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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 7 | My learning experience | Inner Game | TinyTumbleweed553 | /r/seduction | 14/02/21 11:43 PM |
| 5 | Charmer vs Nice guy? | Fundamentals | TinyTumbleweed553 | /r/seduction | 06/02/21 09:33 PM |
| 0 | How do i tell a woman that if she wants to talk it’s going to have to be in person? | Removed: Specific Situation | TinyTumbleweed553 | /r/seduction | 05/02/21 05:44 AM |
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| 39 | Putting the "nice guy" vs "jerk" vs "kind" debate to rest. [Part 1]wish i had this a month ago... | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Charmer vs Nice guy?I do like to do nice things but i don't have the mind set of it entitling me to anything. I do feel good from doing something nice for a woman that i like. Is that still being a nice guy? I also try to make a woman happy through positivity, humor, being fun via activities, etc. I can't tell what that makes me. | /r/seduction | 08/02/21 12:22 AM |
| 1 | She is not replying to your texts? MOVE ON instantly.Having trouble getting to step 2. | /r/seduction | 06/02/21 05:20 AM |
| 1 | How do i tell a woman that if she wants to talk it’s going to have to be in person?We've met 3 times, 2 dates and then once at her place last week. She said she's sick and doesn't want me to see her weak side(her words). I don't really care if she looks or sounds like shit, i just want to see her. We don't even have to do anything. At the very least it can't be that bad if she's able to take walks in the park. When she called me earlier and we talked about this friday she said she probably wouldn't be able to. I told her "oh that's too bad, i had something planned in mind" she… | /r/seduction | 05/02/21 02:58 PM |
| 1 | The most surefire way to botch a new relationship is by becoming too overly invested in it prior to the other person matching your investment.I think she does have feelings for me but i also think she's still trying to figure out what those feelings are. With what i said to her last thursday she probably got a little scared that it was moving too fast. I think she's looking at this from a long term relationship-marriage standpoint and probably wants to slow down to be sure that this is right. Our feelings have been 100% matching through reciprocation. We've been saying "i like you", "i miss you", "you make me happy", "you can hug/ hol… | /r/seduction | 04/02/21 02:07 AM |
| 1 | The most surefire way to botch a new relationship is by becoming too overly invested in it prior to the other person matching your investment.Couple questions. What if she stops chasing me? Do i then need to start chasing back? Or is it already over at that point because it should never have gotten to the point of me having to chase her back? For example she chased me but i was boring so she stopped. I thought you are suppose to keep a woman in suspense and not tell her directly how you feel? For example i already messed up last week while we were making out by telling her that having met her was the best thing to have happened to me … | /r/seduction | 04/02/21 12:25 AM |
| 2 | The most surefire way to botch a new relationship is by becoming too overly invested in it prior to the other person matching your investment.No i get what you're saying and it is something i have thought about although i try not to let it bother me if it is indeed true. I guess i need to stop caring/obsessing about her so much and just see what happens, within reason(i have expectations: sex, relationship/exclusivity). She does tell me about her entire day, outings with friends etc. I even have her class schedule which makes up most of her day(she wanted to give it to me). What i'm trying to say is that she really keeps me in the loo… | /r/seduction | 04/02/21 12:05 AM |
| 2 | The most surefire way to botch a new relationship is by becoming too overly invested in it prior to the other person matching your investment.If that's true then i'm kind of shocked and hurt. I didn't even ask but she even told me that she doesn't really meet guys out like this. From what i can tell her circle is all women. I didn't and still can't see this girl as a player. We call each other late at night and i'm literally the last person she talks to before sleeping. She initiates more calls and texts than i do. Maybe i'm just too gullible. | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 11:12 PM |
| 4 | The most surefire way to botch a new relationship is by becoming too overly invested in it prior to the other person matching your investment.I really didn't think she was that kind of person, she's ridiculously shy to the point where when i look at her she shys away. | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 09:38 PM |
| 5 | The most surefire way to botch a new relationship is by becoming too overly invested in it prior to the other person matching your investment.The thing is last night she wanted to call me and on the phone she told me she missed me. She was sick so after the call i said "i hope you feel better, let me know if i can do anything" and she replied with "i need you" but then retracted it with "i'm kidding" and "thank you". I feel like she retracted that because she's shy or insecure? Does that sound like someone who wants to be friends with you? | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 09:27 PM |
| 3 | The most surefire way to botch a new relationship is by becoming too overly invested in it prior to the other person matching your investment.that would explain some of what happened later that day... During our making out i told her meeting her was the best thing to have happened to me. Later in the night i get the weirdest text from her asking "how many girls have you liked before". I guess i'm dumb but i said that i haven't liked anyone in the past few years and so when i met her it felt very strange to like someone again. I told her that i really liked her. I then told her i didn't need to know about her previous relationships or … | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 09:16 PM |
| 3 | The most surefire way to botch a new relationship is by becoming too overly invested in it prior to the other person matching your investment.I made out with this woman back at her place and to be honest it's all a blur looking back. I'm honestly not sure if i forced her a little or not. She's super shy. I was holding her hand while we were watching something, i looked at her and she shied away. A few seconds later i looked at her again, got closer and went for a kiss, our first one. She didn't pull away so that's good. A few seconds into the kissing i stopped to reassess the situation. I think there was something in the air at that p… | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 09:03 PM |
| 6 | The most surefire way to botch a new relationship is by becoming too overly invested in it prior to the other person matching your investment.Assuming a woman likes you but is trying to figure out whether she really likes you, does going for sex earlier in the "let's go on dates" phase increase the chance of a relationship with said woman? I'm asking because you said sex bonds people and women are emotion based. On the flip side can it backfire by pushing for sex too early? | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 08:19 PM |
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