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No worries! Is this US you’re talking about, right? It does lag a bit behind other Western countries, though not compared to third world.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 01:20 PM
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I agree with most of your points. Of course women shouldn’t be careless with their husband’s money and it’s a given and if she was working part time anyway (or without children and when the children are old) they’ll have the extra allowance, though not for extravagant stuff like that. Of course he should be nurtured! To the max. I think with the negative points is a bit of a generalisation. Of course you’re paying more alimony since she would take a while to get back on her feet after her divorc…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 08:56 AM
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Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 12:36 PM
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Oh that’s awesome! Best wishes on that! I like that title.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 12:34 PM
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I see, thanks for your opinion on that! Which would you write a book about?
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 12:29 PM
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That seems similar to here in Australia, definitely it does not look good. Would you then say you’re a very small minority? Would you think there’s a certain label for guys with this preference or even a certain location? Or is this purely individual?
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 12:07 PM
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No worries, thanks for all your insights so far, I do appreciate learning more about this. At least on that point that does make me feel quite encouraged, when I do go and look for someone in the dating pool. It’s something that everyone who has this preference deals with, of course. I actually really like the idea of complementarian-ism. I truly believe in that and while I’m a little far from some of the groups that are involved in it as I am not inherently religious, I do believe in its discou…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 10:27 AM
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Oh France! Would you be able to elaborate a bit on that? How is it over there?
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 09:27 AM
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I definitely can understand why you would want to be a SAHM and I hope you do have a family of your own that would have so much more quality time to be together and enjoy life! I wish you the best for it. I myself also want to be a SAHM and part time SAHW when I get married.
/r/RedPillWives27/02/18 06:07 AM
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Oh wow, I love about 45 mins by car but an hour by transport. I only go to the city for errands or to get things every two weeks or so so that’s pretty fine with me.
/r/RedPillWives27/02/18 04:59 AM
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I agree and I think the suburbs are actually the great in between. Not as expensive as in the city and not too far away either. It has a quieter and less rushed pace of life too.
/r/RedPillWives27/02/18 03:08 AM
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Oh I see! That is definitely an interesting history that you both share with one another! The shared background also helps. I also have some Asian heritage, partly, and I think that can definitely come into play. Congratulations on the both of you coming together after all that you’ve been through.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 11:46 PM
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I can see that though for me I believe women have specific strengths. In emergencies yes they can adapt for what is best though with normal everyday life it would be good to work to those strengths. That being said, I do believe there is a lack of quality time in families that results in women being out of the home too.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 11:44 PM
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I definitely think the public schooling is pretty bad now in most Western countries and I can see why your wife would be struggling. Especially with social justice. Maybe she can do private tutoring part time? She’ll definitely have good merit for being a teacher and it is very flexible!
/r/RedPillWives26/02/18 11:43 PM
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That’s alright! Thanks for replying :) That is definitely very lucky of you and you’re right, it does seem to stem from their upbringing and that heavily influenced their views. I really wish you both the best! It’s lovely to hear about people’s families and lifestyles here. Your husband seems flexible on your work choices. Would you say many men are like your husband? Since you already seem to have that preference yourself, having balance and time at home, how did you know he would have the sam…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 11:42 PM
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Of course not. I don’t even think it’s support specifically parents- maybe just single parents or anyone. They don’t support family, that’s for sure. Since socially they don’t encourage old fashioned families, which really ironically limits women’s freedom.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 09:45 PM
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That’s definitely interesting to hear. I didn’t think RP bashed religions or anything like that, too. I would call myself an agnostic and I wouldn’t care if a partner was religious or not as long as we respected each other. What would you say is the difference between the ideas and socially?
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 09:43 PM
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That is a very good observation. Maybe your wife could go back to being sahw and work part time? It does seem whiny to me, in some sense, as if they’re shirking their manly responsibility to be strong and provide. Of course on the side of women they should be grateful and take care of the men if they do this. Both sexes have really shirked each other!
/r/RedPillWives26/02/18 09:42 PM
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Oh I see! This is definitely interesting to hear, everyone who has this preference or in a relationship like this has so many different contexts and also sweet stories of family! If you don’t want to work outside the home you don’t have to, of course since that’s your choice. It does seem like your hands are full already! Would you say in this instance if your husband’s job was not as intense would you work part time if there were no kids? Does your husband actually believe more in women being h…
/r/RedPillWives26/02/18 09:40 PM
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I definitely agree with you completely on that and I really like hearing about you and your wife, you seem to really suit each other! I personally think you two are doing well with your family and have some good balances, I hope your wife does stop feeling guilty about housework soon though I think she believes in you as her husband. This is really refreshing to hear! How would you describe your nationality and background? Since I do wonder from here, from a dating standpoint, where do guys like…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 09:37 PM
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I definitely think so, that is very true. In a general sense, the probability would be this man would be older and mature, it would be rarer with younger men in their 20s or even late 20s. I agree with that, he would have established himself and his identity and what he wants.
/r/RedPillWives26/02/18 02:30 PM
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Oh I see! Not sure how I can apply that understanding to Australia haha. Maybe Outback? That sounds funny in itself! Kidding. I definitely think you have a point there.
/r/RedPillWives26/02/18 01:56 PM
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It’s definitely a complex topic and that is why it definitely made me curious. That’s great to hear too, may I ask about your nationality and background? Do you think it’s a more conservative thing? A more just being old fashioned thing? Maybe even a location thing? I definitely think showing that early would be great though of course for most conservative girls that might take a while since going over to their place while dating early just to cook can send the wrong message too.
/r/RedPillWives26/02/18 01:46 PM
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No worries, again I don’t think putting an exact time estimate does it justice, because when you do have a homemaking role, you’re expected to be more flexible and your schedule, both inside work and outside moves a lot. Since your main role is actually to make things easier for everybody else. You’re that all-around person. So I would say anywhere between 4.5 to 5.5, sometimes much more or much less if things come up or not. I think it’s also good for Housewives to have something outside for th…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 07:58 AM
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After reading all you’ve said I can only agree. As someone who’s been in a homemaking position before for my own original family, I would say everyday would take about five up to 5.5 hours. Things do come up everyday I think, I would classify them as errands that normally people would share but since the mother has time she would do it. Handling bills, following up schools, calling companies or councils or whatever. Everyday stuff that comes up. Of course there will always be, at certain times o…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 07:49 AM
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I do believe hard work is a virtue but it comes in many forms, not just those rewarded by money. There are some, like housework, that earns more of time for everyone else in the family. There are many ways to prepare for the future and that’s also beyond money. It’s having a healthy relationship when you have lots of quality time with each other because she’s home some of the time. You will have very good times together when it’s just the two of you before the kids come. Once the kids come it wi…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 06:48 AM
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Well why not set up something as a back up? It’s good to be cautious of the future but not to the point it determines your whole lifestyle. Maybe an investment or income insurance. If you really do want more of this preference, maybe moving to a less expensive city might help? It depends on what you value more, thats all up to you.
/r/RedPillWives26/02/18 06:37 AM
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Yes I cannot agree with you more on that. The laws have to be updated I believe, they really only apply to old fashioned marriage. Women who won’t risk that much and still have their own careers and money and all that don’t need those laws. Exactly. I really hope that there will be a turn and I hope to inspire more women to their domesticity, it is very good for society. Thanks very much for that! I’m straightforward with that. I just want a happy marriage, a good family and a hardworking husban…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 05:36 AM
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Yes I think fundamentally then we agree on that. I don’t agree with how the child support works even when there is an even custody, so yes. I actually think the divorce laws should really apply to old fashioned families, it was designed for homemaking mothers who take a lot more risk on than the modern mothers when they enter a family. They shouldn’t apply to modern families and marriages. I myself believe in very differentiated roles and responsibilities for men and women and of course they sho…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 05:17 AM
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Okay you have a point there. Though she will have more housework (this is in the context of her having the kids or having the kids most of the time) since kids will still need care and will make the same amount of mess they did when she was still married. The kids won’t be messing up his house and now he just has to do housework and maintenance for one person and not for three or four.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 04:59 AM
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Oh you are definitely preaching to the choir! I definitely work everything you have said here. The more men and women have diverged form their social and gender roles, the more damage there’s been to society. They are finding less reasons and motivations for their lives so I think that has done some damage to people’s emotional and mental health as well. Though I really appreciate more of the context you provide for this, it really makes sense. Families provide a social structure and motivation …
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 04:55 AM
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On the first point, of course that’s not the way but when they split, if there’s kids, she’s now having to do double the work. Not only the housework and child care but also outside work, so that’s what makes up for it. Oh and if the custody is 50/50, then there shouldn’t be child support, I agree on that. What I said before is a full time housewife when there’s kids but have part time work when there’s no kids. The reason she is working part time is because when there’s no kids housework won’t …
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 04:49 AM
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Definitely. Some financial support from the government cannot fully substitute having your spouse alongside you for all the ups and downs of having a family. Avoid divorce if possible.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 04:33 AM
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Hmm I’m not sure what the laws are there though here of course if they split a man is to pay child support because whether they’re together or not, the children still need to be looked after financially. I do think the court system is biased and the best way is to have equal custody as to not make child support as harsh on men but when there is no other choice (for example the man does not want custody), there has to be child support. I disagree in that second point, divorced women won’t necessa…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 04:31 AM
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Thanks for telling me about your story! Definitely I think it is very unhealthy for those type of women, the vicious feminist type like you just mentioned, to have families! I agree they should be thrown into prison for all the social damage they have inflicted on society. I do like how you’ve stated that as an ethical and moral imperative, I really think that’s a great way to frame it. Because at the end of the day, women being SAHM or SAHW is all about having more time- more time to create fam…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 03:51 AM
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I definitely think it is
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 03:43 AM
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Though you’ve decided already so it’s something to look forward to!
/r/RedPillWives26/02/18 03:41 AM
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That’s what I was saying too about it being a conservative thing. I definitely agree with you, housework is honorable and as more of our society has been centered in money and market contribution, this has made house work look bad or less. Though as some of the other posters have mentioned here, it can easily be the other way around with conservatives having more modern lifestyles. It isn’t necessarily conservative, I agreed. That’s lovely to hear! :) I wish you all the best!
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 03:41 AM
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Well everyone has different contexts and styles, I acknowledge that.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 03:39 AM
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Oh I see! Yes that is definitely true! Thanks for clearing that up. Money is only one aspect- being a single parent under the government support should be a last resort! You might get the financial support though it would never replace the emotional support of having a partner there- unless it is absolutely necessary- it should NOT be an option. I’ve experienced that as a child of a divorce. It is not the preferable option.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 03:38 AM
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Oh true true! I definitely am like that and though most people associate an ENTJ with a career woman or ceo type, id say I’m like that but my domain is the house.
/r/RedPillWives26/02/18 02:45 AM
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Yep! ENTJ! :) do you think that plays into it?
/r/RedPillWives26/02/18 02:36 AM
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That’s very much understandable! Definitely the work when it comes to study is very similar to working part time or even full time. Oh wow that is an interesting choice of pet! I heard that about them too. Congrats on the new member of the family!
/r/RedPillWives26/02/18 02:35 AM
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You know I think you’re right with that. Maybe in that way I am more cleaning with cooking as a personality, though I enjoy both. I’d like to think I am creative as I do needlework as well as many crafty hobbies though I’m not into the mess as much! I’m also very introverted and I don’t feel like I need as much social events in my life as most people. I’m happy with my family’s company most of the time.
/r/RedPillWives26/02/18 02:32 AM
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That’s so lovely to hear. Of course things aren’t always smooth sailing yet it makes you stronger when you conquer those challengers. I wish the best for the both of you!
/r/RedPillWives26/02/18 02:22 AM
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I’ve seen this and I definitely think it’s such an interesting way to look at it and there can be groups. For me though, man I think I’m both! I really like seeing The Cleanliness Of the home as the result of my own work and I feel the same when I’ve made something and the food just looks so good and well-put together? Especially once you’ve set the table?
/r/RedPillWives26/02/18 02:21 AM
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I do! :) Definitely that should be avoided. I like to think domestic women would sort of having so many types of work that it actually is very stimulating! A little bit of the house there, a little bit of the outside [insert part time work] there and everything in between. Parenting has really become absent, I believe. It is a real shame since there’s less quality time in families. I hope so, thank you! I know you will too!
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 02:18 AM
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Yeah that’s amazing! I definitely have a much bigger house than you at the moment so I think that’s a factor too. My house has three bedrooms, two bathrooms and two living areas. I love cooking too! I think I’m different with the mop, I don’t like normal mops and normal mopping, I love my steam mop! It cleans so well and since we have smooth floors, I can see the shine after I clean an area and it’s like ooooooohhhh haha.
/r/RedPillWives26/02/18 02:15 AM
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It’s alright! I think I get what you mean. I think there is definitely something so sad when you have these women who grew up without learning these things. I think having mom at home is a chance for her to teach the kids these skills, since she has more time directly with them! I agree with you on that, which is why I said to have part time work when there’s no children, or even some other activity. Housework won’t take all day when you have no kids and while you’re not watching Maury the whole…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 02:08 AM
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I would think so too in that area! I definitely can see why your wife would be depressed too. I definitely don’t advocate for women to be alone all the time at home and be at home only when they don’t have children. You can get depressed and your mind wanders, this is why I said that they should work part time or have other outside activities to keep them engaged both inside and outside the house. I hope your wife continues to feel better and you’ve definitely taken good care of her at this time…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 02:05 AM
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That’s very quick! Do you guys have a big house? For me it takes nearly three hours just to deep clean both my house’s bathrooms! That I do every two weeks. Like scrub the floor, the shower, clean the glass walls and mirrors, wiper surfaces, rinse the bathtub etc. I definitely see where you are coming from even if we have different styles about it and different approaches. For me I’d like to still be both doer and manager and I feel very connected to my domestic work doing it myself directly. As…
/r/RedPillWives26/02/18 02:00 AM
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That’s alright, thanks for your view! I’m not sure about your first sentence here- are you saying that men who prefer women at home are more married to their job? I think in Western countries it’s very plausible to have women at home, since they have economic comfort and are not in desperate situations like in third world countries. They also have more support from the governments and systems in place just in case of drastic times.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 01:57 AM
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So you’re saying because the half is more tangible in a way and in a sense Men can’t get ‘half’ of all their housewife’s work in a tangible manner? Though I think this also affects women in that way because once they split, unless she just goes back to her family and maybe even does the same domestic work, she has to now revert to full time work living on her own, her years not working full time may have impacted her ability to find a good or full time job because she isn’t as updated as everyon…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 01:55 AM
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Yeah that’s what I mean, glad we agree on that! I am in a way that I enjoy the housework myself and I sort of feel very responsible for the house? This may sound odd, like if I paid a cleaner I would feel bad since, I feel like I can’t do the job or have to ‘cop out’ and give it to someone else. I feel very responsible for the housework and whether I do them well or not affects my pride in it. I understand other women are not like that and don’t like specific chores like you. That’s your style o…
/r/RedPillWives26/02/18 01:47 AM
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I agree with you on that, working from home really has some extra benefits. Yes I was. I’ll explain, though I’ll clarify she works part time, maybe even during the mornings or something like that. So that all the housework (it also depends on how big your house is, I’m currently in charge of a three bedroom) is taken care of by her and food can be made every night or so and all the dinner is prepared basically when the husband gets home. Basically, both parties finish their ‘work’ roughly at the…
/r/RedPillWives26/02/18 01:35 AM
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Cool! May I also ask about what your nationality and background is? Do you think having this preference with guys is more of a location thing? Political views thing? Is it individual for you?
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 01:29 AM
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Of course everyone is different and while my views on that would be a bit different to yours, hey, of course it’s your lives and you can live it how you would like. I think we definitely agree on that about raising children.
/r/RedPillWives26/02/18 01:22 AM
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Oh I see! Would you say being a housewife while without kids? Since I do believe in working part time while there is no kids since housework won’t take up all your time when there’s no children around. Do you mention that specifically? Since I think for me, if he doesn’t value the actual idea of women being connected to the home and giving actual proper time (during the day) to tend to housework, it’s a deal breaker, if you know what I mean? Not just stay at home when there’s kids. To me that’s …
/r/RedPillWives26/02/18 01:21 AM
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That’s a great way to look at things and congratulations on looking forward to your future! My questions addresses women working part time while married without kids and staying home full time with kids. Do you think your husband would mind that or no? Since his upbringing seems to play into it very much. I also agree about living slowly and calmly! I think there is too much rush in everyone’s life nowadays.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 01:18 AM
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I see! Everyone has different styles. May I ask whether you think this preference is more of you as an individual? Do you think it’s a certain group of men? Or a location based thing?
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 01:17 AM
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I think you’ve basically put it very well! I don’t know why I (and my friend) really just assumed it was about conservatism (the preference of men for a housewife) though you’ve cleared that. Definitely there are conservative men who fall under that example that you said!
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 01:16 AM
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I definitely agree and I find your family’s story heartwarming! Actually the way you put it also reminds me of my father. Being wealthy is not important, it’s about having enough and some, and taking advantage of everything else there is. Time is even more important. You’ve done so well in your lives! Since you’ve prioritized time and family, it looks like you’ve done so much together, even outside work and have had great memories and experiences! :) you are both very sweet looking out for each …
/r/RedPillWives26/02/18 01:14 AM
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That is definitely a very worthy thing to want in a woman and utterly justified! Why should you ask for less? In fact anything that doesn’t fit into that isn’t really a housewife at all. A housewife is taking on the domestic work of the household and that’s that. I definitely agree and I find myself one of the very few women out of the women I know who can actually do proper housework, since I come from a culturally old fashioned family. One thing though is that, I do think the idea of women get…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 01:12 AM
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That is definitely a concern though I think with everything RPW is, it’s about the vetting and vetting well. Making sure that that woman is not like most modern women and have very similar values. Just make sure there is a complete match and that she is consistent with her values and a reliable person. You never know everything in life though of course that’s no reason to be so jaded as to never try anything.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 01:08 AM
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I definitely see where you’re coming from, and I see that you’ve outsourced some of the work. What I meant would be if the woman definitely took on board all that. Working from home does free up time that would be normally used on traveling and preparation though so it is beneficial. I also meant for women not to be at home just all the time without kids, but doing work part time when there aren’t any and then full time home when there are.
/r/RedPillWives26/02/18 01:06 AM
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When looking for a wife, I am looking for a woman who both desires and shows a high likelihood of being able to provide those things. Of course, I strive to be a man who can provide these things as well. I am definitely on board with you there and I agree with that very much! You raise a good point about children having their parents and especially their mother as a strong educator for values in the family. I think that this is not highlighted enough and now that you mention it, I think that is …
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 01:03 AM
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Western economies now have more support than ever and it’s not like the old days. People just have higher financial standards. I know somebody whose family moved to Australia in the 60s and you really had to work since there’s no backup or support. Now you do.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 12:50 AM
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Thanks for telling me your story! I definitely see where you are coming from though for me as an Australian, I definitely feel if there is an emergency financially, it wouldn’t really be that bad since in a Western country there’s a lot of support and back up, even from the government. You won’t really have to worry about ending up in the street, especially you’re a woman or have kids. There’s ways out and things to help you. Of course, it’s also your choice and you’re right, women shouldn’t be …
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 12:49 AM
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Then would you say that is fine if she works part time so she’s not home alone all day? Some women are also very introverted and may even be just fine with that too.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 12:45 AM
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That’s definitely sad about his niece! That’s kind of you both. Definitely everyone has different styles.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 12:44 AM
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I understand that, though would you also prefer a wife stay at home part time when there’s no children to completely take over the domestic work? Though of course if the kids are at school, that could mean taking up part time work again so there’s still time for housework. That’s really surprising that girls who seem more traditional can’t cook? I definitely did not have a choice in not learning how to cook and bake haha.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 12:43 AM
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I identify as a biblicist. My epistemology is simple: What does the bible say? If I have questions: "Are men and women different? How are they different? How should they function with each other?" I would consult the bible and simply believe it. That’s definitely interesting! A lot of religious people I know are living very modern gender roles (or none at all). I have religious relatives who are against women being at home, despite me quoting the Bible to them that that’s what God says! In Titus…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 12:39 AM
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I’m on board with you there and I couldn’t agree more. A wife being at home, even just working part time while there’s no children, eases a lot of time in the family and you have less stress and more quality time to spend with each other. It leads to more contentment with life. That way when men work even harder, they’re really supported and taken care of at home. May I ask about where you stand politically and your background? Is it normal for guys like you to be this way where you are or is it…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 12:34 AM
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Wow, thank you for your story! That is definitely an interesting asymmetry between the two men and I think you’re right about the political philosophy. I’m sorry about what happened in the past and I believe that was very unfair to you, though now it looks like you have something very special! Though would you think valuing a woman being at home isn’t a way of being as well? Since I think you’re saying that a woman being at home doesn’t necessarily align with the views of the left or right, you …
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 12:31 AM
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Thanks very much! I really find this interesting and I’m curious as to what I can learn
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 12:28 AM
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I could say the same for people I know and even my parents! A career takes away a warm presence at home, I believe and that can have a lot more benefits than money sometimes.
/r/RedPillWives26/02/18 12:28 AM
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Wow that is great to hear, that you’ve stuck to your values. I definitely am in the same boat with you and I believe in working to the strengths of the sexes. There is definitely more to do and I think I am one of those people who have a lot to pursue, I’m at home part time and in that time I also have other projects I do besides housework. Especially if you’re in a Western country, I believe financial resilience can be fostered through that. May I ask, how do you tell someone you’re dating or w…
/r/RedPillWives26/02/18 12:27 AM
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I myself identify as conservative and I have sort of assumed that if I did want to meet someone who values a woman being at home, he would be conservative. This is very interesting. Thanks for that!
/r/RedPillWives26/02/18 12:24 AM
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I'm not sure how to define a complicated label like "conservative." I do not self-identify as conservative or traditional, but society might label me as such. The concept of a woman being a domestic worker (for better or for worse) is common in many times and cultures. I think society would though it is interesting how you wouldn’t label yourself as conservative or traditional. In that regard, what would you regard yourself then? Or what would you say when people hear about your preference? They…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/18 02:33 PM
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This definitely makes a lot of sense and is a good point! I’m not looking though I recently discussed this with my best friend, who is also a similar woman to me and we couldn’t quite figure out where this preference goes. Most people would make the assumptions about conservative or right wing since the idea of a domestic woman at home is old fashioned. I don’t think that’s completely the case though.
/r/RedPillWives25/02/18 02:25 PM
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Oh I’m good with that too. I’m glad you understand what I’m getting at. I still think men would be the best source since that’s direct yet of course women would also know men in their lives and have some experience in that too.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/18 01:31 PM
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I definitely see that though I’m unsure where to actually ask this then. I’m happy to find the right place. My main point is just wanting to figure out whether the whole domestic woman at home preference is under a certain category for men. Is that a traditional thing? Conservative thing? RP thing? Since I initially assumed traditional, conservative men would believe in that- though some things I observed lately doesn’t seem to match that. So I’m just really wanting to see what sub section of me…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/18 01:25 PM
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Oh you really think? I didn’t want to post something too out of topic for them.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/18 01:12 PM
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Yes I am definitely the same as you. What’s your context and background? How would you identify yourself? Conservative or traditional or..? Do you know other men of a certain group or your friends that are the same? I definitely think this particular topic is more complex than most people think and I’m curious.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/18 12:59 PM
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I was simply assuming that since a lot of the RPW have more values that people would think as conservative, that many of the people here would identify as that. Of course, it’s also normal for people not to. I personally see contributions as both financial and time-wise. Domestic women save up a lot of time for quality time but of course different people have different values.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/18 12:01 PM
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Everybody has different styles. Would you say this whole idea of home/domestic women is more conservative or traditional or something else? Do you identify as any of those?
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/18 11:52 AM
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Yes I have noticed that with the timing nowadays, even more so with all that’s happening. I think that’s a good rule too, I just don’t want to sound like a villain picking on their family during this hard time , I wouldn’t even know how to begin this conversation.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/17 05:48 AM
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She cannot drive anymore but getting a taxi is not a problem for her and it’s affordable even with Uber, she gets him to do stuff big and small. Her husband is gone, passed years ago. She is very old but not sick in any way. He has, he actually has said at some point it is unfair because my father treats him well yet his mother does not with me. I’m happy to be open to suggestions.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/17 05:07 AM
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The thing is they have no other family but him. They are all in other countries and other states, though I have an idea as to why. That’s exactly what I’m worried about- his capacity as a leader can never be with that leash, I agree with you. I do worry about that. What do you suggest?
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/17 11:54 PM
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Maybe both. I know she dislikes our old fashioned lifestyle and my being a domestic woman.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/17 03:50 PM
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It definitely is and thanks for understanding. I definitely want to be sure before commitment.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/17 03:06 PM
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I want to set my foot down and set some boundaries but because of everything happening with his family now, I feel like even if I’m honest I’ll look like the bad guy who is not being empathetic. I wouldn’t even know how to start talking to him about it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/17 05:55 AM
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It is and I understand, it’s just if I don’t see an improvement I don’t think I would want to commit for marriage. This is not something I will allow in our new life. Especially if I’m expecting a proposal.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/17 05:53 AM
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Not really, I understand he is much better with these things however I don't want him to be burdened more than he has to be. We can only plan so much and there will always be variables, I know he is a worrier like me. Oh I will definitely tell him then.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 05:29 AM
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I would say try everything, but mention in your profile that you are traditional and your values are traditionally feminine. When you start dating start talking about how much you value traditional family once the topic comes up, see what he says. Of course, don't build a rapport or start dating unless he tells you he is traditional. Start on that note first. This is for more than just being a housewife, if he is a traditional man you will have an easier time agreeing on roles in and out of the …
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/17 03:59 AM
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I actually understand what you mean, you want to be taken care of. To you him paying is a sign that he wants to take care of you as a man, you're not being horrible at all. You're very traditional and that's okay. How about you take care of him in a different way that he takes care of you? If he pays for you, make him things, cook him things or do things like a shoulder rub or something. Something uniquely feminine and yours. The problem is you did start this as a friends thing, which makes it d…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 11:26 PM
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He's not making it official and can't even make up his mind to stay with you. Next.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/17 01:39 AM
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Fair enough. Though your expenses have not increased, if the amount of domestic tasks you have to do in the house increases, it's still an increase. Maybe he can try to limit his mess to his own place? That's a good plan for the future! :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/17 10:30 PM
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You're not married and you're paying both your bills? That seems a little worrying, since you don't have the full highest commitment yet. Yes but if you're working full time and trying to manage a whole household, he should be decreasing that stress and taking care of you. Don't let yourself get burnt out!
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/17 08:41 PM
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I get that he's a great guy and all, but if there is that much mess you need time and space, physically and emotionally, to get through that. You should be having more of that for yourself at home and not work as much- and he should be contributing more so that can happen. You can do what you need to do while he does what needs to be done.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/17 07:52 AM
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Congratulations honey! You'd make a wonderful mum.
/r/RedPillWives28/01/17 02:56 AM
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Omg yes I can't, I just can't with a beard. Thank goodness mine doesn't like growing one either.
/r/RedPillWives19/01/17 02:55 PM
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A big age gap like 6-7 years isn't too bad at all, just remember that girls do mature earlier than boys so even though there is seemingly a big gap you would be a lot closer when it comes to a mental state and what you want in the future.
/r/RedPillWives18/01/17 11:46 AM
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I love a man who loves the old world. Classic taste, music and values. Frank Sinatra and Frankie Valli 💯 Someone who has no initiative or strategic initiative in life is just a turn off, because you know they'll never get anywhere.
/r/RedPillWives18/01/17 11:42 AM
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Yes I feel the same way. Definitely the partner would like to see just a preview of what you'd be like as a wife before marrying you, in a way if he marries you he is saying that he wants that preview everyday, for it to be normal.
/r/RedPillWives17/01/17 11:19 PM
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I definitely believe that and one of the posts I read here the most, I've read it more than twice, is the post about vetting. Especially when it comes to dates the vetting post is very useful for me, and I do understand that it really doesn't stop even when you're in a relationship, all the way until marriage.
/r/RedPillWives17/01/17 11:13 PM
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Yes, that's along the lines of what I meant. Those are very minimal things while the second paragraph is a lot more serious. That was exactly what I meant. I would definitely not let my boyfriend make big or life changing decisions at all unless there's a ring on my finger!
/r/RedPillWives17/01/17 11:11 PM
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OH. Right. Haha :) I've never heard of this before though? But thanks for clarifying!
/r/RedPillWives17/01/17 11:09 PM
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Thanks so much! I read through the whole post and the interactions below it, this definitely clears up the points for me and once again, thank you for the link. :) You have spent so much time explaining to me and being thorough, I'm very grateful!
/r/RedPillWives17/01/17 11:08 PM
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Yes, the vetting pages are my favourite, I do read it periodically, especially when I'm on dates! :)
/r/RedPillWives17/01/17 11:01 PM
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I see, thanks for clarifying that for me. Thank you for the link as well, I was looking for a post of that nature as well! :) I understand now, since I have read about those qualities before, having read them here I wasn't sure if they were just merely connected to being married, knowing that most of the topics discussed here is in relation to married couples (most though not tall). That really makes a lot of sense! Of course, it's definitely not about blindly following orders, I don't think I e…
/r/RedPillWives17/01/17 11:00 PM
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That is quite true. I think in a relationship I would do it minimally. Like, let him decide generally (not always, and only if he's good at it) where we go on dates or if I don't know what to order he can order for me. Though nothing major or serious. I saw your last edit: Damn straight!
/r/RedPillWives17/01/17 02:47 PM
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Good point, I think there definitely is a clear distinction between deferring and general submission, as well simply being submissive. Because I would think a man can still lead in a relationship even if they weren't married. They can still be captain/first mate but on a smaller scale.
/r/RedPillWives17/01/17 02:41 PM
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Well you're right! Probably should cut back on the negative self talk but I didn't want to offend anyone. Ohhhh that makes a lot of sense! :) I'm guessing you're saying when it comes to choices and preferences that sort of thinking generally applies. Would you still be submitting in any way to a partner though? On a lesser level or would that not really be submitting? Oh and I'm not going to do negative self talk but this is going to be a funny question: what does laying down the pipe mean? I'm …
/r/RedPillWives17/01/17 02:29 PM
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Ah, true! That is definitely a good goal :) I think I've read a lot about the maintaining marriage health here, though do we have any posts on securing commitment or anything like that? Or would that be more in Red Pill Women? I can't get enough of reading this stuff!
/r/RedPillWives17/01/17 02:15 PM
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This is going to sound stupid (it will), but how would you describe the way you would treat a husband vs a partner? Because, wouldn't you be aiming to be a really great partner in your relationship so that it would be remain that way (even more as a foundation) once you are married?
/r/RedPillWives17/01/17 02:13 PM
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You're right about that, yeah. The vetting process is definitely quite important.
/r/RedPillWives17/01/17 02:12 PM
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There isn't an exact science, for sure, since everybody is so different. What I was curious about is, would there be general differences in how you approach RPW depending on where the relationship is at? Those three values definitely are a classic.
/r/RedPillWives17/01/17 02:06 PM
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That is a sad fact. :/
/r/RedPillWives17/01/17 02:04 PM
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Oh sorry! I truly meant defer and I guess what I said sounded more general and assumes wrongly. My apologies! That's what I meant, trusting that he can make great decisions but also knowing that you are the trusted advisor and on many of the important issues you have equal input. Of course he would always be asking your opinion as first mate as well, not just commanding this or not. You put it much better. Would you do all those things though, outside of a marriage too? I mean, when it comes to …
/r/RedPillWives17/01/17 02:03 PM
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Oh of course, I think that is a good way to look at it. By going do you mean like a ONS or an actual relationship?
/r/RedPillWives17/01/17 01:59 PM
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That sounds like a good way to approach it, especially since finances are a must to talk about in relationships. Though what about the whole RP theory on letting a man take charge and make decisions for you? I do think that is submitting, in a way. Should that be something the unmarried couples would do? I mean the emotional side of things.
/r/RedPillWives17/01/17 01:49 PM
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Oh I see! That definitely makes sense. So when it comes to submitting, at what level should a fiancé or girlfriend be submitting, depending on the length of the relationship? Since I think most of the topics about submission on here definitely refers to marriage almost all the time (which of course makes sense). Definitely the wife would find it easier too, while the opposite would need some time to learn, you're right!
/r/RedPillWives17/01/17 01:43 PM
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I think this also applies beyond women. People are just more disconnected and depressed in general, but it tends to happen to women on a large basis. I believe this is because there is less fulfilment, happiness normally gained by non material things such as family and children. This modern liberal society pushes people to be 'individuals', women are being forced out of the home, and they are now more stressed than ever. Children are being raised by surrogates and in the end people cling to mone…
/r/RedPillWives01/01/17 03:13 AM
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Look at some books by Vox Day or Ben Shapiro
/r/RedPillWives01/01/17 02:55 AM
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That is true, I guess that narrows her dating field a lot. But I think what matters to her, and to me as well, is that a future partner wants and intends to have a traditional family because that is in their values. That would be the goal, in a way. But that is still a good path to go, at the moment I'm still actually looking for ways to work at home because the travel time is taking a toll on me. Was your partner very positive towards a traditional marriage?
/r/RedPillWives08/12/16 06:06 AM
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I believe I wasn't clearer earlier on the FR, I was not endorsing LARPing, which was what they had taken it to be. I have clarified this in the OP. I was merely talking of using some good etiquette and being able to dress in the feminine way I want to.
/r/RedPillWives08/12/16 01:56 AM
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Coming from you? Oh no, no. I'd rather listen to someone with actual class and a bit of knowledge.
/r/RedPillWives08/12/16 01:51 AM
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LARPing? Yes because being a lady with good taste and manners is too good to be actually true. Considering your attitude, I'm surprised you've never met any. A real lady doesn't have time for bitter cucks.
/r/RedPillWives08/12/16 01:46 AM
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I think we already know the answer to that one, but sure I think she should do that! It would be a little cheeky but it proves a good point. That statement. Right there. So much truth! Most women are better equipped, people just need to admit it? It's in our biology. Liberal politics have driven us so far from our biological nature and it's had heavy consequences.
/r/RedPillWives07/12/16 11:29 PM
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It isn't, I'm not saying it is. You can have RP values and not dress the way I do, I just like an old-fashioned way of dress to go along with it. Of course women can try what I did and see the results, I'm not saying they should. Is it so odd that I'm just finally expressing myself in the way I dress? I don't think it invalidates my RP values at all. It's not just about normal men, it's good men. Good women having good relationships with good men.
/r/RedPillWives07/12/16 10:54 PM
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I have and I recommended she have a look. She's not very active online but my guess is she would start lurking around here, haha. I definitely know how that feels, I've felt a sense of relief since I joined this group. At first...I really couldn't believe it existed! Then I noticed that I believed in a lot of RPW values and tenets.
/r/RedPillWives07/12/16 08:48 PM
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I have told her that, but she really dislikes her work and want to escape during lunch, she just likes to take a walk by herself and feel as if she's not there. I'm concerned for her, because I can sense she is only getting more and more miserable...
/r/RedPillWives07/12/16 11:31 AM
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That's true, so you think guys who are really traditional wouldn't care if she only worked part time from the very beginning? I know already some guys would be hateful of that because of the negative stereotypes libs keep pushing, the whole dependent, weak, greedy thing. I think she would like to hear this too, I'll call her again. I called her back already and she is already feeling much better because of everyone's messages here.
/r/RedPillWives07/12/16 11:28 AM
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Hahahahhaha. All the Blue Pill poppers that are basically women cosplaying men will start clucking and harping away now. Please. You have to have an actual brain first for it to explode.
/r/RedPillWives07/12/16 04:44 AM
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That would make sense, definitely. I wish we had that confidence and not just caring. Though I can see what she worries about too, though not to the same extent. We are at an age where we are expected to do certain things and we both want traditional families. This is a prime for us, which comes with some pressures. By being a RP woman I already chose to let go of most of the 'should's, sometimes it's just mostly 'how's. But the stress monster, oh I'm familiar with that.
/r/RedPillWives07/12/16 01:36 AM
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Ah, we have both been trying to find paid work, actually. But sadly there doesn't seem to be full time paid work around that is straight from home. I'm still always looking and I've got some suggestions from here but I'm still searching. She's also a bit cautious that if she only works part time from home she will have a harder time being accepted by everyone and with dating, because she will look more dependent. Though I know she would much happier this way. She and I disagree about this becaus…
/r/RedPillWives07/12/16 12:05 AM
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It is, she definitely feels out of place there now, and I don't think she will spend lunches in the lunch room there anymore. I am just disappointed that the reaction was basically discriminatory and disrespectful towards her. I was hoping a little more neutrality.
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 08:39 PM
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Damn straight.
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 08:36 PM
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Surely there are some ways to save or shift prerogatives in the family so you can be a SAHM? I know a lot of blogs that have great advice for saving and stretching every dollar, I think somebody here spoke about investment options as well so you can grow your own funds. I think that is what my cousin would do, she would never stay at work and hand off her children for someone else to raise. She would never do that, and I wouldn't either. I think she made a false judgement on how people will just…
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 08:35 PM
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Omg! I don't live in the U.K., thank goodness. But I also live somewhere quite liberal. I'd hate for that to happen to my future family, I almost can't believe that this happens there, it's such a violation of personal freedom and the choice to have an alternative lifestyle. What I've heard is that in America it is much better because of the strong right wing presence. I'm so sorry this has happened to you, I hope it will change one day or if there's even a chance, I would fight for it. A tradit…
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 08:31 PM
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It was etiquette I was taught as a child. I didn't know it was so negative now..
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 07:51 PM
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Ohhh yes I was definitely thinking along the lines of that. I blatantly told her to tell her coworkers to get f*cked if they bring it up next time. Not seriously, but in the best way she can without being fired. I don't think she minds, she just wants children in general, as long as it's not just one. She was an only child and that made it very lonely for her, she doesn't want that for her children. I recall mentioning to her once she could be restricted financially in her choices, but then she …
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 01:14 PM
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I did tell her about that being an RP woman and generally traditional is a hard road to go on, I am not that surprised that her colleagues treated her that way. I did hope that they were more neutral and dismissive rather than berating. She doesn't even like her work and it just made it all the more worse for her. That is definitely great advice, it will sound a little harsh but I will just tell her to keep things to herself, even from some family members of ours that are just a little intoleran…
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 01:05 PM
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Not really. She used to be, but dropped it as she got older.
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 12:50 PM
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You're right. It also applies when I'm laughing I don't like opening my mouth too much and showing so much teeth.
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 12:50 PM
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I do. Should I edit the message and clarify it a little more? Like I mentioned, I felt more liberated in my femininity dressing this way, I've always wanted to dress to reflect my inner femininity. Maybe I should add this, since it wasn't clear enough.
/r/RedPillWives05/12/16 09:04 PM
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GET IT. It's so good! She has more than one book I think. It's cheap on Book Depository.
/r/RedPillWives05/12/16 08:46 PM
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Of course, dress is just one part and you don't want to be cosplaying. For me dressing this way made it feel more comfortable for me to 'free' my innermost femininity, I feel the clothes reflected it well. But the inner femininity needs to be there for that to happen, of course.
/r/RedPillWives05/12/16 08:44 PM
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Thank you! :) I feel that dressing his way has made it easier for me to be open about my true femininity, like it's a mirror of how my femininity is. Does that sound weird? Haha. I'm not sure how else to explain it. Exactly! I always hear my coworkers whining about how men aren't polite anymore and chivalrous but then walk down with large steps, a commanding cape-thing with work pants and a serious stare like on the catwalk. That's not how it works! Oh I haven't heard of these before, I will goo…
/r/RedPillWives05/12/16 08:43 PM
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Thank you! :) this is such an encouraging message, I guess I've been putting off what I've wanted to wear for a long time, I've been collecting these vintage clothes for a while. I let my fears and cautious nature talk me out of wearing what I really want. What if I don't fit in? What if I look childish and young? Especially in a business scene. But now I finally let that go. For me it's not just because I dressed this way that I feel feminine, I feel dressing this way has...freed my innermost f…
/r/RedPillWives05/12/16 08:39 PM
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Okay let me clear this up, I don't blow my nose into the handkerchief, haha! That's rule no. 1. I just used to wipe away sweat and to cover my mouth if I'm talking with my mouth full. I guess for me the vintage style resonates in the inside too, because I've always felt extremely feminine and this dress style reflects that more than the modern dress. At least, that's how I feel, it just reflects more of it.
/r/RedPillWives05/12/16 08:35 PM
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Plainly I don't like the fashions of the time, it's a little boring to me and at times sexy in the wrong way. I don't want a normal man, I want an old fashioned one that could become my captain one day.
/r/RedPillWives05/12/16 08:34 PM
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I agree attitude and dress go hand in hand.
/r/RedPillWives05/12/16 08:33 PM
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Thanks! :) So it was Jane Austen's Guide To Good Manners and Helen Andelin's Fascinating Womanhood. I think when you dress like it, dress like a lady I mean, you will feel more like one. It will come a lot more naturally, though for me it was actually liberating because I am instinctually very feminine.
/r/RedPillWives05/12/16 02:28 AM
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"I wish my parents used birth control."
/r/RedPillWives04/12/16 09:01 PM
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Oh I see! I think I have done so already and he has reacted positively to that. Though I could go over it a little more, it's actually funny because he likes my hobbies. I work with crafts and sewing, he also admires how I spend time with family and treasure them. I should talk about the savings I make, they're just so normal to me it must have slipped my mind! Yes I do feel some joys of it, before I used to be much more content when I was a full time homemaker but now I work full time and I can…
/r/RedPillWives03/12/16 10:41 PM
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Oh this is such an interesting concept! I am quite new to this concept but would you be able to explain exactly how you applied FI/RE? How much of your income did you save? Since I do pay bills and give some money to my family too to help out, as I live with them. I don't get too much left, I try to keep some for hobbies or essentials and whatnot. But that sounds like a really good idea! :) That is a great way of looking at it and talking about it! I know he and I definitely agree that liberalis…
/r/RedPillWives03/12/16 12:58 AM
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Oh I know that feeling, I used to get treatments at the dermatologist and I would be a red-face for a whole day. It's definitely worth it though and in a couple of days you will look just glorious!
/r/RedPillWives02/12/16 09:34 AM
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Oh wow! :) I still live with family so I can save and of course, I love spending time with them. We are very close. I guess I'm somewhat medium, I'm frugal with some things and other things sort of. What do you mean financially independent and have enough time for family? If I heard that, I would think that you wanted to be a career woman or something. Or maybe I misunderstood :P I just feel a little cautious since I don't think I can be with a man that doesn't treasure a traditional family, it'…
/r/RedPillWives02/12/16 03:32 AM
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Ah great question! I would definitely take care of everything in the home, the cooking and cleaning, making sure he is pampered when he gets home in the evening. Also, if I have more time I will definitely help some charities/volunteering or even make crafts for the home. Budgeting as well. Bookkeeping. I would be comfortable working a very small amount, maybe babysitting or even writing online part time. But I want most of the time to be for the home. He doesn't like cleaning and he barely cook…
/r/RedPillWives01/12/16 09:24 PM
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Ooooh now I'm excited! :D Thank you for the warm welcome! Let me have a look at that thread, I was quite interested in the crafts one too. I have some Christmas crafts going on..
/r/RedPillWives01/12/16 08:36 PM
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Oh thank you! :) I think I will definitely do that.
/r/RedPillWives01/12/16 08:35 PM
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That's true! We've already been in a few dates and we haven't touched on that...simply because we talk so much about our values. Our politics. Which are all a complete match. I know that he does like the difference between men and women, he strongly believes in being a traditional man, he also had great role models that were old fashioned. You don't think the question is too much? Though I'm not sure if having a housewife would be something he would want in a family...
/r/RedPillWives01/12/16 08:32 PM
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Yes it is! Besides practising a feminine psychology I also love to glam it up physically! :) I will find those threads!
/r/RedPillWives01/12/16 08:29 PM
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Your 'bad' definitely has some good in it. I know some women really complain about not having me time, you can definitely take advantage of this! I know I would.
/r/RedPillWives01/12/16 11:55 AM
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Good: I will be having a wonderful date this weekend and I am looking forward to it! I don't know know how things will progress though, hmm. But I am still excited anyway. Oh and waiting for some really nice things I ordered in the mail, some books and games. Bad: I still haven't gotten my eyelashes refilled this week, I need to find a new place! Ugly: Well...I'm still back at work next week. Whoo, while my house deteriorates with no one taking care of it.
/r/RedPillWives01/12/16 11:53 AM
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Hello! I loooove your blog :D
/r/RedPillWives01/12/16 10:58 AM
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Ooh, yeah that can be quite nerve wracking. :/ When I'm in such situations I like to assume some sort of persona, pretend I'm not myself for a moment. Just to distance myself from the nervousness. Who do I tune? I channel Audrey Hepburn or Julie Andrews. Confident but not loud, quick to smile but not too chatty. Sits down straight and makes eye contact. Holds things with grace (especially platters and drinks). This sounds silly but it works, pretend that you're part Princess just for a little wh…
/r/RedPillWives01/12/16 07:12 AM
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Oh thanks! Well I was wanting to ask how can I figure out if the guy I'm seeing is old fashioned enough to want a housewife? I don't think I can eventually marry somebody who doesn't treasure traditional marriage. :)
/r/RedPillWives01/12/16 07:08 AM
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This is going to sound funny but... I would love the new Holiday Collection by Kylie Jenner :) The new game Root Letter A vintage dress!
/r/RedPillWives01/12/16 07:07 AM
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When Japanese people spend a lot of time working making these apps and even robot companions...I can't help but think of the irony.
/r/RedPillWives01/12/16 06:42 AM
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I'm always super inspired by Lauren Southern. She is direct, truthful and also pretty! Everything a feminist isn't.
/r/RedPillWives01/12/16 06:40 AM
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:) TY!
/r/RedPillWives01/12/16 04:25 AM
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Haha I guess I was a little nervous? :D Okay well do I ask it on here or start a proper ask thread with a more appropriate title?
/r/RedPillWives01/12/16 02:37 AM
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Oh yes, that makes sense! I was actually about to ask if I should just add that whole new comment I had written down and edit this main post. Got it!
/r/RedPillWives01/12/16 02:20 AM
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Oh sure I can! So I found this through Iris and Oleander's blog. I've been just looking for blogs or any forums that have more traditional views on women, men and relationships. I also like What's Wrong With Equal Rights? By Radical. Having read about RPW recently I admire the way that it treasures psychological femininity. I understood it as a women being the first mate, submissive but not weak and letting men take the lead. A yin and yang sort of relationship, which is always tried and true. I…
/r/RedPillWives01/12/16 02:07 AM
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Oh thanks for the warm welcome and pointing me in the right direction! :D I think I might do a field report, I've actually had a bit of a love life thing happening lately. Yes I also have some ideas on femininity, psychological femininity. Thank you again!
/r/RedPillWives01/12/16 01:55 AM
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Thanks for this, I definitely accept that this is a serious thing. I don’t see him standing up to her at all and I know she is using this hard situation to keep asking him to do things, because otherwise he will feel guilty that he isn’t looking after his family.
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For me, I just want him to not forget self-care in the whole process. There is only so much we can plan in our lives.
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I understand that and I know he will know when to ask me for support, however I just want him to know that I worry about him, I don't want this to end up crippling or harming him instead of doing good, as is what's planning is supposed to do. Of course, I also want to ease these pressures, so it doesn't affect him more than it needs to.
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