could institutionalized you without you being able to mount a proper defense	/r/MensRights	16/01/25 05:59 PM
-2	Why I don’t see a good future for both men and women. Yea i meant to mention it was a gender studies major. So I def have evidence for claims. Went to university for it. And yes it focused on male discrimination too just for sex. It is absolite fact that women have been blocked access in public life just for their genitals more than men throughout history. And one way was medical like these things. But the book is literally just interviews with the actual people there. So it's as unbiased as it gets. It's just them telling what happened to them. Li…	/r/MensRights	16/01/25 05:26 PM
1	Why I don’t see a good future for both men and women. Actually most lobotomies happened to women. It's history they don't teach us. Please look up how much full control male family members truly had over women. Women were put in institutions just for arguing. Verbally. Not for physical violence. They were put in for unladylike behavior which was defined by the husband. It was brutal. We were trapped. Seriously. Truly put yourself in those shoes and think about if your mom or sister or wife could have you institutionalized just bc they didn't like y…	/r/MensRights	16/01/25 05:04 PM
1	For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to Fear Well again we don't know what your stuff is and yall don't seem serious about it bc you don't organize about it like we do. Most the time men bring up mens rights when we are talking about some very female specific problems. We want yall to talk about them and organize about them. But when we say it will benefit men too it's because dismantling a patriarchal structure will collateral damage wise keep men from having to be boxed into a structure that doesn't make room for individual differences i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 03:10 PM
1	For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to Fear Of course you would!! We can't read yalls minds! Feminism will help you because we believe in bodily autonomy so if there's something you want for your body as long as it doesn't harm someone else then fight for it! We will stand with you. But we would never presume to know exactly what rights yall need. We aren't men. Thats why I'm on here learning. If men are gonna march for something for their rights I need to know so I can support. Male feminists talk about the rights of men that will be hel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 02:32 PM
-5	Did any of you deal with feminists irl? And if so, how? Sorry that you were married to such a horrible person. Please do remember, and I'm being respectful to give a tiny perspective, feminist is an idiology. assholes who are being abusive towards their partner (them thinking it's justified or not doesn't matter, leave, don't abuse, learn communication skills, etc) can still exist as individuals within ideological beliefs. Kinda like saying my husband is a capitalist and he got drunk and verbally abused me so yea I avoid all capitalists. Apples and o…	/r/MensRights	16/01/25 03:24 AM
2	It is up to Women to be proactive in the dating market nowadays I don't miss out. I ignore it. But it worries me about other people missing out because they aren't welcomed. And I also agree women need to be welcoming I've just not seen that vitriol. I believe you tho. I'm happy to call out women if men can please call out fellow men. People listen to people similar to them or those they perceive as more powerful	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 06:32 PM
2	It is up to Women to be proactive in the dating market nowadays I hear you. I just don't see women saying "men cannot knit" if they want to do knitting like a woman. Or men are bad at dancing if they enjoy dancing. The male ballerinas were amazing and welcomed in my dance troupe. It's the cruel commentary I simply don't get that seem to ramp up men to women whenever we do anything men think "isn't for women"	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 06:24 PM
1	Why I don’t see a good future for both men and women. I think roles should be defined by what the individual would like to do. I don't see any one size fits all rules that would work for everyone. Just don't block people from participating in society the way they want to.	/r/MensRights	15/01/25 05:56 PM
-5	Why I don’t see a good future for both men and women. I picked on one thing mentioned and am confused by your assertion... you said that women didn't fight men for rights but they were handed to them? Factually false. What do you mean not because they fought for it? Women died, were forcefed, do you know you feminist history? There were beatings and killings for both the UK and USA suffragette movements. Jailed and murdered. Lobotomies. President Kennedys dad had his daughter lobotomies just for not following his rules. Did you know women could be …	/r/MensRights	15/01/25 02:26 PM
1	For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to Fear Yall can make it happen!! Just communicate with each other. Pick one thing, like the draft maybe or circumcision and talk to one another and get a group together. You could start it! Could be a meaningful goal!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 02:21 PM
3	Q4Men: what does a society that prioritizes men do? I appreciate this view as a theory if we believed every man would be a father always acting in thr best interests of the child. In practice its simply unsafe to to let anyone have complete control of your own decisions about what you do with yourself. Until someone proves they are worth listening to... and therefore is trustworthy it is foolish in reality to do that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 07:34 AM
15	why won't women engage with men? I don't look for men for romantic relationships only platonic at this time in my life. Most men don't want that so I move on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/25 10:51 PM
1	For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to Fear And I'm told I'm less than for not having children but that's an opinion not a fact and I get to define my own worth just for me	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/25 05:59 PM
1	For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to Fear There's always been subsets who didn't partner. Nuns and monks etc. They focused their energy on other things and decided not to partner. Always been a thing...	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/25 05:54 PM
-2	Misandry in a Jordan Peterson interview But then why are men risking imprisonment for crimes? Why are like 80 percent of violent crimes committed by men? Weapons equalize so higher body mass or strength doesn't really matter. Just numbers it makes no sense. It's gotta be some form of socialization.	/r/MensRights	14/01/25 03:50 PM
-2	Misandry in a Jordan Peterson interview Women could with guns being the equalizer. But they still mostly don't. Take away physical strength from thr equation. We can buy guns. Force someone to do anything. Why don't we? Overall a lot of us could particularly in usa. Why don't we. Why aren't the stats more 50/50. Why are they 92/8. There's a socialized entitlement. It's not men are biologically wired to be bad. I never thought that. All the men i know are great! But it's because I've had to filter out so many who feel like they get to …	/r/MensRights	14/01/25 03:05 PM
3	It is up to Women to be proactive in the dating market nowadays Only problem i see with women joining mens hobbies is that often when women do men are mean about it. Like I've had friends into vid games and the men get nasty when they find out she's a woman in a shooter game. Or women into fishing like me or shooting get told I'm not as good at it bc I'm a woman. It's usually a chance to just be mean to a woman trying something or who likes it on her own. 🤷 women playing football and men laugh at her. Why even try to get into male dominated hobbies if we are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/25 06:13 AM
1	Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested. Yes. More communication. More exposure of people's individual lives and stories. More finding community. More knowledge. Things have changed a lot for sure. All the info can be used for good or bad. But the info sharing is absolutely revolutionary	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/25 05:37 AM
5	Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested. And that's cool if both people do. But if only one person wants to do that and the other person disagrees then you end up just masturbating bc then someone doesn't want to have sex anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/25 09:58 PM
1	Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested. Well men need to exercise their "no" then if they don't want to have sex with women who don't prioritize their pleasure. Men and women both should prioritize their partners pleasure during sexual encounters or just masturbate	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/25 07:09 PM
3	Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested. I have no doubt women also do this. I only can give my perspective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/25 07:08 PM
2	Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested. In my ample experience with sex, men who get excited to learn more about what I like are enthusiastic and fun to have sex with. Men who already think they know what I need and get very upset being corrected are not so fun to have sex with. I don't have other experiences to compare but my own. If you aren't a guy who gets upset about directions then you aren't one of the men I'm talking about. I never say all men bc everyone is unique and different. All I have is my sexual experience to go on. I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/25 06:58 PM
-1	Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested. I didn't. I explained that women are taught from a young age what men like. Usually too young. I was learning how to give good head from magazines as a minor. Never seen a magazine teaching young boys instructions on how to give better cunnilingus. So I was hoping to give some perspective that this post missed about how boys and girls are taught about sex. Men seem to just watch porn. Women read about techniques and talk to their friends about things their man liked to give them tips. I don't kn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/25 06:50 PM
4	Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested. Whole production? You mean. An orgasm?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/25 06:42 PM
1	Sexual double standard is irrational Yea women def have to know what they want for sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/25 05:47 PM
1	Sexual double standard is irrational Sure turmoil does. But why is consensual sex turmoil? Anytime I've consented it's been a positive experience. Only when it was grape or forced has it caused turmoil...	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/25 05:35 PM
-4	Misandry in a Jordan Peterson interview But women don't want to have sex with men who aren't willing to do so with them... even if women were physically stronger we don't want to force men to have sex with us overall bc we want a willing and enjoying partner.	/r/MensRights	13/01/25 05:00 PM
8	Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested. I assumed she was participating. I meant timing wise. Just take some time to stop stimulating your dick so the sex act can last longer. Use hands or mouth or toys etc with her guidance and participation then try to orgasm. Or orgasm and then comitue sex activity until she does. Every situation is gonna be different just don't stop till the other person is satisfied. Thats advice for all people involved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/25 04:31 PM
–	Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested. Just make sure she cums before you get over stimulated. Thats usually a best option. Stop trying to make people cum from just PIV. All that porn is faked and that's not the most pleasurable way to play with pleasure. I'd suggest not even putting it in until after at least 30mins of play time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/25 02:07 PM
9	Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested. This cracks me up as a woman who grew up my teen years in the 2000-2010 ... every magazine cosmopolitan, Elle, teen vogue etc had little articles about how to give better BJs and how to be his goddess in bed etc. Women have always been instructed on how to please men in bed. It's like a major thing we talk about. We Google BJ techniques. Ask other women what men like or not. Ask men what they like or not. I remember 2 platonic guy friends helping me giving me tips bc I wanted to learn more about…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/25 02:04 PM
-3	Alimony Tax 90 percent of divorce doesn't include any alimony anymore since most everyone has jobs now. It's a very rare thing.	/r/MensRights	13/01/25 05:16 AM
2	Sexual double standard is irrational Exactly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/25 04:01 AM
5	Sexual double standard is irrational Means she's holding herself ot a higher standard. Thats a woman who has learned some lessons in life. Who is sure of her decisions and knows what she wants and doesn't in life bc of it. I don't see the bad so we just have to disagree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/25 04:00 AM
6	Sexual double standard is irrational Burning out dopamine receptors like that isn't scientific. Thats not how sex works neurologically check out Johnson and Johnson work and beyond on sex ans neurological impacts. Sexual enthusiasm cannot be measured until sex happens. May be a lot better sex and a lot more enthusiastic when there's some timing considered. Maybe that's something she's learned about herself. Maybe he's smart enough to realize an experienced woman knows what she likes and will communicate it. Thats a pro and makes it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/25 03:08 AM
0	Sexual double standard is irrational You say they don't wanna pay for what you gave away for free. But you weren't the same woman at that point in your life. You didn't want the same things. It wasn't the right time for yall to meet. If you like the person when you meet them, their decision of when or if they desire sex doesn't determine their value in your life. Sex isn't paid for unless it's a transactional relationship. Which is fine but be up front. I am never entitled to sex from my partner or a stranger. Ever. If they don't d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/25 02:44 AM
3	My dad was an 'idiot' and was never really there growing up. He just built a life for me where I can live in a real castle. Now I get to shame him publicly. Kids don't remember any of that. They want to know their parents or it's obvious the relationship won't be good. Their lifestyle will be fine. But not the relationship.	/r/MensRights	11/01/25 08:59 PM
4	Telling women that they are the gatekeepers of sex and relationships reinforces women’s need to have high standards. Yes they weren't allowed to take on responsibilities of society before then. Had to fight for it because men wouldn't let us have that. It's about choice man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/25 08:45 PM
5	Telling women that they are the gatekeepers of sex and relationships reinforces women’s need to have high standards. Yes and men created that system for themselves and wouldn't let us be responsible for ourselves if we chose. It's about choice man. You wouldn't want other people choosing your life for you. This is why we needed the act. Women are adults and we're treated as non equal participants in society for centuries and you are well aware of this. It's a positive for society that people have freedom to live their lives as they see fit without harming or blocking others from options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/25 08:19 PM
3	Telling women that they are the gatekeepers of sex and relationships reinforces women’s need to have high standards. It was because they were women and not men they legally weren't allowed to be responsible for their debt bc women were infantilized by not being allowed in certain employment as well. No need to mince words. Imagine the opposite. You're a man. A woman run world will not let you work a job or own any property. Are you understanding whu if your own father couldn't do something you'd be glad you finally can fully be independent outside of a woman's permission?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/25 08:03 PM
4	Telling women that they are the gatekeepers of sex and relationships reinforces women’s need to have high standards. A bank could deny loans to women on the basis of being born with female genitals before that act yes. Only after that act did all women across the country have a right to full banking and assets ownership and acquisition singly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/25 07:51 PM
2	Telling women that they are the gatekeepers of sex and relationships reinforces women’s need to have high standards. Gotcha. Well I don't really have standards in list form or anything. I have ways I won't tolerate being treated. Other than that I just see who I vibe with the best and now that I vibed with someone who also grows and learns life with me I've committed. Only thing I cared about with looks is "does he turn me on" bc our meat bags are just houses for who we are. Not much can be changed on them quickly or easily (certainly not without lots of money) so... I'm just a treat me x way and you won't see…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/25 02:22 PM
4	Telling women that they are the gatekeepers of sex and relationships reinforces women’s need to have high standards. Where did you get that women want someone that owns their own home? I've never heard that criteria from my friends. Most women want to be part of a home buying process bc they want a say on where they live. More single women are buying homes than single men these days bc women want to own assets for ourselves. We were only really allowed to get bank loans and do this in my mother's generation. This is brand new and exciting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/25 02:12 PM
1	Women's sexuality works differently than men's sexuality... Never huh? Okay. Have you just walked around and looked at couples in real life? I've found many many couples include a hotter woman and a less hot man. What I rarely ever ever see is a hot man with a conventionally unattractive women. Thats a lot less common.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/25 02:06 PM
2	Q4W: Do you want a submissive man, or do you want to submit to your man? Sounds like proper collaboration to me and leaves no one feeling like they got bullied into a choice because a leader "said so" like someone is a parent and a child. It works well. Get lots of perspectives to fill in holes someone else may have in their proposal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/25 02:02 PM
6	If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better life Of course men should leave if they are unhappy. Just wish both men and women would leave instead of cheat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 02:43 PM
2	Genuine question; what do you want me, a random guy, to say/feel when you brought up a problem about men and/or gender inequality? We aren't looking for a particular answer. We are looking for understanding of how what we are describing would feel to us if it were happening to you. And seeming to care that it happened to us. Usually if you're someone we are speaking to it's because we trust or want to trust you because we also know men can get very angry when we share with them how scared we feel bc of our life experiences sometimes. So it's hard to know who we can speak to. It's just nice for someone to try to understand. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 03:02 AM
5	Women's sexuality works differently than men's sexuality... Explain to me why then that men commonly joke about being willing to have sex with someone just from behind or with a bag on her head? Or "fatties are easy bc they're grateful" So men are unwilling to sleep with unattractive women or not? Confused.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 01:48 AM
3	Women's sexuality works differently than men's sexuality... It's awesome. What's cool is it can happen in established relationships at different points too. Like attraction can evolve per situation and where you are in life on your own growth journey and you can actually connect differently with the same person during different growth. Very good to get to experience for sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 01:42 AM
7	Women's sexuality works differently than men's sexuality... Pretty much haha. Buuuuttt this also has happened to me... Here's the kicker - I also am interested in sleeping with men I just talk to but never thought they were physically attractive but the way they have passion about something or speak and behave and the more values we share the more I want to sleep with them and they literally get hot with every expression they make when they speak to me. Not because they are complimenting me. When they are answering questions about themselves fully and sh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 01:38 AM
6	Women's sexuality works differently than men's sexuality... From a woman here: we get turned on by visuals but we don't tell you or make it obvious. I can def look at a man's image and think whether I'd sleep with him or not. His behavior after that and mine depends on if I actually will. But I've never mentioned it to the man because that's an odd thing to make a stranger aware of. But yea I can look at a photo and say whether someone is sexy to where if I were single I'd want to fuck by visual looking yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 01:20 AM
20	Q4W: Do you want a submissive man, or do you want to submit to your man? Literally every one of my committees I am involved in doesn't have a leader. It's discussion until everyone is satisfied with an answer. It's not hard to make compromises if you aren't a rigid person. If you're rigid then a relationship probably won't work out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/25 09:59 PM
19	Q4W: Do you want a submissive man, or do you want to submit to your man? Only in a hierarchy. You do realize you don't have to live like that right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/25 09:45 PM
15	Q4W: Do you want a submissive man, or do you want to submit to your man? No one gets final say unless it's about their own body. Otherwise you collaborate and take each other's ideas about whatever it is and you compromise and figure out why the other wants one way and find a way you both like. There's no winner or loser it's a team. You both do whatever you have to do to get thru life together. If you don't have values that line up then you break up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/25 09:42 PM
1	Most marital problems happen because men love their wives. But see we don't force men to stay in miserable marriages any more than we force women to in no fault divorce. Like do men not do any research on pregnancy and how it affects women's bodies before jumping into impregnation? It's not about men shutting their mouths. It's about men accepting the things they cannot control. Women accept we cannot control men and if they aren't good for our lives bc of how they behave we can leave just like men can if the women are not good for their lives. Sexual f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/25 06:18 PM
1	Most marital problems happen because men love their wives. It's not a demand if he pledged it freely at vows. There isn't a vows that says "must have sex x amount of times or the marriage is over" because no one has any inherent right to anyone else's body sexually. Only their own. And if a man doesn't want fidelity then don't pledge it. Why get married at all if you don't want to be with just one person. It's okay to just not get married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/25 05:20 PM
1	Most marital problems happen because men love their wives. See women have been told we are most valuable for having a man's children. But then the man doesn't like what us having children means for his life. And I'm trying to figure out if men who get mad about our libido changing from something out of our control like a birth process actually don't have any other driving force to connect with their spouse except sex. Like is there nothing else valuable about the person they decided to marry? Did they marry just to be able to have sex with someone? My b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/25 05:18 PM
1	Most marital problems happen because men love their wives. Right? They act like we are doing something on purpose to them when in reality they aren't owed another person's body married or not to get off using. Like if my man suddenly needed a different type of touch bc it felt good and the older touch didn't we would just explore what worked for him now even if that meant I don't get to ride him for a while. I'd masturbate with or without him depending on his comfort level. I'd see if anything I could do to help. I'd give him privacy to touch himself an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/25 04:49 PM
7	Most marital problems happen because men love their wives. Women also have to accept their sex life changes after having her man's baby. We also like sex. We also desire sex. We have to deal with libido loss too. It's like yall think women don't want their sex life back too. When we can't, We can't. Particularly if our body has been medically messed up. It's not something we can just pretend isn't happening to us and we don't have the option to just NOT be in our own bodies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/25 04:21 PM
1	All long-term relationships require the man to do whatever the woman wants Its reciprocity and compariblity and friendship. And the woman to occasionally do what the man wants. It's both people helping each other have their best life, together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 04:50 AM
-6	Nowadays, men are being shamed simply for having preferences. Why even tell people they aren't your type. Just don't date people who aren't. I find it's only a problem when people feel the need to tell everyone what they don't like. Why does anyone else need to know that at all? I just don't date people I'm not attracted to. It's never occurred to me to tell them why. I just don't like them. Doesn't matter why.	/r/MensRights	06/01/25 06:13 PM
1	My best friend has had a complete personality shift Of course she does. And so does the man. I'm saying even if a woman says she wants it raw yall can still say no if you don't want a pregnancy to occur. Yes the woman is responsible for consenting. So is the guy. And im just trying to think if I were a guy and knew I didn't want a kid I would cum somewhere else ya know? Like i just don't know why yall would risk that when you can still have sex other ways without that particular finish.	/r/MensRights	02/01/25 02:24 AM
-1	My best friend has had a complete personality shift Well seriously tho. Yall decide where it goes. We can ask. But we cannot control yall. Only you can	/r/MensRights	01/01/25 09:18 PM
-2	My best friend has had a complete personality shift Yea of course she could have lied. Just assume everyone is lying about bc and protect yourself is my point. Like only men can control sperm so just do yourselves a favor and control it before guys get someone pregnant and they don't want to be on the hook for a baby. Pregnancy can only happen if a man chooses to put sperm there. There are so many other fun places. Why there? Why not orgasm anywhere else if you actively aren't trying for a baby. This is the type of sex education I don't think peo…	/r/MensRights	01/01/25 09:07 PM
-12	My best friend has had a complete personality shift She got herself pregnant is a wild take. Men literally choose where their gametes go. Women keep ours to ourselves. In order to get pregnant a man has to put his sperm in the one place it can get her pregnant... how did she get herself pregnant? He can choose where to put sperm so only his choices can even get her pregnant. Bc she can say "cum in me" but he has final choice even knowing her preference. She can beg for it and he can instead shoot anywhere else. It's his body and his choice where …	/r/MensRights	01/01/25 02:00 PM
–	Promiscuous women are bad because THEY enjoy being bad I want who I want. If they don't want me it doesn't matter if I want them. Nothing will happen. So yes I can want someone who doesn't want me. But if never actually sleep with someone who doesn't want me. Just wish they wanted me and masturbate instead. But I still can want them even if they are totally uninterested. Wants and actual actions are not the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 02:56 PM
–	Promiscuous women are bad because THEY enjoy being bad Yes. I can be horny and masturbate instead if I don't have a partner who wants me and who I want. It has to be mutual. If both aren't true then I don't want it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 02:55 PM
–	Promiscuous women are bad because THEY enjoy being bad Looking at statistics women are actually less likely to cause accidents and are safer drivers but I don't think that's bc we don't have a penis. I think it's bc women are socialized to be more cautious of injury so drive safer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 02:18 PM
–	Promiscuous women are bad because THEY enjoy being bad He wouldn't say that if he wasn't also desiring sex. So no of course I wouldn't bc i want an enthusiastic partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 02:17 PM
–	Promiscuous women are bad because THEY enjoy being bad So you think women shouldn't want to sleep with men because men aren't worthy? What a sad way to hate yourself	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 01:38 PM
–	Promiscuous women are bad because THEY enjoy being bad I have before yes. I've desired men who weren't interested in me yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 01:37 PM
–	Promiscuous women are bad because THEY enjoy being bad Hahahaha	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 01:26 PM
–	Promiscuous women are bad because THEY enjoy being bad Just because men are so easy about way gets them off that they have been recorded fucking corpses, animals, and babies (obvious NOT all men) doesn't say a thing about women's desire. But women do have it	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 01:15 PM
–	Promiscuous women are bad because THEY enjoy being bad Of course. The old nefarious reason... horniness	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 01:13 PM
–	Promiscuous women are bad because THEY enjoy being bad I wouldn't know. I desire men who i have no idea if they desire me back. I usually don't bother finding out because I'm not currently looking for a sexual partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 01:10 PM
–	Promiscuous women are bad because THEY enjoy being bad Your first sentence ... women also desire sex. Innately. From within. Sex doesn't happen just bc men desire it and women say yes or no to that FOR the man. Women have sex for ourselves. If we desire it, we pursue it. Yes sometimes women have and do have sex even when they don't want it to keep a man happy because keeping men happy increased women's safety and security particularly when men could give us resources or not to survive based on whatever they wanted. Now that we don't need men for foo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 12:29 PM
1	Romantic relationships with women in a world full of anti-male bias Happens thx	/r/MensRights	29/12/24 12:22 PM
2	Femicide Yep. Thats why the book "uncultured" is so interesting. Former military combat and scholar of cults breaks down some problems that could make military more efficient and kinda interesting critique of the system. Worth checking out.	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 09:09 PM
0	Thoughts On The 51 Men Convicted Of Rape? And yes assume any woman may not be the best mother and be careful who you make children with yes.	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 05:53 PM
1	Thoughts On The 51 Men Convicted Of Rape? Yes. If you see any abuse or neglect you call the police. You protect children. You speak up about it.	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 05:46 PM
0	Thoughts On The 51 Men Convicted Of Rape? And the most extreme men are the loudest so women get online and go "hey these extreme man said this or did this" and the non extreme men go "so what just ignore them" and women join up in groups to talk about it and say how can we trust any of them in our personal life if they won't stand up for us and just ignore what we are pointing out is a problem for us. We can't truly know which men to trust bc they are being silent about what we are feeling unsafe about. So then the women extremists star…	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 05:03 PM
0	Thoughts On The 51 Men Convicted Of Rape? Sigh. Tried to have respectful discourse. I'm sorry you can't just have a different opinion and learn something else too without resulting to this. But this is the internet. I wish you the best. Truly.	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 04:56 PM
-5	Thoughts On The 51 Men Convicted Of Rape? Of course her son was. He went to protect her bc he was finally aware of it. I'm trying to figure out how we keep telling men and making them aware of it and then they aren't en masse concerned about the problem to the same degree as women are even though men also get raped and the world needs a lot of fixing for everyone on these fronts. I'm glad to see more people are discussing it bc it raises awareness for everyone often the people sharing the info however are getting the anger instead of th…	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 04:55 PM
1	Thoughts On The 51 Men Convicted Of Rape? I am for end of the draft bc I'd never want any of my brothers to be forced into war. Thats an easy mens rights I support I have always shamed women criminals and women for not preventing a crime if they can dependent of the circumstances, as I look in all cases for context of the situation male or female. Thats how investigation to conclusion works. I'm sorry you never felt safe with a woman. Some women also have never felt safe with a woman or man etc. Some men don't feel safe with men. Being …	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 03:56 PM
0	Thoughts On The 51 Men Convicted Of Rape? Women aren't asking for male sacrifice. We are asking men to stop attacking us.	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 03:53 PM
-1	Thoughts On The 51 Men Convicted Of Rape? No. Women are entitled to mens protection just as much as men are to women. Men have a right to feel safe around women. We have to control ourselves and not hurt yall and follow the law. Men are not entitled to anyone else's body thru sex or relationships any more than women are. A woman cannot kidnap a man and use him body nor demand his relationship. Just like man is not entitled to a woman's body. Don't you want your own bodily autonomy? So how can you not understand we do too. You are entitl…	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 03:41 PM
-2	Thoughts On The 51 Men Convicted Of Rape? Yes but she was someone else's family. And her husband of 50 years did this to her. No one protected her particularly her family.	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 03:28 PM
3	Thoughts On The 51 Men Convicted Of Rape? Thank you. I feel like I'm never mean or angry I just try to learn and teach and have discourse and make sure people think about things from other perspectives. I love the men in my life. My father is a huge part of my upbringing and he was always so encouraging and the best guy. I've been accused of having daddy issues just because I fight against violence. I also am against women who are violent. Always have been. It's simply statistically not as common and I cannot speak on it personally. I'm…	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 03:12 PM
6	Thoughts On The 51 Men Convicted Of Rape? Very interesting points. I'm sure most Frenchman wouldn't. But at least one person went in and saw what was happening and didn't tell anyone and then left. Thats in court documents. If I went into a room and a man was unconscious and I knew he was gonna be raped I would immediately get police involved. I couldn't live with the guilt. I'm trying to figure out if these men feel anything at all? How do you leave an unconscious person to be harmed and never tell anyone??	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 02:42 PM
4	Thoughts On The 51 Men Convicted Of Rape? So men aren't naturally protectors only socialized to protect women in their family? It can't be both and im not the one who said men are natural protectors. I don't think they are since you said they only protect women they know. I don't want men to need to protect women. I want a world where men don't attack women simply because they have the physical advantage to do so.	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 02:39 PM
1	Thoughts On The 51 Men Convicted Of Rape? Women weren't on the chat group as far as I knew it was men only. But sure if there was a woman on there she should also have gone to police. Anyone should have. Why do men call themselves natural protectors but in this instance no one even thought to protect?	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 02:27 PM
0	Thoughts On The 51 Men Convicted Of Rape? More than those men saw the ad. Could have gone to the police and said "hey someone is trying to get a woman raped please stop him"	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 02:21 PM
-1	Thoughts On The 51 Men Convicted Of Rape? I think people are horrified bc other men knew and didn't report it even the ones who didn't rape her. They just decided "not my busienss" and did nothing. That quote if 1 in 10 men do it and 9 men do nothing then none of them are safe men. Ya know?	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 01:50 PM
4	Thoughts On The 51 Men Convicted Of Rape? The ages ranged from 22-70 so tho they skewed older the range was quite extensive. And there is no guarantee that a young person in this world doesn't also feel disenfranchised as well. At 34 I certainly do.	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 01:49 PM
1	Thoughts On The 51 Men Convicted Of Rape? I wouldnt... I'd steal if I need something and I can't get it otherwise like food. I'd murder for self defense. Rape has no justification. No matter who is being raped. There's never a justification. It's pure entitlement and selfishness. Other crimes can be justified but doing something to someone's own body when it's not desired by them for ones own selfish reasons is just not justified.	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 01:47 PM
-8	Thoughts On The 51 Men Convicted Of Rape? I think the reason people are so horrified is none of the men who saw this but didn't do it reported it. They didn't protect her. Other men knew and did nothing. The police only caught on bc a woman turned him in for filming up someone's skirt and then they found all his videos. Men say they are naturally protectors but obviously not? Like most of the men convicted had children and worked at a bank or grocery store and there was a nurse as well and had spouses. These weren't weird anti social pe…	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 01:41 PM
3	Femicide Thats a system decision not individual motive for murder. But def could be used in arguments by a constitutional lawyer to argue why the draft is unconstitutional. I'd love to see that supreme court fight and end the draft once and for a.	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 01:21 PM
1	Femicide Weird. Didn't know. I think it's a flair issue. I don't know how to add flair.	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 01:20 PM
2	Femicide Under title VII sex is protected yes. It's sex, race, ethnicity, nationality, religion etc. So yes murdering someone just bc of their sex could be prosecuted as a hate crime. If the motive is i hate all people who are a particular sex and want them dead then yea the male gender is protected. Just gotta be the motive for the murder.	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 01:20 PM
0	Femicide Yea i always look at motive. If someone wouldn't have been killed if they were a man in that circumstances then it's femicide. Otherwise it's not.	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 05:29 AM
2	Femicide Anyone murdering men and boys just because they are men and boys are also committing murder out of hatred of a protected group as well. Just don't always see that motive as much.	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 04:27 AM
12	Femicide Femicide by definition isn't just women being murdered i believe it's people being murdered because they are women. Like someone is targeting to kill anyone who is a woman bc they hate women. It's a hate crime term. Like the guy who left a manifesto in California explaining he was killing women bc he believe all women deserve to die. That person clearly was just targeting women not murdering for other motives. As far as I know that's what that term means. Or infants being killed just because the…	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 04:26 AM
32	YouTube recommended this song to me today, it's titled "Dead men don't rape" Agreed. Women who abuse and kill children deserve whatever is coming to them.	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 02:34 AM
0	I Love the manipulation and gaslighting of women when I say I don't like women anymore Yea I'm trying to spread toy knowledge bc some are really cool these days! I'm not making a judgment I'm trying to help. He said he liked parts.. there's stuff to help!	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 01:39 AM
-14	I Love the manipulation and gaslighting of women when I say I don't like women anymore No not at all. I'm truly trying to be helpful. I'm sorry tone didn't come across. I saw one of those at a local sex shop and thought that would help... I have toys when I didn't want a man too.	/r/MensRights	27/12/24 03:18 PM
-38	I Love the manipulation and gaslighting of women when I say I don't like women anymore Oh I know! If I dont like a man I have toys I like too. I was trying to help!	/r/MensRights	27/12/24 01:33 PM
-59	I Love the manipulation and gaslighting of women when I say I don't like women anymore So you like body parts not women. Got it. They got those things at sex ships like torso things with tits and pussy you can fuck. Have you tried that? With porn watching that could be a fun maaturbation sex life for you. I have lots of toys and I don't know if other people all know what's out there but it sounds perfect for what you're looking for!! I forgot the name of it but if there's a shop near you it may have one!!	/r/MensRights	27/12/24 01:17 PM
–	"Things being done TO you by an assertive partner alleviates shame" vs "men want a bangmaid mommy fall into their laps". Yea. And the time in life when you're ready for different things. I think it's all just a journey. You fail and succeed at a lot but keep making goals big and small to do things that make you happy in life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 02:08 AM
–	"Things being done TO you by an assertive partner alleviates shame" vs "men want a bangmaid mommy fall into their laps". Well you can't control how other people feel about you. You can only be true to yourself and if you choose a relationship I believe intimacy is delving deeply with both people. Sharing a life means knowing one another intimately. At least that's what many people are looking for. I understand the worry for sure but why live a performance?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 01:00 AM
–	"Things being done TO you by an assertive partner alleviates shame" vs "men want a bangmaid mommy fall into their laps". Well all of us only have control over ourselves. We can't control anything else. Just live and learn and fail and succeed in turn. It's all just a journey. Try to do the next best thing you can control.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 12:36 AM
–	"Things being done TO you by an assertive partner alleviates shame" vs "men want a bangmaid mommy fall into their laps". What type then am I missing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 11:44 PM
0	Romantic relationships with women in a world full of anti-male bias I hope some women aren't. But most I've met yea there's been some bad shit. Lots of men too.	/r/MensRights	26/12/24 08:57 PM
-2	Romantic relationships with women in a world full of anti-male bias Nah not at all. I've seen it on the internet. I know women can be awful. Been a victim of women. But never actually feared for my life around women. I've been harmed emotionally deep deep deep by women but always knew I could walk away from them. Men have tried to run me over with cars, punch me, etc. I only weigh 88lbs. I'm in a lot more danger around men who have more of a willingness and capability to be physically violent towards me. Thats all	/r/MensRights	26/12/24 02:14 PM
1	Men are constantly harped on to do better and improve all for what exactly? I do stuff for me. Like I wanna make money and look my best for me.	/r/MensRights	26/12/24 03:19 AM
3	Romantic relationships with women in a world full of anti-male bias Yes. They are scared of losing face or being unmasculine I'm sure. Still love them. But it's not my job to educate them except by expressing my opinion and hope they hear me. I def don't hold back much of my opinion. But if they don't learn from it not much I can do.	/r/MensRights	25/12/24 11:36 PM
53	Why does honesty never work when dating women? Your honesty isn't the issue. The ones that move on are glad you didn't lie to them and lead them on. The ones who think they can change you just didn't want to listen to your honesty and saw it as a challenge and burned themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 10:32 PM
5	Romantic relationships with women in a world full of anti-male bias Yes. Women throwing things and hitting men on media is wrong. I have a dad and brothers and cousins who laugh at it. When I tell them that abuse, they laugh it off as "she can't really hurt him" and I feel like I care more about how abuse against men is portrayed than the men in my life do. If I double down with how would that make you feel they think I'm being too crazy and liberal and a real man wouldn't be scared of that crap. So I'm glad men are actually taking it seriously on this sub bc I'…	/r/MensRights	25/12/24 08:30 PM
0	Romantic relationships with women in a world full of anti-male bias I'm here to learn what issues are going on from mens perspective. Add some of my own if I think I can help. And start conversations with my male partner so I can hear how he feels about this and help him open up about his life and feelings. I just think reddit is extremes on both end. Rarely the middle of a bell curve. I just think people should leave instead of harm others. That goes for everyone across the board.	/r/MensRights	25/12/24 08:28 PM
-7	Romantic relationships with women in a world full of anti-male bias It seems that way in reddit and internet world bc thats an anonymous world where its not all of society at all. No one in real life is promoting violence that I know at all. At all. Not over an IG post. Women will say leave him if you aren't happy with that. But NO we do not want violence overall as women. We have received it in romantic relationships a long time. Like multiple older family members telling me not to get married bc all their husband's became violent after they had children. So ye…	/r/MensRights	25/12/24 07:22 PM
-7	Romantic relationships with women in a world full of anti-male bias Then just don't date? When I don't find anyone I like I'm just alone romantically. I just pursue things I can make happen. Like saving money for travel or pleasure.	/r/MensRights	25/12/24 07:00 PM
6	What if healthcare CEO was a woman? Yep. My bro and SIL are docs. They spend most of their time fighting with insurance instead of caring for their patients. It pisses them off	/r/MensRights	25/12/24 05:31 PM
9	What if healthcare CEO was a woman? So what if she is a woman? Is she denying people life saving care? Then she's an asshole.	/r/MensRights	25/12/24 05:31 PM
3	"Things being done TO you by an assertive partner alleviates shame" vs "men want a bangmaid mommy fall into their laps". Weird. My man has a chronic disease. He needs help often. I just help him. It's not about weak. Each person needs different things sometimes. Just help one another.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 01:52 PM
5	Guys, help… Go alone. Meet people on trails if you take walks or whatnot to meet up again with. You can only control you. If you start out as a leader they may follow. But doing it for you is absolutely paramount. I'm trying to do this too right now. Realizing if I don't start anything but wait for my partner to do it then it won't happen. I have to lead and control myself.	/r/MensRights	25/12/24 01:44 PM
-2	"Things being done TO you by an assertive partner alleviates shame" vs "men want a bangmaid mommy fall into their laps". And as for pegging of course we do that. I'm gonna do whatever feels good for him and he's gonna for me. 😉	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 01:42 PM
5	"Things being done TO you by an assertive partner alleviates shame" vs "men want a bangmaid mommy fall into their laps". Hmm I dunno what you mean. I push my man down on the bed and tell him to sit tight and ride the shit outta him. Is that too "passive" ... don't people just do things sexually that feel good? Also fantasy is fantasy bc you don't do it in reality. I would be horrified if any of my fantasies actually appeared. No no I don't know how to handle any of those. I don't want to. Thats why they are safely in my head.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 01:41 PM
4	Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison. It's that it's unwanted. We immediately find you unattractive when we are harassed so it's similar to you not finding gay men attractive bc we aren't attracted to the man who does that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 03:19 AM
1	Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about. Yea i didn't even see porn till 18. Just never thought to look for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 03:17 AM
9	Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about. Sex is celebrated by other men to them so it helps the culture. It's not celebrated by men or women towards women. But yes it totally affects men too. So much shame for everyone. Yalls is just a little more user friendly to learn what feels good bc it's all outside ya know?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 12:38 AM
3	Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about. Baffling until you add in purity culture and an idea that our vaginas are gross and touching them is sinful and sex is only for penis in vagina and what is a clit? Don't worry about that it's just there. Thats how I was raised and many many women were. My mom walked in on me once bc I actually just didn't listen about not touching it and I was in HUGE trouble for doing that. The shame is consuming and deep. Sex is to give to a man not to enjoy for ourselves. We try to talk about how good it is a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 10:48 PM
0	Would you date someone from the purple pill debate reddit ? I mean I think everyone likes to have sex who is inclined to. Some people along your journey will be longer term people in your life and some won't. As long as you're making decisions for your life based on your development and desires and your happiness is not tied up in whether another person acts a certain way (since that's not controllable like oneself is) then yea everyone just do their life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 02:22 PM
13	"Husband" is a compliment. "Material" is objectification Yea i hear it. Makes sense to me. I don't believe in government marriage anyway. Makes me uncomfortable to invite a government judge into my own relationship. My partner and I just did power of attorney paperwork and medical attorney paperwork to avoid it and wear our rings for our own commitment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 01:48 PM
36	"Husband" is a compliment. "Material" is objectification Heard. Won't call any man husband material now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 01:31 PM
0	Would you go to war for the modern woman? Which women are wanting men to go to a war for them? I have yet to hear that sentiment from my women? I'll have to ask at work next week if that's something women want. So far haven't heard it. Most of us think war is just a waste.	/r/MensRights	23/12/24 01:59 PM
11	Seems like the women that men here actually want wont go 50/50 on dates. Then there's the type I get where I want to pay for me. They insist very hard to pay instead. I say no I wanna pay for myself and they get mad at ME for it until I give in and let them pay. Then they get mad at me for not wanting to go hang with them more and then I'm the bitch who just wanted a free meal. Make it make sense haha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 01:57 PM
–	How Women Have Devalued the Role of Boyfriend in Modern Dating How has modern dating become MORE transactional when in the past it was literally the only way women could get any money or resources but now they don't need to use a man for that... I'm just confused about that premise that dating is more transactional when now women don't have to have men to have money and resources like they used to before my mom's generation (she was a teenager before women could get bank accounts in their name in her state)	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/24 02:44 PM
–	Why do women seek sexual relationships with men? Sex isn't just physical. It's psychological, physiological, emotional as well. The brain has to be involved not just the body for it to be good sex. Sometimes the brain wants a partner not just an orgasm	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 01:27 PM
–	Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to women Once it is born then it must be cared for yes. If mother doesn't want to can put up for adoption. Whoever has custody can decide if thry want it or not. The bio parents both have to pay whoever is caring for the baby unless someone is willing to adopt and take over parental responsibilities. As for using organs it doesn't matter if it's your kid or not. You never have to use your blood or body to keep it alive. It wouldn't be neglect to not give a kidney to your child if it needed it bc the chil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 11:21 PM
–	Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to women No. There is no other human who is allowed to use my organs to survive against my consent. Giving blood. Even organs from the dead cannot be used. But yes once the child is born and separate it is a responsibility of someone bc then it is legally born and not using someone else to survive directly by their body.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 10:53 PM
–	Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to women Kids get sent to foster care if they have no one to care for them. Bc Amy body cam care for them once they aren't using someone's organs. Anyone can feed them or give money. Only one person can use their body. Therefore it must be consented to. Bodily autonomy is the ultimate right we all have over ourselves. If you don't want someone using your body they cannot. External organs? What are you even talking about. No one has the right to use your body without consent. You choose where your gametes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 10:32 PM
–	Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to women Anyone can pay money. One directly is attached to ones body. Using organs and nutrients. Thats body autonomy that needs consent. No one can force you to get a job it's still a choice. A stupid choice if you are able bodied. But a choice. No human can use another's body directly like blood or organs to survive without consent. Thats for everyone's safety and control over ourselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 10:17 PM
–	Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to women Wait but don't men have control over where they shoot their own gametes? Like shoot in mouth or on tits or whatever instead of where it can make a baby? And women control if a new person gets to use their body to survive or not bc it's directly using their body. Any use of body has to be consented to. Consent to sex is consent to the man using her body. He ultimately decides where to shoot unless cases of rape obviously. Then days later a new human is there or not. If is she has to consent to th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 09:50 PM
–	Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalism My point is the reason women can abort is bc it's a human fetus using her body and no one has the right to use someone else's body without consent. Consent to a man during sex isn't consent to a fetus bc that's two separate people. Men also have bodily autonomy meaning they decide who they give gametes to in the only one place that could create another person. So if men don't want to risk creating a child they need to watch where their gametes are going. Once a new life is created a woman has to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 03:34 PM
–	Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalism Men can control where sperm goes is not emotional. It's factual. Men literally control where they shoot sperm and when unless it's a wet dream type situation. How is that emotional reasoning?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 03:03 PM
22	32 year old grade 6 teacher was arrested and charged with grooming, and predatory criminal sexual assault of a child under 13. The teacher claimed the boy ‘made sexual advances toward her’, he was 11 years old. She's 21 years older than the boy and she blames him. Predators always blame someone else. Sick.	/r/MensRights	20/12/24 03:02 PM
–	Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalism Men control their body. Do not shoot sperm into a pussy unless you are willing to risk that she can do whatever she wants with it. So many other places. Condoms. Men ejaculate with purpose. Theirs isn't passive but active. Women's ovulation is passive and not controlled by the woman. Therefore when a sperm comes in and activates an egg we now have to decide if a new human is gonna be allowed to use our body. please don't shoot sperm into a woman unless willing to accept you break it you buy it m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 02:57 PM
0	The Red Pill is inhumane, ineffective, and in fact, self-defeating. Interestingly enough men are very likely to fall in with a hierarchy in a way women are not. Recent studies on testosterone show its much more useful in creation and maintenance of hierarchy. Women rarely maintain a hierarchy, in fact it is more likely women will govern themselves without outside leadership. As seen in many married households where women handle the management of other members in the family without lists or directions from an outside leader.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 02:30 PM
2	Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive. Yes I'm aware employment bc you require money to live. Thats capitalism and we live in that right now. But that's bc money is required to buy basic necessities like food and a roof over ones head. A romantic relationship is not a necessity it's just a nice thing to have in your life if you find someone you enjoy being around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 07:01 PM
2	Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive. Yes forcing people to be in relationships is a way society can make that happen. But how anyone would want someone who is only there on threat of poverty or out of obligation is so strange to even consider to me. That sounds like something no one would want	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 06:53 PM
5	Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive. So threaten people with poverty if they won't hitch themselves to someone they don't want to. So like all of USA history before the 1970s when women could own their own assets, businesses, and bank accounts. Isn't that just sexual slavery? You get a roof and food for having sex and serving a husband. How is that not absolutely unethical?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 06:17 PM
7	Why are so many women in their 30s and 40s single, childless, and dissatisfied with their dating prospects? Corporate slave? You mean work for our money like every adult does in a capitalistic world? Doesn't that make you one too? If it's "evil" for themselves (I'd argue women who don't want to don't say evil just say I don't want to be a housewife) it doesn't mean it's wrong for another woman to be one. We all don't have to be the same. Why would you even wanna live in a world where every body did the same exact stuff?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 04:27 PM
9	Why are so many women in their 30s and 40s single, childless, and dissatisfied with their dating prospects? No one is shaming women for taking care of their kids. No one in women's spaces is doing that. We are commiserating on the difficulties and trying to uplift one another. We are also reminding those women to make sure to have a financial plan in case their partner dies or gets injured unexpectedly bc otherwise she is shit out of luck on being able to provide for herself and the kids. I have never been around a group of women who are shaming other women for being present mothers. We will nitpick h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 03:34 PM
13	Why are so many women in their 30s and 40s single, childless, and dissatisfied with their dating prospects? Inherent nature? If it is natural for women to submit to a man and be his helpmate then there would be no need to preach at women to do so. There's no natural to that. If there were then when women started to be able to choose more options they would have chosen to stay doing that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 02:26 PM
2	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. Yea i think it's a bad expectation personally. Especially with how expensive everything is. If she ghosts thi you dodged a bullet if it's not for you. So I'm saying overall it's a good experience bc you learn who is NOT your person faster instead if wasting time thinking she is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 06:17 PM
–	Are you really "doing it for yourself"? Interesting. What makes you think that people don't know it's affecting them negatively?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 02:32 PM
–	What is meant by "women live on easy mode"? I'm not saying men aren't easier to pull and are just easy in general. I get that is a disparity. But being able to get sex doesn't make life easy. Only means men are easy to fuck. Thats all. Life is mostly about non sexual things. Sex is just a piece of life that not all people partake in anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 02:56 AM
–	What is meant by "women live on easy mode"? Yes bc even in bad sex men have an orgasm. So it's still "worth it"	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 01:37 AM
–	What is meant by "women live on easy mode"? This was years ago. I'm much more stable now. And I can assure you it wasn't about not having a job. I was sick. I'm just telling you it isn't easy mode. It's survival mode. And it's just as freaking scary as any other level of survival mode.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 01:36 AM
–	What is meant by "women live on easy mode"? I've had to do it to survive years back. He almost killed me. I'm well versed on how this works. I'm telling you it's not easy mode. It's ownership bc you cannot do anything he doesn't approve of without the threat of death on the street or beating or in his case he tried to run me down in his car when i tried to leave. This is not easy mode. It's disgusting abuse of power over another person. It's abusive by it's very nature. If you're on the street and you have to live under a man's roof and l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 01:31 AM
–	What is meant by "women live on easy mode"? I'm just saying what's the point of saying women can get sex if it's not good sex then why would we even want it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 01:28 AM
–	What is meant by "women live on easy mode"? A guy may take care of you but expects your body in return. So that's coercive sex which is extremely mentally damaging...	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 01:06 AM
–	What is meant by "women live on easy mode"? If it's sex where we don't even orgasm does it count as easy mode? Cause having bad sex for us equals not getting to orgasm and I'm pretty sure men wouldn't necessarily like just being sexually frustrated in many encounters...	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 01:05 AM
1	Do conservative women dress more immodestly than liberal women ? People dress how they wanna dress. No way to study this and modesty is subjective so who is judging it and yea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 04:18 AM
2	The only way for high-quality, high-expectation women to have a satisfactory romantic life is to proactively seek men they like (barring luck) The more perspectives you gain from experience the more people you will naturally be able to relate to. Yep. Improving your own experiences really helps and being willing to learn more is an absolute must. Learning other people is an adventure and experience itself. Doesn't need a goal to be worthwhile	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 01:08 AM
1	Are you really "doing it for yourself"? Well yes someone who is constantly needing validation thru sex or romantic pursuits def can be referred to get some help if that's feeling harmful to what they actually want in life. If it's negatively affecting their life I'm sure people are getting help for that or know they should. Since you said psychological	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 01:06 AM
1	The only way for high-quality, high-expectation women to have a satisfactory romantic life is to proactively seek men they like (barring luck) Realistic to one, won't be for another. It's all how much you're willing to weed out. I know people who found love over 50 etc. Really really good love. So yea if that means some people will be single thats not a bad thing. Growth happens coupled or single. Experiences change people sometimes into people different who may find love then. When on their timeline ya never really know. My man found me at 38. We are happy 4 years later now. Make a good little life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 11:21 PM
2	I condemn cheating whenever it is, but whats your opinion on the ideology that men cheat with their body, while women cheat with their feelings? I think men and women both cheat with their feelings. Men cheat to feel validated just as much as women do.	/r/MensRights	15/12/24 11:16 PM
2	Does having pets help with loneliness? Yea it's bonkers how nice it is to have someone who needs ya and who helps you back. That reciprocity is absolutely lovely.	/r/MensRights	15/12/24 03:44 PM
4	Women as Intimate Partner Violence Perpetrators Thankfully my man and I found a great couples therapist on "Regain". Easy process. We did it in the morning via zoom. Helped us learn how to communicate better with one another. Will definitely go back as more stuff crops up. We both really got a lot out of it and learned for our relationship. Gotta both be fully willing tho.	/r/MensRights	15/12/24 03:43 PM
2	Telling women that they’re not entitled to protection or human decency shows a sense of entitlement. Oh yea. People handle rejection like shit. I told I guy i wouldn't go back to his hotel with him (didnt know him. Syrsnger came up to me at a bar) he called me a whore (hilarious bc i was literally being the opposite) and he freaking tried to punch me. Some friend of his grabbed his arm thankfully as he reared it back and he got kicked out. Then he freaking waited for me and I snuck out the kitchen door bc bartender helped me. Insane how people handle rejection sometimes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 02:23 PM
1	Telling women that they’re not entitled to protection or human decency shows a sense of entitlement. I'm trying to offer help and support. As I'd want someone to offer me if roles were reversed. I've done what I can. I'm sorry you're so bitter as to not even be open to support. Wish you well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 02:08 PM
2	Telling women that they’re not entitled to protection or human decency shows a sense of entitlement. Yea fair fair. Once you're a public figure or a rich person you auto have a target for all sorts of people trying to take advantage. Thats why I always say I'd wanna be rich but not famous. Sneaky rich. Don't want people to know my face ya know? Being mobbed is too stressful. Imagine not being able to just go shopping or whatever in public?? Nah. Not for me. Some people thrive on it but I can't handle all that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 02:06 PM
2	Telling women that they’re not entitled to protection or human decency shows a sense of entitlement. Most men who live this way are not the ones women are concerned about. We are concerned about the ones who do harm. If that's not you then this isn't about you. We are asking for more men to be safe men towards everyone in public places and in private space as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 01:49 PM
2	Telling women that they’re not entitled to protection or human decency shows a sense of entitlement. Again it's not just mens responsibility it is a shared responsibility for all genders. We all must be safe in public towards others. We all must try to protect others from harm. Whatever happens to the least of us happens to us. We are all connected. The gender of whoever is being harmed doesn't matter. It's about standing up for right against wrong. See something say something. Call police if you aren't comfortable physically getting involved. Say something instead of ignore. Etc. This isn't a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 01:45 PM
2	Telling women that they’re not entitled to protection or human decency shows a sense of entitlement. So I'm trying to show support bc I'm agreeing all you're naming is harmful behavior. And yes being called out on that matters. I'm asking you to show me where women are doing the specific things you're saying so I can do something about it and be a supportive ally against cruelty and hate no matter where it is coming from women or men. You are refusing my support. Calling it silly and nonsense. I do call out when I see it but again you keep naming things without giving me a single actual source …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 01:40 PM
0	Telling women that they’re not entitled to protection or human decency shows a sense of entitlement. And it's everyone's responsibility to BE safe in public. Thats why if someone drives drunk it's a crime bc they are endangering others. If someone isn't safe to be in public they shouldn't be in public right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 01:27 PM
1	Telling women that they’re not entitled to protection or human decency shows a sense of entitlement. I understand fear of false allegations for sure. Thats scary AF. I wouldn't be around women either if that was happening to me or I was at risk for that. I certainly call out women for false accusations bc it dilutes real accusations and no one wants that!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 01:21 PM
1	Telling women that they’re not entitled to protection or human decency shows a sense of entitlement. Seriously I will call out other women for mocking Ukrainian men for that. I'm happy to call out any gender for that. I will happily disagree with women who go after self proclaimed rapists or pedos as pick me delusional women. Please show me these things and I'll call them out. I'm with you on that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 01:19 PM
-1	Telling women that they’re not entitled to protection or human decency shows a sense of entitlement. Everyone is entitled to feel safe in society. Thats why it was formed. For collaborative safety in numbers. Public areas are public areas bc everyone is safe and invited to them. Thats why we have laws to do with safety for everyone. What do you mean we aren't entitled to be safe?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 01:17 PM
-1	Telling women that they’re not entitled to protection or human decency shows a sense of entitlement. Wait woah. Man v bear is nothing about men suffering its about choosing to be around a bear instead of a man bc the bear is predictable and the man could harm us not bc we are threat or food but bc he wants to. Mocking Ukrainian men I have not seen any women do thay please send a link for that. None of these are proof women just want men to be tortured and suffer and die. I'm asking to see that stuff so I can directly condemn it to it's source please. Not to debate other things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 01:10 PM
6	Women as Intimate Partner Violence Perpetrators I think many people believe men as boys are traumatized into this violebt behavior bc they aren't aa emotionally cared for starting way too early. Calls for therapy and mental help have largely gone ignored by men who refuse to initiate it or who haven't found the right type of therapy and aren't shopping around. Women are slightly more receptive to trying to read self help books and get mental health services.	/r/MensRights	15/12/24 12:51 PM
-2	Telling women that they’re not entitled to protection or human decency shows a sense of entitlement. Who is calling on men to suffer for simply existing? Only time I've seen women go after men is for behavior not for existing... every woman i know loves men. Come from a very hetero family. Even online I only see women saying angry things in response to news headlines about male behavior thats dangerous to women. Or policies that are dangerous to women. I don't see this "all men should suffer" mentality so much as "please stop being the things we feel unsafe around and stop harming us" rhetoric.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 12:48 PM
2	The only way for high-quality, high-expectation women to have a satisfactory romantic life is to proactively seek men they like (barring luck) Yea communication fails are common. It's work many people don't learn. My man and I need therapy for it. Helps a lot. Figuring out how to do that is a good life skill	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 12:42 PM
1	Are you really "doing it for yourself"? An individual can have an accepted rule for themselves but no you can't just enforce those on people. Everyone is gonna be in a range with this. Lots of overlap but plenty of outsiders too	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 12:30 PM
2	Are you really "doing it for yourself"? If I'm looking for validation from others that I'm hot then sure I'm gonna like a compliment. Typically from a straight woman or my partner. Both of them i trust they are giving me a true compliment not bc they want someone or hope for something in return. Getting a compliment from a man who isn't already sleeping with me feels like he's just doing it to see if eventually he can sleep with me. So it doesn't really validate that I'm looking hot but instead that I'm fuckable to him which is genera…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 12:29 PM
2	The only way for high-quality, high-expectation women to have a satisfactory romantic life is to proactively seek men they like (barring luck) Yea like first impression is great. Like a layered cake. Looks amazing. You're excited. Then you cut into it and a layer is made with something you hate. Not can handle and just lukewarm. But a flavor you just cannot eat. May be allergic even. So you go from super excited to, damn nope really fast. Things can look great when looking shallow then get a little deeper and what you find may just absolutely not work for you. but someone else may love that layer. Just good to know early it's not for y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 12:23 PM
1	The only way for high-quality, high-expectation women to have a satisfactory romantic life is to proactively seek men they like (barring luck) It's not about fair or not bc women will miss out bc they don't approach. Same with men. If I miss out it doesn't ruin my night. I just enjoy it anyway and go home. Women miss out when they do this sometimes. Just like men do if women don't approach. Both don't meet each other. Seems pretty fair. Women just aren't as publicly mad about missing out maybe?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 12:01 PM
3	The only way for high-quality, high-expectation women to have a satisfactory romantic life is to proactively seek men they like (barring luck) Never walked away from someone without a reason. Are you sure you just don't know the reason? Most people have reasons. You may think it's a stupid reason. But it's only the individuals call if they want to be around someone else. It's okay not to like it. But just means they weren't for you and better to find out early and not waste your time I'd think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 11:54 AM
1	Are you really "doing it for yourself"? I feel attractive therefore I am. thats where I'm at when I'm not looking for validation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 12:48 AM
7	Are you really "doing it for yourself"? Male up your mind? It's not a debate. You're reading why real people do things and trying to make up your kind on whether to believe them. Why would we be lying? To what end and purpose? You can just admit you simply didn't know and learn new reasons people do makeup besides external validation. Thats an option ya know?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 01:31 PM
9	Are you really "doing it for yourself"? Ding ding ding. This reads like he wants a particular answer and nothing else will do or must be argued with	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 01:30 PM
3	Are you really "doing it for yourself"? I think she means she doesn't need anyone to hit on her to know she is attractive and prefers they don't. I know when I'm looking hot there's absolutely no reason for a man to tell me I am and I'd also prefer they don't when I'm out and about. It can be his inside his head thought but I do NOT wanna know about it. Does that make sense? I hate getting random verbal attention from men even when I know i look hot bc i do NOT do it for that. It's cool if he thinks whatever he wants but please do not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 01:29 PM
1	Are you really "doing it for yourself"? Who decides how balanced they are? You seem to be looking for a rule book for something that is fully individual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 01:27 PM
5	More men need to encourage women to wear makeup up less. What he doesn't realize is women do the same. When we like our partner we don't give a crap how they look day to day. It's how we treat each other. It's the beauty of our character and behavior. No one gives one crap if anyone is enhancing. Special occasions It's fun. But none of it matters to the health of the relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 01:24 PM
11	More men need to encourage women to wear makeup up less. They've told me straight up and have zero reason to lie bc it's not offensive to find someone more attractive or less with makeup. Married men on here will know what I mean. Maybe it's a difference in type of relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 04:56 AM
29	More men need to encourage women to wear makeup up less. This is a non issue for men in relationships who like their partners. Mine and any I've been with liked me equally with or without makeup. Sex life didn't change with or without. didn't treat me different with or without. This seriously isn't an issue. It's like saying men shouldn't use cologne or hair gel bc it's unnatural. We all enhance ourselves how we see fit and decorate ourselves. Attractiveness doesn't change when in a relationship when someone is wearing makeup or not. Maybe it you just…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 04:27 AM
1	Women had nearly flawless PR until social media which has inadvently led to the Redpill Bc in my fantasy some of the hard core stuff feels good. In real life it does not actually feel good. In my mind I can pretend it does and that makes it better. Are you having trouble understanding imagination?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 04:12 AM
1	Women had nearly flawless PR until social media which has inadvently led to the Redpill I'm trying to explain. Some fantasy life stuff isn't fantasy like "I wanna do that" more like fantasy as in "imagine if this felt like this". In real life it wouldn't feel good but in fantasy i can pretend anything feels good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 01:35 AM
1	Men don’t lack empathy women just want to be coddled 24/7 Currently i talk about literature. I'm reading the confessions of nat Turner but am always in a new book. Which usually jumps into talking about historical discussions since I read a lot of literature that is contextualized by the social and political seasons of the past. I like to talk about strategy for community outreach for local needs. I'm writing out a proposal and talking to others to submit to my local government about how to cut costs and repurpose older buildings for shelter and shower…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 06:23 PM
1	Men don’t lack empathy women just want to be coddled 24/7 I don't really talk about anything that I feel the need to censor. I try to be pretty authentic. I mean obviously I have an appropriateness around children and stuff. But around other adults I don't have anything I want to say that I wouldn't be comfortable saying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 06:07 PM
1	Men don’t lack empathy women just want to be coddled 24/7 Get me in trouble? Like legally? What do you mean trouble?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 06:00 PM
1	Women had nearly flawless PR until social media which has inadvently led to the Redpill Maybe not to you. Perhaps it's because I already get what I want in reality with my partner so there's nothing to fantasize about i actually want bc I get my sexual needs met?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 05:42 PM
1	Men don’t lack empathy women just want to be coddled 24/7 Sorry about your experience. Sounds like you haven't hung out with the women i do or maybe women just have better conversations amongst ourselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 05:41 PM
–	Are the men here mostly on the younger side and single? But if you'd rather not to then don't. But why be mean to people who are promiscuous? Like just don't sleep with them. Why the slut shaming? Their sex life doesn't matter bc it isn't with you if you aren't pursuing them. It's their own business to deal with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 03:41 PM
1	Men are the biggest hypocrites when it comes to women’s dating choices. Let her? You don't let someone do something with their own body when they are an adult. You give them advice if asked. No one has any right to control anyone else's sexual decisions. Wowza.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 03:36 PM
1	Men are the biggest hypocrites when it comes to women’s dating choices. No if someone over 18 when it would be appropriate to discuss my sex work with asked me i would give honest feedback. I would not go into high schools trying to get people to do the job. I wouldn't do that for any profession bc I don't see the point of pushing kids into any particular work only answering questions if they have any and are already interested in it. If it involves me speaking of my sex life I def wouldn't talk to anyone under 18 about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 03:33 PM
1	Men are the biggest hypocrites when it comes to women’s dating choices. I'd tell them the risks and benefits if asked sure. There are jobs that have good and bad. I'd make sure any woman considering it knew about all that before making a decision. My decision was based on needing a second job that I could do at home and was flexible with hours. Pretty much my other job was so time intensive I needed something I could do on my own time and be my own boss and it made better than doordash and didn't damage my car. My situation it was right for me to stay afloat a few y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 03:03 PM
–	Do you think women have an obligation or moral duty to have children? Oh yea just wanted to make sure you weren't saying she had to have kids if she changes her mind. It's a permanent decision so must be serious. I thought you were implying she had to stay in the marriage and had to have kids if she decides not to later. I was like ... eeehhh what if her doc says it's extra dangerous for her. But I hear you weren't saying that now. Cool cool.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 02:41 PM
1	Nice guys are just assholes who felt obligated to be nice to get pussy. That's a shame. I call out everyone. Doesn't matter the gender. My biggest pet peeve is hypocrites. It's a justice issue for me. We aren't all the same but if I'm holding someone else to a standard I'm damn well gonna hold myself to that one too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 02:39 PM
–	There’s a relationship drought for dating age people but half of us are in denial about it and don’t think there’s a problem Interesting. I dunno how that translates to IRL. And this was like 2010-2014 I was kinda on my virgin men journey. Life has changed a lot too. But that's my past experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 02:29 PM
–	There’s a relationship drought for dating age people but half of us are in denial about it and don’t think there’s a problem Many men like you just did say they want to be taught. But women don't want to have to teach. I didn't teach these men how to be in a relationship or have sex. I just told them what I wanted during sex and they did it instead of arguing with me on whether their move they learned from some pornhub thing is "better". I explored my body so I knew what I liked. Then I shared that. Women are discouraged from knowing what we want so thata hurdle number one. Masturbation as a woman ia seen as "lesser" …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 02:24 PM
-1	Nice guys are just assholes who felt obligated to be nice to get pussy. Bc women aren't the ones complaining that being nice isn't "working" probably. Most women aren't being nice to get sex from someone bc men are super easy. Most women are nice bc it feels good to be nice. Nice by definition doesn't always mean you'll get anything back. But it feels good to think you made a positive impact on someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 02:22 PM
–	There’s a relationship drought for dating age people but half of us are in denial about it and don’t think there’s a problem No one taught me how to have sex or a relationship. It's all trial and error and just being a person who has a giving heart. If you give and they don't give back, drop them. All about reciprocation in sex and relationships and asking for what you need so they don't have to read your mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 02:19 PM
–	There’s a relationship drought for dating age people but half of us are in denial about it and don’t think there’s a problem Mostly bc they act bitter after about 25. Mine were all younger than 25. Once they get angry about not getting sex as easily as they think they should be able to get it their attitude can really run women away. Which is... sad. Very sad. But it doesn't happen as often when those men don't put all their value into having a sex life. Men who have value within what they can accomplish that doesn't hinge on a woman's attraction are interestingly a lot more attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 02:06 PM
–	Are the men here mostly on the younger side and single? Don't many red pill men also get mad about "hoes" with high body counts tho? But then want to sleep around. Like how can they think women lose value by sex but want to have sex with them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 01:09 PM
1	Women had nearly flawless PR until social media which has inadvently led to the Redpill As a 34 year old woman just want to say seriously about 80 percent of my fantasy is just for maaturbation, and I would never ever want it in real life. Fantasy is not meant to be real for me. Real stuff is real stuff. Fantasy is just play. I'd be horrified to be in most of those sexual situations in real life and would absolutely hate it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 01:08 PM
–	There’s a relationship drought for dating age people but half of us are in denial about it and don’t think there’s a problem Some of my best younger sex was with virgin men. I went thru a phase in my early 20s of only fucking virgin men. They were attentive. Listened well. Eager to please. Let me take charge and show what I wanted. We're good to get me off multiple times and delay theirs bc worried about lasting. The reason I went towards about 5 or 6 virgin guys in a row was bc it was just so nice to have someone not be like "this worked with my ex and she liked it" when it was the exact opposite of what I was tellin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 01:01 PM
1	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. Women do typically say that tho if they want it. Many women make it very clear no date or this. Then thry get less dates. Which is good bc it narrows the pool to only ppl with the $ she wants. Other women, like me, hate feeling dependent and I got upset asking my freaking fiance to buy me chicken fila yesterday bc my work check was delayed. He reassured me he didn't mind and we moved on. Everyone is different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 12:51 PM
1	Men are the biggest hypocrites when it comes to women’s dating choices. As a woman with over 30 partners and a OF model for a few years ... i am in an extremely stable loving relationship of 4 years. Sexual, romantic, hard workers both of us in blue collar factory work, we have a great life. I don't get why people are so worried what family would think about their partners sex life because who is actually trying to find out about anyone else's sex life unless actually having sex with that person. It has never occurred to me to try to find out about my sisters in law…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 12:43 PM
1	Men are the biggest hypocrites when it comes to women’s dating choices. 51 charged. More they didn't identify from the tapes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 12:40 PM
1	Men don’t lack empathy women just want to be coddled 24/7 Curious which things specifically? If it's something most women have had happen then hive mind would make sense right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 12:39 PM
–	Do you think women have an obligation or moral duty to have children? But yhere have always been celibate ppl who followed a different decision. Like monks? They invented printing presses and many things to society without having sex. Nuns also cared for sick ppl and did amazing works for others without kids. No need to be in sexual relationships with someone unwilling. Prostitution should be more legal too just for the labor of sexual release tho.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 12:16 PM
–	Do you think women have an obligation or moral duty to have children? Thays edging way too close into marital rape is moral. Why would anyone want to force someone to use their body for something against their will? Is that not just slavery by a different name?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 12:10 PM
–	Are the men here mostly on the younger side and single? Want sex but not children but believe consent to sex IS consent to pregnancy and having children? How does that make sense?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 12:05 PM
7	Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standards You realize that you tell women to lower what they want then that means to fake they are into people. I think finding out your relationship was a woman faking liking a man would really harm him. I couldn't pretend to like someone I didn't now that I don't have to, to survive like my great grandma. Plus when women say some guy is good husband material a lot of men get mad and say that's an insult bc they don't want a woman settling down with him but instead want her to like just be sexually attra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 11:08 AM
3	Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in dating Most men i know want marriage more than women. Where in the world do you live?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 07:43 PM
3	Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in dating Yea that's hilarious. I'd laugh about this for sure. "I don't mind shallow people but I'm mad when women are shallow and don't like me for shallow reasons" like bro you are NOT okay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 07:42 PM
2	Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in dating No women in my community want a man who goes to church instead of staying home and having morning sex like me and my partner do instead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 07:41 PM
1	There’s a relationship drought for dating age people but half of us are in denial about it and don’t think there’s a problem Even if the population decreases though humans are not at risk of being fully extinct. Some people will always reproduce. Even if there are only a few million people instead of billion thats fine. Like children will be even more valuable and considered if there are fewer of them. Currently too many are unwanted and uncared for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 05:41 PM
1	There’s a relationship drought for dating age people but half of us are in denial about it and don’t think there’s a problem Yea for sure when women have more choices they choose less reproduction. Which also kinda makes sense bc of the large toll it takes on the body. There will always be women who want children tho. So I'm not super worried about particular country reproduction. Immigration is always an answer for country population issues. Globally humanity is doing pretty good considering how fast our population has expanded in the last 100 years. Plus we are kinda ruining the planet and a very small amount of peo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 05:22 PM
1	There’s a relationship drought for dating age people but half of us are in denial about it and don’t think there’s a problem Are they swimming in effective and culturally acceptable birth control? Gaza birth rate was at 3.38 children per reproducing woman in 2023. It was 6.2 in 2000. So yes it has fallen over the years too. Africa is a huge continent. Which country are you speaking of? Lack of clean water makes the mortality rate of children under 5 very high so in certain parts of Africa it is significant that many children born still equals few children reaching adulthood. As medical care increases more women choose…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 05:09 PM
1	There’s a relationship drought for dating age people but half of us are in denial about it and don’t think there’s a problem The cost to raise a child has increased in all of these countries. Even in ones with third spaces to hang out, most people who want to be parents (which is not all people anyway) out of those they have fewer children so they can properly give resources to those kids. In nature many species who are larger and more intelligent mammals such as apes and elephants etc have fewer offspring bc they require care longer. Whereas smaller beings like rats and cats and dogs have larger litters bc the offspr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 05:02 PM
1	The only real form of love is unconditional love. See there have to be conditions on active love. I can love someone as a human and respect them as human and having value but actively allowing them into my life has coeditions. Not money tho. Thats never a condition. Thats weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 04:18 PM
3	Do you think women have an obligation or moral duty to have children? Okay so who are these people you want to take down? Do they even know why? Like I'm trying to understand how you'd take down people who don't even know you and are also just surviving in the society they live in. Individuals you meet did not create society. Have you tried forming community for yourself? Finding somewhere to give back and help others? Get some interaction with people all working towards a good goal together? That can help a lot with feeling meaning and value. This is truly well m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 07:03 AM
9	Do you think women have an obligation or moral duty to have children? Yes humans reproduce sexually instead of asexually. And it's a woman's choice if she wants to use her body for that. And plenty of women do and plenty of women don't. There's always been women who don't (nuns) or cannot (infertile) it's all gonna be okay if some people don't give birth. It doesn't cheapen anyone else's sacrifice just because another doesn't choose that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 05:48 AM
6	Do you think women have an obligation or moral duty to have children? Not every woman has to reproduce or every man in order for people to exist. Women who want to will. Women who don't, won't. it's that simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 05:38 AM
9	Do you think women have an obligation or moral duty to have children? Bc you only get back what you put in. If you do not go out and contribute to society you won't get anything back. Go volunteer to help animals. Go volunteer at your place of worship if you have one? Pursue learning online there are free lectures on YouTube. Find interests. This world is so big and there's so much to learn. What exactly do you want back besides satisfaction of being a part of community? What specifically are you trying to get back from being part of community??	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 03:17 AM
2	Do you think women have an obligation or moral duty to have children? Of course you can control what gives your life meaning. You choose meaning in life. You choose belief systems. You can look up literally anything to be interested in pursuing in life and you are choosing one thing you cannot control which is another person's romantic feelings for you. Why try to hurt people if you don't get what you want?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 03:14 AM
9	Do you think women have an obligation or moral duty to have children? I mean my parents are loving and caring and have totally different beliefs than I do. They are straight Maga and I'm a tattooed liberal. So... no. Kids actually don't turn out like their parents unless it's all they are exposed to	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 03:13 AM
9	Do you think women have an obligation or moral duty to have children? But whose choice is it to not contribute positively to society by being involved in society?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 01:27 AM
13	Do you think women have an obligation or moral duty to have children? Thats a weird way to say you see people as numbers and don't actually look at their impact in their communities but sure if you say so. Haha. Women, even infertile ones, form communities and care for others in society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 01:27 AM
9	Do you think women have an obligation or moral duty to have children? You only think life is worth living if you get a wife and a child? Dude. Isn't it absolutely illogical to base your self worth on someone else's feelings or lack thereof for you? You cannot control someone else so it makes no sense to put all your worth in someone else. You can put it into anything and you choose something you cannot control yourself? Why would you do that to yourself?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 01:14 AM
25	Do you think women have an obligation or moral duty to have children? Yea. Feeding people. Building structures? Making clothes? Like so many ways to contribute without pregnancy	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 12:07 AM
12	Do you think women have an obligation or moral duty to have children? Why would you want to destroy people just bc you don't have a wife and child? I don't have a husband or child but I don't want to harm others??? Like how that thought even crosses your mind is truly confusing to me. Just live and let live.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 12:06 AM
34	Do you think women have an obligation or moral duty to have children? Just confused how women don't contribute to it without having children? plenty of men and women who never had kids contributed to society. Queen Elizabeth 1 has a whole era and Renaissance time named after her for her rule. Popes. Monks created the printing press... like what do you mean contribute?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 12:04 AM
17	Do you think women have an obligation or moral duty to have children? No worries. We make more like minded people just by living as an example. When it isn't forced but observed, people sometimes choose it from observation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 12:03 AM
7	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 No problem. Easy to do on here with no tone and short sentences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 04:47 PM
15	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 Yea i was agreeing with you! In outrage. Bc it's outrageous	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 04:29 PM
47	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 No one should be forced to do any of these things wtf.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 04:27 PM
–	Feminist women are much better to date than trad women I'm a feminist and still want men. I just want them instead of need them. And I have one. And it's great	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 04:27 AM
3	Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity to I guess. I mean a woman will choose to be with a man if she wants him in her life. But if she doesn't have to have one to survive obviously she will choose to not have one if she doesn't want a man in her life. Some women who want certain men in their life will choose to and some won't. But without the financial dependency at least no one will HAVE to be with someone they don't want to be with just bc legally blocked from making and owning ones own money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 01:02 AM
1	...you're just an incredibly unattractive woman with that personality and attitude. Too many points where facts just don't give a foundation to discuss. But to your first point no I will not just use a man for money. Thats not my character. Despite my unhappiness using someone else is not the solution to fixing my life. why do you thijk using someone else is a proper solution? Maybe you should think about that.	/r/MensRights	08/12/24 09:53 PM
1	...you're just an incredibly unattractive woman with that personality and attitude. We have all the same problems as other humans. Stress. Work. Bad economies. Poor relationships. Plenty of things make us unhappy. What exactly would make us particularly more happy as people? What can we do as people that make us happier than men? All I know is we can give birth but pregnancy is not often described as happy but uncomfortable, painful, and then there's that pesky post partum depression possibility. Other than that we are unhappy about the same stuff as anyone else male would be u…	/r/MensRights	08/12/24 09:04 PM
18	Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity to Wait so women that have choices about how to live will choose to live differently individually than other women without choices? No way. If your only choice is construction or digging a well and then suddenly there are 4 more jobs available. You may very well change jobs. Especially if one benefits you more. Thats called choosing best for you. If some women are choosing to be single it's simply bc it's best for them. The majority of people are still dating and pairing up and such. Just means som…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 08:33 PM
1	When single... Did/Do you care about what the opposite sex finds attractive? When I am looking to attract someone specific I care about what they are attracted to and hope by chatting with them I'll find it's me and we mesh. But I'm not gonna try to be attractive to men in general bc they are all different. I'm just trying to be a good person because only person who has to live with me is me. I don't need to attract just any guy like they are interchangeable. I want someone who I align with well not just a man bc he has the "boy parts" haha. So I don't really worry about…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 08:04 PM
1	...you're just an incredibly unattractive woman with that personality and attitude. What makes you think so?	/r/MensRights	08/12/24 07:56 PM
2	...you're just an incredibly unattractive woman with that personality and attitude. Gosh i feel seen. Many unhappy people out there. We are more similar than different in how we feel living in the world right now men and women.	/r/MensRights	08/12/24 06:00 PM
6	Nagging as a Form of Domestic Violence: Addressing the Overlooked Abuse Perpetrated by Women No I don't support slapping anyone even if they are yelling at you. You walk away. Adults shouldn't be nagged bc adults do the things required to live with others. No people shouldn't be shamed for individual choices about themselves that do not affect other people. But not communicating bc you've been told not to is an absolute cop out when you can look up benefits to communicating your needs. Communicate why you don't want to do something. If they insist and it makes you uncomfortable then don…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 05:20 AM
5	Nagging as a Form of Domestic Violence: Addressing the Overlooked Abuse Perpetrated by Women Homework and parents nagging you about it is a parent child relationship. Adults shouldn't need to be nagged to do basic life work. Why would you be in a relationship with someone who you have to nag to do stuff bc they won't communicate why they cannot or grow up and do it. Again... you shouldn't need an incentive to clean up your own space.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 05:10 AM
8	Nagging as a Form of Domestic Violence: Addressing the Overlooked Abuse Perpetrated by Women I'm not incentivized to do most adult shit I just have to do to live in this world. Why in the world are you worried about shame instead of being a better person and owning your choices? If you choose to be lazy and not pick up socks for that example and someone nags you about it... like so what? Pick up the socks but if you cannot bc you are too stressed every single self help book will say to talk about it with someone and find some solutions to lessen your stress. It doesn't excuse behavior y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 05:09 AM
10	Nagging as a Form of Domestic Violence: Addressing the Overlooked Abuse Perpetrated by Women I'm so confused how asking someone for something without an threat involved is abusive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 04:59 AM
9	Nagging as a Form of Domestic Violence: Addressing the Overlooked Abuse Perpetrated by Women Which is why I'm confused. Most the time it's men saying they cannot read women's minds. But in your example why would you expect a woman to read a man's mind when he's upset?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 04:58 AM
15	Nagging as a Form of Domestic Violence: Addressing the Overlooked Abuse Perpetrated by Women ... has he tried telling you what's wrong? Has he tried talking about it with you bc he's the one bothered and she isn't a mind reader? This reads like someone just trying to make women are all bad bc there's a stereotype that we nag. Nagging by definition is repeatedly asking for something. Repeatedly asking someone to do something is not DV. Threatening violence if they do not do it, is. So if a woman is saying "do this or I'll knock your teeth out" that's a threat and a violent one at that. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 04:49 AM
3	There’s a relationship drought for dating age people but half of us are in denial about it and don’t think there’s a problem Yea they met up with those people. Out at places. Going out to friend snacks after school and work. Etc. People met thru social engagements. Can't really afford to host anymore etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 01:08 AM
9	There’s a relationship drought for dating age people but half of us are in denial about it and don’t think there’s a problem There were more public spaces to interact that were affordable. Most entertainment wasn't out of everyone's price range.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 12:04 AM
4	There’s a relationship drought for dating age people but half of us are in denial about it and don’t think there’s a problem Yep. Seriously... the real problem is rich poor. Women and men are not the problem just because of social standards differences. Thats just gonna free market itself out bc we all are having trouble dating. Women may be able to get sex easier but actually meeting people for anything connection wise and important and going out and exploring lives? Can only do that with money. It's all useless to fight about standards when nowhere to actually meet and enjoy life and no time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 09:15 PM
49	Women had nearly flawless PR until social media which has inadvently led to the Redpill Women are blamed for the entire fall of mankind in the Christian Bible. What are you even talking about them being seen as pure and innocent? Our genitals have been literally seen as gross, things to conquer, and dangerous powerful witch portals in lots of historical writing. That flowery perfect woman was just an ideal made up by men a long time ago that we can never actually meet as a goal bc we are the cause of original sin. Purity and innocence have been an ideal, never reality. And women ov…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 03:02 PM
8	There’s a relationship drought for dating age people but half of us are in denial about it and don’t think there’s a problem I think overall it's a rich vs poor problem. Most people barely make enough money to survive. Having options to go out somewhere fun to meet people requires money and time. If you work a lot you don't have time or money bc if you're working multiple jobs it's because you're unable to quit one of them and survive and obviously you don't have much time either. If individuals had better wages they would have better time and money to actually do activities for the fun of it and meet people there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 02:53 PM
8	Women are generally stingy and have a really hard time sharing their resources with men. I dunno man. Statistically women buy more of the groceries and kids/home needs with their money. What do you mean by invest? Like investing in a business for greater wealth for the family or stocks? Bc I'm pretty sure most of the shopping for food, clothes, etc is pretty common for women to do. My mom did it growing up with me every week. She was always the one buying our needs. My dad went to get our food too but she did it more often.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 02:38 PM
-1	Women are generally stingy and have a really hard time sharing their resources with men. Men only did it for their immediate family like wife bc of legal obligations. It's not like having a lot of money suddenly makes people generous to everyone. If that were the case there wouldn't be such a rich/poor divide causing all these wealth problems	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 02:15 PM
1	Women are generally stingy and have a really hard time sharing their resources with men. Wait but isn't this the first time in history women en masse have been allowed to have any resources just their own. Like it's been less than 60 years... women JUST got this ability on a macro level. Sure on a micro level couples should work out sharing resources fairly but on a large scale this is brand spanking new for women...	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 02:00 PM
29	What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex? No. The virgins i slept with were very eager to please and actually listened to what I wanted. Sometimes more than experienced guys who thought they knew everything but refused to listen that I needed something different than their past partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 04:54 PM
3	women dont love the man, they love themselves throught their man As I said every single pregnancy causes damage to the body. The degrees of damage vary and can be up to death. The only reason it's even fairly low is because of advanced medicine in the last century. Before that the most common reason women died was childbirth for centuries. Do you read any history of childbirth books? There's some fascinating information out there if you look at it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 03:33 PM
2	women dont love the man, they love themselves throught their man Thats when we evolved to have smaller pelvis. We never changed that after that evolution. We are still the same structure....	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 03:24 PM
3	women dont love the man, they love themselves throught their man Okay when humans evolved to walk upright our pelvis changed shape. Childbirth became extremely dangerous for homo sapiens at the time. This is simple evolutionary biology and anatomy. Please Google it. It was covered in my embryology and anatomy classes in university but the information is available. It is not safe. Pregnancy and birth are always dangerous and 100 perfect of the time cause damage to them mothers body. Sometimes damage that lasts the rest of their life. Please education yourself …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 03:18 PM
7	women dont love the man, they love themselves throught their man There have always been abortions and contraception. You should check out some books about it. Fascinating how they handled it in the past. 👍 even when abortion got safer and safer women still choose to give birth. Why would they do that at all except out of love and sacrifice? Why would IVF exist? You're so illogical it's hurting my head. Good luck to you living in this world so ignorant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 01:15 AM
12	women dont love the man, they love themselves throught their man Women have always died and knowingly risked death to birth every new person ever existing. Women also have died to protect their families and children. Men and women both will put themselves in harms way for others. Thats not a man thing. Also men actively kept women out of combat until very recently and women still signed up for it willingly. Women snuck into war pretending to be men throughout history too. So wtf are you talking about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 12:58 AM
6	UK: Goldman Sachs banker who was branded 'lazy' by bosses while on paternity leave and chastised for not answering email while on holiday wins sex discrimination case Good for him!	/r/MensRights	05/12/24 06:24 PM
-1	"Why Are Women Freezing Their Eggs? Look to the Men." I'm offering help and support, and you see it as me invading your space and asking you to reveal your plans? I thought mens rights was no secret but a place to discuss how to further mens rights in society. I always try to offer what I'd want in return so as much as I'd love men to support causes that help reduce harm to women in society I'm also supportive on any causes that reduce harm to men in society. Thats how we all come together. If it's plans that are secret, that makes me think you are…	/r/MensRights	05/12/24 12:34 PM
–	Is this Red Pill strategy BS? I literally will not try again probably more than you haha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 04:46 AM
–	Is this Red Pill strategy BS? I mean .... unless it's really really bad. Not as in "awkward first time" but like if he doesn't seem interested in learning what our body likes im pretty much immediately done. I need someone interested in learning me. Not someone just putting in moves he thinks looked cool in porn or something that "worked" on a different woman. Every body needs different stimulation and listening is really whether sex is good. Is he letting me guide him to what I like or insisting on doing sex only one way? T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 04:31 AM
1	"Why Are Women Freezing Their Eggs? Look to the Men." I personally think we need better paid parental leave and subsidized childcare to help people with children. That would help people who want to have kids. There are policies we can put in place to make children's quality of life better. Pointing out if one is not having income come in stay at home parents got stuck when a Spouse passes away or something is not barricading anyone from it. It's planning for possible tragedy that could make anyone a single parent. Divorce, death etc. Having better …	/r/MensRights	04/12/24 05:12 PM
0	"Why Are Women Freezing Their Eggs? Look to the Men." Agreed there's societal pressure on most people to do certain things. There always has been one way or another. Feminism simply opened up the choices in terms of legally allowed options. At some point you have to own and be content with your own choices. There will always be others with opinions. But the choices are individual and it's okay to cut out people who are pressuring you to be a certain type of woman or man.	/r/MensRights	04/12/24 04:43 PM
2	Guys seem compelled to absolutely despise women they dont want to date. Agreed! Thats what I always try to promote bc that's the golden standard I want to be, myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 02:31 PM
1	Guys seem compelled to absolutely despise women they dont want to date. Stop equating homelessness to not having sex with a partner. We all need shelter. We all probably need orgasms. But that doesn't mean you have to have them shared with another person to survive. Again it goes back to you can only control yourself. Other people not having sex with you or anyone they choose can suck if yoh want to but theres no nees to want to verbally or emotionally ir physically hurt them for it. If someone wanted to sleep with you and you didn't want to, do you believe you have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 02:30 PM
2	Guys seem compelled to absolutely despise women they dont want to date. Yea see what happens fairly often is men will be empathetic with the woman they want but not with anyone else. And bc of early relationship energy she doesn't really notice bc it's all new. So he will be great to her but that's all she sees. Then as it gets more serious sometimes she will start to see it isn't for anyone else. Then eventually she will see its only towards her when he wants not all the time. Thats when the eyes get opened. It takes a while to see that trait.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 02:25 PM
1	Men are held to a higher/more rigid standard of masculinity than women are for femininity. Sorry. I'm a literature person. College writer. Yea. I write very much like I'm writing a dissertation sometimes. Ugh. I think i really didn't get my point across. I was in a "hey I really wanna see how I can help bc I think some misplaced anger is happening and I've done that before." I'm kinda a fix it person and yea. I'm not always good over text type speech. Tone issues in person too. I'm a mess. Haha. hope some of it helps someone, if not you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 07:45 AM
1	Guys seem compelled to absolutely despise women they dont want to date. But you wouldn't tell a stranger that right? Like you mean telling a friend or relative right? Like you aren't going up to random strangers and telling them not to smoke as if they don't know they shouldn't right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 07:42 AM
1	Men are held to a higher/more rigid standard of masculinity than women are for femininity. You've never been in a girls bathroom or sleepover where we squealed over if this boy looked at us in class or smiled or had the most perfect hair. Or secretly wrote down Mrs. Some boys last name. We grow up very much valuing male attention. We are also taught to do that. told to find the perfect guy from all media and family and friends. Yes we value male attention the same. To your point about it being easier... Getting a guy to fuck us is not the same as getting a guy who cares about us, is i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 07:41 AM
0	Men are held to a higher/more rigid standard of masculinity than women are for femininity. Of course it's natural to feel sad. It's unnatural to blame women for it. If a women was really into you and you weren't into her, are you obligated to go out with her anyway? Of course not. Feeling sad is natural. expressing it as anger towards others' choices that have nothing to do with you personally is too much, man. If a woman doesn't date a man it doesn't always even have something specific to do with him. She could easily just not be looking for a man. It's not always a personal slight t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 07:35 AM
1	Men are held to a higher/more rigid standard of masculinity than women are for femininity. I wish you'd reread i was trying to help you and give you advice. I truly want you to get to a point where you figure out how to work towards that goal but along the way hit some of your own goals just for you. It really helps self esteem and confidence in yourself when you meet a goal you want to meet. And that's has never been an unattractive trait. It's like 2 birds with one stone. Helping me right now. Hope it helps you. I am not saying "tough shit". Amazing what trying to help with what I m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 07:10 AM
1	Men are held to a higher/more rigid standard of masculinity than women are for femininity. Thats literally only an issue if you believe you deserve something romantic out of life from other people. Romance and love and connections are not some sort of right. They are things many people work to find. But these things aren't controllable. You can only control yourself. There's always been people who didn't marry. Thousands and thousands of nuns in the middle ages and Renaissance didn't marry and have children. Plenty of men didn't marry either if they couldn't afford to support a wife. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 07:04 AM
3	Guys seem compelled to absolutely despise women they dont want to date. Can attest as a young pretty blonde girl in the south. Starting at age 9 was the first time a grown man harassed me. Got really bad around 13 or 14. Thankfully I had amazing brothers and a dad so I knew men weren't all like that. But I totally get why she was afraid when grown men say sexually charged stuff to you as a child it's really frightening. And they rarely do it in front of other people so no one else hears and usually don't believe us. Say "you probably misinterpreted" it's maddening	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 06:14 AM
1	Guys seem compelled to absolutely despise women they dont want to date. Yea there's also a short king situation. Thats the short man who owns it and is confident. Women love that. It's personality, not the shortness. Just like a woman who is always depressed about something about herself is less attractive than one who owns it. And I talk to women about men all the time. The talk does not center around how short or tall they are. How they behave is talked about. But their height if it's brought up is simply a descriptor, not a conversation piece.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 06:11 AM
1	Guys seem compelled to absolutely despise women they dont want to date. You care about their health? Really?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 06:05 AM
2	Guys seem compelled to absolutely despise women they dont want to date. Or at least don't argue about wearing a condom ...	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 06:00 AM
1	Guys seem compelled to absolutely despise women they dont want to date. Well the complex is what's unattractive. Not the height. The way they complain about their height and make their whole personality about something about their body they can't change. I also have things I hate about my body but why would I go around complaining to every person j want to date? Just own it. It's yourself. If you seem to hate yourself then why would someone else find that attractive?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 05:57 AM
2	Guys seem compelled to absolutely despise women they dont want to date. So they are just mad that fat women can get sex and they can't and so they think the way to help that is to be cruel to them? Wtf type of logic is that. It's not. It's pure emotional diarrhea and really unattractive to boot. Don't they know that makes them even MORE unattractive to a woman they might be interested in? Shooting themselves in the foot by acting like this	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 05:55 AM
0	Guys seem compelled to absolutely despise women they dont want to date. Why would men be angry and contemptuous to women who simply don't want to date men anymore? They are not harming you by their inaction?... i don't get it. Men who don't want to date women are still fine people. So are women who don't want to date men. The 4 They just want to not date, marry, have kids or have sex. It literally harms no one and shows zero hate. Some may be doing it bc they don't like men, some are doing it bc they don't want to be hurt bc in the past thry have been ans they are m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 05:51 AM
-1	Men are held to a higher/more rigid standard of masculinity than women are for femininity. Yes. Women who want a particular type of masculinity have narrower options. Just as men who want a particular type of feminine have narrower options. Society still says shit to women we just have decided somewhat collectively that men don't get to define if we are woman enough or not. Yall can do the same. Most of the "thats gay" crap and "no homo" came from other guys when I had a big mixed group of friends in my 20s. Just be who you wanna be. No one can take your masculinity from you even if y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 05:41 AM
-8	"Why Are Women Freezing Their Eggs? Look to the Men." Whatever you wanna do. But what mens rights are you for? I'd be happy to join in if I hear which ones you wanna fight for and what the plan is. We marching? Striking? Emailing?	/r/MensRights	04/12/24 04:43 AM
-13	"Why Are Women Freezing Their Eggs? Look to the Men." I have a college degree. My partner doesn't. We both aren't having kids. We both are feminist and liberal. Different strokes for different folks. I'm getting laid and have love in my life. So all good in my hood. 👍 apparently I provide plenty of value and he definitely does for me.	/r/MensRights	04/12/24 02:51 AM
-5	"Why Are Women Freezing Their Eggs? Look to the Men." Women literally can still be a housewife if they want to. All this did was allow choice instead of obligation to that role. Choices have consequences. Some women will not find partners.. some men will not find partners. People make choices and deal with what comes. It's okay to not get everything you want out of life. Many of these women if they don't find a partner to have a child with will have a child and pair up with other women and raise their children together cooperatively. No one is maki…	/r/MensRights	04/12/24 02:50 AM
2	You know what I find weird? If we keep going down this road I'm pretty sure there will be massive revolution at some point. The economic situation is untenable. Basics... minimum wage needs to be a living wage as it was always intended. For both men and women. The thing is women don't need men financially anymore as of 1970s. But now we ALL need fair wages. That way men and women can connect on things other than money.	/r/MensRights	03/12/24 07:21 PM
1	You know what I find weird? Also I'm thinking if we didn't slut shame women and reduce their access to reproductive care thus alleviating some social, reputation, physical, and financial risk (having a baby is in the tens of thousands of dollars in the usa) then more women would be more excited to hook up with more men. When I know I'm gonna be slut shamed if I give my body count then I'm a lot more cautious about my sexual openness so that's a factor too. But yea we all need more access to money so we can have more choice…	/r/MensRights	03/12/24 07:04 PM
-1	You know what I find weird? I feel that too from men for sure. I hear that. I just don't quite understand why men feel like they HAVE to be seen in a certain way. Many men put their entire self worth into having a woman specifically in a sexual relationship. It's fine to desire that but to feel like less of a man without it cannot be very healthy bc no one can control other people (except in the past men did to women legally and still in many places today) ... if you can only control you then you cannot depend on a sexual …	/r/MensRights	03/12/24 06:34 PM
-1	You know what I find weird? Have you ever studied coverture? It's English common marriage laws which were transported here to America when settlers came over. Thats the type of marriage started in America. Please check it out. I learned about it some years ago. The first married women's rights came out in the late 1830s. Those started to protect married women's rights to act autonomously from their husband's. The history of married women and single women's rights and how they evolved is interesting. Start at coverture if y…	/r/MensRights	03/12/24 01:31 PM
-9	You know what I find weird? Their medical records and medical decisions literally belonged to their husband's. Husband's could legally have women in their family lobotomized against their will... women literally historically were property. I have nothing against your thread here but history is history and yes. Literally property bought in marriage for money.	/r/MensRights	03/12/24 07:04 AM
1	What’s a good way to bridge the gap between men and women? Women and men aren't judt body parts to smash together. Humans are their minds and sharing and intellectual and intelligence and emotions and worldviews and a million other things. How old are you? Have you worked on a social or intellectual pursuit of interest outside of getting sex or dates? I know that can hurt to feel rejected. Even if i haven't been rejected the same way I have felt rejection. The feeling I have felt it. I hope you find other pursuits just for yourself in your life. It help…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 06:41 AM
2	What’s a good way to bridge the gap between men and women? Yes. I just pointed out men did that to me. And it was awful. And people are sometimes awful. And it sucked. And then I found people who helped me realize everyone has shit like this and it's just part of the shit and I can only control me and who I'm around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 06:04 AM
1	What’s a good way to bridge the gap between men and women? Everyone suffers. It's a part of being human.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 06:01 AM
2	What’s a good way to bridge the gap between men and women? I took a shot at it	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 05:59 AM
1	What’s a good way to bridge the gap between men and women? I dunno man. Starting in middle school a group of kids said I wasn't a real girl bc I didn't have noticeable breasts. A guy I slept with laughed to his friends later and said I was okay but he liked girls who actually had some meat on them he was overheard by my roommate saying this in the cafeteria. Every holiday my family told me I am too skinny. Men I've dated during breaking up have admitted to having to imagine I had "real tits" just to finish. 2 of them. 1 cheated on me that I know of with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 05:59 AM
2	False allegation punishment False rape allegations are similar in percentage to other false allegations of crime. I think most are fines. I think if it causes job loss there should be compensation for that. Or education loss or etc. Whatever monetarily makes sense for loss	/r/MensRights	03/12/24 12:09 AM
1	What do women like in men they AREN'T attracted to? Not rapey just they were super hurt bc thought I was into them but I wasn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 12:08 AM
1	What do women like in men they AREN'T attracted to? It's happened to me a number of times. I was being nice and then I was told I was leading someone on. So I try not to be tooo nice to strangers	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 12:07 AM
2	What do women like in men they AREN'T attracted to? Or if we do say positive things then men think it means we want to have sex with them so it's easier not to bc we won't get told we are leading them on by simple kindness	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 06:44 PM
2	Its not that women lack empathy. Too many men conflate coddling with empathy. Women are responsible for their behavior, and men are for theirs. So, no men are responsible for how women act. Neither are women responsible for how men act. Once we are adults, we can choose how we act. Whatever we choose must not harm others. If women are saying they are avoiding dating someone, that's her controlling her own behavior. Men harassing women is them causing harm and not controlling their own behavior. No woman is making a man harass her. Why this shifting of responsibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 12:28 AM
1	CMV: Husbands should not feel entitled to touch their wives I just do the same way I'd want to be done. Pretty simple. I'm all about it both ways yea	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 06:44 PM
1	CMV: Husbands should not feel entitled to touch their wives Saying "I'm done" is not dragging it out. It's making sure you're treating others how you'd want to be treated. Common courtesy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 06:03 PM
0	CMV: Husbands should not feel entitled to touch their wives It's not a game over the last word. It's respect to what you had to tell them it's no longer for you. This sounds like you never respected or liked the person you were with anyway so why were you even interested in them in the first place?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 05:03 PM
-1	CMV: Husbands should not feel entitled to touch their wives Because if you're in a relationship and decide to not be in it anymore you tell the other person... have you ever been in a relationship or broken up with someone? You have to communicate. Thats thing number 1 in any relationship whether it be romantic or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 04:57 PM
8	CMV: Husbands should not feel entitled to touch their wives Sometimes I do. Sometimes I don't want to be touched. Him too. If I'm feeling nauseas I never wanna be touched etc. Like each time is different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 04:41 PM
1	CMV: Husbands should not feel entitled to touch their wives As long as he tells her and doesn't go around behind her back. It's okay to end a relationship for any reason at any time. But don't sneak around. Own it and leave	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 04:18 PM
1	CMV: Husbands should not feel entitled to touch their wives You do realize someone can say yes to sexual things 100 times but if they say no the 101st time it doesn't matter that they've said yes in the past? Like i can say no to my partner and he fully respects the no just like I do for him. The past doesn't matter if in the present someone says no. To any sort of touching of their body. You own yourself fully. Protects both men and women from unwanted touching. Why is that a problem?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 04:17 PM
1	Emergence of the radical 4B feminist movement in the United States Just doesn't want one. I don't think anyone of them are about love. The 4 things stand for no sex, marriage, children, and dating. So it's still allowing family and friends love. Just not romantic love i guess.	/r/MensRights	28/11/24 11:08 PM
1	Emergence of the radical 4B feminist movement in the United States I haven't seen anyone angry about mgtow personally. I'm sorry they have been bothering men who just don't want to date them. I think it's immature on both genders to get worked up over the other not bothering them.	/r/MensRights	28/11/24 10:44 PM
1	Emergence of the radical 4B feminist movement in the United States Yes some people who are doing 4b may be doing it bc they hate men. Sure. That would make sense for them to do so. Also women are doing it bc they are scared of being pregnant or getting divorced and being single moms etc. Like me I'm pretty much doing 2 of them. So I'm not having a baby and I'm not getting married to a man. But I am having sex with a man. That sort of thing is individual. But the not doing the things def could be bc that individual woman hates men. Good thing is whoever is doing…	/r/MensRights	28/11/24 10:27 PM
1	Emergence of the radical 4B feminist movement in the United States Sounds like it to me. I'm not personally participating. I'm like 2b hahaha. But yea it seems like that to me	/r/MensRights	28/11/24 10:23 PM
1	Emergence of the radical 4B feminist movement in the United States Dude I promise 4b is just about the 4 things some women are not doing for a few many reasons. None of those reasons is to condone female sex offenders. Absolutely not about supremacy. Just self control for their own reasons.	/r/MensRights	28/11/24 08:45 PM
1	Emergence of the radical 4B feminist movement in the United States What?? I never said women shouldn't allow men to access their bodies. Thats not something I believe. I said women should be careful bc they take on more physical risk with pregnancy. I love men. I date men. I am with a man now. I needed contraception bc even with one man, pregnancy can happen. It's not more likely with more men. It's more likely when you have more sex. I have more sex in a monogamous relationship than I ever did single and hooking up. I didn't realize women use sex to make men d…	/r/MensRights	28/11/24 07:31 PM
1	Emergence of the radical 4B feminist movement in the United States Thats absolutely horrible. But what does it have to do with 4b?	/r/MensRights	28/11/24 07:20 PM
2	Emergence of the radical 4B feminist movement in the United States I never got the impression it was to bother men. When my friends and I have spoken about it it's more about women just wanting to focus on themselves. I haven't heard anyone even speaking about it's effect on men except men getting annoyed at them about it. But I'm glad it doesn't bother yall.	/r/MensRights	28/11/24 05:50 PM
1	Emergence of the radical 4B feminist movement in the United States Right... which also isn't sexist.	/r/MensRights	28/11/24 04:45 PM
1	Emergence of the radical 4B feminist movement in the United States Please guys help me understand how this is sexist? Genuine question this is where I'm at below: I'm just confused why this bothers anyone. It's just someone not wanting to date, marry, have kids, or have sex. It just narrows the pool down to the women who actually want to. Like... if men don't want to date that's cool. It's just an individual choice for how someone wants their life to be and it harms no one. Men have the exact same right to not do all those things. No issue with individual right…	/r/MensRights	28/11/24 04:09 PM
2	What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards? Social can be friends, relatives, coworkers, etc. Social doesn't necessarily mean marriage. Marriage is a concept of a legal and financial contract that has changed over time. It's not some sort of happiness institution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 12:18 PM
1	What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards? Historically women's family only chose a man to marry her to for his money. It's only since women got their own bank accounts in the 70s that we can even choose to not only go for money. Most women aren't going for just money nowadays. Thankfully I found an equally poor partner and didn't need parental approval and we work thru our ups and downs and he's amazing and we have the same values on social politics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 12:11 PM
3	What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards? But why does it matter if they don't get a date? Isn't that theor own problem? It literally affects no one else if they don't date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 12:07 PM
4	sex worker fatally stabs boyfriend, police decides to handcuff dying man, she is given baby talk treatment at police station and released after boyfriends death. she later sexually assaults a man Sorry that happened to you. Shitty people deserve to be called out.	/r/MensRights	28/11/24 12:16 AM
1	If in today's society, sex is not expected in a relationship, then faithfulness should not be expected Yes you CAN officially consent but I'm wondering why the other partner wants to do something to someone who doesn't want it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 12:15 AM
15	sex worker fatally stabs boyfriend, police decides to handcuff dying man, she is given baby talk treatment at police station and released after boyfriends death. she later sexually assaults a man Wtf. Nope nope and nope. We do not stab people unless they are trying to harm us. Since I don't see that is the case she should never ever have been released out to do more damage.	/r/MensRights	27/11/24 06:18 PM
11	Women with at least one son: Did having a son make you more sympathetic to men's issues and more disturbed by the prevalence of mainstream open misandry? This feminists also agrees that pms is not an excuse to be a bitch. It is an excuse to be in pain and feel less productive. But not to be a bitch to anyone. Just as male hormones don't excuse male behavior towards others. Being in pain means I may not have a smile on my face but it never means I can be mean to others and try to harm them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/24 06:17 PM
5	Financial abuse leaves ‘nearly one million women in UK trapped’: Male victims of economic abuse are systematically ignored Yes. The non custodial parent has to provide financially to their children. So in this example she would need to pay CS	/r/MensRights	27/11/24 04:21 PM
-2	It's disappointing that my society wants to end violence against women, but not against men. The government had to make a PSA through text messages about it. You really think more women rape men than men rape men? Why then are men scared of going to prison but not going into a sorority house? Like how do you even get that? Men are violently attacked by men all the time. Most gun violence is men against men. I'm trying to help men but you seem to just want to blame women for male behavior?	/r/MensRights	27/11/24 02:23 AM
0	It's disappointing that my society wants to end violence against women, but not against men. The government had to make a PSA through text messages about it. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3969807/#:~:text=Among%20known%20risk%20factors%20for,samples%20%5B12%E2%80%9314%5D. 90 percent of violent crimes are conducted by men against both male and female victims this is a scientific article. Not made up. Using crime statistics	/r/MensRights	27/11/24 01:19 AM
0	It's disappointing that my society wants to end violence against women, but not against men. The government had to make a PSA through text messages about it. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3969807/#:~:text=Among%20known%20risk%20factors%20for,samples%20%5B12%E2%80%9314%5D. This is a simple article from a reputable source that gives 90 percent of all violent crime is perpetuated by men regardless of if the victim of that crime is male or female. I want men and women to both be safe from violence in the world. It's important to actually know what is going on to solve a problem	/r/MensRights	27/11/24 01:19 AM
0	It's disappointing that my society wants to end violence against women, but not against men. The government had to make a PSA through text messages about it. I think listening to child development experts is the best way to help raise healthy children. Feminism is about social structures but feminists are not experts on child development just because many are women. Many many many women go into having children with zero interest in learning best practices and instead just do what they know from their own childhood which obviously perpetuates the problem	/r/MensRights	27/11/24 01:13 AM
-1	It's disappointing that my society wants to end violence against women, but not against men. The government had to make a PSA through text messages about it. Wait wait wait... what do you mean women are the ones who do violence to men? Men enact about 90 percent of all physical violence towards other men. Are we working with the same facts for this convo?	/r/MensRights	27/11/24 01:08 AM
-1	It's disappointing that my society wants to end violence against women, but not against men. The government had to make a PSA through text messages about it. Yes of course most men aren't. The ones who are need to learn not to harm people or be separated from others. It's kindergarten level learning. Hands to yourself, don't hurt others. Etc. Somehow the men who are manage to kill a lot of people. Entire governments use men to mass murder other people bc they are effective at it and manipulated into believing it's a necessary cause. I dont see it as anything more than weapons zing generally superior physical strength and some sort of need to lash out…	/r/MensRights	27/11/24 01:07 AM
-5	It's disappointing that my society wants to end violence against women, but not against men. The government had to make a PSA through text messages about it. I think violent women should also get locked up. I've always been against violence towards others, intimidation, coercion, physical assault, sexual assault. I want violent women locked up to but this sub is concerning men so I figured we were talking about men. I speak out against female violence. I don't like when it's laughed off when a woman slaps a man and has made it normal in media and I've advocated for stopping that trend. Thankfully in more recent media we aren't seeing that as a laugha…	/r/MensRights	26/11/24 11:27 PM
-4	It's disappointing that my society wants to end violence against women, but not against men. The government had to make a PSA through text messages about it. To learn and share like everyone else in guess. Im glad things are being done about violence. I want men to be less violent bc it's better for them (not getting hurt. Not going to jail. Not harming others) and I like to hear what men's issues are to see if I can help. My brothers come to me with things and I help them. And I guess I want to help other people, men or women.	/r/MensRights	26/11/24 11:25 PM
-13	It's disappointing that my society wants to end violence against women, but not against men. The government had to make a PSA through text messages about it. Duh! All violence. Locking up the men for it would reduce it by 80 percent bc that's the gender gap on violent crime. 80 percent or so is male on male or male on female. So yea focus on the bigger problem to make the biggest impact for safety.	/r/MensRights	26/11/24 11:20 PM
-20	It's disappointing that my society wants to end violence against women, but not against men. The government had to make a PSA through text messages about it. ... if we put violent men away that would end violence for men and women...	/r/MensRights	26/11/24 06:59 PM
–	AI girlfriends are going to completely change the dating game, and it's going to happen very soon. So they think being nice means they get something back like money? Like they aren't just being nice bc it feels good to be nice and makes someone else's life a little easier? I don't even know why someone would be offering something nice if they didn't like doing it? Just sets yourself up for resentment if you have expectations of the person you are nice too. It's like a gift but then you demand they use it the way you want them to thats just weird right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 05:35 PM
–	AI girlfriends are going to completely change the dating game, and it's going to happen very soon. Interesting. I guess if women were giving up services for free men would use them too. So it's dont see how that's a gender issue. Why are men giving away stuff for free and then complaining about it to women? Like if I help someone out bc I want to help someone out what is there to complain about? Do they not actually want to do these things? Why would they do it if they don't want to do it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 05:22 PM
–	AI girlfriends are going to completely change the dating game, and it's going to happen very soon. I don't know anyone who can even do that. I hear it happens on sitcoms and for like super rich men but I don't really know any rich people so it's just not a thing in my demographic. Paycheck to paycheck living means you don't know rich people to date just for money. Most of us out here just trying to get by. I have a man and we are not rich haha. And thats with 2 paychecks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 03:56 PM
–	AI girlfriends are going to completely change the dating game, and it's going to happen very soon. ... i don't see how this would affect me as a woman at all. I don't even know what an orbiter is. Aren't simps just a derogatory name men call other men who are loving towards women to try to bring them down a peg? That was my impression of that word from hearing it around. Please tell me if I'm wrong I truly just gathered that from context when men use it online. But seriously this is great for men who want that comfortable social interaction and doesn't negatively effect women. All for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 03:38 PM
11	If in today's society, sex is not expected in a relationship, then faithfulness should not be expected How can anyone have sex with someone who actively doesn't want to? I just can't wrap my head around duty sex. I just don't see it as hot for anyone	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/24 10:26 PM
–	Are we at the point where we can be honest about size mattering yet My same partner of 4 years penis feels different every time we change positions even slightly. We find what works for us both and enjoy all the variation with feeling slightly deeper that usual or shallower. We play with toys and dildos too. Like... his size hasn't ever mattered bc we focus on having good sex. Sure a different penis would feel different. But better or worse? No way to know. I'd have to learn a whole new person and energy. It isn't something you can compare. Every dynamic is diff…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 06:46 PM
28	A woman actively admits to raping a man. Disgusting.	/r/MensRights	23/11/24 01:45 PM
3	Imagine you are a male client of a therapist and you pee on the couch… Usually I don't get my cramps till day 2 or 3. Those are my heavy days. Some months I get cramps like 2 days before that are mild lile pre cramps. Then won't get anymore until day 3 of bleeding. It varies a lot. Everyone's different and mine has changed over the years as well.	/r/MensRights	23/11/24 01:58 AM
2	Imagine you are a male client of a therapist and you pee on the couch… Exactly. If I were the therapist I'd just try to make sure they were okay bc they'd be embarrassed. And if I were a client I'd offer to pay. People act different ways but as long as no one did it on purpose there's no trying to punish anyone.	/r/MensRights	23/11/24 12:45 AM
–	Modern Women Are Incapable of Accountability Do you think men are capable of lying about their real character in order to get sex? Men and women both can agree that people lie to get what they want. Some keep up for months. And if we are dating, let's say you, how long would you like to wait? What if afterwards we both find out we aren't compatible. We all grow and change throughout life. Sometimes people just aren't right. Wouldn't you rather not be stuck with one person just bc you had sex with them and they ended up not being right? Not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 11:56 PM
-2	Imagine you are a male client of a therapist and you pee on the couch… We don't always know it's coming... we cannot always feel it.	/r/MensRights	22/11/24 11:37 PM
–	Modern Women Are Incapable of Accountability I don't see any women demanding unfit partners like the claim in the last sentence? We may have sex with people before we know how unfit they are and eventually realize we aren't a good fit. Cycle of abuse. Children, etc add lots of extras in. Of course some people make poor choices. But why is it women's fault? That's the part I'm confused by. You say in the beginning youre annoyed that women seem to not wanna deal with men (so are choosing not to date and "let themselves be used and abused" to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 11:32 PM
2	Male value must not be measured in women I just started living this year. I was an alcoholic for over a decade. I'm finally 10 months sober and starting to decide who I want to be. So yea. I kinda and learning myself and growing into me now. It's been very rough a journey but it's been enlightening and I want to reach back and help others too. Almost dying from addiction just have me some perspective on how I want to live now that I'm not a drunk. Yes I also sell lewd content when I cannot get overtime at work and need a few extra buck…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 05:20 PM
1	Male value must not be measured in women We met on a tinder app. I was looking for just a hookup. I don't know if he was looking for that or more. But we met up and yea we just kinda kept seeing each other. Now we work in the same place and live together. 4 years later. I def pushed for the first kiss bc I wanted to see if we were physically compatible first bc that was what I was looking for anyway. And that was there. We built the rest. It was hard. It wasn't easy. We have had to learn each other. we still are. But we always know the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 05:06 PM
2	Male value must not be measured in women I have a job. I work factory work. 10 hour shifts till 1am. I just joined a gym. That was new for me. I also go to used bookstores and read. I am gonna start writing again soon. I bought a second hand sewing machine I'd like to learn how to use. I have a bike and need to find biking trails. Like there's lots to do while also working. I just can't do expensive shit bc I'm poor. But that's okay. I can at least find the joy in the cheap stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 05:02 PM
1	Male value must not be measured in women Or by not sticking to the scripts their pool narrows to people they actually will connect with authentically. Narrowing down the pool is part of finding the right people to be around for oneself. My man doesn't fit all the masculine box check marks. I don't even know what all those are. But he's not rich or Henry Cavill. We just handle life well together. And love each other. I don't fit into the feminine box. I don't shave my body hair. I dye my hair weird colors. I have tattoos. I work a manua…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 05:00 PM
3	Male value must not be measured in women I think that's a very interesting belief. I don't think anyone knows exactly how it would be to live in someone else's shoes. But I have compassion for what men are upset about. Thats why I'm on here listening and reading. I think you saying women definitely have it easier overall in our society is a little bit narrow. Each and every one of us has different levels of ease depending on how well we act our roles in society. The trick is not worrying about who has it easier and just trying to make …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 04:52 PM
2	Male value must not be measured in women You don't have any right now. I hear you. And that sucks when it's what you want. Timing is part of relationships too. I know that who i was a few years ago wouldn't have been able to sustain and wasn't able to be in a healthy relationship at all. Sometimes it's just timing and where you are on your life journey colliding with someone else. Thats why it's out of your own sole control and can be frustrating. my only suggestion is don't make it your main goal when you can't control it. Just contro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 04:50 PM
1	Male value must not be measured in women But men have the responsibility to get out of that box when they are adults, if they don't want to be in it. I was raised to be in a box too. Marriage, kids, lots of particular mapping was expected of me. I decided instead to sterilize myself and live "in sin". Just decided I didn't belong in that box. I have gotten judgment from men and women and strangers. But my choices are mine and I'm happy to stand by them bc I realized they are right for me not for anyone else. Staying in a box you've out…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 04:33 PM
1	Male value must not be measured in women No but you also have the power to change up your routines at any time. Add on some stuff or drop some stuff. So being an adult comes with a little more power over yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 04:27 PM
5	Maryland Middle School Teacher Who Sexually Abused Student in Classroom, In Her Car and at Movie Theatre, Has 30-Year Sentence Reduced to 12 Months Anyone who abuses children like this should get life. Period. They are not safe.	/r/MensRights	22/11/24 04:39 AM
1	Male value must not be measured in women And to some maybe it isn't. And for some maybe at certain points in life's journey it's good and something different for other points. It's about being happy with your own choices and if you're not then learning and changing them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 03:01 AM
6	Male value must not be measured in women I hope any of that helps. I'm sorry you're struggling or have struggled with what you're describing. I've felt sadness and hopelessness and despair, perhaps over different things, but I know it's hard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 07:46 AM
4	Male value must not be measured in women The motivation for me is so i really like myself since I'm the one stuck as myself. I may as well make choices based on whether someone i would like would do that. It's helping to make me braver too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 07:45 AM
1	Male value must not be measured in women I meant personality characteristics of people you admire. Not sexual prowess. And plus, a good personality is more likely to attract people, including potential girlfriends, than to repel them. So I'm working on becoming who I wanna be and who I would admire for her choices. From outside looking in even when im alone, would I want to emulate? Am I proud of myself day to day. Can I make some changes or choices that would help me to be. I just kinda think about that and work on myself. Finally wen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 07:33 AM
12	Japan passes revised law allowing joint child custody for divorced parents. Under the current law, child custody is granted to only one divorced parent, almost always the mother Thats awesome! I think joint custody is always the best way with the exception of abuse obviously	/r/MensRights	21/11/24 05:38 AM
–	The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average women I would argue that it's women changing into people who do not need men's money just to survive that has made them realize they can actually choose what they want now instead of just using men for survival. Isn't it better not to be used and actually know when I woman likes you she likes YOU? Not just money?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 03:08 AM
25	Male value must not be measured in women Makes sense to me. As a woman I'm very saddened by the fact that men don't have self worth outside of getting a woman a lot of the time. It's a very lonely box to be in bc you cannot control other people so there's zero guarantee you can make a person want to be with you. Gotta be happy with who you are. I call it being your own hero. Be who you wanted to look up to as a kid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/24 07:07 PM
10	Happy international men’s day 🎉 Told my man happy men's day today and I appreciate him. He wasn't sure how to take it but he appreciated the kisses. wanted him to know he's loved.	/r/MensRights	19/11/24 05:53 PM
3	Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocence It was legal but still difficult to access bc states passed their own things (like requiring 2 ultrasounds or a waiting period) but now it can be completely banned and has been at state level. It's insane. Also it was on the ballot in states lile Missouri to legalize abortion there and people voted for it in that state. But now the state Supreme courts are trying to overthrow the will of the people. It's a mess. Just leave women alone, no one is excited to have to weigh whether it's in their bes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/24 04:47 PM
2	Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocence It was in the hands of individual women when it was protected by the federal government. Now where you live within the entire country dictates if you can choose personally with individual freedom. Freedom for all would be protection at the federal level. It's not that the government had their hand in it before... it's that they protected women to be the ones to decide. Now it's in the hands of the state. Exactly where it does not belong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/24 04:40 PM
5	Female, 51, is on trial on three counts of engaging sexual activity with a child and one count of inciting sexual activity with a boy, who is 14 years old. She coerced the teenager to drink several cups of alcohol, emphasizing she had a knife and would stab him if he attempted to escape. Disgusting	/r/MensRights	17/11/24 12:13 PM
1	Angry about 14,000 transgender interventions over 4 years? Let’s talk about 6 Million male circumcisions with 4,000 adverse events I completely am behind your argument. It is the ethical one.	/r/MensRights	16/11/24 09:58 PM
1	Angry about 14,000 transgender interventions over 4 years? Let’s talk about 6 Million male circumcisions with 4,000 adverse events Fair point. I also don't want men who have already had this done to feel as though they themselves are wrong in some way bc of it.	/r/MensRights	16/11/24 01:51 PM
3	Angry about 14,000 transgender interventions over 4 years? Let’s talk about 6 Million male circumcisions with 4,000 adverse events Thats thr argument that resonates with me. But I'm hesitant to go up against guys who are against about it since I don't have a penis or am having my own children. But I believe I fall on it's just wrong to remove part of a baby's body for aesthetic reasons.	/r/MensRights	16/11/24 01:37 AM
2	Angry about 14,000 transgender interventions over 4 years? Let’s talk about 6 Million male circumcisions with 4,000 adverse events Good point.	/r/MensRights	16/11/24 01:36 AM
1	Angry about 14,000 transgender interventions over 4 years? Let’s talk about 6 Million male circumcisions with 4,000 adverse events I get that truly. I just have heard a lot a lot of dad's saying they want their sons to look like them. And I wonder why that's even a consideration? Any men can weigh in on why a dad would want that? My fiance and I got into a chat about it once and he thought it was to keep them from being bullied and he kinda sided with that side too. I'm not having children so I'm glad it won't be something I'd have to put my foot down on bc I'm like 1000% percent against taking off any part of a babies body…	/r/MensRights	15/11/24 10:59 PM
5	Angry about 14,000 transgender interventions over 4 years? Let’s talk about 6 Million male circumcisions with 4,000 adverse events As a woman I'm confused bc whenever I say I'm against circumcision I get push back from men. Are yall organizing against this now? Is there a petition i can sign to support?	/r/MensRights	15/11/24 09:54 PM
1	Women who vote for men to be drafted have been saying "your body, my choice" about men, for years. Yes! I did know many could be. But I had heard it being necessary in some cases and didn't wanna leave out in my opinion. Glad you were able to resolve that!!	/r/MensRights	13/11/24 01:34 PM
–	The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid I dont know for sure what the straw was but a few things: It took overturning roe v wade making pregnency healthcare unclear. Seeing that the country would be willing to be represented by a rapist. And I think a lot of other dominoes. Not so much a teaching us. More like a choice opened up many women didn't know they really had. We all kinda knew we didn't HAVE to get married and have kids, but we also knew most people expected it of us from a young age. I'm sure men can relate with expectations…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 01:33 PM
–	The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid It will not affect me if men want to get castrated no. It's not my body. It's not my choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 05:44 AM
–	The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid You said pursue sex more. Not feels better. I know it feels better. But the drive for sex doesn't increase or decrease whether one is circumcised.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 05:40 AM
–	The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid Look I have no stake. I've heard some men say they wished thry have a choice. I feel for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 05:39 AM
–	The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid It's not my penis or my body. I have zero say. But I support men if they want to fight for that. If they don't I'm just a bystander. It's whatever men want for their own bodies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 05:26 AM
–	The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid Permanent body changes are not the same as cleaning a baby who cannot do it themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 05:18 AM
–	The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid I'm all for science so where is the study that circumcision affects desire for sex? I'll look for it but I took a human sexuality class in college and this wasn't a study I learned about. Is it recent?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 05:18 AM
–	The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid I don't have a stake in that as I am not having a male child nor do I have a penis. But if men told me they were organizing against it and their reason was consent is needed for bodily autonomy I would get on board that train. I'm waiting for men to take the lead bc I can't push for something that doesn't affect me. I will stand with men tho who do bc I understand not wanting someone else to make a choice about my body for me surgically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 01:07 AM
–	The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid Exactly. And I get to be active in my niece and nephews lives and another adult who has time to love on them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 01:05 AM
–	The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid Look I judt don't think we should be modifying babies bodies without their consent personally. And what do you mean dominated by their sex drive?? Circumcisions do not affect desire for sex. They simply make it feel and look different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 01:04 AM
–	The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid Also those reasons. Timing and finances... those matter. A lot. Like a lot a lot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 12:05 AM
–	The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid It would scare fewer people out of pregnancy but also in terms of social problems women who sleep with a lot of men are stigmatized. They are called whores or (as we judt saw in this election) accused of sleeping their way to the top or what have you. Also women getting married and pregnant and then if they have to take off work become financially dependent on men. If they choose wrong they are no longer able to take care of themselves. If they divorce they are told they are breaking up their fa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 12:05 AM
1	Q4A: do you think there will be more childless marriages? I'm in a childfree relationship. I don't know if that will become more normal or not. But it certainly is a new thing in my family. I'm the first woman or man in my family to purposefully not have children in at least 4 generations (as far back as I can look) Including aunts and uncles and great aunts and uncles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 11:05 PM
–	The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid I do not ignore them. They speak out and I try to tell them where the misinformation is. The men are simply more likely to complain about it so I tend to hear more from them. I wish that the men would organize some stuff for them that wasn't about women. Like organize and protest and get petitions to actually do away with the draft. I'd love to join them. Or get away with cosmetic circumcisions for future generations of boys. But I don't see many men groups getting out the word and petitions abo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 11:00 PM
–	The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid In South Carolina. Yea. It's not good here. I used to volunteer at a clinic in Charleston. They just closed the only clinic in the upstate in the last 2 years. Scary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 10:57 PM
–	The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid I did get sterilized. And it's also okay to just be celibate and single. I support individual pregnancy and sexual choices. I'm cool with women and men not wanting to have sex or marriage or whatever. It's not my choice it's theirs. And I love seeing the personal reposiblity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 06:02 PM
-6	"Your body my choice" .... what? Women die. Men cannot die from a woman being pregnant. Wtf. We know what it was like pre roevwade. We just went back to back alley abortions and septic death	/r/MensRights	12/11/24 05:55 PM
5	"Your body my choice" I'm a woman. I've heard it from a man to me online in response to me simply stating im worried about abortion protection and womens lives post roe bc pre roe it was really bad and i dont get why we would go back.I'm also anti circumcision on infants who cannot consent and anti draft. So I think we can all get along.	/r/MensRights	12/11/24 05:54 PM
–	The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid I completely agree with all of that. Which is why I'm not. But I'm not getting any hate from women who are. I support them and they are supportive of me too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 05:51 PM
–	The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid It just takes one pregnancy to kill us. It's not worth it unless we are sterilized when healtgcare for pregnant women is being legislated instead of left up to docs and patients. I'm not 4b. But I'm sterilized and with a single partner who also was supportive of no pregnancies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 05:33 PM
–	The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid Women aren't getting mad at women who don't tho. They are just saying they are. Vegans like that get mad at people who eat meat. get threatening. Thats not what I see happening. But I'm willing to look for it. So I shall keep searching for women trying to demand others do this. So far all I've seen is them talking about why they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 05:28 PM
–	The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid It's not forbidding anything. It's some women making a personal choice and then talking about it and why. And they found other women who also want to and created a community. I'm not 4b but I don't understand why people are mad about it bc it only effects the people who don't want to have sex. It doesn't even affect men at all. It's literally the point is to not affect them or date them. It hurts nobody.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 05:04 PM
–	The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid I think it's perfectly valid to avoid sex if you're worried about pregnancy. Thats just reasonable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 04:42 PM
–	The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid It's not for combating misogyny tho. It's about avoiding men sexually for safety. There's no "change men" plan. It's just "i don't feel safe having sex with men bc i could get pregnant and not get healthcare if it's needed" that's the entire thing. Risk avoidance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 04:03 PM
4	Women who vote for men to be drafted have been saying "your body, my choice" about men, for years. Yea it's about self defense.... that type of consent. Like no other human can use/touch my body without consent. So like at any time if someone is attached to me I can get them off or out of me. It's not about killing. It's about removal. If someone cannot live without my body I still have to consent kinda thing. Just in case that wasn't clear. I def am anti draft bc of lack of consent by state and anti circumcision without consent too bc child's rights trump parents aesthetic wants.	/r/MensRights	12/11/24 02:33 PM
8	Women who vote for men to be drafted have been saying "your body, my choice" about men, for years. I'm also against circumcision before age where they can consent (except for phimosis etc as a medical condition)	/r/MensRights	12/11/24 02:31 PM
-8	Women who vote for men to be drafted have been saying "your body, my choice" about men, for years. I haven't heard a candidate run on either drafting or not drafting my entire life. But if one did run on that I can assure you I'm anti draft and would be defending my nephews who would be young enough to get caught up in that. Particularly the one who is poorer. I know how more money equals more dodging and it's absolute crap.	/r/MensRights	12/11/24 02:30 PM
–	Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist? So agree with that. We all want dignity and respect and care. F the super rich	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 03:06 AM
–	Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist? I am glad more is being talked about and not swept under the rug anymore. I wish the discourse could be more curiosity and less defense but hopefully it will get there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 02:19 AM
–	Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist? For sure. I'd love to get to a point that all people feel deserving of love. I don't think it's a problem that some women feel like that I wish all people did. I wish all people grew up wanted and loved and felt deserving. That would be the dream type of childhood I want for future generations. Child centered society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 02:16 AM
–	Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist? Yes but instead of working on a more equal world it's like a game to keep trying to win that spot in the top .01 percent. Why even play the game? I don't feel like anyone loves anyone unconditionally. Maybe some mothers and fathers. Maybe. But unconditional love is not really a thing. You are loved bc of your actions regardless of gender. Women may be valued more for what they can do (make other people) but loved more? Romantic love wasn't even a consideration for marriage traditionally bc it wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 01:08 AM
–	Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist? It doesn't favor all men. Uzually only rivh ones with a false promise to men "you can be rich too if you just work hard wnough. You can get a woman too to prove your a man if you just do x and y" type of thinking. Whats weirdest to me is the messaging that to be a man you have to be able to "get" a woman. or it shows your a man if you can sleep with a woman. But those it favors in terms of allowing for more individual choices are typically men as well as those admired. History in general writes …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 12:16 AM
–	Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist? Completely agree. I'm very concerned with hierarchies and basic freedoms awarded based on that in all intersections.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 12:11 AM
-3	As a man, I support this "4B" mania: it makes it easier not to stick your dick in crazy I think every man and boy who has been raped would agree with me. I defend them too. I'm glad it hasn't happened to you. But don't disrespect men and women who have been. It is not wanted by definition. My vagina is just fine and none of your concern. But your lack of concern for other men on this sub who have been raped is disgusting. I'm on here to learn because I actually want to know how men feel. And I support victims of rape regardless of gender bc it is the ultimate violation of someone's…	/r/MensRights	11/11/24 06:31 PM
-11	As a man, I support this "4B" mania: it makes it easier not to stick your dick in crazy Hahahahhahahaha you really don't know but you assume a lot. What's sad is you could just ask people and listen to their answers but choose to live in a world you made up where women you don't know think the way you think they do even tho you could actually ask them. Most of the time when people say "they want attention" it's usually because one is envious and actually wants the attention they believe the other person gets. I hope you look into yourself and find self love and value outside of wom…	/r/MensRights	11/11/24 06:16 PM
-7	As a man, I support this "4B" mania: it makes it easier not to stick your dick in crazy You cannot dispute that rape by definition is unwanted. And you don't know how I feel about attention.	/r/MensRights	11/11/24 06:05 PM
-12	As a man, I support this "4B" mania: it makes it easier not to stick your dick in crazy No man. No. No one wants to be raped for real. Rape can only happen IF someone doesn't want it. So you cannot want to be raped. You can consent to domination sex but your consent is still needed for that fantasy. Rape by definition means someone doesn't want it. So stop that.	/r/MensRights	11/11/24 05:50 PM
1	Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist? What? It's not some sort of chess game. Of course heads of state have power. They are at the top of the hierarchies. I'm concerned with the vast majority of people and their individual power over their own choices.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 03:48 PM
1	Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist? I just googled scholarships for higher education for men and found many of them. So I'm trying to figure out how men are barred from scholarships and education subsidies. I'll continue to research. Thanks for the info	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 03:44 PM
1	Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist? Wait but the point is that all have access and men still have access except by $$$. The class system of making education only for rich is absolutely wrong. Men have never been barred from it for gender but bc of $$. Men were expected to work and still are often for their families and unable to access it bc of inequity in $ not in gender. I would love to see poor people regardless of gender be able to access education for free like we do in Europe. Subsidizing education makes everyone better. So …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 02:55 PM
2	Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist? Okay. Again I'm here to learn and share what I've learned. I apologize for offending by being here. I didn't see what I said as argumentative or cruel but I'll just go now because I don't understand and thought this was discourse and I learned about systems of oppression of which there are many. And there's backlash to them all and im hoping by sharing perspectives and understanding others we can learn a lot all of us together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 02:41 PM
0	Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist? Wow I'm so sorry you felt like I was saying all that. I have really good relationships with men and have all my life. Me and my brothers still hang whenever we can and go on walks and shit. I'm confused by how you say misandry sends men to war? It's systems of men sending other men to war. Elizabeth 1 is not a common person. She was queen only bc her father was king and her siblings both died. She was only more free bc she did not marry so she could hold her power. I don't see how I've objectifi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 02:32 PM
-1	Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist? Men killing themselves is absolutely tragic. Mental health is very very hard to get in our system but I'm hoping we change the system so mental hwalthcare is more easily accessed. Books are available for self learning that I've found very helpful for depression as well. I don't believe men should be forced to fight and am against the draft. That system is against men but it's men who set it up. Women are also raped and killed during war time in every single war so war is bad in general for all p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 02:08 PM
-4	Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist? I think the main diff between misogyny and misandry is one is systemic and one is individual only. Like there's not a country nor has there been where legally women had more rights to property, resources, etc than men with the exception of the proximity to power that being married to rich powerful men bring women. Like there's never been a group of armed women who kidnapped over 100 young teen boys and forced them into marriage and graped them but I remember boko haram. misandry is bad individua…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 12:52 PM
2	29 year old Former Miss Kentucky turned school teacher caught sending nude photos to her 15 year old student. Gross. Yea anyone who harms others like this is bad regardless of gender identity. It's wrong.	/r/MensRights	10/11/24 06:55 PM
0	The correct counter to the 4B movement No I'm hearing you. I'm trying to understand tho whats sexist about men saying they are boycotting sex. Like I look at it the other way towards me and how it would harm me to have men refusing to date me and I may be sad. But I don't see how it attempts to impose anything on men ... it's the opposite of imposing.	/r/MensRights	10/11/24 06:55 PM
0	The correct counter to the 4B movement Okay. I just don't think withholding sex is sexist when men also have every right to do so. Every individual can decide. I don't want to try to tell people what to do sexually. It's just not my decision and it's not harming anyone. It's just not having sex. Many adults currently aren't having sex for many reasons. It's just everyone's right to be celibate. Priests (who keep their vows and aren't pedos anyway) also take a vow of chastity. Like why is it this anger at women doing the same. Disagre…	/r/MensRights	10/11/24 05:31 PM
-5	The correct counter to the 4B movement I was under the impression it was "I don't feel safe without bodily autonomy so I'm choosing to abstain from romantic or sexual relationships with men" i didn't hear chatter from other women about changing anyone's vote. Just saying bc of this vote i don't feel comfortable having sex or engaging with men who may have voted in a way that i don't want to associate. Most men are safe men. The ones who are will stay with their relationships bc the woman in their life feels safe. Some women don't wan…	/r/MensRights	10/11/24 04:26 PM
-6	The correct counter to the 4B movement Yea cool. I mentioned all the social services we all use bc even people with jobs have to use them sometimes. Men and women.	/r/MensRights	10/11/24 03:47 PM
0	The correct counter to the 4B movement Yea that makes more sense. Not a sex object just a person. Yea I guess the other person on here i was confused by the retaliation idea of withholding basic needs from people for survival as a community bc that's just caring for a person. We are all just people. Individual sexual decisions are just people decisions. But we all deserve people level basics for survival. So it just seemed weird to try to tell people "you have to date, marry, give birth blah blah all the 4b stuff" or you don't deserv…	/r/MensRights	10/11/24 03:46 PM
1	The correct counter to the 4B movement I'm glad. Sincerely. I'm not trying to be difficult just have a lot of questions.	/r/MensRights	10/11/24 03:42 PM
-4	The correct counter to the 4B movement Didn't realize it was about objectification. So women thinking men only want sex feels objectifying. Okay I can understand that. Followup question. Is the objectifying part that men are seen just as a penis as women find it objectifying to be seen only as a hole? So women not pursuing "just the penis" of men feels objectifying like men pursuing "just the hole" feels objectifying? Is that the logic? Cause I can go with that flow for my next set of questions.	/r/MensRights	10/11/24 03:41 PM
1	The correct counter to the 4B movement Okay. I understand your anger and isolationism. I hope you get community someday.	/r/MensRights	10/11/24 03:28 PM
-4	The correct counter to the 4B movement Yes. I do. I have a job.	/r/MensRights	10/11/24 03:17 PM
1	The correct counter to the 4B movement I have one. We have been together 4 years. But I mean I could also get any old roommate for bill sharing and such. A man is a want not a need. And I want mine. So I fight for mine. He's the one in my household who needed the temporary unemployment recently for an injury. We all benefit from social programs.	/r/MensRights	10/11/24 03:16 PM
2	The correct counter to the 4B movement And I'm not trying to be difficult. I really just want to understand why coercing people into having sex by saying withhold their basic needs is a valid option. pretty scary way to look at entitlement to another person's body. It just struck me like that so I added my perspective. I am on here to try to understand men's perspectives and ask questions to get clarification about what I don't really understand.	/r/MensRights	10/11/24 03:14 PM
1	The correct counter to the 4B movement Responding to your last paragraph. I'm a factory worker. I don't have children and have chosen never to. What way am I contributing any less than a random man with a job? I'm an individual with a full time job. But yes I use community tax payer social programs like we all do when we need it. Ive called an ambulance more than once. My household has used temporary unemployment before. I'm working on seeing if my income qualifies me for SNAP bc even with a full time factory job I'm not making more …	/r/MensRights	10/11/24 03:12 PM
-15	The correct counter to the 4B movement My only counter is all humans need and deserve access to food and shelter which is why community has always existed. No one is owed sex individually. Those who want to will, and those who don't won't. But to try to mandate trying to hoard and withhold basic needs that otherwise will lead to death is not a true equivalency to someone not being interested in having sex or being penetrated. Thats pretty much the definition of coercive sex.	/r/MensRights	10/11/24 03:05 PM
7	29 year old Former Miss Kentucky turned school teacher caught sending nude photos to her 15 year old student. Sick. Please tell me she's rotting in jail	/r/MensRights	10/11/24 03:25 AM
0	The 4B will hurt the women who support it Wait isn't 4B just not dating, having sex, marrying, or having children with men? So isn't it the same as MGTOW? How is it taking anything out on anyone to just not deal with men romantically? I'm confused about manipulation? Everything I've read about it is leaving men alone not taking anything out on them	/r/MensRights	08/11/24 01:04 PM
3	Young men need to be safe as well Yes the police should have warned men. Did they not warn people in the town of this? Absolutely wrong.	/r/MensRights	07/11/24 05:27 PM
1	Advised regarding girlfriend and child Courts can require parents to not leave the state with the kid. Go to court. Men who fight for custody receive it in 78 percent of cases. Gotta prove you can provide a good home for them and that you know how to care for the child and have been present in their life. Get out for you. Get a custody agreement so your child can see you maybe every other week or half week. People make arrangements all the time that work for them.	/r/MensRights	06/11/24 03:03 AM
6	All this crap about “WoMeN’s RiGhTs” but Kamala+Liz Cheney will get all our sons, brothers, fathers etc…involved in endless wars Experiment? Experiment of women being able to have a say in their communities and environment? This level of misogyny is beneath you. We all come from women. At least respect women as equal members of the humans race. I know men are... why can't you understand women are also humans. Adults. Who get a say in our own lives.	/r/MensRights	05/11/24 03:32 PM
6	All this crap about “WoMeN’s RiGhTs” but Kamala+Liz Cheney will get all our sons, brothers, fathers etc…involved in endless wars Seriously? I'd never ask for men's votes to not count as a full person how can any human being say this? All adult citizens should have their vote counted the same. This is slavery talk (2/3 a person??) Like no. I'm anti draft. I'm anti war. I'll march with anyone for that. But please don't make such comments it's not productive. I'm a woman who enjoys reading these to find out and support what men are worried about and im here for ya about the draft and men being forced into it is absolutely wr…	/r/MensRights	05/11/24 02:47 PM
13	Recent reports by "Feminists" claim that 1/3 men state they would rape if they could get away with it and that women also seem to agree that 1/3 of men could also rape if they could get away with it(therefore there is a convergence of answers). Has anyone else looked at said report? It was a self survey from university students in Australia i believe. Google that and you may get more info	/r/MensRights	04/11/24 06:46 PM
4	Drafting is just inhumane Agreed. I'm completely against the state forcing it's citizens to kill and or be killed.	/r/MensRights	31/10/24 06:52 PM
2	Why does male entertainment have to be inclusive to women while female entertainment just gets to exist as is? You can do that. There's literally nothing stopping someone from doing that...	/r/MensRights	29/10/24 05:54 PM
2	Why does male entertainment have to be inclusive to women while female entertainment just gets to exist as is? You're criticizing them for having a female protagonist. We aren't criticizing movies for having a male protagonist. It's not a replacement if the original still exists.	/r/MensRights	29/10/24 05:46 PM
-1	Why does male entertainment have to be inclusive to women while female entertainment just gets to exist as is? Yes we are criticizing sexualization of women in video games and movies. That's not saying the movies shouldn't exist. Everything is open to criticism but it doesn't negate you can still watch it	/r/MensRights	29/10/24 05:42 PM
-1	Why does male entertainment have to be inclusive to women while female entertainment just gets to exist as is? Yea it may not have made money. But it just being available means those who do like it can watch it. I'm not sure why I'm being down voted. It's not erasing the others to add new stuff that's different.	/r/MensRights	29/10/24 05:23 PM
-6	Why does male entertainment have to be inclusive to women while female entertainment just gets to exist as is? We do. We don't watch it unless we want to. I'm not following?	/r/MensRights	29/10/24 05:22 PM
-17	Why does male entertainment have to be inclusive to women while female entertainment just gets to exist as is? Adding entertainment that has female protagonists doesn't delete the ones with male. Like you can just not watch it if you don't want to...	/r/MensRights	29/10/24 03:19 PM
14	46 y/o Middle School Teacher Sentenced for Locking 14 y/o student in classroom to rape him What the f. Disgusting. Lock her up now.	/r/MensRights	25/10/24 08:11 PM
7	Why Should I Support Abortion Rights When My Rights Are Being Challenged? Strong opposition to circumcision here as a woman. Most pushback i get is from men. They want their sons to look like them despite me thinking it shouldn't be done to a baby without consent. I would get behind a men's march against it. I also would march against the draft for bodily autonomy for men. I just haven't seen any men organizing and marching and trying to gather support. I don't have a right to speak for men but if some are marching or need more support to call congressman I'm freaking…	/r/MensRights	24/10/24 12:32 PM
-2	Why Should I Support Abortion Rights When My Rights Are Being Challenged? Well since men control where they shoot their gametes and there's so many ways to have sex without shooting inside our vaginas there's something to be said for controlling the sperm. So many other places to finish and great sex can still occur. I feel like we need to be teaching lay down sideways 69 as very safe sex for pregnancy purposes. Maybe if we didn't focus on only one type of sex being satisfying it would be easier for men to decide for themselves like "nah don't wanna risk that even tho…	/r/MensRights	24/10/24 12:27 PM
3	If women were truly as horny as men, it wouldn’t only be for some small subset of men. They would fuck men who were on their level or below like men do, and most men wouldn’t struggle to get laid I can be super horny but not find anyone attractive. When I'm horny I don't just want a dick to fuck. I want a sexual experience whether that be with just myself or with a partner. But I have to be attracted to the partner and attraction isn't based on body parts so... yes I'm super horny a lot (has increased in my 30s a LOT) but if I don't have a partner I'm attracted to i do it with myself bc I know what I like better than any random dude so why do that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 04:50 AM
0	Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option? Could it not simply be she learned that wasn't for her and decided to change how she dated bc it wasn't getting good results? Like isn't learning from experiences the point instead of doing sane over and over expecting diff results?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/24 02:24 PM
4	Hypothetically speaking, even if taking the blue pill had a 100% success rate, you would still be unable to find a meaningful relationship worth pursuing Yea, frankly, as a woman, I don't condone that behavior in women either. I call that like I see it as not only abusive but a public disturbance and endangering the welfare of a child. I call it out as I see it in both men and women. 👍 this is criminal behavior. And just plain common sense horrid behavior. Not controlling your anger at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/24 11:35 PM
3	Women, if a man left you because he wasn't the best you've ever had, would you be offended? I don't know any men in real life who want to be wanted because their the best. They want to be wanted for who they are. Any of us could get into an accident tomorrow that would render us unable to have sex the same. As you age you may have more trouble too. Wanting to be wanted bc you're the best in bed is a short lived, short sighted, and very self objectifying goal. "I'm the best pair of shoes she's ever worn" it's weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 12:39 PM
14	Another Male student punished over his hair at school. Why.? How is hair disruptive in a school? Unless it's matted with literal shit and is a hygiene issue or has lice I don't gaf what a person's choice of hairstyle is. This is ridiculous	/r/MensRights	10/10/24 10:44 AM
3	Men being stay at home dads Yea mine had a real job too. But minute he wasn't at work it was all kids. We did everything together. I'm so glad now bc I didn't know how rare that was especially in the 90s	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 08:00 PM
5	Men being stay at home dads I'm glad my dad didn't think like that. He was an active parent and we are still close well into my adulthood. I have friends who don't even speak to their fathers bc their dad's never took time to get to know them or guide them as a parent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 07:03 PM
36	Men should have a go bag or escape fund for emotional abuse Didn't the phrase "dad went out for a Paco of cigarettes and never came back" a thing because men did this? Generally it's an advisement for the non income earning spouse. Whoever that may be, traditionally women, is literally trapped if have no access to $ to live elsewhere. Men had the means traditionally because their labor generated the income. Hers didn't generate her any personal income. My personal opinion is I think it's healthy for spouses to have their own savings account if they can. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 05:56 AM
-4	So in the world, if girls outperform boys in school, it's because they are smarter but if it's the reverse, it's patriarchy? When women and girls aren't allowed to follow education as high as they want to (all ivy league level schools wouldn't admit women until the 70s) then yea historically you couldn't know bc there wasn't enough sample size. That's all I know about that. But now that more women at least in more places can work towards education then the data would be a bit more thorough and inclusive to gather the most accurate info. Schoolchildren tho? Don't know enough about it. But at a university level we only …	/r/MensRights	04/10/24 04:30 PM
1	The Problem With Society is: Most men don't own anything, so they don’t give a F*ck. Well I mean yea you kinda need to be able to divorce for any reason such as unhappy with having your partner. Would you want to be with someone who felt forced to be there but hate being with you? How is that healthy?	/r/MensRights	03/10/24 09:36 PM
1	The Problem With Society is: Most men don't own anything, so they don’t give a F*ck. Agreed. It's messed up. As is most of our criminal justice system	/r/MensRights	03/10/24 04:40 PM
1	The Problem With Society is: Most men don't own anything, so they don’t give a F*ck. All I mean is having to break apart that connection with a person is more painful usually which is why it's sad when things don't last. And why getting prenuptial agreements or just not tying finances in with a government marriage and instead doing a commitment ceremony can be more attractive. People do not HAVE to get married so it's just not a really good choice for everyone. And unfortunately sometimes people realize that after a long history. But splitting as equitable as possible is solid f…	/r/MensRights	02/10/24 05:59 PM
3	Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women. This.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/24 04:43 PM
-9	The Problem With Society is: Most men don't own anything, so they don’t give a F*ck. Yea but alimony is only in 10 percent. So for 90 percent it's just splitting the assets bc those are joint assets... so? And women marrying down? You mean financially? Most women work nowadays. I don't really know any who dont... everyone works. It's not cheaper to keep someone if you don't like being married to them? Money can be gotten again but if someone isn't compatible then why stay any longer?	/r/MensRights	02/10/24 11:41 AM
-32	The Problem With Society is: Most men don't own anything, so they don’t give a F*ck. Thays why I purposefully said excluding that system bc I see it as needing a lot of fixing. Just divorce is what I mean. Both the husband and wife can decide to walk away and split the life they had together and financially can do a prenuptial or not and then usually split equitable so both get either the house or a buy out or sell it if they own any assets together while married etc. But yep when children are involved it's much more difficult. So much more.	/r/MensRights	02/10/24 12:52 AM
-47	The Problem With Society is: Most men don't own anything, so they don’t give a F*ck. And so is she. She is there until he decides she isn't. No fault divorce is equal opportunity for both people to part for their own reasons so the government cannot force people to be in relationships with one another if one or both do not want to be. It's no special treatment. Neither own each other just have a responsibility to themselves. Most states are community property where everything gained during the marriage is split. Alimony occurs in about 10 percent of cases looking at numbers and …	/r/MensRights	02/10/24 12:20 AM
3	Study: Average Age to Lose Virginity by Country 2024. Does this match your experience? Yea I think that's what most kids will say as adults.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 11:33 PM
3	Study: Average Age to Lose Virginity by Country 2024. Does this match your experience? Why I think socialization regardless of gender of friends is so important. Knowing others is not fearing them or stereotyping them. Separating genders from a young age purposefully is odd to me. But I also have seen benefits on test results in all girls and all boys schools so I get that too. But yea. Mixed feelings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 10:44 PM
1	If men are against OnlyFans why are they consuming it? See the thing is I don't want to have sex with everyone that turns me on physically. Like I can see someone is attractive to me and still not actually want to have sex with that person bc I'm not just having sex with that body but the whole person. So I gotta know at least a little about both to make an informed decision ya know? That's why how someone speaks while also being attractive really helps me decide. Provided they are being themselves. Then there's the manipulation by pretending to be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 02:19 PM
1	If men are against OnlyFans why are they consuming it? If you say so. I'm a woman and it's more the characters than the bodies bc if the bodies are amazing but he opens his mouth and says something dickish I can't even imagine him putting hands on me at all much less sex. Not all women are the same I can only speak for me and my circle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 10:35 PM
4	The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women are Lol. I was very caring and always wanted to make it a grrat experience. but I'm not looking anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 06:11 PM
2	If men are against OnlyFans why are they consuming it? Women don't really get excited about sex unless they like the dude. Hard to know if you like someone and not just their body if you don't get to know them. We don't really fantasize to bodies even when we masturbate bc it feels good and we typically imagine scenarios that bring us pleasure not so much bodies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 05:13 PM
4	If men are against OnlyFans why are they consuming it? Men make money on there to with gay men. Men are just the main consumers gay or straight	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 05:08 PM
7	The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women are I was the same way in my 20s. Only went for virgins for a while bc they always followed directions and didn't think they knew better what I wanted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 04:55 PM
–	The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most men My main hobby is reading which is cheap. Unless you get me into a Barnes and noble instead of a library. That's dangerous	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 11:22 PM
–	The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most men Gotcha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 04:04 PM
–	The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most men Thanks. I find it fun to plan ways to be helpful to the world in whatever small things I can figure out	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 03:49 PM
–	The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most men A lot of my motivation is to provide for others too. Like I want to help people as well but not just a single person I'd like to help many people ya know?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 03:48 PM
–	The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most men Interesting. So no internal drive just external? That's so different than I'm used to. So you don't just like to explore different hobbies or anything to put a little but of joy into others lives? Like I'm trying to save up to buy materials to sew bc I bought a sewing machine at a yard sale and one of my goals is to eventually create bags that I can give to foster children so they can have little travel bags instead of trash bags for moving. It's part of a plan to make a non profit to help kids.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 03:05 PM
–	The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most men This feels like men here are saying their only goal in life is to get a woman by making more money than her so she will need him to survive. How about ask why women are driven to make money (it's not so they can get men) and maybe use your money to find fulfillment in life by experiencing many things. I want to make good money so I can travel and have adventures. Thats my personal goal. There's so many things you can do with your money besides try to date or marry a woman. Is money really only a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 02:36 PM
1	Women have to sign up for the draft. Equal rights, equal opportunity, equal obligation to serve. What is not morally right that HAS to happen. Are we sure there isn't a different way to do things? Or is it just "too hard" to do the morally right thing so we don't try?	/r/MensRights	19/09/24 03:47 PM
1	Women have to sign up for the draft. Equal rights, equal opportunity, equal obligation to serve. No because men still don't have autonomy and neither do women. We have to be able to decide what we do with our body without state interference provided we aren't infringing on another citizens right to do what they want with theirs.	/r/MensRights	19/09/24 03:27 AM
0	Women have to sign up for the draft. Equal rights, equal opportunity, equal obligation to serve. I 100 percent disagree. Owning one's own body is absolute. You can persuade. You can entice. But to force someone to kill another or to sacrifice their life for a cause that the people orchestrating it do not have to risk their own lives for? No. I don't buy that argument. If you cannot convince people to fight for the country and must force them against their will then the country has failed already and is already lost	/r/MensRights	19/09/24 03:20 AM
0	Women have to sign up for the draft. Equal rights, equal opportunity, equal obligation to serve. Right now plenty of people volunteer for incentives. That allows for choice.	/r/MensRights	19/09/24 12:02 AM
-2	Women have to sign up for the draft. Equal rights, equal opportunity, equal obligation to serve. If people don't volunteer maybe it's not the right fight for our country.	/r/MensRights	18/09/24 10:54 PM
-1	Women have to sign up for the draft. Equal rights, equal opportunity, equal obligation to serve. This feminists believe men should not be drafted bc it's against their autonomy. Which follows I also don't believe women should be drafted. The draft is involuntary use of your body for the state. Not acceptable for anyone	/r/MensRights	18/09/24 05:03 PM
8	Boy, 13, victim of sex attack by drunk woman on busy bus in Glasgow Sick. I hope she's put away forever. You do not touch children period. Ever. Being drunk isn't an excuse.	/r/MensRights	14/09/24 04:48 PM
2	CMV: You should be your partner's ONLY source of sexual fulfillment You can always form one sure. But isn't the beauty of life all the many different types of people and beliefs and then learning them all so you can choose what's best for you? Easy doesn't mean more interesting. I'm one that believes in living many different ways until I find one that fits me best. And different ways of living work at different times in one's life too. Even food ... my taste buds have changed over the years. How sad it would be if I never tried anything else that I was intereste…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 07:28 PM
3	CMV: You should be your partner's ONLY source of sexual fulfillment You talk to them about what you want and don't want. And then they tell you if they are compatible to that... it's just by communicating	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 06:21 PM
2	CMV: You should be your partner's ONLY source of sexual fulfillment Learning new things helps everyone grow. It's not good or bad to learn. It's just knowledge you can apply. Like you hear some people do not think strip clubs are cheating. You learn that and go, not for me though. Then you find someone who also believes as you do if you're looking to get in a relationship with them. It's better for you to learn and know what you want or don't want to narrow down to only being in relationships with people who share your values. If you don't even know something ex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 05:53 PM
4	CMV: You should be your partner's ONLY source of sexual fulfillment Yea a lot of people believe that. Me and my partner both use toys alone and with each other. Doesn't mean anyone should force you to believe that. But knowing that exists just means more choices for everyone to mold the type of relationship they want. Knowledge of something existing doesn't force anyone to choose it for themselves. 👍 I've found that helpful to remember	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 05:34 PM
7	CMV: You should be your partner's ONLY source of sexual fulfillment I think what's most important is that everyone is different. It's communicating what you are looking for and are not looking for in a relationship. Not everyone thinks all of those things are cheating. The golden rule and try not to harm those you love. So talk about which things would harm your partner so you don't harm them	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 04:52 PM
0	The heck is happening on twitter ? Yes I do know that. And we need much more reform and education into children's safety and social services to identify harm to children and I would call that a problem that needs fixing as well. Can we also agree that the fact that 80 percent of total violent crime against others is perpetuated by men and also have a conversation about how to fix that at the same time? One doesn't negate the other.	/r/MensRights	10/09/24 06:02 PM
2	Telling men and women to "not take rejection personally" is usually poor advice I have people who I love dearly in my life that I wouldn't want to date. Maybe the other person still thinks you're a cool person, just not for her. Isn't it better to know earlier so you can continue your life without knowing whether the other person likes you back. The unknown part is the scary part. The answer yes or no is relief. Then you just continue your life and maybe at another point in it you find another person you really like. And you tell them and try again. It's your life and somet…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/24 06:06 AM
-7	The heck is happening on twitter ? So yea numbers are numbers then we look at causes for the numbers then we look at fixes ... if there's a demographic struggling with violence against others we look at reasons. Like poverty, lack of opportunity etc or entitlement of taking the life of others bc not valuing their own lives or others. It's all about fixing it. Why getad at the numbers?	/r/MensRights	09/09/24 05:26 PM
3	Men are superior to women when it comes to sports and lifting weights 😆 lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 05:20 PM
-10	The heck is happening on twitter ? ... but men DO commit the majority of violent crime. That's not hating on men it's just a fact of life that many people are trying to work on reducing...	/r/MensRights	09/09/24 05:06 PM
14	Men are superior to women when it comes to sports and lifting weights Most career chefs are men I believe it's at least 80 percent so I don't know what this guy means that women are better at cooking. It's a skill anyone can learn. No part of either body makeup makes them better at it	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 05:00 PM
2	If women hate being objectified, why don't women stop other women from objectifying themselves? It's this. It's just consent. OF is purposefully trying to be sexual in a forum for sex. Just like NSFW reddit subs. Everywhere else we don't consent so don't do that stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 12:37 AM
–	Ladies, how come your tastes in fiction, contradict what you say you want irl? I meant women are also attracted to different things and some things are only attractive in fiction and not in real life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 05:08 PM
–	I think women could possibly be socialized to be more willing to date shy guys. Very interesting. I guess from what I see every person has different thinks they look for in a relationship and particularly at different times in their lives based on what they need from their community at that time. I used to have different needs in a relationship than I do now just because I've grown older and changed a lot. Could be a timing issue too	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 05:07 PM
–	I think women could possibly be socialized to be more willing to date shy guys. Women tend to hype up other women and encourage them to be their best selves and I sometimes wonder if men don't do the same to other men because they fear more competition instead of genuinely wanting to help their fellow men...	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 03:34 PM
–	Ladies, how come your tastes in fiction, contradict what you say you want irl? So are women... and one version is attractive only in fiction bc only in fiction is it safe and controllable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 03:26 AM
–	If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be? Yea it's weird how mainstream it is to just hate on women for doing the thing that men constantly say they want from women aka sex. Just illogical to hate on behavior you want to see.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 03:25 AM
–	If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be? Most people aren't model attractive. Most people are average. Have their good and bad features physical and emotional. This Chad ideal is very odd bc I can ask my gfs if they find some Pic of a guy attractive and we all will give it a different rating. Very few men will be physically every woman's type. Personally I like chunkier men bc I like the feeling of their bodies. But many would say women only want muscley hard men. Some of those men I do find attractive too but for other reasons. It's c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 03:23 AM
–	If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be? Maybe, maybe not. But it's a definitely won't if we are more likely to be shamed for it than celebrated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 02:33 PM
9	If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be? If yall celebrated women being sexual and thought it was awesome that we had experience and could teach yall all about fun ways to pleasure ... then it wouldn't be as socially risky for us to enjoy casual sex too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 02:58 AM
8	If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be? I agree. I just think the body count crap ruins it for us. If more of us had more casual hookups with men who really do find it validating and awesome but then men turn around and insult us for having sex with men... it's hard to enjoy good casual sex knowing that we will be called whores and sluts for doing the very thing men want...	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 02:57 AM
1	In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against men No. She may want to but may be open to having a child or having an abortion if her BC fails. You won't know unless yall discuss it. And to make sure you as a man are not on the hook for a child just don't do it. Don't you have control over your own dick?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 01:08 AM
-1	In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against men And I will fight to the ends of the earth against that. It's non consensual. In cases of men being raped by women or women using their sperm without consent from a condom that's a lack of consent and they should get to choose if they want to be a part of the child's life at all. But if they decide to shoot inside her then that's all on them and where their choice over their body ends. I don't get why men even risk it. Just shoot somewhere else	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 01:01 AM
-2	In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against men No. Men do. A woman can say cum in me and the mam can still decide not to. Own that dick. Own your sperm. It's yours. Decide if you wanna risk it or not. If you do, then it belongs to her once you put it in her and she has to decide if she risks the pregnancy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 12:58 AM
-3	In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against men ... Men have full control where they shoot their gametes. Why not avoid that by controlling where their genetic material goes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 05:33 PM
11	CMV: Hooking up as a man isn’t the same as hooking up as a woman I think for both men and women they look to settle down when they are individually ready to. It's more about timing than about differences in being sexual. Some people never get the urge to settle down. Some do earlier in life and some later in life. To me settling down isn't about settling on someone you don't like it's about who you like at the time you're settling down	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 02:52 AM
6	If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phone Sure. If that made him feel like she didn't trust him, sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 02:54 PM
3	If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phone Duh. Anyone can divorce anyone for any reason. Of course men can divorce a woman for looking at his phone. This is just a fact. What's the point of this discussion?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 02:26 PM
7	If a lady is not being intimate with you, it means you are not attractive enough or not trust worthy enough Reasons I as a woman have not been intimate: Not attracted Don't feel safe in my environment Feel nauseas Exhausted from work Prefer to do a different activity that day Don't feel sexy or attracted in my own skin Too drunk Bled thru my tampon that morning and don't wanna deal with towel cleanup stuff Garlic breath Not time to do it more than a quickie and don't feel like a quickie Feeling selfish so rather just masturbate so I am not a selfish lover Those are the reasons I can think of right now…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 01:30 PM
17	Fairness/equality if the dating landscape could only exist if the vast majority of women’s life’s were worse if single. Women's lives are only awful when our choices are restricted like they have been in the past. We are just built to handle life without a romantic partner a bit better overall. Not every single man or woman is like that but I think we still feel like women without a man but men are told they aren't real men if they don't have a woman into them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 09:24 PM
1	There are two ways of talking to women: 1) treating them as people and 2) treating them as people you want to have sex with Well yes. Obviously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 02:39 PM
2	There are two ways of talking to women: 1) treating them as people and 2) treating them as people you want to have sex with But couples met somewhere. And if the goal is becoming a couple then shouldn't we be taking advice from couples who are happy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 02:24 PM
1	There are two ways of talking to women: 1) treating them as people and 2) treating them as people you want to have sex with How do you account though, walking around in the real world, you see many couples around and none of them is supermodel attractive. My partner doesn't think he's attractive objectively, but I find him very attractive. Other women may not find him as attractive bc no one has the same preferences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 01:30 PM
7	Men complaining in a free market where nature chooses will only fall on deaf ears Winning is subjective in the dating market however. Someone else's win is someone else's nightmare	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 12:06 AM
0	CMV: The pronatalist movement is shooting itself in the foot with its talking points Women are still having children in those countries and what is the "correct" amount of children you believe individual women should have?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 09:45 PM
-1	CMV: The pronatalist movement is shooting itself in the foot with its talking points I never said anything about fixing 3rd world so that 1st world will have kids. I never said my dream was utopian Scandinavian countries. I feel like you're just arguing with yourself at this point	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 07:34 PM
-4	CMV: The pronatalist movement is shooting itself in the foot with its talking points there are plenty of children hurting everywhere. And it isn't because of people not having enough kids. It's bc of inequality in resources and who owns resources to survive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 07:05 PM
-1	CMV: The pronatalist movement is shooting itself in the foot with its talking points The point is not everyone will want to but it helps those that do. We have billions of people on this planet. It's not like we are gonna die out as a species	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 06:18 PM
1	CMV: The pronatalist movement is shooting itself in the foot with its talking points Or... by making sure that women know if they do the labor of having children that those children will have access to Healthcare, opportunities for growth, education, choices for themselves. Taking away women's rights means they will actively refuse to have children which is exactly what is happening now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 04:25 PM
-10	Fell out with friends over the stupid bear thing I truly would pick the bear. Bc I've been around wild animals and never had one hurt me as long as I left them alone. But men I leave alone have still followed and scared me. Based on my experience and statistics I'm just safer with an animal bc I know all it's motives. Again, if I knew something about the man that may be different. But most good men do not know how bad men act around women alone bc they don't act like that when other men are around. When I'm out walking with my partner I get ma…	/r/MensRights	17/08/24 11:43 PM
-5	Fell out with friends over the stupid bear thing I think bc random man means we just don't know. Kinda like how my dad wouldn't have left me with a random stranger man without knowing he was safe. When it's a stranger and we don't know if they wish us harm we have to assume they might bc all men being so much physically stronger have am advantage. So until we know the gun isn't loaded we gotta treat it like it is. If it said man I know then I'd choose the man. See?	/r/MensRights	17/08/24 09:01 PM
2	Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thing Yea we pretty much did that. And no marriage lol. Just personal commitment between us. He got me a ring I designed on azeera.com and he's designing his for me to get for him. Mines got fun stones, not a wedding band and he hasn't finished deciding yet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 08:05 PM
2	Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thing Book clubs? Barnes and noble? I used to hang out there all the time. People who read a lot often have stronger opinions about more things and are open to learning and teaching	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 07:47 PM
1	Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thing Well that subject is more than a hey just met ya and we are chatting subject except on reddit lol. May be more women who have more opinions you just gotta talk to more of them	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 07:28 PM
2	Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thing The ring was actually so that if a woman was widowed or left the marriage she would have some of her own money she could pawn quickly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 07:23 PM
1	Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thing It's about getting under the surface of people. Everyone takes time to heat what they believe about deeper subjects	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 05:47 PM
2	Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thing Do you talk to many women about philosophical subjects? Like value of marriage in a modern society? It's a value more for emotional security than necessity nowadays. Plenty of us know marriage was historically just for money bc women cpuldnt own resources and were sold by father's to husband's. Simply not as necessary now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 04:28 PM
–	Men have right to seek justice after being falsely accused even if it has a Chilling effect.. I encourage you to look at the data on false reports themselves. This is about Data on non false reports. Those are two separate data points. This is non false reports.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 03:51 PM
–	Men have right to seek justice after being falsely accused even if it has a Chilling effect.. Out of 1000, 25 will get incarcerated. That's 2.5percent. So around 3 percent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 02:17 PM
–	Average guys are made to feel "dirty" for having a sexual desire Isn't pickier based on percentage though? Like if I get hit on by 5 men in a weekend. That's 250 plus a year. If I only sleep with 5 a year and am sexually active for 5 years that's only 25 men I've picked out of the 1250 who tried. That's only 2 percent. Which is extremely picky I would think...	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 04:21 PM
1	Men have right to seek justice after being falsely accused even if it has a Chilling effect.. https://rainn.org/statistics/criminal-justice-system This data is out there...	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 02:23 PM
2	Men have right to seek justice after being falsely accused even if it has a Chilling effect.. You can advocate for more thorough investigation. For rape kits being processed bc thousands are in back log and never got processed. Work with project innocence for those who are wrongfully convicted. Yes it's still in process but I'm hoping with more cameras around places and homes and on people we can have more real evidence as tech keeps advancing. DNA wasn't even used in any crime cases until like 40yrs ago. Every new advancement can make a difference in investigation!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 04:17 PM
5	Men have right to seek justice after being falsely accused even if it has a Chilling effect.. No feminists are for false accusations. Feminists would like to address why 97% of actual rapists never see jailtime. However I am glad someone is advocating for the falsely accused. It's extremely important for all crimes to actually find justice and not just what is most convenient or easy for the police and courts to do. Go forth and advocate. I know a man who was falsely accused and I want those to go from a couple percent to zero very much. I'm just still very concerned about the 97 percent…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 02:43 PM
0	Women saying that men would be more attractive if they were more confident is a double-bind. This is truly an important distinction that I believe the OP is missing completely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/24 03:04 PM
4	If love, relationships, companionship, attention and affection of women isnt a reward for men's good behavior, then how come the deprivation of all of those things is some sort of punishment for morally broken behavior? You think trump is "wanted"? Really? After multiple divorces? He isn't wanted by the people closest to him so yea I'd say he's pretty lonely. All he can offer is material things. No one likes him. Havi g kids doesn't leave a mark on society. They are their own people and will leave their mark but it doesn't really have anything to do with him. Just bc someone has your DNA really doesn't make you as an individual a likable or good or happy person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 03:25 PM
17	If love, relationships, companionship, attention and affection of women isnt a reward for men's good behavior, then how come the deprivation of all of those things is some sort of punishment for morally broken behavior? Money and power. Thays not a normal person. It's someone who has a resource advantage. But also he's had 3 wives. 2 divorces. No long bonds and trades out instead of works on his marriages. He's not exactly successful at creating strong lasting relationships ... just at trading out women amd I don't see why anyone would want what he's got which seems to be smoke and mirrors and inauthentic marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/24 12:20 PM
9	The bar is on the floor for a being marriage material women Yea sounds like not being submissive means being reasonable and responsible. That's how I want to be seen for sure. Character. Best decision for everyone myself included. Sounds solid. I'll take that definition of dominant. Which also just means being an adult and handling what life throws at ya	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/24 07:45 AM
–	"Men need to treat us like human beings " is deceptive Okay well all I can share is my perspective amd what I see. I am sorry it comes off as disingenuous when it's phrases like that. How am I doing explaining my own thoughts and perspective? Bc every woman will not think like me but it's something to keep in mind she could bc you know this perspective exists and why and maybe she had a similar experience. Loving respectful discourse so far. I def can see the disingenuous side bc of that phrasing. It will make me rethink and I changed to just explai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/24 07:02 AM
–	"Men need to treat us like human beings " is deceptive Right. But this happens to women out alone. Not when they are with a man. So men don't see it when it happens so don't believe it's a real problem. A lot of us are simply trying to alert you to a problem, not create one but try to enlist some ideas and allyship to fixing one. Thays kinda why I respond to this stuff. Just want to have discourse by showing some other perspective to ppl who aren't around it bc doesn't happen around them as much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/24 06:42 AM
–	"Men need to treat us like human beings " is deceptive Are you only talking to the woman in a platonic way bc you are actually interesting in having sex or dating her or are you just friendly without wanting a transaction with her. Like if I strike up small talk bc I am that type of person and the person I strike up with gives me a short answer. Looks away. Crosses their arms. Is totally not into it or flat out tells me hey I don't wanna talk to you. I just give a quick sorry and realize I was the problem bc they don't wanna talk and I laugh about i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/24 05:20 AM
2	"Men need to treat us like human beings " is deceptive If they would approach a man the same way then yea. Some people don't like to small talk so don't if you don't like to. If you do I don't mind. What i do mind is someone who never small talks to anyone deciding to small talk to me to try to eventually get my number. That's not being their authentic self bc they are only small talking me hoping for more. And let's say I do get interested and give a number. Then we go out and I realize he was faking what he was like socially. Immediately I see a l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/24 12:25 AM
5	"Men need to treat us like human beings " is deceptive It's wasn't that they were ugly. It's that I want to be treated like they treat other men. Just as people around them who don't need to be unnecessarily touched or messed with just trying to get to and fro. The question I saw up there was about why women want to be treated like any other human. It turned to another human would be a man. So I want to be treated in public like a man would treat a man. Just leave them alone to do their thing. I just want to be left alone to do my thing that's all. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/24 06:56 AM
6	"Men need to treat us like human beings " is deceptive Different perspective. Random unwanted touches from men. When moving thru a crowd I have had strange men I don't know put their arm on my waist to physically steer me out of their way. Never seen a man do that to another man. Also when I'm on a bus heading to work men tend to nod hello to one another or ignore one another. But men trying to chat with me and get my number and ask my name and stuff. No. Out in public please just treat me like you would another man. I don't want to have to be think…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/24 05:34 AM
1	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology Why so defeatist? Why not work towards change. We have one life to live may as well use it to try to make a positive difference for the future generations	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/24 12:58 AM
1	"Even if I Got a Girlfriend, She'll Always Want Someone Else" - Is This An Example of Low Self Esteem/Insecurity? My husband is objectively average looking. I didn't settle. We have an amazing vulnerable spicy sex life. I feel safe with him bc of how he interacts and treats me not bc he is inherently attractive and therefore not creepy. I have eyes too. Look at real couples outside of the internet. Who is married? Who is dating? Is it only sexy supermodel men? No. It is not and never has been. Bodies age and over time break down. If I am with someone just for their body that is a stupid thing to do when any…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 04:13 PM
–	Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy. Why is it men's life goal to fuck? Seriously. Yall get socialized to think that the epitome of life is to get a woman. This messaging is everywhere. It's not one's fault to hear it but damn ... don't you have any personal goals just for you? Don't you yearn for more in life than "I managed to get someone to fuck me"? Virgin men are vilified by society so harshly and so are promiscuous women but the point is that other people's sex life is literally not anyone's concern and no one is owed sex wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 04:09 PM
1	"Even if I Got a Girlfriend, She'll Always Want Someone Else" - Is This An Example of Low Self Esteem/Insecurity? It is not dependent on how they look it's in how they interact with us. It's their social interaction that determines how safe we feel not their looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 04:02 PM
2	"Even if I Got a Girlfriend, She'll Always Want Someone Else" - Is This An Example of Low Self Esteem/Insecurity? Dude. I was raped by an objectively attractive man whom I was not interested in being sexual with who I told straight up I wasn't interested in. Im thinking he didnt believe me BC HE thought he was super attractive and i was lying. That generalization is absolutely dangerous and untrue. Women are not all the same. They don't find the same type of men attractive. There is no golden standard. Have you looked at couples running around together? Most people are average. Men and women. They get toget…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 03:35 PM
2	Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy. I do disagree that you're taught to have good morals and treat women as human beings to get women. Treating people like human beings is for your own values and says who you are... it's not some sort of cheat code to get a woman. If you only are treating people with respect bc you think you'll get a reward then that's a little backwards to me. It just feels good to be a good person. Ans you have to live with yourself most of all. There's no guarantee anyone else will ever like you at all but I va…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 12:50 AM
2	Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy. He is not worshipped by mainstream only by his fans. I don't even know any rappers by name anymore since it's not my preferred genre. Back in the day I knew the songs but I didn't know or idolize the singers. Some people do. That's their people. To attract women you actually like and respect you must yes be kind and respectful. If you want to attract women who are into that kind of behavior then yes by all means try to get rich and be gross out loud. But why you wanna get women like that? We are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 12:20 AM
0	Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy. See or you could look at it like ... good the women just don't respect and don't like don't want to fuck me either. Bc surely you wouldn't want to fuck someone you think is so gross and has zero self respect right? Those women and that rapper are cut from the same cloth. So be glad they aren't interested in you and don't worry about everyone else's sexual and private life. Why does everyone care about what everyone else is doing sexually so so much?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 12:09 AM
1	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology Yes I also am for social change and I start within me and spread this idea as much as possible. This is why awareness must be communicated. Women speaking up about problems that specifically affect then doesn't take anything away from men speaking up about being against the draft. We can all speak up together against societal power that devalues us. I would march with you against the draft 100 percent	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 12:04 AM
1	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology Dying in war is not necessary. Human men are more useful than just reproduction. If just needed for sperm then sure men are disposable. But men are people and human and are valuable bc they can contribute so much more. Just as women are valuable for more than their ability to give birth. With our complex socialization and ability to collaborate towards higher goals all people can contribute more than just more humans.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 06:31 PM
2	"Even if I Got a Girlfriend, She'll Always Want Someone Else" - Is This An Example of Low Self Esteem/Insecurity? I hear ya and appreciate all your input unto this. That last sentence if men feel weak they take it out on those they consider weaker to feel stronger. I def see that. And trust is at a low. I have to believe to change that means improving collaboration and trust in individual behavior ot make lasting societal change. And thank you for your compliment I also find my kindness to be a gift and not a handicap as I used to believe. That takes experience and self understanding and love and time but a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 02:25 PM
1	"Even if I Got a Girlfriend, She'll Always Want Someone Else" - Is This An Example of Low Self Esteem/Insecurity? There*	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 01:42 PM
2	"Even if I Got a Girlfriend, She'll Always Want Someone Else" - Is This An Example of Low Self Esteem/Insecurity? And every person is different. I don't know how often men fear for their physical safety and in what situations. I only know mine. Bur pointing out mine exist isn't causing that fear to exist it's simply bringing awareness that it's their.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 01:42 PM
2	"Even if I Got a Girlfriend, She'll Always Want Someone Else" - Is This An Example of Low Self Esteem/Insecurity? I hear you. And obviously I do not want men to feel sad about this. But being a so called protector isn't as important to women as not being a dangerous person and calling out those who spread hate. It's not a binary where one is either Rambo protection or a predator. Just be decent to others without expecting a reward for it. And if a broken boy hears it and is confused by it then older men can council them and make sure they feel heard and understood and also guide them into healthy behaviors …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 01:41 PM
3	"Even if I Got a Girlfriend, She'll Always Want Someone Else" - Is This An Example of Low Self Esteem/Insecurity? We still are attracted to men and do as much vetting as possible. We are worried about their potential threat not that every single man is an actual threat. That's judt being aware of reality that we are physically at a disadvantage. We recognize we cannot be shut ins and do all sorts of extra steps as precautions. Ask women what they do for safety, we are very cognizant and do what we can. Just as you would if you were at a physical disadvantage etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 01:10 PM
0	"Even if I Got a Girlfriend, She'll Always Want Someone Else" - Is This An Example of Low Self Esteem/Insecurity? I think they average woman is scared of men because many men seem to hate women. I've never looked at a man I don't know and felt hate but I have felt fear from a stranger if I'm at a disadvantage physically. It's fine tuned in everyone to protect themselves by awareness of safety. If I'm consistently the smallest person bc I'm tiny even for women and men are typically naturally much larger and stronger then until I know I'm with one who is not gonna use that to his own advantage against me I'm …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 11:35 AM
1	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology First of all why consent to being thrown into a slaughter that we obviously aren't winning well if they have already had so many killed they have to replenish. Volunteer or we deserve to lose bc people aren't willing to fight for it. Secondly even without a draft... Please look up what the reality is for women during wartime. There's zero privilege in what happens to us. Even in the Bible it's sanctioned to take and rape women during war. I think you calling that a privilege is being unwilling t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 10:45 AM
2	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology What occurs in your house and it being private from the state does not extend to violating others human rights. Children are human and have rights. I believe you have veered into a different topic. Parental abuse is not protected bc it violates another person's rights. Canada has a parental responsibility and children's rights legal theory that I very much agree with in a lot of ways. Everyone's personal human rights and freedoms only go as far as not harming another individual. You cannot harm …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 10:40 AM
1	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology I don't understand why they'd go against protecting themselves and their children or an equal draft. Of there is gonna be a draft then it should be equal but why not be rid of forced by the state life risking? It seems so un-American amd anti freedom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 10:33 AM
5	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology Not particularly. I'd be willing to change my mind if someone has a good argument for exceptions, but in general, no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 12:16 AM
4	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology I see good people every day. I put out good to others every day. It just takes you choosing to be part of the solution to make the world better. You can't expect it to just do it itself around you without taking responsibility for yourself and how you act. We all have to try. No one does it perfectly but we can all make a difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 11:50 PM
5	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology We will literally fight for yall to have freedom from the stare forcing you into war and you don't want that? How can you want to live in a world participating in that? To make change you have to be part of it. You have to live it and demand your rights and make a movement with awareness. Why would you want anyone's children to be forced into war? I've seen band of brothers and all the documentaries. We should all be making sure even volunteers get ptsd help much more than they get now and that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 11:49 PM
3	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology Look anything in my body I get to decide if it stays in my body. I get to decide if I go to war or not. Same with men. Everyone decides how they use their body. If you don't already understand why forcing a pregnancy or outside council or judge deciding for an individual at risk is unequal in stake and contributes to inequality in society. Just as draft should not happen to men. I simply believe the state doesn't get to decide for individuals if they aren't putting themselves at risk. The presid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 11:40 PM
6	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology Equal autonomy over our own body means men and women should not have their body controlled by the state for choices like whether to kill or be killed in a war or in childbirth and pregnancy. How men and women use their body and risk their lives should be personal and not mandated. Feminists believe the world would be pro more personal freedom and less government interference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 10:48 PM
8	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology No. Equality is no one being able to force anyone to fight a war and use their body like that. Men should be protected and safe from the state, forcing them into war.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 10:46 PM
8	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology You organize a march against the draft and I'll happily ally with you. We organize marches and are looking for allies. Go ahead. I'll march for that. Just like I do for any cause I agree with. But you gotta organize men and do something about it and get it abolished! We agree. Get rid of it. Volunteer only.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 10:11 PM
–	Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationships Even without social media I usually got hit on about 12 times a night when I went out to mingle. So 2 nights a weekend I used to go out that's 24 a week or so. For 52 weeks that 1248 times a year. I usually only hooked up with about 5-8 when single in a year which comes out to .6 percent, so I think you are overlooking how picky most women really are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 05:24 PM
3	What will happen once enough men get jaded from dating? I'm not understanding how women cannot replace men in jobs if men are not doing them. We already did during WW2. A monkey could not be trained to do your job specifically if it's computer based bc in that case it would have to comprehend what it was doing and understand how to use a computer for communication. Can you please clarify why women have to work harder to achieve the same level of living standards? Provided they are paid the same wage thry will have equal living standard for same amoun…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 04:32 PM
3	What will happen once enough men get jaded from dating? So I don't have kids bc wages are shit and it's irresponsible to have children you cannot afford. And I am fighting to get better wages for everyone as is my civic duty to our democracy to work towards change that lifts us all up to thrive. I'm working this particular job bc healthcare comes with on day one and I need it plus the wage is better than my previous position. I won't be here forever though. I'm also starting a second business. I was simply commenting that women can work these jobs an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 04:13 PM
5	What will happen once enough men get jaded from dating? Most of my manufacturing plant is women. Hard physical no air conditioning labor. It's about 70 percent women and 30 years ago it was like 20percent women... women are people. If their arms and legs work and they have the capacity to learn, they can do these jobs. They don't require a penis to do... I literally don't know of any job that requires a penis to do. Maybe a male stripper? Or porn star? ... I cannot tell what anyone is packing in their pants while working so... if you can at your job …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 04:03 PM
–	What is an average looking woman? Can we get examples Isn't that how most women are gonna look who have jobs though. Tired from the day. Busy. That's most people on general. Everyone is mid in general most of the day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/24 01:06 AM
2	Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable? I wouldn't know. I'm in a 4 year relationship with a great sex life. He wants to marry. We compromised bc I did not want to. So we are committed without marriage right now. We have Issues we work thru. But if either of us needs to leave we will do that. we are doing everything in our power to make it work bc we both want to. But if one doesn't want to then yes we will break up. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me and vice versa. I don't know why some married couples ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 05:03 PM
2	Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable? Yes. Women are typically Much more selective than men are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 04:40 PM
2	Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable? Oh you're talking about sex. I thought you were talking about needs in a relationship in how you navigate life together. Bc sex can disappear at any time bc of health issues and many other factors. I would never commit to forever with someone if I made it contingent on me always getting sex from them in a certain way and schedule. Can't control others bodies like that. And thru life's ups and downs if my man today could no longer orgasm I would still love on him and care for him even if he could…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 04:40 PM
2	Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable? Well if a woman is looking for perfectionism then that isn't a woman you want to be with anyway so just don't date that woman. There's tons of different women out there. But yes please don't try to date someone with standards like that. It'll be very painful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 04:35 PM
2	Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable? I don't know how many he finds attractive, it certainly seems like men find more women attractive than women find men attractive so I'd assume a good many of them he would find attractive enough to sleep with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 04:22 PM
2	Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable? I think women quit when issues cannot be resolved. Usually women request therapy. They communicate in multiple different ways if the relationship isn't working for them. Then they eventually leave when they don't feel heard. As I think anyone should, men included. Men deserve to feel happy in their relationships as well. Why is it a good thing that a man stay and be miserable? If a man is miserable with me the most loving thing to be done is set him free to not be stuck with someone who isn't ad…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 04:21 PM
3	Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable? If a guy got hit on by thousands of women what percentage would he say yes to? And if it's most of them then wouldn't that make him more of a whore than her?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 04:01 PM
2	Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable? What if the first one she thought she'd marry but then they weren't compatible etc. I mean. Sounds pretty selective. She could have just said yes to every guy who hit on her but obviously was vetting in this scenario and not just in it for sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 04:00 PM
4	Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable? Just a thought tho... if a woman gets hit on thousands of times in a few years and only has sex with 30... then wouldn't that be saying she's actually very particular?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 03:51 PM
3	Why are so many women insulted by the idea of guys making compromises to get sex? Sure. Either way it's a transaction and not as much a connection. Which is fine but don't expect a connection to be good years and years later if the relationship was based on transactions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 11:50 PM
36	Why don't women with low-esteem ever go for unattractive men? This... like what is this high value man exactly and why does attractive mean abusive?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 04:22 PM
-1	Why are so many women insulted by the idea of guys making compromises to get sex? If it's not like I'm a different person than I used to be change like wisdom coming with life experience and not just lying about who you are to get someone else to use their body for your pleasure that's the definition of inauthentic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 04:05 PM
7	Why are so many women insulted by the idea of guys making compromises to get sex? If it's passports there's a feeling that women in poor economic situations will feel pressured to have sex for the money brought. Which while many don't have a problem with sex work, we worry about these women being pushed into acts they do not want to do or that are unsafe just for the money out of desperation. As for other "cheats" if you are lying about significant values about yourself and not being straight up in order to get sex bc you think it's what the woman will want to hear we see tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 12:33 PM
1	If women wanted marriage and commitment only I dunno. I have both good and bad experiences with it. All a part of my life journey.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 09:31 PM
1	If women wanted marriage and commitment only Well I mean I think most men and women are average people so i dunno about that. I'm an average person and I'm with an average man monogamously right now so... and really why does it matter if women are happier or hnhappier in one type of situation? If they do go for wine and cats that's kinda up to them right? And I've been with several virgin men and it didn't really matter as long as they were into it and attentive and most were happy to be there and really took direction much better than exp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 08:22 PM
2	If women wanted marriage and commitment only Well women are also wanting good sex too. Hard to find for us as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 06:04 PM
1	If women wanted marriage and commitment only Less people means resources aren't stretched as thin overall so I don't think we are having a mass extinction event for all of humanity. Even if only 50 percent of women had children it's still billions of humans all over the planet. And again, immigration from overpopulated areas to less populated ones also can help so bringing other people from overseas will help with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 06:03 PM
3	If women wanted marriage and commitment only It'll be what it is. Women may just end up more single here. Whatever people do really isn't my business and kinda their own choice. If men want to marry women outside of our country that's not really a huge catastrophe... just the facts of choices.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 06:09 AM
3	If women wanted marriage and commitment only Yes the cycle of abuse as well. Plus outside pressure telling her to stay bc he never shows that side around others.. I am aware of all that. I was curious to your sources for what you originally said. And cool. Sounds interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 05:44 AM
2	If women wanted marriage and commitment only A whole lot of assumptions here. But interesting perspective. Thanks for sharing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 05:33 AM
3	If women wanted marriage and commitment only True. Some people are more honest than others for sure. Just gotta find them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 05:26 AM
4	If women wanted marriage and commitment only Fair enough. See we also have started having sex and then vetting. But then men get upset we've already had sex and done that a few times bc we now are too "used" ... like I usually have sex early on to see if physical compatibility is there bc I want to know that a lot. But the only way I'm able to do that is by not caring if some guys think I'm too experienced after all that. So I think a lot of women are actually taking this male approach now and it's working pretty well to narrow down the wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 05:25 AM
4	If women wanted marriage and commitment only Oh our intuition is just noticing patterns. It's not some special woman thing. We pick up on patterns of behavior. Which is why us getting experience with many different men will help us pick up on patterns that are healthy for us or not and we can identify them earlier and earlier. As a younger woman in early 20s we don't have near enough life experience to do that accurately And we can usually tell when someone is being nice just to get something. But we cannot tell if someone flat out lies ab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 05:21 AM
1	If women wanted marriage and commitment only Gotcha. Thanks for that. Wasn't sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 05:18 AM
5	If women wanted marriage and commitment only Interesting theory. As far as I'm aware as a woman herself we do not like being abused. So I'm just wondering which women have told you they enjoy that for your information you are sharing? Cause I just don't see it in any of my conversations with women about it. Is this something they are telling you or that you just believe? Cause my dad always said consider the source for opinions and I'd be wanting to get a source who was a woman for this type of assertion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 05:18 AM
5	If women wanted marriage and commitment only Right. So we have sex with someone who says all the right things. Then as you said the best of men is supposed to come after. But then it doesn't and then other men call women used up or sluts who didn't choose well... and then we get wiser and stop letting men have access and then men say our standards are too high. So it's a no win situation for anyone. I have a radical thought. Why not see women who have had sex as well experienced and therefore better at it and not be so concerned with findi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 04:49 AM
18	If women wanted marriage and commitment only Maybe they don't see it as time wasted but just experiences had?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 01:47 AM
18	If women wanted marriage and commitment only Also missing a key element which is many of these fuckboys will lie and act like that's what they want until they get what they actually want. Men will lie to get sex. Obviously. So many women will fall for it early in their life until they are experienced enough not to fall for it anymore. Women cannot read men's minds and many want to believe that what they are saying is true. Which is understandable too bc we want to believe the best of other people. Just a thought here... women aren't being …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 01:47 AM
2	People tend to misunderstand female body positivity on this sub. Ummm. Okay. I am not even sure what you mean about wokeness. I just try to use the golden rule. And I wouldn't want someone commenting meanly about my body so I don't do that to other people. Most religions beliefs have a creed like that. Both Eastern and western religions. So... it's not about policing anyone. It's about being a kind human being and respecting others feelings as you'd want yours respected... why would you want to use that dark side to hurt when you do not have to and can contro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 03:54 PM
3	People tend to misunderstand female body positivity on this sub. Not policing anyone's thoughts. I just don't know why voice them if all they will do is hurt someone else. Genuinely don't understand why people just wanna spout off hurtful stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 03:46 PM
1	People tend to misunderstand female body positivity on this sub. Again... why? Just leave people alone who are just existing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 01:36 PM
0	People tend to misunderstand female body positivity on this sub. Right. But why comment at all? I don't understand the need to share that info when all it does is hurt people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 01:22 PM
4	People tend to misunderstand female body positivity on this sub. This is kinda what I mean tho. Why does it bother YOU so much when someone else is proud of how fat they are? And you don't even know that they are proud as much as just hot (summer sucks right now)... like if I see someone showing a lot of skin and think they are unattractive I just don't look at them if I don't like to? Why call them shameful or gross? What does that do other than Hurt people? Why is it a choice to hurt when the choice to not is just as easy to do?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 01:07 PM
2	The biggest issue with modern dating is how technology made dating way easier for a small percentage of men, and way harder for all the rest. Okay well ... a relationship will cause pain too so maybe you're just a loner. Which is fine. I've gone thru loner phases when I didn't want pain from people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 01:04 PM
4	The biggest issue with modern dating is how technology made dating way easier for a small percentage of men, and way harder for all the rest. I'd argue that there was harmony for men. But for women? They had to be with a man for survival bc of laws and policies literally refusing to let them hold jobs, property, or bank accounts... forcing a woman to be with any man just for her survival for basic needs is not exactly harmony... it's forced proximity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 12:34 PM
2	The biggest issue with modern dating is how technology made dating way easier for a small percentage of men, and way harder for all the rest. You go do something YOU like. And you meet people who have the same interests. If I were looking to meet a man now I'd be looking at libraries or book stores bc I like books, I'd look at places I already like to be. And I'd be looking for a person with a shared interests as a friend. Then if there's an attraction maybe pursue that. But I just wouldn't be looking for man to date. Just a person with a shared interest to discuss that with. If also there's a deeper attraction cool. But I just wouldn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 12:31 PM
1	Attractiveness matters to men so there’s no reason for them to be upset when attractiveness matters to women. Why? I don't get upset when men I think are physically unattractive wanting hot women? If I'm personally not attracted to them I just ignore them. Why don't yall try that strategy? Ignore tge women you aren't into?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 11:49 AM
1	Do you think it's harder to attract women if you wank reguarly? I don’t think rate of masturbation would have any actual relation to how you do with women. I’m assuming with flirting with them not actually in bed? Obviously if you jerk off too much you may not take time enough in between to do it again with a woman and also you could develop death grip (google this if you don’t know what it is). But I’m terms of talking to a woman … just talk to her. Like find out about her. See if you like who she is. Women just want to be seen as interesting people to some…	/r/seduction	13/01/22 03:23 AM
3	[deleted by user] Definitely ask her name. Tell her your new trying to get to know people. Introduce yourself and put out your hand and give a true friendly firm handshake. whatever that hour class you are in with her comment on how does she like it or whatever. That should start a convo with something in common. And since you’re new ask about the town etc. where to go and hang out especially during Covid etc. you can def bond on how shitty that’s been.	/r/seduction	02/09/21 12:04 PM
4	Apparently I'm popular in Korea, not sure how to handle the attention Just say afterwards you didn’t feel a connection but appreciate them meeting with you. Most women would prefer knowing we just don’t have a connection from their end.	/r/seduction	02/09/21 12:01 PM