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| 3 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.Yes (if they are actually harmful and not based on someone's unhealed opinions). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 07:32 AM |
| 6 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.I don't know or care about this woman. I don't know anyone who cares or talks about this woman. I know plenty feminists. Feel free to share screenshots of this hate you're seeing though. People being held accountable for vile actions shouldn't be a feminist only concept btw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 06:17 AM |
| 13 | Why do women dislike the bottom 50% of men?Most women I know truly don't care especially enough to "attack". Just don't make it our problem, and we're good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 05:10 PM |
| 0 | Women fail to understand the sheer scale of emotional labor men perform for women.So you're waxing poetic because you and your son have overindulged in internet brain rot? Decent people exist everywhere and of every gender. Teach your son to love himself first and stop worrying about external validation. Teach him how to seek genuine connections and to be self-satisfied. As a parent, do better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 05:58 AM |
| 0 | Women fail to understand the sheer scale of emotional labor men perform for women.Why do you care if you're already married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Let's say something nice about the opposite sex.I like the way men can be comforting protectors. Men who can respect you and make sure you are safe from the physical chaos of the world by their caring gestures are -chef’s kiss-. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 02:13 AM |
| 2 | The fact that men are more lustful towards women is not actually a disadvantage but an advantage for women.In what you wrote, what part increases a woman’s safety? What part establishes her individual personhood? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 02:40 PM |
| 0 | Women's brains have been FRIED by social media and OLDI think your brain is fried OP. Disconnect a little. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Do women have guys they want to fuck but not want to date?Yes, some of us do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 01:37 AM |
| 2 | We're headed toward rich get richer in the dating market aka PolygynyThe only troll here is you. I’m not vetting articles to support someone’s unsupported claims when they’ve supposedly already done the research. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Does virgin-shaming exist?Umm ok. I didn’t have sex until my 20s. I’m not writing sad stories about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 07:57 PM |
| 0 | Does virgin-shaming exist?Umm I was asking a question. And if you have sex and someone dismisses you, it’s up to you how you feel about it. If it was a strictly sexual situation, what does it matter? If it was an actual relationship, maybe you care more. You’re projecting a lot onto a question that was asked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 07:56 PM |
| 0 | Does virgin-shaming exist?Women (or anyone) being free to choose who they sleep with is freedom of choice. I genuinely don’t understand how Jewish people are to blame for women not wanting to sleep with these men/virgins that say they’re being shamed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 07:53 PM |
| -5 | Does virgin-shaming exist?How are you blaming Jewish people for freedom of choice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 03:51 AM |
| 0 | Does virgin-shaming exist?So...she still slept with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 03:51 AM |
| 1 | We're headed toward rich get richer in the dating market aka PolygynyIf y'all put in half the energy you do creating the false equivalent think pieces into being someone ready to date, you'd have the family y'all so desperately crave by now. This is exhausting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 03:46 AM |
| 1 | We're headed toward rich get richer in the dating market aka PolygynyPolyamory is a form of Ethical Non Monogamy. The ethical being not taking away someone's autonomy to opt in or what their body is exposed to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 03:43 AM |
| 2 | We're headed toward rich get richer in the dating market aka PolygynyThen share the peer reviewed links. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 03:40 AM |
| 6 | We're headed toward rich get richer in the dating market aka PolygynyYou're comparing money to a human's freedom? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Women make it very stressful for men to stay singleJust admit y'all only like a certain subset of women already. There are plenty of women who have never dated or long gaps in dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 06:35 PM |
| 0 | Male vs Female Mating Strategy Is Really Younger vs Older Mating StrategyHard disagree, but you are allowed to think how you think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 07:48 PM |
| 1 | The Plummeting Birthrate Is Only Really Going To Only Affect Feminist Women.CuckCake seems to be a trans nonbinary according to their profile, so I avoided trying to use gendered language in case that was some kind of gotcha. But in all honesty, I wouldn’t even continue dialogue with them IRL let alone sleep with them. They seem utterly exhausting. I was genuinely hoping they were some obnoxious bot 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 09:11 PM |
| 4 | The Plummeting Birthrate Is Only Really Going To Only Affect Feminist Women.So, you don’t have a family of your own? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 04:02 PM |
| 3 | The Plummeting Birthrate Is Only Really Going To Only Affect Feminist Women.Without feminism, women wouldn’t be able to vote, have assets, have access to birth control, or otherwise be considered capable people in society. Women have proven that feminism AND motherhood (and marriage) can coexist. Women just want the CHOICE to do these things not be forced into them. These concepts do not and have not ruined societies. The lack of viable partners has. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 04:00 PM |
| 1 | The Plummeting Birthrate Is Only Really Going To Only Affect Feminist Women.So instead of answering my questions, you went on a rant about feminism…and you wonder how I inferred you see feminism as your enemy. The small brain might be right where you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 03:57 PM |
| 5 | The Plummeting Birthrate Is Only Really Going To Only Affect Feminist Women.Curious why feminism is your enemy? Do YOU have children? Are you creating your own little army of indoctrinated thinkers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 03:13 PM |
| 1 | The Plummeting Birthrate Is Only Really Going To Only Affect Feminist Women.The world is overpopulated and has been for a while. I truly don’t care if people cease to exist as a species. We are insignificant in the vast scheme of things. Earth and the galaxy will continue on without us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 02:54 PM |
| 1 | The end result in society is women practically being amazoniansThe male vs women divide is most definitely exaggerated online. I know 3x more couples than single people IRL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 12:32 AM |
| 4 | The end result in society is women practically being amazoniansI love that he stated this as if there were no barriers to women in these positions. Women in STEM have always had their work stolen or been discredited. Women firefighters have been vocal about the abuse the experience on the job. To work AND deal with manbabies is a real challenge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 12:29 AM |
| 4 | The end result in society is women practically being amazoniansCorrection, humans are destroying the current environment. The planet will be fine. It existed before humans and will exist when we cease to exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 12:27 AM |
| 16 | If what Woman say is true, why it doesn't show in media?Listen, I waited a lifetime to see a queer unambiguously black woman like me thrive in the mainstream media. It doesn’t mean we never existed. What insane logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 12:11 AM |
| 13 | If what Woman say is true, why it doesn't show in media?But also, all lot of media is created by men. They tend to be out of touch when writing (about) women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 12:10 AM |
| 1 | This sub's understanding of the 'average person' is flawed.What work besides physical fitness is being done? I swear so many men here think if they get buff or something, they would get better results, and women just don’t want a buff pillow to sleep with. I barely see men talking about working on their personality etc. here. IRL, I have seen men of various backgrounds, experiences, sexualities etc be successful when they try dating. I went to an engineering school full of autistic men, men who didn’t take care of personal hygiene, and men who treat wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 07:02 PM |
| -2 | The fact that most women don't want to date bisexual men is a great litmus test to show how much women actually do care about male gender roles. Contrary to popular beliefs.Lol most of my friends are definitely too adventurous sexually to care. I've dated a bi man and was together with him nearly a decade. If you're bi and are mad the women you like don't like you, evaluate your preferences better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 04:33 AM |
| – | Women aren't a hivemind, but they do have an almost unconditional solidarity for each other that muddies the waters.And it’s not true or based on facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Women: Why are you unable / unwilling to understand why most men consider "hookup/FWB material" more validating than "husband material" given that you put the FWB/hookup guys in a way more exclusive, privileged, elite club?Yes and have. I genuinely only care how someone treated their expartners (along with broader compatibility). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 03:37 PM |
| 2 | This sub's understanding of the 'average person' is flawed.I think because the average man on Reddit does not equal the average man in reality, they just spew their less than average experiences in an echo chamber instead of working on themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 11:19 PM |
| 1 | This sub's understanding of the 'average person' is flawed.You do realize while you fill in data gaps with personal assumptions, it’s no longer statistically true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Women: Why are you unable / unwilling to understand why most men consider "hookup/FWB material" more validating than "husband material" given that you put the FWB/hookup guys in a way more exclusive, privileged, elite club?Men are insecure but choose to constantly make that someone else’s problem. The only one who can work thru one’s insecurity is themself. I think people who feel like OP should work thru things alone before dating because they’ll weigh down an otherwise healthy relationship questioning things that don’t matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Women: Why are you unable / unwilling to understand why most men consider "hookup/FWB material" more validating than "husband material" given that you put the FWB/hookup guys in a way more exclusive, privileged, elite club?So instead of focusing on the fact that you ARE in a relationship, you focus on who she’s hypothetically wanted to date? Like, why even date at this point. There are plenty of women who don’t do casual sex, but you’re clearly not attracted to them. I don’t see them making scathing remarks on it. I’ve been celibate for 2.5 years before and not once worried about who other hypothetical people were sleeping with. I used to time to better myself and focus inward. I suggest you do the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 02:06 AM |
| – | Women: Why are you unable / unwilling to understand why most men consider "hookup/FWB material" more validating than "husband material" given that you put the FWB/hookup guys in a way more exclusive, privileged, elite club?Yeah really wake up and complain about anything cause what are you even saying? Have you ever actually dated someone before? Why do you care so much about what someone who isn’t sleeping with you doing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 01:28 AM |
| 6 | The entitlement of certain autistic men is bafflingAs an autistic woman, it’s just hard to date. I’m conventionally attractive to a certain demographic, but I always end up being “too much”. It gets exhausting and sometimes isolating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Women do not fall for "manipulation" as much as they want to think they doSo based on your personal experience with the male inmate population, you made a genetic and global observation about women worldwide…hmmm. Unless you are an inmate or want to date these women, your “logic” seems illogical at best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Quick reference guide to debunking myths spread by the manosphereI find these men don't want facts, they want an echo chamber. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 12:20 AM |
| 3 | If women like different men, why are there so many men not liked by anyone?Because no one is owed a relationship, and these men don't like them. Consent is an important factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 01:02 AM |
| – | Women have baggage because of men, wow things finally make senseSo that YOU feel better. Therapy shouldn't be done to impress other people lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 04:00 AM |
| 4 | Women have baggage because of men, wow things finally make senseI mean, or you can work through letting go some of it in therapy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Women only use natural selection to attack men forgetting it consequences won't be decent for themWhat men are ostracized? How are you defining that?.. Because it seems like you're equating excluding someone because of their actions to oppression and I doubt that's what you meant. Additionally, what is your suggested solution to this "hypocrisy"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 01:34 AM |
| – | The standards of what is considered cheating today makes monogamous relationships and marriages not worth itI don't think any of these things are new, just more talked about. The only definitions that matter are the ones you and your partner form. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 07:32 PM |
| 9 | Women only use natural selection to attack men forgetting it consequences won't be decent for themWhat? I'm truly confused how you think the math adds up on this one. And since you do, what are you proposing as a solution or alternative? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 06:13 AM |
| – | Expecting autistic men to mask and upgrade their entire lives, especially dating, while not even giving them a chance or ever trying to approach them is hypocritical and illiberal.As a late stage diagnosed autistic woman (Asperger's end of the spectrum), where are you getting these "facts"? Autism is HARD period. Dating with autism, hell making and maintaining friends as a person with autism is hard. Autistic women often experience a lifetime of having their struggles invalidated (especially if they weren't diagnosed early). I'm genuinely curious if you are going off of lived opinion or some factual data? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sI said nothing about hate. But if you only see the toxic side of them, don't date them is all I meant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 07:51 AM |
| -1 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sThen don't date women? If all you have is negatives to say about them, just leave them alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 07:00 AM |
| 0 | There Is No "Friendzone", You Can Stop Pretending to be Friends At Any TimeThen why does the friendship lose value if the feelings aren’t returned? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Nice guys are given contradictory advice that keeps them in a loop and never answers their predicamentMost “nice guys” are entitled anuses. Being a decent human does not mean you deserve a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themMost women don’t consider men when they dress. We usually want to look cute enough that we feel confident in the crowd. Men can sexualize anything, so this dressing to accentuate argument is irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 09:30 AM |
| – | Men offer nothing to women but still expect women to want themThanks MalePsychopath! It's not a lie. It seems it was true until things shifted around Covid hopefully some looks into this factor). It IS very interesting to see some of the literal "happiness" data points shift with time as women gain more equality in earnings and rights. It's a cool rabbit hole to go down. If curious, read about the women's happiness paradox and look into the data on overall health and life span for these same demographics. I see you're a red pill man, so I'm probably just t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Men offer nothing to women but still expect women to want themThere's a reason women who are unmarried and have no kids are happier/live longer. They only have to carry the emotional load of themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 04:53 AM |
| 3 | If marriage benefits men more than women, why are women always the ones pressuring their partner into marriage?You sound young and ignorant and clearly not a woman. Please be an angry incel somewhere else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 07:49 PM |
| 3 | If marriage benefits men more than women, why are women always the ones pressuring their partner into marriage?I mean, IDK where you live, but in the US (for example), the legislation is doing just that. Feel free to live in a bubble of ignorance if you want to, but I won't pretend this isn't an actual thing going on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 08:04 PM |
| 1 | If marriage benefits men more than women, why are women always the ones pressuring their partner into marriage?This is an unhinged take. No sex or gender is a monolith that equals the totality of society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 04:56 PM |
| 1 | If marriage benefits men more than women, why are women always the ones pressuring their partner into marriage?Society isn’t a specific gender. Not sure why it’s hard to understand what is meant by a word that has a definition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 10:47 PM |
| 24 | If marriage benefits men more than women, why are women always the ones pressuring their partner into marriage?Society values women based on their relationship status. If society stopped indoctrinating women into thinking their value comes from being someone's wife/mother, things could change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 09:02 PM |
| 0 | Introverted men are boring to most women (even introverted women)Idk as a woman who went to a 90% engineering school I the Midwest, plenty of “introverts” find love and success in relationships. Maybe the type of women you’re attracted to don’t like you, but plenty women adore quiet bookish men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 04:19 AM |
| – | Stop being emotionally vulnerable to women, your close male friends are the only ones who can actually handle itIDK ... It seems like a lot of word salad when you could just go to therapy and work through your issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 06:57 AM |
| 0 | International dating is generally good for men and a life changing positive event for the women they marry. Scholarly research - mostly by feminists -has repeatedly proved this. Lonely guys should consider it - particularly otherwise successful guys who are a bit socially awkward or shy with women.THIS! Most of the time women only care because of the constant comparison to drag them (especially with random dating preferences). Just have your bias in peace and leave us alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Women want to split housework and childrearing but don't want to compromise anywhere elseWhere did I even say that? I’m not, however, surprised I found a self-loathing male that seems to know everything about women. Y’all come a dime a dozen these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Women want to split housework and childrearing but don't want to compromise anywhere elseHighly doubtful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Women want to split housework and childrearing but don't want to compromise anywhere elseThe problem with this is it’s anecdotal. My female friends and I are fine with Dutch style. From that lens, I could say a majority of women ARE fine with it. Unsupported statements like yours contribute to more preconceived biases that are unchecked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 06:26 AM |
| – | Women want to split housework and childrearing but don't want to compromise anywhere elsePlease support this with peer reviewed data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 07:30 AM |
| – | Women want to split housework and childrearing but don't want to compromise anywhere elseAre you high? They literally repeated what you typed and somehow you are saying that’s not what you said… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 07:21 AM |
| 3 | Single men are bitter. I wonder why?This part! Women are using their platform to uplift themselves. Seems men should continue doing the same. I also don’t understand how lack of sex and relationship opportunities means there are no compassionate responses from women. There are hundreds of threads and groups for women to fix themselves. Some are literally called “Girl Just Heal”. These body positivity commentaries don’t make men want to sleep with or support or consider fat women for partners (or insert and other bias sold as a dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 09:14 AM |
| 0 | Single men are bitter. I wonder why?Yeah, gotta love the person attacking you and talking about straw man argument when their responses are rooted in so much false equivalency I don’t understand the points they’re trying to make, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 08:59 AM |
| 0 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.Came here to say this. Why would they prioritize this for someone else who seems to only offer entitlement and focus on their problems? The world’s on fire rn, and we don’t have the energy/time to be pocket therapists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 01:58 AM |
| 4 | Why aren’t we as harsh on promiscuous men as promiscuous women?What part of what they wrote says that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 12:34 AM |
| 3 | Why aren’t we as harsh on promiscuous men as promiscuous women?How is this answering the question? Why even distill people down to such a gross analogy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Why aren’t we as harsh on promiscuous men as promiscuous women?How is it worse for women and society? A woman can only be pregnant once during the 9 months, a man can impregnate a different woman everyday during that same period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 12:30 AM |
| 1 | "Everyone's entitled to their own preferences" only became a thing when women's superficial standards for men became undeniable and widely known. And today, people still judge men more harshly for having standards.Where is the factual data to support this? Or is this pure conjecture? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 05:45 AM |
| 1 | What's wrong with average men?Please read actual books on women’s sex drive/starts/stops. I highly recommend “Come As You Are” for starters. Even a simple Google search confirms that our sex drives (for cis gender folks) are similar but different (meaning expression is different). You are using antiquated thoughts on this. Additionally, age is a HUGE factor in this since sexual peaks for the binaurally defined genders are different as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 03:49 PM |
| 2 | What's wrong with average men?lol at “lower sex drive” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Does having a 'hoe phase' come from a place of pain?For me, it has been both. Mostly though, because of traumatic breakups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Why is sleeping with a huge number of women considered so desireble?Most of these comments sum up to insecurity…whether it be FOMO about experiences or not knowing your self worth outside of sexual conquests. Someone mentioned that if you like sex it’s better. I question “how?” Having a stable partner(s) means you can really explore and hone in on what your partner(s) likes. Just because you have a lot of sex doesn’t mean it’s good. Plenty of men with high numbers just plain have no idea how to pleasure a woman; rather than confront that, it’s easier to just get… | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Why is sleeping with a huge number of women considered so desireble?Many end up getting played unfortunately. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Why is sleeping with a huge number of women considered so desireble?That last sentence 🙌🏿. How fucking degrading of a statement. The implications to unpack are just…I’m speechless | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Why is sleeping with a huge number of women considered so desireble?It’s not. It’s not healthy, safe, or fair. Polyamory exists for a reason if you want multiple partners. Selling yourself as monogamous and then going out and exposing your partner who has trust in you to random stuff is deplorable on multiple levels. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 06:26 AM |
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